The Five Sex Needs of Men and Women | Marriage Today | Jimmy Evans

Jimmy Evans discusses the five most important sex needs of men and women. When you understand the differences between you and your spouse, you will discover a new level of fulfillment.
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[@garyhawkins9733]

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[@jolliebearforchrist5468]

(HERE IS THE GOSPEL MESSAGE OF JESUS CHRIST) JESUS CHRIST DIED ON THE CROSS FOR OUR SINS AND HE WAS BURIED AND HE ROSE AGAIN ON THE THIRD DAY BY FAITH IN GOD'S SON THE LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST AND JESUS CHRIST ALONE SALVATION SHALL BE YOURS AND ETERNAL LIFE WITH GOD IN HEAVEN SHALL AWAIT YOU WHEN YOU DIE THE BIBLE JOHN CHAPTER 3 VERSES 16 THROUGH 21 AS WELL AS 1ST CORINTHIANS CHAPTER 15 VERSES 1 THROUGH 5 THE BIBLE

[@citabriaable]

I'm a divorced male who was married one time for 27 yrs to my beautiful wife, who is now married to another man for the last 11 yrs. She divorced me after her love for me died, and I have to face that I made her lose respect for me through sin issues I gave in to. Men...let me encourage you to love Jesus with all your heart, then love your wife like the Bible says, like Jesus loves the church...sacrificially, unselfishly, faithfully. I am a man of God but it will take heaven to heal the hurt in my soul over losing the marvelous wife and family (3 dhtrs hardly speak to me ) that the Lord blessed me with. Resist sin with all your strength for those wages we pay, don't always mean physical death, I'm a shell of a man without her in my life. You don't want to know sorrow like this.

[@framboise595]

@ Glenn Hill Marvelous wife ? A wife who is sooo spiritual that she is not able to forgive anything that hurts her little ego ? Men today are so weak , so afraid to be in control that they do not even possess their own wives sexually anymore . Other men do it for them. What a disgrace !!!! There was a time when a married woman who had sex with another man of her own free will would have been put to death . Your "marvelous wife" is living in constant adultery since she became the wife of another man . Do you know what the Bible says at all because it's not Evans the feminist wofl who will speak the truth about it. Don't you dare offend goddess woman in bed with the world and Satan like never before ? Welcome to Satan's matriarchal hell where women run the show and sexual immorality is going full swing. Women today have shown how hypergamous and changing they were. They go from sin to sin , from premarital sex to adultery but it is men that the post modern western church , complicit of the wickedness of women keep blaming !! There is nothing more wicked that the modern western woman. I used to agree with all her rights (my rights in fact since society has given me as a woman carte blanche to sin over and over with no limit) until I read the Bible that Evans and co hate.

[@gb-yn2re]

God can heal you since you have humbled yourself, go forward by letting him set you free of condemnation.

[@dxdjoshua8799]

I am a man and lack of non sexual affection drove me into a mental corner hugs and kisses are equaly important

[@jolliebearforchrist5468]

(HERE IS THE GOSPEL MESSAGE OF JESUS CHRIST) JESUS CHRIST DIED ON THE CROSS FOR OUR SINS AND HE WAS BURIED AND HE ROSE AGAIN ON THE THIRD DAY BY FAITH IN GOD'S SON THE LORD AND SAVIOR JESUS CHRIST AND JESUS CHRIST ALONE SALVATION SHALL BE YOURS AND ETERNAL LIFE WITH GOD IN HEAVEN SHALL AWAIT YOU WHEN YOU DIE THE BIBLE JOHN CHAPTER 3 VERSES 16 THROUGH 21 AS WELL AS 1ST CORINTHIANS CHAPTER 15 VERSES 1 THROUGH 5 THE BIBLE

[@ronkropf3280]

Sounds like great advice!!!However, after a very painful divorce, the single life is so sweet and trying to please another, seams like a ridiculous amount of exhausting of work.

