Neighbor CALLS THE COPS & THREATENS US... claiming we are BEING TOO LOUD - Reddit Podcast

[@AmItheJerk]

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[@clickwatchlaughzoobapictur5413]

Say something to me am I the jerk please

[@TheRealMrBibbs]

You are the jerk. Admonishing the OP for finding out his wife was stealing from the family account and putting it in a secret account.

[@VelCroweBar]

What is controlling about the husband in story 3? That's so ridiculous. She's taking money out of their family's joint banking account which instigated him looking in the first place. This is like if someone defends themselves from another person and then this dude is like "you must be a violent person if the first person was twisted enough to try to physically assault you", like what? That's such stupid circular reasoning and is never how you resolve any issues

[@gotenblack2542]

ya

[@MeMe-tw4xb]

I don’t think the husband is morally wrong or controlling, but I do think that perhaps what he did is illegal, which makes it wrong. Since the bank account is under her name. It does sound like she didn’t do anything sus with that bank account, so maybe she just wants some independence. But the fact that she has to hide it from the husband warrants some questions. Maybe they need to sit down and have a talk about financial independence and whatnot.

[@VelCroweBar]

@@MeMe-tw4xb it's illegal to look his wife's bank statement that he had access to? It's not like he hacked her account or something? Also you can't be independent when you've got a whole family that you have to support... Especially not with finances... You've got to talk to your significant other about expenses since there is a reason they both have a joint account together in the first place.

[@MeMe-tw4xb]

@@VelCroweBar I’m not defending her actions, all I’m saying is that it sounds illegal for him to steal the bank card from her and look at the bank statement on a bank account that she personally owns. His name is not on it. It’s not their joint account.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

is nobody talking about how this wife is hiding stuff from her husband though?

[@benjaminneal8050]

The Karen from the first story was completely out her mind also Civil Matter my foot the Karen was basically threatening OP and boyfriend so the landlord better think about eviction notice for the Karen

[@StuArts-Kustoms]

The toilet story, just use her toilet but sit reverse kanga so you get skidding down the front of the bowl. Then when she asks what happened, say you have no idea what she's talking about. I mean she's playing a silly game so she can win a silly prize.😂

[@madog61]

12:59 WDYM it's wrong She has a husband and kids don't you think it's a little suspect if she doesn't show her bank account? And what if she's cheating? Would you let it go I mean they have a family together

[@gotenblack2542]

true

[@averagemufcenjoyer2371]

That's what I was thinking . He immediately made a judgement that the guy was controlling and did not bat a eye on the women like tf bro 😂

[@BlitzTheFoxi]

yea.... husband and wife should not have and secrets at all eve for any reason. totally wrong

[@BlitzTheFoxi]

AITJ is totally wrong about the bank account one. NO secrets should EVER be held between a husband and wife. She should not have anything scretive, let alone a bank account that she is putting money into.

[@gotenblack2542]

i dont like the narrator can think right when the woman in the wrong mostly

[@joshuachavers6456]

Yeah, she could steal all the money in the joint account and run off with it.

[@BlitzTheFoxi]

@@gotenblack2542thats like every woke person lol true

[@black-wizard-zeref]

Agreed anyone angry at op should duck off lol and op should open a bank and transfer all his money into it then don’t let his pay go to bank account t that’s shared instead go to his new one why she did it now he can

[@gotenblack2542]

ya

[@jazminehollister3967]

Last story: "do you mind if I record this conversation? Now what were you saying about possible reprecussisions if I don't attend an unofficial, unpaid, dinner outside the scope of my duties and hours, that I a new person to this event didn't know about? Do you mind if I let HR about this?"

[@benjaminneal8050]

H.R. would give this jerk of a boss possible termination cuz they’re forcing you to do something after work hours. That in my opinion is complete bs

[@jessieBird96]

Story 3: having a secret bank account from your spouse is so skeevy, he's working hard to support you and your boys and you think it's ok to take that money for yourself? That's not cool at all, and you, AITJ are wrong that he's in the wrong, she is the one keeping secrets and going behind his back, considering that money was his that he made from his job, she's pretty much stealing from him. Story 4: girl, go sh*t in your own bathroom, jeez 🙄🙄🙄

[@willisgordon2449]

Don't get your panties in a wad.

