An Affair from Emotional to Physical | Marriage Today | Jimmy Evans

At the heart an affair really has to do with secrecy, deception and betrayal. One big issue is the amount of emotional energy that is given to the other person that is taken away from one's spouse.
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[@betsyquiles9218]

Please pry for my marriage I feel like is falling apart. The devil is liar to say it will never be the same. I need prying warriors on my side and help me pry . God bless you Jimmy Evans for these teaching.

[@jameswilliams-of3mv]

...great message.. so many marriages today fall apart so fast..we all need God now

[@anna_makarchuk]

I totally agree with you. 🙏

[@MrTrevorjc1]

This message is spot on Listen to it often as a learn to forgive my wifes affair and save our marriage

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[@AL_FARID_23]

God bless this comment

[@evanm076]

Br encouraged. 🙏

[@lochan8180]

FOR MARRIED PEOPLE: The feeling that you get in an affair can NEVER be love. Love comes from God, the same God who designed marriage and commanded us to honor it. I truly believe that God will not contradict Himself and put love in your heart for someone else other than your spouse. The feeling you have for the other person can be LUST, ATTRACTION, ADMIRATION, or any other feeling that satan will USE to destroy your marriage (and push you to commit a SIN by breaking the VOW that you made before God). The devil will make you believe that what you feel for this other person is love when in fact it really ISN'T. That's what satan does. That's the reason he's called a LIAR and a DESTROYER.

[@hannahonovwakpor6316]

This is true

[@jillanderson3037]

Please read Exodus 22:16. Fornication is when a woman marries a man who didn't take her virginity. Thank you!

[@julalainelagat8939]

How I treat my body is how I will treat my husband's body. No one should disrespect it, no emotional and physical should happen.

[@CornerTalker]

1. Something makes a person lean away from his or her marriage; a person turns his or her heart away from the spouse. 2. There is an awareness of another person. 3. Innocent meetings with that person open the door for flirting. 4. Meetings become intentional and planned by one of the people. 5. While in a group setting, the two people linger together in conversation. 6. The conversation shifts to their feelings. 7. The two people meet alone under the guise of a legitimate purpose. 8. The two people meet alone for pleasure. 9. Playful touching begins; embraces become affectionate. 10. Embraces become passionate. 11. Adultery happens. 12. Adulterous relationship becomes public.

[@brightpage1020]

Thank you. Right on.

[@rachaelireland9467]

A Christian relationship expert said it like this..."intimacy is a set of disciplines." It makes sense. Faith and purposeful and intentional action. Just making a choice every day to speak with respect to my husband and truly believe in him. I need a willing and obedient heart. It's not easy but I believe there are incomparable rewards.

[@patriciacarrasco]

the heart is deceitful and desperately wicked above all things, who can know it?.....many times we dont even know WHY we do things and have "good" conscious intentions, but bad subconscious intentions

[@jackjones3657]

If our number one relationship is with God, who will never turn his heart away from us, then every need of feeling wanted and valued is already met.

[@Seven.And.The.RaggedTiger]

I need prayers please,my wife is at this point,I dont how far,I have heard from mutual friends(Christian friends) that she had been talking to a guy,and they had kissed,they said "as far as we've heard,thats as far as it went) that was 2 weeks before Christmas,more time has gone by,we still are living together but there's an incredible disconnect in her heart towards me,I can feel it

[@sherrymitchell6826]

Hard to do that when every time I try to talk the response is I don’t want to argue but when he needs to talk I listen , I have no desire for any other man ,It’s been like this for over 20 years, god is my rock he keeps me going even when I feel alone .

[@myracrosby1186]

Just divorce them. Life is too short to put up with a cheater.

[@myrasarrekadianzaba2372]

Wow what a teaching 👌👌👌👌

[@christinan005]

Wrong adultery is cheating in the mind also. It's in the bible. Adultery is not jst the sexual act.it is emotional and even the inappraproiate thoughts of the other person. Ur only to have eyes for your spouse. Read ur bible

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[@rebekahbutts6383]

Amen to that! I absolutely agree! And little to no people agree with me in that!

[@amyhammit1073]

But, what if your spouse is verbally and physically abusive? Does God really want me to work it out? I don’t think so.

[@piyabiswas9475]

Beautiful...

[@victoriagrow647]

Amazing

[@jaydixson1731]

So true

[@reinavirtucio2229]

From emotional to physical. T shirt and bikini.

[@brightpage1020]

What do you do when it’s too late? Divorce?

[@rebekahbutts6383]

I dont think its accurate to say men need one thing and woman need one thing...because my husband and I are opposite, my top needs are sex, respect and honor, and communication... and his top is not sex.. so there is no marrage counseling out there for someone in my situation where I play more of the man role sometimes...

