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[@icollided]

The ones that I like, don't like me. And the ones that like me, I don't like.

[@brenb70]

This is literally me lol

[@Ricardo.3]

You described me literally, but I'm extremely satisfied to myself Lol

[@milesralls7972]

Sounds like you fellas need to lower your standards or improve yourself to be the type of man those women want..

[@monk4ever]

I don't like any of them. 😊

[@SOULMAN641]

Same here!

[@strongrelaxed9202]

Having children is NOT an accomplishment. Almost anyone can do that. Raising a healthy wholesome family is the accomplishment.

[@RSHale1]

Exactly. Well said.

[@user-bh6pq9oj9l]

Preach bro

[@bigcut695]

Its a responsibility

[@phoenixrisin2269]

I’m 64; my son and wife passed many years ago and I’m perfectly happy in my solitude considering what’s out there compared to my feminine smoke show traditional wife I had. I’m extremely grateful 💪

[@Babygirlly555]

I'm so sorry to hear that.

[@needmoney666]

With all you've been through brother I hope and pray the best for you.

[@ITR1329]

With you brother, sorry to hear, but you’ve found a way to continue on and enjoy….. and for that we all salute you 🫡

[@dojocho1894]

62 divorced 2x no kids...I have so many blessings, Im a physician, healthy, good looking...I meet so many women....I just dont trust them anymore...My mom was married for 50 yrs, I thought that's how it goes.....I was so wrong.

[@jadizm]

Sorry much Phoenix, Glad you are well.

[@BasedBrothers]

”If you spend your time chasing butterflies, they'll fly away, If you spend your time making a beautiful garden, the butterflies will come to you. And if they don't come, you still have your garden”

[@luisgalvez4303]

Facts! 🍻

[@dantimber]

I don't disagree but you have to choose a butterfly unless you want to live alone. There is no perfection. Yes it's a risk but if you're successful (in choosing) I think the potential is there for greater happiness.

[@BasedBrothers]

@@dantimber Yeah in my experience, you need to expose yourself to opportunities where you could meet women. Then, being content and happy about your life, you will emanate that energy and women will be drawn to you because you are positive and happy. I've had most success and found myself fall in love with women this way, the best ones always came naturally. Sadly, been heart broken two times in adulthood. Going long term with someone requires a lot of maturity on both parties. Last time I ended up heart broken was because we were incompatible, she was "woke" and I'm conseravtive. I accepted that she had different opinions than me, but she could not do the same for me unfortunately. Other than that we had amazing attraction, laughter and humor, and exciting intellectual discussions (all my top priorities).

[@paradoxstudios6639]

,,,and you still have your loneliness and sense of failure.

[@LaoSoftware]

I'm happily divorced since 2010. Been there. Done that. I prefer my solitude.

[@da41]

By the time most people get rich, they’ve lost both their health and youth. The art is having all three at the same time.

[@roboket3524]

thats what im trying to do

[@brianmeen2158]

My uncle was rich but health was not good .. I remember the hours he spent at work - he had many 60 hour work weeks .. he gave his wife and kids a good life but I’m not sure his life was that great.. by the time he retired his health was quite poor

[@zerosaber257]

the art of scamming

[@roboket3524]

@@zerosaber257 i believe we are at an early stage in a world that can be more than satisfying

[@SimonB.]

Why is there always the need to get rich? Just be content with what you have. That gives you peace

[@macacooful]

As you get older nothing is better than PEACE - Kingswagger

[@travisjohn5793]

Too true

[@macacooful]

People are a distraction from you loving yourself and being the best version of you

[@richardwagner9176]

just wait for the government to introduce a bechelor's tax (some will say it already exists in different forms)

[@andyjackson5404]

I agree 100% - living in peace is one of the most important elements to being happy

[@donnautube1]

I’ve been single for 10 years. Living my best life! Being single is a gift. Enjoy ❤

[@capricetony]

49, never married, no kids, had an 11 year relationship that ended, been on my own mostly, enjoy doing my own thing.

[@11T872]

Did you woman not wanted kids, or she couldn't get pregnant, or already had kids?

[@monk4ever]

You dodged a bullet.

[@Pwrcritter]

Same here.

