American in Taiwan confesses that stereotypes about foreigners dating and work life are mostly true

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Teddy Lai 賴泰迪

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@方絢 7 ай бұрын

看了這麼多外國人分享在台灣的生活，這位美國先生給的料是最實在的，很坦誠👍

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

講的好

@林恩葶 6 ай бұрын

❤🎉😊

@giannishen 7 ай бұрын

這倆位表兄弟的對話看似閒聊，其實很有深度；表弟 Andrew 最後有點到重點，雖有護國神山，但我們還是無世界第一的生活品質，非常諷刺；我們要硬起來對抗不合理奴性職場，臺灣加油！💪😅👌

@badpigy 7 ай бұрын

但，認真回想我們台灣人的人生，從小到大，我的印象都是要好好讀書，才能有好的工作，好的人生🥹

@giannishen 7 ай бұрын

@@badpigy 但，仔細思考，有多少好好讀書的人最後有好的工作，好的人生！

@morenda2009 7 ай бұрын

但很諷刺的是, 外國人追求過度的自由之後, 把自己的家鄉搞砸了, 跑到有秩序有紀律的台灣, 說台灣不夠自由, 太過奴性, 恩...接下來20年的發展如果照他們這樣做的話, 台灣人真的能接受這樣的結果嗎?

@專捉小紅 7 ай бұрын

上面又有假臺灣人出現了，再怎麼樣都比他們沒有自由好，ㄎㄎ！

@專捉小紅 7 ай бұрын

上面又有假的臺灣人出現了，他們習慣抱怨國外過度自由，人家再怎麼樣都比他們從來沒有自由好！

@test-k1v 7 ай бұрын

感謝您邀請我參加演出！繼續保持頻道的良好工作！😻

@teddylai886 7 ай бұрын

感謝pizza哥來分享你的故事和觀點！

@asiabamboo 7 ай бұрын

兩位 “吃過同一塊pizza 的表兄弟的閒聊😂😘🙏

@SUSUFUFU 3 ай бұрын

不是冒犯，日本人朋友告訴我那叫hole brother

@asiabamboo 3 ай бұрын

@@SUSUFUFU 🤣🤣👍🏼🙏🏼

@LalaRuuu_star 7 ай бұрын

講到台灣女生為什麼喜歡外國男生是滿真實的，重男輕女，沒錯，以前女生其實沒有什麼資源，父母所有的資源都在男孩子身上網路開放後學習到西方文化覺得原來女生也是這麼被重視的很嚮往... 要對付對岸的瘋子就要花台灣人很多心思了，一團亂真的，低薪是因為語言市場的關係，我們會一直被對岸比價錢，很多老闆都會說對岸比你們更勤勞更奴，人才隨便挑那種，這樣羞辱你

@Cindy-s2k 7 ай бұрын

前公司一位女同事過了適婚年齡一直沒結婚，大家都以為她就這樣孤獨終老，結果她50歲嫁給一位外國客戶，這在亞洲人喜歡嫩妹的想法下是不可思議的，結了也會被大家笑笑議論，還好她嫁去國外了有了新人生，歐美人比較注重彼此個性是否相合，亞洲男人偏重年齡和外表。

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

@@Cindy-s2k 以下個人意見, pros and cons, 我認為你只看到表面, 世上沒有完美的事物. 美國離婚率是 50%, 台灣娶老婆是一輩子的事, 如果你一輩子只能跟一個女人在一起, 你會選擇 50 歲老女人 ??

@jjpenny4316 7 ай бұрын

@@dingdinghuang並沒有喔我們七年級的一堆離婚喔而且一堆渣男偷吃外遇喔

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

@@jjpenny4316 你有看清楚我講的嗎 ?? 年輕人一堆離婚但美國是全國平均 50%, 台灣現在有 50% 嗎 ?? 亞洲國家本來就一直西化開放所以你講的很正常, 參考一下.

