I AM NOT HAVING AN AWAKENING & why my BAGS are here to STAY.

[@AllOverDori]

There are people who have a true love for “this stuff “ and there are people who only bought as a way of striving for elitism.

[@blktauna]

yes. They used the bags for a different reason, they didn't simply love the things. Now I get you have to be careful with your money and what you buy, but if you enjoy the thing, you enjoy it.

[@10secondsofmylife]

well said!!

[@ameliarosescloset]

This is so true

[@Debbiesdilemmas]

I so agree with you.👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻

[@MrsVanB]

Well said! 💯

[@israeli_flava]

Hallelujahhhhhhh! I'm with you Amelia. I'm not waking up from any of this because it's a DREAM! It's not an addiction, I don't have unresolved traumas; I'm not unhappy or lonely. I'm not broke. I'm not a hoarder! I just LOVE Hermes! I love every single bag I have and they make getting ready each day an absolute JOY!!!! I've been collecting for 2 decades....not just since the lockdown... and I will never stop! Gosh I'm so sick of feeling beaten up for loving to collect bags. Thank you for making this video.

[@AllOverDori]

I love this comment 😂♥️

[@ameliarosescloset]

I love this!! I'm now 13 years collecting bags and i still love them!

[@sandra_w]

Thank you, 💯 percent agreed!

[@RaeRoseM]

Something important you just mentioned is that “ It’s not a think you just started during lockdown “ most people hopped on this and that and they are the ones waking up. For some of you ladies it’s something you’ve been doing for decades and not mostly for the wrong reasons.

[@ceciliabrown3301]

Same here. Been collecting since 90s and no intention of slowing down. Shopping gives me pleasure and I don't want to live a miserable life 😂

[@lisatakeitorleaveit]

I never understand when somebody changes their mind about something they have to vilify those that still enjoy it

[@ameliarosescloset]

Nor me

[@Lutifah]

It’s human nature… my sister became Christian and told me I was going to hell because I didn’t, a friend of mine became vegan after happily eating meat her entire life and now feels the need to gag when people eat meat around her, I have another friend who gave up drink and now shames others. It’s human nature to try and justify your choice by putting others down… strange … and weird but true

[@annan.3283]

Niki and Anna Bey didn’t vilify anyone. I feel this video vilifies them for changing their values.

[@NCMama87]

I had a family member comment on the price of one of my candles. My response is always, everyone spends money on something. Our house is paid for, we put our son through college, our retirement accounts are intact. If I want to buy an occasional bag, like the Miss Dior I just bought in Vegas, I’m going to enjoy it.

[@ameliarosescloset]

And love it and enjoy it !

[@1111KO]

EXACTLY!

[@KimberlyFairchild58]

It’s clear Anna Bey is “not as interested in luxury” at the moment because she just released a clothing line that is nice and in a mid to higher price range, but would not fall in a “luxury” category. She would seem hypocritical if she didn’t seem to be less interested in full on luxury. She’s trying to straddle both worlds for her marketing purposes. She’s not selling her Hermes bags…just wearing them with HER clothing line. Most of these creators that are “rethinking luxury” already have fabulous collections to enjoy.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Most do have great collections already and i did not know this about her clothing line!

[@StyledByGwenny]

Oooo Kimberly, you've got the inside scoop! 🕵‍♀️

[@Wildunfiltered]

Thanks for addressing this my love. It’s crazy to me that luxury does somehow hit a nerve with people where other things that people spend money on seems to be acceptable. X

[@ameliarosescloset]

It really does seem to rub some people up the wrong way, how we spend our money! X

[@melxx4035]

Honestly every time I buy a new bag and carry it some of the people ‘in my life’ look at me as though I’ve murdered someone ! 🤣😆 the judgement is real people 😭😭

[@katemiller7874]

Lol. That’s funny

[@ameliarosescloset]

It is real, people!

[@TheSharna23]

People using the word "awakening" implies (in my opinion) that those who still indulge in luxury goods are somehow still "asleep" or "blind". And that's the holier-than-thou tone I really don't like about their videos and posts. It's fine if you decide you're done spending your money in this way. It's not fine to act like there's something wrong with those who still do.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Very true

[@carol8709]

Yay! Seriously the whole shade that gets thrown at people who love bags! From being a tiny tot I carried a bag. I work, I raised a family. I don't drink, smoke or have some other activity ie golf that takes money. My choice is handbags. Always has been always will. Thank you for this video!

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you, and it does seem to get a lot of judgement!

[@ameliarosescloset]

🤣🤣🤣

[@carol8709]

@@HauteGemsDallas LOL....well not enough to be collecting wine bottles!