[@seank.2589]

Men: 1. Mutual Satisfaction 2. Connection 3. Responsiveness of Wife 4. Wife Initiated Sex 5. Affirmation Women: 1. Affirmation 2. Connection 3. Non-Sexual Touch 4. Spiritual Intimacy 5. Romance

[@framboise595]

@ Sean K. How can that quack of Evans willfully skip SEX in the women's list ? What a liar ! What a liar !

[@boomer1049]

My brother in law once said when I ask for his opinion, do you want me to tell you what you want to hear or do you want me to tell you the truth!

[@blessed7fold]

This guy is correct in all that he has said in this video. Two thumbs up!

[@framboise595]

@ blessed7fold This guy is correct for calling husbands PERVERTS when they go to their wives for sex ??? God knows I am no liar. I did hear him say that in another video. I am more and more convinced there is an agenda against male sexuality , the powerful energy that brings life into this world as God meant it to be. I did hear him . Too much is too much.

[@boxelder9167]

Isabelle M- people like you give me hope.

[@framboise595]

@@boxelder9167 I am happy for it. There is hope in the Lord and in the obedience to his word. There is hope when we throw all the spiritual hucksters like Evans and co out of the boat and put Christ as the captain of the church back again.

[@christygrubbs8620]

@@framboise595 you took what he said out of context . He said women think that when they marry young as loek in the early 20,s that the man's libido is alot higher than a woman's at the specific time. He said a woman might think their husband is a pervert because he wants sex more than her . He didn't say men were perverts 🙄. People need to learn to hear to listen and understand not hear to hear what they want to lol

[@framboise595]

@@christygrubbs8620 Why on earth should care about what women think ??? Evans the feminist in Christian guise makes it all about the woman ,when the BIBLE that he scorns makes it all about the MAN first and foremost. If God created man with a hingher libido , glory to HIM ! God knows what he does but the modern women Evans panders to are the greatest enemies . They don't even have the language of the BIBLE at all. They use words without even knowing their true meanings. And Evens just follow women instead of teaching GOD's vision. A pervert BIBLICALLY speaking is a wicked man who does not follow God's ways. What on earth does this have to do with a married man who has sex with HIS OWN wife ? God tells men to enjoy their wives at all time Proverbs 5:18 . God is good , just and wise and he loves his sons. But God is hated in those so called churches where females run the show. WOE to anyone who tries to defraud married men of their God-given rights !

[@gratitude5740]

How many people are here who have gone through life not knowing what it is being said here, failed marriage and relationships? I’m one of them . Eyes and ears wide opened. Better now then never even if “Elvis left the building....”

[@misskaykay1856]

Excellent advice. I love this!!!

[@flowersflowers5070]

Wish my husband & i could have known about this man years ago...we may be together today.

[@Kenya12891]

God bless you

[@flowersflowers5070]

Thank you. Sex was not an issue for my husband or lack of. I'm a little different than most women. We had no issues in the bedroom. If we could have lived in the bedroom we would still be together but you have to come out of those doors. We had many other problems. His ex wife. His children. He had custody of his son that caused a lot of problrms for us. His son is now 37 & found out last year that he is not even his. If we would have known about Jim Evens I know we would still be together.

[@nanakhatagova4888]

@@flowersflowers5070 It’s never too late! 🙏

[@scotleoqueen704]

My husband & I both agreed on these (both of us married 3 xs before). Altho I believe the point he's trying to make with gift jewelry is an example of how that in particular can make a woman feel like the most special person on earth to her partner, its specialized for her because he shopped for it, bought it with her in mind/heart. I'm not hung up on jewelry as gift but the few times husband has given it, it DID make me feel so special. But I felt the same special when he gave me my birthday card this year-- BECAUSE he took the time to shop for right one, do you see guys? Simple 😁

[@marshahinson2360]

Yes. Years ago Dad bought my Mom a garden way cart for her Birthday. He took a lot of flack for that, but I knew instantly that it was the best thing he could have bought for her. Gardening was her thing. She used it until she moved to God's gardens. I often wonder what tools she uses there.

