Former addict or not, Brandon’s mom isn’t wrong that this relationship is problematic.
@Oratile-nl9eo Жыл бұрын
And addict or not, she hqs every right as his mother to express her concerns.
@SpicyPlur Жыл бұрын
As an addict she has probably been in some messed up relationships and can call one out when she sees it
@cats_are_love Жыл бұрын
ok true tho
@barbmoore6587 Жыл бұрын
@@SpicyPlurthat's why Brandon has such serious attachment issues...he thinks this unstable abuser girl is normal, because of his raising or there lack of..of course he would be with someone as emotionally abusive and controlling as this Mary
@Undefinedde Жыл бұрын
I agree I'm tired of people trying to throw his mom under the bus for Brandon's horrible decisions he has made he has did everything for her he has changed himself for her. His mom is right and she should be worried about her son
@Quinn_2623 Жыл бұрын
Finally someone who is not sugar coating this situation. You can tell this is going to be an issue the way Mary was looking at his mom like a rude child.
@moniquebish Жыл бұрын
She is a rude child
@marknewton6984 Жыл бұрын
Listen to Mom!
@monejohn9973 Жыл бұрын
She's probably jealous that he has a mom. Remember, she doesn't have no parents.
@lijo4518 Жыл бұрын
She's use to getting her way...now a female is coming in telling her what to do
@racharina Жыл бұрын
She is playing the intimidating card. She is awful.
@SylisDaGoldenPeach Жыл бұрын
The mom is saying everything Brandon wants to say but is too scared too 😂😂😂😂😂
@huni26 Жыл бұрын
Lol yea I can see that
@WafflePancakes1314 Жыл бұрын
Too scared to*
@katherine4283 Жыл бұрын
Finally someone who doesn’t fall for Mary’s b.s! 😅 Brandan mom is being 100 💯 with Mary and the tears won’t work on her 😅
@cookie22100 Жыл бұрын
I’m sorry, but Brandon isn’t innocent either. Mary is f-ing crazy, but Brandon is broken too, thanks to his post-drug addict mom.
@zeusapollo8688 Жыл бұрын
I think you can only stay six months on a tourist visa
@justinthomas5512 Жыл бұрын
Let's go 🤘🤘 Finally someone is going to crap on Mary's parade.
@SpicyPlur Жыл бұрын
@@cricketstarr1489the show is called 90 day fiance: th other way 😂
@llamalegacy6752 Жыл бұрын
takes one to know one
@reena808 Жыл бұрын
Brandon is immature & dumb but Mary is straight up evil & manipulative fr
@lovem7635 Жыл бұрын
Marry is yes evil
@lydiayork9451 Жыл бұрын
Brandon is like that boiling frog…
@nimloc1670 Жыл бұрын
It's like the worst combination you could ask for.
@beardzgorski8397 Жыл бұрын
just dumb... but he has trauma from bad parenting. sooo mary is best choice i guess
@ralucanelson5686 Жыл бұрын
@reena808 exactly my thoughts! She looks like a little demon, when she sitting on that Buffalo 😂😈She’s just missing her horns, because the looks on her face, screaming Evil lives here😂🤦🏼♀️Brandon made the mistake of his life getting together with her, and especially knocking her up🤦🏼♀️
@shannonm.4087 Жыл бұрын
Mary is every mother's nightmare.
@marknewton6984 Жыл бұрын
Mary is scary.
@YourSuccubus Жыл бұрын
Everyones* Fixed it for you
@painhaus4110 Жыл бұрын
💯
@justicesmith-stevenson9920 Жыл бұрын
If she comes to the u.s we can expect a trip down a flight or 3 if stairs for Mary 😅
@lydiayork9451 Жыл бұрын
Dealing with this now. Definitely a nightmare. Nobody deserves to be treated that way.
@bnlatin23 Жыл бұрын
I do have to agree , Mary definitely manipulated him into moving there and getting her pregnant. He was easily manipulated because of his childhood and his mom was at fault for that . Mary plays the victim all the time but she creates her own problems , she is very selfish . However , I think the mom is trying to look out for her sons best interests now .
@dubyabalthazar4598 Жыл бұрын
She very much creates her own problems
@ja5435 Жыл бұрын
Hello Brandon isn’t the father
@hospitable_ghost Жыл бұрын
Brandan isn't blameless here. He's old enough to know unprotected sex = baby. He said they were trying AKA he's equally as responsible for the baby as Mary. A bad childhood doesn't deprive you of the common sense that a bad situation isn't made better by having a baby.
@problematicprincess6270 Жыл бұрын
@@dubyabalthazar4598this ! I don't think Mary truly loves bradon I don't think she's capable of loving anyone but herself. If you truly loved someone you wouldn't be so willing to throw them away you'd tough it out and try but she just.. doesn't. She's to rude and selfish to love anyone.
@Zeroshiki Жыл бұрын
Brandon is a grown man and made his own choices. Having sex and impregnating her isn't something he was strapped down and forced to do. She didn't put a chain around his neck and drag him to the Philippines by force. People need to seriously learn to take accountability for their own actions instead of blaming everyone else. Mary is no angel, but neither is Brandon. He chose this life.
