Almost 6 Months After My Husband Unexpectedly Passed Away - Mom of 8 Kids

Insight I have gained since becoming a widow with 8 kids. My oldest is 20 years old and my youngest child is 23 months old.
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Recently my husband of 20 years and biological father of our 8 children suddenly passed away (on July 16, 2023). Adjusting to the sudden trauma and shock has been the hardest thing we have had to go through in our entire lives! Our 8 children spent their whole lives having their father by their side at home, guiding them. Now this grave loss has caused a ripple affect not only in our daily lives, but financially, as well as emotionally, and a great looming uncertainty.
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[@Momof8kids]

I should make it clear that my husband's heart stopped more than once. When the ambulance arrived it was not beating. They revived him and took him to the hospital. At the hospital it also stopped more than once in the 3 hours they worked on him. In the end they had given him every kind of medication to get his heart beating again and nothing more could be done. This was my grieving experience and observations. I am not trying to tell anyone how to grieve, I know everyone is different. Some people may experience parts of what I did. Thanks for watching and take care.

[@lisageves8476]

This was one of your best videos yet. Filming while the little ones are sleeping makes it easier for you to keep focused & it makes it easier for the people watching to understand where you're coming from without the constant interruptions from the little ones. There are times that you do things with the kids that you'll want to share, but there are also times when you want to share what's on your heart with other adults, one on one, & that's when it is best to film when the little ones are asleep.

[@janinahendrych9065]

In my faith you can not go to heaven with the smallest sin ,that why you have to pay for your sins -first , before you will end up in Heaven .But you are right for those unbelievers -losing somebody must be the end -even thinking about it make you wonder -what the point of existence is ,then ???.100% we were created for the reason .We are the body ,soul and the spirit.Have a nice day 🙏🏽

[@Thebeautifulme100]

6 kids!!!! 6 !

[@mypuptrouble976]

@janinahendrych9065 u need to read your Bible!!! And how awful for u to think u know who will go to heaven. There will b a judgement day!! U can ask for forgiveness with your last breath. Her husband was a believer.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for sharing, that is interesting. Can I ask what religion you practice? What is a small sin?@@janinahendrych9065

[@shirlynb148]

How beautiful you look when you smile. I hope there are many more days ahead that give you reasons to smile😊

[@probiotic1]

I love this comment❤

[@Momof8kids]

You are so sweet Shirlyn. I think I am ready to move forwards. Thank you for your kindness and I wish you the best, take care my friend.

[@Momof8kids]

It was beautiful, and I love your reply too! Best wishes for you.

[@ladyantebellum5408]

Greetings from Singapore! You are looking good and pretty. Keep the kids well. You are doing a great job. xoxo

[@mariemoorepgh432]

He would be and I’m sure is SO, SO, PROUD of you. ❤️

[@Momof8kids]

Thanks Marie, best wishes and take care!

[@daisy7141]

Your husband prepared your children and you for death by saying he would just be in another place, a better place. That lessened their grief. It makes total sense. I'm so glad you brought that out. It could help many.

[@Momof8kids]

I hope so! Thank you for your input, I only want to bring goodness to people. Take care my friend.

[@user-pv1jv3ji4f]

@@Momof8kidsWhen my passed 2 yrs ago people would say “I’m so sorry for your lost” I would say don’t be sorry he’s not lost I know exactly where he’s at 🩵🙏

[@farmlifewithrenee]

Rosalie you're such a beautiful woman....god bless you.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Renee. Bless you too!

[@wheresabbie]

I think you are doing an amazing job coping with all this. You are strong and brave. Keep being a good mama and enjoy your children and life.

[@CEB731]

You look so beautiful tonight. I hope you and your family feel better soon.

[@donnadilts3495]

Thats my same thought. Rosalie your eyes were shinning tonight.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you. I think this flu is almost over, it lasted over 2 weeks and I've heard could take even 4-6 weeks! Take care and best wishes.

[@Momof8kids]

That is quite a compliment Donna, thank you. Take care my friend.@@donnadilts3495

[@tadg41]

Everyone grieves differently.

[@Momof8kids]

True, this was my observations and experiences. Thank you. Best wishes.

[@Terrorific_tray]

He is definitely proud of how well you are doing. Under such emotional turmoil, you are doing an amazing job.Sending plenty of love!

