Amanda Seales Fires Off On Issa Rae, Insecure, Emmanuel Acho vs Angel Reese & Black Media Spaces

[@cynthiaevans7371]

Being called the “N” word by CHILDREN, qualifies as racism. They didn’t call EACH OTHER the same name; they knew who to direct the word to, Shannon.

[@lynndwho]

💯 Especially because they were in a work environment, as well. They heard that directly from their parents about her specifically.

[@battlerudee]

@@lynndwhoExactly..their parents…racism is learned behavior.

[@dahweeizme]

And I’ve heard her call white people crackers….🤷🏾‍♂️

[@feliciawilliams2821]

I agree. A while child called me the same thing. He was too young to spell it

[@dariusd2003]

​@@culturalresponse2447I think non academics agree that definition doesn't make sense in normal day to day interactions. If a white homeless person calls Obama the n-word, by their definition he can't be racist. It seems nonsensical.

[@xTurboATL]

Racism is learned behavior by children, Amanda is actually correct with her assessment

[@Vizion-jp8zj]

Shannon Sharpe is also correct. Both can be true.

[@brotherLee340]

It's true but the older you get you realize that and it gives stuff more context. I'm not saying you forget it, but it becomes less important sometimes.

[@Smartkid2387]

So in your experience did you not hear homophobic things, what about xenophobic, how about colorist things?

[@omarepps77]

The only thing she's an expert of is NON-ACCOUNTABILITY ..with a Double Masters Degree in MANIPULATION

[@KeeBee0810]

@@Vizion-jp8zjno he tf wasn’t ! He just used to Fck white football coaches and white women so he doesn’t see any harm in his race play fantasies… at least that’s all I heard him say ..😭 Fck is yall talking about there’s only 1 truth.. THEE TRUTH ! Amanda’s truth who lived the experience. Yall always tryna give passes to mfs who would have you lynched a few years ago…

[@MrKamawe]

Being authentic in inauthentic spaces can really have you thinking you are crazy but eventually understanding that will liberate you in ways you never imagined.

[@NN-re7cy]

Beautifully said. 🎯♥️

[@Shemashay]

That’s the thing… when you understand you in that inauthentic space you just have to go ahead and live in the world but not of it because it’s pointless. Nothing is ever really going to change in the macro world. You can only change your small part of the world.

[@melrama6759]

YES

[@adonisdownes3926]

Oof, I'm stealing this. Love it!

[@classicwrehasha]

The comment we needed to see 🙌🏾😩👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@CeeYa1989]

I think my perspective on Amand and Shannon changed multiple times during this discussion. Amanda was tough, then accepting. Shannon was confrontational, then understanding. They come from 2 different worlds, and its awesome when different worlds share the same orbit without colliding into each other.

[@tamauroget3950]

Yea, he's from the world where I think he forgets who he is and what he looks like. He even challenged her on her diagnosis after she had already mentioned she was tested a few times! He was questioning her authenticity in that. Disrespectful.

[@aubhreypender3091]

@@tamauroget3950that’s because she was never diagnosed lmaoo. She diagnosed her self

[@tamauroget3950]

@@aubhreypender3091 She literally said she was by a medical professional. Weird that people are saying she's lying about something they have no way of verifying, given medical files are private 🤷🤦

[@aubhreypender3091]

@@tamauroget3950 when did she say that?

[@tamauroget3950]

​@@aubhreypender3091Go through the entire 3 hours to find out. I did 🤷 She said it two to three times as Shay was doubting what she told him and pretending like he didn't hear her when she said it the first time.

[@istrouma97]

Kids being taught to not speak up against adults is the main reason so many kids were molested and continued to be due to the fear of being molded to not speak up for themselves. I teach my daughter that you have the right to speak up for yourself as long as it’s done respectfully, even if it’s against me.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

❤❤❤❤❤period

[@joelwhite616]

Reach

[@REXae86]

That’s a crazy example to use.

[@JC-ji1hp]

@@joelwhite616 a reach? Not speaking up can be a problem for so many things. Molestation isn’t that far of a reach.

[@TheeBrandonCarter211]

Amongst other things

[@lovedove7000]

Not hugging people who don’t deserve a hug will never be petty.

[@realtorchic]

Energy is real. I’ve sucked the energy out of an entire room before…You are spot on! 🎯

[@cevanbrown2314]

Thank you.

[@ar.c.6386]

I really don’t like hugging people whom I don’t feel a connection to.

[@yedayeda1050]

Neva ❤

[@Enochrry6024]

I can't understand why Shannon bought this headache on his podcast.

[@nicolebryant5956]

Children are racists too. It’s a learned behavior

[@MRKOOL78]

You are a product of your environment

[@shanabrown9785]

Shannon act like he don't know this

[@iwrextz1668]

It’s a learned behavior from there parents do u rlly think kids fully understand the meaning of there words?

[@thebyrdsong5686]

​...but I'm glad he said it just so they could have the dialog and we could hear both sides.

[@jjpark1989]

So you going to argue with an 8 year old or are you taking it up with their parents? Exactly. Kids aren’t racist. Maybe when they become teenagers, but kids can’t be racist.

[@kellystewart9973]

After listening to the entire interview, this woman is awesome and should be not only protected but also preserved at all costs! Not only her, but others like her as well. 💯

[@JoeSmo-v3z]

After you heard the entire podcast you decided to comment what everyone else comments 😂

[@xoshiahall1484]

I really hope Amanda comes to look at the comments and sees how much love she’s getting and how she’s such a gem to our culture and should be protected at ALL costs!

[@JamaicanemeraldQueen]

Right❤😊.

[@PatchesOhoulihan159]

She doesn't even like blk men, F you and her

[@Goldenboy48]

I'm good...but you can

[@PatchesOhoulihan159]

She's a misandrist

[@meiliai2437]

Right ❤❤❤❤😊

[@ladietee2824]

As a POC educator, CHILDREN CAN BE AND ARE RACIST. It's a LEARNED mentality

[@dubiouswords7851]

If a white child isn’t racist then they are being taught values counterproductive to their people’s well being.

[@thelovelymissmonica1938]

FACTS!!!

[@matthewlima7121]

As a white male who grew up with a culturally diverse extended family . 100% Racism in all forms is LEARNED as is colourism within each race. I had friends of all colours and ethnicities and only understood is all to be different not “different” I do believe Children brought up in racist environment don’t understand the effect or impact of their behaviour being racist because it’s simply what they’re brought up with no less excusable but up to an age ( because if your not being educated at home it your being taught at school ) it’s about the fact that your hurting someone period regardless of context and correcting that behaviour immediately. You blame the upbringing not necessarily the product. Unfortunately it’s all learned behaviour … children are not born thinking their differences can be perceived as negative be it race lifestyle gender sexuality religion….. they are taught to be cogniscent of these perceptions based on things passed on . The hard part on both sides is just letting go. On one side it’s realizing your ancestors passed issues have nothing to to do with your current existence understand we are just people and differences are surface level in every way . On the receiving side it’s hard to let go of all the of the atrocities youre ancestors experienced as the hands of people with these issues , because while you’re world is different they went through it get you here and letting go may feel like you’d be denying their struggle so you end up carrying it forward in a way as well .

[@atifking8731]

@@matthewlima7121but they are racist and are still racist and their adulthood! We can’t excuse it bc most never unlearn. So we have to judge them at face value, like actually guilty until proven otherwise like this justice system! We actually see the racism!

