The Power of Doing Things Alone

[@allisonanderson]

What is something you've been waiting to do? Would you consider doing it alone?

[@ShannonGatta]

My partner is gone for the next year for his job, so it's encouraged me to explore Seattle alone. Even today there is a small beach Ive never visited before, so I'm going. Ppl deserve happiness without it benefitting others.

[@mkford4]

Due to work & the pandemic, I've been holding off going on the epic road trip around the U.S. I've always dreamed of! But also, I'm similar and want to play more strategy board games, might consider finding an online group as well! Thanks for this video, this topic has been circling my mind for a minute now.

[@LeaNezz]

Backpacking in Australia! 🐨

[@thepurplegiraffecafe]

you should make a video on tips, staying safe etc when travelling alone!!

[@paigeh6183]

This was the motivation I needed to sign up for a sailing class! I’ve always wanted to go sailing but I’ve been scared to do it by myself!! But this is the real talk I needed!!

[@devin_starling]

I go to movies alone, I even make reservations at restaurants to eat by myself. Once your comfortable and embrace solitude.... life becomes simple and amazing.

[@NYCglt]

It’s a beautiful thing 😇

[@kennedymeow]

Same!

[@dannyo5364]

I need to go to my first movie alone

[@mirandaalexis]

I always go to the movies alone and it’s amazing

[@quilmesdave]

Same here.

[@nicoleonfeels]

Traveling alone is AMAZING. Wish I felt safe enough to do it more often.

[@mirandaalexis]

Currently doing this right now

[@mollyg4749]

Ditto. I've been single & pretty independent for years.. but let's be real

[@suru01]

Yes! I'm single and if I had waited for friends to be available to travel, I'd still be waiting. Over 10 countries solo and so grateful for the experiences I had :)

[@mirandaalexis]

If I waited for friends I’d never do anything I liked doing

[@luna84_]

It's fortunate you doing it regardless

[@pinillos07]

Amen brother. Plus nobody impedes you from doing exactly what you wanna do

[@toyo5078]

You guys comments its exactly what i needed,ive Always waited for friend of skipped stuff that i would like because no One want to do It.

[@metalflorida]

Right on! Even if you weren’t single, it’d might just be you and your partner. Don’t wait for other people, your in control of your happiness.

[@bachplucked]

Lost my spouse 3+ years ago. Planning on doing some car camping around the us and doing a trip to Europe and Asia .

[@hwang9756]

Do it! Wishing you the best of luck!

[@LittleMissSunshineHA]

Maybe get an adventure dog companion to get with you!

[@levar9911]

Sorry for your loss... Pretty sure she will be proud of you for going on in life ... Do it for her...and especially do it FOR YOU...

[@edgardhenrique4113]

I've dated this girl for over 3 years. We are no longer together, but i always had to "avoid" my trips because of her. She was never in the mood, or having money problems or was planning to do something else. I have a motorcycle and i TRULY LOVE riding to the nearby cities, discovering new places off-road and other things because motorcycle are truly economic compared to cars. After she broke up, covid came along and now, i have many many trips on paper, waiting this to be over so i can finaly enjoy things by myself. This pandemic really taught me how good and necessary our own company is.

[@griffensander]

Allison Anderson: "We need to normalize doing things by yourself" Introverts everywhere: "Wait... That's not normal?"

[@mirandaalexis]

HONESTLY

[@blankblanker348]

Bingo! This is like a life manual of introverts far and wide

[@darshanjagarwal4554]

😂😂

[@levar9911]

🤗🤗

[@Jamiesadventuresandtravel]

Why do people give themselves labels? I guarantee pretty much every introvert likes to socialise but we all are different. I used to think I was introverted but I'm not! I'm not extroverted either. I choose when I'm social based on how I feel which usually I'm good being social but sometimes like me time haha. Doing things alone too, you can make friends and still speak to others!

[@Lifeissorich.]

I love going to the movies alone. I don't like when people talk during movies. This is why I love your videos Allison. You're much like me and I find this space to be refreshing.

[@allisonanderson]

The movies by yourself is where it's at!

[@cicischannel123-m1i]

I am wondering if you could make a video about how you travel alone safely? As a woman, I'm always worried about traveling alone. Thanks!

[@LilyHeartsCosmetics]

Yes please - this is my only worry!

[@chaosbehindagun]

My thoughts exactly.

[@vicwilli6435]

I think she has done one on this subject! I remember her talking about tips for solo travel!