[@Psai4456]

Well keep going

[@LaoSoftware]

8 billion people on this planet. You are bound to find someone that floats your boat.

[@GigaBased604]

I've found the sweet spot to be 23-35. the older I get the more I protect my peace.

[@bekabeka71]

That’s the sweet spot to find a wife?

[@Unknown-gv7wz]

What do you mean sweet spit 23-35? In what way

[@Seanus32]

I'm 46 and single. Not about selfishness at all. It's about peace and getting in touch with your soul...

[@eladbari]

Getting in touch with your soul in what way?

[@Seanus32]

@@eladbari Directly

[@Psyfi85]

@@Seanus32cherish my peace, always have. Read Jung?

[@Seanus32]

@@Psyfi85 Strangely not. I know about him from various other sources. Peace cannot be bought.

[@RSHale1]

Amen 🙏👍

[@risefromtheashes6623]

To people who have never experienced true isolation; it's nothing to romanticize about.

[@Based-cloroxbleach]

It's boring af

[@MartymcFly-zz2pg]

Men like women. Women like money. Nothings complicated.

[@1werewolf]

We come in alone and leave alone.....best try to enjoy the ride....

[@guyg6728]

Then you face God🙏🏻 believe on the Lord Jesus Christ

[@louwvalue]

We're strapped in whether we like it or not, but the ride eventually comes to an end.

[@unnamedindividual7135]

this.

[@andrewg2618]

I've been single for 10 years...was married before that. No kids. I'm living like an absolute king. I have my "fun" but I'm single by choice and will never live with someone else. Peace and quiet is the best.

[@davidcoppotelli3957]

If IT WORKS THATS A SWEET THING. Companionship is COOL. To need to add the HEAVY WEIGHT.

[@LepixmaPictures]

You born alone and die alone! Great content as always! 👏

[@stevo6891]

True shit, people are the biggest let down

[@victorruski4001]

No one’s born alone many may die alone

[@user-mh3kp7we7i]

Went my own way at 45 upon a divorce from 20+year marriage. 57 now. Each year that goes by seems more and more the case i'll be on my own to the end.

[@evernew23]

You were sent your own way

[@monk4ever]

​@@evernew23As were you.

[@monolith9832]

@@evernew23I got divorced seven years ago and I also decided to embrace singleness. Something that I’ve learned in life, marriage is a scam because monogamy isn’t natural. Its a human invention. All relations begin and end. The majority of people that decide to stay married into old age just do so out of comfort.

[@user-mh3kp7we7i]

@@evernew23 Actually it was all my action....my decision...so not sure what you mean by your statement....

[@evernew23]

@@user-mh3kp7we7i that is called coping

[@JMGENTERPRISES]

Im 40 now and single. For most my life i was in relationships. I was always worried about being single and alone. But after a year of experiencing that, i realize its actually quite awesome. I still have my friends, parents, dogs, hobbies etc. A lot of my friends are married with kids and arent happy either. There are no guarantees in life no matter what course you take.

[@hoedemakerbart]

Its just because we want to pro create.. most relationships are just terrible anyhow

[@heavymetal3256]

True, very true.

[@jimjames9779]

It's better to want what you don't have, than have what you don't want!

[@davidcole2331]

Facts 👍

[@BillyOnYouTube]

Oh wow true

[@KidFriendlyGaming]

Trudat

[@lily8254]

I really don’t afraid of dying alone! Even if you have children, they’ll leave you one day and I’ll never sad even nobody comes to my grave

[@JohnWick-el9yw]

With Jesus Christ on my side im never alone seek him while he may be found.

[@pawek.7278]

Is Jesus a God? Are you sure?

[@RaptureHead1993]

@@pawek.7278Before Abraham was, I am. I and the father are one The words of God do not reach you because you are not of God I am the way the truth and the life -JESUS CHRIST

[@RaptureHead1993]

Brother Salvation can be attained even during tribulation just a different gospel. Mercy of God is great

[@franklinbrandon5283]

Absolutely 💯 Facts

[@pawek.7278]

@@RaptureHead1993 I don't think so. Jesus was only a man just like us.