[@dubiouswords7851]

@@matthewlima7121 Racism is a form of otherism and humans are predisposed to some form of the latter. Studies have shown 1) We prefer people who look like us (or like someone in our family), 2) We prefer people we see as similar to ourselves, etc. So while a specific strain may be “learned”, we are easy to learn and apply it and in the case of “racism” of whites against non-whites, and for the former it has been immensely enriching and empowering as morally degrading as it may be, therefore it survives and perpetuates.

[@Good2bking]

I learn sometimes when people are sharing their experiences, don’t play devil’s advocate, especially when it’s life experiences. You’re only hearing the story, they lived it

[@kenyafromcali]

Are you an interviewer? 😂

[@beyou-tvision]

💯 Exactly this part!

[@Nallisn]

@@kenyafromcaliI don’t think you need to be an interviewer to say that. That’s a normal part of daily human interaction. I’ve actually had to learn and apply this when listening to people

[@WhizPill]

facts

[@VaLEriE-en8xl]

This is an excellent observation (that u obviously are intelligent enough to realize that you don’t have to be an interviewer for 😂)

[@roki5337]

Amanda's vocabulary is extensive! I love it. I have learned a lot of new words watching this.

[@roki5337]

@AaronVaal feeling brackish?

[@roki5337]

@AaronVaal You are so foul and rude I wish you happiness. You don't have to like the person or all they say to find something to appreciate. My vocabulary is already well established... Unlike your manners.

[@curlybeautyblogger]

@AaronVaal 😂🤣

[@miashalon2944]

​@AaronVaalsending you healing energy

[@miashalon2944]

Ignore Negative comments it's simply a reflection 🪞 of what has been said to that person. We just send them positive vibes because that is what secure beings do. Wish others well ♥️

[@haydengoodridge5514]

I have to give Amanda props for sticking through and helping Shannon understand her perspective.

[@miginiel]

Not Just Shannon...the audience as well

[@tiffanyjlowe]

Facts!

[@sailor10022]

Something I have to do daily to narrow bias minded people. it's really exhausting, I truly get Amanda because we are the same far as big personalities and misunderstood

[@derricklockhart9650]

I am glad she touched on having great educators who cared. So vital!

[@paulatrent60]

In the first 5 minutes of the conversation I knew Shannon was gonna have to come outta the shallow end and join her in the deep. She holds conversations on multiple levels, understanding her experience in the context of structurial, cultural, and individual. Initially he didn't realize it was gonna be at that altitude. But he stepped up. He got there. She has a stellar mind and that intimidates a whole lot of folks, especially white folk.

[@sfr7169]

If she was 10 years old and was able to recognize the other kids were wrong for callimg her the N word, then the other 10 year olds should have the capability to understand that them saying the word was wrong and excuses shouldn't be made for them.

[@dask472]

Exactly. Them White kids ain’t calling other white kids the n word. That’s cuz they know and they know it’s wrong and hurtful.

[@deykno87]

😂 she was autistic that’s why she understood

[@karenlafate8254]

Girrrrrl, I LOVE ME SOME YOU! You are a BEAUTIFUL SOUL and Sister, WE NEED YOU HERE!!!!! Thank You! 🙏🏾🤗🥰💕💃🏾

[@LorenCognita]

Yeah I didn’t realize we were giving age minimums for racism lol. What age are racists allowed to be racists? 18? 21? 25? It’s not like these were 2 year olds repeating a word and not knowing its meaning. They’re no different from the kids hurling racial slurs at Ruby Bridges. Can’t believe he said that.

[@KalovnaE]

exactly!

[@BridgettHart]

KZbin comments did NOT disappoint. Amanda, you are loved and your self love has opened so many doors for others in our community to embrace themselves as well. I'm so grateful to share community with you ❤❤

[@_Nashh_]

Yess lol , I checked the comments JUST to make sure everyone saw this video the same way I was interpreting !

[@tanja0411]

NOPE. Her interpretation of events is extremely narrow, the constant focus on others’ shortcomings and complaining and her brand of militarism rings so very false and unhealthy. She creates more battles than she actually has to fight. ALSO, autism spectrum disorder in ALL women is difficult to diagnose. It rarely happens. There’s enough racism out there not to attribute it to places where that isn’t the main cause.

[@876me7]

@@tanja0411I could not have written it better myself. She’s the victim in every single story she tells. She’s insufferable.

[@naimabean07]

AND SHE WANTS TO FREE PALESTINE 🇵🇸!!! She’s wearing a Keffiyeh 🎉

[@BridgettHart]

@@tanja0411😂😂😂 how utterly unsurprising that your profile pic is of a dog. So on brand.

[@timm4479]

I feel like I understand Amanda. I know a loved one with similar traits. Super generous and genuine person but is often misunderstood and mislabeled. I learned a lot this interview. I respect and support Amanda.

[@louisephillips9047]

Thank u ..i respect and support her..totally misunderstood..❤

[@iamericbates]

I love unc, but I really appreciate how Amanda stood her ground. That’s maturity for her to keep her composure and continue to interview with how it began.

[@kaylabarber5140]

Yes he was definitely proving her point about being misunderstood. Even after explaining that she was recently diagnosed he challenged it as if she was just taking claim to it.

[@dutchdillinger3183]

Shannon asked questions and gave his opinion...he wasn't attacking her so idk why you talking about stand her ground

[@PudgeeThaphatBastard]

Definitely was attacking her

[@mcdiesel7505]

​@@dutchdillinger3183How they act man! Super defensive for no reason

[@reneerobinson7181]

@@dutchdillinger3183exactly. And I think he’s right. No teacher is going to be ok with their students constantly correcting them in front of the class. Doesn’t matter if the teacher was right or wrong about the topic. The teacher would have complained either way. Amanda took it the wrong way. Amanda is one of those people who makes valid points a lot of the time but she lacks tact. She also doesn’t understand the concept of choosing your battles. Something that the op and so many other people in the comment section lack based on their interpretation of that conversation with her and Shannon.

[@RissaLove]

I hope Amanda is reading these comments & feeling ALL the love, validation, care, respect, admiration & protection we have for her ❤️🥰

[@Mr.Getwitcha]

*Vomits*

[@VegasKandy48]

Yesss....Love Her!! ❤

[@RissaLove]

@@VegasKandy48 🥰❤️

[@KS-hi8vi]

She is she made a IG video and thanked us. I’m so glad she saw the live she didn’t think it would happen. People are speaking up for her. Shannon owes her an apology.

[@ritaree123]

❤❤❤

[@tuesdayjanae3676]

ALL the reasons people say they don't like her are all the reasons I DO LIKE HER!!!

[@trishjackson9155]

💯

[@melissawhite5688]

Facts

[@JuanSuarez-wf7ul]

because she's a proven liar ?

[@REXae86]

Because she’s a liar

[@treniecerenea6531]

Exactly!

[@marqitamiles2300]

Amanda guided this interview. She made sure she finished her stories and her current work was known. I see her in a new light. I enjoyed this interview.

[@shanp9340]

Me too! This was so enlightening

[@EVOxGEORGEx]

She’s a horrible person. very vindictive

[@unviewerrandom4792]

i see in the same light she always bee : a professionabl victim

[@unviewerrandom4792]

yeah as a dumb narcissist

[@ChessMandingo]

The stare she gave when he was defending the white teacher is priceless

[@tx_507]

I love how she didn't say one word while standing on it! 🙌🏾

[@jessicagreen8883]

She definitely made her point and I sided with her immediately.