[@raqueldasilva8702]

The piece here is the difference between acknowledging unhealthy behaviours and seeking to address them but not then projecting those on others . It’s actually not about handbags at all and when content creators miss the point on this as an individual wellness issue vs a handbag issue it can be very off putting to those who are not having those issues but are simply enjoying their handbags . Thanks for sharing ❤️☺️

[@ameliarosescloset]

This is so accurate, thank you

[@MaxItUpwithMarta]

Most creators are all about trends and views. You do you.

[@ameliarosescloset]

If it's your job it probably has to be

[@xokarenkandi13]

100% everyone is just jumping on the bandwagon and aren't into luxury all of a sudden due to the trends lol you don't spend YEARS lusting over bags to become a minimalist overnight, thank you for speaking on this!!!

[@ameliarosescloset]

I'm definitely not changing on my love for them!

[@EbonyNikitaElegance]

I roll my eyes seeing some of those “brainwashed into luxury” videos. Some of us truly love fashion & style. If you’re using luxury handbags to fill a void or insecurity then it’s wrong. You can do that with food, beauty treatments or anything else. I think there are some genuine creators, but I think others are hoping on the trend & dramatizing it. It is possible to shop luxury in moderation & not do so to fill a void.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Really like this comment x

[@ShantaWoolley]

I try to practice minimalism but love that everyone is different, in different phases, and growing at different levels!because OMG LIFE WILL BE SO BORING IF EVERYONE I WATCH ON KZbin WERE ALL GETTING RID OF THEIR STUFF!” AND ARE ALL WEARING BLACK😅 (I love black myself😂) YOU GET WHAT I MEAN. I want different things for my self but I NEVER expect others to be like me😂 I love both maximalists and minimalists! Life is beautiful with all sorts of people in it. The same with youtube❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

I do get what you mean , there is plenty of room for all interests!

[@Hexelixe]

I don't buy luxury items, mainly because I don't have the budget, but I love to watch videos of luxury bags. This discussion about "awakening" (more like, "moving on from this kind of content"), sounds to me more like those trends of old like "booktube is dead" because "booktube promotes consumerism", or "the beauty community is dead" because "beauty vloggers promote consumerism", and so with the planner community, and the knitting community and so on and on and on. It's a natural cycle that people move on from one topic to another, but when it happens with content creators that usually creates these movements of "x is no more", "x promotes this bad thing" and so on. It's great when some people can afford luxury items and show them to us, so we can learn (and not be fooled by people trying to scam us or trick us), but it also gives us a window to know about certain items we could use as a reward for ourselves, if your budget allows it.

[@ameliarosescloset]

I agree, it's a great resource for research

[@AutumnBeckman]

I don't watch the channels you mentioned but I've seen a video or two here and there and my impression (perhaps wrongly) is that they care too much about what other people think. It seems like the bags were a way to gain status rather than something they loved. And for me, if you're in your 20's or later before you realize that material things are not important and what other people think of you is not important and how ridiculous it is to have to look a certain way or own certain things to be accepted by certain people...it's difficult for me to take you seriously. I don't think their viewpoints on luxury represent most of the people who watch our channels who enjoy handbags for personal reasons, not for other people.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Very good point, enjoying it for yourself

[@mwedzi]

I like your honesty and hearing the journey. It's something many of us can relate to, even for us luxury bag consumers. It's thoughtful and introspective, love it.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you!

[@Natalia_Kowal]

16:52 „I’m NEVERRRRR going to be a minimalist!” - that’s one of the reasons I I love you and your channel Amelia! ME NEITHER! This scrutiny on shopping is really way too big! No one is going after people buying very expensive cars for example, it’s considered as “they made it” but I know in the country I live in (Iceland) majority of Tesla owners have nothing else except the car..

[@ameliarosescloset]

Never! And iceland... i would like to visit there

[@PiperSevern]

I too love the escapism of collecting.I have got rid of quite a lot in the past few years and have my collection just the way I love it now.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Love this!

[@Luccol-ii4en]

I enjoy watching your videos, mainly because of your bright personality. I did watch Nikki’s and Anna’s videos and honestly I don’t get the feel that they are insinuating that they are better than those who still collect and enjoy purchasing luxury. I think they’re just sharing how they personally feel and where they are in their journey. I agree with you that people evolve and priorities change. I for one have always had a passion for fashion. When I was working, I owned a lot of high heel shoes, bags, etc. I still own lots of bags but I have stopped purchasing them as often - because I think bag prices are a bit insane now - and I have sold many, simply because I have too many and I don’t go out much anymore. I also have sold more than 40 pairs of high heel shoes because I no longer wear them. I kept 2 for special occasions. I think people care too much of what other people think. I say enjoy your journey & have fun. If people judge you, so what? Let them.