[@autumdiver]

I'm 54, never married, no kids, never wanted either. Have had some amazing relationships and am very grateful for that. But I've always been more or less a loner, introvert, etc. At this age I'm just about ready to remain single. In some ways it's a relief. I'm still human and still desire connection, but I'm really not sure what that will look like for me from here on out. Aging poses different challenges as your health becomes more compromised, your body starts to fall apart, and mentally you're tired too. You just want peace.

[@Chevelle602]

Don't you want a partner to help you along as you age?

[@colc8535]

@@Chevelle602obviously he would as would we all in an ideal world but most women are a hinderance not a help they are looking for help themselves and resources not to help a man

[@bekabeka71]

@@Chevelle602it’s so sad to see a man single for the rest of his life with no wife no kids to leave legacy. Wouldn’t wish it to me worst energy

[@Chevelle602]

@@bekabeka71 I agree. Having a daughter is the best thing that's ever happened to me even though I didn't get along with her mom

[@bekabeka71]

@@Chevelle602 pray for me to find a partner im 29

[@myselfasevan]

3:45 “having children is the ultimate satisfaction”. Maybe this is true for some, but not for all. Many men abandon their kids.

[@nomadman5288]

Yeah and many men (and women) are completely lost as people. I'm not saying having children is the ultimate satisfaction, just pointing out the other side of the point you seem to be trying to make. It's also in our dna to have children; it's a biological objective like survival is.

[@myselfasevan]

@@nomadman5288 I disagree. I think for some yes. I don’t think it’s logical to assume that every single person has a biological need for it. There are many people who are perfectly fine mentally and physically and still don’t desire it.

[@corey407woc]

This isn’t game of thrones or lord of the rings no one cares about your legacy

[@Visstnok]

@@nomadman5288 40% of men throughout history have reproduced. 80% of women have. To me it suggests we function as a species in such a way that men have far greater chances of being happy with hobbies and solitude.

[@vegnewb]

@@nomadman5288 It might be in our dna not to have kids, as well. You look at how developed countries have fewer children..that happened for a reason. Maybe mother nature knows when there is an overpopulation problem.

[@Djunturica]

Hitting 31, 32 as a man is nothing! YOU still have a lot of TIME! Focus on yourself, make sure you can financially provide and the rest will follow! My cousin got married at 40, got a beautiful daughter. Don't let bullshit on the internet discourage you.

[@marama3709]

Cheers bud. This felt kinda despair tbh

[@mattbarge]

Agree

[@LFA]

Thats exactly what I said. However I covered all sides instead of just one. If you perceived it as negative, I would wonder why.

[@risefromtheashes6623]

​@@LFA I felt this video was very depressing as well.

[@eladbari]

​@@risefromtheashes6623 it was realistic. Not depressin'. And a good analysis of the situation

[@jonkas4542]

I'm 52, never married and no kids. I work like a dog, eat like a king, sleep like a baby and travel like a nomad because I'm free as a bird. Seasons in life. In my twenties, I struggled to make myself worthwhile to someday have a family. I missed the boat. No regret.

[@thealisterr]

Love that quote

[@risefromyourpain]

Same here mate. Struggled through my 20s

[@TimmyCramer]

58 and walked the golf course today and shot 3 over par. Drove the green twice today. I'm still almost as strong as I was in my 20s. Stopped walking on my hands at 50 to save my shoulders. I love life and people but Marriage is a rigged game....not worth the risk. Timmy C Arizona

[@Jason.O379]

I love Arizona, I'm definitely going to retire there.

[@StrongBodyandMind33]

Strong as your 20s? You on trt?

[@TimmyCramer]

@@StrongBodyandMind33 lol. I'm on coffee and Coors light! Never taken anything.

[@StrongBodyandMind33]

@@TimmyCramer amazing 💪🏼

[@rickyking1790]

@@StrongBodyandMind33 I'm 65 and just as strong to. It is the way you take care of yourself

[@tonylama2012]

I gave up on having a family. These lady's are players😢

[@RegisteredNurse926]

Same, brother. Same. But look at the bright side: we'll never be trapped in a miserable marriage, never lose half our stuff, never pay child support, have peace of mind, never be nagged, never be denied sex because someone deprived us, never have to compromise on our standards of living, and save money for retirement much, much sooner. These are things our fathers wish they could have had.