[@TajCars]

I’m 1000% the teacher was racist. The specific example that she gave about what the teacher was saying about indigenous people was an example of it. Also, his point about any adult at that time being p’d off about a kid correcting them was valid too.

[@dinajones2761]

@@TajCars no she wasn’t- You just hate white people

[@jamalcan1]

​@@TajCarsExactly. Understanding both sides

[@j_beezy1]

I LOVE how Amanda explains her point of view, her experiences, and her story; then when Shannon disagrees and attempts to discredit her she just stops talking and listens to him, then uses those moments intelligently in the conversation later to prove and support her point!

[@gtswago1]

I picked up on that also. My appreciation for her has grown through this interview but my God, this has to be exhausting for her.

[@jeffm1083]

Men get attacked for doing that exact thing every time though

[@msmich1868]

That part..

[@deangelo8498]

Notice its a difference in what men and ladies think of this interview

[@namastewellness]

Yes! Genius really 😊

[@samirahraheem3702]

This comment section made me feel so much hope for humanity. Seeing Amanda get all this love it’s so well deserved . Always love her ♥️

[@jeaninegriffin1196]

Same, same. Not going to lie, I was nervous that these comments might be hate filled. I was pleasantly surprised.

[@tionak]

@@jeaninegriffin1196omg me too! I’m so pleasantly surprised 🙌🏾

[@Joy-cn1mj]

Right bc if you go to the comment section on just the Issa Rae clip, it is not so nice!!! But on the full episode, Amanda is getting love

[@christibradford8499]

No one is willing to be weird in all this love. So beautiful. 🥰🥰🥰

[@moniquemichelle7295]

❤

[@ChiChiMaryT]

Adults can talk without agreeing on every topic.

[@londrahunter8554]

Right. Otherwise it is servitude and slavery if you have to agree with everything you say and do.

[@SeeingSebastian]

Not in Amanda's eyes 😅

[@WAKEMUP_12]

@@SeeingSebastian that wasn't what she was doing, he was invalidating her yall wild bruh

[@rydz656]

@@WAKEMUP_12 He was asking her basic follow up questions llike he did with Katt and Monique. She fell apart.

[@iCanbEYOURrUKIA]

​@rydz656 she did not. She spoke her truth and didn't let anyone put words in her mouth. She's very quick witted and observant.

[@Dominique129]

In my opinion, Amanda is so self-aware and direct and a segment of the people who strongly don't like her or find her annoying are arguably uncomfortable because they don't have or have not personally reached her level of awareness, confidence, & unapologetic resolve to fight injustice. The mindset is "I can't silence my voice and saying the hard truths because of anyone else's discomfort" and I 100% understand it & support it. I am also appreciate Amanda's candidness and the visibility/representation of someone living on the spectrum.

[@janahantoine2181]

She is a critical thinker and that’s difficult for a lot of people to practice.

[@janahantoine2181]

Shannon is being combative. It’s her experience he wasn’t there.

[@ginabelle7]

1000% agree.

[@nicolejames3054]

She can effectively articulate her experience and stand it unapologetically because she's smart and educated, it's a threat to anyone else who can't🤷🏽‍♀️ it's an offense to those people. Salute Amanda!🔥

[@MWSportsInsider]

I deal with the same things, but somehow I still think her becoming famous and "successful" allowed a certain amount of arrogance that when added with her diagnosis could make her unbearable for a lot of people. In a way that people could easily dismiss her and make the claim that they don't "like" her, I also feel as though she needed to feel this way to become this self aware in a good way.

[@kumarivisionz5018]

Amanda proves over and over again that when you are highly intellengent, speak clear, directly and assertively with excellent listening comprehension and responding skills most people ( Shannon ) do not have the best critical thinking, active listening, and high level comprehension skills! I just love her and feel blessed to have met and had a conversation with her recently. She is top tier! Love you Amanda!

[@g.o.a.tsports2880]

Or maybe her personality shows clear disdain for others.

[@simonsez1787]

@@g.o.a.tsports2880for racists? Yeah. I hope so.

[@CodenameOliver101]

Shannon: why was she racist? Amanda:she got mad because I corrected her in middle of the class . Shannon: interrupting a teacher as a student in middle of class is wrong though. You guys:😡😤🤬😤 Shannons okay with racism!

[@mirasalamah5904]

its like talking to a brick wall lol

[@8kumquat]

I see that Amanda shut it down when Shannon could not see her honestly.His listening skills are really on point.He didn't see or understand that the interview was about her viewpoint and understanding that. Power to you Amanda❤

[@tinkerbellgarcia7688]

The comments are passing the vibe check. We appreciate you, Amanda!❤

[@olamideidreez8872]

I was so hesitant to look! I'm very pleased with the responses 😊

[@NebulaWILNIL]

Don’t look at the live chat 🥴

[@REXae86]

@@olamideidreez8872im not 😊

[@TheCloveart]

@@NebulaWILNIL I guess we're okay with staying in our bubbles. I guess it's cool to listen to certain perspectives but not others.

[@missnfun]

💯

[@Jazzie777]

Wow! Amanda's awareness is off the charts. Spitting truth. This explains her troubles in Hollywood. To be excepted you must be part fake on the reg.

[@salute7205]

I've heard some bad things about Amanda, so I figured I'd check this out 2C and I'm really impressed, I think she's awesome in so many ways, I with that.

[@peripheralballbuster2720]

All but self awareness

[@rowann26]

Any time someone is labeled as “difficult” in the entertainment industry it seems more code for “cannot be manipulated”

[@momoe.4075]

THIS

[@SHANELL032007]

Exactly!

[@groy-lh4pc]

Shes being difficult to Shay shay

[@sexyredbone2012]

Exactly 💯

[@noname-gu6ho]

In the workplace too

[@joshlynh.3532]

I don't care how nobody feels about her, I love the great mind and spirit of Amanda Seals.

[@josephgomez3085]

Same here gwuRL! She a reaL one, I feel I have autism spectrum too, im like too straight out where people can't handle it.. " they can't handle the truth!!!!! Lol

[@KeepWatchin5.56]

yea she's a great liar

[@yonnylicious]

It’s everyone’s fault and everything is racism. No accountability at all.

[@lapx1]

We are all autistic, and😮

[@lapx1]

Ofcourse she's single, gonna die along with a dog. Got too much going on. Driving me nuts just listening to her.

[@chanellynn9339]

Amanda spoke for a lot of women in this interview that don't have the platform or even the courage to speak up about things like this. One of the hardest things to navigate in life is being misunderstood. When your intentions and someone's perception don't align it is a perfect storm for these experiences. I absolutely loved this interview and the fact that she got to shine light on exactly who she is.

[@Las2ha3]

I totally agree with you. I think this was such a great interview!

[@bea79]

Exactly!

[@namastewellness]

@@Las2ha3Confirmation bias all day.

[@wrenrobb9421]

❤❤❤

[@afrobutterfly]

THISSSS I felt so seen in this interview. I communicate like her and often feel isolated. I want to reach out to her and tell her that I SEE HER AND ACKNOWLEDGE HER!

[@mcstorm9200]

I love Amanda's honesty. They hate o her because she is candid, confident, honest and pro-empowering blackness.