@almasantiago1100 Жыл бұрын
The fact that Mary will be raising another human being is scary. I feel sorry for that baby, being born into poverty with two emotionally immature dummies for parents
@AlishaOutridge Жыл бұрын
Me too. What could these 2 possibly teach this kid other than a lesson of how to not live your life
@lovem7635 Жыл бұрын
@@AlishaOutridgeshe is the worst
@spookyim Жыл бұрын
Her reactions scare me. I fear that baby will be abused when it gets too much for her… :( praying for the baby
@jingleb4058 Жыл бұрын
Two ki
@Pandagurl218 Жыл бұрын
Paul and karine 2.0 and we know exactly how that ended up
@inkedmomblu1510 Жыл бұрын
Mary doesn’t dislike his mom for being an addict. She dislikes his mom because she’s a female. Mary is insecure. She doesn’t want brandan to hang w his mom or sister because they are women…then she shouldn’t hang out w her grandpa because he’s a man. Either the rule goes both ways or not at all. Mary needs help so she can heal and mature and be good woman and mother
@mollybrolly4717 Жыл бұрын
WHAT about ALL her males friends in general?!?!.... There's NO GOOD IN THAT DEMONIC SOUL!!!...
@Rootiga Жыл бұрын
She is only "insecure" because she cheated on Brandon the entirety of their relationship. Witnessed this behavior million times before, only people who have cheated either in their current relationship or past ones, are THIS obsessed and worried about their current partner cheating.
@monejohn9973 Жыл бұрын
She's probably jealous that he has a mom. Remember, she doesn't have no parents.
@jab6223 Жыл бұрын
@@Rootigaso if Mary cheated it’s probably not brandon’s kid
@painhaus4110 Жыл бұрын
Big double standard with this girl.
@Badmomsclub Жыл бұрын
My friend is from the Philippines… he said Brandon should RUN!!😂😂😂. She and her family are taking him for a ride!!! 😂😂😂😂
@lesliecure Жыл бұрын
Right.
@med-of4gs Жыл бұрын
Your friend is right 😂
@NghtMonsterАй бұрын
He's also riding her so, got her pregnant and married her. Smh. It's not only in the Philippines this happens.
@vickielawson-ur1it Жыл бұрын
His Mother is 💯 right about Mary!!!!
@lovem7635 Жыл бұрын
They way she was looking at his mom she is her guest and she is the one to compelling about his mom very disrespectful he was nice to her family she is nasty
@Therezumee92 Жыл бұрын
I'm sorry but I hate how childhood trauma is always used as an escape. Yeah, your mom was a drug addict, but why would you spend 24/7 on a videocall with an insecure, crying brat and send all your hard earned money to her. Then arrive and knock her up when there is no income. I understand the deep trauma of chasing love and all, but at some point you just have to admit you're stupid and stop putting everything on adults who failed you. You're an adult yourself. He's miserable with her, in fact due to his childhood he should have known better. His mother can't change the mistakes she made, but she's there now, all he has to do is listen to her.
@davealvarado4620 Жыл бұрын
💯
@lisah8070 Жыл бұрын
Exactly-
@ShyanneSperandio24 Жыл бұрын
Beautifully said!! ❤
@blobbertmcblob4888 Жыл бұрын
Tell me you've never been through a severely traumatic experience without telling me =)
@A.Lost.Astronaut Жыл бұрын
i aqgree compeletly its always used as an excuse to not better ones self, if anything it should be giving them a reason to change not as an excuse not to change Iand shouldn't be a hard concept to understand
@Sunny-tc3ul Жыл бұрын
The audacity to call his mom a mean girl when she’s the real mean girl.
@annconforti9294 Жыл бұрын
You forgot calling her a b1tch more than once!
@laurenr9659 Жыл бұрын
Mary's real issue with Brandan's mom is that she knows she can't talk trash or bully Brandan with his mom around because she will get with her. Mary kept talking about how the mom was looking at her, but Mary was the one with daggers in her eyes. I think the mom was just reacting to Mary's energy. If Mary had been more pleasant, I think Brandan's mom would have relaxed. She has a right to be concerned with Mary's behavior. Also, Mary has NO concept of money. Why is Brandan just letting her run their finances into the ground?
@wendycarr2019 Жыл бұрын
I think Brandan is asking Mary about money because he doesn’t understand the rate of exchange and he’s whipped.
@laurenr9659 Жыл бұрын
@@wendycarr2019 He said he didn't want to cause an argument. I'm sure this stems from his promise to her grandfather in the last episode, and we all know how argumentative Mary is.
@Meep413 Жыл бұрын
I don't think its fair to say Mary has no concept of money, she's the only one coming up with ways to bring income in their household so far
@justforviewing2 Жыл бұрын
@@wendycarr2019 What is there to understand about exchange rates?!? $1 US = X in pesos, and x pesos= $X US. That's it. The simplest math in the world. . .
@ChildofGod-g8f Жыл бұрын
Brandon's mom may have had her problems but she's come back a fiercely protective mom and i think that's wonderful.
@beckyroberts8256 Жыл бұрын
So do I proves how strong she is
@93deadpool Жыл бұрын
I hope Angela sets Mary straight. Just cause Angela had a past addiction, doesn't mean she didn't love her son unconditionally at the base of it all. Mary's love for Brandon is HIGHLY conditional.
@tehKrickuu Жыл бұрын
as a filipino, Mary is a total shame to women in our country. she's what you call 1 in a million.
@lovem7635 Жыл бұрын
@@tehKrickuuwere is she coming from your country people are hard working respectful generous I never leaved or Beng over there but I worked every thing food they love to share with coworkers she doesn't represent you all
@JaceHarnage Жыл бұрын
I'm sick of Mary. Really sick of her! Her insecurities and crying to get her way have gotten old. Brandan has no job, and they're pretty unrealistic about their store. Mary not wanting Brandan to not have any contact with his family is 😂unreasonable. Mary manipulated Brandan to send her and her family and now he's caught up in a situation that may be tough for him to get out of. Run, Brandan, RUN!!!
