American Black Queens Leave Nigerian Men TF Alone

[@africanpodcast]

Why do African American content creators h*te Nigerian men? Drop your take in the comment.

[@JtheGlorifiedOne]

Brother, keep speaking the truth. You are 💯% correct! A women with such bad attitude will not last a moment with a Nigerian man or any other "decent" African man. I bet you, even her own Black American men don't want nothing to do with her. Her bitterness is coming from rejection! Nigerian men don't want her type, hence the hatred! Or, Maybe someone is feeding her with wrong information against Nigeria/men. She's not an intelligent woman for sure. Shame on her!

[@deyojames1728]

Because they cheat and could be very deceptive

[@skyking3210]

Why care? Some of them don't even like one another, they refer to themselves as a traumatised or traumatic people, so what on what one woman says It's a shame that their group is disappearing while a Nigerian is born every 4 seconds, soon we will be 1 in every 4 black person If Nigerians and AA cannot get along it won't matter now, either you all bridge the gap over there or go your separate ways

[@feargod6842]

​@@deyojames1728And other men don't cheat? Why are many of them incarcerated. Is it not their women that call police on them when they cheat?

[@feargod6842]

​@@skyking3210And African Americans love each other so much, right? Yet they keep shooting each other. Do you hear that Nigerians shoot each other?

[@toplyf.]

50/50 is insane to a Nigerian man and we do not negotiate respect.

[@shayemoore]

Lies

[@okwunnandudi7085]

​@@shayemoore it's true. Nigerian men don't like 50/50. Respect is also very important to us.

[@shayemoore]

@@okwunnandudi7085 It's not true. Nigerian men are cheap, and respect is not important. I cursed out a Nigerian man for raising his voice at me. He still wants to be with me, but I am not interested in him.

[@rachael862]

@toplyf. I agree. Although I'm educated, I believe in gender roles. I'm black latina one thing don't like I feel neigrais. Group all black people as the same .were the same in one way, but our culture are different . I'm not a baby mama all the women in my family have kids are married . Not all American women go on apps. Have one night stands tired of explaining this I would rather not date them anymore. Love music and food, but it's draining. I feel we're seen as a meal ticket greencard or to help them save $so they can send to africa. I don't know when I was younger in college. I rejected alot relationship I was racist. Maybe w those men it would have been more successful since they were younger

[@Blkh-e2s]

@@toplyf. And obviously don’t have any respect for yourselves or your “Great” country!!!! Why else would you have to run to other countries for a better life and education???? And please spare me the nonsense about how everything is the government’s fault for your nation’s problems and abject poverty!!!!

[@dolphina-pearl]

You made a perfect example of how to enforce your status without tearing the other down. Much respect to you!

[@africanpodcast]

Thank you very much. I appreciate your honesty 🙏🙏🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️

[@monicalawal5236]

My husband is Nigerian and I let him control things and I’m good with it. He pays the bills and take care of everything

[@ajiiola2074]

Well said brother haven't said that any lady who hate Nigerian men because of his mother or because he is taking care of his mother have forgotten that one day she will also become a mother.

[@WholeHeartily]

1. Loves Family (mom) 2. Hard Work 3. Independent (not clingy) 4. Housing Stable 5. Husband Material 6. Love Beautiful Women (cheaters) 7. Will Never Leave Wife/Children (even when cheating) Personally, as an American I thought the video was very interesting and exciting until the end 😂 I will take the advice to leave Nigerian men alone.

[@slady210]

😅😅

[@africanpodcast]

Hahahaha😂😂😂😂 you are funny sis

[@jewelofnashville1726]

Thank you very much. If your men were doing good, you won't be here looking for Nigerians. Or better worded, if yall black women didn't attach yourselves to govt to destroy your families, you won't be on social media.

[@shanicegreen5438]

you will still meet your breakfast! because of your desire and the type of man you are seeking, other women want him too! so he would cheat it is your job to make him rank you number 1 and will always be with you.

