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@TheRealVirgilW4 жыл бұрын
You ladies are the best!!! Thanks for sharing your experience.
@AllThingsIceland4 жыл бұрын
@@TheRealVirgilW Thanks for watching!
@recordingstewdio41594 жыл бұрын
This was a lovely video. I know and have experienced just about everything that you speak of. Being a girl from a small Caribbean island (Jamaica), my whole childhood was spent daydreaming about travelling the world, which i started doing through work in 2017. And I am SOOOOO FASCINATED by the diversity, the places I have been, the different cultures and all i have and will continue to experience. I learn as much as I can and embrace the diversity. I am modest in my travels, and although I have never done to others (anyone different) what they do to me (because it just seems impolite), I try to understand that I seem unique to them and they show their curiosity in different ways. Unless told otherwise, I always assume they stare because I am fascinating :) If I visit Iceland again, I will definitely try to find you 🙂
@vesselunseen4 жыл бұрын
I am considering visiting Iceland because of the positive things I’ve heard and the beauty of the landscape. Watching this made me consider being a POC even though I can maybe sometime pass through a crowd without a second glance. I am not ignorant to the fact that I can be clocked as obviously a tourist or non native. However this was a very well informed and insightful video. Thank you
@AllThingsIceland4 жыл бұрын
@vespa66 It is not a sign of aggression. It is a sign of solidarity. Icelanders don't have a problem with this, so I don't understand why you do.
@hrafnhildurblondal3414 жыл бұрын
As a native of Iceland, I never saw a black person through my years of growing up. Well, I saw them on television but never in real life. So when I first saw a black person on the street, I found myself wanting to stare, simply because of the novelty of it. And it's not just the colour but the different facial structure, so exotic and interesting compared to the mundane faces we see every day. I usually refrain from staring because I was brought up to be polite and staring is not polite. Love your videos, you are so enthusiastic and well informed and educated and now I have subscribed.
@hugodaniel89753 жыл бұрын
Iceland racist country
@Mrktn43 жыл бұрын
Aww
@markus96413 жыл бұрын
@@hugodaniel8975 I was in zimbabwe for a visit and some people were just staring at me cus they had never seen a white man. Zimbabwe is racist country.
@ajl22323 жыл бұрын
@@markus9641 No it's not. Stop making up stories.
@markus96413 жыл бұрын
@@ajl2232 I didn't see you reply with a comment saying Iceland isnt racist tho? Why should Iceland be racist and zimbabwe not? Both countries population are extremely homogenous so shouldnt the result be the same?
@cwfan24 жыл бұрын
Hi from Missouri! I'm a white woman with red hair, pale skin, and a ruddy complexion with freckles. Back in the 80s, I was cleaning houses while I was laid off from my regular job. I was hired by an Iranian family to clean their apartment. I guess they had never seen a person that looked like me before because they kept staring at me like I was from outer space.
@nurseae45863 жыл бұрын
They were not used to white people doing ‘menial’ jobs. I had such a lady clean my place thanks to the school where I was a teaching assistant for a year in France,and ,as my experience was only with them in other ‘loftier’ positions in my country ,it took a while to see it as normal😀
@josephjones35253 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing that. It's not very often white people can truly understand the experiences...imagine living it everyday? Having your intentions, history, Integrity, intelligence questioned, your right to exist...simply because you have red hair, pale skin and freckles? Everyday? It's crazy..buy a daily reality
@cwfan23 жыл бұрын
@@josephjones3525 It's just fun to be an alien from outer space. How are things on Jupiter? Things are great on Saturn, but the commute to Earth is a bit long.
@nikkirockznikkirockz85512 жыл бұрын
Interesting, because Iran is obviously not a "race" per say, but a country full of folks who (if were Forced to be placed into a "category" would more than likely be considered "Whyte/Asiatic) which is filled with manYyy non-black people who are oftentimes designated to choose "Whyte" race on the U.S. census for example, and most can pass for "Whyte" so maybe it was your occupation that surprised them but not your skin color/phenotype instead..
@autumnrose6370 Жыл бұрын
@@nurseae4586 ❤
@sarabjarnveig875 жыл бұрын
as an Icelander I do stare.. but it is not in a bad way.. I stare because I am curious, I like looking at things that are different and beautiful and looking at people that are different and beautiful.. so if I have ever stared at someone and made them uncomfortable.. I AM SO SORRY.. but also.. you might get some questions that you might find stupid but keep in mind that we didn't grow up in this sort of diverse culture.. I remember being 17 and going for the first time to Denmark.. and I STAAARED at the airport.. I had never EVER seen a muslim woman, I was fascinated by how she looked like, how her clothes looked like, and how she moved.. and then I went to school in Iceland (húsmæðraskóli/hússtjórnarskóli) and met the first black person in MY LIFE (she is from Kenya), and I asked her soooo many stupid questions, I remember a few of them.. mostly were about her hair, and if she needed sunscreen EVER..
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for your comment. I do understand that most people in Iceland stare out of curiosity. It is easier if the person who looks at you interacts in some way, such as asking questions, saying hi or just smiling so that it can be a positive experience. I don't think there are any stupid questions and I encourage you to keep asking questions. Well, only if the person is open to answering them. lol
@shiwan455 жыл бұрын
Vikingplanner I would love to visit Iceland
@rsin2165 жыл бұрын
Vikingplanner I’ve never been to Iceland, I will be there in a year. I am originally from the Caribbean and I would love to see your country. More than that I love you’re comment, I think it’s 100% sincere. Totally 100%.
@CALPH885 жыл бұрын
Coming from a black guy. Im from New Orleans in the United States. And the city before the flood was mostly black and then i moved to california and never seen so many white people in my life and even i stared really hard.
@Redsage1254 жыл бұрын
I've met two black people in my life, well that i really know
@siggyii6 жыл бұрын
I'm so happy to hear that your husband speaks to you in Icelandic,that helps a lot because it is a very hard language to learn both to understand and speak. My wife is foreign,not white and we always speak together in Icelandic and she has said that that has been the biggest help for her in learning and i think it is sad that Icelandic men still speak English to their foreign wives after years of being together . Sadly there are rotten apples that ruin it for everyone with their ignorance regarding race. But i think for the most part they are just not used to see people of color especially older people but that is changing and i for one am thankful for that and glad that both of your overall experiences are positive
@AllThingsIceland6 жыл бұрын
That is awesome that you speak to your wife in Icelandic. I agree that it is a tough language and having a person to practice with makes it less daunting. It is sad to hear that some Icelandic men that have wives from abroad don't speak to them in the language when it is such a critical part of living here. Thank you for the comment! :-)
@siggyii6 жыл бұрын
Jewells Chambers the saddest part is that often those women come from a country that people don’t generally speak english so they come here and learn english and that is just not helpful
@AllThingsIceland6 жыл бұрын
Yea, that is quite sad. :-(
@suparauta80265 жыл бұрын
That sounds great that husbands speaks Icelandic to their wifes. ❤️ That's shame if not. 😕
@cinemacritic95715 жыл бұрын
yes if you're lucky you'll also get displaced in your own homeland just like we other europeans have
@jaypaladin-havesmartswilll55086 жыл бұрын
It will be interesting to have video with black males and compare experiences living in Iceland.
@AllThingsIceland6 жыл бұрын
Agreed!
@anibalescobar7435 жыл бұрын
Don't you worry, i'm saving for my ticket and I'll do definity do a video of it!
@zamanizamanimorgan69254 жыл бұрын
This is a good idea
@DeCurtaRican4 жыл бұрын
The women there live black men from my experience.
@jonothandoeser4 жыл бұрын
@africansnowqueen The Live them!!!