[@Psyfi85]

@@RegisteredNurse926dead on. I can tell my boomer dad is mildly resentful of me being 38, 39 in July and being childless, never married. Got engaged once but got completely blindsided and in a very cruel way. Haven’t looked at women or society the same since.

[@tedknight1676]

I just find there's no more incentive to date so i work on making money going to the gym and working on my hobbies, congrat LFA on 100k you have the best content in the manosphere

[@Ducati007]

Thats me my friend! Corvette, motorcycle! Enjoy!!!

[@josebro352]

​@@Ducati007So a Corvette and a motorcycle bring you joy? How materialistic and shallow. You sound like a five year old who's mother just bought him some new toys. Personally I'd rather travel to other countries and expience other cultures than waste my money on material things.

[@desertraider8628]

What a shame the time were living in.LFA you'd be a good father

[@monk4ever]

Nah, I'm happy he is single and child-free. Men need to help other men.

[@anawa2006]

I was thinking the same.

[@fallingleave5287]

He can still be a dad 😊

[@Bristecom]

Yep, I always think it's strange and a shame how many bad fathers/husbands there are out there yet there are many guys who'd make great fathers/husbands but will likely never get the chance...

[@gregorystinette8271]

Peace of mind is more important than piece of a_ _

[@Mori]

Keep in mind age is arbitrary, and humans base physical attraction off of biological markers, pheromones, and visible characteristics. Which is why most men are attracted to a specific age range of women. Not because of the magic number. But because of the characteristics most commonly seen amongst that demographic of women. -M

[@LonelyHearts.Co24]

Africans should never compare themselves to white people...in terms of looks.

[@strongrelaxed9202]

Nice try lady. The age may vary by each woman, but older women are NOT as attractive as younger women. In today's world it is even more true about their insides than their outsides.

[@thetimelapsesketchbook.9088]

I'm 53. I gave up looking when I was 34. Girls were never interested in me. I wasn't bad looking guy. Just wasn't very good at the whole chase thing. Seems so false and fake. I figure that if I find someone naturally through my lifes journey then i will. If I don't I don't. I'm happy as I am and made peace with myself a long, long time ago.

[@Ciclopea2]

I'll turn 45 this year, single, no kids, but ok with it especially considering i was a completely different person up to my mid 30's. Like most people through some disappointment and heartbreak i became a grown up and aware of certain realities, but rather late in life, it took a lot of soul searching to reach this point of acceptance. It's my journey and most people aren't meant to keep me company all the way through it, no matter how much i actually love them, i've learned to love myself too.

[@greymatters14]

Good advice. I’ve lived 55 years, been through the mill. Wish I had this advice available when I I was a younger man. Build your life gents, the rest will fall in place. Be patient.

[@davidbowman2035]

My uncle turned 80 and never married. I am 49, never married. I am more at peace with myself now than I have ever been. Being able to socialise is just as important. It is finding the balance.

[@xx-lk3bx]

Your uncle will live to over 100 yrs

[@DJ-kw6zk]

Take it from an older guy: Life is much easier and fulfilling if you can link long-term with a sensible, loving woman who shares your values. I've been married nearly 30 years. Not every day is lollipops & rainbows, of course, but overall it's the best darn thing that's happened to me. YMMV

[@maxchan179]

unless you got married at 50 years old, why would we take it from you? where is your point of reference for life not being married?

[@zeliph]

I'm 31. The dating market is challenging! I've been on many dates last year. I am always given the same speech from women from these dates, "I don't feel a romantic connection" or "I don't want to lead you on" - but really I think they just found a better confident and buff guy. This year I'm doing my best to get more muscle and somehow be confident this year. If that doesn't get me a woman, it will at least give me a healthier lifestyle.

[@nomadman5288]

I'm not saying looks don't matter, but if they're not feeling it, it's more likely a behavior thing. "Confidence" is just situational competence. When you're 20, your confidence is usually out of ignorance. In your 30s or 40s, it's because you actually have experience, knowledge and hopefully the early stages of wisdom.

