Mother-in-Law DEMANDS that my HUSBAND and SONS go on VACATION with HER...but I'M NOT INVITED

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@AmItheJerk 11 ай бұрын

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@imsubbingtoeveryonewhosubs5633 10 ай бұрын

@buddymartin7923 10 ай бұрын

This is bulls$%t. The husband should step up and tell his mom 'No. Thats my wife an if you can't respect the other half of me; you arent welcome around ANY of my family.' Drop the mic and walk away. If he wont do that; THERE is the problem.

@viviennemorgan7217 10 ай бұрын

i think that he's scared of her.

@arlenesmith7883 10 ай бұрын

Son has been raised and conditioned to do whatever his narcissist mom wanted. Otherwise he was reprimanded and treat like he was horrible…everyday & every way until he got in line! So he marrys and he doesn’t understand why his wife doesn’t do whatever mom says!!! Wife has grown up a well adjusted person and sees MIL for the narcissist she is. MIL will do anything (vacation without wife) to get back at her for not seeing how wonderful her (MIL) ideas are .. Husband really doesn’t see what’s happening! Been there! So sad

@Azulakayes 10 ай бұрын

Her boys should know about their nasty grandmother and their cowardly father, who as old as he is, is still suckling unlike them.

@iononcantomascrivo 10 ай бұрын

The last story: as someone who once upon a time spent many years in customer service, with a majority of it as a server, I can definitely attest that there are managers like this. I also had to serve a 10 top that came in late right before we closed. They were rude, demanding, pushy and they left a very insulting tip. Not only that, the manager gave me grief for leaving late after she forced me to take the table. I told her as much. I also told her to never make me close again if she was going to be so damn rude to me. I haven't worked for the company in years, but I still remember that tyrant of a manager. It's some consolation that I heard through the grapevine, that the Dolores Umbridge knockoff finally got fired. Good riddance.

@ambrosejoseph4843 10 ай бұрын

People should do pre-marriage interviews with people like this. This will not end well. Good luck!!!! The writing is on the wall.

@allwatchsomeshitpost 10 ай бұрын

Not really family? Husband getting pissy? Leave that family, take your sons and get the hell away. It is unfair to not get invited even though said sons can come along. The fact that the husband got mad when OP told him about this is disturbing.

@Bee_devourer 10 ай бұрын

Red flags everywhere 🚩

@sararoby2566 10 ай бұрын

Also they're 8... so they'll be missing school if it's around Thanksgiving. I dont know a state that takes 2 weeks for Thanksgiving.

@immortalmangafan3565 10 ай бұрын

W pfp

@UnidentifiedArenaShark 10 ай бұрын

I don't think that is an option sadly. They seem to be in a poor financial situation, an I doubt op would win that case.

@verticallyminded 10 ай бұрын

OP needs to tell of her husband and mother in law. How on EARTH can you just validate your own wife being singled out on a trip, then get mad when wifey makes her feelings known. Clearly the husband in on this scheme. MIL is just a complete weirdo. Who in their RIGHT mind just singles out somebody because of relations? You can make it work you know? OP needs to go "Listen MIL, I need to come as well, you can't just leave me and the husband gets to go with the kids - what sense would that make?"

@dutchvanderbilt9969 10 ай бұрын

Story 3: why the hell should the original poster have to apologize if they did nothing wrong. Their partner was the one who said that they had their key when they didn't.

@dovydasdaunoravicius1836 10 ай бұрын

If your manager accepts customers after closing, your manager can serve them. He can also cook the food and clean up.

@QuickManEXE 10 ай бұрын

Im willing to bet that "manager" doesn't know how to do anything there.