@Jerseyboondocks Жыл бұрын
Well too late. They had a baby together unless I guess he'll leave her and go back to the US but I can't see him doing that
@ja5435 Жыл бұрын
Mary gets jealous when he’s nice to his mother. Hugs his mother.
@elizabethmadron1336 Жыл бұрын
She's a psycho. Imagine what kind of mother she will be. Especially if it is a girl. Mary complaining that his mother is a mean girl is rich! Mary is the Queen Of Mean Girls.
@JessiQT17 Жыл бұрын
I hope they have a daughter 😂
@Shitsngigz Жыл бұрын
@@JessiQT17 I feel bad for their poor child..
@jazzygirl41408 ай бұрын
@@ShitsngigzWhy ? So Mary can hate her and abuse her ?
@SkyeFoxx_15 Жыл бұрын
He's been there for six months and she's five months pregnant.. great job guys, she really wasted no time trapping him to make sure he can't leave her
@jab6223 Жыл бұрын
I doubt it’s his
@Yummynomnom123 Жыл бұрын
me too man @@jab6223
@snooganslestat2030 Жыл бұрын
Jeeeeze
@lovem7635 Жыл бұрын
She did it on purpose to hold him
@donnawentz7079 Жыл бұрын
After having an awful “mom” like his, he should have taken and used birth control to make sure Mary didn’t get pregnant. I don’t like either women. His mom was so rude to remark about the area they live in and the poverty.
@spacelunatris Жыл бұрын
As a Filipino, a grand wedding is not a cultural thing here. If you have enough money for a grand wedding then it's okay. If not then do with what you have. Kinda annoyed me how she generalized it as a cultural thing.
@annconforti9294 Жыл бұрын
She lies to him on the regular!
@beardzgorski8397 Жыл бұрын
EVERY one I have met from the Philippine's say that, since i was a kid. EVERY single person... Even now, in WA, TX, Fla, and even here in , Korea they say that a HUGE wedding is expected and is a cultural thing even for the poor... Maybe just ppl in the military?
@cindyabel1010 Жыл бұрын
True. We had a simple wedding with less than 15 relatives around.
@shairaabshire Жыл бұрын
I think its a class thing more than culture. Only the middle class and upper class care about weddings in the Philippines.
@beardzgorski8397 Жыл бұрын
ok that could be true.... @@shairaabshire
@problematicprincess6270 Жыл бұрын
God i love Brandon's mom finally someone who isn't falling for Mary's bs and innocent crybaby act 🙌 ❤
@Rootiga Жыл бұрын
She is only "insecure" because she cheated on Brandon the entirety of their relationship. Witnessed this behavior million times before, only people who have cheated either in their current relationship, or past ones, are THIS obsessed and worried about their current partner cheating.
@avelazquez1157 Жыл бұрын
Do you think the baby is actually his ? Or was she pregnant when he arrived?
@MelodyEspinoza-v1y Жыл бұрын
Weren’t married she did. I didn’t see that part. It was it before he got there after he got there is she pregnant by Brandon this is a girls too much.
@Undefinedde Жыл бұрын
Mary lies so much no I don't think the baby is his. If the baby is his she and her grandparents I believe planned this to trap Brandon he never questions her he obediently does what she wants him to do. Mary lies so much it's highly possible the baby isn't his and I never believed she was a Virgin Mary and her family thought he had money and that he was going to continue letting them use him for the meal ticket free loaders
@coo4231 Жыл бұрын
My ex accused me constantly but I genuinely don't think he was cheating. He went thru my phone nightly while i slept, never found anything etc...I wasn't even allowed to go to my AA meetings because I couldn't talk to other men. I really dont think he was cheating tho, just insecure and crazy. Maybe I'm delusional tho 😂
@beckyroberts8256 Жыл бұрын
Facts
@LanDominiq Жыл бұрын
His mom is being the bigger person. She has not disrespected the woman who abuses her son. Her being honest IS being the bigger person imo. I hoped she would curse that evil girl out!!
@johnsilva1225 Жыл бұрын
God I love this woman. Finally standing up to the brat who manipulates everyone. Brandon is going to live a life of misery and poverty and so is that child they have no money no job and are always fighting good luck Brandon
@lovem7635 Жыл бұрын
He should live he back send her money other why's she will destroyed him he have to look after for his mental health every month better far away send her money for the child
@hughmungous775 Жыл бұрын
Mary should have given his mom a hug, apologized, and asked to start fresh to build a better relationship for Brandon and their child. I guess that would require Mary to actually see the fault in her actions and not be selfish, though. It's pretty sad because I bet his mom would have been totally receptive to that and agreed. Would have been so good for Brandon, too. Or he could just sit down and talk to both of them and say that they need to work it out and treat each other respectfully since they are family. Leaving Mary in charge of how the relationship with his mom goes is a terrible idea.
@Leftiesarelosingit Жыл бұрын
She's never had to apoligize foe anything in her life, she ain't gonna start now lol
@akaLaBrujaRoja Жыл бұрын
I wouldn’t want a hug from Mary.
@hughmungous775 Жыл бұрын
@akaLaBrujaRoja Yeah, I wouldn't, and I'm sure that Brandon's mom doesn't really want one either 😂 She would probably accept it, though, for the sake of her relationship with her son and grandchild. Especially if she felt it was genuine and that Mary really meant it.
@hughmungous775 Жыл бұрын
@CRS-fe2zj Right, it's very obvious that Mary doesn't feel bad for the things she does that hurt other people and, therefore, never apologizes. Why no one ever calls her out on it is a mystery to me. Especially Brandon! He doesn't want to upset her, so he backs down and allows her to be "in the right," but she's always upset with him anyway 😆
@Leftiesarelosingit Жыл бұрын
@hughmungous775 lmaoo you're so right ✅️. She's gonna be arguing about something anyway atleast make it count. Dude is always walking in egg shells. It's only a matter if time before he chews her out and when he does she won't waste any time letting everyone know.