[@connieadams5962]

I love a man that loves his mom, and family ❤

[@AfamAbugu]

Me also

[@hildadavids217]

Cheating is unacceptable, that is something I will never tolerate. My father never cheated on my mum. Cheating is the end of the marriage, I can rather remain alone.

[@ronaldmponda621]

"This African dude will cheat on me"😂 .......you had ne rolling on the floor

[@janicetribueburnette5893]

I am, African American women who totally agree with all the important characteristics you described in your discussion. I am one of the fortunate African American woman who had both parents in the household. I respected my Dad a great deal; he had the qualities to love, support, and provided the security for his family. Unfortunately, a number of black women haven't experienced this type of childhood. Please don't apologize when you haven't stated anything wrong. Thank you for the discussion this morning!

[@sheltonmackey6449]

You may not have both parents in household. Stats show BAM are in their childrens lives more than any other single father group. They just do not marry.

[@eastafrika728]

Nigerian men are everywhere going after all women

[@rachael862]

Yes, leave them alone. I dated them 3 times, I'm Latina, I'm done . Scam artists are always looking for come up, greencard or.something .I'm done

[@OIF888]

Husband material…. That will cheat on you repeatedly??? 🤔 Children outside the marriage, STDs, drama …. I will leave these “good nigerian men” alone!! Thanks for the advice bro

[@raheemahmuhammad5910]

You made a great Point all the points that you made in this video was absolutely great I definitely agree with you 100% I am an American woman married to a Nigerian man and I feel the points you may were right I have no problem in our relationship and I don't think that one man for one culture is better than the other man

[@africanpodcast]

I appreciate that

[@ernesti8414]

Nigerian men are generally very caring, providers and protectors of their families. Of course there are the bad ones too, but those bad ones are the ones that have been influenced by the western culture either via social media or by living in the western world. Nigerian parents, and in general African parents raise their kids to be good. However, you can take a horse to the river but you can't force it to drink from the river. Everyone has the right to choose how they want to live their lives.

[@slady210]

I dont know about that. You started off saying you don't hate African American women, and as one, I appreciate that. But contrary to what you're saying, there are Nigerian content creators that SLAME African American women CONSTANTLY. For the past year or so, I started watching Nigerian movies and becoming fond of them and the culture. So I was devastated, hurt, saddened, and furious when I ran across a Nigerian content creator who was slamming African American women to the point that I thought he should really change the title of his show to African American Bashing. On one particular segment, he was telling Nigerian men, and all men, that African American women are at the bottom and not really an option. He then told them which women they should pursue based on a ranking system. The African American woman wasn't even on the list. Not all the advice he shared with his audience was wrong but when a couple of African American women commented respectfully, nothing negative, he spoke to them as if they were trash off the street!!! He called them stupid, insinuated they weren't educated and didn't know anything, specifically their history here in America. He was TERRIBLE and INFURIATING!! And as I said, I was hurt and not because I care to have a Nigerian man because I'm married and have been for the past 21 years, but because as I mentioned, I've grown fond of Nigerians and even started looking into learning pijin and igbo. So I understand you being upset because I was PISSED for weeks!!! Also alarming were the hundreds of comments backing him up, slamming us. So maybe you're not one of those who feel that way about us, but you are definitely a minority from what I see. I think both cultures need to learn tolerance and stop speaking down on each other. Just my 2 cents.