[@richandclean]

This sounds like me 10 years ago, crazy journey

[@18wheeler76]

what 31 yr old says they are 31 gonna be 32 after that ? no shit.thats what 5yr olds say .im 5 gonna be 6.hot take man

[@Jason.O379]

Do it fur you not women's

[@zeliph]

@@18wheeler76 yeah, it is a bit cringy. 😅 My birthday is coming up soon and I just feel like I didn't make any progress in getting a gf in 2023 (my goal). I know that I can only do so much on my end.

[@MrHabs66]

Was married at 40, divorced at 50. Now I’m 57 and single. I’m retired with no debt and with a nice balance in the bank. I can almost guarantee that I’ll die alone and I’m more than ok with that. At my age, peace and quiet is damn near addictive. I’ve never been happier.

[@thealisterr]

If you don’t mind me asking what was the reason why you both split up? I would imagine it could be chalked up to “irreconcilable differences” aka she got bored and wanted something new, but maybe it’s different. Could you explain?

[@MrHabs66]

@@thealisterr It’s pretty simple. She cheated on me & left me for another guy. After about 4 months, that relationship ended and she wanted back in my house. That was easy to turn down. Once the trust is gone, it’s over. Hope that helped.

[@MORCOPOLO0817]

Someone once told me, "If you meet a woman in a club, that is where she's going to leave you!"

[@dublinstreets3621]

For 25 years my wife and I were very happy, then we met.

[@UberVike]

Lmao first time hearing that one

[@teerav42psu]

Fucking love this haha

[@TexasMan77]

Haha, Rodney Dangerfield quote. 😆 😆😆

[@renegadeace1735]

I'm turning 38 this week and have never had a gf. But I'm not alone. I have friends, I'm in great shape (although could be much better but great compared to the rest of my family), workout everyday, and I have free time to focus on trying to get rich.

[@patrickyeates9516]

I am 31 and I am from England fellas, I have been single for years and I don't plan to get married, it's too risky etc, I wish everyone all the best, your community on here is awesome, keep up the great work my man

[@jacobcutrer]

Reason 3: you have extreme social anxiety and turn people down because you fear being judged because of trauma.

[@tweed0929]

You are on the path of recovery if you admit that. You are blessed in that. Imagine, women, who think they are perfect, suddenly realize they hit the wall full throttle and nobody wants them. They still think everyone else is at fault. You, OTOH, do realize YOU have problems. And that's the power you have to overcome that obstacle. Keep the spine straight!

[@nurarondic3686]

​@@tweed0929and how you know that those women you mentioned dont know they have a problem? Not every woman is narcissistic and thinks its everybody else fault not her own.Everyone knows what is their problem,even if they dont want to admit,whether a man or a woman.

[@coquifrog]

11:32 "Most guys aren't interested in 20 year old women in their sexual prime." -LFA

[@Brosenbrose]

Congrats on 100K! Long time coming!

[@MrMerajjio]

I got divorced around 35 years old. Started life over and it's been the best years of my life, both with dating and short-term relationships.

[@aceofbase7239]

How do you meet women...unfortunately I don't use tinder or any other form of online dating and approaching can be tough not because I'm scared because of the 99.9% of rejections and mind games

[@KristopherStidd]

Thank you for the video LFA! 😎🙏🏿

[@Skretting91]

Tuned in on this video because im in a shitty situation atm. My wife is pregnant and we are at the brink of a break up. The anxiety that comes with this is biblical. Im just preparing to be alone and not seeing my future child most of the time. Life sucks sometimes doesnt it.

[@digidrum2003]

You won't be alone....you will have a child soon. Good luck brother... stay strong.

[@JFreez]

Congrats on 100k. Been nice seeing your philosophies change over time. Keep it up.

[@bradley_Bradley]

Way to go on the 100K ! Id say well deserved. Appreciate the good conversations you start up with us guys

[@aaronsjournal139]

I'm 45 and am still a never-married single with no kids. I always struggled with women, partly or largely due to mild autism which wrecked my confidence at a young age. I support myself ok, I work out, I take care of myself, I have a couple of friends, but I just never developed the art of flirting and escalating things or relationship skills, as I've never been in a LTR. There is also a lack of opportunity to even meet single desirable women these days, and apps don't work for me. Life just feels empty and unsatisfying. At this point, I'm grappling with how to cope with the high likelihood that I'm going to grow old alone, while still holding on to a fragment of hope that my luck could turn.

