*I kid you not, I needed this so bad. I feel like I’m being pushed around because of how shy I am and it makes me feel shit. This was good. Very good, thanks a lot man*
@Tara-nd3id4 жыл бұрын
Puss
@dr.anont3ch5144 жыл бұрын
Pussy
@Isaacmossguitar4 жыл бұрын
I feel you bro, fuck the haters
@drunkenmonkey18874 жыл бұрын
Learn the difference between "looking" confident and "being" confident. Unfortunately, stuff you see on vids like this are more about giving the impression of something rather than actually being something. One is pretending. One is understanding. You decide which you really want.
@Haberly4 жыл бұрын
Bro don't listen these keyboard "machos". You do you kid, confidence gets you places
@muhammadmuradmahar21344 жыл бұрын
1: Outfit + Eyeglasses 2: Body language ( Cross your arms ) 3: Eye contact ( Look at Eyebrows ) 4: Smell Good 5: Ask questions 6: Start saying Yes
@iveros84814 жыл бұрын
Yes
@muhammadsameer96724 жыл бұрын
Thanks bro ❤️🍷😍
@dorian_tihi58694 жыл бұрын
Yo, Hope you are doing good. I just started my own YT channel and I would appreciate a lot if you would go check it out and show some support. See you there :)
@younisa6623 жыл бұрын
You saved my internet bro 😅
@CountDain73 жыл бұрын
Yes
@joshfeldman31704 жыл бұрын
Damn I've been here over 3 years, he got me a girl, got me over her, got me to workout, eat healthy. Damn this guy changed me for the better!
@joshfeldman31704 жыл бұрын
Happy 6 mil A.M.
@raidermatt83984 жыл бұрын
😤🙏
@harshalwagh57974 жыл бұрын
Feels nice to read such comments especially when it's been just 3 days since me watching xD
@ryanfiore10884 жыл бұрын
🙌🏻🙌🏻
@pushanvasy97424 жыл бұрын
Then you woke up 😂😂😂
@Hasan-uh8zj4 жыл бұрын
I finally got to this video faster than alpha could say "GENTLEMEN!"
@Doberbull4 жыл бұрын
Hey do you know where he got that grey jacket?
@Hasan-uh8zj4 жыл бұрын
@@Doberbull no clue .... try digging for it online- use different words to describe it, etc
@vitoscaletta65674 жыл бұрын
@@Doberbull It's the H&M grey bomber jacket.
@dorian_tihi58694 жыл бұрын
@@vitoscaletta6567 Yo, Hope you are doing good. I just started my own YT channel and I would appreciate a lot if you would go check it out and show some support. See you there :)
@vitoscaletta65674 жыл бұрын
@@dorian_tihi5869 Aight fine man ;)
@MisterPol4 жыл бұрын
Alpha M is the man that turns boys into badass gentlemen
@stockmoe87204 жыл бұрын
She’s my best . Her videos are professional and amazing
@stockmoe87204 жыл бұрын
I learnt a lot from her strategies. With that I’m even having profit of about $200,000. But under the care of an expert who’s guiding me trade. Dr Lydia Virginia woodruff. +1 ( 2 0 9 ) 3 7 9 - 6 6 6 3
@stockmoe87204 жыл бұрын
Lydiavirginiawoodruff.cøm
@TheHappyHummy4 жыл бұрын
Lol
@sharky9774 жыл бұрын
300th like
@juantomjones96534 жыл бұрын
Thank you for making this for use shy dudes. I'm super shy and one of the things I hate most. I mean don't get me wrong I know how to stand for myself when need be but wish I had more confidence. These tips ate definitely a start to get me on track to building my confidence. It's so easy to stay in your comfort zone because it's what you're use too and it feels good but you have to learn to step out of that comfort zone and get comfortable with being uncomfortable and that's what I'm working. To all my shy brothers out there... we can do this. We're all in this together.
@Syne1nz3 жыл бұрын
I've learned over the years that the act of confidence creates the confidence, and when I see others that come off as confident, I try to remember that they also have insecurities. Just do it and be in the moment.