[@16CENTS561]

Grieving is a personal path. There is no way to know how losing your husband would effect you. I lost my husband Jan 14, 2022. He was killed by a drunk driver. I have been on medication for ptsd since the trauma of it all. Our 8 kids are all grown. Im still devistated. I see a therapist weekly. Bless you on this journey some days will be harder than others ❤❤❤

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for sharing your experience and I am sad to hear. They say some days are harder than others but I seem to get moments of depression instead of "days". Sending you lots of love and wish you the best!

[@susansnyder11]

My deepest sincere condolences on the loss of your life partner. I know sooner or later my husband or myself will have to face the fact and it scares me. I look up to women such as yourself and Rosalie and how strong a woman can be when faced with such a life-altering change.❤

[@loisroberts2216]

Sorry for your loss I lost my 17 yr old to cancer cared for him until he passed away it very hard but time does help knowing he is in heavin helps . forever 17 nov 30 2021

[@janeecesmith9525]

Great video…It’s good to have this platform to help with this process… I am a Christian mom of four Boys. Which are grown. I lost my youngest son’s father in 2011 to a massive heart attack. I tried bringing him back but he was gone . Thoughts and prayers are with you.

[@Thebeautifulme100]

Bastards! Sorry your husband was taken from u. God speed

[@leegregory3974]

Rosalie your a beautiful soul, your doing so well, keep being you x

[@afterthought72]

I cannot imagine losing my husband we have been married almost 23 years and together longer . Grieving comes in waves until you wake up one day and really smile ... Prayers for you and your family !❤🙏

[@sonnysnavarro6860]

Your a wonderful person ❤

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Sonny, that is really nice of you to say. Best wishes and take care!

[@sonnysnavarro6860]

@@Momof8kids ,believe in yourself,your a very special lady ❤️

[@michellemariem]

You are finally beginning to see the strength in yourself, that your husband saw in you! He KNEW you had it in you, he KNEW you would be ok. 🩷He is INCREDIBLY proud!❤️

[@peekaboo_u2]

My husband of 28 years died dec 9 2022 Its just been 1 year since he has been gone. Even though im a Christian and I know the lord is all the strength i need i still dont handle death easily. It doesnt matter if its your pet pig,dog,cat mother father etc.. it breaks my heart that they are gone.i havent cried alot either i too turn to prayer. There is only one thing we can do...stay strong in our faith,put our best foot forward even on the days we think we cant. If your husband was a follower of Jesus we will see them again.there will be no more sorrow or pain.things will be perfect.take care of your self and in doing that you are taking care of your children.Merry Christmas and the best for a New Year.

[@Momof8kids]

That is beautiful, thank you. He did love Jesus. I appreciate you sharing your experience, Sending you lots of love and hugs, take care!

[@daisy7141]

I asked a rehab nurse who lost her daughter how long it takes to get over the deep mourning part. She said it took her two years. It did with me too.

[@firefly6027]

You're doing great, Rosalie. God will guide you through your grief.❤🙏💕

[@sandradawe9224]

Remember you have not lost him, you and your children know exactly where he is!

[@Momof8kids]

That is beautiful Sandra, thank you for being so special. Best wishes and take care my friend.

[@sandradawe9224]

And you as well Rosalie!

[@BrookieBrook]

All I want to say is that I’m so proud of you and the children. Seeing y’all making pumpkin bread and all the patience you have with your babies is such a sweet thing to see. You’ve got this! And you’ve got us!

[@Momof8kids]

That is so sweet and kind of you to say Brook. Thank you and wish you the best, take care!

[@BrookieBrook]

@@Momof8kids you’re incredible! You can do hard things!

[@janetbailey6639]

Don’t let others tell you how you are supposed to Grieve, everyone is different, everyone who have lost a loved one should have empathy and kindness to you. Some people cry more than others, some don’t cry at all through shock. You had to carry on for your children and you didn’t have your Husband there as before to help you. I wish you the Best. I know someone who recently passed away from Cancer and her Husband went to counseling while they were going through her illness, she did not and she too did a Podcast of her journey, everyone is different just remember that. The fact that you and your Husband believe in God which is more than some of the bullies are acting like right now. God Bless you and your Children

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for your kindheartedness Janet. I appreciate you sharing. Bless you too and your friends. Take care.

[@oneseeker2]

I haven't noticed anyone telling Jer how to grieve, u r borrowing trouble.