@RodrickMarsMoon Жыл бұрын
Holy shit, I haven't been that hyped for a clash between two rivals since Sasuke was preparing himself to fight Itachi 🙀😵!!!
@sofiamarinmolina9063 Жыл бұрын
Itachi always wins
@PhantomMonkey2008 Жыл бұрын
It’s never right to cheat on someone, but I understand why someone would cheat on Mary. It was probably their only way to get out of the relationship. Sorry that was salty, I just really don’t like the side of Mary we see on the show.
@lovem7635 Жыл бұрын
I think she is one of the worst
@Zeroshiki Жыл бұрын
How is cheating the only way to leave a relationship ? A simple _"I don't want to be with you anymore"_ would suffice.
@PhantomMonkey2008 Жыл бұрын
@@Zeroshiki I’m not saying it’s a good way or an ethical way. Sometimes when people get trapped by someone who is obsessive and controlling they will take drastic measures to piss that person off to finally leave the relationship. It’s a result of feeling so trapped by someone that is abusing you. Like I said, not a good way, but when people are in codependent relationships their mindsets can change because of hopelessness. Plus, simply moving away to escape the crazy isn’t always a feasible option for people.
@beckyroberts8256 Жыл бұрын
She has cheated on him that's why she can't trust him
@AlternateHistory Жыл бұрын
Mary seems to be narcissistic. Her mind games remind me of my ex who was called Marie... I also had some childhood issues and still suffer from some trauma... but I never got her pregnant. I am free of that demon, she made me depressed and I had to go to therapy. Brandon should run... Mary is not in love with Brandon, but she loves to have control over him. Her lack of accountability, her faces, her playing the victim, her devalueing Brandon constantly... Poor child...
@lovem7635 Жыл бұрын
He should go back send her money for the child she will destroyed him $100 usd every month until she will be 18 years old visit between and there it hurts to see him abused and used
@joannharrington2279 Жыл бұрын
It seems like Mary is just beating him down. If he questions her she turns it on him to make it his fault. His mother is going to unload on Mary however. Branden won't leave...she has his baby.
@problematicprincess6270 Жыл бұрын
Good. Mary sucks she's a selfish immature bitch.
@traceyarnaud8433 Жыл бұрын
Or someone’s baby
@juliusmaehlich3138 Жыл бұрын
Is it really his baby.
@AlishaOutridge Жыл бұрын
He should ditch Mary and take the baby with him to the US.
@problematicprincess6270 Жыл бұрын
@@AlishaOutridge or he can just move back home by himself...
@shayne2954 Жыл бұрын
To be fair, Mary was complimenting his mom when she said she’s so white. That’s a compliment for us Filipinos because we like lighter complexion
@inkedmomblu1510 Жыл бұрын
His mom is SPOT ON!
@xletragedyx Жыл бұрын
Now that she's sober
@prettyxbonez96 Жыл бұрын
He obviously doesn't take the advice and applies it until it's too late 🙄
@ejayemm Жыл бұрын
Mary doesn't want Brandon and his mom being close bc she knows if he tells her how Mary behaves, she'll tell him to leave her
@shelbylue Жыл бұрын
I’m so sad for the baby - they have SO much trauma from their childhoods that they will pass DIRECTLY on to the child. 😢 Heartbreaking for everyone. I pray someone can step up and become a cycle breaker of all this suffering.
@colleenpeck63478 ай бұрын
Adoption is the only selfless decision.
@clauduchiha Жыл бұрын
Mary’s face is absolutely saying it all she’s so crazy for playing the victim 😂😂
@lovem7635 Жыл бұрын
And she is compiling about his mom she come all the way she is her guest no respect she is the worst unhappy person
@JENELLEPERALTA-f4u Жыл бұрын
That’s how manipulative person is! Cry cry, feeling victimized
@BluemoonLacrymosa Жыл бұрын
I don’t think Mary has any” best interest” in mind for Brandon. The fact that she’s still manipulates him with tears to isolate him speaks volumes. Her wanting him not to be around. His mama sister is not for his benefit. If it were then she wouldn’t be so jealous about every single woman. He comes in contact with him, and while Brandon may still have the lingering trauma from his life that’s affecting his decisions there’s still a good amount. We have to take responsibility for his stupid decisions.
@angellight9500 Жыл бұрын
Brandon's mom is 100% correct and she isn't going to be troubled by Mary's "asthma" attacks to manipulate her. :-).
@ProfessorTakatoPalm Жыл бұрын
FINALLY!!! Someone who calls out Mary and isn’t effected by her crying. You go miss! You’re messing with Mama bear Mary, your in trouble now
@morisama8838 Жыл бұрын
Mary definitely wasn't making fun of her complexion. Light skin is a beauty standard in the Philippines.
@hzlcory Жыл бұрын
You don’t exactly say that either way cause it sounds dumb.
@hospitable_ghost Жыл бұрын
I'm so tired of people making excuses for Brandan in the comments on these videos. 😪 He's old enough to know that bringing a baby into a shitty situation won't make it better and yet he was actively trying to get her pregnant. And now he wants to be all lazy and sad about it. These two are equally messy. Mary isn't the only "villian".
@westbrook3371 Жыл бұрын
Well said
@cnsm5060 Жыл бұрын
Brandan is dumb but Mary is for sure the villain
@fupalicious843 Жыл бұрын
Exactly. I just got married and want a baby so bad and so does my husband but we are waiting for at least a year to try getting pregnant because we are moving to another country and wait til we are settled and financially stable.
