Before Marriage: Expectations vs. After Marriage: Reality! || Ustadh Muhammad Tim Humble

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3:22 Introduction 10:19 Society breaks down without marriage 14:00 Financial ability 17:30 When it's obligatory to get married 21:02 Marriage benefits: lower gaze, preserve chastity, have children 22:00 Fast if you cannot get married 25:04 If you want to get married to keep away from haraam then Allaah will help you 28:20 Choose a righteous wife 33:30 Love and mercy 37:17 Importance of compatibility 40:07 Choose a righteous wife 44:11 How you know if you will be compatible without dating Continued in comments below

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47:09 How to know if someone is righteous 55:42 Look for religion and manners 58:16 Consider your own situation 1:03:00 People used to be keen to marry divorcees 1:04:20 Marry a woman who is loving and will have a lot of children 1:06:50 Look for a wife who is comforting and tolerant 1:07:06 The worst women 1:08:20 The best women 1:10:24 Personality can make you more beautiful 1:11:05 Choose a good mother for your future children

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1:12:12 Choose a woman who is compatible with you in deen, manners, life goals 1:13:52 Look for a man with good religion and good character 1:17:10 The best of you are those who are best to their families 1:17:30 The importance of deen and taqwa 1:20:06 The steps to get married 1:20:42 Go to the house through the front door i.e. do things properly, so no dating etc 1:27:38 If the father doesn't like you then you may have to consider just letting it go 1:30:46 How to propose - ask the father directly, or the father offers his daughter in marriage to someone, sending someone else to propose on your behalf

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1:34:33 Prepare a marriage CV (with no pictures) 1:39:52 Look at the potential, but have realistic expectations 1:43:22 When is it allowed to look at the potential 1:46:22 What you look at from the sister 1:47:54 Follow the Sunnah when it comes to marriage 1:53:44 Make it easy for reverts

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Jazak Allah khair

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بارك الله فيكم

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Purposes of Marriage: 1. To stay away from haram 2. To have children 3. To help each other to acquire the Hereafter 4. To be tranquil and find comfort in each other, be the coolness of each other's eyes

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Brothers and sisters I’ve been married for one year Alhamdullilah but me and my husband need a new house and to move out of my in laws it is difficult to live with others not in a bad way … please keep me and my husband in your Dua’s that we move out soon Allah swt facilities this for us with ease ameen I am also have fertility issues and would like to ask if you can make Dua’s for this also brothers and sister marriage is beautiful but comes with its obstacles 🤲🏻

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may allah allow you two to move out soon in miraculous ways and may he grant you pious children who will be a coolness to both you and your husbands eyes and be great imams when they grow up امين

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May Allah make it easier for you اختي ❤ Ameen.

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Sister Allah is sufficient for you. Make your own duaa. You don't need to ask anyone.

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Asalamu alaykum. Dua has been made for you. Also, try to pray Tahajjud prayer and ask for whatever you want from Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. May Allah azza wajal make it easy for you and your husband and grant you tawfeek.

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Ustadh a humble request, please make a series or an extensive video about the difficulties a married couple may face after marriage and how to overcome these. Some issues i am aware of below insha'Allah; - How a man and woman differ in nature and personality and physically. - What to do when the husband is tight handed and wont give anything beyond the bare minimum -How to treat one another with respect and kindness. - A husband who excessively socialises with his friends and cousins (including men and women) yet abandons his wife and children at home and refuses to take them anywhere -The way the lady treats her father and mother in law and the way the man treats his father and mother in law. - I know that a man has only the duty to protect and provide food and a roof over the head of his wife but some husband's really abuse this and keep citing that they dont need to speak nicely with their wife, and treat them in a good manner, don't need to communicate or confer with them before making any choices, she is just there for the sake of looking after the house and kids. - a husband who is smiley and nice to everyone outside the home, but inside the home grumpy, angry - not a nice character. JazakAllahu khayran.

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Assalamu Alaikum. There is a series titled 'The Muslim Family' on the channel. You may need to scroll down a bit. It's super beneficial and covers some of the fundamentals of marriage.

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@samiaarshan wa alaykum asalam I have actually seen that series and it is extremely beneficial but I wanted a series on common issues that couples face after marriage and how to deal with them.

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The voice at the beginning ❤

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It is as if this video was solely made for me subhanallah wa Jazak Allahu kheir

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Masha Allah I miss sitting in sheikh Tim’s durus in Newcastle.

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احسن اللە الیك🔥

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Jazak'Allahu kheyran

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اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ We need more content from brothers like this. If people like this don’t speak out, it’ll leave opportunities for grifters and fraudsters in our community to give us false knowledge. May أَللّٰه عَزَّ وَ جَلَّ help us all أمين اَلسَلامُ عَلَيْكُم وَرَحْمَةُ اَللهِ وَبَرَكاتُهُ

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السلام عليكم ورحمة الله وبركاته Is there any way to email the brothers at AMAU for a question? I am a new revert in a tough situation and I need the opinion of someone knowledgable

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Wa ’alaykumussalām warahmatullāhi wa barakātuhu In the description there is a get in touch section

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Wa alaykium salaam wa rahmatulahi wa batakatu, May Allah aid you and grant you the best of guidance and success with this issue, and make Islam so beloved to you and grant you success in this life and the next ameen If the issue is time sensitive and AMAU is not able to get back to you quickly, mufti muneer (graduate from the same school as shaykh Tim) has counseling/Q&A services available at his website (google “hadith disciple”). They are paid but he’s usually available within 48 hours and gives good advice may Allāh bless and preserve him Either way make lots of duaa and may Allah aid you and grant you the best of support ameen

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و عليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته May Allah ease your affairs

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As salaamu 'alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa baarakaatuhu, How may I reach ustadh Humble's directly? I have a few questions regarding marriage as a revert. JazakAllahu khair

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Masha Allah

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Is it fine if i use: that i am studying at the university and would provide her from my bursary fees. Or i just have to stick to fasting until i finish uni and get a job then after then i should look for a spouse?

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51:21

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