[@mirandaalexis]

This is what I need to know

[@shelbylawton8760]

Yes this would be appreciated! I just planned my very first solo road trip and even though it’s only 2 hours away from my current home I am super anxious and excited for it. No one in my fam wants me to go alone because they think it is unsafe and idk what I can do to reassure them.

[@Lu_HelloAll]

I started to do solo traveling when I was struggling in my marriage. I got so much confidence and relief from my solo traveling experiences.

[@emrysam]

Before I met my boyfriend, I used to do things on my own all the time. No one really understood me. I would go to the cinema alone, I would go to festivals alone, I would go for seaside walks alone and go out to dinner alone. After meeting him (and just because we're so alike), I do most things I want to do with him as my companion. However, I have done many things on my own since I was very young and that has shaped the way I am. I am so glad you posted this video. You are such a great example of how doing things on your own doesn't mean you're a lonely person. It just means you're not on this Earth to waste your time and wait. You go, girl.

[@515aleon]

YES!!! I'm an older guy, and can't think of anybody who would want to do some of the things I want to do. I took a sea plane to Dry Tortugas; day hiked in each state on the Appalachian trail; sketched in 50 places in New Mexico (home state); etc. I also turned my minivan into campervan this year will be taking it to Colorado this summer. Helpful hint: when you go to a restaurant by yourself tell them you are SOLO. It gets a much more positive response than "I'm by myself" they look at you all miserably. You take charge of it basically.

[@txla4878]

Thank you for normalizing traveling alone. A lot of ppl think that those of us that enjoy our own company are lonely and don’t have anyone to travel with. We choose to travel with the best company -ourselves! 💜✨

[@maia.diaries]

yesss! i'm so sick of people thinking that! love your comment :)

[@mirandaalexis]

I need this more widespread

[@txla4878]

@@mirandaalexis I love your name! lol!!!

[@mirandaalexis]

@@txla4878 awww thank you 😊

[@tipsycat27]

i actually travelled for 5 years, through 4 continents alone. Travelling alone is one of the best ways of growing as an individual. You truly open yourself up to the world and make yourself vulnerable (in a good way) and approachable to the world. You feel like Nick in Great Gatsby, just along for the ride, and Ive had so many incredibly strange and wild experiences because I've been alone. When you're in a group or even in a pair, you reduce your chances of experiencing spontaneous adventures by more than 50%, I would say. Travelling alone is severely underrated. And it's not lonely either- I would meet 10+ people a day alone, whereas in a couple or group I would only ever really talk to the people in my party..

[@allisongrubbs366]

I love going to movies by myself! It’s my favorite. I can just go to what I want when I want and don’t need to plan.

[@ganmudan]

I am embracing more of enjoying my own company. I have decided that my birthdays will be solo celebrations. Ive gone to movies by myself, dined in a sit down restaurant by myself, went to a concert by myself. And I realize how amazing it is to do things on your own. You don't have to plan on other peoples schedule or wonder if others are having a good time. I love it! Embrace doing things on your own! Also bc of your camper diaries it really has inspired me to want to do my own camper journey!

[@Relaxmusicme]

I grew up in Vietnam doing everything alone. no friend, siblings got their life, parents always work...it was peaceful, slow and calm...it's very lonely and I hated it. in my option, not many people understand the true meaning of the word (alone) it is not something I want to experience again. I met a woman who grew up just like me we are now best friend, and she gave me beautiful children we always do things together and we enjoy every moment of it. to me being alone sucks it's more fun when you have someone to laugh and cry with. of course, everyone live life differently so to each their own

[@x3airhead7]

Mid 2018, I decided I was sick of not going to the concerts and shows I wanted to because I didn't have anyone to go with. I started going solo and it is a superior concert going experience, I was able to see so many more shows once I stopped waiting for someone to agree to come along. You also don't have to worry about the time preferences or opinions or judgements of anyone else. Obviously the pandemic has affected my ability to go to shows, but I'm so excited to pick it back up!

[@rozinan7400]

I do everything alone and people think I’m weird for it! 🤷🏻‍♀️ it’s more convenient, and no one is directly affecting how to feel, think, perceive. But honestly, more than people, fur babies are the best to spend time with :)

[@dorenX]

Same here! I do everything alone but sometimes I take my cat on hikes and short trips with me, she’s the best company! People must think I’m nuts but I don’t care.