@Berlynic4 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I think that people keep on staring at Tabitha not mostly because she's black but VERY MOSTLY because she is EXTRAORDINARILY GORGEOUS! Darling, I'D STARE AT YOU ANYWHERE! And I'm a straight woman! Girl, you're gorgeous beyond words and imagination. It's hard not to stare at such a beautiful person. However, I smile and compliment a person, so they wouldn't feel uncomfortable. Ladies, you're GORGEOUS!
@ginadelsasso2884 жыл бұрын
My thoughts exactly.... Straight woman here too but i can still say these women are beautiful. I would stare and smile at them as well. They have such a classic natural beauty to them. Are they even wearing makeup? It doesnt look like much, if they are. So jealous....in a good way.
@scipio4364 жыл бұрын
Not really, It is really rare to see blacks in Iceland so you know when we see one we look in amazement. like for us, black people are very exotic and interesting, I should add this is not the case for the Capital there are many minorities.
@scipio4364 жыл бұрын
I remember when i was younger my grandma saw a black man and she was so excited, she acted like she saw a celebrity.
@darricklampkin574 жыл бұрын
She is a Beautiful Woman
@thomas.alexander.4 жыл бұрын
To fight depression, you should also take a good strong dose of B12. I have found this very good myself, and I live at the top of Scotland, so we do have the short winter days too!
@hail_thevictors36252 жыл бұрын
I would absolutely LOVE those short winter days! I LIVE FOR THE WINTER!!!
@kanekiken00A4 жыл бұрын
I am Jamaican and I currently live and attend school in china. My experiences have been well so far, Chinese people are fascinated with my height, my skin and my hair. They always shower me with complements and they have always been friendly. I am also engaged to a chinese man and learning about China's 5000 year history is wonderful
@AllThingsIceland4 жыл бұрын
Awesome, glad to hear it is going well for you in China.
@idaearl67154 жыл бұрын
I'm sure you also missed hearing a black voice. The cadence, the energy, etc. I live in a predominantly white area. I missed the voice.
@cocoaorange14 жыл бұрын
I am sure many homogenous countries like Japan, China, Poland, etc., act like that. As long as they are nice.
@nikristee5 жыл бұрын
Love this vlog so informative. Hey sistas love from a Kenyan 🇰🇪 living in USA 🇺🇸
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
Thank you! Love back to you!
@RH-xx7yp4 жыл бұрын
I'm not black or Icelandic but I love watching this woman talk, what a beautiful personality and such a great story teller.
@carrierueden34105 жыл бұрын
Tabitha is gorgeous❤️
@Headsign5 жыл бұрын
C'mon. They're both.
@mlk.ali_X4 жыл бұрын
Yeah, I feel ya but um crushin' on Tabitha too lol
@lah16674 жыл бұрын
I like Tabitha's lips...
@mfmarshall44784 жыл бұрын
Both these ladies are beautiful
@scottthomas58194 жыл бұрын
yessss!
@AlinaAlign4 жыл бұрын
I love this!! Your experiences are valid and ultimately it isn't always a black person's responsibility to educate people who are being ignorant or insulting constantly. Its so valid and true to ask to just feel welcome.
@factbeaglesarebest2 жыл бұрын
They are not being ignorant… they are not used to seeing black folks, and they are culturally different and they tend to express themselves honestly they are culturally blunt.
@Србомбоница863 ай бұрын
We don't want nor need you to educate us
@Depplova815 жыл бұрын
I'm coming to Iceland in October and I'm scared, but your video has put me at some ease. I've always been curious about Iceland and an opportunity has come to go. I wish I could meet you two ^_^
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
Seas _Wallace yay!!! I’m so glad to hear that. I hope you have a great time. If time permits, it would be nice to meet
@ArmandoGT15 жыл бұрын
Seas _Wallace me too! 😀 but in November
@kirouanemohamedamine79954 жыл бұрын
Hello
@MsYoshmeister2 жыл бұрын
Why are you living in Iceland? I’m just curious about what jobs are there for people and reasons someone who is not born there would live there?
@LettingGo7572 жыл бұрын
I wouldn't want to live anywhere where there is not at least a 10% concentration of the population who looks like me
@AllThingsIceland2 жыл бұрын
Ok
@sillywetmeow5 жыл бұрын
Honestly, I'm a Scandinavian and I'm so sorry about the staring thing! I think you both are gorgeous no matter the skincolour.
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
LOL thanks!
@GustavoRodriguez-ec2md4 жыл бұрын
I think they are being stared precisely for their beauty. So, the reason for that I think is admiration.
@Daydreamerr134 жыл бұрын
I’m gonna visit Nordic countries. As a black woman, I have no desire to live there but I wanna cross it off my bucket list because I’ve only heard stereotypes about those places so I wanna see for myself lol
@Shanie333 жыл бұрын
Same! ❤️❤️ and because of the beauty of the country
@neuroleptika3 жыл бұрын
You will see more blacks than Nordics here. Whites are a minority in the streets
@glenoneill39503 жыл бұрын
VISIT AS ANOTHER HUMAN BEING........A CITIZEN OF THIS BEAUTIFUL PLANET.....THE COLOR OF YOUR SKIN......IS NOT AN ISSUE .....UNLESS YOU MAKE IT SO.........COMFORTABLE IN YOUR SKIN.....ANYWERE ON THIS PLANET.......BLESSINGS.
@neuroleptika3 жыл бұрын
@þrúðr J I saw blacks in every village and town i stopped in, in norway
@neuroleptika3 жыл бұрын
@þrúðr J But my comment meant sweden where i live, its common being the only non black on the street, on the bus, subway, classroom
@iddet886726 күн бұрын
I’m an Icelandic man, and I stayed in a Philippian province for a few weeks 2 years ago and experienced a lot of being stared at.
@Michael-pc7bb3 жыл бұрын
I think what gets lost in today's social climate is sometimes someone stares because you're attractive, or have a nice outfit etc.. There is good in the world its not always all negative! 🙂
@Alcroboscan8 ай бұрын
Just found your channel! I am a new subscriber and I love your content and positivity! I am Croatian, my wife is from Tanzania and we live in Canada. As a kid I always wanted to visit Iceland, and my brother is actually moving to Iceland in a few days so I will definitely be visiting the beautiful country with my wife :) We watched your black owned businesses video and my wife was very impressed and we can’t wait to visit all these places!! Thank you for all the great work you do to make this channel so awesome!
@John_Weiss8 ай бұрын
8:28 Your response to, "whatabout a white-people-in-Iceland-group," is _priceless!_ You're my lopapesa queen, Jewells! When my husband and I were in Iceland for our 30th Anniversary back in Aug/Sept 2023, I was watching your buying guide, and have a lovely blue lopapesa as a result! 😁 Thank you and Tabitha for your eye-opening experiences. And 21:23 the first thing I thought when I saw the title of this video was, "Are you taking vitamin-D suppliments?" Don't be fooled by the glare in my profile pic - I'm half-Italian-American and have that Mediterranean complexion, and _I'm vitamin-D deficient, just living in upstate NY!_ I was tested in my mid-40s, like you for something else, and my vitamin-D levels came back _1/3 of the minimum level_ you're supposed to have. So yeah, make sure you're getting that vitamin-D! I also have advice for learning a language: Abandon. All. Shame. I'm fluent [was] in German and used to speak some French, and the thing that helped me the most when I came to learning a language is to just _assume_ you're gonna _make a fool of yourself_ at some point and embrace it! I was once, during a conversation in German, rattling off some 4-5 verbs at the end of the sentence, paused, then added, „sein“ [verb for "to be"]. Wasn't aware I was doing it, my brain just wasn't sure if I had all of the needed auxillary verbs, and just tossed on that last one, after a pause. Everyone cracked up - it was like I was doing a comedy routine. And, I just rolled with it, like I'd managed to pull off a really great joke, rather than be embarrassed. You're American, Tabitha is British, both countries are _infamous_ for being monolingual! The fact that someone from the US or the UK is trying to speak a different language is gonna impress people just right there alone. Nobody but you is gonna care about any mistakes you make. So just abandon all shame and fear, and plough right into speaking in Icelandic, asking about words someone says back that you don't recall the meaning of, asking people to repeat something. Trust me, people really do appreciate the effort, especially when it's not one of the Major Languages.