[@ameliarosescloset]

I am very much enjoying my journey and having fun, thank you!

[@BarbC1]

I agree! I'm surprised that so many people feel personally attacked by someone else's change of philosophy. You do you (as long as you agree with me)

[@nmernst]

I've watched Anna and Eileen. I would point out that neither say they no longer shop, but in their own way have decided to really think about what they buy to hopefully avoid mistakes and clutter. I can also see Anna mentioning the toxic culture she herself has witnessed though perhaps we haven't. It can come across as a lecture but in many cases I don't think it is meant that way. As for me. No, not stopping but definitely being cautious.

[@ameliarosescloset]

People will stop for all sorts of reasons, i just still really love and enjoy them

[@Jp22524]

I am elderly, and since I’ve watched your channel and other bag channels it has caused me to have an awakening for the love of luxury handbags. In the last year and a half, I’ve purchased about 40 bags. It really isn’t fun to wear your new bag where I often go, to the doctor’s office. Now I think it is enough for me to buy, maybe one, once a year, but I will still enjoy seeing these bags on your channel and other luxury channels. Love love your channel ❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much, and rock that bag at the drs!

[@sja1014]

I do think there are some channels that have had this “awakening” because they have seen a decline in views as the average consumer stopped being able to afford any or as much luxury and didn’t need the bag reviews or wanted to avoid temptation. As other commenters noted it is easy to pivot when you have multiple Hermes dream bags and a robust collection in your closet. At that point they figure why keep buying when my collection feels complete but they still want to be relevant in the community. If you are financially sound then indulging in what makes you happy whether it be high end handbags, sporting events, travel, collectibles - whatever is your “thing” - is absolutely a reasonable expectation.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you x

[@starshine88s]

if you were a man and collected rolexes or cars no one would bat an eye, you go do you and enjoy what you love!

[@ameliarosescloset]

So true

[@lucym9237]

I LOVE this analysis. I agree with you completely! I am the same exact way.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Yay, thank you!

[@rosemarycardenas2756]

Thank you Amelia for your insight! I love shopping I love buying my luxury items I don’t do anything for myself but sometimes enjoy buying something when I can.

[@ameliarosescloset]

And enjoy it when you do!

[@seagreen2034]

I just said these same words to a guy I’m dating - “I am not a minimalist and I am never going to be one!”😂

[@ameliarosescloset]

High five, fist pump and love to that!!

[@suereynolds2980]

Wonderful words as always Amelia! Don’t ever stop talking about your bags. We love our bags and that is why we are here with you.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you!

[@bitsnbags]

This resonated with me Amelia. I struggle with an inner conflict about my luxury likes and the draw to buy these things. But essentially it doesn't make me a bad person. Why transfer from one area to be replaced by another? I can't lie that sometimes I struggle with having so many luxury pieces, but I think it's normal to fluctuate 😊

[@ameliarosescloset]

You turned your whole life around, you deserve every piece you have x

[@katiaguerra4703]

Hi Amelia. I will comment here because sometimes feels good to share an opinion . Is hilarious how somebody that have no part on making the money that you make, can have an strong position on how you should spend it.We humans are really funny. And that reminds me of something i read that life goes between pain and boredom( I think Schopenhauer). If i remember correctly is the pendulum theory, we circle around the center from one side to the other. And i certainly agree with that. We just dont do it at the same time or some people like me seems to be stuck in one side lol( this enthusiasm for bags never die!). In any case, and again is just my opinion, we need something to escape daily life that might not be functional or appealing to others. What can we do? It is what it is. To give you an example, the colors of bags you buy will never be a choice for me, I prefer neutrals and I can not deal with colors. Why? I have no idea. Maybe past experiences, my astrological sign…. I dont know. I have tried to like bags in vibrant colors and I end up selling them or giving them away. But your enthusiasm for bags and the way you present your info, makes me want to use my time to come and watch your videos. Is like hanging out with a friend that share the same passion. And again, my personal opinion, but i think thats the value of what you do, you make people like me have a little time of enjoyment and happiness. We all gonna die one day and I am sure at that moment we will not regret things we did that made us feel genuinely happy. Some of my friends in real life spend their money eating out or drinking or traveling. That works for them, and I have tried to do it because we are all humans and sometimes we see others doing things and you try them. Thats how you discern what makes you happy or not, especially if you live with awareness, which I dont know if everybody lives like that?But after many trials I always come back to the same point. I dont particularly enjoy the discomfort of traveling and dont enjoy drinking and the bottom line is that i enjoy material things that i touch, look at, wear, smell and many more verbs that i can use. My point is that you do you and we wont appeal to everybody at the same time. And if somebody has an opinion, well is just an opinion….. especially in cases that opinions wont make a difference between life and death and you know really deep consequences.A Dr’scriteria on a treatment might change an outcome that can impact quality of life… I am just talking about light topics like bags or what to do with your free time and things like that. Sorry for the long comment, I am particularly chatty today. In any case, your content makes me happy girl, especially those days that life is very hard and a video from your channel pops up in my feed. Thank you:)

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much, i'm so glad my videos can give you a little lift in a day x

[@roseyscott3811]

I adore your chanel and your take on this subject! 😊

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much! X

[@pasitheathanatosasmr488]

LOVE this video!!!! I am a maxi-m i n i m a l i s t :) I do what I want and I don't overthink it. I settle in what amount of items/spending works for me.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Oh i love this!