[@Dt.1.KENOBI]

They hate on her because she’s just a dumb as she is smart on certain issues but will never be intelligent enough to recognize that

[@MRLUTHOOOR]

She’s Rude. Intrusive. A bit contrived. And clearly agenda’d

[@40datboysha]

@@MRLUTHOOORShe is a lot to unpack and I can see why she is single.

[@mirakings1867]

@40datboysha, yeah me too. Men are to simple-minded and dense to truly understand a complex but brilliant mind and soul like Amanda🙌🏽!

[@Dt.1.KENOBI]

@@mirakings1867 only a dense minded person would generalize all men… check yourself

[@deniseholmes4366]

"People don't wanna let you grow. People don't wanna let you exist." I felt that in my soul. This is true personally and professionally for me. People want to keep you in whatever box they created for you. Stay woke.

[@SQueen-wz6ik]

✊🏾❤️🖤💚✊🏾❤️🖤💚✊🏾❤️🖤💚

[@tineshacopeland5414]

💯💯💯💯

[@Just_Visiting316]

I live this everyday with my family.

[@lisalee-gardner2558]

The world wants us to play small so they won’t have to level up

[@nefertitip.arthur9602]

LOVED: "Stay Woke"

[@luthervegas4323]

She is extremely perceptive and highly intelligent. You aren't just going to say anything around her and try to sneak nonsense past her. I'm assuming this is why she butts heads with so many people in a world where everyone is dumbed down. People will resent you for your intelligence and awareness. Salute to her!

[@jpeoples]

She literally explained why. She is autistic and doesn’t understand social cues

[@iamlegend8571]

​@@clarissak.4587Exactly! I can see why she's single and "hard to work with". 😄

[@erichill5762]

@@clarissak.4587 Yep, you gotta learn to pick your battles and not everything has to be WW3

[@TiSh1273]

ABSOLUTELY!!

[@MzYumYum69]

Is it autism spectrum or is it ADHD? Listening to this interview has me emotionally exhausted. It's like she pivots too much and tries to cram and can't stay on one track. ​@@clarissak.4587

[@Adecigargod]

To be judged, misunderstood and unprotected is exhausting and very lonely.

[@khismet]

Indeed it is.. I'm currently there!

[@alliswig2391]

Say it again for those in the cheap seats.

[@86Sentra]

Deep

[@Dunno-h8r]

It’s just life

[@janayt9480]

Very

[@ChrisVeras1]

I’m glad I preserved through this interview because the first 30 minutes were BRUTALLLLL!!!! Shannon just portrayed every negative situation that Amanda highlighted from her past. But I’m happy Amanda said her peace throughout the end.

[@EXHORTINC1]

Exactly, I'm glad I watched the end first..bc he was definitely trying to discredit her. A lot of times, men think women are just complaining, but she handled him well

[@narekamentor7543]

I lovedddd how she kept breaking stuff down from HER POV !!! She told her story , 🩷🩷

[@angelinemuriuki7384]

My thoughts exactly.

[@riecemccloud8708]

Growing up in the deep South our teachers are often our first examples of Racism as a child.

[@teacherturnedhomesteader7368]

Touche' simply put and yet so profound

[@Janeofalltrades01]

I can definitely remember how I was treated and lied on by my 2nd grade teacher

[@deezonyxde77]

Yes !!!!

[@just_Chellephish]

Accurate

[@synesthesia.aesthetic]

He completely gaslit her about that teacher!

[@salidathomas78]

Her talking about Autism is going to help so many parents ❤

[@rla8713]

I hope she's not using it as a crutch to be rude and dismissive.

[@JaNeeDiahann1225]

​​@@rla8713 definitely did, no self awareness but aware of everyone else's flaws

[@tonibrooks9719]

@@JaNeeDiahann1225Thank you!

[@livingoutloudwithDrMimiCheri]

​@rla8713 Many people with autism have this experience where they are bullied, exploited, and ostracized! Even if people didn't like her, why are they comfortable at openly humiliating her, saying cruel things to and about her! That type of behavior is inappropriate regardless if they like a person or not! Even if I don't particularly care for someone, I don't need to gossip, slander, judge, or humiliate another human being because that isn't a reflection of that person, it's a reflection of me. Now, if someone does something to you, then you directly go to that person and address it. My heart goes out to autistic individuals because they aren't harming anyone. They just operate, process, and show up differently than mainstream society! But they deserve to be seen, heard, and respected as well!

[@PinkSky2202]

Facts! Ppl with autism that are adults genuinely act just like her! They are very likable ppl. They just don’t fit the mold. Love that about them and Amanda. ❤️

[@ham72502]

The fact that he did the interview speaks volumes to his desire to have dialogue and grow. People will rather criticize him for trying and opening his self up to criticism rather than respect and appreciate his vulnerability. I haven’t seen Amanda on any other platform outside of her own social media accounts. I’m glad she got to tell her story and engage in meaningful dialogue.

[@beddabattona]

nope. if you wana grow than sit there listen and learn. growth doesn’t come from being antagonistic and challenging someone’s intelligence and experience. growth would be listening and learning.

[@beddabattona]

so he can criticize all her experiences but we can’t criticize him back? if you can’t take the heat don’t come in the kitchen tryna cook.

[@blacklvrboy7683]

Amanda has been on a lot of other podcasts in the past few months but, I agree. I enjoyed the conversation

[@CoachQ773]

She's crazy...

[@Forsaken860]

Truth is her morning radio show in Houston is so bosss ❤❤❤

[@CashmereIII]

Thank You Amanda for standing firm in YOURSELF. U bared all and embraced your ability that some see as a disability. U go girl!!!!🎉❤🫶🏽👸🏽 Be Proud and Continue to Stand Tall.

[@UhOhJacquinette]

She saved me with this one… it’s HELLLLLLLA hard finding out after your grown that you are autistic…..

[@Nik-Pete]

I appreciate how she respectfully stood her ground.

[@renewilson2540]

That is Amanda. We have seen her do it time and time again (ask Katy Perry dinner party).

[@patienceanoe-lamptey7317]

Listening to her speak to people especially when defending her position is a master class.

[@thesholovepodcast]

@@patienceanoe-lamptey7317agreed

[@LoopyChestnut]

Who is she fighting?

[@BeautyIsHerName89]

All ten toes!!!!!

[@IvyBox]

The way Amanda so eloquently gathered Shay Shay about undermining her experiences with racism is classic and I’m so here for it!

[@PlantlifeShaye]

Agreed

[@Blk577]

😂😂

[@riri_renee5550]

He actually made a fair point about the teacher though. Lots of adults don’t like to be constantly corrected by children.

[@JKV..0.0..]

@@riri_renee5550seems like an ego issue bc they are wrong. sounds like some aren’t doing their job well enough.

[@delimacuswilhite5235]

Hey that was beautiful. I didn’t know about her but u gain a fan today.

[@jazz6711]

I love how they maturely move past their differences and kept the interview going while still laughing and enjoying each other. I don’t see that enough.

[@jm3062]

I feel like she recognizes when people are stupid and she chooses to not get stuck there. She navigated multiple triggers with grace...because there were several times within the first 20 minutes where she could've (and should've) eaten him alive....not because she wanted to...but he was saying some really dumb things that were obvious and needed to be corrected. But I think she is starting to become exhausted with having to navigate other peoples improper thinking. Shes starting to choose her battles...almost seems like she is protecting her peace.