@ConfidenceCreator24 жыл бұрын
Believing that no matter what happens you’re going to be fine anyway is always a great mindset to have
@Rot8tn13b4 жыл бұрын
Exactly!
@TravaZZZik3 жыл бұрын
and it's usually true, too!
@muhammadzainahmed22164 жыл бұрын
Alpha's outfit is always on point 🔥
@nicholasmyers73852 ай бұрын
Preach it brother. I'm feeling it I'm thriving.
@issaognigga7864 жыл бұрын
Nobody: Aaron: "It's a birthmark."
@MegaNancyLover4 жыл бұрын
Ehh, technically people have pointed out and asked about his birthmark. So that “nobody” meme doesn’t really apply.
@Doberbull4 жыл бұрын
Where did they grey jacket come from? I need one
@Nxrreshh_4 жыл бұрын
😂😂😂
@bertrandmelomane95484 жыл бұрын
And now I can't unsee it
@RgIIIII3 жыл бұрын
@@Doberbull I got a similar one at H&M
@lachlangardner20803 жыл бұрын
the one about the outfit of awesome ness is so true to me personally I think the rest of your vids my have some valitdy to them. also instead of crossing your arms you can always have your hands holding onto something near by or what I find works is in your pockets but in a way to show confidence not like your trying to hide
@kevinkascolinkeithtimghera43054 жыл бұрын
Fake it until you make it. Best advice, ever. Dress nice, look up, until it comes naturally. Still learning... Good luck! x
@Will-xl7xp3 жыл бұрын
Getting good at boxing really increased my confidence. It’s indescribable. You just feel sure of yourself when your in a room with strangers
@YaBoyfelipe3 жыл бұрын
I wanna start boxing or doing mma
@YaBoyfelipe3 жыл бұрын
I feel the same but instead of boxing I do calisthenics
@aaghazkhan23784 жыл бұрын
it's been 2 years of me following alpha , and I think I've only grown in these years with his help , much appreciated alpha ❤️
@Dawson184 жыл бұрын
I just got the rebel and hero colognes and I absolutely fell in love it’s one of theee best
@jonathandomnar39504 жыл бұрын
crossing ur arms is a sign of comfort bcuz ur basically giving urself a hug. if u cross ur arms in public, it means ur comfortable being in public, which means confidence. boom ur welcome
@mahummadharoon54044 жыл бұрын
I love this guy he is so dashing
@harshalwagh57974 жыл бұрын
REAL APPRECIATION FOR ALPHA... THIS MAN REALLY GOT US... FOLLOW THE ADVICE 👌🏻🙏🏻
@Dr.AlexMora4 жыл бұрын
King, Hero & Rebel. The perfect set! We need this to be available worldwide, Alpha. Brilliant as always. Thanks!
@victoryoneable4 жыл бұрын
Crossed arms can also look defensive. Better arms behind your back, clasp your wrist with your other hand. Makes you look open and unafraid, also improves posture by automatically broadening your shoulders and pushing your chest out.
@drinkdiesel27403 жыл бұрын
When can I stop changing myself for people to stop looking “shy”? I just want to be myself. My parents told me when I was younger “if someone doesn’t like you or have anything nice to say they can fuck off” I live by that.
@stephensmith51154 жыл бұрын
Focusing on something is also a great way to look confident. I always think "I've been here before I've done this" works every time. Armani helps too
@shrinidhigour4 жыл бұрын
Oh boy! It's like this video is for me. And yessssss! I have my own outfit of awesomeness. Denim jacket, t-shirt, black jeans (perfect fitting!!) and boots!! So good 🔥
@LeanAndDapperWorkout4 жыл бұрын
I remember when I was shy. 😭😭 And then I discovered Alpha M. Yessir 🤙💯.
@elliotnyberg643 жыл бұрын
love this guy alpha youre a living legend
@malementorchannel4 жыл бұрын
Aaron changed my life when I was struggling and now I help all men to become the better version of themselves, I would really love your support!