@basicallyno17224 ай бұрын
Mary’s behavior is very controlling and abusive. Brandan is just shooting himself in the foot because he knew this for 2 years they were live-streaming each other
@bettym6219 Жыл бұрын
I highly doubt she has 10 friends. Period.
@larryp3641 Жыл бұрын
In Asian culture, being white or lighter skinned is a sign of wealth and beauty. They use whitening cream in all skin products
@huni26 Жыл бұрын
I've heard of this. Darker skinned Asians are poor and work in the sun . That's why their skin is darker. The pale ones apparently don't work in the sun.
@stoney-51999 Жыл бұрын
I find that to be rather unfortunate:(
@KSS5 Жыл бұрын
Overall true but def varies based on culture though, like some regions take it to extreme lookism.
@PrincessAfrica3 Жыл бұрын
How ignorant
@fawnieee Жыл бұрын
In eastern Asia it means you're wealthy enough to have to not work the fields and that has maintained. But in places like India, colorism spawned from British colonization. It's very unfortunate.
@KagomeYasha023 Жыл бұрын
Mary feels powerless when she can’t manipulate someone so she goes straight into playing the victim mode.
@jeng5306 Жыл бұрын
Either way Brandon has to move to back to the U.S. for child support.
@megandavis987 Жыл бұрын
Wait wdym?
@dubyabalthazar4598 Жыл бұрын
Screw that..move back to USA n don't pay shit
@BlueAmerican26 Жыл бұрын
He can't make a living in PH. They will be living in poverty. @@megandavis987
@jeng5306 Жыл бұрын
@megandavis987 He can’t legally work in the Philippines yet due to his Visa stipulations. He’d have to go to the U.S. to work to get any sort of income for the baby.
@DajiaStar Жыл бұрын
I don’t know if there is child support laws in the Philippines. He could leave and never look back. He can bail on this mess if he wanted to (not saying he should). Mary put herself in a vulnerable situation by getting pregnant by an American who does not have Philippine citizenship, yet she is behaving like she has the upper hand.
@debbieangel9376 Жыл бұрын
Enter Brandan's mom and giving Mary what she deserves, the cold shoulder and rightfully so
@GoneColoring Жыл бұрын
I don’t feel like “woah she’s so white” is laughing and making fun of her complexion that’s a bit malice to characterize it that way in my opinion. Especially considering in Asian culture white/pale skin is a sign of beauty.
@Leftiesarelosingit Жыл бұрын
Not always
@user-mp5ww2bt7q Жыл бұрын
Are you crazy??? She did it in a rude way, not an impressed way! Brandan had that skin tone and still has the same skin tone, she never says anything about that. Imagine a “white” person had said to a “black” person, wow, she is so black… 😱 that would have been seen as race discrimination and the world would have been out to get mary. But you think it’s ok, just because it’s reversed racism? God, that’s so offensive to me as mixed race.
@KagomeYasha023 Жыл бұрын
@@user-mp5ww2bt7qno such this as reverse racism it’s just plain old racism no matter which race is being the racist
@Shitsngigz Жыл бұрын
Mary has a complex.
@SkyOfAria Жыл бұрын
In Asian countries, mentioning someone's skin complexion is very normal and most of the time, not offensive at all. I am not saying that what Mary said was alright, I would be offended if someone outright pointed out my skin color. It is NOT ok what she said. I am just saying that Mary didn't call Brandan's mom "so white" to be bluntly racist or rude as comments like that are unfortunately normalized in Asian countries.
@uggrrah101 Жыл бұрын
18:42 Brandan's mom is NOT looking at Brandan, she's looking at Mary and be like: "Look at this b*tch's face"...My son is F*cked!!! LOL
@boosqueezy2418 Жыл бұрын
#team brandan’s mom, all the way
@kenterminateddq5311 Жыл бұрын
17:45 Brendan's mom isn't wrong, folks. Frankly, Brendan needs to listen to his mom more often, especially before marrying Mary and ESPECIALLY before bringing another person into this world. I think Brendan's mom is the only ANGELA that I like and respect in 90 Day history.
@makreviews2146 Жыл бұрын
I understand what you’re saying but his mother doesn’t deserve respect. She also has been a drug addict his whole life and he was taken away from her because of it. She hasn’t exactly been a responsible parent. She’s partly the reason he’s been attracted to a toxic woman. He doesn’t know what a healthy relationship and healthy partner look like because of his parents.
@kenterminateddq5311 Жыл бұрын
@@makreviews2146 I didn't know that. But I rather respect Brendan's mom than Angela from The Last Resort.
@LanDominiq Жыл бұрын
@kenterminateddq5311 as you should, respect her. I've never been on drugs but my mother in law is. Branden's mom absolutely deserves respect for trying to do the right thing and not keep making excuses. He said he had a mom until a certain age. She cares enough to keep trying to be better. I have no respect for the people who continue to put drugs before their kids.
@lovem7635 Жыл бұрын
@@makreviews2146move on from her past mistakes she is human now she there for him so
@mullen25 Жыл бұрын
they're living in poverty and having babies isn't helping that.
@jab6223 Жыл бұрын
Mary had to trap him even further or was already knocked up before he got there
@colleenpeck63478 ай бұрын
He needs a DNA paternity test BEFORE he marries her.
@evagilkerson2288 Жыл бұрын
Any woman that gets jealous over him being around his mom and sister is crazy and that is exactly what Mary is
@AlisonRodriguez-x9c Жыл бұрын
I’m glad his mother call her out 😂😂 been waiting for this moment to come ..