[@BeeChance]

@@jm3062 well said

[@hammerg434]

@jm3062 She recognized that she was on HIS platform and that she should act like an adult if she wanted to be heard.

[@robertmugabe2905]

hope she's not welcomed back.

[@jazz6711]

@@hammerg434 and that’s maturity 😂😂😂😂

[@monica-oy7zv]

Nothing more powerful than a woman who is smart , articulate and beautiful!! Always love Amanda and love seeing her growth and seeing her push through all the BS that is said about her! Love you Amanda.

[@tottitaylor4834]

Amanda is literally the best. So honest and authentic. Her industry doesn't like her because of that. She doesn't follow the crowd she follows whats right!! I LOVE HER!!

[@kingdomite]

Facts!! I pray she stays true to her authentic self always!!

[@ellemarr7234]

I always FEEL her. Her intentions are always pure, especially to people who actually listen to her and don’t tell her to stfu.

[@MrsBrittanyGold]

I love Amanda . She’s misunderstood because she’s direct and stands ten toes down on how she feels and what she knows. It takes a brave person to go against the grain with integrity & intelligence. 💕🙏🏽

[@rla8713]

I would like to know the other two sides of the story.

[@staceyannllewellyn2993]

Well said

[@crystalharrity9872]

I love her too! ❤️ Her insight and humor is refreshing.😊

[@TopShotta2.23]

To keep it a buck she be doing too much. I still remember how she lied on that nfl player/neurosurgeon

[@lontwandeckard3962]

I'm a cancer too so I get her

[@jaydachance1027]

When you’re different you must have discipline because you’ll be standing alone most of the time. We love you sis 🫶🏾🌹🌹🌹

[@narekamentor7543]

Loved this convo !!!! Thank You Amanda for keep going through it all !!! You have been given so many curveballs in life and steady defeating so many obstacles and challenges , I’m soooo proud of you !! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾💐💐

[@amac9443]

She uses a lot of emotional energy and I think it scares people, but it's refreshing to me. Everyone loves people that are perpetually unbothered. It's okay to be bothered about things that matter.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@treniecerenea6531]

Well said!

[@Tpina305]

Funny you mention that, In astrology - she’s a cancer sun AND a cancer moon - it’s a lot of emotional energy, she loves deeply, is loyal but difficult for her to contain her emotions. She feels deeply.

[@carolinesimeon4361]

yess you’re right and you should say it, being emotional is healthy

[@PPM_Songs]

I appreciate your comment! She resonates with people who see between the lines and speak up no matter how they are perceived.

[@SunnyVonB]

Amanda showed great mastery in that interview. At the start, as her experience and her perceptions were in my opinion minimized, she patiently stood in her power and authority and scholarship. She also did not engage in an ego battle but continued through connection never wavering from her point of view. Shannon Sharpe also sets the tone and is willing to ask questions on behalf of his audience that maybe uncomfortable. It was refreshing to see them both work at and through this conversation.

[@DisisHipHop]

Yes, definitely, was a conversation for people who understand the science of dialog. Just Amazing for the brain to process and understand.

[@Godslight1970s]

I really appreciate your perspective. You didn't insult either party, instead you looked at their interview from a very mature and empathetic POV👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@keenapat81]

Exactly! I think that Shannon and Amanda conversed well. I did cringe a bit when they discussed her experience regarding childhood racism.

[@faatimahstevens7693]

My thoughts! Very great lessons for them both conversationally

We ain't peoples; we ain't huggin. Agreed.

[@simoneh.5416]

This is an articulate educated and intelligent woman. She is truly remarkable!

[@iccld56]

Did she make an educated decision when she lied about being SA’d?

[@SH-dq2cy]

​@iccld56, were you there?

[@kpdiallo1111]

She’s a PITA actually

[@KorliCymoneIsWhoIBe]

@@iccld56you’re scum.

[@jjpark1989]

this is an articulate and intelligent woman? When she constantly utters curse words and refers to Shannon as "my n*gga?"

[@breakhal]

I appreciate her strength and intellect, but I can also see how her personality would be a lot to digest.

[@40datboysha]

I can see that too.

[@mymakersdaughter6041]

I can see that which is why I couldn’t finish the interview. It was exhausting!

[@AkilahTrinay]

As a teacher, it is ok for children to correct misinformation. You may not like it, but that is the role of the teacher- to teach and learn.

[@keysersosa3054]

I can see why she is difficult

[@RGTismeJoy]

Children are capable to think, children know things, waiting to be an adult to speak is absolutely nonsense

[@EmpressLaqui]

Yea now its able to be taught but back in the 80's there werent mant teachable moments

[@EmbraceMyBeauty]

@@RGTismeJoyexactly don’t be mad she smarter than you 😂 difficult 😂😂😂 w.e

[@merrickbeaufort8048]

She was being disrespectful and we don’t know exactly what she was referring to. So I would reserve judgment

[@smooththopr8tr]

Is it me, or every time she talks racism he starts to defend, "You can tell he's been shaped by his southern experience." She's brilliant, and she handled him brilliantly 👏🏿 🙌🏿

[@The1andonlyjayy]

You make no sense… they’re both were raised in southern environments Florida and GA literally touch and Florida is further south than GA. So what do you mean by “southern experience”🤔

[@smooththopr8tr]

​@jadenmoore6795 you should read with the intention of understanding not arguing.. I said SHAPED by HIS experience which was more the typical southern experience much like my own whereas she was raised by a WEST INDIAN MOTHER who embraced her originality and independence which is NOT the typical southern experience 🤔

[@MrAkili123]

Did you ever think for a second maybe he just had his own opinion and he’s not brainwashed by systemic racism?

[@72Crabadams]

@@smooththopr8trright, plus he’s 55 and she’s 41. His experience with growing up was different from hers.

[@Thrivinlily]

I felt that as well.

[@EvaArandaDesign]

As a woman with Autism, I’m LIVING for Amanda representing! We can be so misunderstood

[@BrittenyXWilson]

U ain’t lyin. I am on the spectrum as well

[@beemonique8466]

Same!!! People just have a hard time believing our truths.

[@AskOG75]

I don't believe her and as a Healthcare professional the diagnosis is being thrown around too loosely

[@jahlorise]

I'm autistic too. But still I'm aware enough to realise sometimes my words and behavior isn't appropriate. So yes represent but she should be more aware of her actions but because of her job I get it. I find it so hard to play different roles for fake people.

[@destinyh2008]

This comment alone let's me know I need to listen to this one. My daughter is Autistic and looked upon as misunderstood quite often.

[@hummingbirdhummingbird]

The most honest speaking person I ever saw on "TV ", you guys know what I mean, Thanks Shannon for giving Amanda the "space" to speak her mind. Thank you Amanda I love your character...

[@moniquemichelle7295]

“I’m a very very emotionally intelligent person, so a lot of times I end up having to do the emotional labor for other people to get us through. It’s exhausting”. YES!

[@EFunkRock]

Then she needs a new crowd if that were true.

[@kevinbas6756]

Asperger’s & emotional intelligence is contradicting

[@charliegordon659]

This is my experience

[@Njabuloseh]

What a load of nonsense.

[@moniquemichelle7295]

@@kevinbas6756 that’s a stereotype. Not always the case.

[@ledge999]

Regarding the kids using racist language part. It's intent vs impact. It doesn't matter if the kids "were just repeating what their parents said." What matters is the IMPACT of their words on Amanda. That's what we need to focus on, not making excuses for them. Calling her the n-word and minimizing her talent was racist. Period.