@richardmourdock27194 жыл бұрын
Jewell, you are captivating as a KZbin host. I found your channel when YT's algorithm picked up I'm considering a visit to Iceland. Frankly, I almost skipped this vid because the title caused me to think I might not to be able to relate to it. But Tabitha's comments and your explanations of your experiences made this fascinating to a white Hoosier. Thank you.
@missivonne Жыл бұрын
Tabitha's accent is so beautiful. I could listen to her read the telephone directory for hours.
@rozchristopherson6484 жыл бұрын
I look 👀 forward to the day when there will be no differences.
@lizawilson64896 ай бұрын
I am moving to Iceland in the fall, and I am a Black woman with locs. I was wondering if you could shed some light on how the water affects your hair, if there's anything noticeable.
@crossgrainwoodproductsltd92304 жыл бұрын
My jaw dropped when your guest told what the Icelandic person said to her. It disgusts me that there is still so much prejudice and stereotyping that is still so prevalent. Here in the US, our President has made it okay to be openly racist against anyone who isn't white by his own words and actions. I feel like we have regressed to America in 1950. You both have an incredibly positive outlook and philosophy about life.
@joesmith5159 Жыл бұрын
lol you are a clown all the laws are anti white now
@lorrainejames5 жыл бұрын
I was watching an episode of the simpsons (season 14; episode 16 “Scuse me while I miss the sky”) when Karl mentioned his “Icelandic childhood”. Out of curiosity, I googled “Afro-Icelander” and this popped up. I love finding black communities from around the world other than Africa, the Caribbean and North America.
@naylabyxbe34114 жыл бұрын
I am really enjoying your videos....nice to meet you and learn about Iceland from your point of view. Thank you for extending yourself !
@noobkid45793 жыл бұрын
If you are integrated well and if you work and respect the culture and country, you are more than welcome
@reekaselman59424 жыл бұрын
You mentioned Barbados and I got chills lol. That's where I'm from. Its always awesome hearing my little island mentioned lol
@MichaelSuperbacker4 жыл бұрын
Hi ladies just found your channel! 😃 how are you? The lady on the right sounds British but the lady on the left has no accent.( are you from the USA originally?) Oh I was right 4:57 that’s cool you moved to Iceland from the USA and England. I always wanted to live in Iceland, what inspired you to move to Iceland? We are all human, we want to fit in (where we live) ,it’s unfortunate that some people have these prejudices towards you wonderful ladies. I have friends , I don’t see white/black/green/ purple. Friends of all backgrounds and religions. I wish the world was more open to getting to know people, because they are missing out on some great relationships.
@AllThingsIceland4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and commenting. Yes, Tabitha is from the U.K. and I (Jewells) am from the United States. I moved here because my husband is Icelandic and I found a great job here.
@KaySpradley3 ай бұрын
We stayed in Iceland a few years ago. I am a black woman and so is my partner. There was some staring, but people were very polite and welcoming. If it were a child staring, I would go up to them and introduce myself to the parents. Kids wanted to touch my skin. Ok for kids not grown adults.
@cosmicbliss99263 жыл бұрын
“does he think I’m walking and talking chocolate” 😂😂😂 I laughed so loud. Def been there. Appreciate you ladies sharing your honest experiences.
@AllThingsIceland3 жыл бұрын
😂 You are so welcome.
@prakkari4 жыл бұрын
I am born in 1959. First time I saw a black person i was around 15. We were fewer when I was a kid 150k in 59, so we were not so multicultural to put it mildly. I stared out of curiosity, but I consider myself colorblind. I think people are much to preoccupied with race. Media seems to be obsessed with differences. Black vs white, man vs woman, left vs right etc.
@michaeluzoma82904 жыл бұрын
Lol
@PrinceofMacedonVlogs6 ай бұрын
such beautiful women - I'm sorry you had that kind of experience. I had a bunch of people talking shit about me when I was in the UK (and I'm 100% American who speaks perfectly fluent English). Everyone assumed I didn't speak the language
@Tumi19904 жыл бұрын
Thank you so much for sharing your experience as a black person in Iceland. As a native, I'm very glad to hear that things are mostly good.
@AllThingsIceland4 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and commenting. :-)
@SherekaBrowne Жыл бұрын
My husband is 6’3” and a big guy but looks very much like a teddy bear. We were outside of a restaurant in Reykjavik and a Icelandic man just came up to my husband with a big smile an put his hand on his should and said “so what do think about the weather?” My husband and him started talking. I was like what the hell is going on. He was so pleased to see my husband like he was his friend. I am sure Iceland has overt racism, but I just don’t think it is like the US and I think Italy is worst than the US and the US is bad, so you can just imagine.
@tuiyastudio44633 жыл бұрын
"I forgot I was black" LOL
@berenicegalilea2 жыл бұрын
Our planet Earth 🌎is so beautiful and all of the people on it are so marvellous. Thank You, God, for all of the variety and beauty. The Life is such a miracle! 🌎
@personalgrowthplace72024 жыл бұрын
It’s awkward to and uncomfortable to be stared at. These two gorgeous queens are also being stared at because they’re beautiful!
@cryptidscanada6884 Жыл бұрын
Ladies people arent staring because your black they are staring because you are beautiful.
@hail_thevictors36252 жыл бұрын
THANK you for making this video! I've been studying Iceland and I'm definitely going to visit...NOW I WANT TO MOVE THERE!!! It's the weather for me. and you two are beautiful...and so positive!!!
@ariel37034 жыл бұрын
I’m curious if men ever get fetishized. I am not a person of color but I’ve definitely been fetishized a couple of times. I am Jewish, I’ve had non Jewish people seek me out on dating apps because I’m Jewish and when I asked why they said “Jewish girls do things in bed that other girls don’t,”... I was a little offended. My ex also had a thing for Jewish girls. Then once I visited a good friend in Florida for a few weeks and I hooked up with a guy in their friend group that happened to be black. So we’re hanging out and I was in a bad mood not gonna lie, and he was trying to flirt with me and I just wasn’t feeling it that day. So he goes “So, am I the first black guy you’ve hooked up with,” I said maybe. He did not like that answer. It just made me feel like, well damn, I thought you were into me, not my skin. I mean I guess that wasn’t so bad but still if I flipped it asked if I was the only white girl he’d been with I think he’d be a little offended. Did not help my mood. Definitely was kinda a shitty feeling, and I’m a white person, so I can’t imagine how much shittier that feels for a woman of color. Do you think men ever have to deal with this bullshit? I’m sorry you guys have been objectified like that. You’re both gorgeous and seem like super sweet and laid back people.
@TheBaconWizard4 жыл бұрын
Sounds like racism to me, pure and simple.
@christinemckay59494 жыл бұрын
It's obviously why she stops traffic, she's drop dead gorgeous! Stunning! You're both lovely girls xx
@whatsonhermindblog123 Жыл бұрын
Loved this! Tabitha has such a calm aura about her. I learned a lot here :)
@kingace44276 жыл бұрын
As a Eastern European I find it weird(not in a bad way)when I visited Iceland I saw 3 black people more than I ever did in my country of Estonia. My English teacher in Estonia was a black female she used to comment how quiet my country is, she was probably one of the first blacks I ever seen in person.I enjoy hearing different people’s opinions of living in Europe especially when they are pretty positive . Sometimes I stare at black people because you rarely see them in Estonia and I am not gonna lie kinda interesting hair. I will say this though Iceland’s prices are ridiculous. You girls seem to have fun in Iceland, Scandinavia is probably the nicest part of Europe but very expensive.