[@stephanieann622]

Well stated Janet. I have heard too much advice from people that are nothing but mean. Your comment was extremely insightful and lovely.

[@kelly9714]

I am so proud of you Rosalie ❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️🩷❤️

[@0122Tamara]

You can talk to God, he listens to all of us.

[@0122Tamara]

Thank you for your much needed Strength.

[@ACanadianBee]

You have to live on for yourself and your children. Grieve your way. You can expect ups and downs but just ride the waves. Your children are dealing well with their dad's passing because they have their mom. Love them, cherish them and love yourself. ❤

[@nikkimclay5474]

You all seem to be functioning much better than when he was around. You have a voice, less chaos, more organised, much much cleaner house & happy kids. His illness & obvious use of pain drugs seemed to control your lives. He is proud of you all & so are we. One day look back at your videos with him & compare the chaos then with your strength now.

[@MargDegraaf]

I’ve had a lot of loss from family members. My brother & nephew the same time. Motor bike accident.. my favourite uncle & aunt. My parents. But loosing my son at the age of 37 & it’s been 7 years November just gone. Loosing my son was the one that absolutely broke me. Still just a thought or song or smell breaks me into uncontrollable crying My parents being old I naturally expected it so it wasn’t so painful.. We all grieve differently & get through it in our own time. I understand completely what you are saying.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Marg. I think that is why my children took it better that me, because it is natural for the parent to go before the child. I am sad to hear what happened to you and I am sending you lots of love and hugs. I can see how losing a son is more difficult. Wish you the best my friend and take care.

[@user-kx4ty1vz6n]

Sister there is no normal grieving it just don't exist everybody is different I lost my husband after 23 years he died right in front of me but as much as I miss him I know that he's in a place where he don't suffer he Don't hurt no More and that brings me comfort when I find myself missing him he's been gone five years from now and I still have and I still have my moments where I miss him but it is such a comfort knowing that he's not here on Earth suffering and in pain no more hang in there you're going to be fine

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for sharing. I appreciate your comforting and wish you the best. Sending you love.

[@tonideluca8569]

I’m so sorry for your loss. I too lost my husband in 2019 of severe heart attack. He was 55. We were together 25 years and have a daughter together. It’s very hard some days still. ❤

[@Momof8kids]

I am sad to hear that. Sending you love and hugs. Best wishes, and take care my friend.

[@tonideluca8569]

@@Momof8kids thank you. Love and hugs to you as well❤️

[@TheVideoGamesHistorian]

You look so much better and are gaining strength , I hope that you reach out to your family and become less isolated .x

[@charlottemiller961]

Thank you so much for sharing your insight with us! You are helping many people! Your personality is starting to shine through more & more! We see how loving & kind you are! You are truly a blessing & your kids are so blessed to have you for a mother!

[@Momof8kids]

That is so kind of you to say Charlotte and it warms my heart. Thank you and wish you the best always, take care my friend.

[@janinahendrych9065]

May God protect you and your family ,always 🙏🏽

[@ajcrum3689]

i lost my mom 5 years ago i still cry at times everyone is different . i use to talk to my mom daily and boy i miss her soo much . ur doing amazing .

[@Olive1234.]

You are such a good mom! Sending hugs to you and family! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[@0122Tamara]

Bless your heart sweety, Jesus is our comforter, don't feel guilty, hugs your doing great!!

[@gabriellacallahan2649]

Rosalie - You look wonderful even though you are sick. Praying for you to be comforted by God. You are doing very well. Please give yourself credit, you are doing well. You are a beautiful, strong, smart and very capable woman and mother. I am so proud of you. ❤

[@robynholliday4794]

He’s there watching you doing great ❤️🙏

[@ShaylaShaye]

Much love Rosalie ❤️ Thank you for sharing your grief journey with us. I admire your inner strength that shines through the hardest of times. None of us know how we'll handle grief as each grief journey is a individual feeling 💔 😔 for every person we lose. I have lost a few close people in my life and each one was a different journey. My heart is with you and your beautiful 8 children 🙏😇🙏 Thank you again for sharing. May peace surround you and guidance be with you ✨️ for the rest of your life. Grief is all our love for the person we lost. ♡

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for sharing, sending love back to you. Thank you for bringing that up, that it is a different grief journey for every person we lose. Those are words of wisdom. I hope that is something other people here read. Take care my friend.