[@LA-yi1om]

Thank you for this interesting video. I am glad you are not having an awakening 😂 I love to watch luxury youtubers so I hope they don’t all quit luxury. Personally, I am slowing down my own consumption and have been downsizing my collection simply because it had gotten a bit out of control and I needed to pull back a bit so that I don’t have bags sitting on my shelves being un-used. But I still love bags and I will keep buying them ❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

I've downsized a bit too and i am happy with where my bags are at right now

[@Breonaleonard]

Liking off the title alone 😍 I really think people are being followers when it comes to luxury being “out”. I could never! Some of use are just really about this life

[@ameliarosescloset]

Exactly!!

[@Jessiestyle]

thanks for the video!!! and the shoutout!!☺

[@ameliarosescloset]

Of course!!

[@jenniferkennedy9503]

A big yes to this!! ❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

Lol thank you!!

[@JasonLuxLover]

7:38 that part 💯💯💯

[@ameliarosescloset]

😘😘😘

[@jessicasmith2837]

I love this video so much. ❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you!

[@MaxItUpwithMarta]

I totally agree with you. You explained the joy of your shopping venture so well.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much!

[@barbette1564]

I agree with you! I am privileged and grateful to have a full and happy life, even with those human struggles we all have. I plan to continue spending as I have in past within my comfort zone. 0 debt, home paid, I have a 30 year old couch and buy much of my clothing second hand. But I also love my handbags and luxury items I choose to buy. While I'm sure different people have different reasons, at this point I think some influencers are being influenced themselves to stop their lux habits. And perhaps that is a good thing for them in the long run, if the desire has gone they should not continue.

[@ameliarosescloset]

We're on the same page

[@NathanWilder-wp8iq]

Like you I buy what I love and having empty shelf’s with no beauty’s feels like a very empty fun less life! Not for me keep doing what you love! I love your style and passion. 💕💕

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you!

[@Dr_Dee_Sankofa]

🎉 thank you so much for this video!!! Me too.

[@ameliarosescloset]

You are so welcome!

[@VickiMackLataillade]

I’m with you!

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you!

[@snow77707]

Agree!!!❤❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

😘😘😘

[@JasonLuxLover]

Long live my handbag and luxury addiction ❤❤❤❤❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

Lol love this!

[@kayleigh3310]

I love how you summed it up. I think these people got in over their heads. Unboxing became a must to get the clicks and views and subs. Some may have been spending life insurance money from loved ones passing away during the pandemic. Now the need to sell because of the debt . That seems to be the trend that I see. Then I see the same people buying a new bag. Then others make the excuses that they don't like the new collections They should just say that it's the end of the journey of handbags and say goodbye 😅

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you, yes it will change for all types of reasons, i agree

[@LX12399]

Love this! I’m at the stage where I’m not justifying any new purchases to myself due to how expensive they have become but…. That doesn’t mean that if my circumstances change and I can justify I won’t because I definitely will! I love handbags and they bring me joy too soooo happiness is priceless (when I can justify it) 🥳🤣🙏🏼

[@ameliarosescloset]

The prices have helped a lot of us slow down!

[@bundleoflisa]

It’s all good, I enjoy admiring your lovely bags with you 😁 there are plenty of things in the world to enjoy. I personally have a separate account specifically for handbags to bring all that content to me when I want to. And a separate account for each other interest because the algorithm brings those things to us when we want to see it. That’s how I manage my content consumption and research on all the hobbies I enjoy. Everyone is multi-faceted, so I don’t understand how folks can be so judgmental on someone’s single bit of space/outlet when we’re all just trying to enjoy the time we have on earth the best we can!

[@ameliarosescloset]

So true, everyone has many interests and luxury can be just one of them

[@gpaton9643]

Thank you! Yes, please don’t give them up. It seems to be the new trend along with all this quiet luxury trend. I love bags and love wearing them. It’s a daily thrill to pick a bag and carry it.

[@ameliarosescloset]

I'm def not giving them up!