[@allisonmurphy17]

I appreciate this video so so so much. I love doing things alone. Traveling, going out, everything. It’s so empowering. I feel so judged by people when I tell them that I love doing things alone. So thank you for making this video, it was very affirming. My big goal for the year is to get my motorcycle license, all by myself! I’ve been following you for a long time, I always feel like I’m listening to a big sister when I watch your videos. 💕

[@allisonanderson]

Motorcycle license sounds RAD. That's awesome!! Thanks for watching.

[@luna84_]

Honestly going to events or doing things naturally alone shouldn't be stigmatized. I see nothing wrong with it. People cease to understand this. People do not always need to be among a group or someone else to enjoy things in life outdoors.

[@piplup10203854]

Life moves so fast and there’s so many things that can fulfill our souls by waiting for others you pause the time you could be using to enrich your soul and that I don’t trade for anything. I’m more than happy to have a close friend join but I’m not gonna wait on something I want to do just because they’re not ready. I seek what fulfills my soul and a lot of that is doing something for myself ☺️

[@carolinedzubinski4667]

this video came at the perfect time and I think all these comments show how much we all need to hear this message. I've been traveling alone for several years and I still get a little nervous each time. My friends think I'm weird and lonely, but I truly could not feel more at peace by myself, and it makes me so happy to read and hear that other women feel the same.

[@xxnzxx3]

I'm about to leave on my first solo trip to Idaho to stay for a couple of weeks. I needed a change of scenery and wanted to challenge myself to get outside my comfort zone. I'm hoping to do some soul searching and get more in touch with what I want out of life :)

[@gulayedis2045]

I have been traveling and doing things alone for long time I even start to fixing any type of home issues such as plumbing , paintings.. it feels great and I feel more like I m living my own life much better in this way.

[@48hm9]

I love doing things alone. I've been doing (small things) alone since high school. I haven't done a lot of travel alone, especially as my solo travel plans for 2020 were ruined. But highly recommend being able to go to dinner, the movies, a bike or hike by yourself. I'm single so if I waited for a friend or a guy to do things with I might be waiting forever!

[@snowyfictions]

Oh I love this video! I went to my first movie by myself... when I was 13. I struggled to make friends, but I took the plunge, and saw Iron Man and The Dark Knight. What a fantastic experience, and gave me the confidence to dine by myself, whether at cafes or restaurants. Although my travels are still small, I spent five nights in London. Yes, I got lonely. But I knew I could do it. My parents and I went to Switzerland in 2019 / 2020, and I spent a whole day going to Mt. Titlis by myself. Now I'm planning a getaway to Katoomba (Blue Mountains, Sydney) in June. Nearly everyone has no problem going to a library or fast food place by themselves. So what's the problem with museums or restaurants? The ability to spend time with yourself gives you independence: a great skill for self-employment, language learning or even moving abroad. For anyone reading this: Do it!

[@srx2915]

I love you for this video. Your take on this is evidently authentic and genuine. I really was touched by the passion that you had in your reasoning. I am someone who loved doing some things by myself such as going to movies, traveling, etc. but I sometimes fight this impression that it is sad to do so. I think a lot of that sadness comes from comparison, and/or anticipation of what society would deem "acceptable". I agree, living for yourself, and doing things by yourself should be normalized. It's an entirely different experience than doing things with other people. Both have pros and cons, but none is better than the other.

[@sierram9420]

Love this! I wish more women would travel solo to the point where it’s normalized. I’d love to see a video on what, if anything, you do for safety measures (not from COVID, I mean as a woman traveling alone), and how you handle the lonely moments, like eating alone. From what I’ve heard from other women, those are two big things that scare them off of solo travel.

[@chantal29071992]

Yes! I'm also interested in how to be sure you'll be safe during these trips. That's the one thing holding me back

[@meelad88]

I experienced solo traveling by accident, was traveling to Japan, which was on the top of my bucket list, with a friend and his visa took longer than expected and I had to go by myself. It was a bit frustrating, but as the first couple of days went by, I realized how much freedom I gained being solo! I like to travel light and going solo gave me the opportunity to explore on my own pace rather than being strained by a fellow traveler who decided to bring half of their wardrobe for a two-week trip!

[@fierrosoft]

I love working by myself, building stuff on my own and supporting myself. It truly makes you more confident and teaches you what you're truly capable of. When you feel the need of other people, try doing it by yourself. It will unleash your true potential.

[@CelesMaria]

I have bad driving anxiety and, even though I'm 27, I've never gotten my driver's license. I recently moved to a more suburban area and I'm trying to work up the courage to practice so that I can take the road test. I've been making a list of things I can do if I get it (this helps with the anxiety, to focus on the positives) and I'm adding a note about this video! I love the idea of doing more things on my own and a license would be huge for that.