@QuickManEXE 10 ай бұрын

Story 1: The OP is absolutely not a jerk here, but the MIL and husband sure are. Its pretty obvious how the MIL feels here, but the fact that the husband is thinking the OP, his wife, is a jerk for saying that the MIL doesn't like her is total crap. He should be standing up for the OP, not belittling her. I think this shows how much he cares about his family in the long run here. Story 2: Seriously, Jane is a complete jerk and drama queen.... and i'm honestly surprised she's even working there. She is 100% making a hostile work environment to the OP and probably other people as well. Malicious compliance, if you can really call it that, was pretty good, but i would be constantly going to the higher ups against her, or maybe even the labour board... and whats up with all the bible verses? This is all just unacceptable. Story 3: Accidents and mistakes happen. The bf shouldve made damn sure he had transport and his house keys, and the OP should've had the phone on vibrate or something. I think the bf should just cool off and move on. Story 4: I'll say my favorite 4 words here again "Right To Refuse Service!!!". You're already closed too. The manager here is a complete dullard and should've been the one dealing with this stupid entitled family, not the OP. The moment you're closed, you shouldve locked the doors so that no one else can get in. Being a professional cook over the last 20 years, i can tell you that cooks especially absolutely hate both customers and managers like this. Stuff like this is exactly why its hard to keep restaurant staff. Hopefully that family never comes back or got banned for all this.

@jasoncarpp7742 10 ай бұрын

Talk about crazy. I don't get why the in-laws don't like them. Sure they're Christian and she's not, so what? I don't get why OP's husband calls her a jerk for protesting their treatment. They're the jerks, not OP. They don't have to agree with her non-belief in God or in whatever religious deity, but to belittle her for that, that's so not okay.

@phantomm789 10 ай бұрын

1st story OP is an ahold she stoped her husband from sticking up for her and told the kiss they can go then dumps adult problems on 8year old realy 8y that is manipulating. A normal parent would not do that yes MI is an A HOLE but OP is at least as big a one for not stopping it to begin with then dumping on the kids

@RJB1013 10 ай бұрын

This woman needs to leave. I'm not normally one to advocate for divorce, but that's the best solution.

@bobm5951 10 ай бұрын

Story 1 - Right at the beginning, a story hasn't even fully started yet, the husband is an AH. If he's not going to side with you on it then get rid of him because he's as much of a problem as his mother.

@kunfussed213 10 ай бұрын

Blaming the kids for the boogers. We all know it were the parents who left them behind. 😡🤣

@princessmarlena1359 10 ай бұрын

🤣 I bet!

@elizabethknedler7292 10 ай бұрын

There's absolutely nothing wrong with saying I wasn't invited

@rebekah.2187 10 ай бұрын

The kids are 8 and have already picked up that their mom isn't excited about the trip. That means they assumed she was going too, which is why they didn't understand why she wasn't excited. If OP hadn't said anything, what happens when it's time to go and she isn't with them? They were going to see that their mom isn't coming and that's why she wasn't excited about the trip, and would likely ask questions. OP just gave them the truth before dad and grandma could make up some lies. That's what the dad is really mad about. The truth came out. He can't continue enabling his mother's behavior because the kids know the truth now and will call them out on it.

@raerose2278 10 ай бұрын

Congratulations AITJ for reaching 1.1m subscribers! Well deserved! Keep on moving up ⬆️ ❤🎉👏🍾🥂

@MrCaleb1354 10 ай бұрын

Story 1, the OP even said to her husband to not push it with his mother about her not coming along

@RedrumZombies 10 ай бұрын

Last Story: No the Cooks aren't the MVPs. It's the whole machine. The only useless person most of the time is the owner.

@michellecoleman5577 10 ай бұрын

first story: Op could have lied her ass off but children aren't stupid. They always see what adults try to hide, let alone the horrible stuff they do openly. I had a very close relationship with my grandmother at that age, but I have lost almost all respect over the years as I saw the true way my mother's family treats her as the servant for the rest of their selfish asses. The mil is ruining that relationship all by herself. And the husband's just useless.