[@hollyzersen686]

Amelia, Absolutely agree with you 1000%!!!! Please keep doing "YOU", you are amazing!!!!!

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much!

[@JasonLuxLover]

I agree with you I don’t have anything to wake up from! I love fashion I’ve been studying fashion since I was a teenager. I’m in my 40s now and way that I show my appreciation for the brand is by buying accessories because a lot of times I can’t wear what comes down the runway so glad a lot of these girls are quitting. They weren’t meant for this anyway.😂😂😂

[@ameliarosescloset]

I think being in my 40’s brought a lot of clarity!

[@harboraz]

Amen ❣️ i still love it too 👛👗🥿, whether luxury items or not! I'm awake to enjoying my life, doing good work and being a good friend & family member ❤💖 I enjoy your videos, TY 😊

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much!

[@olofedda88]

I still love luxury but I do not love the prices, I like to get quality and something of value for my money, because I’m not stupid, I’m not just a wallet for luxury houses to open and go to town on. Therefore I have taken a break from buying unless I see a good deal ☺️

[@ameliarosescloset]

The prices have gone crazy

[@lilymorejon647]

I have felt that way from those videos. Finally you're talking about it. Years I go, I still collected bags, I had at least 20 bags. But they were all coach, and guess, michael kors, and that sort of brand. But honestly, when I saw that investing in these luxury bags, I could get some money back, if not all of it back, or maybe more, then I saw the other ones as more of a waste of money investment wise. I can't see any of my MK bags because they don't sell for more than $50 resale. And they are bags I bought for $200-$400. I did 't think of resale value. I still wear my MK, but I've ended up having 150 bags, mixed of luxury and contemporary. I do wear them by the way. But I do feel bad that I have 150 bags when I watch those types of videos of minimalism. But when those videos are not playing, I feel great looking at my collection 😂. I won't sell my brand new looking MK bags for pennies, I won't do it. I just won't. So I don't mind using them and having them forever. And passing them on to my daughter. Loved this video.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much!

[@ladysusanjane2682]

It’s a trending topic and is getting very dry. Every person and their dog is talking about it now. I’m really looking forward to a new topic😊 Keep smiling and showing me your lovely bags❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

I will keep showing you my bags!

[@constantiaconstantinidou9843]

Loving the title 😂😂😂

[@ameliarosescloset]

Lol thank you!

[@AliciaLarriera]

What I found interesting (ironic) about the Anna Bey “awakening” video was a) she sells her own line of linen shirts at $500 a pop which would be a luxury for 95 per cent of the planet b) that she decluttered her wardrobe and put it all up for sale rather than donate it, therefore continuing to participate in the buying/wanting of luxury by others she is decrying c) she earns an income from teaching others how she “manifested” her extraordinarily privileged, rich, travelled, multi home life and wealthy husband in just four weeks (allegedly).

[@ameliarosescloset]

I like this comment!

[@lifeisbeautiful7421]

Some people merely buy to show off and specially if they are influencers, its like a marathon for them. They are buying for the wrong reasons. I buy handbag because it makes me happy and a reward for myself.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Same and i love them!

[@VaneGonzalezandGG]

👏👏👏💯💯💯 no waking up here!

[@ameliarosescloset]

Same!!

[@themargaretshelton]

I enjoyed this video very much. I like to follow creators who treat luxury as a pretty bit of fancy fun and only buy what they can afford. You're an excellent financial role model--even for someone older and much less together than you, ie me.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much!

[@rachelwong8705]

Totally agree, 💯 agree. These bags just make us happy...not to fluant to others. Frankly, a lot of my bags just stay in my walking wardrobe for my own viewing and doting. ❤ My business can be quite stressful and boring...is not fun at all...is information technology....😂😅So is very therapeutic when you have a passion for something like for me is bags... and it makes me happy. Is fun! I don't think is toxic at all...I have a couple friends who loves to buy vintage cars....and it makes them happy and it actually bond them together, something common that they shared...like my husband passion is in properties and he buy them....and my friend interested in golf sets and it gives her an outlet to distress....which everyone needs that...there is nothing wrong to pursue things that makes you happy...that motivates and keeps you forward before you reach the oasis. Perfectly all right. ❤ 🎉😊Respect and stop judging!!!

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you!

[@sacsamainjadore]

Very well said!💕

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you!

[@blktauna]

I agree with you wholeheartedly.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you!