[@vincentfadoju8531]

I’m really sorry about your experience. As a Nigerian myself, I’d say we’re one of the most accommodating people in the world and you shouldn’t let information from one person skew your opinion on Nigerian people. With Nigerians, there’s always a situation where one in ten people has a certain controversial opinion about other countries and their people but we aren’t all like that. However, I’d say it’s okay to be a lil concerned because it’s easier to push a negative narrative when people want to believe the worst possible outcome. I will not try to defend Nigerian content creators but they do not speak for all of us. Trust me. I apologize again for your experience

[@africanpodcast]

Thank you for the comment fine sister. I apologize if I came across as being hash to my black American sisters. Just trying to make it clear that we have beautiful black American queens who married Nigerians for ten years plus amd are enjoying their marriages. Nigerian men are not perfect just like other races. But some content creators has appointed themselves gatekeepers and warriors who intentions is to bash Nigerian men. Again, thank you for the constructive criticism… God bless you 🙏

[@JtheGlorifiedOne]

My dear, I do apologize for your hurt in regards to the content creator you mentioned in your comment. I also apologize on behalf of Nigerians. Maybe there was a story behind the man's behaviour and he took it out the wrong way. Something must have triggered him but nevertheless, that was no excuse for him to qualify every Black American women in a negative light. It is unfortunate how we Black people tend to be the only race that is constantly hating & dragging each other down. This is really sad indeed! Once again, I am truly sorry from the bottom of my heart! Please, don't let one bad egg spoil the rest of the eggs. Thank you.🙏🏽

[@africanpodcast]

Thank you very much @@vincentfadoju8531

[@skyking3210]

Stay off the Internet Sis, there are a lot of AA channels bashing Africans in general while they try to push a Indian/Native narrative, a game is being played but what we must not do is attribute that to all of you. The is Internet folks just trying to create a divide and profit amongst all black folks Africans do this with other Africans also. Big up to you for looking into Nigerian culture, 63% average genetics of an AA is Yoruba genetics. Let me tell you something about AA women, when you go back far enough you were amongst the most if not the most beautiful women when you were wearing those Afros, when you go back and see the pictures in natural form and physical shape and size. Feminism has really done a number on Black women and it really needs to be addressed. At the time Kevin Samuels said it that the AA community has a fertility rate of 1.8 which means you aren't reproducing yourselves (2.1/2.1 needed to break even). Further pressure has been applied to that by the Pass Bro movements. I wish AA women the best and hope they get back what they have lost over the decades and retain their true form and spirit.

[@Frugal637]

I think you are speaking of Paris. Paris is married to a African man. I’m not sure but there were other African women calling in her show pointing out flaws of dating Nigerians. Paris was also pointing out their flaws not saying not to date them. Paris also acknowledges the flaws that black American men have too but nobody seems to have a problem with that.

[@eddya1043]

I suspect that the KZbinr who was bashing African men broke up with the Nigerian man she was with because I remember that she had a Nigerian boyfriend.

[@Ciby-c9c]

😂😂😂😂

[@rachael862]

1 muslim nigerian was honest told me he's married his wife, not in us. He lived w girlfriend he treats like queen. I'm catholic he's Muslim. rel lasted 1yr5 months, but since I want to be married, I moved on. Were still friends

[@rachael862]

Well my ex nigerian asked me to pay dinner one time.i didn't mind because he seemed to have some money issues. We dated 7 months, and then when things became challenging, non-committal, or I would ask for give and take, he would ghost me 5 weeks' date , and he's 50. Now he's dating someone doing witcraft to his food clothes.

[@africanpodcast]

Lord … can’t believe it

[@fayokesofola1620]

Am sure Moms out there will be praying for you brother to hear you taking about taking care of them, so proud of you guys ❤

[@prettyhazeleyes8210]

I HAVE MUCH RESPECT FOR YOU BROTHER, KEEP UP THE EXCELLENT WORK.

[@_desurae]

My son’s dad is also is African and from Sierra Leone. When I first met him we dated and at first he did everything I liked. I got pregnant and had a child out of wedlock. Literally I made a bad decision and moved in with him and his grandmother in a low income home. I worked majority of my pregnancy and he wasn’t paying his portion of rent at his own grandmothers house. He only paid for my maternity bills. After I gave birth he failed to tell me that his mother was moving into our space in his grandmothers home. We got kicked out while he was unemployed and we were almost left homeless. Now he’s gotten another women pregnant that has two other kids. And he doesn’t give child support 🙂

[@mrzagamaje9434]

What’s your point?