@malementorchannel4 жыл бұрын
@Sxnthsh thanks sxnthsh
@malementorchannel4 жыл бұрын
@WaterMark Studio thanks watermark studio
@malementorchannel4 жыл бұрын
@Sxnthsh your channel is grt
@malementorchannel4 жыл бұрын
@WaterMark Studio your movie channel is cool man
@malementorchannel4 жыл бұрын
@The Darkest Knight sure
@jonathanwong7694 жыл бұрын
Wow i love Alpha's analogy of the shy muscles. Great info Alpha
@dorian_tihi58694 жыл бұрын
Yo, Hope you are doing good. I just started my own YT channel and I would appreciate a lot if you would go check it out and show some support. See you there :)
@Donnnny20104 жыл бұрын
Great advice Just wanted to ad that it depends on where u live and the type of crowd.nowadays looking diffrent and being bigger makes you stand out so dialing down in certain crowds could be benefivial.jealousy and paranoia is triggered in our socueties while norms are being pushed in the opposite direction of functioning . If your darker and buff u need to smile more in these abouts.fear is induced constantly as a contingency measure and conformilty as identity protectionism flows all over. Women respond to being with another women and men get insecure or competetive at mre sight of opposite genders smiling together. I believe charm is key to handling the tense atmosphere.
@samuelndeze53744 жыл бұрын
Already confident watching alpha's intro
@R3flexeszz4 жыл бұрын
Hell yeah
@thomaspitale23704 жыл бұрын
Thank you Alpha. I think I definitely put some of these tips into practice.
@ColdBlunts3 жыл бұрын
I’m happy with my small bursts of confidence throughout the day
@ionutjinga23424 жыл бұрын
Greetings from Romania. Love you man, you helped me so much!
@Khrysos4 жыл бұрын
i never knew what to do with my hands without my phone other than the 4 fingers in the pockets thing. thank you for always giving such great different advice.
@shadmandhrubo55144 жыл бұрын
Legend says, if you're early, you'll get a heart from Alpha!
@rhirulievupru95844 жыл бұрын
The legends deemed true
@thepeoplesartist28634 жыл бұрын
Bed esss!
@TheMonkIsMad4 жыл бұрын
I love that badass jacket. I was hoping for a link in the description. : (
@O_g_4 жыл бұрын
3:00 first ad ends 6:54 second ad ends
@kacchan82724 жыл бұрын
Dude you're a legend
@O_g_4 жыл бұрын
R. Films ❤️
@akashjones40473 жыл бұрын
🔥🔥🔥🔥
@Guinea543 жыл бұрын
I purchased those glasses with the 20 percent off code and I enjoy them. They look good and the lenses are extremely clear. Even a little more clear than my polarized rayban new wayfarers.
@2jagalstv5404 жыл бұрын
CONFIDENCE IS KEY!
@tusharazad85544 жыл бұрын
I just want to seriously Thank this dude. Aaron you're seriously and AlphaM.
@prashant42444 жыл бұрын
So early that I have a chance to get a heart from alpha! P.s. Lots of Love from INDIA🇮🇳
@aamanisrar64834 жыл бұрын
Dude I’ve been subscribed here for so goddamn long and since I have no father figure alpha in a way has helped shape the way I portray myself but GODDAMN THANK YOU FOR THIS ONE MAN
@jabulanikaya5014 жыл бұрын
I think I got the code now lol , thanks for this nice video
@nitinbhatia45324 жыл бұрын
You’re right sir ✌️
@marshaljames27664 жыл бұрын
Really people fails to understand that the rich stay rich by spending like the poor and continue investing unstop, then the poor fails to do so
@nitinbhatia45324 жыл бұрын
@Marshal James that’s the wisest speaker so far here . You’re wise 🤝
@ivanon89564 жыл бұрын
For real there are fraudsters out here and they are still real brokers for investors
@davidgarry34494 жыл бұрын
Really guys people are just afraid to invest in forex trading because of the current fraudsters in the business
@leemcqueen11204 жыл бұрын
Yo alpha you changed my life and boosted my confidence thanks
@obitouchiha52624 жыл бұрын
3:57 oh yeah i was waiting for that 😂
@kamoffit4 жыл бұрын
I love this dudes energy God bless you man
@jjjacob41934 жыл бұрын
For everyone, stay true to yourself. Remember that we cannot impress everyone. We just only need to please ourselves
@trochustyle9544 жыл бұрын
Don't listen to him shyness has nothing to do with confidence just be yourself. Confidence is being humble and wise , calm and modest and having self respect to yourslef and to people around be kind and focus on yourself be wise and fun and cool this is confidence Specially a men his age , he is not a teenager. But DON'T be gay or feminin.