@AllThingsIceland6 жыл бұрын
Thanks for the comment. Not sure when you visited Iceland but it is so accessible for people to get here. I see way more black people here now than when I first started visiting. It is awesome! I think like anywhere else, if a person is being looked at they are probably just wondering if the person looking at them is friendly. That is what usually pops into my mind when I see someone staring at me. I appreciate you sharing your experience. Do you think black people are well received in Estonia? Would be interesting to visit. Thankfully Iceland is a fun place to live. However, like you said, it is very expensive. Every time I go back to the US, it astonishes me how cheap things are!
@kingace44276 жыл бұрын
Jewells Chambers I visited Iceland last year for a week and had fun but I probably wasn’t paying too much attention maybe. Estonian people are friendly and reserved on average I would say if you visit Estonia visit Tallinn it’s our nicest city. Before the refugee crisis Estonians were less leerie of outsiders and abit more accepting of visitors but you being an American and a female helps people might react alittle different if you weren’t American like I don’t believe they would be violent to you or hostile if you weren’t unless you wander around late at night possibly, also usually the Russians who live here are usually the ones who sometimes says mean things but they can be very nice too.I think visiting Estonia say with your Icelandic husband people won’t see you as a danger but they will stare and look at you but I think they would be nice to you if you visit we Estonians actually like quietness even on dates we have sometimes moments of silence. Believe it or not in Tallinn one of maybe 5 blacks that live there is on our city council Abdul Turay one of the few blacks in Estonia also maybe in universities you might have a better chance of seeing a African because Africans study in post soviet states actually but usually more in Russia I hear. In Eastern Europe we don’t have large or widely seen black populations but some countries actually have Africans in government like Hungary has a black in government , Slovenia has a black mayor I believe, Poland I believe had a Nigerian in government and even Russia had a black mayor I think in saint petersberg. You should visit Eastern Europe you might enjoy 😉 it like visit Prague if you like beer they have the best, also Poland the people are generally friendly, Slovenia is underrated and Estonia is way underrated and underrepresented.
@AllThingsIceland6 жыл бұрын
Thanks! I was in Poland last June for a wedding. It was definitely interesting. Thanks for all of the information. :-)
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
@Usuzi Neither one of us is on welfare. You know nothing about us and have made very ignorant and hurtful comments solely because of the color of our skin. You have been blocked.
@gimmerum5 жыл бұрын
I'm Eastern European as well (Serbia) and when I was in the Baltics (LOVED IT) I noticed the lack of black people to what I was used to at home. I see PoC often and I still stare :/ Pretty :////
@TheSubzero19914 жыл бұрын
I am addicted to the girl on the right. A white European guy in love with a black girl.
@AyaEgbuho Жыл бұрын
I'm confused. Why would they assume you are Icelandic? Are people with your skin color native to Iceland? That's like a Japanese person saying why would the Ethiopians not assume I'm from here?
@carlameaders43524 жыл бұрын
I lived in Korea for many years. I’m very white with naturally straight blonde hair. I literally had people come up to me and pet me. They would touch my hair. If I was sitting, and they were close, they would touch and pet my legs. They were not being insulting, these people had never been close to someone like me. I did not feel insulted. Yes, so many people stared at me. I would just smile and that broke the tension. They were curious. At least I know that their first actual interaction with someone like me was positive for them. I spent quite a lot of time touring the countryside.
@jw52753 жыл бұрын
I am first generation. I grew up both in the US and Dominican Republic. Lived in France in my early 20’s. I’ve been to 17 countries and I think that this the most nervous I’ve been about visiting a place as a woman of color 😂🥲 that’s why I looked this up, thanks for sharing this video. Because I may look racially ambiguous to someone who doesn’t understand that blackness is a spectrum and there are black people all over the world from many counties and all kinds of shades of brown- the most common thing that happens is the constant questioning and interrogation of my background. Mind. Your. Business. 😂 I find that saying to someone “it’s shocking that you think it’s polite to ask that” kills the questions right away.
@marymarks70464 жыл бұрын
I am a new subscriber and American of English Irish, and French descent. So I will be checking out your vids. I am from New Jersey. I grew up knowing people of color “American Blacks” and Puerto Rican’s as I became an older I met more types of people of color. I feel blessed to get to know different cultures. I wouldn’t want to live any other way. God has made beautiful human beings that look different but what makes us the same is we have feelings. Be kind and love one another as God loves us.
@siggitiggi5 жыл бұрын
Hey there. So regarding the staring bit. Now I was born and raised in a tiny town in Iceland. We stare at anyone who's not from the town. Don't know why it's just something everyone tends to do. But yeah, going to any country will be a slight culture shock and our nation is extremely curious. It's unfortunate that you met some assholes along the way, but every country has them, unfortunately. Sadly they're completely unavoidable.
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
Very true and thanks for the comment. :-)
@zaziaunaturalshairsolution89364 жыл бұрын
Hi beauties! Thank you for your videos. I’m in the process of planning a trip to Iceland. I hear the springs are amazing:)
@claudiusgordon4458 Жыл бұрын
I’m a black Canadian 🇨🇦 who will visit Iceland 🇮🇸 in the near future
@HlynurKrist5 жыл бұрын
Subscribed immediately, can't wait to watch more videos.. would probably stare and smile for a moment and then be to shy to approach. 😁 Absolutely gorgeous both of you and fun to watch due to your ease in front of the camera.
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for watching and subscribing. No need to be shy. Feel free to say hi. :-)
@alicemariearcher Жыл бұрын
I loved watching this. I can imagine this is very helpful for people of colour wanting to visit or have an extended stay in Iceland. ❤
@moniquekellpearce47734 жыл бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed this video. It answered a lot of questions and concerns that I had about traveling to Iceland!
@lorettawalker60664 жыл бұрын
Ladies... I personally don’t use the term Person of Color because the last time I looked in the dictionary...white is a color too. I just found your channel and find it very educational.
@AllThingsIceland4 жыл бұрын
It is your choice to not use it and I have no opinion on whether you should or shouldn't. I choose to use it. Glad to hear that you find the channel educational.
@b43xoit3 жыл бұрын
I use it and also "person of pallor."
@chronos4013 жыл бұрын
The political class and the media play an enormous role in shaping public perception which in turn becomes one's reality. While they've created fake and manipulated stories to put almost every group into a box, IMO Blacks have had it the worst. A couple years ago, I watched a video created by a Black African who is/was attending graduate school over in China. This guy is very fluent in several languages including Chinese and English. In the video, he randomly stopped locals and asked for their opinions of people from his continent. Every person had the same belief that all Africans are extremely impoverished, live in mud huts in the jungles, run around almost naked, and eat road kill or each other. When he showed photos and videos of what it's really like over there in the different countries, the shocked look on their faces was priceless. These folks aren't the ones who've been misled into believing wrong info about another demographic. Keep up the great work in being good-will Ambassadors to help others to see the truth.
@rhyfelwrDuw4 жыл бұрын
I am so glad you have posted this video, because I was wondering what kind of experience it would be for a black person to live in Iceland! Love your videos btw! Re staring - I lived in Brussels in the early 90s and I'm white and British (a typical white European really - I could have been Belgian if I didn't speak), yet people would stare. It doesn't matter where I went (alone or with friends) folks would be staring! Now in the UK, I'd say that would be considered rude, but in Belgium it was quite normal! I had black African friends in Brussels and we would still be stared at - I think it was just cultural!