[@hectormarquez2402]

​@@willisgordon2449ok kid

[@kskidspastor]

It stopped being a civil matter and became a criminal matter when she acknowledged that she was threatening them.

[@jasoncarpp7742]

*Story 1:* That's crazy! I've never lived in an apartment or a condominium, but I would think that however quiet one tries to be, there's going to be noise to come with the place. If crazy karen thought she was going to get perfectly quiet time, she'll be sorely disappointed.

[@anitachiquita70]

Story #3-I agree the husband should not have looked at the wife's bank account but what she did, transferring money from their joint bank account to her account is just as bad.

[@cybermainstream]

Do you not know what a JOINT bank account is? He didn't look at her account. He looked at THEIR account.

[@Randomcontentreposts]

@@cybermainstreamshe had a separate bank account from the JOINT account that he looked at did you not listen to the damn story the whole thing was about a SEPERATE account from the joint account

[@anitachiquita70]

@@cybermainstream You need to listen to the video again. After he saw the withdrawals from their joint account he confronted the wife. She eventually fessed up but would not let the husband see her private account on the computer. The next morning while she was sleeping the husband takes the bank card from the wife's private account out of her wallet. He goes to an ATM and says she always uses the same PIN for all her accounts so he was able to log in and view the balance of her private account. Such a shame I have to explain this all to you. So much typing lol. Like I said listen to the video again and BTW I do know what a joint account is lol.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

@@anitachiquita70 no you need to look at the story again.

[@viviennemorgan7217]

wow so you agree with the narrator you're wrong for that.

[@lekni8633]

Story 3: terrible take by the narrator. the wife is committing theft from the family and is completely in their right to investigate the matter

[@Juzokinnie]

On the bank account story: It sounds like the whole relationship is unhealthy based on the limited details. I definitely think there's something going on but it's hard to tell whose doing what. Either OP's wife is up to something very sketchy (dr*gs, gambling, etc) or he's very financially controlling/ab*sive, it's just difficult to tell which it is.

[@gotenblack2542]

story 3 here we got with the simping aguin the wife keeping something as big as that is a major flag she is taking money form there shared one to fill her own i dont care if is bad that he checked it if he haven't she keep it up and like you have kids am sure the joint one is used to help in the future with their collage the wife is the bad one here not the op

[@sammistar4894]

If I was the husband I would start pooping in the wife’s bathroom 😂 but thats just me being petty lol

[@chelsicurrier2786]

The last story i read through his other posts on his reddit. Its adorable its almost all about his wife lol

[@princessmarlena1359]

A downstairs tenant such as that just makes it much more fun for me to torment. I’ve had those type of awful downstairs/below neighbors, and when they bang on a wall and tel me to be quiet, I make even MORE noise. And I love doing it.

[@LunaP1]

The neighbor sounds like a paranoid schizophrenic or has paranoid delusions. Either way, she's nuts.

[@chrisbook7938]

It's totally normal for spouses to have personal bank accounts outside of a joint account, but it should never be a secret from the other person that they have the account, that's where the issue comes from. Wife is in the wrong here, not the OP

[@sati5130]

Story 3: if my partner was taking money from OUR account and I’m the breadwinner I would feel betrayed and honesty that’s suspicious Asf, she could’ve at least say something instead of going behind his back

[@Lucas-ky4cn]

Story 3: Like many other watchers i disagree with the narrator Just from the first the sentence that the wife is putting money from the shared account into her private one... That made so many alarm bells go off in my head. Like what do you (narrator) mean "it is controlling bevavior of the OP" ? He has legitimate reason to suspect something bad from this ! His wife is seriously draining their shared bank account ! Story 4: Respect to the OP/husband to not go straight ahead an do the same disgusting thing in his wife´s bathroom to show her what he has to endure. That is seriously D.I.S.G.U.S.T.I.N.G !!! Story 5: While i would have first asked my boss and coworkers about what is planned that was not sheduled, i do fully understand the OP. I recently also had some rather uncomfortable situations where i wasd with a friend of mine and some of his buddies. I felt really like the unwanted fith wheel and only really spoke with my friend. After he wanted to meet again in this group i straight up told him i am not doing this. I explained that i do not hate his friends (two of them are not quite to my liking in thier personality but whatever) but i would rather spend time with only us two than feeling quite literally miserable in this group where only he speaks to me. But back to the story. If it is not in the shedule and not mentioned before do not blame the OP for making plans he will actually enjoy. And if it was me i would have totally told the boss to try and punish me for not attending this last dinner. That will end up in court

