Ambika Raina (AIR 164, CSE 2022) on Loneliness, Failures and Anxiety during UPSC!

[@BasantBairagi-sm4kn]

Sir please take interview of Uma Harathi mam. She took 5 attempts to secure rank 3. We can learn a lot about mental health from her.

[@khushboosharma6461]

When She said..I was skipping toppers of 3rd-4 th attempt.. I totally relate... Sec.. That heart break of failing first attempt.. Really breaks u..its true for the first time.. In Academic...We fail in life..itni mehnat krne k baad..Thanks sir..for this video... Great support.

[@harshit20251]

​@@sanskritirajput67887:18

[@Warrior0160]

@@ExTrimEast_kpop_lover jake bhais chra aur Ghas v kat lena ho sake to gobar v utha lena aakhir teri roji roti ise se to chalta hai Yha jahar mt ugal

[@anish4760]

​@@ExTrimEast_kpop_loverChad 😂😂😂

[@ArjunSharma-yo5od]

​@@ExTrimEast_kpop_loveraukat me rha tu Jake naala saaf kr usi layak hai tu

[@ExTrimEast_kpop_lover]

@@anish4760 💪 bro...

[@Ka84run]

People do watch till the end if the content is worth enough like this one. Thanks for your efforts sir.

[@prakhardixit7154]

Shivin Sir it is going be approx one year since i am watching your videos . Each and every comment , suggestion , analysis of yours comes out to be so logical and helpfull that i don't want to share it with any other aspirant 😂. Sir keep inspiring me !

[@Karan-wz7pt]

I have never felt a burnout like this in my life before. It's still 40 days to mains and things are just crazy now. Thankyou for this session.

[@debsinghdeo323]

Leave upsc

[@Anonymousrajj]

Bhaishab iss baar ka prelims ka paper dekh kr i completely switched myself towards state pcs and ssc exams. Kudos to you brother for clearing UPSC CSE prelims

[@Fall7timestandup8]

Everything will be okay. Just hold on. And, all the best! Rise and shine✨

[@Parthsarthi-sy2lu]

Hey, How was Mains experience ?

[@RajPrince129]

Hey buddy how was your mains exam?

[@neerajpandey2362]

Just for alert they are the competitors of 2024 prelims, they both are on extraordinary leaves for giving attempts of 2024 to be aware and focus. Use your time consciously. All the best

[@Freetimeuser2024]

How can you say that they are on leave?.. Are you there colleague?.. I think it's your jealous which is making you speak such stuffs against them.. 😅

[@saurabhkumar-jt8vd]

Yes ma'am & sir we do listen till the end..as I'm still in prep stage just listening to your conversation and finding even a small thing that I've been facing really cheers me up. Feels so good to know that it's normal more people feel the same it's not just me...really keeps me sane 😌

[@appila2283]

Shivin bhai jo CA Exams ki prep krte hai woh bhi immerse rehte hai ,Jo army mein jaana chahte hai woh bhi poora din SSB ke baareien mein sochte rehte hai it's the nature of Indian exams .aur end mein aapko ptah hi hai kyu iss exam ko glorify krte hai log

[@AkshaySharma-ip4qg]

exam mayn't be glorious though, IAS, IPS services are. Once you meet some officer, you will know

[@doitdevin]

Bhai pls if you are preparing for any other exam or given any other exam except CSE. Prepare at least once in your lifetime you'll get the difference.

[@priyesh12tiwary51]

I had cleared NDA and went for SSB in Dehradun it was absolutely nothing, you don't think much about SSB because it's fluid and the aren't asking you to study anything to prepare. Also I'm currently preparing for UPSC and have multiple CA qualified people and people preparing for CA within my siblings or friends, it's not even close, you literally get so many years to go through it and get the time to do graduation along with it that's unthinkable with UPSC. Yes the glorification is an eyesore but that is what unchecked capitalism does, that' not to say UPSC exam is comparable to CA or SSB.

[@kaushalburnwal3671]

❤A candid conversation antigen and ma'am!🎉

[@Drgrishhhh]

So pure conversation ♥️🪷🫀 hats off to both of you sir and ma’am 🥺💛

[@ayushisharma72]

ABSOLUTELY ENLIGHTENING & legit content. Thanks a ton!