[@DrUmarsBurner]

🗣️🗣️🗣️🗣️

[@dianenelson4453]

Big Facts

[@cobrabosse]

That’s a good distinction 👌🏾

[@watkinsq9827]

People defending shannon in the comments need to understand this perspective!! Those kids knew they was wrong they didn’t care

[@music_istherapy8860]

So right

[@NicoleDeniseTV]

"I have rage." I felt that to my core, sis.

[@mmcolordred]

I felt this so well, I almost shed a tear

[@julbri9069]

So this is an excuse to be a narcissis.. Gotcha..

[@khismet]

​@@julbri9069nope. You misunderstood.

[@mrs.taaron7856]

💯 Felt that as well.

[@jessicaquamina7375]

I call it passion .. can it be the same thing?

[@lo7892]

I think this interview helped a lot of people understand "themselves" better. The world needs this.

[@1fancychik4God]

So true 🫶🏽

[@TheSavonExperience]

Agreed, we always push the norms on everyone pretending we want people to show up as their authentic selves

[@sneakvibingmedia]

100 percent! I've always gravitated to Amanda Seales because she is so honest. And she's not brutally honest, but she's honest with empathy and with strong intentions to better people. It's crazy that it has been misunderstood for so long.

[@mistamycall]

Interview was dope. I applaud any platform that allows people to speak out their truths and mind, regardless of whether you agree with them or not.

[@DrLindaOBGYN]

100%% I know I did.

[@Adecigargod]

People are more attentive to tone than actual truth. Bravo sis!

[@alexandriayessheleads7448]

This is the best succinct description of the awkward dynamics of this interview. Yes. 🎉

[@Yespls888]

Agreed! ESPECIALLY when a woman is speaking. People are not as particular about tone-policing men. Even another woman may give a man more grace if he's passionate vs a woman.

[@badboygoodgirl]

u spittin.

[@jb3702]

But that's realistic

[@calivibes_84]

That about sums it up. Whenever you read critique of her 99.9% of the time it’s rooted in her delivery. Most people either just can’t get past it because society is brainwashed to like the fake or they simply don’t want to get past it. Gives them an excuse to dismiss what she’s saying. Smh.

[@PPM_Songs]

She resonates with people who see between the lines and speak up no matter how they are perceived or ridiculed. Free Thinkers are on the rise FINALLY and its REFRESHING

[@ChosenOne1111]

Yesssssss

[@vickinicole]

yes sir/ma'am we are here and we will protect Amanda

[@alonalove3118]

It's okay to be a free thinker however be mindful of what you say because there is repercussions for everything ....

[@lorijones3637]

@@alonalove3118 I agree with you. Also, be able to take criticism/pushback from others as you have criticized them.

[@ritaree123]

Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾 Amen 🙏🏾

[@tanikatrenice8770]

This woman talked for 3 hours and some think she didn't get to speak. Sheesh some people just want to be mad.

[@ggs2942]

She is so sure of herself in the most positive way🥺❤️ we should all learn how to honour our own feelings no matter how hard it is.🌸

[@staceyw7918]

The grace Amanda gave to Shannon is commendable.

[@Bibibabies260]

Lol I was thinking just the opposite. 😂

[@stephanieevette291]

I am not good with how he treated her. He just proved her point.

[@melliemel32]

I see it the opposite way…

[@melliemel32]

@@Bibibabies260me too. I think she has issue being challenged. I’ve seen this in her on other interviews with different people, whether she was interviewing or the interviewer.

[@dominiquerobinson4976]

@@stephanieevette291I agree.

[@alanathomas99]

It took him over an hour to be self aware and to stop putting his thoughts of what’s right or wrong on Amanda. Kudos to her for setting him straight. The essence of a good interviewer is the ability to listen and hear

[@namastewellness]

💯

[@VonJay]

I thought those were just simple follow up questions that he usually asks people for clarification. Even if he made a mistake she just turned it around and used it as a knife to stab him with

[@spendleton79]

This interview was necessary for him as well!! I knew Amanda is always going to stay true to herself, but I feel like he can listen and learn as well. This will help his platform and others who need to hear it and be challenged in this way.

[@VonJay]

@@spendleton79 what did he need to learn? Outside of Shannon learning how to identify her personality disorder (not autism as that is not a PD) there was nothing profound about what she said. Talking to her is a useless blank mission.

[@chad8323]

I can't wait for y'all to come back after being updated 😂. What y'all got to say about her now lol

[@YashaSpeaks]

😂🤣yall have to understand that Shannon isn’t a journalist, a therapist, nor a psychologist… he’s a retired NFL player who build his own platform… that don’t mean his intelligence, comprehension or intellect is elite Give the man a break & give thanks that he’s creating a safe space for these celebrities

[@Prettyaries1995]

Exactly “ that doesn’t mean his intelligence, comprehension or intellect is elite” I was thinking the same lol. 😅

[@TrulyHumbleUnderGOD4]

His intelligence is on a very high level. He just isn’t a panderer like the other podcasters. He also doesn’t show emotion. Yall just soft.

[@kenteciaking5195]

He was not ready for her level of intellect! Amanda we see you and never stop.

[@DajaLatte]

Yessssss! He was NOT ready

[@nataschawilson8982]

Thank you. I had to find this comment. I was typing too much in frustration 🤪

[@dinajones2761]

Intellect? She’s rude and lies when questioned

[@sunnybright8206]

Intelligence? You must have a GED

[@mykeidamiddleton8584]

AT ALL!

[@daniellenicole5298]

Some ppl think she’s combative. The real ones DO NOT. I adore this lady. ❤ I know it’s tiring explaining the same thing over and over and sometimes you feel like us in the audience don’t hear you and aren’t listening… but we are. We hear you we believe you and support you. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ Ty for doing this interview.

[@misguidedpearls7456]

❤❤❤❤❤yaaaaayyyyyy😊😊😊😊exactly

[@PPM_Songs]

Real eyes Realize real lies

[@klarkafterdark]

If you are a woman that is in shape, a 5 or above, and SINGLE, then you are combative and difficult.

[@amab1853]

Exactly 💯 real ones recognize how Amanda is special and multifaceted. She is very intellectual

[@aazablue]

So true!!! I am happy to see the level of support she has cuz i am always here for her!!

[@taiperry3554]

He tried to argue with perspective of her life.....she shut that down and made me proud. We are not protected, and she experienced that on a platform that millions can see.... yet, she held her own. By the way, she did it looking amazingly beautiful, calm, and well spoken!

[@rashardstallworth9240]

We protect y’all when you allow us to.

[@blkboi186]

Putting Amanda with Shannon revealed how obtuse he can be and is proven to be in these interviews. She did an amazing job of displaying grace and eloquently telling her truth.

[@ATLCPA]

Facts. Shay failed Amanda. He did not extend a safe welcoming space for her to share her experiences in life. 😮

[@Knobadi]

Talk that talk Queen! We got you. He fumbled this one........ The fact of trying to argue her life as she's saying he's wrong is messed up beyond reprieve.

[@delasoulish]

​@@ATLCPAI'm watching now and my mouth is literally on the floor. I am so disappointed in Shannon and his lack of preparation. There is nothing that can necessarily be done about him lacking the intelligence to survive three hours with Amanda, but he could and should have been willing to give her the same open safe space as the rest of his guests and allow her to share her story and do what she sadly always has to do...explain herself to the world.