@princessmarlena1359 10 ай бұрын

Last Story: I’ve worked at businesses where we’ve had entitled customers barging in after closing (or trying to). That’s why we had to just lock the doors ten to twenty minutes BEFORE actual closing times and turn the “Closed” sign around. We do this because it takes about ten to twenty minutes to lock up and shut down everything for the night (close/lock the security shutters, move the money from the registers to the drop safes, turn off the lights, clock out, set the burglar alarm, lock the employee entrance doors). We have had people shaking the doors, pounding on the doors, yelling, swearing at us, or even being so obnoxious as to open the mail slot and shout “HEL-LOOOO? I see you in there!” or they breathe on the glass and write “Hi!” to annoy us.

@apensalesman 10 ай бұрын

I've had this so much when I worked in retail at the mall. We'd pre-count the registers to close them, start to lower the gate a little 5 to 10 min before closing and as soon as time hit, close and lock that sucker. And 5 to 20 minutes later families would show up at the gate asking why we closed at our scheduled time and how they were supposed to know we'd do that.

@LilAngelPrincess95 10 ай бұрын

To the server who had to serve the family after closing: next time tell the manager to serve them themselves if they are going to accommodate customers after hours.

@Nyghtking 10 ай бұрын

In that situation, after seeing the mess they made, I probably would have told the woman after she said "looks like you'll have have a time cleaning this up" I would have been like, "actually no, see you're about to teach my manager a lesson, because i'm going to quit and he's going to have to clean up after you, so maybe he'll learn not to let people in after closing." Then go to the manager and tell him "Hey, you'll be cleaning up after that family tonight, because if you don't then i'm going to quit and you'll have to do it anyway."

@pla1nswalk3r 10 ай бұрын

Story 4: Yeah, no. Manager can stay and serve them, I'm going home.

@sicilianprincess-tm5nz 10 ай бұрын

Story one,your husband is totally wrong he is a jerk for turning his back on his wife. And yes, your kids should know. If his mother doesn't take the whole family, they are both jerks. Story 2 Jane is a jerk and someone who is jealous of you. Story 3, your boyfriend was a jerk he should always make sure he takes the key. And you shouldn't have to apologize because you needed rest as well. Story 4, the manager, is a jerk for allowing the customer come in when they are closed.

@alpha-sama 10 ай бұрын

Story 1: Not to excuse the husband or MIL's awful behavior, but OP definitely made a mistake in dumping her feelings onto her EIGHT year old kids. A good parent supports the kids, not the other way around. At that age, they should NEVER have to be burdened with issues between the adults.

@brimfire7536 10 ай бұрын

Nah, don't call telling the TRUTH a "mistake". Fuck off with that.

@taz598 10 ай бұрын

Story 1 NTA but if I was OP I'd pack my kids up and move out and tell Husband he can go play house with his mommy but that I will be filing for full custody and a restraining order against his mother.

@mykaelnyx8821 10 ай бұрын

When it came to the last story, I would have slid the penny back across the table and said something like "Oh no sir it's clear you need this more than I do..."

@johnnymcneal5914 10 ай бұрын

If you're married to this man that makes you family like it or not that's no excuse to leave you out of the trip

@bunnylover9245 10 ай бұрын

Story one: OP was fine not going even if it stung, you shouldn't trauma dump on your kids. She had an opportunity to halt the trip entirely or express how upset she ACTUALLY WAS to HER HUSBAND and SHE DIDN'T. You make your bed, you lie in it. If your husband doesn't support you WHEN you put your foot down, yeah fuck him. But that's not what happened here, and so many other comments are missing that.

@SMDoktorPepper 10 ай бұрын

Its not a coincidence with their mythology, it is a feature. They despise everyone not involved in their club, and will never see where they are wrong

@H3xx99 10 ай бұрын

For the doorbell story, Um Yeah, I text the person I want to see, rather than ringing the doorbell.

@Wildwyatt286 10 ай бұрын

I remember when this channel had only 20k subs this channel has grown so much

@TiFan86 10 ай бұрын

So many stories where the husband chooses his birth family than the new family he’s creating. At this point I’m saying if your husband chooses his mom over the woman who birthed his kids. The woman needs to leave.