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

@@jjpenny4316 我簡單 google 一下, 年輕人確實很高, 34.75%, 但全國離婚率是 10%, 所以我覺得台灣還是很低, 參考一下 ...................( 1............. 內政部最新統計，去年2022年離婚數來到4萬7888對，而婚齡未滿5年就離婚者占了34.75%，創下10年新高。我國111年離婚/終止結婚對數（按發生日期統計）計5萬803對(不同性別5萬190對，相同性別[1]613對)，2 ................. 有偶人口離婚率為10.0‰，較102年減少0.5個千分點。)

@garyhucc 7 ай бұрын

幽默中見真誠的訪談 👍

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

專業

@Richme0630 7 ай бұрын

這是我看過最溫馨的表兄弟相聚

@evenhsufly 7 ай бұрын

以前我還真的認識很多在台外國人是這樣子的通常都有以下關鍵字教英文動機缺乏交往只交外國人的女友然後酗酒或藥物濫用而且好多都憂鬱症或躁鬱症

@helenlin1499 7 ай бұрын

嗯真的超級了解台灣🙏

@min-hueihuang3833 7 ай бұрын

My only comment in this interview is too short and everything the guest said hit the point and true. 👍

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

分享我在台灣 40 年自學英文的經驗, 多背單字多聽英文, 聽不懂也播放讓它一直講, 文法不要太在意, 英文報紙原來我也看不懂, 每天晚上花三個小時查單字, 三年後我大部份就懂了, 參考一下.

@ken65218 7 ай бұрын

這一集是兩個腿友的認親吐槽的感人故事、、、😂😂😂

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

表 ......... 兄弟, 哈

@stephaniechung1768 7 ай бұрын

來賓談論在台西方人和喜歡西方人的台灣女生，超直接也超寫實，讓我忍不住笑了😁😁

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

有讀書的人都知道人家喜歡就好了, 很多看不懂英文的台灣魯蛇才會靠北靠木.

@lil----lil 7 ай бұрын

As it's often the case, it takes someone from outside the glass house to tell the truth because the people living inside are clueless! Appreciate the candid talk but also keeping it real. That _is_ something Americans excel at and it's a doozy! And humor is no doubt in my mind, the highest art form to criticize something or someone without being offensive. Well done, Andrew. And thank Teddy for bring different and interesting speakers to the show.

@test-k1v 7 ай бұрын

Yes thank you to Teddy! ❤

@LaiSean 7 ай бұрын

很高興看到泰迪哥跟Andrew原來早就認識還挺熟，我是兩位的粉絲，也希望兩位在台灣都能過上自己理想的生活

@傅美芳-r1v 7 ай бұрын

非常精彩的對話，等不及要看下一集了

@lukacaralola 7 ай бұрын

其實這就是人生這種成長適用於大多數國家這集很幽默

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

西方先進國家的人尋找人生意義跟快樂, 華人追求物質享受 ..........

@FantasyNova 6 ай бұрын

兩個竟然是表弟表弟，也都很大方，讚。

@teddylai886 6 ай бұрын

✌️

@a128136193 7 ай бұрын

這次的來賓真的很有趣!

@宋佩芬-g7w 4 ай бұрын

我35年前教兒童美語當時的補習班外籍老師就是白人優勢也有很多男女關係混亂的狀況。到如今這個狀況似乎都沒變即使台灣宣稱更多元文化與平等了。

@邱書芸-f7w 7 ай бұрын

把台灣人分析的好透徹

@LeeChiREAD 7 ай бұрын

標題一口氣唸完💯🙌🙌🙌

@teddylai886 7 ай бұрын

😂😂

@JackFieldStudio 4 ай бұрын

Oh wow, I actually remember this guy haha. I met him in Taiwan back in 2018 when he would stream on twitch. It’s good to see him doing well!

@JackFieldStudio 4 ай бұрын

I honestly I didn’t recognize him without the long hair, really well articulated haha

@osmondlu2773 7 ай бұрын

I did not expect this episode to be that inspiring. 😅

@洪瑞真瑞真 7 ай бұрын

這位美國先生說話真的很直接～

@test-k1v 7 ай бұрын

謝謝您 😂

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

重點是經過了十年 ............ 哈.

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

@@test-k1v 重點是經過了十年 ............ 哈.

@yoyowu6155 7 ай бұрын

我很欣賞外國人有話直說的文化，台灣人活得太累，話中有話絃外之音顧慮面子blablablabla，累死人又沒效率😢

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

@@yoyowu6155 各有利弊, 他也有說來台灣學到講話不要太直接也是有好處 ............

@alatcu 7 ай бұрын

why the interview had been cut off suddenly ?