[@toshkobain1390]

Shannon sharpe sucks for how he kept trying to water down Amanda Seales experience. I love the way Amanda spoke for herself and reminded him that you can’t interview and answer!!

[@ribhkahperkins8111]

Totally agree with not hugging someone you don't vibe with. Not going to be fake or phony.

[@Scoutbq1l]

weird to ask for one later...

[@EUCvibes]

I’ll give you a hug

[@hanaayr]

I don't hug people I do vibe with.

[@goddessrobinanderson]

Not embracing that energy. Get tf back!

[@Gabriellaella23]

Right. I don’t want that energy to rub off on me. 😅

[@shayjay9571]

Amanda’s stare🤣🤣🤣🤣 She is articulate, educated, easy to talk to and composed! I loved it! This was a good look for her. I hope she feels loved and empowered viewing the comments. Plenty of people support her and love her for exactly who she is!

[@Roughdog86]

She has an attitude and extremely combative.

[@taynaburton5828]

​@Roughdog86 insecure men use that excuse when a woman is intellectually superior, confident, and outspoken

[@barbarasaunders2160]

​@@Roughdog86totally agree. She was rude. If you don't agree with her it's a problem.

[@katherinestevenson9169]

Yes!!!❤❤❤

[@RS4LLLMM]

Yes indeed I have always loved how educated she was and just “woke “ for a lack of me being able to find a word. But I think folks willl understand 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@MissAnnikka]

I think Amanda recognized that Shannon’s questions were surface level and that he was operating on a lower frequency. She was patient, kind, and gave Shannon many teachable moments.

[@MysticalPreshXO]

🎯

[@vernellenoel2995]

Yes

[@bluelight8999]

Shannon was insufferable.

[@candicedavis2486]

She was never diagnosed. She literally said they can’t diagnose at a certain age

[@MsLegalRegal]

This

[@samanthabailey8609]

This is the best Club Shay Shay interview, in my opinion. SO MUCH is on the table here which Amanda delivers with the patience of a teacher and passion of an artist. I've listened to it multiple times as I will never get bored with the twists and turns of the conversation - even Shannon himself misunderstands her (often) but she confronts it perfectly. I'm a big fan of hers.

[@unviewerrandom4792]

nah she is just delusionnal manipulator and as a sheep you refuse to see she is just a clown

[@Auntiehaircoach]

She was so patient and graceful for this interview. Love to Amanda 🫶🏾

[@Nunofyabizzzzz]

I see why people don’t like her. She’s direct and not soft spoken. She sees the things that I’ve thought but never said and THAT makes people uncomfortable. And people that are uncomfortable with truth no sugar coating would dislike her

[@mathmommy]

You can always count on a person with Autism to be direct!

[@misguidedpearls7456]

❤❤❤❤❤

[@andreagaskew5970]

It’s like she wants to talk but don’t want to have a conversation unless the other person is agreeing with everything she has to say

[@Libragirl7tee]

My tribe !!! 😂💯

[@gospel3067]

​@@andreagaskew5970I think she wants Shay to respect her experiences like Shay did with Katt. But you can feel anyway you want.

[@gwen8marie]

I found myself resonating with Amanda and it scared me because I felt understood by someone who ain’t never known me. Amazing interview. I see Amanda and I understand her. She’s passionate and misunderstood alongside brilliantly intelligent

[@1fancychik4God]

She was awesome to get through this interview with no tears-many would have just walked away but she exposed who he really is and how he thinks

[@kaleenarandall4523]

Totally!

[@blewgrassboy8461]

She is abrasive and lacks accountability. Everything is someone's else's fault.

[@Msdee321]

EXACTLY!

[@iZaeVideos]

@@blewgrassboy8461it’s ok to be an abrasive personality, especially if you aren’t going out of your way to offend people. What is she supposed to do? Fake being meek and polite?

[@samarascott8648]

One of my favorite interviews EVER - saying that with zero surprise. I expected nothing less, and STILL was quite enlightened throughout!

[@ladyindaroom]

Amanda, Ms. Celie said this "Folk don't like nobody being too proud or too free". You are a woman who knows who you are , and whose you are.

[@wm8673]

THAT IS RIGHT

[@EsotericOccultist]

She's an insecure crybaby that's jealous of white people. That's who she is🤷‍♂️

[@b-moredeydey4109]

Well said ✊🏾

[@NovellaRo]

👏👏👏

[@DrProfitableTechnology888]

WONDERFULLY YES INDEED WONDERFULLY BEAUTIFULLY🖖🏼👏🏿🌞🌟🌻🕊💖...

[@WandaJaeMusic]

Context is SO IMPORTANT. Gained a lot of respect for her in this interview. She literally spent at least 2.5 hours explaining my entire life. 😢

[@notthe1_orthe2]

Same. It’s exhausting but validating to see we aren’t these aliens and that Amanda has pushed through. Gives me hope.

[@WandaJaeMusic]

@notthe1_orthe2 it helped me see my own biases with her and others. Life is about constant evolution + growth. I too followed narratives about her coming from some of those news outlets. But the more she explained, and the more I heard her I'm like......"that's me"! I can relate to almost all of what she said. And the *Insecure* sequence of events really changed my mind about Issa. She never seemed like a "girls girl" to me. And they painted Amanda's character in the worst light on the show. The energy was so telling through the screen. Her sides of the story made more sense!

[@marlesiabryant566]

Same here. Always felt like a circle trying to fit in a square box, so I twisted myself to fit it and is exhausting. Now I understand myself a little better!!

[@afrobutterfly]

SAMEEEE

[@fabolousjada5070]

Only girls saying this 😂 wonder why ya single or got aint ish men

[@aharpful]

Thank God for her mother. Amanda is really a gift I pray the world doesn’t ruin her spirit. I pray we all continue to grow and learn from people that are bold enough to share their stories.

[@thejayeexperi]

EVERYTHING about this Queen is AMAZING‼️💯💫🙌🏾🔥❣ One of the best interviews I have ever seen.

[@kimariokiji]

Amanda is a gem. She comes from a place of truth and integrity. Very rare in Hollywood, or anywhere for that matter. Shannon is not use to someone like Amanda. I think they both grew from this conversation. Shannon is opening a space for truth.

[@Bby_yumboe]

Amanda: I was diagnosed with Autism spectrum disorder. Shay: But was there a clinical diagnosis. I swear I keep wanting her to look over to the audience for us to laugh 🤣

[@JC-ji1hp]

Lots of people just be lying about it now. You have to specify

[@ItsJakeIII]

@@JC-ji1hpthat’s what diagnosed means in this context? “I was diagnosed…”

[@JC-ji1hp]

@@ItsJakeIII what I’m trying to get at is the part where he says clinically. I can diagnose myself in theory

[@the40yearoldyoutuber4]

@@JC-ji1hpI was diagnosed implies clinical. I am diagnosing myself is a different statement and sentiment and she is clearly intelligent enough to have said it the second way or even say self diagnosed…

[@OmarHudson]

He said that because ALOT of ppl do that. They claim they have bi-polar or autism…..just because of some things they seen on the internet. I know three ppl personally going around saying “I am diagnosed with depression…..” ain’t been to a doctor in years.

[@shermgee4328]

“What is it about me that makes you feel small” a powerful question for so many‼️

[@brittanykoger1786]

Yes, I loved this.