@chausikujasmah199410 ай бұрын
Am planning to come to Iceland,hope i can meet u galz.Love from Uganda ❤❤❤
@ellyraborn0073 жыл бұрын
Love your chat & how to cope w/ dark winter, D & Reg. Vitamins! Get checked blood wise! ❤️✊🏿✊🏿👏👏👏😉😂❤️🇮🇸❤️‼️
@Macca-zx7gz4 жыл бұрын
Tabitha looks like she should be a model in magazines.
@ane-louisestampe79394 жыл бұрын
I grew up in a small Danish town, and my first encounter with a black person was in 68 when I was 4 years old. I jumped up and down with excitement, pointed at him and joyfully shouted: Look Mummy, there's a negro! She died of shame and drag me away. Then I threw a tantrum because I was not allowed to cross the street to talk to him. To this day I wonder how he felt. I certainly hope, he realised that it was true happiness from my side. Pease and love to all.
@jerrybooker-bm4nu Жыл бұрын
I never thought in a million years that theyre are black people in iceland but somehow i am not surprised it seems that we are everywhere
@caroltesol14 жыл бұрын
Your video reminds me so much of my experiences in Germany. Thank you for this channel 🙂
@pjj.5649 Жыл бұрын
This was an excellent video, I so enjoyed the conversation, the candidness and both of your willingness to discuss the issues and experiences you have gone through being in Iceland. I am a black older woman in the U.S. via New York City and I have gone through likewise right here. I have lived through the; "I have a black friend who is very nice." and "You're different." I always think to myself, what am I supposed to do with those statements. For the white people who stare to the point of discomfort and say incredible void things, the first thought they need to have when they are out of the "experience" of seeing, meeting and talking to a black person, is to realize how deep rootedly brainwashed and limited they are, regardless of the default propaganda about black people they have been exposed to and accepted as true. Just maybe then their minds and eyes will open to the humaness of other people as people and not objects/things to be curious about. The homework assignment is long for them but it starts with them being honest with themselves about themselves. Until then, I don't hold out much hope. Thank you again, inner and outer beautiful Sisters.
@colleenlocke32394 жыл бұрын
I was an AFS student in Iceland in 1984. There was an African American girl in our group who was also in Keflavik with me. I don't think anyone looked at her differently after awhile.
@michaeluzoma82904 жыл бұрын
Hello dear
@100Mmore4 жыл бұрын
Yeah I live in Iceland, working as a surgeon, came from Mexico. Many Icelandic people confessed to me that they had never seen a black person in real life, some of them still haven’t in the rural areas.
@AllThingsIceland4 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience.
@quediantterkids70472 жыл бұрын
I always wanted to visit Iceland..
@tobe27142 жыл бұрын
I am so thankful for this video. My trip is coming up, and I am so nervous
@paradoxicalcanons4 жыл бұрын
Let's not overlook the fact that you're stopping traffic because you're gorgeous!
@laureanne34094 жыл бұрын
Yes, that's what I thought as well.
@beimkohlehydrat24554 жыл бұрын
i was just going to comment the same!
@julieaylward61784 жыл бұрын
You took the words right out of my mouth! Y’all are pretty exquisite.
@deliafletcher50084 жыл бұрын
I know right she is such a beautiful woman...her skin!
@stacylamb56074 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing
@Walnut5005 жыл бұрын
Icelander here,. I have done the staring thing. The very first black person I saw some what up close. I stared at him out of curiosity. He noticed it before I realised and stared right back! I was embarrassed for having been unintentionally rude. Since then I've tried to be more aware of my staring when I see other races but I admit that I am still really curious about it for some reason, especially curious about black women hair, I stood behind one of you in a line at Bónus Mosó few weeks ago and passed the time admiring it.
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for your honesty. When I catch someone staring at me and they smile, it puts me at ease. It might even open up the potential for me and that person to have a conversation. I think it is great that Icelandic people are curious. I personally wouldn't mind answering any questions. :-)
@channel22detroit125 жыл бұрын
Lol...
@IamBrendaMarie5 жыл бұрын
I start at this man in tje teain station in new yoork city becausenhe had the same look and hairstyle of the Japanese amination cartoons. I could not believe that they realy look like that. I always thought that Japanese animation characters were a frigate of someone's imagination.
@EmmaManace96425 жыл бұрын
@WhiteNationalist Portugal Bison you are one disgusting human.
@CarriUSA5 жыл бұрын
I've heard that to in some areas in Africa when they see a white person.... Lol
@jeremykamel96554 жыл бұрын
I think they stare because you’re both stunningly beautiful!
@AllThingsIceland4 жыл бұрын
LOL thanks
@stacey1234love4 жыл бұрын
I was thinking the same thing!
@dotology4 жыл бұрын
My initial thought as well 😆 I'm a white woman from Poland and sooo many times in my life I've must have been perceived as the staring one while I just enjoy looking at beautiful people....well I guess it's still staring haha but for different reasons.
@eysteinneysteinsson54994 жыл бұрын
I agree, stunning
@gabrielelias9834 жыл бұрын
Yeah that was my thought as well
@Reality_TV4 жыл бұрын
I would like my add two cents to this. I am a black woman and I LOVE Iceland! I have had beautiful experiences in this country! The stares are absolutely real, but it isn't out of order. They look because seeing a black woman in different areas is different for them sometimes. Sadly, we aren't a usual group to see there because not a lot of us travel to Iceland! I should note that I was there almost a month and I saw one other black person and that was at Reykjavik airport. At restaurants, I was treated with respect and dignity just like anyone else. I had people smile at me, but Icelandic people are not overly smiley like Americans can be. However, people are really nice! One day a guy was staring and I didn't say anything. Then, he asked me if I wanted to eat lunch with him! LOL! I pulled over one day to check a map and someone pulled up to me and asked if I needed help! Please know that in the outskirts, there aren't a lot of black people. In fact, I drove the Ring Road and stopped in every place there was to take pictures and I didn't see ONE other black person at all - male or female. I have had people treat me BEAUTIFULLY in this country and I will ALWAYS consider Iceland to be one of my best places in the world to visit! I LOVE Iceland! Please know that there are good and bad people all over the world, but Iceland is a GREAT country! Don't go to that country with a chip on your shoulder PLEASE! The place is so great that you will enjoy yourself! It is so safe and so much fun! OMG! I slept on a black sand beach with NO ONE else around! I drove the Ring Road! I sat in the mountains, overlooking the ocean, while it snowed around me! I sat on a waterfront overlooking the ocean. I sat on a black sand beach watching waves on the ocean. I watched their beloved sheep play in the middle of a deserted road! I watched whales & puffins! I walked under a waterfall! I scrambled over volcanic rock fields all by myself. I LOVE this place! Just be open to people and don't take things personally if you get looks! It is OK! Icelandic people are not the fake sort. They are strong, wonderful people. AND, please don't take Americanized views of who & what white people are into that country! Iceland is NOT the US! Be kind, don't get offended by people looking at you (or staring) and embrace Iceland with WIDE OPEN ARMS! I would like to add one thing. Many people have a false narrative surrounding who and how black people are. They see images of us on the news and, honestly, those images don't always paint us in the best light. For MANY people in countries like Iceland, we may be the ONLY black person they have ever encountered in the flesh! That sounds odd, but it is true. I have been to places where NO ONE HAS EVER SEEN A BLACK PERSON IN THE FLESH! Does that mean the stares won't make you feel uncomfortable? Of course not, but just remember that sometimes things aren't what they appear to be and you don't want to be guilty of judging a book by its cover just like you don't want people judging you! *Give people a chance to show you the goodness in their hearts and don't be afraid to show yours!*
@misshoneynevercame48324 жыл бұрын
Thanks. Good to know. Some black ppl get very offended when white people stare but sometimes it's just pure shock. I always keep in mind that too often times i am the first black person they have EVER seen.