@_gouzmann_2626 4 ай бұрын

Jesus Christ this dude says everything that I've been thinking and living for the past 5 years It's so weird to finally find someone I relate to

@MDDM_Official 7 ай бұрын

excellent interview! 🔥🔥🔥🔥

@LucasChuang-d2s 7 ай бұрын

哇!!!!原來那個耶穌是你喔! 我看到就一直在想怎麼有那麼迷音的東西在台灣用台灣的方式發生 XDDD

@ChiChingchiu 7 ай бұрын

這段影片刷新三觀，外國人即使是表兄弟依然可以暢談各種理念，真心不簡單

@花君-n2e 4 ай бұрын

外國人表兄弟？什麼意思

@oceanxoceankao1109 7 ай бұрын

他超好笑 2位pizza老闆

@anneanitakuo 7 ай бұрын

聽到那段的時候，簡直不敢相信剛才聽到了什麼？我到底有沒有聽對？！😅

@oceanxoceankao1109 7 ай бұрын

@@anneanitakuo 超級地獄梗原本以為pizza是義大利食物有人知道美籍為什麼不是熱狗???

@jeremylo1768 7 ай бұрын

Sausage pizza! LOL

@user-yating 7 ай бұрын

表兄弟

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

你知道的太少了 ..........

@hsinchihlin 7 ай бұрын

原來兩位是表兄弟

@狂戰遊俠 7 ай бұрын

我有追Andrew的IG ，很中肯的人，而且Andrew的英文字彙還有用語好像普遍比較高級。

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

以下個人意見, 高級 ?? 你一定沒有唸過 GRE, GMAT 字彙 .........

@湯大衛-k5o 7 ай бұрын

確實如此.觀察入微,厲害哦.

@KH-jm2mk 7 ай бұрын

Agree with your observations!

@Jakeloveyouyou 4 ай бұрын

這部影片我學到好多道地的英文．my favorite: on the verge of toaster bath

@test-k1v 3 ай бұрын

🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

@erikshen7460 3 ай бұрын

在他身上可以看出很多軍人的特質，觀察力以及自律

@bigdogsmama2748 7 ай бұрын

Taiwanese value system is the reason why Taiwanese youths enjoy doing what they are doing with lower scale of income generated relative to the dedicated labor. More so, the society in general is very friendly and respectful to each others; it is the same value system that the American visitors are embraced and treated like “King”/Jeff Bezos even when the Americans do not generate as much income as Jeff Bezos; in the States, if you don’t generate as much wealth as Jeff Bazos, you will not be treated like Jeff Bazos : that is the difference.

@DavidDavid-ep1zf 7 ай бұрын

台灣的慣老闆太多也太強大很難打贏他們

@test-k1v 7 ай бұрын

有一本書叫叛道: 改變國家的基進力量，他解釋了富人如何總是尋求鞏固自己的權力，而窮人有責任防止這種情況發生，為了社會中每個人的健康，因為社會是一個活的有機體，必須進行改革和改變，否則就會死亡

@martinlee7781 7 ай бұрын

@@test-k1v 台灣生育率全世界倒數第一已經是準備死亡的前奏了而且低到一定程度還不可逆

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

我覺得是我們的教育教我們保守與穩定, 所以大部份有能力的人都在大公司等退休.

@classic8660 6 ай бұрын

要贏慣老闆只有一個方法,就是離職,不過我發現慣老闆大多在傳產,新創產業的老闆比較注重人性,因為年輕人沒有奴性,不吃慣老闆那一套

@kxchen6340 6 ай бұрын

描寫的很深入我喜歡

@KH-jm2mk 7 ай бұрын

那些覺得困在與台灣配偶的婚姻中的人其實是自己困住自己。從來都是你自己不滿意又不知如何改變現狀。鼓起勇氣調整祝福你們

@利明瀨 7 ай бұрын

原來是好兄弟❤

@enjoylifes 7 ай бұрын

相信爭取是會有結果，多數時候現實總是佔上風，只是心中仍是要抱著希望。

@MyAlicia0 7 ай бұрын

很真誠的人，你適合台灣，有點保守，有點創意，絶大部份安全的國家。

@wfcchan2189 6 ай бұрын

Being a Taiwanese doing the other around as you guys, I totally feel how you feel about local Taiwanese people. They are very hard working, smart and on this path to make many creative things but still under the traditional Confucianism. When having everything for for you, you need to speak up and being assertive. This is the confidence building process. Otherwise, where do you gain the confidence from?