@DINO-9843 10 ай бұрын

For the late night worker thing, my dad almost 50 mother also close to 50 rarely take keys when going out

@Nyghtking 10 ай бұрын

I can already figure what the MIL in the first story intends, if she can get away with that she'll probably move on to inviting everyone except the OP to holidays and anything else the MIL can exclude her from while hanging out with OP's husband and their kids. I wouldn't be surprised if at some point she then tried to convince the OP's husband to divorce her as well.

@lizziekaptain843 9 ай бұрын

1st story: Unless it's agreed on ahead of time, it is ok to leave either parent behind. It's one thing to give a parent a break. Leaving either behind for 2 WEEKS is not ok. Also, the kids would figure out what's happening. Even if their mom didn't say anything. Maybe how it came out wasn't ok, but that's about it.

@rebeccahayward9607 10 ай бұрын

The last story: I've fortunately never had a suck up manager before like this before. When I worked in hospo, once the restaurant was closed, the light outside went off and the doors were locked. Last call was usually about 30 minutes before our posted close times, and by closing time, bar and kitchen were always packed up and cleaned. The managers knew not to piss off the kitchen staff.

@Regden1000 10 ай бұрын

The first story. The mother in law is the jerk for not inviting the OP and the husband is also the jerk for not taking his wife's side also the wife simply told the truth to her children since the husband and mother in law are deeply religious they should be glad the OP told the truth instead of sinfully lying to her kids.

@Soul_Reaper_L4 10 ай бұрын

i could understand not telling them but the kids asked. the right thing to do is answer them truthfully. unless the father likes lying.

@lanascrapaddict2044 10 ай бұрын

Her feelings are legitimate, but she should not have unloaded to her sons like that

@Jesi310 10 ай бұрын

The MIL sounds like a narcissist

@BrainInAJarStudio 10 ай бұрын

In my opinion the wife's feelings are valid and should leave the family and take the kids out of that enviroment, however I think the wife should of been a little more tactful abput explaing it to her sons. I dont like the idea of lying to kids but she could of told them that she was busy with work or that the money wasnt there for her to go too instead of engaging in similar behavior as her mother in law.

@AdrianSanchez-yq2gd 10 ай бұрын

I'm not the best person to give my opinion on the first story but think talking bad about a family member or relative to children isn't that good to do because then those kids will start to not like that family member.

@redditreads1878 10 ай бұрын

In story 1: the OP is 100% NOT the jerk, I think being honest with your kids is actually the right thing to do

@phantomm789 10 ай бұрын

Yes be honest with your kids when there 16 not 8 second she told her husband to stop making waves as to not effect the vacation you allowing your family to schedule the vacation and telling you spouse to stop depending you then to bring an 8 year old into an adult fight makes her an a hole and is likely one of the reasons she is not invited. If you think bringing your id's into a fight you let happen is OK you maybe manipulative yourself

@Smug-Senpai 5 ай бұрын

The first story and the commens here dissapoint me soo much on how sexist everyone has been. And how one sided on "women are never wrong" people are. Yes the Mother in Law is a bad person and that has no excuse BUT blaming the father is such a disgusting stance to take. He told her what the MIL wanted to do and even tho OP said "Its okay I know the kids will love it" he knew she wasnt and TRIED to get the MIL to reconsider and the mother still said "stop" which he did. BUT THEN she throws it into the kids face to actually feel guilty for being happy, excited an looking forward to the trip. That is behavior from a disgraceful parent. Im disgust at how many people are defending her for using her kids as manipulation tools. Do better people. Disgusting.

@smalcheems 10 ай бұрын

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@Dude_Thats_So_Cool 5 ай бұрын

My Dad and I had a keys wallet phone to a little tune.