[@ModelJames13]

I've been thinking about trying to starve the desire out of me. Like get really shredded below 10% body fat. Worth a try right? 😎

[@dantimber]

Great analysis. I was in a 'common law' marriage for most of my 30's. I'm 57 now, successful, and never married. I put too much emphasis on money and success and regret it. Knowing what I know now I think it's a mistake for most guys to reject women out of hand. If you find the right one take a chance and go for it!

[@joestewart3117]

Congrats on 100,000

[@rygarzz7650]

I'm 55 and still a virgin, I don't have the looks women like.By the way my body is in extremely good physical condition and I live a very healthy lifestyle. Women can not be manipulated just because you act like a confident alpha male with a good body. It doesn't matter how much confidence a man has in himself, if the women is not attracted to that guy she will definitely not have sex with him. over the last 41 years I have been rejected over ten thousand times. I am 100 percent confident in myself and a homeowner with a stress free life. The point of my comment is to say that hookup culture does not work for average looking guys. That is a fact!

[@ivancollier5171]

Even though some people may not like what you’re saying, I believe it’s 100% truth

[@mr.sophistication3232]

Most important comment on this video. 100% true and I hope a lot of younger guys see it so they avoid wasting years of their lives.

[@mzivkovic84]

Good point. its your face (eyes) that attract women.Most guys dont realize this.

[@daviddietsch]

Very true

[@Ciclopea2]

You better preach!

[@MaximusEquilibrium]

3:45 i couldn't agree more! 💯 My kids are wonderful human beings and i am so happy with how they turned out! I am raising some good, smart, compassionate people! ❤️💪🏻

[@hughjanis6439]

Thanks for the chat buddy.

[@LegionWolves]

Dude I love these videos. Thanks for being real and keeping it real man.

[@josefadams647]

Best and REALEST youtube page out there. great content brother.

[@MattyLiam333]

50 here. Been with hundreds and hundreds of women. Ex lead singer, regional band, now regular guy. Own my own home, I make 6 figures, multiple income streams. The young ones will leave you when they turn 28. The old ones are no fun. Just stay single guys. It's much more fulfilling. Focus on your money and stay away from alcohol.

[@jong8876]

Jay cartwright

[@Scottish_Mgtow]

​@jong8876 completed it mate

[@ITR1329]

LFA is not missing lately. Spoke to the core of me 😂. Being awake in this world is potentially a tough road. There’s plenty of marriageable women out there, but they’re becoming increasingly rare as a % of population.

[@imkafka9572]

Thanks for the comfort! Love your channel! 🙏🏻

[@rickygilbert7204]

Appreciate the video LFA. Nicely done well put inform video my guy 💯

[@hams2k677]

My god LFA you're amazing I'm 34 career house working out 2 cars an all. Truth it everyone is getting married. My ex was 10 years younger beautiful but honestly I jusy couldn't connect cause of maturity. Everything yourr saying here I can relate. I am also questioning if I want kids or not. Love ur content. Super grateful I found you.

[@Dylan.The.Islander]

God Bless, LFA.

[@LFA]

Salute!

[@jessekuchinski1172]

Congrats on 100k subscribers. Thats an amazing achievement

[@stevieG.]

A video from LFA is always a welcome thing😊

[@dr_bullseye]

if you married your high school sweetheart that is the way to go, our grandparents (pre-boomers) did it right

[@user-mh3kp7we7i]

Two of my friends from high school did that. Divorce has claimed them both!

[@milesralls7972]

Everyone I know that did this is already miserable and I’m only 22…. You have no fuckin clue at all who you are in high school, hell I still don’t know who I am.

[@Harmonious-jm3sy]

I married mine. She couldn’t keep her pants on at her work. She was more interested in male validation than her own children. A woman willing to give her children up for strange d*ck says it all about our culture. 35 years wasted.

[@dr_bullseye]

technology has destroyed gen z women - yeah it is rare@@milesralls7972

[@monk4ever]

Haha. Nice joke. 😂

[@clbaird40]

I could get a girlfriend. Unfortunately, I don't want to jump through one hoop. At 52, a woman can't really add a lot to my life at this point. I've been married, had kids, what's the point after that?