@davidalabi90122 жыл бұрын
@@trochustyle954 not hating or trying to be rude, but he said LOOK MORE CONFIDENT which helps to make u actually more confident
@chris_abazas4 жыл бұрын
Alpha you are GREAT man. Greetings from Greece 🇬🇷
@akashroy34474 жыл бұрын
The eyebrow technique is something I use guys.. It works as hell.. 🔥✨👍
@richmanpereabinagha74073 жыл бұрын
Pls can u explain
@sunnyjeet44654 жыл бұрын
alpha, you are the best!!! i love your videos
@mikulaszach26524 жыл бұрын
You are confident just by managing to say, that you are confident to someone. 😀
@hugoyuugo13003 жыл бұрын
I really feel fortunate to watch and realize that even with my toxic behaviors, I still got the basis 🌟 And I'll get more hints to get hype and reduce my toxicity! Because I am toxic! Watching toxic women, crazy women videos, I IMMEDIATELY said to myself "See that, this is you. And this is not who you want to be!" I kinda knew it but somebody might be disliking me because of my erratic behavior.
@souvikpandit79464 жыл бұрын
After every one of the videos of alpha m I just understand in order to look confident you will need three things 1. Attitude 2.spicy seneorita 3. Tiege and Hanley 🔥
@weilinhernandez43974 жыл бұрын
you forgot to add that you have to drop one of these👍
@souvikpandit79464 жыл бұрын
@@weilinhernandez4397 ya 😂 and have to drop one of these 👍👍
@nunudzai4 жыл бұрын
Yo Alpha your videos are amazing! Could you do a video on how to be confident on video calls or to appear virtually confident??
@LunaticG4 жыл бұрын
3:31 lol how does he know i do this every time
@dankocur63383 жыл бұрын
My dad has passed away at a young age I never had anyone tell me about lots of stuff you teach I watch every one I watch this stuff while working out know im a Layton cologne guy love it lots of complements but might as well save a but load of cash and try your stuff
@AlvinCwk4 жыл бұрын
I like how hes not telling you dont be shy, but instead hes telling you how to feel confident about being shu
@natc21914 жыл бұрын
Great episode! I'm 42 years old and still, the shy guy. I'm going to try the, looking at the eyebrows, trick!
@camerongray77674 жыл бұрын
This video.couldnt be better timed for me, thanks man I loved this one 💪
@surajhegde25914 жыл бұрын
Brother, thanks for building up such confident in me....m a BADASS....
@Nashid774 жыл бұрын
Next Month: “Don’t cross you’re arms. It’s closed off body language.”
@gerti35_054 жыл бұрын
it is but it also looks more confident tho
@adamfittro20844 жыл бұрын
^^^
@freedomgunsandliberty4 жыл бұрын
@@gerti35_05 no. No it dosent. NEVER cross your arms unless you're negotiating on a sale. If you close off you close the world from coming to you.
@ruffneckglass22633 жыл бұрын
Closed arms, negative... R.i.p brody stevens
@Theohybrid3 жыл бұрын
I think context matters. It is indeed closed off but that's why your gaze comes into play. You're in your body but someone catches your eye. Could be wrong but I think that's the idea. 'I'm not looking for adventure until...'