[@AnUrbanGypsy]

You’ll notice that people will pivot when their channel is their income. Have to affiliate link the things that will now appeal to a broader audience in order to make money.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Ah very true

[@Maremare680]

16:17 yes, I think that creator you mentioned on 13:58 is a case of using luxury as a medium to get into the upper class, but it didn’t work, so now she has switched back to what she truly is. I see her as a master seller.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Ohh interesting

[@Chunkyshoesuk]

You do you. Its no ones business how you spend your money & what you like. I love handbags too. Been a handbag lover for many years. Not sure if I’ll ever grow out of it. I do however go in & out of thinking if I have an addiction or if its just what I like and what Im interested in. I defo get the itch if I go a while without a new one. I enjoy the hunt too. A lot of my bags are completely useless and never leave the house. I just love them.

[@ameliarosescloset]

I've been up and down on this very same thought process

[@bevlongbotham5309]

I buy because I like them and don't actually care what people think or say. Keep going

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you!

[@mariannalee3207]

I think the distinction lies within the person themself. If they are only buying things for external validation and not buying them to satisfy their own needs/wants they will never be content. It’s not actually a question of following trends. It’s about going deeper into who the person is and understanding the motivations of what they do. These people (the ones who have awoken - and not to their true self) will never be happy whether they have everything or nothing. They may get something out of it in the moment (attention, praise, maybe a real awakening) but it’s about looking at the motivation around what they do. If their motivation and intention is genuine and pure then they won’t care what others think and won’t feel the need to share but the sharing of the enlightenment and pedestal placing of themselves is an outward display of their insecurities. Next.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Great comment

[@Debbiesdilemmas]

I haven’t watched all of these KZbinrs but if they’re making it seem like they’re superior, then I have a problem with that.😖 Are they doing this as it’s now trendy to not want luxury? I don’t know. My collection is very small compared to most so NO I won’t be giving it up. I do understand people like Eileen who realized she was putting too much importance and valuing her luxury too much. She still has a nice collection but now just a more curated one. Everyone is different and I don’t judge either way. I think as long as your bills are paid and you’re not going bankrupt then all is good.🥰

[@ameliarosescloset]

Same, no judgement

[@MrsVanB]

Eileen has a nice curated collection indeed. 😊 She is such a kind person.🤗

[@Jessiestyle]

😂 you are way too hilarious! I feel the same.. I'm happy to stay in my luxury coma..not ready to wake up yet xx

[@ameliarosescloset]

Lol thank you!

[@buntyjoy1800]

Indeed, but things people enjoy change and move on. You never know one day you will have a fishing channel.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Or knitting!! Or i collect snow globes, I could show you all those! People do indeed change, like i said, i thought i'd collect trolls forever!

[@jennybrown9375]

It’s all relative. If you can afford it there’s no problem. My husband would kill me if he knew how much I spent on bags. I’m slowing down because I only need a few bags and many end up collecting dust. I’m also trying to save for another property and a few grand here or there on bags adds up and hinders that process. Love your collection !

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much, I've naturally slowed down as i'm really happy with the bags i have at the moment

[@kristinR413]

First why are haters watching? I collect Jimmy Buffett items, match box and cars and Jaws items.. displaying on few items at a time . And depending on time of year. And yes I have a hand bag collection too. And will add. My husband collection is fishing pole and lures. We have full time jobs and each a small business. So we work hard for our collection and toys... Aka jet skis and boats.

[@ameliarosescloset]

My son is desperate for a jet ski but it rains all the time!

[@littlenomadgirl]

I think most everyone spends money on items they don't need. It's a matter of what brings you joy. Handbags & accessories have always brought me joy! 💛 whether it's clothes, shoes, cars, a huge house, home decor, jewelry, tattoos, gardening, alcohol, WINE lord people spend $$$ on wine 😂, drugs 😬, horses, gambling, online entertainment, prostitutes?!, tech... (kids?! 😂) most people have a "vice" (hobby?! 😅) and arguably some are healthier than others. I think it's so nice when people focus on themselves and doing what's best for themselves instead of comparing and contrasting. As for influencers changing their threads, I concur with your point that they're jumping on what's trendy at the moment. But as you also noted, this might be their entire income stream. It's a little sad when you think about the fact they can't be truly themselves. But that's the bed they made so now they're lying in it 🤭 ...silly little girls 😂🫶🏼

[@ameliarosescloset]

I'm very glad for me personally i spend more on bags than wine, that would be one wine headache! 🤣

[@jenm9186]

A very thought provoking video! If these KZbinrs are distancing themselves From luxury and saying it’s toxic then I probably do think they are looking to get more views and follow trends. Perhaps some of their previous luxury love was also not as genuine as it could have been and also was to follow trends and get views. I’m really interested in handbags, i love learning about handbags, i love seeing other people’s collections, it just brings me joy. I don’t have to own most of the bags I’m watching, it’s just a genuine interest of mine that I’ve had since I can remember. I also have been ‘inspired’ to buy bags I’ve seen online, I do watch to get ideas on what would work well for me. I think it’s part of the research process when you’re buying something expensive.

