Americaவில் இதெல்லாம் செய்யவே கூடாது பிரச்சனையாகிடும் | Dos & Don'ts in the USA from our experience

[@ArthiPrem]

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[@Arj0010]

Only one simple formula is Namma undu namma vela undu nu irukkanum.. And 3 most important thing to survive in any land are Say sorry..say thank you.. and a little smile

[@ArthiPrem]

Well said.. In vadivel style நம்ப யார் வம்புக்கும் போறதில யார் தும்புக்கும் போறதில்ல , நாம உண்டு நாம ஜோலி உண்டுன்னு போய்டுறது ...😂

[@MiraMisa7167]

I live in New York City for over 30 years. I live in Queens and work in Manhattan. I used public transportation to go to work for 25 years. Now, I am retired. It is very convenient and faster than driving in congestion. My son went to school in Manhattan since middle school and took subways to get to school and return home on his own from the age of 11yrs until he graduated from high school.

[@ArthiPrem]

WOWWW .. good to know.. Yep NEW YORK life is entirely different !!!

[@jennifermiller3451]

Another thing, is to never touch anybodys mail box. Even to drop a letter or anything

[@ArthiPrem]

Good point Thank you so much

[@vijaybalaji8535]

Always have Small denomination dollars in wallet/pocket and give it to beggars if you encounter verbal conversation.

[@cmbarathkumar]

Denver Public transport is really convenient. only thing is you need to plan based on timings

[@ArthiPrem]

Good to know !! Denver is one of the city where the economy is STRONG !!

[@sajis2347]

Thank you guys for bringing up another important topic today! You also indicated about Gas station awareness, especially not to keep your car keys in the car (even if your family members are in the vehicle) while you are getting gas at the station. FYI - Floridians will be able to carry concealed guns without a permit starting on Saturday, July 1, 2023.

[@ArthiPrem]

Good point about the keys in the car at the gas station.. i always keep with myself .. Florida Gun laws 😔😔 ...

[@sajis2347]

Thanks!@@ArthiPrem

[@sridevi4628]

Well said.. u both have explained in detail.. I'm in New York. As u said my husband was here for 1.5 yrs,explored the new place,saved some money,and now he took us (me and our kids), we r here since 6months, bought a car then.. searched house in a safest zone, avoided unwanted conversation with others.. but all together USA endralum adhu namma ooru pola varuma 😅

[@ArthiPrem]

True sister.. you have lot of Little India streets on NJ, Enjoy and explore the things..

[@srisree2658]

USA IS HEAVEN ON EARTH. Engaludaiya perception from South TN

[@Rocky_Rocks]

@@srisree2658i think you didn’t experience. But ivlo information partha appurama indha comment?

[@rengahari6970]

In USA we ve to live with fear, ve to move out with fear.ok or not ok?

[@ArthiPrem]

No its not fear Have to be cautious not only in the USA Any country we should be careful and something should not do

[@ramkumarthangamuthu6708]

I travelled a lot in long distance greyhound buses, trains every week to meet family. Lots of experiences in Chicago downtown streets early morning 4am. You have to be courageous but not too freek. Many people approach you unnecessarily for money, food, cigarettes etc., but keep up the smile and try to avoid arguments. Here people have mood swings often and it is not safe.

[@ArthiPrem]

True bro.. They can't control their emotions and will get mood swings easily, drugs influenced a lot.. Take care bro !! Thanks for sharing

[@manikbalu]

True you told decently 😂.. it’s drug influenced. I face sometimes in San Franscisco near office and train

[@ArthiPrem]

Yeah usually people thought SFO doesn’t have these problems But the truth is drug is the main issue in all the major cities

[@premnaths7960]

In public places, talking louder in our language when there is an American with us. For example: lifts, stores, restaurants, etc. though it is our right, I have noticed people giving weird look or face reactions changed. Never seen or heard Hispanics facing this issue. I was told by a friend to converse among us in English in public places.

[@ArthiPrem]

Thanks for your comments 👍👍

[@gprakashonline]

Don’t approach a cop with your hands in your jacket even if it’s very cold.

[@ArthiPrem]

very good point bro.. same things applicable when the cops stops our car and approach us..

[@Anandkibi]

You covered the points about safety. However do touch upon some things that are taken for granted in India but not in US. Like touching, maintaining house and surroundings, maintenance of restrooms, parks, behavior in public etc.

[@ArthiPrem]

Yep will cover in the upcoming videos, thanks for mentioning !!!