[@_desurae]

@@mrzagamaje9434 that I feel some African men move to America and do what they know they couldn’t get away with in Africa. African men are held to higher standards in Africa. Am I saying all African men are like this? No, but majority. And then they don’t even see black American women as a women to take seriously.

[@mrzagamaje9434]

@@_desurae Black American women are the least desirable group of women in the world, I’m not trying to be disrespectful. Black American women disrespect their men like no other. I’ve never seen anyone from another country coming to America to look for a wife except in the movie ‘coming to America’ but I see American males going to other countries to find wives. You are writing this story because you ended up with the wrong one, that is if your story is even true. Most women will sabotage their relationship and cry foul later. Quick question, were you a virgin when he met you? If not, what was your body count at the time? Most of you American women really don’t have much to offer a man, and most of you have out this world entitlement and you over value yourself. If that man didn’t treat you right, it is simply because you didn’t deserve it. Don’t expect an African man to treat you like a queen while you don’t carry yourself as one. Marriage is not an entitlement, you have to work for it and earn it. I’m saying this as an African man who lives in America.

[@mrzagamaje9434]

@@_desurae Tell me one group of men that take African American women seriously? African American women are the least desirable women in the world. Excessively masculine, extremely disrespectful with unbelievably high body count.

[@uchenna127]

@@_desurae Or maybe it's just that guy.

[@Dr.Wilson.Christson.Ph.D]

YOU JUST WON A SUBSCRIBER. KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!

[@CJJohnson-tt6xs]

Cj I was once married to a Nigerian man from Enugu.He was fine from the start but we had so many cultual differences; I ended up divorceing him.He became very jealous & possesuve. We had one daughter together,her name was Kimberly Nkechi Ogbonnia ; she passed away in 2015 at the age of 35 years old.

[@africanpodcast]

Am so sorry to hear that❤❤❤❤

[@jideajetunmobi9839]

In Africa especially in Nigeria we men earn respect we don't ask for it. We're naturally made to take care of our family by taking the head role. It's an abomination doing 50/50 at home. We play the lead role. !

[@rachael862]

😊I'm latina any man I deal with provides latino men or whatever . That the way it should be. Ur right a lot. American men rely on government but I'm not a baby mama.

[@SixtySevenYearOldStalker]

I prefer to stick with ladies from my own culture. I don’t even date outside of Ghana.

[@changestartsnow5116]

But they date outside.

[@adedokunkazeem8162]

Your choice.

[@hildadavids217]

Mothers will always be the most important person in the life of her sons. A man who loves his wife, will love his wife. You can not compare the two. I have 2 Sons and they will always love me, but I will always respect their wives.

[@byoutifulmusic]

You can like women all you want. Have some decency - respect yourself and God and discipline yourself to stay faithful to your wife. Wives don’t stop liking men because they’re married o. They love their husbands and families and choose to not jeopardize their homes or children’s security for quick flings. There’s no excusing this behavior. Men should hold other men accountable. Nice video.

[@bennethamobi]

BRO PLS KEEP IT COMING 💯 % AS ALWAYS REMEMBER IT'S WHAT IT'S HOWEVER THEY CAN'T STOP THE SUN FROM SHINE AND THAT'S WHAT NIGERIAN'S OUR REGARDLESS OF HOW WE SEE IT PERIOD😂😂😂 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬

[@CJJohnson-tt6xs]

Cj True! Nigerian men is not going to leave you.Anything goes wrong you will have to leave them.They will not want to leave their wife & children.You will have to escape from them.

[@valeriebyrd70]

I’m dating a Nigerian man long distance - I love him

[@rachael862]

I'm latina I don't approach them they think they're all that

[@Mkym365]

Great podcast, Great points!!!!!!