[@viviennemorgan7217]

the wife keeps dragging and dropping dollars from her and her husband's joint bank account.

[@socks9641]

Story 3 sounds like a get out fund tbfh.

[@mason4318]

Third one was borderline manipulative. Surprised he actually sided with the wife Also she’s literally stealing so yes, the op is justified

[@AnimeGamer501st]

Lmao why are you surprised he literally sides with women who are obviously someone in the wrong he's a simp. He's done so on many occasions I guess you just haven't been paying attention.

[@guysome1]

the bank in my opinion, might mean that she will run away and try to get all the money, or she spending it on things that they dont want them to see

[@victornelson6016]

To the guy who's wife craps in his toilet: Never put the seat down!

[@cybermainstream]

Even better. Bolt that sucker up

[@LunaP1]

😂

[@brianrogers7360]

That 1st story. I would have gone off that bench. And report her to management. And, of course. The cops don't want their donut break interrupted Story 3. Talk to HR about this. Report the boss. If you're not on the clock, he can't order you around. And ANY retaliation can be punished

[@AugustaSleepy]

Thanks for the video

[@crystal768]

Should have held video call with wife from dinner with coworkers 🤣 start by explqining to wife these are my coworkers say hi and told her boss said there would be repercussions if i didnt join them in front of coworkers

[@rlywtfdude]

For the bathroom one I'd say for dude to use her bathroom for #1, leave the seat up, and don't wipe off if anything sprinkles around. That way they'll have separate #1 and #2 bathrooms that will be distinctly yellow and brown respectively 😂

[@amgadpro]

That's the first time i ever hear *"Cute"* in this man's video

[@richardperks7776]

Story #2. I know very well the after hours Karens. I work at a store where the main colours are blue and yellow, we’re connected to the mall but not necessarily “part” of the mall as we have our own hours of operation. Anyways, we’ve had people banging on the closed “mall entrance” screaming about “why are the doors closed!! You’re open, I see people shopping in there!!! Let me in!!!”

[@Leostar-Regalius]

that first story, there has to be something wrong with her since she's the only one going to the door complaining when if she wasn't alone the other person would do it to, she also never says who's with her

[@11rahimis1234]

Last story. I would go to HR and report the boss fort he threat. Make sure that it is on their record. This will surely annoy them but if they try anything afterwards catch them in the act and make sure to report that as well. This would teach them not to mess with you.

[@bobm5951]

Story 3 - OP did nothing wrong but his wife certainly did. Her behavior is shady as hell. He needs to remove all his money from the joint account and put it in one only he has access to since she shouldn't be trusted anymore. Story 4 - Screw her preference. Lock her out of there. She has her own to use.

[@caroleharrison8884]

The wife moved HIS money without telling him... Is she planning on taking off with a new boyfriend!? Trust destroyed!

[@Unbreakable_Spirit01]

Story 1 something similar happened to friends of mine who were roommates and their downstairs neighbor did the same thing the male Karen said “yeah and I’m not gonna stop ” and that guy said that he wanted them to lay in bed all day and loose their jobs or die of starvation. Thankfully neither of them live there anymore.

[@MeMe-tw4xb]

Story 3: I don’t think the husband is morally wrong or controlling, but I do think that perhaps what he did is illegal, which makes it wrong. Since the bank account is under her name. It does sound like she didn’t do anything sus with that bank account, so maybe she just wants some independence. But the fact that she has to hide it from the husband warrants some questions. Maybe they need to sit down and have a talk about financial independence and whatnot. And of course her secretly transferring money is basically theft. There’s a lot of wrong in this story tbh.