@ivyd54854 жыл бұрын
This is such a cool post. Blacks in some Asian countries also get stared at as well...it’s best to take it in stride.
@shelovesthemso62524 жыл бұрын
Reality TV Is it out of order to be called a monkey though! I am a black American woman and I feel joy when I read about your experience in Iceland. But, poor Tabitha! What an appalling experience to be degraded as such. “Is that a monkey?” I have to type these words to even believe that they really came out of another human’s mouth. I just can’t accept that the question was asked because the man was shocked at seeing a black person. Sounds like evil to me. The way you describe Iceland and your experience there makes me want to visit but when I hear Tabitha’s monkey story I say, “No, thanks.” All of Iceland’s beauty and hospitality cannot wash away such a horrible experience. At least not for me.
@Reality_TV4 жыл бұрын
@@shelovesthemso6252 - Let me explain something to you. When you travel the world, I don't care if you are white, black, Asian, Latina or whatever, you MAY encounter bad people! We don't even know if that person was a native Icelander! Do you mean to tell me that you would avoid AN ENTIRE COUNTRY because ONE person said someone called them a name? REALLY? If you are THAT sensitive, then you should NOT travel ANYWHERE! I have stayed in hotels ALL OVER ICELAND! Do you know how many people called me names? ZERO! I am a black American woman. Do you know how many times I have been called the N word to my face in the US? EXACTLY ONCE! Should I leave the US because I had that negative experience? Do you know how many people have embraced me and treated me with love in the US? MANY! So which image am I going to hold on to; one or the many? When you get to Iceland, you ARE going to encounter people! Those people, by and large, are going to be good people. If you have 100 positive experiences and one negative experience would you say your trip wasn't worth it? Come on now! I will tell you that the first time I went to Iceland, I went with a man who was afraid of heights! LOL! He was black and I VOWED to NEVER, EVER, EVER travel there again with someone so I could do what I want without hearing people tell me they are afraid of something! We were LITERALLY at the top of a volcano and he started SCREAMING that he needed to get down! Should I have not gone back because I had a negative experience with that person? HECK NO! I just knew that this person & I were NEVER to travel ANYWHERE ever again! I have been many other places in the world and you cannot live your life being scared or upset of someone calling you a name! PERIOD! There are too many places to see, things to do and experiences to be had to do that! Aside from that, who cares what any single person calls you? YOU know who you are! Other people don't get to define YOU unless you let them! Other people also don't get to limit YOU unless you let them! Do you know something that is the honest truth? More black people have made fun of me and called me names than ANY other group I have encountered AND I AM BLACK! When I was in high school, I was picked on and called names because I was nerdy. Should I look at my fellow black people and hate them because I was called names by some of them? Of course not! Everybody is not good and everyone is not bad! Either way, those people didn't get to define me so why would I let someone who doesn't know me change what I will or won't do? Girl, I want you to get on Google Flights RIGHT NOW, look at the full map that shows the prices for particular dates on a flat map for the entire world AND pick you out some places to visit AFTER this COVID thing passes! I want you to EXPERIENCE THE WORLD because there will come a point in your life when you are too old, too sick or too stuck to do so! Get out there and SEE, DO and BE before it is too late! NEVER let what someone MIGHT call you limit you! I don't care WHO it is or WHAT they say! GET OUT IN THE WORLD AND SEE IT FOR YOURSELF!
@marilynwillett8044 жыл бұрын
I HAVE LIVED IN OTHER COUNTRIES and visited many--America is the GREATEST COUNTRY ON EARTH, BLESSED GREATLY BY GOD. yes Europe is beautiful too, but their politics are selling them out--there is more to life than blacks or whites. no country in Europe has a love for our Creator, they are totally completely into the flesh, which is why it appeals to the flesh.
@kathleenmartin74984 жыл бұрын
I visited Ghana years ago. I'm a white woman. I was shopping in a small village market and a very small boy looked at me, froze and just started screaming!! His mother grabbed him up and said he'd never seen a white person before , I felt so bad that I'd scared him
@freshencounter4 жыл бұрын
This has happened to me throughout my life in US suburbs, especially, all my life. It’s good for you to know what that’s like, cause it’s also adults doing that here. It speaks a lot to how not teaching about the lives of fellow citizens easily promotes racism. And while it’s expected in Ghana, it shouldn’t be happening in Westchester, Marin, or Orange County. We can do better with intercultural education here. Hopefully you’ve released feeling bad.
@kathleenmartin74984 жыл бұрын
@@freshencounter yes, i held no long term feeling of guilt. I just felt bad that I had scared the little guy. I wonder if he remembers that as he is an adult now?
@freshencounter4 жыл бұрын
Kathleen Martin My hope is he’s made trusting friends that look like you and people from many places. I also hope he’ll be comforted as he experiences the same when he’s not in Africa. Thanks for engaging. Wishing you and yours wellness and safety during this extraordinary time.
@amairis83944 жыл бұрын
Sorry hahah I’m from Ghana
@iamgod20884 жыл бұрын
😂🤣😂 you guys need to travel a little
@astaeyjolfsdottir55302 жыл бұрын
I'm an Icelandic woman married to a Japanese American man since 1976 and he came with me to Iceland from California in 1981, people would stare and children would even point at him where he thought his fly was open. Today is so much better , he is invisible now. We love Iceland !
@smolrat159 Жыл бұрын
How interesting!!
@vanessa_the_mindset_maven5 жыл бұрын
I had a layover in Iceland on my way to the U.K, and from what I saw about Iceland, I really would like to return; black sand beaches, hot springs, the hills... just breath-taking.
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
Vanessa ButtuhFly yes, it is so beautiful here.
@atsrong2473 жыл бұрын
Visited Iceland like 3 years ago, I don’t remember being stared at or anything like that. I do remember seeing black people and thinking how did they come to live here.
@rashanda-michellemfb31882 жыл бұрын
Was your experience negative?
@acciodalek5 жыл бұрын
Are you sure they aren't staring because you are just that beautiful?
@Redsage1254 жыл бұрын
No
@sethdyasi21734 жыл бұрын
Beautiful 100%
@user-sm7og6fi3j4 жыл бұрын
Bugged out eyes and brillo pad hair are beautiful??? I don't think so. If they don't like living in a White country, they really should go home. Its very rude and ignorant to move to someone else's country and then do nothing but complain and try to change it.
@millymurray14 жыл бұрын
@@user-sm7og6fi3j I am sure u r beautiful...very ...beauty is in the eye of d beholder...I wish u could see how some people see white peoples looks...then u will see that a lot of people dont think ure Straight hair and pale skin is attractive...people can live where the F they want...this false ownership Is bullshit. ..we came with nothing and we going with nothing...look at u..the phone or computer u using...u know where the minerals to make it comes from...probably india or Africa..
@otumfuo34 жыл бұрын
S Wid I will stare at the Tabitha lady....she looks stunning....
@bergzi995 жыл бұрын
That ex-slave you are talking about at 10:20 is actually the forefather of our ex-prime minister and ex-mayor of Reykjavik Davíð Oddson.
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
That's fascinating and thanks for sharing. I am interested in learning more about that person.
@octaviosander88983 жыл бұрын
You guys are pretty related to each other
@happilyeverafter11864 жыл бұрын
I'm from Germany, from a rural region that was not very diverse all. All I've learned about black natural hair care and the issues the black community faces on a general basis, I've learned on KZbin when I fell down a rabbit hole one day. :) It was like I discovered a universe that I didn't even know existed.