[@Ohboycommentsection]

I totally get this. I used to live in a big urban area for most of my life and I didn't get my license and car until I was 27. I was absolutely petrified. But now I realize driving is one of life's great pleasures. It's incredibly liberating once you get this skill down!

[@serenity8910]

I totally get it. I'm 32 and still can't drive. I'm terribly anxious about it. But I feel like I'm really stoping myself from really living because of it. I want to try to break that too!

[@CelesMaria]

@@serenity8910 ahh here's to us conquering that this year! If you search 'driving anxiety' on KZbin a lot of videos come up that I've found to be helpful so far. Good luck 😁

[@CelesMaria]

@@Ohboycommentsection this was genuinely really helpful to read, so thank you!

[@rachel.isabelle]

I have that issue too! I'm Australian living in the US and I can drive, I have my Australian license, but it's not valid here anymore cause I'm considered a resident. Which means I have to do the test all over again, learn new road rules, learn to drive on the opposite side of the road (which that to me is the scariest/anxiety inducing thing) I've been here 3 years and avoided it...starting to think I should get it as I'm trying to plan a solo trip and there's a bunch of places I can't go to cause I don't have a car/can't drive here

[@BaMBaM-gi6yx]

I take trips to different places every 6 months. I go somewhere every vacation I get. Traveling alone at times is so self reflective and good for you're mental health! I love talking to random strangers on my trips to. Be safe of course but for real having a convo with interesting strangers is one of lifes gifts. You can meet new friends and discover new chapters for you're life. Life is beautiful and is to short to wait for others to become available in order to enjoy it!

[@quilmesdave]

I've been doing a lot of stuff by myself for over 15 years. I have family, that I frequent. i do visit my sons, that live in different states. I've been to 22 countries, on my own. I meet people, along the way. I can't wait, just like she said, for others, to come along. I'm happy, and enjoy doing stuff with me!

[@josephcalvillo4361]

I have been watching your channel for years now. It started with my interest in living a more minimalistic lifestyle, and when searching that up on KZbin, it led me to your channel. Since then, seeing you travel and take complete ownership of YOUR life has been soo inspiring to me. I refer your channel to a ton of my family and friends because of your comfortability with things like solo traveling and tips on how to just be a happier individual. I don’t think many people realize just how important the quality of individualism is, but it is important, and you have that. Anyway, thank you for being an inspiration and I would say that the thing I wish to do this year is further my career in photography and not let “nay-sayers” prevent me from pursuing that passion!

[@mck_belle]

I absolutely love doing things by myself. I am only truly joyful when I’m by myself. I’m my own best friend and it’s amazing.

[@ModernMolliee]

I love going to the movies solo! Doing things alone is awesome. It can feel a little strange at first then it’s so freeing.

[@sarahr5513]

Haha this video came at a perfect time!! I am literally in Joshua Tree alone as I type this because NO ONE ever wants to go 🤷🏻‍♀️ I love this way of living because life is too short to wait around or care about what other people think 😊

[@hi5_centipedes874]

So refreshing to hear from a likeminded person when it comes to doing things solo.

[@GIJen14]

YESSSSSSSSSSSSS Right after I graduated college I took a job a few hours from home, moved their on my own and started doing everything by myself because I knew no one around and I wanted to explore the area. That led me to eating in restaurants and seeing movies by myself too. Now as a married woman and a mom it doesn't happen as often but usually my toddler just comes along for the ride which I think most people think can't be done as well when you become a parent. When I get some time to myself or make time I still like to go do things by myself. I'm great company hahah I hope more people try to do things alone and feel how invigorating it is!

[@dorenX]

This was such a great video and message. As an introvert, I’ve been doing all sorts of things by myself for a long time. I still hang out with friends occasionally but I much prefer doing things by myself. Travelling in particular is an entirely different experience when you’re alone. I connect more with my surroundings because there is nobody to chat to or distract me. I highly recommend it! I also go to gigs alone partly because none of my friends like the same music as me but it’s also easier to just see a gig and book a ticket straight away rather then coordinate and wait for people to respond by that time the tickets could be sold out if it’s a popular singer/band.