[@africanpodcast]

Thanks for listening

[@bennethamobi]

BRO SHE'S KIND OF FRUSTRATED INTERNALLY SHE'S ONLY PRETENDING PERIOD😂😂😂 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬

[@rachael862]

🩵💛🩵💛🩵🧡🩵🧡💕💜🧡💜child support ahahhaa. No man is leaving their wives I been there. When u date married men, it blocks ur finances. Nigerian men grind hard that what iblike about them , I'm the same way. I feel that sometimes this generation of American men are lazy jealous when women have more education or money.

[@lonalis4224]

They work hard and many of them do not share their money a lot of what Paris said is true. Too much drama and not enough compromising, care more about what the outside world sees them. They is no unity and the family foundation suffers.The cultural differences can cause conflict.

[@bennethamobi]

IMAGINE THAT PERCENTAGE 8MILLION SINGLE AFRICAN AMERICAN MEN REMAINING SINGLE I MEAN IT'S TOTAL MADNESS GOING IN AMERICAN CULTURE SPECIFICALLY WITHIN THE BLACK AMERICAN COMMUNITIES? 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬

[@kieshacullins9605]

Why arent those 8million African American men making safe communities and opportunities for other blacks? Thats what you need to be talking about. But yall rather bash bw🙄

[@ChijiokeAzubuike-t5h]

Am a Nigerian living in Europe my mother is my life mama your your baby boy chijioke love you ❤

[@phara2394]

I'm a Haitian woman who's currently talking to a Nigerian gentleman and honestly I don't even know why you entertain bulls....t. the fact that this sister is talking out of ignorance, I would just let her rant cause personally, some folks are a waste.

[@patrickpedro6458]

Know this and Know peace ✌️

[@Kgoki890]

Self evaluate; take accountability & responsibility. Learn to Humble yourselves , most Nigerians leave distaste wherever they enter. You can’t try to force & protect that as good.

[@skiiytastic]

I will self evaluate, take accountability & responsibility but you can kindly keep your humility to yourself...no matter where I am..I will always be loud and proudly Nigerian...that distaste in their mouths serves them right when they underestimate what a Nigerian is capable of.

[@TheRealCelebrityDoctor]

Do they take care of their wife if she is American? Opposed to if she is Nigerian? Everything you say is true, but I have never experienced in marriage to a Nigerian man what they experience. I love my Nigerian husband so much and my Nigerian brothers but feel they will never love me like they love a Nigerian woman. Maybe because their mom is not American? I don't know the answer. When we love them they don't love us back. And this might be because we are educated and economically sufficient????

[@olaoluwaamoo9910]

The restraint is your mind trust me. I have a similar experience with my London returnee she was already negative that she won't be accepted and that shaped her perspectives. Even when they were fighting her battles, she believed the contrary.

[@nkupmenyir4646]

They take care of their wives regardless of nationality

[@PatrickMuller-s8t]

Hello good day beautiful how re you doing hope doing great

[@msgrace7414]

African American women are not more educated than Nigerian women FYI. We have different experiences in marriage simply because of our upbringing and cultural differences…

[@PatrickMuller-s8t]

@@TheRealCelebrityDoctor OK

[@chicaemmanuel981]

Bro you don't need to disturb your self, explaining Women or men or any body About Nigerian men, because we are spacial and we are the best in this world, and nobody can change us, we love our family, thank you brother

[@africanpodcast]

Thank you for your kind comment. Appreciate that

[@Jtve737]

Best at what?? Please name me the special nigerian men that have extensively contributed to world history in any way.... nigerian men are subpar.

[@Jtve737]

Go ahead and name these special nigerian men... I AM WAITING.

[@hannahakorede6497]

@@Jtve737go somewhere else and mind your Business you probably fba always want problem

[@Jtve737]

@@hannahakorede6497 WE know they ain't in Nigeria fix that homeland

[@TOFAINNAIJA]

Then why are so many NIGERIAN WOMEN suffering so much in these marriages?????