[@lifeofamil-wife]

Merry Christmas my dear friend. Thank you for continuing to update us. ❤

[@maryc7830]

You are one strong lady. I am so proud of you. I think you’re doing a wonderful job. God bless you and your family. ❤

[@shellydavis855]

Your really actually doing awesome

[@loisroberts2216]

He is pleased with you u did wonderful under all the stress and u went with your heart and did what he wanted much respect.

[@sheilaanderson9987]

You are so strong!!! Your children must be so proud to have a mom like you!!!! Im just so sorry you have to take this journey of raising your eight children alone!!! Your husband was so lucky to have you and you, him!!! Life has to go on, I just hope I have the strength you have to carry on!!!! Lots of love to you and your children!!!❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️

[@loisroberts2216]

You are learning and growing through your loss. I see it keep praying and I find when I have a memory that comes up I give myself time to procise it. Cry laugh or just time then I grow more and it helps me. Much love to your family.

[@MissingOurMissingPod]

This was a beautiful, raw, incredibly *human* video. Grief is such an incredibly person, difficult journey. More than anything though, it isn’t linear. I hate that there’s this idea that’s perpetuated that we have ‘stages’ of grief. It’s more like waves in my experience. I’ve been doing fairly well recently but December 8, 2021 was the last day my father was conscious & I was the last person he spoke to. I found myself absolutely breaking down out of nowhere a couple days ago, looked at the date & everything suddenly made sense. I know it isn’t the same as what you’re going through, but I can actually relate to being young & having a (much) older parent pass away. This was a lovely video, Rosalie. I hope you are feeling better & you are all on the mend. Thinking of you all. ❤

[@SunnySideUp-wd9ce]

God bless you all ❤

[@dianelopez2516]

First of all I am sorry for your loss but for a person who is going through a difficult period in your life I am going through my own difficulties but nothing like yours you give out so much warmth and encouragement when you expressing how you are going your grief I just want to thank you for showing how strong you are towards your family and to all us I just love seeing your videos you always leave me feeling so positive even though this video is about how you and your family are getting along God bless you and your family love from N California❤

[@jamiemillians9455]

Do you think you will ever be in touch with any of your family. I understand either way. Keep trusting in the Lord, you got this!!!

[@Momof8kids]

No, I won't be contacting them. Thanks for your support, Bless you.

[@BarbaraErtzbischoff]

Hugs Rosalie😊... Your energy looks wonderful and your beauty is truely shining through !!! Blessings being sent tobyouband your family xo

[@Brandi.65]

You are looking amazing. And all your children are precious.

[@RitaBRuby]

Good to hear from you, Rosalie. I'm so glad that you and your family are doing well. May God bless you always.

[@lynettechacksfield2327]

God Bless you and your family ❤ The poem your husband wrote was beautiful, made me cry, I'm going to write it out and put it on the wall xx

[@Momof8kids]

Wow, he would love that! I am happy you like it that much, sending you love. Thank you for taking the time to let me know and take care my friend.

[@jackielong9927]

Hi, I feel that this video was from a deep place in your heart and helped you. Thank you for sharing. Keep strong , your doing a good job. Sending you a bucket of hugs and prayers. 🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏❤️🙏

[@conniestone2946]

There is something about her that gives me pause.

[@conniestone2946]

She seems to be trying to convince people. It seems like she feels scared.

[@Rnnurse2023]

Red flags 🚩

[@Kiymee]

@Mom of 8 kids. You look gorgeous! Give yourself a break! Life is for living. Look at your sweet babies, he lives on in them as well. Your kids adore you. Hugs to you gurlfriend you got this! Your so pretty! Tell the kids hello.

[@lesliemassey-or6cv]

I hope you don’t find this inappropriate, but I have noticed the redness on your face with each video and, as a retired RN, wondered if you have ever been told you have rosacea or lupus? I have rosacea myself. Just wanted to mention that in case you have other symptoms that are bothersome. I cannot imagine what you are going through and I hope these videos have given you some sense of family and support. Know you are never alone. 🙏🏼💜

[@Momof8kids]

That is kind of you. It is eczema. I am breastfeeding and can't use the prescriptions. Thank you for your support, it is a comfort. Best wishes, take care!