@melissag.428 Жыл бұрын
Are there no jobs available in her area? Brandon needs an upstanding male figure in his life. TLC should really provide some of these people with mentorship, therapy and life coaching. They can afford it. Also, Mary can sweep just fine while she’s pregnant. She’s one-handing it. 😂
@Wormlife69 Жыл бұрын
TLC want them to be as dysfunctional as possible because that's what makes people want to watch. That's why I'm here anyway 😆
@1Kaileegirl Жыл бұрын
2 babies having a baby :( Brandons mother is absolutely right when she said, "Sometimes love is not enough" Very true words
@akaLaBrujaRoja Жыл бұрын
You’re wrong, there’s nothing immature about Brandon’s mom not wanting to hug Mary, he was a jerk for putting both of them in that awkward situation just to make himself feel better and pretend everything is just fine. And a lot of people don’t hug unless they’re really close to that person, and definitely wouldn’t want to hug someone they loathe. No one should be shamed for refusing to be pressured into unwanted physical contact from a person who makes their skin crawl.
@Bre-o6i Жыл бұрын
If someone fed me frog without my knowledge I’d be so angry 😠
@kelsielovesbbu Жыл бұрын
thank you for these videos bc i cannot force myself to watch these actual episodes. many people go through addiction... you can't blame your parent for your decisions of deciding to move to philippines for a manipulative whiny ass girl who doesnt respect you. thats a personal journey
@lovem7635 Жыл бұрын
His mom she made her mistakes but now she wants to be there for him that nasty ungrateful have no respect for her guest his mom he was respectful to her family he should go back home and send her money for the child other why's mentally she will destroyed him he need to be far away as much as he can send every month money $100 usd it will go far over there visit her when he can his child.
@karabartley Жыл бұрын
Lmao Marys family lied about the frog meat 😂😂 why does it not surprise me the apple didnt fall far from a tree.
@SuperSaverPlaysSPG Жыл бұрын
Yea, I would not move to a country like that for a woman like Mary. No thank you!
@problematicprincess6270 Жыл бұрын
"Wow, she's so white" yeah 🙄 no shit. She's the mother of your husband what did you expect??? Like.. what ???
@cmiller415 Жыл бұрын
The cell phone thing sounds pretty sketchy. Why wouldn’t the people buying the cell phones from her just save the extra $18 and order them themselves? I don’t get it.
@bLueberrySnatcheLpi3 Жыл бұрын
Remember Jihoon? I’m thinking it’s something like that.
@PPE10210 Жыл бұрын
@@bLueberrySnatcheLpi3Didn't Jihoon get in trouble for that?
@JoseHernandez-ql8vw Жыл бұрын
Bc they are drug dealers.
@justforviewing2 Жыл бұрын
@@PPE10210 Yes.
@Immaleave.mp3 Жыл бұрын
Following this couples story through your videos has been enough to know something. The moment I saw the word pregnant in a title I knew he unfortunately sealed his fate. So yes it’s too late.
@kapkai368 Жыл бұрын
Your bird ever looks at you like this, The relationship's been over for a while 17:36 Brandon's mum needs a title belt right now, She wasn't a mother then but she's being a mother now 🎉
@ChrisRamsayy Жыл бұрын
I'm in the Philippines, got married in July and I feel in such a similar situation. Wish I could have met Brandon since not many people relate to my situation
@lijo4518 Жыл бұрын
Mary needs to wipe that look off her face...Brandon might be a pushover but I don't think his mamma is. Someone needs to say it if not Brandon 😳
@mikachu9389 Жыл бұрын
Not siding on Mary or anyone, but I think when she said "Oh, she's so white!" She's just probably amazed at how pale Brandan's Mom complexion is. Especially around the province area where most people are tan skinned, just a reminder that most Filipinos are morena.
@davicool4284 Жыл бұрын
And you have to wonder how that happened... With open arms or at the point of a gun?
@Cyhcg5uhgb Жыл бұрын
@@davicool4284sorry, I don't understand what your comment has to do with the original comment. Could you explain?
@davicool4284 Жыл бұрын
@@Cyhcg5uhgb "Just a reminder that most Filipinos are morena." How did the populace of the Philippine islands come to have morena children? How did that transpire? Did the Spanish colonizers date them, buy them flowers, marry the native women and then honeymoon in Hawaii or DID the the Spanish colonizers take the native Women by FORCE because they could at the point of a gun? You tell me... If you know the history/ nature of colonization, then the answer should be simple.
@davicool4284 Жыл бұрын
@@Cyhcg5uhgb and by the way Pidgey I loved you in the Mike Tyson Mystery Cartoons - you showed great acting ability.
@JoseHernandez-ql8vw Жыл бұрын
Mary is jealous because his mom has a more beautiful skin tone.
@doingtime20 Жыл бұрын
Amazing commentary man! Everything is on point and you even introduce some humor. I'm glad I found your channel. Keep it up!
@primalplasma Жыл бұрын
It doesn't matter what Brandan thinks or wants because his life is no longer his own. Mary is the mother of his child. If he ever wants to be with his kid and be happy, he will need to do whatever she wants. He has no power in the relationship. He is completely outnumbered.