[@sivar713]

Few other points 1 Don’t follow any car closely 2 don’t use slippers ( slip ons ) in outdoors 3 don’t go for a walk with your phone after 7 even if it’s within community 4 don’t open a door if you don’t know the person knocking 5. When you are in trips not at home arrange for someone to pick ur packages 6 no loud music in cars or outdoors 7 try to avoid talking politics 8 Don’t talk about teams and players 9 skip controversial topics and stay neutral 10 don’t use jewelry that’s visibly looking like gold 11 store your laptops in bags when a service person enters house

[@ArthiPrem]

Hi siva reg. Point 3 , we may need a phone for an emergency situation isnt? So better have a phone

[@kaushikraj7930]

So basically live as if you live in North Korea?

[@vaishnavin3447]

Why can we not use slippers outdoors? Out of ignorance

[@sivar713]

@@ArthiPrem I meant don’t go for a walk after hours mostly roommates wants privacy and go out to talk

[@venkatnjn6354]

Point 11, I am not convinced. Explain

[@geetamuniswaran2786]

Very useful tips. One suggestion can you pls put subtitles as my friend is in usa & she is Bengali & finds language problems. She watches your channel but doesn’t know tamil

[@Sasikumar-bv7ys]

Thanks bro and sister. Small suggestion. Please change the camera angle. Try to keep it straight to your eye. It looks like you are keeping it above the head. Kulikulla itunthu peasaramari iruku.

[@ArthiPrem]

Good suggestion bro Thank you so much

[@eswarjj]

Gist: prepare yourself for survival, don't expect a life? except for the "don't know a stranger's door at night" all other advice listed is about survival when exhibiting normal human behavior. The worst of this is all of this advice you give us true and valid. It's just sad what life constitutes in the US.

[@Jayromann22]

Great video as usual. Some suggestions to men while traveling. Please be aware of surrounding and it’s very easy to be accused of inappropriate behavior. Please do not drink and drive. Some people’s green card has been denied because of having a conviction. Please respect others time and maintain punctuality. Keep up the good topics Prem and Aarthi!

[@ArthiPrem]

Great points !!! Thank you so much !!!

[@nayutan2640]

Most cars have an SOS button to call emergency. Check that out please.

[@girijaravi3610]

I never understood why we have to knock someone s door. If you r not sure of the house number please stay in your car and call make sure u stop at the right door. I do that every time if I going to a different neighborhood or if I m not sure of door number. U have to be very very careful living in US.

[@ArthiPrem]

Yes sister, Thanks for your comments !!!

[@venkatnjn6354]

Even cops don't knock after 10PM unless it is really emergency

[@papercityvlogs4325]

Stay away from inner city downtown. You can have a nice time in suburb downtowns but not inner city. The contractors usually never bother you- they are usually in and out.

[@anuradhavijayakumar1726]

Very nice video Arthi Prem..,it ll b very helpful 👍 for d newbies who comes to US..,certain points which u said like starring at d children there i had heard this from my friend in US which i felt like somewhat weird at first..,minding ones own business ll not give problems..,that's what u r saying in short n sweet form.., Additionally i would like to say here a 24 year old indian guy was stabbed wen he was in d bed in d parlor for massage by an American youth with a 🔪 knife ..d reason for y he stabbed was really heart wrenching..,what d American guy told was d Indian guy was looking weird to him ..,so he stabbed..,After d hospitalization inspite of given treatment he died finally 😔..Heard this sad news from wion news Channel yesterday 😢

[@anuradhavijayakumar1726]

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[@prabakardurairaj9059]

Hai hello neenga in USA la texas ku varingla. Don't worry here newman international academy nu oru education institutions irruku. Evanga coimbatore district tamil person than . Help pannuvanga. Name Sheba geroge founder very kind person.

[@ArthiPrem]

Sure We will plan during our texas visit

[@karthik2886]

All the points are awesome additionally, We should not carry more money in hand or wallet. I faced a bad incident.

[@ArthiPrem]

Good point Karthik !! Thanks, if you are ok, please share the incident .. Would help others..

[@vidhyashan]

Any one corner and ask money , give to them and move away then block all your cards

[@karthik2886]

I was walking in New York time square street and getting the food from truck. A person came near to offer food for him as well. I got him food, later he followed and cornered me and threatened to give the whole money. He was not in a good state, there is no option i gave all the money and left the place.

[@pradeepbabur]

One of the best videos and very informative 🎉

[@ArthiPrem]

Thanks pradeep bro 🙏🙏

[@samperiannan306]

Thank you, Very useful Advice.