[@lesliemassey-or6cv]

@@Momof8kids I forgot about that option (and idk why because two out of my three grandchildren have eczema). I think I remember you stating that in another video now that I think about it so I am sorry if I am being repetitive about something you already explained. Merry Christmas 🎁 to you and your children, although I know this won’t be an easy one, but you are a very strong lady and are carrying on with much courage. 💜

[@oneseeker2]

I said the same

[@Punkintits]

You are growing very beautifully. Sometimes some things happen for a reason for a person to grow. Best of luck sweets ♥️

[@loriweaver9050]

Keep sharing your feelings Rosalie. We’re here for you. I lost my son in 2013. When you said about the sad music. I never listened to it at home but when I would go to the grocery store I would hear a sad song and have to hold back from crying hysterically. I see you are having a sad day and you are doing the right thing by reaching out for support. I always thought the same as you about people that don’t have faith in God. I know it’s changed my life, and given me peace. My prayers are with you Rosalie. 🙏😊❤️ Take care.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for sharing Lori. I am sending you lots of love. So glad you found peace in having faith. Bless you.

[@kristypaul8067]

Your such a strong woman you are doing such a Fantastic job raising your kids ❤

[@westcoastlass]

I just want to say, your eyes are beautiful in this video!

[@madlenmuir5989]

Rosalie, thank you for sharing about grieving...but to me, theres no time limit, My husband passed 2016...and i hit rock bottom at times, theres no time limit, then last week i lost his doggie, he loved her so much, then when he left go be with the Lord, his dog grieved too...she would not eat, she laid by front door hoping he come back...well i got attached to her and now shes gone...i been grieving a bit this past few days...life is so short...i cant believe Christmas is 2 wks away...i just decorated my porch, now i got a couple trees, they just pop up .. a tinsel tree, it has pretty colors and looks like it has decorations on it and it has lights...so pretty, i got decorate my mantle on fireplace...decorate my kitchen and no more, i got so much xmas stuff, i used to decorate at work, i worked in a hospital for mentally challenged patients...down syndrome, etc...each bedroom held 3 patients, they had their own side table, bullentin board...i decorated every room on my unit, i did for the patients and their parents and family...i used get awards every year...it was a state hospital...they have parade, each building decorated a float, and all buildings they decorated a tree and their unit...so much fun, lol...i retired and i had to bring home all the decorations i used...i would over the yrs collect decorations for xmas...so phew i gotta downsize...im going to after xmas reason my husband loved me decorate, thats only reason i still decorate, well i will but not as much...so what do you all do for Christmas...ok ive wrote a book, lol...thank you for this vlog, glad to see you feeling better, ..take care of yourself and the children...😊

[@aprilhaywood3306]

❤❤❤

[@kayhay6848]

You did an excellent job! I Love watching your videos. Your voice and words are so calm and sweet. Keep making these videos. God Bless you

[@debchristman7369]

Sending you and the family lots lots of love and hugs ❤💜❤

[@gracehowe3692]

You are doing so amazing.

[@nancyterrywhittemore2015]

God bless you, Rosalee, I'm sure that your beloved is smiling down on you and your family. I think you are doing a wonderful job with the kids and with getting control of your life after your loss. I must tell you, how pretty you are when you have that nice smile on your face.

[@jenniferortiz9553]

Thank you. These are very helpful thoughts ♥️

[@debrawake1023]

What a great job, your thoughts and experiences are spot on and undoubtedly help others. Thank you for taking time to share your experience, strength and hope, ❤ you look better and sound better! What a blessing to your children. Hang in there and be proud of yourself! ❤

[@Momof8kids]

I hope it helps others, thank you Debra. You are so kind, thank you for your caring and wish you the best always. Take care my friend.

[@drethawelch2525]

Sending up prayers for the family.

[@sandiedrew4086]

Sending love and good vibes. All the best to you now and always❤😊.

[@kissalhayden9229]

He would be so proud of you and the kids! Also, You look beautiful!

[@oldmcdanelsfarm592]

Thanks for sharing ❤❤

[@lifeofamil-wife]

We all grieve in our own way.

[@Tomas-major]

My husband passed of liver cancer, it was a terminal diagnosis and he fought for two years two months with palliative chemo, and radiotherapy, it gave him no extra time, I wonder if he hadn’t found out or had treatment where we would be now, because he was absolutely fine before just before a work health check where a ultrasound found the tumour. He suffered he went from the healthiest man I have ever known to a shadow of his former self, I am still struggling though most people wouldn’t know because I put a face on. The reason behind this is no one wants to hear you go on and on about it or listen to my story after this amount of time. I am sorry Rosalee it is such early days for you and you still have young children, be strong nut be kind to yourself, I had counselling with the hospice he passed in and I think that helped. I will love him for the rest of my life without a shadow of a doubt. ❤

[@lindap5525]

Thank you.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for watching, and your support Linda. Take care.