@venomdank9654 жыл бұрын
thats true last part where he said if ur shy and u put ur self out there it will go away in time... I started going to the gym this month I was rly shy now I walk the gym like I own it... (I always worked out just not in the gym so I got cut fast) I also joined dance class today, and looks like I am gonna have a lot of friend girls. They said bye to me on my first day O.O I was RLY RLY NERVOUS! but I DID IT! and I know its only gonna get better once I learn the dance moves. :)
@Doberbull4 жыл бұрын
*WHERE THE HELL DID HE GET THAT JACKET?!* Somebody PLEASE answer this
@elldyson3 жыл бұрын
all saints kemble bomber ash grey
@Doberbull3 жыл бұрын
@@elldyson You are a very fine man thank you sm!
@HugeStirz3 жыл бұрын
Alpha is straight legend at this point
@coolultimamente23224 жыл бұрын
Somebody had to say it, the beard looks nice, these kinds of videos sometimes makes people doubt their sexual preferences, crazy thought eh? Thanks for all the great videos alpha,
@MartiinCarrillo3 жыл бұрын
You're amazing dude! Thanks for helping us be more confident 🙏
@bowskee4 жыл бұрын
How does he manage to have 2 sponsors in 1 video? 😂 Only Aaron
@ChiahCutrell4 жыл бұрын
I love this guys energy
@Saif-el3pf4 жыл бұрын
30 seconds, already 3 dislikes 😂 Even haters got notification bell on..
@sawro93434 жыл бұрын
i think they bots
@rahuldesaivlogs13963 жыл бұрын
Yes
@yoelicon72833 жыл бұрын
"shyness muscle" on spot!! thanks alpha!! 8:20
@JAB_134 жыл бұрын
I walked into my local nutrition store and at the register i asked for 10% off and the guy said, "Jake you work here, you get half off." TOTALLY WORKEDDD!😂
@shubhamraj72363 жыл бұрын
The Most Needy Video For Me....Thanks Alpha....Really Thank You..♥️
@mikulaszach26524 жыл бұрын
Aaron: ,,learn to say NO" Also Aaron: ,,learn to say YES"
@piyushsharma39914 жыл бұрын
Context matters
@deeprajgaonkar27984 жыл бұрын
He left u some part to figure out lol cuz in his words "YOU A BADASS"
@acharich4 жыл бұрын
@@piyushsharma3991 🤣🔑
@dorian_tihi58694 жыл бұрын
Hey, Hope you are doing good. I just started my own YT channel and I would appreciate a lot if you would go check it out and show some support. See you there :)
@romarioballoon73193 жыл бұрын
Anything makes you antisocial, and does not give you any legitimate benefit than say "No". Anything that you may thinks give you Quality social time, and also you may think it may improve you at some aspect than say " Yes"
@edogmoney578373 жыл бұрын
Take up space with your body, arms, shoulders wide. Keep you head up 👑
@kaushalbaldha23654 жыл бұрын
3:58 thats what i see in every eye contact with alpha👍😅
@dorian_tihi58694 жыл бұрын
Hey, Hope you are doing good. I just started my own YT channel and I would appreciate a lot if you would go check it out and show some support. See you there :)
@shubhankarsse4 жыл бұрын
Get zebra by Rasasi. It's close to creed aventus but a more natural top note rather than synthetic of the Creed. Try the one Alpha m is giving to you but if you don't like it then go for Rasasi
@serianaa4 жыл бұрын
Its really hard to look at somebody’s eyebrows to become confident because, well apparently, alot of my classmates shaved their brows and idk why but they all messed up their shaving and it made it unsymmetrical, Like the other is longer and the other shorter, it makes me laugh
@user-qe8fd9yf3v4 жыл бұрын
That's right Alpha!! Let's goooooo!!! Wooohhoooooo!! Yeah baby
@anandbenjaminamos51464 жыл бұрын
When ever I see alpha m notification I just click instantly ❤️😁
@JJB-894 жыл бұрын
Always have wondered where that suede bomber is from?! So nice.