@rozitahunter61914 жыл бұрын
I am a Black American and lived in Germany as a kid because my Dad was in the Army. My parents were good about taking us on trips to visit different small villages. I remember the stares and occasionally someone (typically an older person) touch or rub my skin. I loved my time in Germany, the people, and the country. I love traveling and the curiosity of people.
@marilynwillett8044 жыл бұрын
I'm a WHITE AMERICAN WHO LIVED IN Germany for years--I left my heart in Germany. Infact Germans always mistook me for being a German. I wanted one of those traditional german dresses, dirndl? I spoke a bit and I miss it.
@sarumanork-orphanage56124 жыл бұрын
@@rozitahunter6191 I am French German, passport says Frenh, Abitur says German - and it's so weird! I don't have any black connections, so everything I learn, every opinion I get is via the internet! And I live in Würzburg, Würzburg is decently populated, even by back people, I feel there is a real community here, but I don't have ties in Würzburg and I haven't met peiple through other people, so back people are at arms' length, but it would be weird just talking to them! "Hello, there black person, I hope you did not mind me staring, but would you mind being my new best black friend?" You don't do that! -- Should I do that? -- But they have their own lives, and they don't need yet another white person in their lives for cultural diversity! -- Aso there's a pandemic raging, so I don't meet people of colour in the bus, either.. -- But it's weird, right? Someone back me up! You're interested, but you don't want to be the creepy guy or the racist guy, so you end up staring and thinking and totally not making it better, until you stop staring which even lessens your chances of cultural contact - - what I'm saying is you don't just naturally have black friends in these parts, you're lucky if you are but more often than not, you're not lucky. So on each matter that involves being black, or people of colour, you just think - what the hell, and I can#t even think, because this is a black people's problem! It's like the N word, you can't say it, but you can't properly quote a Tarrantino movie without it, so you're stuck being akward because usually - I just think about how I feel about social issues, except I have no say in black issues o in feminist issues and I don't know anyone who would just tell me without me asking, so I'm stuck with KZbin telling me what to think, right? So that's basically my issue, I don't have someone to just fill me in on things and tell me first hand, so I rely on watching Trevor Noah and hoping he'll make things clear to me, except he#s in the US and not in Würzburg, so he doesn't bring the conversatio here either. But now's where it ets really crazy. My aunt is black. From Burkina Faso I think, at least she was a French teacher in Abijan and then moved to Ouagadougou and so I always thought she was from Côte d'Ivoire, but I think she's actually not and she's probably from Burkina Faso - anyway - why don't I just ask her. Right? So first of - she doesn't live in Würzburg. She lives in Den Haag, in the Netherlands, with my French uncle, so I don't even meet her too much, also, as aforementioned she used to live in Abijan, when I was a kid (and then in Ouagadougou), so I didn't grow up very close to her. And second - she's a Christian. Like hands on, pray before every meal Christian. And that would be fine with me, except I'm baptised, but non-believer, and so she accepts me as family and I think she actually doesn't mind, but it just freaks me out, that I could ruin our frickle relationship forever by saying the wrong word - I kid you not, I like her from what I know about her, but religiousness is a scary topic to me. Just - some people believe something, that I have absolutely no connection to, in suh a frim manner, that it can get spooky. And now thrird. Because we never actually talked abou the topic. And I'm scared to make the first move. And I know I should, but I'm paralized and I don't know how to approach such a sensible topic, - in German terms I feel like the kid of an Ausschwitz guard trapped with a really nice rabbi in a room, when I think of the situation. And I know she doesn't hate French peple, because she married one, but literally the historical weight, combined with the religion thing is kid of crushing me whn I think about it. And she's family, I don't want to offend her to the point where she'd put a crucifix on her door to protect her from me, I know she wouldn't do it, and I know she's a sweet person, but I'm kinda helpless here. Teach me Wolof or Idk, I don't think she speaks Wolof, she speaks a couple African languages though, the translates them in Den Haag, but I need to get across this, know what I mean? I need to bridge this gap, I need to learn about Africa and all the places, I know the first song on the CD with African lullabys she gave me when I was three by heart (it's a very beautiful song called o lé lé, which I was gifted as a child and either my uncle or my aunt picked it up for me at some point), but I feel kind of helpless, like I should connect with these issues, and move society forward, or at least pass the 'white person's definitively not racist test' - or something. I guess what I'm saying here in the end is - man, I wish I could understand, I wish things were more lax between black and white people, but I'm the grandma who's always staring and my sis is the kid in the store thinking 'What the hell, there's black people in iceland?? How did they strand here??' .. and I'm also the guy in the airport who just assumes he should address a person in English, when he can see she probably hasn't live in Iceland for that long, because if you made a Facebook group for white Icelandic people, you might just as well call it Iceland. I'm here, I'm curious, but I'm scared to reach out, and I feel I can only do a wrong step here, because so many people that look like me have made very wrong steps and very bad steps, and I don't know for sure if my DNA is in any shape or form better than theirs. I need to learn here. And I'm trying to. But I'm not getting very far on my own.
@aubreyplazasuncle4 жыл бұрын
@@sarumanork-orphanage5612 the fact that you're questioning yourself shows your intentions are nowhere near bad , so don't be afraid to reach out! your dna isn't 'tarnished' because of history or whatever reason, there are horrible people in every race. i can't speak for all black people, but myself (and friends who are black) are always happy when non-blacks seek to be educated or are simply curious/ conflicted on an issue or whatever. if you don't have any black people in your immediate circle, maybe try online (forums and such), just make sure to try and be respectful.
@risingphoenix80724 жыл бұрын
Saruman Ork-Orphanage very sweet post ❤️❤️. If only more people were like you describe yourself, life would be so wonderful. People are afraid to talk to each other these days and it’s sad
@thatgenxlife8004 жыл бұрын
The staring may be because you're both physically attractive. IJS.
@vaskylark4 жыл бұрын
@ScorpionBull07 You could say that about tall women too. I am white, leggy, blonde and six feet tall. I used to turn heads (Im older now) and more than once was called an "amazon" so it seems whatever is outside the norm, or what makes us different could potentially be a fetish. I hated being called that, but I didn't worry about fetishes. There are just dirt bags in the world. I also had a guy stop me once on the street just to tell me I had a beautiful face and he wanted to tell me. He didn't want anything from me which was nice. It goes both ways.
@zteaxon77874 жыл бұрын
People are generally not attracted at all to other races. So no. They stare because they don't belong and are an extreme rarity in Iceland.
@mickybangtang84473 жыл бұрын
@@zteaxon7787 are you new to the internet my guy?
@jaywholoveseveryone17213 жыл бұрын
@@mickybangtang8447 New to life or the world, maybe?
@Yosikuma5 жыл бұрын
Hi. White American guy here, and I think this video is fascinating and amazing; I will never know your perspectives and it is hugely beneficial and interesting to hear the experiences of those who are different from myself and living a different life from my own. Thank you for recording and posting this!
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
Thank you for watching and leaving a comment. :-)
@Redsage1254 жыл бұрын
No
@ms.bubs4fun5064 жыл бұрын
@@Redsage125 yes
@radiantmiller56824 жыл бұрын
Well spoken ♥️
@valeriy85024 жыл бұрын
This is the beautiful part of the internet
@s.m.36084 жыл бұрын
I thoroughly enjoyed watching this video. I was born and raised in Kenya. Married a blonde blue eyed guy in the middle of nowhere Connecticut, USA. There was only one black guy married to a white girl in the entire neighborhood. Thankfully people in CT are super-friendly. Massachusetts was different but not much racism. I could really relate when you talked about how media paints black people a certain way that's far from reality. I hated the way Africa is portrayed in the Media by the likes of National Geographic. I was only married for less than three years, later became a US citizen then left on a one-way tix out of America after 18 years as I never really felt at home.