@黃哲浩-m9r 7 ай бұрын

A先生的眼光很犀利，在台灣眼光這麼犀利的人就是不能白話直說，時間久了這種犀利就退化了。

@maxwu1656 7 ай бұрын

原來是表兄弟！

@Ezrollercool 7 ай бұрын

表兄弟耶~

@rblaker1217 7 ай бұрын

哈哈哈好直白哦真的觀察入微懂很多

@julientyt 7 ай бұрын

the video ends like both of you ended things with that girl

@李彥勳-x7h 7 ай бұрын

左邊那位有粉專還是頻道嗎？

@teddylai886 7 ай бұрын

資訊欄有連結

@h906230 5 ай бұрын

也是不常用才發5個文😅

@yojimbo4343 7 ай бұрын

我記得他！他在西門町鬧愛國同心會那個影片，到現在都還一再回味。

@qyzx2811 3 ай бұрын

天啊!不會吧?你們兩個是表兄弟???!!! 0h,my God!!

@ValentineWu 7 ай бұрын

⭕️很好的對話！因為中國的崛起，很多外國人也來到台灣，漸漸臺灣人看多外國人，就越來越平常心看待外國人。

@dobbyfree8814 Күн бұрын

表哥表弟同學會!!

@hmkk3000 7 ай бұрын

台灣低薪，工時長，就是台灣特色😂，如果都一樣就不叫台灣，就體驗😂

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

如果像台灣所有開發中國家都高薪, 工時短, 那先進國家怎麼混下去 ??

@TimGamgee806 7 ай бұрын

The stinky tofu killing me😂

@twngrc2604 2 ай бұрын

Too much politeness is not good because I can’t find out the truth / the real feeling. And too much politeness in a job interview abroad (outside of TW) gives an impression of lack of confidence, not assertive. But on the other hand, politeness is a virtue, just don’t over do it, and always observe the surroundings to act properly.

@taichiboboyeh 7 ай бұрын

西門町的那段超好笑的！

@allanjane9109 6 ай бұрын

Andrew is an IG influencer !

@EianPan 7 ай бұрын

哈哈哈😂我喜歡他

@morigonpan6181 7 ай бұрын

這位來賓智商在線、口才便給、反應敏捷、觀察犀利，只是態度稍微吊兒郎當，總體是個人才聰明到，預見、對自己未來有點放棄感覺最後一段台灣社會大實話。一針見血

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

個人覺得是西方教育注重探索自我的潛能, 獨立思考, 台灣是一直拼命背書, pros and cons.

@EnjoyVa2FL 7 ай бұрын

@@dingdinghuang 同意！但，容我在此表達一下我個人的意見：我在美43年了，剛從教職退休。據我多年的觀察和瞭解是：接受台灣教育的孩子是絕對可以跟洋人競爭的，一點問題都沒有；只是需要多那麼一點點「自信」。(From VA)

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

@@EnjoyVa2FL 個人覺得可能是現在有網路, 科技進步, 世界地球村化, 以後都是地球人, 我猜 .....................

@EnjoyVa2FL 7 ай бұрын

@@dingdinghuang 謝謝妳的分享！我覺得台灣教育出來的學生的實力從1950、1960年代至今都具有在美國或其他國家競爭的優勢。台灣的教育只要加強一些「有自信地表達個人意見的觀念」就可以了。(From VA)

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

@@EnjoyVa2FL 感謝分享, 我個人是覺得台灣教育問題很多, 你講的可能是比較聰明靈活的學生, 我個人雖然考試成績不錯但不是很聰明, 所以在學校都是死背沒有什麼思考能力, 我看教育的角度可能是在啟發跟思考能力, 台灣這邊我的年代是非常缺乏, 我相信現在是好一點但可能還是比不上美國, 分享我的想法, 感謝.

@易文忠 7 ай бұрын

沒錯台灣企業家有能力付高薪找人才，但因為台灣政客與商人勾結，讓台灣的薪資處於低水平。gdp都超過韓日，薪資卻沒韓日高，這就是台灣。

@declanzhang2391 7 ай бұрын

So Teddy's "pizza" is better? I thought so 🤣

@simeonovs4443 7 ай бұрын

eskimo bros for life :D

@kylechechang 7 ай бұрын

帥😄

@carrlechen5970 7 ай бұрын

生活品質靠個人的體悟及改變但多數人就算有能力也懶得改變現狀

@terrima4064 7 ай бұрын

I wish you would talk about the dating scenes between foreign women and Taiwanese men. Many foreign women in Taiwan complained to me that its so difficult to get a date with a Taiwanese man, and this is why you don't often find foreign women staying in Taiwan for more than 2-3 years. They eventually go back to their home country. I would like to hear from Taiwanese men their view on dating western women.