[@amandabesh5058]

I just started doing “big” things alone this year and it’s been a huge freedom step! I feel like there’s a misconception after people get married, especially if they get married young-ish, that they then have to do everything together, but the reality is that I get a lot more vacation days than my husband and I don’t want to waste them 💁🏼‍♀️

[@relentlessundrdawg]

I love traveling alone on my trips. You get to play the music as loud as you want, and you have more freedom to do the things you want to do on your trips. As a landscape photographer, I have to have that freedom.

[@jessieborrell1856]

A few years ago, I started taking ballet classes as an adult beginner. Just for me! One of the best things I decided to do. I fell in love with the movement and the music and I've made new friends and also gained so much confidence about my body. Now I'm considering taking up fencing because I think it would be really fun!

[@JemimasOutcome]

I used to be so scared of solo travelling, but now I'm obsessed! Having that time to just reconnect with yourself is precious. I still very much enjoy spending time with friends bonding and doing things together; but now I also know I can do things alone as part of self care ✨

[@juliehales9726]

Going by yourself gives you freedom and the sense of accomplishment. I have friends who ask how can you do it alone..... easy- you just do it! Confidence comes with time!

[@sammcdonald389]

It baffles me how many people don't feel comfortable doing things alone like eating dinner at a restaurant. I love it. When I travel solo, I meet the most amazing people who wouldn't have approached me if I was surrounded by a lot of other friends.

[@alison_5050]

100% agree and have done this for many years! I find it odd when I've been called "brave" or "so confident" for doing so 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@MariaAcosta-bu2gn]

I love this mentality! I’ve also started doing more things alone in the past few years and it’s the best decision ever :) I actually went on a trip to Zambia alone after graduating university because all my friends were busy then and it was one of the best times of my life! (Have a video on it hehe)

[@codeblue1043]

I only got to go on one solo trip in 2019, to Carmel, CA, but it was so great! I got to go wherever I wanted, eat whatever I wanted, and no one was rushing me to move on to the next thing! I could just take things in until I felt satisfied! I can’t wait to get another solo trip booked! I do have some safety concerns about traveling alone as a young woman, but I can’t let that keep me from having amazing experiences out in the world!

[@Emdizzle100]

After watching you and other solo travelers on KZbin, I decided to book my first solo trip to NYC this summer! I’ve learned that if I wait for friends it will never happen so it feels really good to be doing it on my own.

[@brereadsbooks]

I absolutely love everything about this video. People always think I’m strange because I enjoy hanging out by myself. I have yet to take a solo international adventure but I have greatly enjoyed my time traveling alone stateside and highly recommend doing things for yourself to everyone and that includes travel, hiking, etc.

[@ellierebekah2448]

I absolutely love how you film your conversational content while taking a hike. It’s so peaceful to watch!

[@DPauyo76]

Amen Allison! Preach the truth! I love doing things on my own and stopped relying on friends or people to enjoy my favorite cultural hobbies: going to the ballet, attending a classical concert, movies, museums, opera and traveling! Doing things alone is the best way to enjoy life to its fullest! Life’s too short to waste it waiting on unsure people to go out with! You’re my spirit inspiration and love your videos! Keep it up! 😀👍🏾👏🏾💃🏾📹🎥🌈

[@donnydefenders]

I 100% agree with what you say, I only started traveling and doing things solo a couple of years ago, and one thing stuck in my mind, "I would rather do things alone than not at all". So as you say, what would life be if you always waited for other people to do stuff with. I hadn't left my own country for over 10 years for this reason.

[@gabriellepennington4367]

I just booked a campsite for the Smoky Mountains today! My first every solo trip! Thanks for inspiring me to get out and go on my adventures by myself 💚

[@michelleangela7947]

You were literally my inspiration for taking my first solo trip to Japan in 2019! If I hadn’t stumbled upon your videos I never would have had to the courage to do a trip that like on my own. I even followed your blog and did the same things you did in Japan. Thank you! ☺️♥️

[@ShannonGatta]

Uh I also did a solo trip to Japan in 2019! 10 southeast asian countries to be exact! Crazy!

[@arshbrar8147]

How did it go for you? I’m also planning a solo trip to Europe this year and I’m nervous but excited.

[@katee8888]

i agree. I started doing things on my own and its been awesome! movies and hikes by yourself are awesome. I dont have to hike faster or slower for someone.

[@marlenaeva3813]

I travel alone and I've moved countries completely alone. It is the absolute best feeling in the world. I recently started hiking alone and it's great.

[@criminalmastermind8]

I began hiking on my own a lot in the past year and it's always an amazing experience. A lot of people are surprised and concerned that I go hiking on my own but I have never felt uncomfortable while out. In fact, I'm so happy I see so many more women hiking on their own!