[@kwester318]

You're doing great and I admire the way you have been able to "keep going" in the way you have, for yourself and your children. You are their rock now! Merry 🎄 Christmas to you and your family!❤

[@MaddHeather]

Been praying for you and the kids. I also hope you find a nice little church. Faith and my church family have helped me so much this past year.

[@scrumps101]

One thing I’ve learned is that not only does everyone grieve differently but there is no wrong way to grieve. You seem to be letting your bodies natural reaction to the process of grieving guide you and that seems so healthy. Not everyone needs to seek therapy when confronted with the death of a loved one. I feel like invention is needed only when grief is overwhelming. That’s not to say that therapy wouldn’t help those that find comfort in it, obviously. I also feel like the peace you have found is a testament to the good man your husband was. He’s been open with you on his feelings and wishes surrounding his time of death, seemingly knowing that it would be a comfort to you when his time came. He helped you understand that he wasn’t afraid of dying. On the contrary, he rather embraced it with the knowledge that he would be going to his eternal home to wait patiently until he sees you again. He wanted you to feel the same peace he felt in the end of life process. A great man. He left a legacy in his wealth of knowledge, love and the 8 children he leaves behind.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for your insight. You make a lot of sense. I agree with you and loved hearing from you. Take care my friend and happy new year.

[@sweetirishgirl8685]

Rosalie you are so right. Heaven a good place no sorrow no pain. Happiness. You are doing so great. Yes your husband would be proved of you. Your are when have to things after one passes is hard. God gives us the strength to do it. I too don't understand how atheist deals with a love one that passes. That's so sad. You take of yourself sending prayers 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼and love ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@Momof8kids]

Always nice to hear from you! Sending you lots of love too, and thank you for your prayers and always kind words. Bless you.

[@ivansgreatadventures9542]

You are a wonderful Mama! ❤️ So proud of how well you have coped and helped your children to cope. It is clear and evident that you love your children so very much. I'm sorry for anyone who ever doubted that. Keep shining, keep loving and I pray your journey of grieving and pain gets easier as time passes. Time is the only thing that helps us heal sometimes and something this traumatic takes lots of time. You're doing an amazing job!❤❤Hugs! From one Mama to another.

[@Momof8kids]

You are so kind. Thank you for the encouragement. I wish the best for you and your family, take care my friend!

[@CaliChaos99]

Best video yet, God is guiding you. God bless you and your children and may you have a blessed Merry 🎄 Christmas.🙏👍

[@JennStowe]

You are an inspiration ❤

[@chronicpainstinks6656]

Its so good to see you feeling better. It has to be hard to manage a big family and making sure they all are doing ok. Be proud of yourself. Im not sure i could manage the young ones in the midst of losing my partner. My husband and have have a big age difference. He also has heart issues. At least 3 serious surgeries with the last one being a triple bypass. The Dr told us there isnt much left to fix after his last surgery. Again thank you for posting these videos. It really does help

[@lynnscruggs8105]

Everybody grieves different and we all that grieve the loss of our loved has no certain time the grieving takes as long as you need it too❤ It will be 9 years since I lost my husband and I am still grieving. I am not the same person I once was❤

[@lindalagalo8018]

Everyone grieves but in their own way you don’t have to react in the same way as others, all situations are different. I think you’ve came along way you look really great ,just spend time with your kids and enjoy life with them I think that would make your husband happy God Bless 🙏❤️

[@trish7080]

I'll keep you and your children in my prayers 🙏💞 may God comfort u through the loss of husband. It's very hard losing your partner.

[@amypearsall]

Thank you for sharing; I can tell you put a lot of thought into both your list and the video. Other insights I was wishing you would have, but obviously can't say for someone else: That you are strong. You have learned how to manage a household~such as paying bills. Maybe you have learned about finances and are on the path to creating a financial plan? I hope maybe you can try to cultivate some friendships (with neighbors, church members), start a new activity or two (bookclub, exercise, 'moms day out' with other moms in your area), cook some new recipes. You may also learn about home maintenance, such as: replacing furnace filter, checking smoke alarm batteries, taking car in for oil change, making sure you're cleaning the link filter in your dryer.