[@RK-pv4mr]

Your worth or your level should not be associated with a paper.... Best line ❤ you are much more and beyond any exam, never forget your worth ❤

[@shalinisharma3778]

What a conversation! Both of you are genuine toppers. U have dare to say all these realities on social media. I can relate each n every word.

[@gauravsrivastava8532]

What an initiative. We need more of these. Great work shivin So relatable .... thanks for the session. Wish I could have seen this before writing mains

[@ayushpratap8837]

Thankyou for doing this bhai. I owe you.

[@Warrior0160]

Such an amazing episode ever✨ Lots of hidden things you guys are talking about.😯 Dil se thankyou to both of you❣️

[@controlidf]

It is history not mythology, it can't be taken so casual. Discussion was fruitful .

[@umeandideas]

Really Enjoyed it, I know this channel's potential to bring a change out there. I mean nobody talks about the cries, and joys we face daily, the self-doubt that can sink your productivity in just a second. I know everybody goes through this but how we will know if issues like these will not be raised. All I have is gratitude, Thankyou Sir.

[@pratiksaroj]

True

[@maipranavhoon]

She is soo cutee!!

[@castudy24]

indeed

[@therock7758]

Why I feel, shivin sir is blushing

[@Emma_369]

srsly thank u so much sir...my heart got relieved the moment u said.. toppers ans copies are the manufactured END product! It's a must to embrace ourselves always no matter irresp of anything in ur lives !!

[@binaynayak1510]

Handsome is hosting the video while Beautiful guest is explaining everything ❤😂.

[@castudy24]

Can't take off my eyes off her, she is soo beautiful😍😍

[@شجاعت-غ6و]

She is kashmiri ❤

[@The_KinKraft]

Those things are so eye catchy😂

[@motivationalrahul4174]

Bhaut logo ko help milti he ese channel se

[@arwachisindhumamc8435]

Absolutely enjoyed the video. The two of you so sensible ,smart amd funny. 🙌

[@pshelke6672]

Shivin sir one request please conduct one session with ifs vikram Grewal

[@premagarwal2100]

28:00 34:30 isolation

[@Khub_bhaLaw]

Thank you senior ✨

[@Vandana-f7c]

After clearing 2025 sir , I will also come to speak about my journey with you

[@abhinavmishra6340]

22:35 Shit, that just happened with me 😂, 10-12 hours of mains prep and in your break you are listening how its normal, just another day for UPSC aspirants.

[@karanarora1468]

Shivin deserves to be in top 10 ranks of all time. he is mr. perfect.

[@aspirant6622]

चल झुठे

[@harshvarman2782]

Deserve to ghnshyam gautam bhi krte h but .......

[@tanisharawat8613]

Sir I hope you know you are an amazing person, thank you so much for understanding everyone and their efforts........thank you so much for your every effort, we are proud to have someone like you. I don't know how to put my thoughts into words...sorry about that .....but thank you once again

[@AnshuMI2021]

Thanks for this, I am getting back

[@shreyachand8442]

I liked this talk. Felt very lightweight and breezy

[@Vijay_16]

22:36 you are spot on😂

[@motivationalrahul4174]

Today I got the right guidance

[@KoushalChoudhary-eg8bo]

Very beasuttifuull....❤❤❤

[@Akhlaque07]

Bt the way Great conversation 😊

[@ardhendushekhar8417]

One of the best topper talk I have ever listened, thankyou sir and ma'am for sharing your valuable experience and about your "SETBACKS"😊

[@upsc3526]

0:49 😂 kya tha wo

[@monster1847]

😂😂😂😂😂 sorry bro thoda mistake hua

[@yashwantsinghyadav18ballb07]

Bhai yar exactly i came here for a break and got this video opened.

[@ishu6697]

She looks like a disney character

[@rosiebxrryx]

i saw him at my school for the ted talk today and i really feel proud

[@19NKB]

Mam I appreciate your authenticity. I don't intend to spread any negativity around anyone . However I deeply ponder on why all officers say these days that toppers shouldn't be glorified and yet have public insta accounts. There are many ways to guide aspirants like telegram and you tube. It is Instagram which perpetuates celebrity culture and those reels with songs . Would love to know your perspective on the same. And not targeting you mam but it is general trend I have observed . Dopt not allowing insta to be private would really help reduce this influencer culture may be but then again legal mandate doesn't answer it all in a wise society

[@Mausam_singh_rajput]

She just looks like my mother

[@MonikaD________l]

such beautiful perspectives.