[@eveed]

You seem like such a positive, genuine person and it's such a treat to get to watch your videos! Thank you for all the incredible content you create :)

[@livin4jc3]

I've been single my entire life, so by default, I do most things alone. I've learned to love it. If I waited for someone, I would have missed so many amazing experiences.

[@ChooseThePathYouTake]

I love that you promote doing stuff solo and I wish I had the courage to do that when I was younger but now I have an amazing wife to do that with and this year we have actually started suv camping on the weekends. I’d like to say a big thanks to you video which helped inspire us to do it! Thank you for all your tips and suggestions. We bought a jackery and absolutely love it!

[@indie-travel-stories]

Totally agree. Travelling with others is fun, but travelling solo you can do exactly what you want, no compromise

[@clarasgift3067]

Thank you for doing this video. It makes me feel so comfortable doing this by myself. I’ve went to six flags and universal by myself and people thought I was weird but I’m glad I’ve seen people like you that make me not feel as weird.

[@rachel.isabelle]

I go to universal by myself all the time. I have an annual pass and none of my other friends wanted to get one lol...I used to work there actually and saw a lot of guests that came on their own, so it's not that weird, don't worry!

[@RachelJayne92]

I go to concerts and the movies by myself. Can’t afford travel, but would do that too! There was one time when I was a teenager I REALLY wanted to go to Taylor swift’s fearless concert (it was also three hours away, so I’d have to get the train and stay over night), but I didn’t go because no one I knew, knew who she was (oh wow the change) and I felt weird going by myself. That was it. That was the last time. The speak now concert came around - and same thing, none of my friends knew who she was or wanted to go. So I went alone. Now I pretty much always go to concerts alone, because I’m not missing out. My mum missed a MICHAEL JACKSON concert because of the same thing - no one wanted to go.

[@rachel.isabelle]

I've done that too! I went to JLo, Justin Timberlake and Madonna on my own...either my friends weren't interested or they weren't willing to cough up the $$ to pay lol

[@abbieowen565]

I had the same thing. I went to Taylor Swift's Red concert on my own... I loved it so much I went again a few days later 😂😂

[@la6136]

What in the world you need to get better people around you. Who would pass up a Michael Jackson or Taylor Swift concert???? I guess they are not music lovers

[@Wordsmyth8]

Thank you for making this video. Doing things alone is something I struggle with because I don’t necessarily enjoy it and I’m afraid of driving or flying on my own. But as I approach age 65, I realize there are so many things I want to do and places I want to go that I haven’t done because I’ve been waiting to have someone to go with me. I know that if I’m ever going to do those things, I need to consider doing them on my own but it terrifies me. Since I turned 60, I have done a few cycling trips where I have had to travel either by car or plane to get to the start of the trip, where a group of women then goes together on the tour. This is difficult, but I’m trying to get better. Having a fear of flying doesn’t help. But beyond my cycling trips, I very much want to visit the British Isles and other parts of the world. I haven’t yet mustered the courage to do it on my own, but I think the points you make in the video are exactly correct. We spend our whole lives waiting to have someone to do things with, and often that translates into us not doing them at all. Thanks for the encouragement and good for you for getting out there on your own!

[@AnnaLauraBrownHealthCoach]

I do things alone all the time. I went to France for 10 days by myself at the end of 2019 and it was great.

[@Wordsmyth8]

Really? I hated being in France because I had so much trouble communicating. And understanding the train system was very difficult for me. I will never travel again to a country where English is not widely spoken. It was just too uncomfortable.

[@AnnaLauraBrownHealthCoach]

@@Wordsmyth8 I left out that I actually speak French fluently and used to live in France so I’m sure that helped.

[@madisonhewish]

I'm about to travel Australia by myself. This is the first big thing I'll be doing on my own. I quit my job and said goodbye to people in my life that I've needed to let go of to grow. I've also booked a ceramics course along the way in a city I don't really know, because it's something I've always wanted to do. Two big dreams in one! Absolutely terrified, but equally excited.

[@deborahrosario4255]

I love traveling by myself. It’s my preferred mode of travel. I get to do what I want to do, eat where I want to eat, and make my own schedule. Before covid , it was hard to sync schedules with my friends or they couldn’t afford to travel. I got tired of waiting for someone to be available so I just travel by myself. It is a little embarrassing eating out by myself but I figure , these people don’t know me. I feel safe but I have been to bigger cities, I haven’t ventured off into smaller, remote areas. I look forward to more solo trips in the future.