[@loisroberts2216]

I know it hard on you to get through this one day at time. You are doing good but I know you cry in your bed. Hang in there kids need you and love you. You look pretty your skin looks nice praying for you all.

[@karenligus8224]

Rosalie, you may not be crying today but there may be days that your heart just hurts and you will cry. That's the thing about grief. No one can tell you about your grief, it's your journey. You've lost the man you loved dearly, the father of your children. It's clear how much you loved and respected him. I'm so proud of you for handling this with such grace. My heart is with you.❤

[@robinwagner3293]

Nobody can prepare you or tell you how to grieve. We all do it differently. Both my parents passed suddenly and I still cry from time to time. They have been gone many years. Take care.

[@chronicpainstinks6656]

My sister in law passed away from cancer. Well she beat the cancer but her lungs were not strong enough to sustain life. I appreciate your videos. I know you put a lot of thought into this. Thank you.

[@tamianderson123]

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[@Afanasow4adventures]

Your looking very pretty, glowing even, good to see you looking well x

[@lavettafuentez2267]

This is very good to learn I have a husband that is alot older than me 2 right now he's pretty healthy except his arthritis in his knees but I'm dreading tht day but thank you for sharing keep up your positive attitude my prayers are with you and your children God is with you all

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Lavetta. Everyone grieves differently, but some people might experience some of what I did. Wish you and your husband the best, take care!

[@VABeachgirl-np8iw]

Rosalie - Have a very blessed day!! You have value, you are beautiful, you are a good Mom, you are a good person and God is holding you up!! May God continue to comfort you, help you and bless you! ❤

[@Momof8kids]

That is beautiful, thank you so much! Bless you too and take care my friend.

[@LovePeaceHope-qe5jj]

@@Momof8kids Happy Friday! Dear Lord Jesus, Please hold up and carry Rosalie and her children today and all of their days! Please bless them and comfort them in their lives. In Jesus's name, Amen! Love to you, Rosalie

[@LoverofSunflowernBees]

Rosalie, Never apologize for being sick, we all get sick, and we are here for you, and it’s hard to get over someone passing away especially a spouse. So please keep in touch with us we care about too and if I could be there with you I would be to help you and your kids. Reading some books when you can’t sleep and your kids are asleep will help you. I would love to come visit you and help you with your kids. I am in Calif not Canada. It seems you’re in Canada but I’d move there in a minute if I could because I’m facing homelessness right now. Don’t worry about me, I hope things work out for me here. In expensive Calif. I am going to write you a letter! A snail mail letter.

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you for the suggestion. I am really hoping things work out for you too! I saw here on KZbin, Prepper Princess who lived in California all her life, packed up and decided to move to Arizona a couple years ago because the cost of living was much cheaper there. Canada isn't doing much better than California right now, we are in a housing crisis. But thank you again for your enormous heart and caring! Take care.

[@lynnc4872]

You even look better these days which is understandable. You are a good woman and mother.

[@KOOP1978]

one of yr best.moms need time.take care

[@Momof8kids]

Thank you Shanerice. Merry Christmas my friend.

[@judeharper3829]

Everyone grieves differently, don’t look things up about grieving. There is not right or wrong way to grieve.

[@FurbyGender]

I lost my husband aged 34 years old 12 years ago and I found what helped the most was having our 4 kids who were very young at the time but I wasn’t really surprised by his death because he had been in ill health for about 5 years prior. It makes it easier having your kids to keep you busy. I’m also wondering if you weren’t as grief stricken due to knowing for years before that he would pass before you, maybe it’s similar to grieving before they pass. I’m curious do you feel your kids need any counseling? It’s difficult to tell but sometimes kids will not be honest around you about how they feel but may cry silently when alone. If your kids did say they were very sad and wanted to talk to someone else, would you allow that?

[@clare1971]

So much easier for you to talk with no children around, they can still understand your sadness even if very young

[@user-mp2wq6hv9k]

Grieving the loss of your life partner is like a roller coaster ride with ups and downs and rwists and turns. I found the book called "It's OK not to be OK" written by Megan Devine to be very helpful. I find that you have to feel the feelings in order to move through them. It is hard work. God's blessings to you and your family. ❤