[@RajaTyagi456]

My love is only for UPSC girls ❤❤

[@sakshigupta8603]

I think somewhere she said she worked abroad for a few years and realised she wanted to work for the country and here she is saying she attempted in her graduation year itself?

[@milymanpreetmily9267]

Good conversation Help alot

[@notamathperson9389]

Why in the world I am the one blushing watching him talking with her. 😅

[@creativegenius1886]

+1

[@notamathperson9389]

@@AdityaSharma-rl1dl Brother you definitely need to do something about your mental health, in these professions you have to be multi dimensional to see the bigger picture. No hate bro , Be happy and keep your parents happy and proud .

[@experiment3965]

i tolerated both of u till last😆

[@arushisrivastava9515]

"Upsc is like a national hobby"

[@JackDaniels-ll7zx]

She is more of a TikToker than the Steel Frame of India

[@rocknur]

Love the line❤🥰

[@shivanijha9513]

Thanku so much sir

[@ur_pal6783]

Firstly when I read title I read her name as ambical cord 😅...may be it's bcoz of my lazy brain after having lunch...anyways great session shivin Bhai ❤ make more videos like this in future thanx

[@honeydudeify]

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂maut

[@newlifegodiswithus1031]

😂😂😂

[@nishusinha1290]

Wtf🤣🤣🤣🤣

[@missionpehlapageair1holypdf]

probably you were high

[@unforgettxxle]

But it's umbilical cord

[@kavyahumanity9061]

Sir pls make a video for those writing mains..what should be their approach now..i am exactly in your position- fumbling for content, writing tests and not getting good scores, and which is causing a lot of stress and under confidence.

[@Bhbbbhhh]

Bhai only selected ki mental health ki baat krta h ,not selected ka bhi liya kro ,wahi batayenge kya hota hai pressure, anxiety and all most clear

[@UjjawalKumar-0]

Her smile & eyes 😅❤

[@RajaTyagi456]

Ambika jee I love you ❤❤

[@mahalaxmivantillu7650]

Thanks a lot for help us

[@strikestar007]

Her white hair speaks for how much stress she would have gone through

[@shivakumar-zs2hl]

Sir is in forum ias dipin sir current affairs is good is worthy of upsc is taking nessary or sir how you covered current affairs for mains for urs preparation please give me some suggestions

[@Cherry-kg1ex]

Sir I'm preparing for UPSC and middle of my preparation... I'm facing panic attack and i don't know how to over come with it..... please help me ....I don't know what i do ....😢

[@nainasharma800]

Yes we do watch

[@den22378]

Just wanted to ask how come she got iaas when she got 164,think she could purposely choose that over irs and all

[@the_harshgarg]

Sir keep posting on this channel as well

[@vsss755]

There is a story A beautiful woman approach Genius Einstein And said if we both marry Our child will have my beauty and your brain Einstein replied what if it reversed But if no reverse result is here

[@LightInTheDark21]

The content that we Actually need🫡. Thank You Bhaiya 😇.

[@AhlawatSupriya2805-hc6mc]

Wahhooppppeeeee he is best 🥰🥰🥰

[@nishasharawat6504]

You are like a real mentor to me...i badly need guidance ..

[@jonydep352]

Shivin bro ❤❤

[@B.A._YOUTUBE_WALI_]

Sir please reply don't ignore...i am very confused about this ... please 🙏mne 3months pehle preparation start ki h or khudko English m shift Kiya h meri schooling or college Hindi medium m tha lekin 7 Tak English medium tha or 12 th m science thi phir mne b a. Kiya ab Mera optional Hindi literature h....lekin m apne mains k medium ko lekar bhut jyada confused hu ....mere decision lene ke main criteria h..m English m padh leti or class krti hu to wo samjh AA jati h lekin jb essay writing or mains answer writing ka sochti hu to lgta h ...m English m thodi vocab or sentence making m weak hu ....general English likh leti hu lekin Jo tough words h unko padhne or likhne m time lgta h... reading m bhi thoda time lg jata h kyuki Kai bar translate karni hoti h.....or mujhe ye lgta h ki jyadatar content or sab kuch English me hi available h...Maine unacademy ka subscription le rkha h ...uske bare m bhi sochti hu ki uske jyada tarah teacher English ke h to uska bhi use m English m hi kar paungi..kuch books bhi khareed Li h English jyada to nhi lekin 5-6..mujhe 2024 me first attempt Dena h ....kbhi to ye lgta h English m class krungi or poore saal padhungi to dheere dheere aa hi jaegi ....mujhe subject ki specific terminology h usne dikkat nhi h kyuki jse geography economics inme dekhe to terminology hi di ki tough h ...lekin meri English itni achhi nhi h jaisi m toppers ki copy m dekhti hu... M bhut jyada confused hu or is decision ki wjh se pdhai bhi nhi ho pa rhi .... please aapke according mujhe kya karna chahiye bta dijiye.....

