Am I My Own Worst Enemy When It Comes To Dating?

[@aracelycarreon6791]

I love ur channel and i also struggle with dating because i have high standards, but we need to understand that we can be all beautiful inside but man also have high standards and we need to take care of ourselves and check our weight also for our health and to feel better, just like we want "hot guys" they want hot girls, but like u said the "hot" girl or man can look very different for everyone

[@adventuresintvland]

Sometimes it makes us feel uncomfortable to respect the boundaries we put in place for ourselves. While the gentleman didn’t do anything wrong, the fact that he never even gave an acknowledgement of your decision is a disconcerting

[@ashalia11]

Its true, boundaries are hard!

[@carolynj6144]

Hello! First of all, thank you for your vulnerability as always. I want to say that I standby my opinion that you did the right thing. In your last video, I didn’t hear you judging this guy, I heard you saying that you weren’t feeling right and that you didn’t really feel like you could easily talk to him. I don’t want to sound like I’m projecting here, but seriously if I had listened to that same feeling in my last relationship, I would’ve saved myself 3 years of trouble with the guy. I had feelings right away that it didn’t feel right with him and I just kept pushing through because he seemed nice and he was interested. I have been learning how to set my own boundaries and it’s HARD and it feels uncomfortable even after you have done it because it’s unfamiliar. But I think as women we have to remember that we are allowed to have standards and we’re allowed to be picky and we’re allowed to follow our gut and turn people down. It sucks to do it, but I really REALLY feel like you did the right thing. I obviously don’t know you lol but based off of what you explained about the situation, it seemed like if you moved forward with this guy, you would have just been forcing a connection that wasn’t there. And that wasn’t fair to you - you deserve that Disney love that you want lol

[@ashalia11]

Thank you. I really needed to hear all of this!! I definitely felt in my gut it was the right decision for me to make, its just hard! Like you said, setting boundaries for yourself is HARD!! And thank you for sharing a little bit of your story!! I truly appreciate everything you said!! ❤️

[@LouiseBrad-ji4zs]

Don't let the haters or nay-sayers get to you, we all do our best & sometimes we have to learn for ourselves how we feel in certsin scenarios & prayers we find our person that we're meant to find...One thing I've leaned is not to compare myself o others, I have to remind myself all the time of this

[@ashalia11]

Yes! This is huge!! It is so important not to compare yourself to others! It's such an easy concept but so hard to do! I also have to remind myself this all the time!!