Always Check For a Woman's Character Over Beauty

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[@Wack-rp9nz]

Looks are so important to women that you can challenge her, and stand out by not putting her on a pedestal. Most guys fawn over gorgeous. What about intelligence and personality. No matter how good she looks you'll get use to it over time.

[@RomWills]

Very true.

[@jaws2003]

I remember a minister saying "put character first and the rest will fall into place. Looks will fade and money status can always change but character remains the same."

[@RomWills]

Exactly. The whole paradigm of mating needs to change in western culture.

[@losmit2194]

​@@RomWillsBingo!

[@jaydubya9265]

Know her character, her values, her life goals!

[@RomWills]

Correct.

[@Drai-he7ko]

Great video! I had to learn the hard way. When dating a woman, you are dating her mindset and what's in her heart. There could be a lot of bitterness in her heart and self entitlement programmed in her head. So once I figure that out, all the looks and credentials go out the window. A person's heart and mind is what guides them. That fine body is just a shell that hides all of their insecurities.

[@RomWills]

*Slow Clap* I couldn't have said it better.

[@FGAlele]

Drai 0007 #PREACH

[@abrahamjackson6019]

LMAO! family court child support, hooking with a woman you knew wasn't right for you. That's 100

[@RomWills]

Very true.

[@MackeyDeez]

I made that mistake once; got mesmerized by the tight jeans switching away down the road. Pulled over she hopped right on in and to make a long story had to drop her crazy ass after only a month she was bipolar as fuck.

[@RomWills]

Trust me I got caught a couple of times. I got my knowledge the hard way.

[@seanrichards9957]

"We have to learn to discipline ourselves sexually that real power" thats facts

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Of course a smart man will always choose character over beauty. Personality and intelligence are very sexy. I have a friend a black sister she's fine but i don't feel it and i'm pretty sure she also finds me fine but there is no connection because we don't see eachother like that. Sexual attraction is key in starting something with somebody. The body is our trigger and the personality make it complete. Women by nature are there for themselves that's an understatement. That's why we men have a bigger heart than them.Luckily i have self discipline. I always tell them i'm not obsessed by sex but it's an addiction and that's why i can compose myself. Once again it's not rocket science.

[@MrOriginalMan]

Sniper 11 N.D. "I'm not obsessed by sex but it's a addiction and thats why i can compose myself" brotha that's grown man talk right there.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Thank you brother. It's a mindset and it helps to reach your goals in life.

[@RomWills]

*The body is our trigger and the personality make it complete.* Great statement.

[@sniper11n.d.34]

Thank you.

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

A man have bigger hearts than women??? Lol. I think not bruh. By Nature, We are explosive. She is introvert. We are the Mind. She is the Soul.

[@SubwayFan83]

You're absolutely right on this. That's why I've heard from other dudes when they say "She was very attractive until she opened her mouth". Even I've been through that at times. I'm a lot more picky than before because I've notice a lot of women are attractive but have severe issues...emotionally and maturely.

[@RomWills]

Men learn this as they mature.

[@SubwayFan83]

Rom Wills yup.

[@MalakShelomoh921]

Master teachings. 🎓 I have simple but very high standards as to what character traits in a woman is attractive. I always settle for less just for the simple fact that if I pass up on women that fall short of my criteria I'll be waiting a very longtime to between women I'm intimate with but honestly I'm tired of the consequences that come with settling, so for a while now I've been just chilling and working on myself, self inflicted abstinence, I've done it before but this time I think I'm gonna stick with it until a worthy woman, both physically and mentally chooses a Player In Mack Position… big up Warren B for the acronym.

[@RomWills]

I like how you put that. Men need to always be working on themselves.

[@kelvinrice7872]