@joleoplays12184 жыл бұрын
Tiege hanley Pete n pedro Brian Uncle barry Sassy and spicy senorita The words i've learned from alpha Thanks aaron
@yuvrajvardhan14424 жыл бұрын
I love your show Each and every time I found something new 💪✌️👍👍👍👍👍👍
@dorian_tihi58694 жыл бұрын
Hey, Hope you are doing good. I started my own YT channel and I would appreciate a lot if you would go check it out and show some support. See you there :)
@azler52894 жыл бұрын
😂 Thumbnail of this video defined: Left side: Davie504 Right side: Athlean-X
@lovigarg69053 жыл бұрын
I just went to a house party where I didn't know anybody but I saw this and made several new friends and met that sassy laddie . Confidence is the key ❤️❤️
@MrBossatron4 жыл бұрын
Find your outfit of awesomeness..... * puts on teige hanley*
@alexanderbarbu98564 жыл бұрын
Decent advice between those ads!
@m.a.haidar96534 жыл бұрын
about that last advice I think a better option would be: offering someone a cup of coffee.
@ramyhafez8403 жыл бұрын
Thank you! This is just what I needed.
@rwfan2u4 жыл бұрын
I feel like THE MAN in any clothes I wear! I have charisma coming out my butt!
@dorian_tihi58694 жыл бұрын
Yo, Hope you are doing good. I just started my own YT channel and I would appreciate a lot if you would go check it out and show some support. See you there :)
@elijaheisen82034 жыл бұрын
Alpha you should do a video about best places to go for first dates! Love your videos, keep up the great work man!
@samuelmoss94874 жыл бұрын
When he said " hey..." I really felt that bc that's how I interact with girls I like. Lol
@pedrocols4 жыл бұрын
Interesting enough I started wearing glasses after wearing contacts for 20 years and I get sooo many compliments!
@dorian_tihi58694 жыл бұрын
Hey, Hope you are doing good. I just started my own YT channel and I would appreciate a lot if you would go check it out and show some support. See you there :)
@alpham4 жыл бұрын
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@malementorchannel4 жыл бұрын
To be honest, I don’t know how you manage to do such a good job every single time. Very well done!
@danyo55094 жыл бұрын
My order of king is still in Georgia 😝
@harshpangam2034 жыл бұрын
Make a video on nofap 🖤😘
@jarrenlumpkin51784 жыл бұрын
nice man.
@someoneedits4 жыл бұрын
You know who i am 😎i am a badass Because I am a Subscriber of your channel. 😅
@shev_044 жыл бұрын
Alpha change my perception of everything 👍
@konrad91994 жыл бұрын
Aaron: Hey Me: Nothing My brain: HAHAHAHAHAH
@InfiniteBeastGaming4 жыл бұрын
Alpha you may not see this. But I just want you to know how much you’ve helped me through the years. Stay healthy and I wish you the best my dude!!
@zerkxeus4 жыл бұрын
Make a fragrance inspired by Tom Ford and you’ll have my money
@jerrygonzales34083 жыл бұрын
I love the vids my girl was listening n was agreeing with everything u were sayin spicy senorita lol much love Alphas n sigma allday!!
@davidevans55714 жыл бұрын
He has literally said to never wear black shoes with blue jeans.
@tapiwanashenhanga4464 жыл бұрын
Coaches don't play.
@Salamandroo4 жыл бұрын
This is his outfit of awesomeness. Maybe he feels more comfortable like that haha :)
@smittysmith72814 жыл бұрын
I've been rocking it for years.
@dorian_tihi58694 жыл бұрын
Hey, Hope you are doing good. I started my own YT channel and I would appreciate a lot if you would go check it out and show some support. See you there :)
@thebadassguy97734 жыл бұрын
What really helped me gaining confidence is wearing glasses. I don't know why but I don't really enjoy being looked in the eye. Having a surface above them is giving me the feeling they're covered.
@richmanpereabinagha74073 жыл бұрын
I really have to get glasses too bcos I don't enjoy eye to eye contact