[@alpha-sama]

Story 3: No, OP is not the jerk. The wife is practically stealing money and putting it somewhere only she has access to. This money belongs to OP just as much as it does to her. And him wanting to know where this money is going does not make him controlling. Story 4: I see what's happening here. I don't know why but some women can be really weird about bathrooms (thinking of them as their sacred havens or something) and the thought of shitting in them. She uses her husband's bathroom for that because otherwise it would 'ruin the magic'. That's not that big of a deal if the husband is okay with it, but the fact she seemingly doesn't flush is gross and disrespectful. So I don't blame the husband for installing a lock. If the wife can't respect his space, then no way is she getting access to it.

[@albertgongora6944]

Is may be possible that the wife is having an affair and she needed to make herself a secret account to use all that money to eventually have her stuff situated for just in case things didn't go the way she wanted to but the affair partner maybe that's just me but I feel like that's what's going on because nobody just starts having a secret account unless you know it's just money that they want for themselves

[@Juzokinnie]

It could be that he's financially abusive and she's trying to escape. Either way, something is going on. Either the wife is doing something very sketchy or OP is ab*sive and trying not to let it on.

[@MegaRedspade]

Reminds me of the family guy scene of the lonely widower

[@Amber417]

Story 4: D I S G U S T A N G

[@LunaP1]

Your comment made me think of that meme.😅

[@Ominvus]

Story 3: So far, a lot of people are in agreement on this. Op is not the jerk and the wife acting sus. The wife never gave an explanation to why she made another back account without op's knowledge. Odds are she is building enough money to divorce op and didn't want him to find out until it's too late. Feels like she's the controlling one and isn't getting what she wants so she is taking what she wants. Story 4: Seriously? What is up with wives on today's video. On wow, you don't want to clean up your mess so you go do it in your husband's toilet. If it was 3 other people using that then I would understand but she gets pissed that her toilet has to get cleaned after she uses it. She is so entitled. You both agreed on the bathrooms and yet when it comes to your other crap you give it to you husband. Good for op to what they agreed on and taught her a lesson on cleaning your own mess. Story 5: Well that's BS. Those co-workers and boss are complete asses. They just spring this group dinner on op last minute thinking he didn't have plans. If it was important to the group and seeing that op was never with them from pervious conferences, they could have told him about it a head of time and then try convincing him on going. But no, they gave him an ultimatum on going. That's just toxic type of behavior on my books. I would have said to my boss if I was forced into that situation I would say "If you are telling me who I value more, this job or my spouse, I value my spouse instead. If you wanted me to be your friend then this is the wrong way on making friends. If you want write me up or fire me, then go right ahead. I can take on what you can dish out. Just remember that H.R. and my lawyer will hear about it." I can see that op's point that he doesn't spend time with these coworkers outside the conference and I get it. What's the point on spending time with people you are just going to spend time for that week and never spend with them after that. They aren't going to bump into each other in a hall. Why is it so important to them that op needs to be with them if he doesn't want to? He tolerates all of you and isn't going to be your friend after this and most definitely going to avoid you all after that threat. I just don't get it why they are forcing op into a dinner that is all about spending time with each other if they already did for the pass few dinners? What's the point?

[@AnimeGamer501st]

For story 3: see kids this is why you don't have a joint account with your significant other.

[@chalise.x]

If op was to have his own secret account from his wife that would have been a different story people would say oh hes cheating hes planning on leaving but because she's a female its fine. If she wanted her own account she should have spoken to her husband.

