AM I NOT WOMAN ENOUGH? how not being a ‘girly girl’ has affected me| deconstructing the FEMALE IMAGE

[@sakhile_simelane]

People just talk a lot. Like People just fucking talk a lot, to the extent that they say even the most offensive and unnecessary shit. I don't mind People thinking whatever about me, the problem starts when you start telling me or just talking about it. Like, you're the one that has a problem with how I look, why are you making it a me problem now? Just consume it alone and stop roping me in. I'm clearly very comfortable with the way I look, hence I look this way all the time. I'm so annoyed and hurt by your experiences sis, I'm so sorry❤

[@shefacesthesun]

everything you said my sister! everything you said!! thank you so much my lovely sis ❤️

[@momothoshongwe254]

This topic was not closer to home for me it was inside my flipping living room mosi. Wholesome stuff once again 🤌🏼🥺🙌🏽

[@shefacesthesun]

😂😂❤️ one thing about you! i am glad i catered to you perfectly Ngulube yam 😊🥰

[@ndulelo]

Cannot wait for the #GirlsLikeMe segment ...

[@shefacesthesun]

say less 😅

[@tsitsisharonmakufa1461]

#GirlsLikeMe.....I would definitely love to see more of that content. This conversation was so wholesome and fulfilling.

[@shefacesthesun]

say less mama, it is coming your way. thank you 😊✨

[@SwazIZo3Y]

So informative and interesting!! you're the most beautiful person and anyone romantic/platonic who's worth it sees you for you ❤

[@shefacesthesun]

Malé!! ❤️❤️❤️🥺 thank you so much my sis. i appreciate this

[@tanelejeandlamini203]

This is beautiful 😢🥺 I wish I choose myself too , and not allow society to decide who I should be

[@sizwemabuza_]

My dawg!!! I'll never not vibe with your opening sequence ⚡🔥❤️

[@miss_sana97]

Yebo!! It's too lit

[@shefacesthesun]

my Gee! 😂❤️ thank you so much Siz 🥺

[@hleliwesimelane7460]

I think your dress sense is so cool

[@shefacesthesun]

thank you Hleliwe, i appreciate this 🥺❤️

[@DigitalYenzi]

🤝🏾 agh, this is some really relatable chat. I'm definitely watching #GirlsLikeMe Thanks for sharing!💜

[@shefacesthesun]

thank you sooo much for watching, Yenzi 🥺💕

[@fikiswatsabedze228]

I loved this vulnarability and honesty in this video. Thank you for sharing with us. Never EVER apologize for who you are or your gender presentation

[@shefacesthesun]

thank you so much for watching Fiki 💛🥺. i am a work in progress

[@sethumamba]

It's so sad that we've normalized gender affirming clothing that when someone chooses to go against that and express themselves differently it becomes a thing. Your sense of style is so refreshing plss

[@shefacesthesun]

thank you Sethu. 💛🥺

[@tsitsisharonmakufa1461]

Women are so multifaceted and as you said, it is infuriating to have to constantly think about how to represent ourselves whilst so-called 'remaining within the realms of what is expected of us.' Thank you for this little rant. Growing up I was/am a hella sports girl and more often than not also considered 'one of the guys' because I was also in them 'tomboy' classifications. I am still not much of a girly girl and sometimes feel so out of place in those situations when I am surrounded by all these hella feminine females and I am the only one there feeling hella imposter syndrome. So thank you so much for this. It did resonate and it really is an important conversation to have.

[@shefacesthesun]

everything that you said my sis!! happy that you felt seen in this video because that’s exactly what i was aiming for. thank you once again, Sharon ❤️🥺

[@Melzthebrand]

YOU are SICKENING! YOU ARE FUCKIN stunning🔥🔥🔥🔥👊

[@shefacesthesun]

you LOVEEEE me and listen, i love you twice as much. thank you baaaby 💚🥺

[@wetive9533]

Women are Diverse ❤️

[@shefacesthesun]

exactly Nkhosi Dlamini ❤️

[@malwandesimelane6140]

I wish I could share my side of this story… I am a boy but I’ve let society define how I dress and it’s been hard 😭😭😭 and I struggle

[@shefacesthesun]

listen, i get it and it isn’t easy. make sure to be patient with yourself and you will get to a point where you dress however the hell you want UNAPOLOGETICALLY. personally, you are already killing it, so DON’T STOP 🌻💛

[@nokulungakunene2227]

This is the first video of yours that I've watched, and you're so refreshing. 🥺 Desirability politics is not an easy topic to handle, and you did it so sincerely. Thank you for sharing your experience. ❤️

[@shefacesthesun]

oh my 🥺 welcome and thank you for watching Nokulunga ❤️ i really appreciate this, thank you 🥰

[@FromtheeyesofShaun]

You give off this beautiful 😍 sporty feminine vibe without trying ( like Mc lyte, Tabitha brown, missy elliot, aaliyah, just to name a few).... and secretly men love it, When you find the one for you he/she is gonna be so happy to have a woman with Swag & Sass He'll be dressing like you (i say this b/c im rubbing off on my BF lol) but yea your dope dont change ❤❤

[@justsomeotherchannel2707]

The dances at the beginning 😂✨🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@shefacesthesun]

😂😂❤️

[@leloonkhosi5869]

.baby i love the way you dress😍😍😍😍♥️♥️

[@shefacesthesun]

thank you so much 🥰🥺

[@astronautZZ]

my homie linked me to this and it hits home 😭

[@astronautZZ]

this reminds me of how on social media.. whenever i would post myself looking “feminine” .. many people would be all 😍😍😍😍 over how i looked and saying this is the way .. but when i would dress more “masculine” it’s like meh.. you could do better 💀 and it took me a long while to unlearn seeking external validation because i’d like to believe i look attractive al around 😎

[@shefacesthesun]

first of all, s/o to your homie, they are a real one 🥺🙏🏾

[@shefacesthesun]

@@astronautZZ exaaaactly!! i have also picked up the applause as a reaction for presenting more feminine and to be honest, it isn’t necessary. i am glad you are at a point where you don’t have it bothering you anymore. 😊✨

[@thandekamalaza9051]

Would LOVE to see #GirlsLikeMe

[@shefacesthesun]

say less 😅

[@fikiswatsabedze228]

What we not gonna do is apologizr for 'rambling'. Share your thoughts, feelings etc. without the need to apologize hunnay :)

[@shefacesthesun]

🥺🥺🥺💛 okay okay.

[@Melzthebrand]

Lalela ke! Try living in a community where some people feel the need yekukutjela kutsi you need to tone it down leso sikhatsi leyo intfo leyo is busy showing fake love on the net! This is just some of the things we also As OUT Gay men Go through sis! Ngiyahleka but andihleki🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🙌🙌🙌

[@shefacesthesun]

😂😂😂💚 i can hear your saying all of this. you know what, i just us to film a whole video talking about how this country has shown us flames in try to limit us and put us in a box!!!!

[@lindelwa_smith]

Are we expected to wear “skirts” and “dresses” all the time?? I’m a girly girl and I also don’t believe that clothes have gender. Society is honestly the problem. I think there’s a lot of things that are said to us that we just let pass not knowing that later they’re going to affect us in the future.

[@shefacesthesun]

absolutely, argh! and it is up to us to try dismantle all these expectations that are put up for us. it’s too much

[@Tebelelihle_Nxumalo]

Sis please… me I love you🥰❤️

[@shefacesthesun]

you have absolutely no idea how much i love YOU. thank you mama 🥰

[@wetive9533]

Are you mad? 😂😂😂😂

[@shefacesthesun]

are you sick??? 😂😂❤️