[@aninomiai3923]

I'm an introvert so I never really need anyone to go to anywhere, unless it's a new place for me. I'm shy so making interaction with new people is kinda hard for me. Also, I'm kind of clueless with directions. But once I'm familiar with a place, I never wait for anyone to go with me. I could never understand why people need to have someone accompanying them, either to watch a movie or going to a mall or bathroom, even. It's just beyond me. I'm glad you can experience the same thing like I do. I plan to travel around my city to capture the atmosphere around it and trying to find some city garden. I just need to overcome my shyness first because I'm not used to photographing around people. Thank you for the inspiration.

[@JayLuhx]

You’re one of the main reasons I started traveling alone. I fell in love with it! I always was independent but traveling is something I only did with my family. About 3 years ago I started going places by myself and wow-I never knew how amazing it would be!! Cannot wait to start traveling solo again :)

[@andrewjessop3525]

Completely agree! I started doing things on my own in mid 20s and as a result, now I'm more happy/confident in myself :). Funnily enough I've become more social too as it's easier for me to make conversation about my travels or exhibitions I've been to etc.

[@irenejosie23]

My favorite think to do is seeing Broadway shows by myself. I don’t have a lot of friends that are into theater and I don’t always want to drag my bf with me. It’s the most amazing experience and I love doing it! I can’t wait for Broadway to open up again!

[@historygirl82]

Your video on why you started solo traveling truly changed my life. I went through a divorce in 2018 and suddenly found myself alone... a lot. But I saw that video and thought omg, she's so right, think of all the things I'm missing out on just because I'm too afraid to do it alone. So I started going to restaurants and movies alone and discovered it's really quite pleasant! Unfortunately I had to cancel my first big solo travel trip last March but I'm more resolved than ever to make up for lost time once I can. So thank you so much for normalizing solo adventures. :)

[@AsilEroom1]

I took a solo trip to Maine and it was one of the best experiences I have ever had.

[@sydneybaldwin3514]

I went to LA alone once and it was the best trip because I could do what I wanted. I also love going to the cinema alone. I hope travel returns to enable us to achieve our dreams.

[@MyraHart1943]

I adore your authentic enthusiasm for your solo adventures, I feel the same way about my adventures and there are definitely people who just don't get it. Different strokes for different folks! I'm just happy to have found you on the tube ❤ New this year: exploring idaho, my new home!!!

[@cloneofethan]

I have a very mild case of seizures, I can function normally, but it's hard to feel normal, and it's hard to feel like I have peoples approval when I go and try and do fun things. So Thankyou that was very inspiring, something I really needed to hear

[@aswinashok4875]

You are always a great inspiration for many who stand at the fencing and help them to make their decisions, I love the way you make the films and editing is so amazing .Thank you for sharing your experience and it helps to improve the quality of our life.

[@chrismantonuk]

Going to the cinema alone is the best. I’ve had some of my best film experiences going alone to an afternoon film. Also, would love to go Scuba diving for the first time this year

[@doodsanddudes]

Starting my channel I do stuff by myself. My wife doesn’t like being on camera, so I do it alone, I ride coasters, go to zoos, aquariums, movies, breakfast,etc, totally agree. It’s great and I love going places with my wife but she is sometimes working. From Charleston btw. Saw you doing the biking here in this video. This year I am doing more coaster’s then I have ever done. Also we are going to Greece.

[@ehforadventure6011]

Doing things alone! It's so funny I found your video. A few years ago I started to do things alone like travel and I am only just realizing I want to go back to that. Since we keep getting locked down in my province I decided to start doing more things alone and I am having so much fun! It's hard counting on others because you never have the same schedule, you cant see people not from your household or you have different expectations of the experience.

[@heatherb4918]

I’ve done a lot of things solo and usually have no trouble being out and about on my own. I’ve never been to the movies by myself though - am going this week! For those worried about safety when solo traveling, I think common sense is key. Be aware of your surroundings, don’t have your most expensive lux thing out on obvious show, learn to trust your instincts - if something feels off, don’t do it.