@lisah8070 Жыл бұрын
Not until DNA-
@AlishaOutridge Жыл бұрын
I don't think anyone would blame him for leaving but he should just probably take the kid with him
@primalplasma Жыл бұрын
@@AlishaOutridge I just found out some interesting things about child custody laws in the Phillipines. First, unlike in America, the father and mother have equal right to seek child custody. However, the court will consider factors like the child's age, health, relationships with parents, and which parent can better provide emotionally and financially. I doubt Brandan would win a custody case against Mary with those conditions being considered. Also, even worse, divorce is illegal in The Phillipines! So if Brandan marries Mary, he will have a hard time breaking away from her, child or no child. I wonder if he even realizes how family law is in The Phillipines? This just makes me believe even more that Brandan is pretty much doomed to be in The Phillipines for the rest of his life, and Mary will be a part of his life forever.
@Yolonder-jf1sn Жыл бұрын
She see through Mary period I wish Brandon could see how muliputive she is
@darealveezy1267 Жыл бұрын
Are we sure that Brandon is the daddy?
@dollymae3383 Жыл бұрын
Probably nor. Bet she had a ton of online boyfriends, but she picked him because he's the dumbest
@derekintheph8935 Жыл бұрын
It's actually belonging to the littlest guy friend lol
@Nightwing93 Жыл бұрын
@@derekintheph8935how do u know
@derekintheph8935 Жыл бұрын
@@Nightwing93 oh u know because of how smug he is
@railfan_neon Жыл бұрын
I don't understand why would Mary and her family feed Brandon frog and then lie to him about it 😢 Like did the guy not spend his entire savings to get you guys a solid roof over your heads? Seriously I think the whole family is absolutely ungrateful for what Brandon did for them!
@ariamason9324 Жыл бұрын
They outsmarted him that's for sure
@louisahelbers Жыл бұрын
Can someone explain to me why TLC is keeping toxic people in the show . Why are they promoting narcissistic abuse.
@louisahelbers Жыл бұрын
@@joywebster2678 is not just them We also have Gino and Jasmine Sarper and Shekina Rob and Sofie Kim and Tj Danielle and Yohan And so much more
@Zeroshiki Жыл бұрын
It increases their rating and, therefore, their profits. TLC hasn't had morals in a long time, almost since its inception.
@szspringman Жыл бұрын
I hope he wakes up and gets away from Mary. I do feel sorry for her, she seems so unhappy and insecure. Neither of them should be in a relationship until they work on their own issues. Getting married and having a child is only going to be more stress for everyone.
@WafflePancakes1314 Жыл бұрын
I don’t feel sorry for Mary, tf gtfo
@Chitownhomestead Жыл бұрын
Mary is nightmare fuel. She hasn't smiled or laughed...EVER!!!!
@ubiform Жыл бұрын
Im so glad that somebody is going to help Brandon from that filipina woman!!!!
@nellyzamot857 Жыл бұрын
Is this girl kidding? I hope his mother puts her in her place and real quick before she shows her true colors and then blames it on her pregnancy.
@Cyhcg5uhgb Жыл бұрын
Wait, wait, wait. "She's so white" is often a compliment. In many countries, including the Filipines being very pale or light skinned is considered beautifull. I understand how that comes across as an off hand remark to a lot of western people, but in the Filipines (and many Asian countries) that is considered a huge compliment.
@btwidk5945 Жыл бұрын
Frog does taste like chicken but a bit mild in flavor. But he should not lie about it.
@sukashi7234 Жыл бұрын
now first off Mary isn't even showing for anyone to speak of her being pregnant...the reason why the town is talking bout them is because they see with this american man wondering what is he doing her with her.. and why Mary chose to step outside her village to find a mate... So Nolo or Lolo whatever his name is can stop the lying bout the everyone is talking bout Mary being pregnant and how embarrassing to the family...the only way they would know that she is pregnant is that they mentioned it to someone outside of the family.. Brandon sorry to say but when they saw you all they heard was chi chi ching... but his chi chi ching isn't what they thought it would be..they really thought they hit it big especially since he was able to send them money to build them a new home...now they are realizing it that he is just as broke as they are,,,,I honestly believe if she didn't get pregnant they would have found away to make him return back to the states and Mary would never speak to him again...
@seawhorse9866 Жыл бұрын
I understand Brandon’s mom wants to guide him in the right path, but she hast to also understand that she made bad mistakes in the past and he’s also going to make his own mistakes in. She just hast to deal with it. You can’t abandon your children and reappear in their lives, and tell them what to do. It sucks to just sit back and let them figure it out but that’s what she hast to do just take a step back
@sarahlupisan3561 Жыл бұрын
As a Filipino, it's disheartening when I see a biased viewpoint of the Philippines, especially from a TV network. The Philippines is a beautiful country and the remark Mary said about Brandon's mother, "Oh she's so white." is a compliment not a rude remark. Unfortunately, there's a lot of colorism in the Philippines, so being called "so white", is a compliment.
@himangidayal414 Жыл бұрын
This❤
@AjGaminghub02 Жыл бұрын
💯
@IvanaGirl Жыл бұрын
I like Mary I think she’s nice, they’re both just immature. I don’t understand why everyone is talking so badly about her in the comments. She’s a nice girl who’s afraid of being abandoned. That’s all
@ceciliaramos3726 Жыл бұрын
Your comment of third world country expect poverty is that do not generalize we are a developing country and you only seen a tiny part of our rich philippines
@WafflePancakes1314 Жыл бұрын
And it shouldn’t be
@RozettaVyper Жыл бұрын
The white skin comment from both women was actually a subtle jab at one another. I love it. Here's why it is. Take it from a woman. 1. When Mary says it, she is showing insecurity and wanting Brandon to feel a sort of guilt from it. Like a sort of second hand embarrassment because he knows how hard it is there. In the Philippines and in most Asian countries, there is a belief that white skin means "you work indoors and live a much better life" where's tan/dark skin means you are poor, working outside in the rice fields. Businesspeople have white skin. Farmers have brown. So Mary is essentially saying "your mom's never had to work hard. Look at her, she's lazy. Just like you" and of course the insecurity "I bet she doesn't have to worry...It's not fair" 2. Now when the Mom does it, it's like a reverse attack on Mary and maybe a bit on Brandon which is awesome. That is likely the second reason why Mary glares at her. So what Mom is essentially saying subtly is "Mary you're poor and it shows. You will never hide it because. He however can hide it" I don't doubt that Brandon's mom did research on Filipino culture before visiting him UNLIKE BRANDON. She has to since she's preparing to go to war with Mary. His mom gives me the feel that she is one of those women that look up your weaknesses and use it against you. She is basically increasing Mary's insecurity. That's another reason why you see Mary's expression get a bit worse after the mom makes that comment. Women are very subtle with our attacks. We aim for the mind and soul, not the body.