[@ameliarosescloset]

I think youtube is a great research for bags

[@pinkybird808]

You know yourself, nothing to awaken from and I admire that. Some others though who are changing their tune (Anna Bey), I find it hard to believe it’s due to an awakening. I still think it’s because her other affluence business doesn’t fly in today’s economy. The trend has changed so she and others are rebranding and coming across so inauthentic.

[@ameliarosescloset]

I see that, i don't think you will be the only one who thinks that

[@mindydowney]

I truly believe if something makes you happy, it doesn’t take away from your family, do it!

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you!

[@JasonLuxLover]

I’m glad we’re weeding out some of these people in the community. That’s the reason I stopped watching videos because of all the fake people making them not only is it toxic and all that but half of them are showing fake items and claiming the real just to try to keep up with the Joneses it’s ridiculous.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Authenticity goes a long way

[@janmauro282]

Hi Amelia!! There is nothing wrong with enjoying and loving what you do. I believe that we can do what we like with our choices that we make in our lives. I have loved bags since I was very young. My Grandma was my "influencer". I can't remember a time when we didn't "play" with all her beautiful bags! I so enjoy watching your channel, and wish I could "play" bag time there too!💕☺️🇨🇦

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much!

[@stephrayray]

I have been carrying a handbag since I was 2 years old, and I am not stopping now. The handbag just changed in value lol I truly do view my collection as art and it gives me a huge serotonin boost to enjoy the fruits of my labor. I find it weird that people feel the need to comment on how one spends their money. Thank you for this video. I'm so glad I found my people ❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much and i hear ya!

[@Brontephile]

Very true Amelia, you don’t rely on KZbin for your wages. Some of these others do. If you like it and can afford it buy it. Love your channel ❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you!

[@lv_lover3393]

I’m soooo glad your not having an awakening 😅

[@ameliarosescloset]

Nope, not me!

[@JasonLuxLover]

Is that a new nano Alma on your shelf or Alma bb? Looks orange? If you have a review on this, I need to watch it. I’ve been thinking about getting one. I have the BB size 2 of them.

[@ameliarosescloset]

It is the new nano! I will do a review!

[@lalaland8185]

I fully agree with both sides of the debate. I also feel a very stressfull and high performing job encourages higher spending, You have such little time to spend and shopping is an easy dopamine boost. Also justified by the amount of time you spend working. This is how it works out for me, but that's OK.

[@ameliarosescloset]

I do this too

[@brigittebazel2754]

Thank you for helping me not feel crappy about loving my luxury bags and looking at them for fun. I am not waking up either. I think as long as it doesn’t eat into family finances it’s fine.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Do not feel crappy for loving these pretties!

[@srey_p]

Like you said about falling out of love with things and hobbies I think that’s probably what it is. I don’t think people should feel more superior than anyone else because they no longer like or want to spend money on something they used to enjoy. I used to love makeup videos and tutorials. I don’t watch or like them anymore because I realize I don’t even like wearing makeup like that 😂 we all go through seasons in our life and that’s ok. We live and we learn so excellent topic and talking points 😊

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you x

[@lolipena8051]

everyone goes through their own journey. i was into lux when in high school, I went through an awaking of what needed to be prioritized and didn't buy any luxury. then 2013 came around and I stepped into LV for the 1st time. bought my husband his wallet. told myself how dumb it was to spend so much on canvas lol. didn't buy anything after that because of priorities. then another awakening 2019 I realized no point in saving it all if I could be gone one day. i think these people are at the point they are reprioritizing. we all go through it. i am thankful that from 2019-2023 I could go all out. however I'm now at another awakening because my funds cant stretch like that. but I'm not going to be here bashing or making others feel bad. i hope once I get a new job I can come back to buying, but at this point I need to be realistic and that's what they are at as well.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Good luck with the job search my friend x

[@Dinaloveskuxury]

Thank you for another great video Amelia. I apologize in advance, this comment might be a little long. I believe everyone spends their money on the things that bring them joy and nobody has the right to judge anyone. Some people spend thousands of dollars monthly on expensive restaurants, some people spend tens of thousands of dollars traveling and some people spend thousands of dollars on luxury handbags, shoes, clothing. I personally would rather spend thousands of dollars on a handbag that I will get to enjoy for years than going to expensive restaurants that I enjoy for hours but I don’t have the right to tell anyone how to spend their money. It’s also possible that some of these luxury KZbinrs that have recently decided that luxury is a waste of money never had the financial means to sustain a luxury lifestyle, perhaps they thought they would become a successful influencer with millions of followers and reality set in and they were forced to change the direction of their KZbin channel for financial reasons. Those are just some thoughts. Please continue being you, I love watching your videos and I love your edgy style❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you, and don'y apologise for taking the time to leave a comment!