@JP-eh4ee 10 ай бұрын

Last story: i hate that family

@dracko158 10 ай бұрын

Story 1: Bro, if my own husband says I am a jerk for opening up about my feelings and siding with his obviously jerk MIL, I would be revaluating my marriage with this douchebag. Like, HE wasn't the one that's not invited, OP is! If I were the husband, I would tell my mom that "NO, you do NOT disrespect my wife like that, if she doesn't get to go with us, neither will me and my kids! Either she comes with us, or the trip's off!" Oh, so *I* am the one being selfish? NO. You're the one that's selfish here!

@kballard27 10 ай бұрын

story 1 100% N T A the HUSBAND needs t tell his mom IF MY WIFE ISN'T NVITED THAN I'M NOT GOING AS WELL TAKE IT OR LEAVE IT she's FAMIY GET OVER IT if he can't tell her that DIVORCE HIM NOW!

@rashadharrison4095 10 ай бұрын

Story 1: if I were in the op’s shoes, I would honestly have a trip for myself only and not invite the husband and mil. The MIL can’t get upset since they’re “not really family”.

@user-yn9fs9rr8f 10 ай бұрын

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@theironscorpion2128 10 ай бұрын

What is the game playing in the background?

@tyshawnbacchus8546 10 ай бұрын

How's the husband a jerk he tried to get his mother to invite her she told him to drop it and it's his fault that dosent make sense

@GiordanDiodato 10 ай бұрын

It's called respect

@tyshawnbacchus8546 10 ай бұрын

@GiordanDiodato I get why he got mad tho because how are you going to tell your husband to stop pushing his mom and them turn around and still be be angry for not going

@viviennemorgan7217 10 ай бұрын

@@tyshawnbacchus8546 it's probably because the husband shouldn't be in an argument with his mother in front of the sons.

@MegaRedspade 10 ай бұрын

Make a better vacation to top mil

@sebastianmedina3128 10 ай бұрын

I dont think its this big deal everyones making it to be i dont think mother in law has to buy her a ticket and I also don't think they're family they have no blood or emotional relationship now kids and husband do so I perfectly understand this mother in laws point why she isn't inviting her but she isn't putting bad words about the kids grandma in the kids head that's different and messed up maybe why you're not family 🤷‍♂️

@mitchellboland8978 10 ай бұрын

Story 1, Yes, you are the Jerk. I understand feeling bitter and annoyed, but you dont drag the kids into it and make them feel guilty. Your mother-in-law is a kerk for singling you out and your husband is just being a cop-out. All I can say is set better boundaries with your husband and mother-in-law.

@thefench1 10 ай бұрын

Story 1: Husband and Mother in Law are the absolute Jerks, and yeah, op got a vulnerable moment, but still, telling your kids that in That way is a taboo, at least lie to the kids and say you can't leave work behind or something

@reeseturner7525 10 ай бұрын

Then they both can lie to the kids instead of knowing how narcissistic their dad and grandma is. I would've done the same because if their grandma gets away with this, Imagine what she would get away with down the line.

@thefench1 10 ай бұрын

dont get me wrong , get the divorce , but not on childs backs@@reeseturner7525

@zaskarr 10 ай бұрын

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@insertname-rw9bo 10 ай бұрын

Pls let me be in ur vid my story is AITJ for pushing a Karen in the sea?

@viviennemorgan7217 10 ай бұрын

dude mother in law thinks that her daughter in law isn't family like come on man, she said that the husband her own son and grandsons are her family and not op, like op is married to your son and she is part of your family

@viviennemorgan7217 10 ай бұрын

who tells their daughther or son in law that they're not part of their family

@dianekay8771 10 ай бұрын

Then 1/2 of the twins are not her family either. No you are not the AH.

@Mike_stuy 10 ай бұрын

Everyone in story 1 is a jerk except for the kids. Yes it is messed up that the mil is doing what she is, but for her to tell her 8 year old kids that the reason she isnt coming is cause grandma hates her is also messed up. It would be no different than a parent going into full detail to their young kids about what their other parent did to make them get divorced