@valcavie Жыл бұрын
The she’s so white comment is supposed to be a compliment! The fairer you are the better in the Philippines
@kristenclark82 Жыл бұрын
I find it very hard to watch them. It’s a train wreck and has been from the beginning. Any relationship where you have to stay on the phone 24 hours a day (quite literally) to stave off a fight is not healthy. Then her lying about her internet being out etc. we’ve still not gotten into what really happened with her dropping out of school too! She is a massive red flag. 🚩
@Juliasblues Жыл бұрын
Omg, the amount some poor guys put up with, it's so sad ! Mary doesn't even want to try with his Mom. He wants to 'help' Mary, because she's so screwed up, like his Mom was, growing up, that's I think. She 'needs' him...... Poor guy.
@Lemonfluff Жыл бұрын
Amber heard vibes with that recording of him "shouting" 😂😂😂 glad trash girl is getting called out by his mom 🤣 ohhh so his mom is being a b. Because she ignores Mary when she's on the phone with her son...kind of like how Mary used to ignore mom and sisters during their videocassette when he went to visit his mom, and would only unmute herself to act like a victim if anyone said something she didn't like. Doesn't feel nice to be rudely ignored does it.
@vincenzodimeglio2975 Жыл бұрын
Threatening to call of the wedding isn't a threat.
@ChildofGod-g8f Жыл бұрын
Ultimately they've extorted this vulnerable boy for his money and it appears to me that that they've all trapped him.
@damyli4033 Жыл бұрын
being so possessive in a relationship is so dangerous. It's not real love. It's just like something you want to be just at your side. It will never be a good and healthy relationship with Mary's attitude and behavior. Always manipulating Brandon. And more she doesn't respect Brandon Mother. You'll never be happy or in peace. Hope the guy can make up his mind. I guess the baby was also her plan to get hold of him.
@lunastar7599 Жыл бұрын
What about the 1000.00$ per episode he's getting??? 😂❤
@wiredvibe1678 Жыл бұрын
Is that it?
@RodrickMarsMoon Жыл бұрын
I thought it was 3000 USD 🤔😐.
@Lilyseamonster Жыл бұрын
Apparently/allegedly they violated an NDA and did not get paid...
@h0t_pock3t Жыл бұрын
@@Lilyseamonsterdang, embarrassed themselves for nothing
@huni26 Жыл бұрын
I don't think u get that during filming. They get paid after the season is done filming and they know how many episodes they will appear on.
@johnsilva1225 Жыл бұрын
Just because you are an adult doesn't mean you shouldn't listen to your parents
@Dignifiedbaby Жыл бұрын
*uploaded 3 mins ago* 🎉🎉🎉 I’m here for the teaaaa 🍵
@anthonymontoya880 Жыл бұрын
how did the mom get inside the philippines, i would assume they would rejected her based on her passed
@mjay1169 Жыл бұрын
"shez probably a chip of the old block" most underated comment 😅😅
@larryp3641 Жыл бұрын
This family needs a 40+/wk therapist and a translator. I see nothing good coming up. These are children trying to make a life. All of them need an open mind to reality and then he needs to step up and be a man.
@elizabethmadron1336 Жыл бұрын
What about her? She manipulated him to get her pregnant.
@larryp3641 Жыл бұрын
@@elizabethmadron1336 it's done now.. he can't change the mistakes. His weaknesses are shown through her.
@courtneyrae1435 Жыл бұрын
I honestly don’t even think it’s his baby.. smh. Sad situation
@darealveezy1267 Жыл бұрын
I swear she is 5 months already nah she has known and her friends knew too.
@beardiemumma1019 Жыл бұрын
lol, she thinks saying she wont marry him is a threat . . . more like a blessing
@StrawberryJam806 Жыл бұрын
Mary was giving Brandan’s mom dirty looks from the moment they pulled up, because she’s a psychopath and doesn’t want Brandan near another woman even if it’s his own mother. DOnT LoOk aT GiRLs!! I’m so glad that Brandan’s mom hates her, she has good reason to.
@TS-ls7uz Жыл бұрын
I think the mom went there just to try to break them up and for him to go home .. she totally right about Mary!!
@This_handle_is_tak3n Жыл бұрын
Goodness forbid if the couple has a daughter and Brandon shows more attention to the helpless child. Mary doesn’t want any female to get more attention than her.
@eugeniasyro5774 Жыл бұрын
He'd better get a DNATest, but, hold up. Baby is likely to be Filipino 100 percent.
@prettyxbonez96 Жыл бұрын
@eugeniasyro5774 It's not even just that. Why engage in unprotected sex the first encounter. Their both idiots. No condoms or form of birth control
@Ellisfoster-v4t Жыл бұрын
Omg you guys didn't even know how fast I clicked as soon as I saw the headline