@saidwahnow3 жыл бұрын
As someone who was born and raised in CT, how was Massachusetts different? Secondly, did you mean you left America and moved back to Africa after being married? I agree that manner African countries are often portrayed in the media is wrong. Especially when Africa is mentioned as if it’s one massive country rather than a continent with over 50 countries and various cultures and languages.
@ritap50534 жыл бұрын
Love the stories. Im black living in Greece on a small island. Im the only black woman and have been here for about 4 years.
@discoverwitdrina4 жыл бұрын
What island do u live on?
@becomingwoke81874 жыл бұрын
That is so interesting! What has been your experience?
@ritap50534 жыл бұрын
I live on a small island called Kalymnos. Its really nice. I have not met any other black woman living here, certainly no one has said. In the beginning it was weird for them I think, there were lots of questions you know the usual where are you from and what are you doing here. I started in Greece from 2006 in Heraklion and then moved to Rethymnon and then Kos and now Kalymnos. Kos was the worst, the pure ignorance and racism was unbelievable, Kalymnos was perfect and just curious. Now everyone if not knows me then knows who I am, well most of the people anyway.
@Lurkur5 жыл бұрын
I lived in Cape Verde Islands as a Kid for 3 years and as a white blond kid I experienced everything you talk about, good and bad! 🙂 Every country, culture and race has their share of idiots but most of us are nice! Hope you continue enjoying Iceland. 😊
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
Thanks for sharing your experience and watching the video. I am enjoying Iceland. :-)
@atwservices51325 жыл бұрын
I agree totally and had the same experience being a white minority in a black people´s island for three years. I also have some friends with blonded kids who were raised in Kenya and people there loved to touch their hair. We all have curiosity in other cultures, races and body features and I think it´s ok and part of interaction, multiculturalism and globalization but we all have to learn how to keep it kind, respectful and polite in the same way as when we see an atractive woman or man for us and we don´t jump on them, well, at least the most of us. I do stare to black people but because I find their skin color very attractive.
@jrm27164 жыл бұрын
Some people just look because you look different. Same experience as a pale red head living in Haiti. No difference. Vitamin D, magnesium and CoQ10 are also helpful. Tfs.
@amaliagrassi68705 жыл бұрын
Maybe they were staring because you are both so goddam beautiful.
@privatedonut29145 жыл бұрын
@HaoLaoShi84 Why do you feel the need to say such bullshit? Just because you may find them to be unattractive to you doesn't mean others do.
@princecharles95325 жыл бұрын
HaoLaoShi84 u such a rude person 😡
@wiptide4 жыл бұрын
@HaoLaoShi84 Look at this fine gentleman here. Quick to compliment and never shallow.
@sniffyjoe42294 жыл бұрын
@@southernindigo1973 You don't get to tell people what comes under freedom of speech, he might be a pos for saying something but he has EVERYRIGHT to say it.
@helenpomerleau64554 жыл бұрын
@HaoLaoShi84 Do you think your comment comes under freedom of speech? Being rude is not freedom of speech, it is an excuse for you to be a racist. If you are even an American, I suggest you to look up the 1st adm. Freedom of speech is about the ability to speak put about injustice, w/o punishment.
@vickymartinez85964 жыл бұрын
I actually plan on move there one day. I’m Mexican with dark skin complexion so it’s good to know that being stared at should become a new normal for me lol
@emmanuelbenibo13675 жыл бұрын
This video cannot be classified as anything less than "beautiful". I am practically obsessed with Iceland and her people as well as culture and I intend moving in the "future". Its a beautiful country with the most amazing scenery mixed with simplicity and uniqueness. Its just a place to fall in love with. However, being an African (black) its only natural to be curious how well I would blend in in such a "strange" environment, and this video virtually satisfies about 30% of my curiosity about Iceland 🇮🇸. Anyways, generally I think Icelandics are amazing people who are more "ignorant" towards blacks than "racist". Ps: you ladies are damn beautiful and communicate well. Cherio
@positivewoman54544 жыл бұрын
I’m African American in my 60’s. I grew up around all African Americans. The first time I saw a white person with blue eyes I was mesmerized and still am! I stared and still stare at a pair of beautiful blues. I also love Asian eyes! The almond eye shape is beautiful! I stare! I stare at dark skin I love it the darker the better.
@dragonknightofamiraka36367 ай бұрын
Recessive genes. 🤦🏾♂️
@Berliner76543214 ай бұрын
A few years ago, I met in Italy a woman from the Salomon I Islands. She had very dark skin and curly hair, but her hair was naturally blond, and she had blue eyes! Even better, while she was a bit overweight and looked seriously tired, she had her maybe 10 y.o. daughter with her, who was so energetic, it was obvious she was the reason for her mum being tired! And she looked like a skinny minuature of her mother: same skin, same hair, same eyes. I later learned that the mutation for blond hair has developed independently from Europeans on the Salomon islands.
@Twystedsyxx4 жыл бұрын
As a black woman from America who has seriously considered moving to a Scandinavian country, I was pleased to see this video. It offers a lot of insight and makes me feel like I wouldn't feel so alone. Thank you for this.
@AllThingsIceland4 жыл бұрын
I'm so glad to hear that! Thank you for watching.
@hail_thevictors36252 жыл бұрын
SAME!!! Great video
@Ahria2562 жыл бұрын
I recommend Sweden and Norway over Iceland
@rolfjohansen5376 Жыл бұрын
Scandinavian country, and Iceland are not the same
@livelovely4681 Жыл бұрын
@@Ahria256Agreed
@traceycelestin-radix49214 жыл бұрын
I’ve been to Iceland twice between 2018-2019 and absolutely loved it. I am a Black British woman and didn’t encounter any problems. Definitely a 3rd visit on the horizon. Iceland to me has become my happy place😀Thanks for sharing beautiful ladies 🥰🥰
@bronitawalker74132 жыл бұрын
Is your body real? As you stated previously, that statement probably stemmed from how media portrays black women in hip hop and Hollywood with their major body augmentations to breasts, buttocks, and tummy tucks etc. and also projecting black women as promiscuous. Queen of the Diaspora and Ugandan Princess keep living your best lives in Iceland! I hope to visit one day!
@saral23295 жыл бұрын
"A group called Iceland!?" Ahahahahah so funny :D
@AllThingsIceland5 жыл бұрын
:-)
@LaLaLaXX5 жыл бұрын
Girl the men there look like Vikings. They are so damn handsome. 😍😍😍😍
@LaLaLaXX4 жыл бұрын
@Kingdom Come I date whoever makes me happy. Y'all black men can have a "preference" and so can we. 😌Now bye.
@simohayha60314 жыл бұрын
@@LaLaLaXX ooof don't hurt his ego too much
@LaLaLaXX4 жыл бұрын
@@simohayha6031 😂😂
@rayanomar48324 жыл бұрын
@@LaLaLaXX what r u saying that guy isnt even black hes probably a white racist thats why he says to date your own men
@LaLaLaXX4 жыл бұрын
@@rayanomar4832 yea if it's a white girl. Very rare to see a normal white guy say this.
@davidomarcolwellmijares4035 Жыл бұрын
as a mexican living in united states watching this type of content makes me go and visit iceland! i got my citizenship couple months ago, and after watching you it makes me go and visit it!.
@Etannl4 жыл бұрын
Black American here from Vermont. I grew up here being stared at, and not always with curiosity. I loved Iceland. I wish that I lived there. I loved the warm humanity of people. I was sensible only of being different. Thank you so very much for this video.
@julieaylward61784 жыл бұрын
Old white woman in Vermont, here, with biracial children. You are loved by me and my family.
@ToriHalfon4 жыл бұрын
I love it when black women wear their hair natural, it's so beautiful!