[@family1card988]

Have left several jobs for this VERY thing

[@strongblkwmn]

And very appropriate for this interview!

[@aliamichelle_]

This whole interview that was my thought. People were projecting their own insecurities on her for her entire life!

[@dedeeveney341]

Yass!!!! its that positive energy!!! self awareness will make the lost ones feel inferior ...

[@BenniHunnit]

Definitely a very intelligent woman, I love seeing someone who knows how to use critical thinking and effectively use language in a conversation

[@Indythinkers90]

I love Amanda. She keeps it REAL. We live in a world where people are selling their SOUL for a price and she’s not one of them

[@jjpark1989]

Oh yes she is. Everyone has a price. Everyone. And she's got hers.

[@shrinabell4181]

Amanda better than me I would have ended the interview he is ignorant & clueless & not listening

[@PatchesOhoulihan159]

Only 🌈 men love that misandrist

[@imperialsplendor3112]

They can never make me hate her! She’s extremely intelligent and honest. This is a woman who live with her heart and unfortunately in today’s society, we have been taught not to follow our own truth/ North Star. I pray she enters and remain in a place where people can see and love her authenticity

[@imaniperry1974]

But what's Amanda's truth, though. She talks about speaking up and challenging misinformation and wrongdoing. Yet, Amanda doesn't want the same energy reciprocated towards her. She can hold others accountable, but it's blasphemy people hold her accountable. She's a hypocrite.

[@IamnotEntertainedK]

So well said SiS, well said n I agree with u!

[@DeRayLove]

Facts

[@mobrown1198]

Who is “they” … why would “they” care who you like.

[@TubeManagement]

They can never make yall dislike any female actually. Yall support every woman that’s disrespectful brash and aggressive …. Even saw some a y’all supporting that one witch that killed her entire family recently …. Yall are obtuse mentally

[@Tobstar76]

Amanda is a special woman, and the world typically doesn’t support people like her because they simply don’t understand and don’t want to. It takes a depth of spirit and courage to be your true self. I’m so grateful she exists and I wish her a joyful fulfilling life as she wants and deserves. Continue to shine sis. ❤

[@saralujina6]

Thank God Amada had Mother wonderful Mother who understood her daughter very well God bless her

[@ARINELSON93]

Only 30 minutes in and I’m already sooo exhausted for Amanda. So glad she is not letting him go unchecked. She states her boundaries and instead of really listening he’s thinking of how to defend his own beliefs. When you’re so adamant about being RIGHT, you’re completely missing the opportunity to really hear someone and what a shame because you will never grow as a person if you aren’t willing to learn from other people.

[@veemitchell5217]

I was at work watching yesterday, very exhausting 😢

[@scootazoogoatreel8434]

I agree 100%

[@GodCreatedBlack]

I thought it was just me. His intolerance of her personal experiences is disrespectful! I can't believe this!

[@nsenloo2685]

Same 18:29 min in already taking a pause to go check the comment to see if I am bugging.

[@dreamteam1428]

I agree. I thought he was challenging her playing devil’s advocate- asking what the audience might ask?

[@amandawhipple1302]

The way her mind works 😮 And the way she recalls Shannon’s “logic” to teach him 😮‍💨 That girl is brilliant!!

[@dadillonful]

I doubt that even happened to her, she’s a race baiting narcissist

[@kamfisher1714]

She’s not. She’s sensitive.

[@deesfunhouse]

I don't know maybe because it's his job

[@locjourney9378]

I agree with Shannon that most adults don’t like when kids speak up about their misinformation. My son is gifted and has the same problem with his elementary school teachers and my elderly family members. I allow him to be himself because he’s never disrespectful. Props to Amanda’s mom for never trying to change her.

[@LorenCognita]

I agree.

[@AlexisMitchell87]

I think adults often lack sufficient humility and empathy when it comes to children. That specific adult was speaking to children; telling a child to stay in their place is nonsensical. I experienced this often as a child (I’m also on the Autism spectrum) because I’m very direct and transparent. The rules of adult/child engagement were so confusing to me as a kid. I’m in my late thirties and am grateful I had a mother who allowed us to ask questions. That carried over into the way I parent.

[@drsinister4274]

Yes, s/o to her mother for grooming hee to obnoxious. She will die bitter and alone.

[@chistruth]

I agree with Shannon too but because I don’t know the teacher, I also don’t know the motivation behind what she said. Lots of people do the same thing but not always for the same reasons.

[@blockthis08]

Teachers like order in the classroom. You wouldn't necessarily like it if your child continually questioned your authority. Same in the classroom. I think there are better avenues of how disagreements on an issue can be addressed. Maybe the child bringing it up to the parent so they can address it ADULT TO ADULT to the teacher.

[@Gamrock1]

I was married to a Grenadian that acted just like Amanda, My mother and Sister are Vincentian and were the same way. I definitely understand her struggle. Eff em if they don't get you. This has got to be one of the Top 5 Interviews on Club Shay. Love my W.I. people. Team Amanda

[@ShantelJanee]

"Most people read it as anger but what your seeing is deep hurt" OMG that resonates with me so much

[@ShaneBradford]

Anger is hurt though... It makes no sense in reality

[@asparrow9876]

Then go to therapy... Stop bleeding on everybody....

[@danielx8]

Call Sukihana for antidepressants

[@Aaliyah.Ali.786]

I agree with you! It resonates with me too! I beat you, myself and Amanda are 4s. We are always misunderstood. We are always the innovators!

[@koleonkoleon3400-pp8om]

She must be a Capricorn like I

[@cousinchris5851]

Shannon is having a very difficult time believing that Amanda experiences racism in America 😂😂 He's making it weird

[@objectivedetective3897]

Shannon grew up in middle Georgia in the 70s. He knows racism first hand as well as southern culture. Her being criticized for correcting an adult was her experiencing southern culture.

[@bigggamejamesd6891]

Him talking about a child’s place is an old school mentality. She corrected a teacher who was doling out misinformation who would continue to do so if Amanda remained silent. I bet that teacher thought twice before belittling and dismissing an entire culture again

[@Seon24]

Your absolutely right ​@objectivedetective3897

[@TheLukeAveryShow]

He's a clown!

[@omarepps77]

Some of yall in society today are really slow

[@Collierslife1]

I have true appreciation and respect for Amanda. She is a self-confident, brilliant, sophisticated woman who understands her own power and value. She is a wonderful example of not "playing small" to become non-threatening to the insecure people around you.

[@angelinemuriuki7384]

💯

[@stevemiller3571]

New level of respect for Ms. Seales!! Keep doing your thing sis!!

[@imani6938]

At the hour and 23 minute mark, when Amanda says "So you finally understand me, it took me a minute but we are here." I felt that. This entire TIME, two different individuals are trying to find a mutual understanding of each other and respect each other's differences. You can't TRULY know anyone until you understand what are the experiences that shape them.

[@devonterobinson223]

Then one minute later her say but Amanda if u learn the rules. Then she interrupts and says I know I didn’t know back then.. which invalidates the very thing u pointing out

[@michellepittman7886]

Thanks for the update! I had to pause at 30 min and again at 50 min cuz it was so difficult to watch Shannon interact with Amanda. He was coming across as disrespectful and I was getting upset on her behalf.

[@Atribecalledsuccess]

That’s not true if the person is lying about experiences