Great video! You hit the nail in the coffin with this one, this is definitely the truth. If man really take heed to this video and understand after listening to this video or they already understand this, it would save them a lot of drama when it comes to dealing with women. The majority of men wouldn't of gone through half of the things they went through when dealing with women if they understood this sufficiently, more so applied it. That have always been my whole attitude when it comes to dealing with women. For one, that personality, and us definitely having some type of connection, spiritually, mentally and definitely emotionally! I've always been the type of guy that the never just got caught up in the girls Beauty and her body for me to really get aroused sexually with that woman, it always been her personality for me to go along with her body and physical features for me to really get aroused with that woman sexually not just her looks, but a lot of guys don't do that, that's where the problem comes in! That is where the discipline supposed to come in, and I thank the most high that that's never been a problem for me, it's all about controlling your sexual behavior because it'll definitely save you in the long run. That's why I never had no serious dramatic problems with women because of that reason and my mindset. It's really best to get to know that woman regardless of her looks up front before you want to take it to the next level with her sexually, me personally I'm all about the Long Haul, after we have a sexual relationship, can we have a personal relationship outside of that! Like that movie A Thin Line Between Love and Hate, I can't think of what that actresses name was , but she told Martin Lawrence that a night-time of passion can bring a lifetime of pain. It's real!!! LOL

[@RomWills]

You have some real wisdom. Men have to value themselves enough to think about the consequences of their choices.

[@Wack-rp9nz]

Women are attracted to status and value. In the attraction phase they size up men like commodities. Some black women feel like the average black man is not on their level. That's why masked men of all races have no problem getting black women.

[@RomWills]

Truth.

[@100footsie]

Big brother Rom I literally just had this very same conversation yesterday. I tell guys and gals to be more selective when choosing a mate. People always thought I was too picky about women and I would always say no but I am very particular about who I roll with. Now if its strictly a sexual relationship I'm a little more lenient but I tell cats relationships are long term and I have literally seen cats take more time in selecting a type of car than a woman. To quote a particular author you may have heard of him its better to get a 5 that treats you good than a 10 that doesn't. Also I will be ordering a copy of sexual chemistry today. I"m really looking forward to that read.

[@RomWills]

Thanks for the support. I'll be doing a pay video based on that book soon.

[@lynnmorris8659]

I love your videos. Very interesting and thought provoking. Tfs!!!

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@lsporter88]

Hell Yeah! Amen Big Brotha Rom. Very Wise, very Manly and Sage Commentary. Now that's TRUE GAME!

[@RomWills]

I'm honored Bro. Leslie.

[@queenofhearts2013]

I totally agree,a character over beauty.But some women/men put up an awesome front.But you can only be fake for so long.A little time will reveal the real person or the fake person.

[@RomWills]

Real talk sis.

[@banderas2000]

yup

[@banderas2000]

persona is key. i was having a fling with a chick who was ... a energy vampire. she would eat unhealthy, lazy, devious ect. i am the opposite, i am active, eat HEALTHIER lol. and i hate being dishonest. i was younger and hit it anyway. i would avoid, fast food, sugar ect. but she rubbed off on me. to this day every now and then, i crave a pizza or a mcdouble. funny that wasnt a factor till after our various encounters. crazy shit

[@hunters.gardner]

lol a 20 piece or a mornig mcgriddle every once in a while wont kill you

[@Rayashong25]

Man doc this is powerful, wish I was taught this long time ago. But hey, it is what it is. I'll teach my boys

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@GokuBlack-sn5dr]

to this day this is a tough pill to swallow.

[@tread1331]

Such a great message Rom.

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@rdg1hbk]

9:05 Thats a very very thought provoking question right there

[@RomWills]

Every man has to ask himself this question.

[@james11462]

Dam Ron I had been contemplating on trying to start me a KZbin channel and talk about some of the subjects that you talk about I must say you have covered it all and it cannot be done any better you have covered all a man needs to know there's no competition you get an A 100

[@RomWills]

Start it anyway. Some people are not going to listen to me and then you come along and say the same thing and people will listen. Plus you're going to add your own spin on it which is a good thing. It's about cooperation. There's enough out here that all of us can eat.

[@mrj9224]

Most women gave no character blame social media

[@RomWills]

Yup.

[@ziggy1ton328]

Thank u for the great advice big homie🙌👏

[@RomWills]

You're welcome.

[@jonathanfoster3037]

Another very insightful video. I'm looking forward to another LOFA video!

[@RomWills]

I have to do another one real soon.

[@alvinhollingeriii2562]

The LOPHA Man Has Spoken! Yeah, we as men cannot afford to be as Temporal With our Sexual interactions with women as women can be. The consequences are heavier.

[@RomWills]

Ironically a man with sexual discipline gets more sex offered to him.

[@DivineMasculinePimpin]

“What’s the motivation behind her saying high” Max level thoroughness

[@mikeprat1]

great reminder! i dodged a doosie last night... fine as hell but not for me. i met a natural hair doctor who relocated here for work while at the grocery store yesterday... let's see how this goes!