[@shoshiebauder3810]

Love the vids

[@user-rc4ym9dt8j]

Listen my upstairs neighbor walks hard and bangs and is annoying asf at 4am I never once reported her or never once knocked on my ceiling like a idiot

[@bsouthmama3010]

The last story, he’s not a jerk for not wanting to go to the dinner. He is however a jerk for how he told his boss and coworkers

[@tylercanales5794]

Something I find absolutely funny about the first story is at my mom’s apartment. She has a neighbor that that is exactly the same way, but the best part is she has calm down because her downstairs neighbor is the manager of the apartment. My mom lives at so I just found this story so funny because it’s relatable for me. A story I do wanna point out that I agree with that the original post the original poster was in the wrong is the bank account one and I don’t agree with joint bank accounts in my own personal opinion because I feel there’s too many stories like this one where it’s like me and my significant other have a joint bank account but then I get mad when my significant other takes out money from our joint account like the only person only one person has the right to that money and I don’t agree with it. It’s called a draw. So it is both peoples money going into the account so both people have a right to take money out

[@oliverthomas373]

story 1: SHES BEING LOUDER THAN YOU!

[@TATs_TDP]

story one: how tall is the karen to be able to constantly bang the ceiling whilst moving around the house 💀💀

[@x100roundsoffun]

Number 3 Not a jerk i would be suspicious as well if money was going into a separate account.

[@QuickManEXE]

Story 1: That Karen is just trying to cause some sort of drama here. I get that need to be quiet and courteous to your neighbours, but the OP and her bf were doing everything to be as quiet as possible... the Karen just had a bug up her ass for absolutely no reason, and whats the deal with her saying that she's be followed? Thats so stupid. I dont get why the OP didn't call the cops beforehand over harassment, or the landlord kicking her out over being a nuisance. Story 2: It's always crazy, stupid, lying, entitled people that leave bad reviews like this.... its just awful. It's the absolute worst at restaurants, but this toy store is just as bad. The OP is definitely not in the wrong here. After a couple minutes, i would've called mall security on them. Good thing the place had cameras and the manager didnt get upset at the OP, and hopefully they can get that bad review removed. Story 3: If she has this secret account, then what else is secret to her? If she's moving money from a joint account to this 'secret' account, then something very shady is going on here.... you can almost bet here that she is either cheating or planning a divorce. She shouldn't be hiding a bank account like this. Story 4: Honestly, if the wife is taking a dump in the OP's toilet, he should 100% take a dump in her toilet.... its only fair! I think the lock on the bathroom door is rather stupid, but it is warranted here. The wife is really being obnoxious here. Story 5: Yeah, i would've dared that boss to try and discipline me over not wanting to go to dinner too. They didnt say beforehand that attendance in this dinner was required... and even then, that's pretty lame. I understand having to all be together for the conference itself, but once you are off the clock, you aren't required to spend a single minute with them. I would be looking for a different job too if i were the OP, that place sounds like a crappy place to work at.

[@Fiercetits]

Story 3, so it’s totally okay with the narrator for the wife to take money from their account and put in in a secret account but asking questions and checking that account is suddenly controlling and a breach of trust? That makes zero sense, what a bad take.

[@invertedparadoxxx5687]

Narrator is somewhat a white knight when it comes to women in certain stories I have noticed and goes hard to bat for them even if they are 100% in the wrong.

[@Fiercetits]

@@invertedparadoxxx5687 Same! I’m glad I’m not the only one who sees that, I skip his videos when I hear him sometimes.

[@greytala]

STORY 1: when my husband and I were living in apartments, we always rent the one on the top floor, just so we didn’t have to listen to our upstairs neighbor. My the neighbor in the story she rent or buy a house.

[@dratinibro1999]

The last story was totally black mail

[@JenniferJohnson-l3r]

Story 1: I would by a Rumba for each room and time them to go off random times of the day and night

[@Skotadios]

Story 2: not hard to reply to the review with: lady we can post the cctv camera footage showing that you were extremely aggressive towards the nice employees

[@devontyrell1969]

I've come to terms that most the time the narrator is a Pander Bear but maybe they are trying to hit a certain demographic to appease

[@nezukofan4549]

i just realised you sound like lets game it out

[@ChariTheAlternate]

The first story feels familiar

[@coreyouellette6889]

And it's not her hard earned money

[@KadeStringer2.0]

Last story op isn’t really in the wrong but the wife has a right to have a private bank account.