[@overcomer4226]

I'm like you. Not easy. Havent ever had a real relationship. Woman on the outside, but with some masculine ideas and needs. Think it was because I spent more time with Dad than Mom. Best to you.

[@yoyogaspa2]

It's a general rule. Both Men and women need more of what he talked about.

[@misspriss2482]

The message still applies. The point is that both spouses in a marriage need to learn each other and meet each other's needs. If both people strive to put each other first, the marriage has a better chance of thriving.

[@stingray9126]

So you are constantly in your masculine and your husband is in his feminine? I'm confused here. What's the order of your husband?

[@eileenpillmeier3270]

Addiction

[@higiniocantres7514]

How can I win my wife back . She lives with her mother and her mother and I don't get along. We h a very been separated for 7 months and when we talk about getting back together. Someone keeps her away from me. I know there is a friend and her mother gets along with him. I am tying so hard to keep my marriage but I'm starting to th think there's no winning as long as she remains beeping destructive from what she needs to focus on. Don't know what else to do.

[@mamabambina3829]

Higinio Cantres Give it to Jesus. He will show you.

[@melissaweigh4508]

I'm kinda where u are. My husband took a job that requires him to be there 700 mi away. Never talked to me abt it before he thought abt it. His parents also live close to there so he stays with them an they've always been apeoblem. Now he can work from home and his parents health has declined so he has to be there almost full time for that. I'm disabled and in probably some ways worse than they are and raising our kids which are now grown. I'm lonely and pretty well done. Not sure where to go from here or what to do.

[@icysnow57cold64]

I don't think the romantic type of love is special. And I am started to think that the romantic type of love isn't real. I mean about more than half of romantic couples either break up with each other or divorce each other, while most platonic best friends remain friends until death. Also, most people are pretty much comfortable enough to be naked around someone and have sex with someone that they have no romantic feelings towards. So sex isn't really a thing about romance. I think that having a platonic best friend is a lot better than having a romantic partner or spouse is. Having someone who's like a sibling to you is a lot better than having a romantic partner is. Also, you would more likely be much closer to a person who's like a brother or sister to you than you would be with a partner or spouse. People tend to fight with their partner or spouse a lot more than they do with a platonic best friend, and you never fight with your best friend the way you fight with your partner or spouse. Partners and spouses are just temporary. If you break up or divorce them, it's hard to go back to them. With your platonic best friend, you're going to make things work, because they are your best friend, they are your go to partner. It's always easier to make amends with them than it is with a romantic partner or spouse.

[@icysnow57cold64]

Also, there are a lot of toxic romantic relationships, while there isn't that many toxic platonic relationships. Like an example is that abuse happens a lot in romantic relationships, while abuse is rare in platonic relationships. So there is a lot of abusive romantic relationships, while there is isn't that many abusive platonic relationships. Why do you think abusive romantic relationships have a term for them called "domestic violence", while abusive platonic relationships don't have a term for them? It's because abuse in platonic relationships are very rare, while abuse in romantic relationships happens a lot. And also, a lot of people cheat on their romantic partners with someone else, while most people won't do stuff like that with their platonic best friends. Also, I heard that most people can live a life without romance and can still be happy. But most of the time, if someone doesn't have any platonic friends in their life, it can effect them really bad mentally; much worse than living a life without a romantic partner. In today's world, less people are dating and getting married now, and they seem to be more happy being single rather than being in romantic relationship with someone. Also, you're going to have a much deeper spoken understanding and connection with your best friend than you are with a romantic partner or spouse. So those are other reasons why romantic love isn't real or special, while platonic love is.

[@julalainelagat8939]

I wanna enter heaven with my partner😆

[@jessicaganivet4837]

Hi my name is Jessica Ganivet I’m in a very abusing relationship I would like to get help

[@DeeperChristianity]

Did you ever get help?

[@jackjones3657]

Seek out a bible teaching local church that you feel is a safe place and inquire about some good biblical counseling. May God protect you!

[@indym375]

Then what does it mean u marry unbeliever so then u are unevenly yoked

[@mamabambina3829]

Endy M don't marry an unbeliever.

[@rahulvig5298]

Marriage isn't worth it in today's and with less against men. Wake up men. Go your own way. Chase excellence not women.

[@956TexasMadeMen]

Have you listened to females needs on tik-tok lately we can't never satisfy them 😵💀

[@janethomas78]

His wife shut him out for the past five years. She is addicted to Ambien.

[@Alexandra_Stone]

Wow he got those differences so wrong! Stopped watching there. Women need sex just as much as men btw.