[@ShubhangiPrajapati13]

2024 me attempt diya tha kya?

[@edhalya8138]

For someone who has no idea about the UPSC exam preparation and guidance. Could you guys guide me on a starting level as in like....not something that I can find out in the internet but the process and how does it take a mentall toll on you when you're preparing?

[@sadhanabharti4662]

Good evening sir 😊😊

[@siddharthdeshmukh8118]

Hello Sir! I've been following you for a while. Since this channel is about mental health I would like to ask is there any way to identify if one is suffering from attention deficit disorder? I did search about it's symptoms in the internet and felt that I do fit in some of them. But the problem is, those symptoms are so common that many people may identify with some of them. After looking into it a bit more, I find that in the first world countries every other person claims to have been suffering from it, either it is in trend for some reason or it is feeding the market which returns nothing but drug abuse. I always felt that a professional help may lead to exploitation. I have appeared for the exam 5 times and couldn't even clear the prelims once. Its not like didn't prepare. I did, but couldn't understand why I'm making the same mistakes. Is it really the case I mentioned above or is my mind simply coming with excuses? If possible please do reply Sir.

[@pratiksaroj]

One wise man said - "Look your symptoms on the internet and the next thing you know is you have Cancer". Don't rely on internet for these things. If you feel that you may have some mental health issues, you should definitely consult a professional. There is no harm in meeting them once. You can also tell them if you don't want medication. Take care man ❤

[@siddharthdeshmukh8118]

@@pratiksaroj Thanks brother.

[@nasadeeyam4442]

Adhd is extremely common with boys...some have made it to greatness without treatment even....you can look for what works for you.

[@RamKumar-yi6wn]

ADHD will make you feel like you've been pushed into the water with a bunch of trained swimmers. While both of you will be moving vigorously , your movement would be the wild flailing to keep your head above water while others would be making efficient and precise strokes to swim across. That's the curse of ADHD. Don't look for just bullet point symptoms , they're vague enough for everyone to qualify for them at some level. Read Scattered Minds by Gabor Maté and Driven to Distraction. These books explicate the symptoms in the context of real life circumstances. They speak to you on a personal level when you find vivid parallels from your own life. ADHD is not pseudo-science nor is it exact science that can be cured with Ritalin or some other magic pill. It requires you to understand your own condition as much as you can without personal judgement and then devising personalised ways to countervail the effects of your ADHD brain. It's real but not a completely debilitating condition as you can device strategies to offset the negative effects of ADHD while leaning on its strengths such as dynamic thinking, heightened empathy and emotional intelligence. Also don't tell your friends or relatives that you have this condition , either they will believe you and deprecate you for it or they won't and call you a lazy bum looking for excuses. ADHDs are more sensitive than neurotypicals and such barbs tend to leave them more wounded than most , not something you want in any case. Well good luck !

[@siddharthdeshmukh8118]

@@RamKumar-yi6wn Thank you, friend!

[@opsagar9413]

Kudus u brthr bring who not made it 4th aatepmt

[@abhijeetkumar2204]

She is Kashmiri hindu

[@شجاعت-غ6و]

She is ethnic kashmiri ...we are proud of her ❤

[@abhijeetkumar2204]

@@شجاعت-غ6و who are you ?muslim turk invader ancestors?

[@شجاعت-غ6و]

@@abhijeetkumar2204 mark my words you will never get through this exam

[@abhijeetkumar2204]

​@@شجاعت-غ6و I m already in a centeral govt job. Ye v kar lunga soon.

[@anonymous-m1q3r]

@@abhijeetkumar2204 that’s the spirit 🔥

[@harshit20251]

Hiii Sir There is a an important Suggestion Please Enable Time Stamp 👍

[@ReetikaChoudhary-hx3bg]

❤❤❤

[@sarvjeetkumar9714]

Bahut talented hogi yarr

[@vijayragh9574]

27:49 😊

[@puneetyadav9112]

wow

[@RamaLakshmiG-wi5rt]

12:00

[@Aneek_Debnath_017]

Mai bas sound off karke dekh raha tha 😂

[@PurusharthAttrish]

10 rupaye ki Pepsi, humaara Shivin bhai sexy!!