[@PixalizeYT]

Narrater is dead wrong for the 3rd story like bro be fr she stole money from his account wich is all his money and then she proceeded to put that stolen money in a secret bank account and refused to show her purchases you said it was a violation of trust that he looked in her bank account bro it was a violation of trust that she stole his money and put it in a secret account i dont know if your stupid or what but the op in the 3rd story is in the right your dead wrong😂

[@BarcodeProject777]

perfectly said 🎉

[@coverblader2108]

I have to agree with the majority on story 3 Obviously we don’t have enough details on the relationship however I do think the wife taking money out without saying anything is weird and sketchy

[@tm_x3buds]

Can anyone see the 13 days ago comments or is it me

[@summerwindsnap]

why is this video unlisted? Weird

[@nohairraies8763]

Yahhhh

[@theguardian5432]

sorry dude you're wrong, you're assuming she isnt taking any of his money secretly sorry Narrator.

[@MrHinishiokami]

With story 3... The narrator has pretty crappy take. I don't think he's a asshole. It's not like he didn't ask and they have joint accounts so it's both their money in that account that she's at this point stealing from op. Idk man this narrator grinds my gears sometime

[@a.edmonstone2003]

Dude turned the 3rd story against Op. The wifes taking money from the both of them without the knowledge of the other person involved. But sure make it the guys fault for not being able to trust her after that

[@robertparsons7669]

The third one I think it is okay he looked how Much was in there cause he the one who works so she should not be taking the money

[@tm_x3buds]

Why does it say 13 day ago with the comments

[@averagemufcenjoyer2371]

The video was hidden and it's back now

[@tm_x3buds]

Ok

[@guilhermechapela8400]

For some reason multiple videos get unlisted. Why tho?

[@OnyxGD1]

you're early!

[@Outbreak-px7zf]

Im sorry if my wife was taking money out of my account or our account and putting it to her own needs then screw it im dissolving the bank account taking my money and putting it in my own bank account ill give her bills to pay with her own money and pay bills with mine. Trying to keep it proportional to salary but if she wants anything more than the basic stuff she pays for it.

[@deepseastonecore3017]

Story 3 the lady can get a jod

[@OnyxGD1]

another unlisted video? ok!

[@WadeTheWilsonTV]

And then your advice is to talk to her he already talked to her and she refused to talk that's why he had to resort to looking through her s*** in secret no you're a flat out wrong about this is it just sexist or specific as he's the man and so you have to assume that he's a bad guy for doing this no she could be a drug addict a gambling addict she's stealing from him because that is their money she's stealing from the relationship and keeping it for herself that's wrong if he was doing it and she was looking through your through his s*** she would be justified

[@gotenblack2542]

bro so true i hate this narrator he simps so much for girls in these story's am glad people and seeing this like it is

[@chalise.x]

Sorry but op wifr is nasty to leave marks in the toilet and not even think oh maybe i should clean it.

[@joeroman7496]

On story number 3 I don't know. If you're the biggest p****, or you're the biggest idiot. Her stealing money isn't weird. It's a serious problem. She forced him to look in her account. And why do you assume that hes keeping money from her? Stop assuming

[@fadedintellectog0374]

You have the worst takes on almost every situation…are you okay?

[@zipidy9699]

cool also first

[@tm_x3buds]

Why does it say first

[@tm_x3buds]

13 days i meant not first

[@Vfor__]

i dont like this narrator he takes it too far from needed and is clear that he doesnt know much/doesnt think much how basically stealing what stopped her from talking to her husband at anypoint about a seperate account and asked if it could be private (i dont think she had to ask for it to private if she did ask i dont think her husband wouldnt ask) and i do think she is hiding something and sorry but other than cheathing nothing comes to my mind. She can have a seperate account but being secretive about it? i think he should get a divorce if she doesnt say something for something as simple as having an account lets say a piggy bank she doesnt trust her husband which is suprising that they are married.

[@xene_o_o]

could the narrot pls stop simping for women at listen to what their saying. All what you saig HE AREADY DID. She is basicly stealing his earned money because suprise she doesn't work. Just stop simping and think just one second bevore uttering your opinion. And this isnt a problem in this vIdeo but nearly every three videos im noticing the same behaivor

[@barxod32]

L spider-man swinging. rufus stories does it better