[@ArthiPrem]

Glad it was helpful!

[@chithrayoganathan9291]

நல்ல தகவல்

[@krisam12345]

Never get into an argument with a stranger., Even though you are right, I would suggest to stay away from him/her. Not only in the US but also in our Home town/country, wherever we travel.

[@ArthiPrem]

Good point True

[@sandhiyar8763]

This is a Must Watch Video for new comers and also for those who are in USA. Whatever we do, we are still an Alien in USA - so always have some awareness of things happening around us - it will help us to safeguard us! Thanks Arthi & Prem for hosting this!

[@gardening-ft6ku]

I would say we should not get used to eating so much sugar and fast food here. It is very tempting to eat. I feel after coming to us, i have started eating so much junk. In India i was never like this. For food we should be disciplined here.

[@anjali5984]

Even in India nowadays it’s like that

[@vinithaviswanathan4247]

Hai bro and sis..i used to watch all ur videos from india...I came to houston 6 months back...I'm a greencard holder and my husband got citizenship here...till now I didn't get any frds...plz share job opportunities for greencard holders here....

[@girijaravi3610]

Naan undu en vela undu. The purposr of being in this country enavo atha matum pathutu poite irukanum.

[@shyam00780]

Prem tht Atlanta sandy springs issue...tht indian who knocked the strangers door was drunked and looks like threatened the home owner...also he was driving speed and hit a apartment garage before going to knock the strangers door.... so pls NEVER DRINK AND DRIVE...THIS IS MUST DONT ACROSS THE WORLD.

[@ArthiPrem]

Thanks for your information Yes drink and drive is the biggest crime 😞😞 Omg …

[@lathaammu1449]

USATamil sangam eppadi contact seivadhu

[@ArthiPrem]

They are providing the contact details on their websites Which state u r looking for?

[@anantharamakrishnanv7259]

Well said.

[@fathimabibi708]

Good vlog 👌

[@ArthiPrem]

Thank you 😊

[@deepakbalasubramanian5425]

Yeah never talk religion or politics here.

[@venkatramansuresh4651]

Hi Prem, I’m new to USA and i want to know what are the challenges during the night drive, could you share the previous video where you mentioned the risk of driving at night.. that could be really helpful

[@ArthiPrem]

Hi bro Please find this link kzbin.info/www/bejne/qKvWk41ump51j68si=YxclXVHGU5uQd5VR

[@venkatramansuresh4651]

Bro! So scary situation. I will always do night drive in India. But I don’t think it’s not safe here. Thank you so much for this information! I’m your subscriber and we both regularly check your videos. Do let us know when you visit Chicago I’m in Naperville!

[@rathakrishnan4992]

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[@ArthiPrem]

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[@deanmohamed7575]

Yeppa neenga pilaika vanthu irukinga ok. But naanga ingaya piranthu valanthu padithu kuppo kotti vaalumbothu yengala nasty ah treat panna, naanga pothikittu poganuma? No. Naanga fight back pannuvom. Ithu yenga naadu, yenga right. Neenga veetuku poi hide panuvinga. But namma kids school gonna, angayum kutu vaangittu poganuma? Yevlo kottu vaangrathu? Yenga Manda valikithu pa. No. Naanga fight back pannuvom. Unga advice thappu.

[@ArthiPrem]

Hi Thanks for your comments It’s your wish 👍👍

[@ece202152]

இரு சக்கர வாகனம் இல்லை

[@cvk4860]

நீங்க சொல்லற விஷயங்கள் எல்லா வெளிநாடுகளிலும் நடப்பதுதான். They are not unique to USA. I don’t whether you are aware that there is big Indian population in many of the African countries doing business or work and most of these countries are highly unsafe

[@ArthiPrem]

Sorry we didn’t say that its only happening in the USA Some people thought that USA are too safe and forgot the pre caution things So this video detailing the precautionary things in the USA

[@cvk4860]

@@ArthiPrem பரவாயில்லைங்க. நீங்க சொல்வது எல்லாம் மிகச் சரிதான். நான் உங்கள் மீது தவறு சொல்லிட்டேன் என்று நினைக்க வேண்டாம். நானும் USA ல் தான் வாழ்கிறேன். ஆஸ்டின், டெக்சாஸில்.

[@cvk4860]

ஆப்ரிக்க அமெரிக்கனுங்க பொதுவாக racism காண்பிப்பானுங்க.