[@MohitShakya9027]

Ye toh kuch match na hua

[@yashasvichauhan4417]

Respect bro ❤

[@juhi4101]

Hey purusharth! It's juhi.. From edsarrthi ... Your comment got me yrr😂😂... Was actually quite tensed... So came here to have some community vibe... And I really cracked up reading your comment😂😂... Loll..

[@PurusharthAttrish]

@@juhi4101Hahahahahahahaha😂😂

[@unicornakash]

can mam get ias service @164 rank?

[@chichills9833]

No

[@nishu55566]

@@chichills9833 IPS most probably 99%

[@aniruddhasajja9561]

tough for general

[@studyzone2389]

​@@nishu55566 No....her first preference is IFS(Indian Foreign Service)...and also sir wants to join IFS....but he didn't get ranked according to IFS....most probably he will re-attempt next year....

[@chichills9833]

@@studyzone2389 mam ne kaha mention kiya ifs preference

[@epictetus__]

12:36 bookmark

[@nikhilrai3648]

Voice is not clear you should improve this next time

[@abhijeetkumar2204]

Voice is not clear

[@Devdash_kailash]

Aap log kya baate kr rhe ho mujhe kuch samjh nhi aaya plzz hindi

[@InnocentCrocodileHiding-cq1qq]

Ambika's 🥭 🥭

[@Jchi737]

Real tho

[@InnocentCrocodileHiding-cq1qq]

@@Jchi737means

[@surya1.1-c9i]

happened a long ago(LIVE?),,,,,,,,,,,you are just doing this for money .........SHAM ON YOU ...I USED TO HAVE RESPECT ON THIS CHANNEL.

[@fewminutesseries7412]

2023 was my 1st attempt and I failed due to csat...even after taking it seriously...was done with 10 years of pyq ...but still I failed It was heart breaking for me..... I can completely relate

[@HIMANSHUGODARA-b3o]

Easy comprehension beta Utna bhi hard nhi Stop sympathising yrself.

[@fewminutesseries7412]

@@HIMANSHUGODARA-b3odear sir /ma'am exam hall ke bahar sab kuch easy lagta hei ....mei pehle math reasoning karti thi and around 15 ohi ho jatatha but exam hall mei nehi hua ....fir easy reading comprehension vi easy nehi rehi ....I think you got it

[@sumitpranz7374]

​@@fewminutesseries7412 ma'am kindly stop explaining to those guys!! I can relate to you. Best wishes 🎉.

[@fewminutesseries7412]

@@sumitpranz7374 thank you! :)

[@Bhbbbhhh]

14000 people cleared, means it was doable.

[@nishu55566]

3rd attempt 😢😢 means long journey?? Logo ka 6attempt me niaklta hai, sabka apna apna hota hai. But you are lucky although to clear it in 3rd attempt mam.

[@beihrochuhralo2162]

Definitely

[@adityakrishna11]

Haan toh 3 attempts doesn't mean short either. Calm your horses

[@nishu55566]

@@adityakrishna11 it is general for most of the selected candidates

[@silvers5913]

Ratta marne me itni challenge

[@NeeruKapoor-l4x]

Help kro ga ya help lanee ha

[@NeeruKapoor-l4x]

🙏god bless you

[@NeeruKapoor-l4x]

🧠tation ha gauid Hani ker per pati

[@NeeruKapoor-l4x]

Happy samil ratee hu

[@NeeruKapoor-l4x]

Dil Pyar 🤌🌱💦big body strong hogi

[@NeeruKapoor-l4x]

Book eng NAHI help krO ga

[@NeeruKapoor-l4x]

🌹💓🛌

[@VikasGupta-jo2px]

madam i love you sister too much then me didi behan ❤🎉

[@SulaimanMM-x9z]

Iam, mantal, probulam, not, sorre, madam, thangs

[@dineshkumawat5642]

Mujhe ye kyu lg rha ki ye lbasna ke couple h 😂

[@twinrajat2961]

Wtf😂

[@Whvh]

GLTI MERI HAI US RAAT TERI MAAA KO NAI THOKA HOTA TO TU NAI HOTA