[@agatastaniak7459]

Well, if you reduce a woman to marriage and kids then fair enough, if you have no need for either marriage and kids then obviously you don't see any "added value" in it. In my view having a romantic partner is about much more than marriage and kids but I can say this being a woman who never was especially "marriage" obsessed and who cannot have kids, so....

[@joejoe1126]

Congrats 100 000!!!

[@Alander8]

Dude, i Appreciate you giving us the truth . no sugar coding ...

[@keiwinnmitchell3212]

It’s not selfishness to remain single to focus on your pursuits and passions…It a personal life choice. It would be selfish if one had family/children and neglected them to pursue their own goals.

[@dreadedsun69]

Exactly I always thought pursuing your passions was the main purpose of life.

[@dreadedsun69]

@user-om1jv6cb2p Exactly all humans are selfish to an extent. Its a survival instinct.

[@libertyordeath8351]

God Loves Losers, get back to God, it may not be the answer for everybody, but it maybe just what you need, some solid ground to stand on, God Bless!!!

[@JonnnyStorrrm]

Congratulations on hitting 100k!

[@jesusvelazquez3lg776]

Love your videos man keep doing what your doing

[@Aprilisca]

50 with 3 great kids... LFA... you would be a really inspiring father. Consider your best babymama to go for it.

[@garnetdavey8776]

Degrading LFA

[@ibuprofen303]

Guess I'm one of the unusual ones as far as younger women are concerned. At 52, I am unmarried and no kids (just bad luck I guess that it hasn't worked out with anyone so far). I've had quite a few long term relationships. I have been facing the rest of my life single. Recently, I was actually chased and asked out by a 21 year old woman. Decided to give her a chance. Although she is obviously "young", I don't find her "childish". She is more into things like museums, art galleries, that kind of thing, although she is also a gamer. Very very pretty woman, and absolutely lovely company, very attached and devoted. I think she is disillusioned with the Gen Z men, finding them utterly useless. Well - I dunno how this is going to work out, but it's great for the time being. She doesn't have the baggage of the middle aged women that I have tried dating in recent years. Fellas - although what LFA says about the young chicks is for the most part correct, there are some out there that are "timeless", not into clubbing and all that shit. Intelligent, and mature for their age. Keep yourselves young-looking and in good shape, and maybe find yourselves a young hottie. They beat the middle aged bitter harpies for company. I'm gonna enjoy this one for as long as I can ;)

[@YM-kk6jv]

Congrats on the 100k!!!!

[@Gapial]

Thank you! I surly needed to hear this one. Dam it hit close to home

[@thechild7355]

Congrats on 100k followers

[@user-jz6to8md3c]

So true about the maturity differance.

[@benvoronov2306]

This is an excellent video. You've addressed a lot of things that have been on my mind. You're a good person - very understanding and wise, too. Thank you.

[@cowboydan1288]

Discovered your channel.👍. Digging in. Narcissist wife reaped me after 45 years of service. My gain. Praise God.

[@sircefiro]

I'd say a lot of people will be on their own whether by choice or not, the modern world has really gone downhill, I think the internet was just too much for a lot of people, especially women, men usually get a reality slap real quick, where women can live in delusion. Psychologists will say, just because the problem is in someones head, doesn't make it any less of a problem, and here we are.

[@jackcatlin]

You're aging gracefully like a wise sage LFA.

[@ahmadhwaidi9702]

Your not alone we’re all with you much love keep hustling gentlemen ❤

[@tequilawolf7611]

Congrats on 100k LFA 🎉

[@kezmenflowers8691]

I'm 35 and have been single a majority of my life. I have had one night stands and flings here and there but a consistent serious girlfriend was only one in my 35 years of living and even that was questionable with that situation. I've already come to accept that I'll be alone forever and truthfully, I prefer it now at 35 because I've been burned too much in life and prefer having peace over having a woman in my life.

[@nathanmayes2164]

The only dudes who are never truly alone are those who run rotations. The cycle of single, relationship, single, relationship - is the most miserable thing ever invented. I can't believe men have gone along with it for so long.