@teddylai886 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for your suggestion, the next episode will touch on this a bit

@歐文-p3j 7 ай бұрын

我還真以為有肉棒披薩咧❤😂😂😂

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

誰規定不可以有 ??

@花君-n2e 4 ай бұрын

原來是你😂 還是個帥耶穌耶

@meiyuc22 7 ай бұрын

美國人是消費者，是大爺，台灣人的消費能力無法讓他們成為大爺， everything can be explained with game theory.

@Krues 7 ай бұрын

哦蟹！那是你喔，太好笑了😂

@meiyuc22 7 ай бұрын

living abroad where you don't understand the language is like a pilgrimage.

@Cnt-en6ej 6 ай бұрын

wow!!!wow!!!wow!!!

@Quadrye 7 ай бұрын

I thought it was actually pizza…😂😂

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

their new restaurant

@johnjohnsayhi 7 ай бұрын

Who is X?

@wwe89562 5 ай бұрын

原來他就是影片那個裝成耶穌的人嗎😂

@test-k1v 4 ай бұрын

對是我

@李明琦-f8s 4 ай бұрын

調高薪水，然後物價也跟著調高？

@魚刺-k1r 2 ай бұрын

物價變貴不完全是薪資調漲造成的，民生物資的生產及供給過程中有很多要素不只人力。最嚴重的影響當然是不動產成本，薪資漲了工人總要消費。租金漲了只有房東及其家人會增加消費，除非每個房東都有少說上千個私生子，而且房東還要很公正博愛的分配零用錢。否則租金成本只會推高物價而且完全沒有帶動經濟

@MD-gz3qo 7 ай бұрын

來賓觀察力敏銳，好奇他自評是光譜的哪一端呢？

@kaicheng8090 7 ай бұрын

披薩😂😂😂

@pei6009 6 ай бұрын

哈哈真的很多住在台灣的女生跟外國人老公，給老公鑲金的鳥籠

@amtfguan 7 ай бұрын

👍👍👍💖💖💖🙏🙏🙏

@yexiou 7 ай бұрын

I need his meme instagram account. Toxic working culture here.

@sagizo 6 ай бұрын

這半年我應該都不想吃披薩了😂😂😂

@teddylai886 6 ай бұрын

😂🤣😂

@FlAsChang 7 ай бұрын

Learn a lesson: Big sausage pizza is good.

@teddylai886 7 ай бұрын

😂

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

their new restaurant advertisement ...............

@martice111 7 ай бұрын

每年出超幾千億美金已經累積20多年了...都在誰手上?

@user-yating 7 ай бұрын

我發現外國人很難了解宗教.通靈人,天命，靈學，帶給台灣人民的影響。如果要真正了解台灣就從這邊著手

@dingdinghuang 7 ай бұрын

外國人沒有這麼無知愚蠢 .......

@lockjiang 7 ай бұрын

wait, what? this is the most private video ever been done. so personal.

@琪-h5i 4 ай бұрын

十幾年前我在美語學校就發現那些外國人教的英語不一定是對的

@chihlin7070 7 ай бұрын

為何只跟外國人約會，真的很認同😂

@eudesodoroidefrance9643 7 ай бұрын

Hi Teddy, I'm a Taiwan native who currently lives in France. I totally understand how you feel as a foreigner living in Taiwan ! First, to overcome the inner boredom, you need to participate any local community or group in Taiwan and see how it goes. 😉 Of course, you don't need to do so if, from the bottom of your heart, you don't care for the people on that tiny island. ( I've tried doing so but the narcissistic & ego-centric French people turned me off and I decided to care for them no more. ) Yet, if you develop something by doing so, you will eventually find Taiwan as your second home, a real home, and you will no longer feel bored. ( how can you feel bored when relaxing at home !? ) I hope I can meet you in person when visiting Taiwan this summer....😉

@teddylai886 7 ай бұрын

Thanks for reaching out and for the advice, never a dull moment in Taiwan!