[@sylviasworld9397]

The ones who are happy are busy enjoying their marriages and not making it anyone else's business, maybe they should be asked for some advice. The ones suffering are the ones telling everyone, thats why you know about them. The divorce rate is high in some other communities, but they don't make it KZbin content.

[@stevenwilliams3015]

Says who? Says social media? If African men were that bad, divorce would be very high in Nigeria just as it is in the Western world, and that's because no one is forced to remain in marriage. There is an agenda to destroy African family structure by playing women victim narrative and feminism just as it was done to Black Americans

[@feargod6842]

And why are there so many single mothers in the African American communities?

[@patrickpedro6458]

Ask yourself grandfather, mumu

[@stevenwilliams3015]

Say who?? Just because you see someone complaining doesn't mean all are complaining. Nigerian marriages are good

[@shawannawilliams2221]

This is a good video....I'm talking to a Nigerian guy now.😊

[@africanpodcast]

Wishing you luck sis 🙏

[@bennethamobi]

BRO IT'S ALL ABOUT FRUSTRATION SPECIFICALLY WITHIN THE BLACK AMERICAN CULTURE? 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬

[@rachael862]

Some men say it's their mom it's their wives or side chick's. Please speak the truth. Yes, some may have mom on the phone, but 90%it's not their mom. Some of the men lie alot you have to be transparent about it. And if it's a man mom, the women should go on video make sure if she's married. It's not a woman's place to tell a man who he should speak to

[@Isiejeme0829]

You did well touching on this topic. Many Nigerian men are good, father figures who chrish their family, mother, father and siblings (if they're worth it). Just like in every other society, good and bad people are everywhere.

[@carolerairdon7428]

Not all Nigerian are like that especially if they live in the poorest section of Nigeria

[@tamlloyd5638]

I don’t understand what’s happening between us. We have cultural differences. One is not better than the other. If you move from another country to America learn the differences. Ask questions instead of bashing us. I’m American and my man is from Nigeria. We ask each other questions and we learn from each other. Not all of us are on welfare. We work hard. We have built America so you can live here and have a life. There are bad people everywhere! We have to unite! We are adults.

[@slady210]

Thank you sister. I TOTALLY agree. Don't understand the Bashing either.

[@Sportsroar601]

Sister, stay well and blessed.

[@africanpodcast]

Here we go again. Listen to yourself sis “we built American so you can live here and have a life”… same narrative, same mindset.. echoing what you were told growing up that Nigerians came to US to have a life. If I may ask: what life do you refer to? Have you ever travelled outside America 🇺🇸 to live two months at a stretch? And talking the ‘we built America anthem’ what part of America did you built as an individual? So the White men were sleeping while you built America right? So the Native American Indians, Mexicans, Indians, Chinese and a host of other Americans were sleeping while you built America? Sis, you really don’t want to go into this rabbit hole.. my video wasn’t bashing nobody.. it’s a response to a black American KZbinr bashing Nigerian men.. wake up sis, everything is not about which race or culture is better than the other.. is about understanding and respecting other people’s values and tradition..

[@slady210]

@@africanpodcast you know, I was gonna tackle this foolhiness you posted in response to the young ladies comment. But it's not worth it..your mindset is SICKENING and you are royally ignorant!!

[@jacklyneverage3881]

@@africanpodcast This is the problem with some of you Nigerian men. You get a little bit of information and then want to debate a people about their own cultural heritage and you end up sounding ignorant. But, it's the right narrative. We literally built this country from scratch and were here before the US was a country. How is what she is saying taking away from the Indigenous or the Europeans? We did build this country, she didn't say anything about anybody else and anybody else really doesn't matter b/c it was not their principal labor that generated the wealth of this nation! Also, you mentioned people who weren't even over here until after the country was established! Read a timeline sir. Sir, only three populations were here in the 1500's. Yes! 1500's! The European, African, and the Indigenous. The Chinese was not here. They didn't arrive in the United States of America until after it was established as a country; they came in 1847. Mexicans did not exist in the 1500's at all, in fact, Mexico wasn't even established until 1821. No Mexicans were in the original 13 colonies man or anywhere else in the area that would eventually become the USA in 1776 man. SMH. Timelines are important and understanding context is too. History is not the Nigerians strong point when it comes to academics. Please do better next time.