[@RomWills]

Ironically I'm going to a natural hair show in B'more today. I'll love natural hair sistas.

[@dvquinn4101]

Rom Wills I don't think a lot of women realize the brothers love natural cared for hair

[@mikeprat1]

+Rom Wills man... that's the spot to be if you're tryna come up!

[@mikeprat1]

+D Quinn hell yeah! im very selective. natural/ethnic hair is a requirement.

[@mikeprat1]

+Crystal Jackson out here doing the right thang, spike lee'ing!

[@artbunker]

Your video is great and builds up on everything you been saying the past week. Again you are advocating that we, as men, take responsibility for our actions. As we should. This is a great video. Im not gonna fan any flames, but like said earlier, men tell men to be responsible and to know the consequences of their actions .

[@RomWills]

We have to stand up as men and be better if for nothing else but our own happiness.

[@artbunker]

Agreed 100%. Choosing the right person definatly falls on men as well.

[@samjackson1101]

real shit bro couldn't said it better

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@Kyofitnesscoaching]

uncle rom killing it

[@RomWills]

Thanks bruh.

[@AndrewJohnson-bj3hp]

I was always a bit different. For a relationship, I go for "crazy" women like Taraji P Henson . I'd even be cool if they are a decent 5. For sex, nice booty women I can just get along with. But back in my day, part of the reason for young black single mothers in the UK is dudes around at the time were having jump offs they weren't really feeling. The "Dry Spell" was real lol! These women are to blame too(shout out to BGS) but I am just showing that we black men do recognize our faults.

[@RomWills]

As men we are willing to call out our own bullshit. By nature we are accountable.

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

+Rom Wills So True

[@hardwiredtoself-destructio7614]

+Rom Wills So True

[@queenofhearts2013]

Andrew Johnson. Just a few of you recognizes your faults.

[@ajhussain5015]

real talk

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@Y0GGchikagovannin]

👍👍👍👍 You Aint Neva Lied !!!!

[@aintnohalfsteffen]

With a "turkey baster"? Hilarious & real

[@RomWills]

Those sports groupies are ruthless.

[@Y0GGchikagovannin]

BEAUTY IZ DECEPTION...if we can look pass that fogg of distraction and see her character then your hunting skillz evolves!!!! Preciate the insight Bro. Rom!!!

[@ajnobaptiste]

if she is unable to draw you into agreeing with her character, it will mean the relationship between the two of you is working. she will now dump you like a lead balloon. baby father or not, she will dump you. it is all about her, period.

[@RomWills]

Seen.

[@es043]

Good video

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@adamelmi3639]

This video makes sense I been a situation like this one.. You're not attracted to every woman

[@RomWills]

Really a man shouldn't be.

[@donaldgrazette9709]

Character and credentials first

[@missk3429]

Tell them twice Rom

[@tonysmith8071]

Miss K now you go tell some women something that makes sense if you got any yourself

[@Quevision]

what do you mean by lofa?

[@xskalibur]

Mr. Qbourne lover of fat asses. LOL.

[@RomWills]

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[@missk3429]

👏👍

[@RomWills]

Thanks Luv.

[@GeekMODE_]

🙌🏾GAME🙌🏾

[@andretheruler714]

thats why the condom gets flushed down the toilet in the hotel

[@GBlackshear1]

This is my ex to a "T". Very attractive physically. Not very bright. Very low character. If she's breathing, she's lying. No conscience whatsoever. She pretended to be a really good person of high morality. What a joke, lol. I'm so thankful to be out of that relationship. She's somebody elses covert narcissist now, lol.

[@blackmanta777]

100

[@RomWills]

Thank you.

[@blackmanta777]

Rom Wills Your welcome. I have been checking out some of your commentary for the past week or so and I dig your work.

[@TheNaphisa03]

you videos are super long. I love your insight but please look at Derrick Jaxn youtube page as a ln example. short and straight to the point!

[@RomWills]

I'm going to keep doing me. It's not like you can do anything about it.

[@banderas2000]

Naphisa Modmonss your a computer. who cares what you think

[@9525joe]

@@RomWills excellent response Rom. i loved that the video was longer and not short with simple bubble gum points to get views. Still relevant years later. That’s why quality always wins. Jaxn been exposed and his videos were trash anyways