[@PeaceFan1]

I SOOO Agree Allison!!! I LOVE going on SOLO trips!!! I LOVE going to Hawaii by MYSELF!! I can come and Go as I please, Not having to worry about another person's issues like Money & Pet Peeves!!! It is SOO Much more relaxing!!! xoxoxoxoxoo

[@Mausimaus24]

I've been holding myself back because I thought it might be weird to do stuff alone. But like you said, why wait around for other people? If I wanna do something, I'm gonna do it even if it means I spend most of my time alone. Thank you for sharing your journey, it's really inspiring ❤️

[@PinkCharm1991]

Hey Allison, I have been a fan of yours over a decade, and I feel we have grown up together :) I am loving your solo travelling content, and you inspired me a couple of years ago to start travelling alone, and not wait for anyone. These days I mix travel with family and friends, but solo adventures are still my favorite. I will never forget you saying in one of your videos how you wanted to travel to as many countries as you can, and if you wait for your partner or friends you are limiting how many countries and places you can visit in a year :) I am still holding on to that saying, and make decisions based on that. I really wish you all the best, and keep up the good work. I hope we meet someday on one of the adventures. Greetings from Serbia.

[@delphinelesterlost3285]

I love doing things by myself, it feels so good to enjoy my own company

[@TiannaOuellette]

Yes!!! In highschool I started doing things by myself because I was tired of waiting for others or missing out because they weren’t interested. I don’t regret any of the things/ events I did myself!!

[@sja7377]

I totally agree & understand i go to concerts alone & go on trips alone to. There's nothing wrong with that. You seem cool girl keep doing what your doing.

[@Monique_Cassidy]

I joined a workout class where I was scared that everyone would know each other and I’d feel that same feeling but I am so glad I plunged because I absolutely love it and cannot shut up about it!

[@caroljohnson4321]

You inspired me to take a 15 day road trip by myself. First time I have ever done that and it was great. I thoroughly enjoyed myself. Keep inspiring!

[@hummersd]

Yas! 👏Definitely don't wait to experience things. I too traveled independently and had the best time; on my own schedule doing as much or as little as I wanted to. If friends want to join, they're more than welcome, but with so much planning involved, sometimes it's just better to go at it alone. Once we can safely travel again, I will likely take a break from work and focus on travel. As much as I don't have a huge nest egg, the last year has taught us nothing is guaranteed, so why not invest in yourself when you're young enough to do the hikes and travel far, etc. We've only got one chance at this as the person we are -- go explore the world!

[@alinalinalinalina]

I appreciate the people that want to do things solo. I am not one of them. I love being able to travel and do things with my husband, who is my best friend. I like building memories with someone else. It’s just a personal preference.

[@piplup10203854]

Being able to enjoy things alone is an absolute joy! I love discovering a new store in a town I lived in or visited or going out to dinner by myself I love it! I’m not embarrassed or anxious in the slightest with all that it’s just something I enjoy more like going out to see a movie and get a burger ☺️

[@stevecarter2667]

Been doing things by myself for a long time now, learned long ago to not depend on anyone else for making plans to even meeting up on time... Solo travel (or just solo experiences in general) is freedom! Gotten so used to it now that doing things with other people is sometimes kind of awkward or even impractical...

[@Sopranoknits]

As someone who's traveled alone almost exclusively for my entire adult life - I can confirm that it is the most amazing way to learn about yourself and also really immerse yourself into other places. I've had so many amazing experiences that I never would have had if I hadn't been forced to go outside of my comfort zone. I've been unpartnered for almost 4 years now and before that was in a long distance relationship for 6 so I'm no stranger to doing things alone....moved to a new country alone, hike alone all the time (just posted a vlog of one the other day!). I'm considering getting a car so that I have more access to outdoor spaces and some car travel/camping alone around Europe especially as I'm on the hunt for somewhere I want to buy land and have a little house...but this I'd actually prefer not to do alone ultimately but....I'm not going to base my dreams on anyone else so if I have to do it alone - so be it! ❤️

[@lovechristinarose]

Um YES. I absolutely love this approach to life. Life’s too short to wait for other people to decide they want to adventure with you. I loooove an adventure on my own - even if it’s just a movie (whenever going to movies is normal again)!!

[@agnieszkamagorzata2768]

Because of you I started cycling and going to swimming pool alone. My quality of life has improved :) greetings from Poland!

[@ManonChant]

Your philosophy is really inspiring to me. I started solo hiking in 2020 thanks to your videos and it felt very empowering. Being alone in nature makes you feel so free, it's amazing! :) I'm looking forward to seeing more of your solo adventures this year.

[@AshleyLoraAnderson]

I just got out of a 3.5 year relationship with what I would consider my "first love". I've always wanted to travel and teach after I get my college degree. I needed this video, thank you ❤