[@judyhallman2459]

Are always in need and want you to give them money 💴 they say we in Nigeria don’t have money 💴 to buy food 🍱 and say everything is too high all I eat is noodles 🍜 so you can feed them are feel sorry for them and give them money 💴 bigger lies Fr fr so mother needs to tell them to not be a lier ?

[@tiata2you82]

I enjoyed your commentary

[@NeKongo369]

90 ^% of what u said is the man with Congolese, I may even say 90 % of all Bantu people still in Africa are like that, specially # 1, don't mess around with my mum... and BTW female cheating is a huge deal breaker

[@SunnyUchi]

We love our Moms unconditional love

[@CJJohnson-tt6xs]

Cj. True! They're mother's are always around the corner in a lot of ways to speak.

[@bennethamobi]

MEN NATURALLY ❤❤❤ BEAUTIFUL WOMEN NOT NIGERIAN ALONE IT'S A NATURAL THING AMONGS HUMANS REGARDLESS 😂😂😂 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬

[@reynettpatton6520]

Just because American black men are close friends with their girlfriends/wives does not make them bums. The art of effective communications makes us understand each other in an entirely different level. Some Nigerian men do not know anything about that level of conversation. Iks

[@spyMan-m1b]

Big respect 🙏 🫡 ❤️

[@jacklyneverage3881]

The irony is that most Black Americans who are descendants of US Slavery have a very high contribution of their ancestry coming from ethnic groups that now reside in the country of Nigeria. We are literally fighting cousins. That's what is funny! 🤣😅😂😂😂. Black American descendants of slavery have about at least 20 ethnic groups from West and West Central Africa contributing to our DNA here. To break it down would be over a paragraph. Contributions to our ancestry from the people who are now in Nigeria are the Yoruba (Nagoes as they were called here), Igbo (Calabar), Efik, Ibibio, Fulani, and the Fon. Yes, all of them people. We got more from different parts of West Africa and Central Africa too. LOL!

[@uchenna127]

Igbo people don't come from Calabar. Black Americans are genetically diverse, you can't pinpoint them to any particular group, unlike Jamaicans, that come primarily from Ghana, and get along fine with them or Haitians, who came mainly from Benin and Togo.

[@CJJohnson-tt6xs]

Cj I loved his accent.His mother wrote me & told me how she was inspecting us & her grandbaby.

[@SamuelOgbidu]

May be something is wrong with those who don't love their mother in law.

[@CJJohnson-tt6xs]

Cj I met him & married him in the late 70's before Tik Tok,social media etc. ever came about.

[@_desurae]

Ima be honest I’m talking to a Nigerian man and he literally asked me to go 50/50. He was ok with moving into together without being married. He got two kids from two different women. Both African women one in Africa and the other in the United States. I don’t feel all Nigerian men are like this but I think some African men come to America and find out what men can get away with in America and then start doing the same 🤷🏽‍♀️. But one thing I can say is that he is independent.