[@jmoff54]

Mike drop!! Well said Amelia! I do think that some of the KZbinrs who are moving away from luxury and becoming a little judgemental to people left in that space are doing it to follow what is popular. It’s like the whole quiet luxury thing that was going on and drove me nuts. Each to their own and I absolutely love watching your channel and others like it. I have a very small collection of my own And I have eventually managed to get the pieces that I really wanted and now I live through you and others like you when you continue to grow your collection etc. And I also learn a lot from you. I never bought a bag without going on KZbin and watching Reviews and opinion pieces etc. Happy to hear that you’re not leaving the luxury space!

[@ameliarosescloset]

I'm definitely staying, thank you!

[@jmoff54]

@@ameliarosescloset good!!!

[@dimdull]

Me love bags, and will continue to watch YT about bags.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Yay!

[@wendypoo9914]

I agree with EVERYTHING that you are saying. I stopped buying luxury for years and then picked it back up and have stopped again because I don’t do the things I used to. I don’t go the places I used…so I’m just buying them to go to work. My math has been off for a while 😂 but I’m back on it. I live through you❤

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much!

[@melikeetoo]

I find it interesting that people who have cooking channels, organizing channels, travel and almost every other category of KZbin channels don’t have these kinds of awakenings. It’s always luxury channels 😅

[@ameliarosescloset]

Very good point!

[@stylish4ever87]

I loved this! Whoever said shiny pretty things don’t make them happy is lying 😂 It’s not happiness but it does make you feel happy I can tell by the faces you look way much happier!

[@ameliarosescloset]

Oh i love them!

[@jo_overjoyeod]

i’m never leaving the bag loving community. it has been the core of my adult life. nothing is going to get in the way of my steadfast love for bags, let alone self righteous opinions by other people 😂 seriously, no bandwidth to care. it’s true love here okay, true love! 😘

[@ameliarosescloset]

Stay with us!

[@saragibbons]

The change is to get more views. More people aren’t buying and watching luxury content so they found if they say they are walking away and it’s toxic, their viewership goes up.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Interesting...

[@redyredred6487]

Thank you, Amelia! I admit that, while I respect that some KZbinrs are moving away from doing luxury videos, I don't watch the "awakening" videos anymore because I find them annoying. As a person who loves her bags and shoes, I feel very talked down to in those videos. There's definitely a "I'm better than you because I no longer waste my money on these things" type vibe to them. Just rubs me the wrong way. Being on KZbin, I'm sure it makes sense for them to explain either leaving KZbin or changing direction of their channel, and that's fine. I just don't need to watch those videos anymore, so I don't. My primary viewing out here is luxury bag videos, so I move on from KZbinrs who shift gears.

[@ameliarosescloset]

I can see how you feel talked down too, i can as well

[@toristrickland1725]

First. I could listen to you speak all day. 🥰 Second, I find these ideas of “awakening and revelation” performative. I have loved handbags since I was a little girl, color, texture and structure..love it all. This? It’s another trend. And a bad one. If you don’t want to, don’t. We don’t require the judgement or dissertation on how you’ve “outgrown” handbags.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Thank you so much and love this comment!

[@marinabrennan7750]

I work in a luxury real estate space. Some people collect houses. They have residences all over the world and travel between them. Others collect yachts. I don’t see many KZbin channels with people confessing their love for multimillion dollar mansions, but these people are out there. It’s not somehow portrayed as an idle pursuit, unlike handbags.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Handbags gets a lot of criticism

[@marinabrennan7750]

@@ameliarosescloset I think this is because handbags are commonly associated with females. This gender component makes this hobby somehow less than. Yachts, cars, real estate are symbols of power and wealth commonly assigned to males, and are often celebrated as markers of success. I see this as double standard really.

[@tolikfox007]

I have managed to downsize from 25 to 15. If I can get more money for my bags and selling was more pleasant, I would downsize to 15. I mostly only carry 1 or 2 on daily basis. 5 of them arent even in my house I am afraid of break ins lol. I wont be buying more anytime soon!

[@ameliarosescloset]

I haven't bought any in 5 months, because i've been loving using what i have

[@sanciawest5428]

I think your point about your handbags not representing what you spend all your money on is an important one. When some of my acquaintances learn about my handbag collection they make comments about this being what I “waste” ALL my money on. There’s an assumption that I must be doing this out of an obsession and using every cent on it. They don’t acknowledge the school fees I pay, the holidays I save for, the special experiences I organise for my loved ones for birthdays etc, or the endless health related bills that are paid. It gets somewhat annoying to be considered frivolous with my money when I’m actually not.

[@ameliarosescloset]

Oh i hear this!