[@shanan1124]

Congratulations on 100K subs!!!👍🏾💪🏾👊🏾

[@victorboone2053]

Good analysis of the realities of life! Damn! Peace and minimal pressure is a must!

[@-glitch-8195]

You are right about the age gap. Tried it. Wasn’t a huge age gap. Thought an older guy would be more mature, but I was wrong. It has a whole another set of challenges. It wasn’t just that you can’t relate, but eventually you’ll outgrow each other. They’re set in their ways, which is fine. However, it can be very exhausting. Like something as simple as going somewhere. Doesn’t have to be fancy, becomes a hassle. Or trying something new. I’m personally not a sit down an expensive restaurant type of gal. I prefer going to a cafe & having a light breakfast on the weekend. Or taking a little road trip to flower festival. Berry picking. Horseback riding. Hiking. Photography. ETC. However, I noticed most guys prefer the expensive restaurant girl even though they complain about it. They can show her off. Just like those women can show him off. It is what it is. Everyone just needs to stop lying to themselves. If you're into that. Cool. Also, by the time you meet him, he's been with certain type of females. So there is absolutely nothing you can add to the equation if you're serious. I know most would think it’s the exact opposite. But it’s not. How I see it is, he’s older so he probably thinks he has it figured out. Which is fine. However, what can I add? Nothing. Ain’t nothing wrong with that. Nor does it mean I don’t have something going on. We just don’t want the same thing. I’m sure he’ll find what he’s looking for. There is no “world” to enter. In the end, similarities is what keeps people together. This doesn’t mean I wouldn’t pursue an older man at all, but I definitely would have my own thing going on & his age would have 0 correlation to maturity.

[@13bfc]

Guys if you're 31/32 you can still meet a woman within your 30s & have kids by 40/early 40s & live a good life to watch them grow into adulthood. You're not facing "being single forever" as If you're a woman with a biological clock. Early 30s is young for a guy. Also by 35 you won't be limited to an unattractive geriatric 35 year old woman or a immature 21 year old. You can meet women in their late 20s (preferably anyways) who you still find attractive & can have kids with because she isn't geriatric. Make yourself as competent as possible & vet these women properly. This video is too black & white, Don't think the guy on KZbin is ALWAYS right.

[@cool08player]

Committing to a late 20s is bailing them out from the CC. Personally, I won't even consider anyone over 22, and even that's pushing it. If society doesn't want to guarantee that for me, that's okay, I'm fine doing my own thing.

[@roberthaskin1723]

There are Def some points of good truth in this vid. Well said

[@davidcole2331]

Love your take on life , keep up the good work

[@mpconstructs6048]

social media destroyed dating relationships and companionship, women are always shopping for the next best thing, TILL THEY FINALLY HIT THE WALL. stay on your path and purpose gentleman.

[@giftedsun]

This has been my experience. Also, you don't always get to even make a choice. Lucky if you do. I had plenty of dates and connection, but, none that went the distance. Now, older and tired of hoping. Guess so have to learn to really like my own company

[@gunnarg1314]

Thanks for the vids man. Makes me feel better with myself

[@denisdenofgames]

I appreciate your efort to speak about this things!

[@dat868]

When I was 33 I dated a 21yr old girl and there is such a big disparity in age and maturity such that you really don't have much in common and the relationship just cannot last. At least it didn't for me and I doubt it does for most guys. Girls that age are very immature despite outward appearances and change their mind virtually every minute .

[@chrisheffernan3998]

I can reasonate with that. At 41 I was involved with a 22 year old woman who ended up a wolf in sheeps clothing. She suddenly without warning ghosted me and in the end I found out she was knobbing another bloke simultaneously. I still hate her guts even two years after it all ended very badly

[@RobertSmith-jd6wb]

Divorced at 29. 33 now. Already on child support. I’m good alone from now on.

[@1MinuteFlipDoc]

brutal. god bless!

[@TheSlippytongue]

Great introspection and very good points. This really spoke to me, as a 35 year old male who's never been in a relationship and is wondering if I ever will, and whether I really want to ever be in one. Really enjoy your content, brother!

[@ausamzar7632]

Love your contents my guy, I subscribed!