[@HeartWritesINC]

50/50= RUUUUUUUN

[@GiftMichael-ii8wp]

Don't worry you will be the third baby Mama.😂 Many Americans women are stupid to fall for that. Having two baby mamas is a red banner flag.you shouldn't be talking to him at the first place

[@loisshandy]

❤❤

[@sheiladavis1236]

Maybe this is a cultural difference, there are American Black women who have said leave our Black men alone and some of the other races have gone on to say if you stayed away from the kitchen table and in the gym more your men wouldn't be turning to us. Sure we have cheating American men and women probably like other countries. I met a Nigerian man I was waiting for someone to come he ask if I was waiting for a man or woman he ask for my phone number, he said that he was having a house built for his Mom, that was his business, he also said that his Aunt wanted his brother to speak with him because he was at something again. I don't like having to inquire about half sentences, I tell my family and friends if I don't disclose everything I didn't think it was their business and I gave him the same respect. I invited him to my daughters wedding, he chose not to attend the reception, I wasn't looking for a African man. I do know that my Dad's Dad was born in Mila Africa. He went to Nigeria he called I heard children in the background. I had ask him if he believed in more than one wife. We did go out to eat and movies. I do appreciate the experience with him he encouraged me to go back to school and to about my own business. My Dad was instrumental in our lives my parents had ten children. I didn't and neither do I ever want to be someone side piece and I believe it's dangerous for a man or woman to place another person in that kind of a position without their consent. Maybe in some instances you need to tell your fellow brothers to leave American women alone. We as Black American have enough problems with other races of people without adding additional ones from people with our skin color, and we are the most divided race of people do you think because you are from another country and you come to America you are excluded. Let's pray for peace and maybe some Africans are not happy with their fellow country persons marrying Americans how would you feel if it was you and someone else was complaining about your relationship leave people lives alone and enjoy your life.

[@CJJohnson-tt6xs]

Cj My former husband was just getting his college degree & when I met him.

[@CJJohnson-tt6xs]

Cj RIP our Little Igbo,I called her.💗🌷🌹❤️.

[@CJJohnson-tt6xs]

Cj I made a mistakr in spelling expecting.

[@rachael862]

I love my latino men less headache

[@_desurae]

I really wish I could find a nice fine Nigerian man

[@ChijiokeAzubuike-t5h]

Am here for beautiful 😍

[@destinyadam1160]

They are useless

[@toplyf.]

Bro no worry yourself. We and them have totally different value systems. Nigerians come from extended family and strong culture. They are desperate to have Nigerians.

[@slady210]

Wow this is such a sad, arrogant comment. Smh

[@jacklyneverage3881]

LOL!

[@olaoluwaamoo9910]

The grape you cant have is surely sour that is the mindset

[@bennethamobi]

AMERICANS HAVE THE HIGHEST SINGLE MOTHERS AND DIVORCE RATES IN THE WORLD CURRENTLY! AS WE SPEAK PERIOD? 🇳🇬 🇳🇬 🇳🇬

[@liagenuine]

I love a man who love their mom, however, what if she’s “messy” starting trouble in ur marriage 🤔….just asking

[@emmypearlzoffice6504]

Nigerian men love their mom, doesn't mean they don't have boundaries and accept poor treatment of their mother towards their wife

[@CJJohnson-tt6xs]

Cj 👍👍👍👍

[@deborahgardner7862]

What you need to learn to do, is quit putting all Melanated American women in this conversation, because you only heard one woman speak, she don’t speak for all Melanated women. And I resent you getting on your little podcast trying to check an entire group of women, on the back of one you heard speak, that is why this world is crap, if you didn’t like what she said, why didn’t you stitch her video, instead of putting all our women in your mouth? Y’all need to learn how to speak to the actual person that offended you, and quit putting all of us in a box, please and thank you.

[@tamlloyd5638]

I agree ☝🏾

[@slady210]

Yes ma'am! Well said! 💯

[@emmypearlzoffice6504]

She don vex....melaneted 😊

[@CJJohnson-tt6xs]

Cj 😀😀😀😀

[@thepresence2095]

No woman will ever make me not take care of my mother, we are very aware that she is the only woman who will love us unconditionally you will never love me unconditionally so leave if she is a problem to you.

[@CJJohnson-tt6xs]

Cj I made a mistakr in spelling expecting.