[@erejo3274]

Oh this makes so much sense. Thank you pastor Love you pastor

[@antoniomaqueda7249]

Just That Simple SPARK And We GO IT GOING!!🙌🏾🙏🏾

[@JaniceHylton]

I love this!!!

[@framboise595]

@ Janice Hylton You love lies then. YES this man is a liar who teaches that a wife can say "no" to sex . This is a LIE that is never endorsed by the Bible. Since the BIBLE says that SATAN is at the corner when a marriage goes without sex , you can tell who is behind the words of that man who calls himself "pastor". A wife cannot withhold sex without the consent of her husband . She cannot because she has no power over her body anymore . It is her husband who does . That is why ABSTINENCE has to be negociated . NOT sex. Teaching such lies is really devilish and brings the consequences that SATAN expects. It is never endorsed by the Scriptures since anyway , a wife is to be submissive in everything.

[@gussygatlin3093]

Oooh I sent this to husband... We will be married 1 year next month.... Im SO IN LOVE WITH HIM... 💕💕😊😊

[@missnatalieOK]

Awesome 💖 me too!!

[@favoureze948]

Gussy Gatlin Congratulations!

[@faithinchrist2757]

I hope your marriage has been well!!

[@jaded9247]

I felt that way before. He doesn’t wanna have sex anymore so 🤷‍♀️

[@larrygentis3838]

@@jaded9247 Can you communicate with him about it?

[@woezacardoza5659]

Thank you Mr Allen

[@piyabiswas9475]

Beautiful.. he speaks so sweet way and with power of Jesus .. I appreciate it so much..

[@framboise595]

@ Piya Biswas This so called pastor calls MARRIED MEN perverts for having sex with their own wives. It is utterly demonic.

[@neilzive123]

I completely agree with this talk It completely resonates with me.

[@vikaskrishan4969]

Amazing lecture

[@sarahg1077]

Let’s stress that when he says “Men need to know that they are a good lover” that this means he ACTUALLY NEEDS TO BE A GOOD LOVER. Women shouldn’t be faking it and making it out that he is a good at sex just to boost his ego. If she isn’t enjoying it or if she isn’t being satisfied, she should be able to say that… especially if the couple saved themselves for marriage and are both very unskilled.

[@framboise595]

@ Sarah G Ah ! Here we go again ! Women never satisfied of anything !! Women never happy with anything and always thinking that the grass is greener elsewhere ! Women always thinking that sex is better with a lover than with a husband !

[@guyporter6105]

This speech is priceless, very good information

[@framboise595]

@ Guy Porter This speech is useless , full of lies and does not get straight to the point. Priceless when this liar tells wives that they have ownership of their bodies ? Evan a husband has no owership of his body , let alone the wife who is in subjection to him in everything !! Do you realise that Evans just pits YOUR OWN wife against you saying she can say "no" to sex ? Do you realise this man is closer to the serpent than to the Lord ? What happens in the bedroom is between the Lord and you. Not Evans and you . Do you realise that this serpent basically say that a MARRIED man has to "earn" sex ? You realise how devilish this is ?

[@kaycee625]

Superb advice

[@goodnesschidimma326]

Thanks pastor

[@nanayaaafriyie2845]

Right on point

[@Wintertyme1976]

Thank you. Great insight I never realized before.

[@designateddriveranddragons8845]

Men: Sex leads to Romance. Physical before Emotional Women: Romance leads to Sex. Emotional before Physical

[@Android-ds9ie]

Complete bullshit women who are pretending to want Romance or all lesbians if a woman is straight there is no reason for romance please open your eyes most women or lesbians

[@framboise595]

@@Android-ds9ie It is complete BS indeed. Anyone who opens a Bible knows it very easily . The problem is , those who listen to Evans and co open a Bible once in a blue moon. Evans preach modern feminist psycho rubbish folling dumb emasculated masses with his veneer of Christianity.

[@cordeliadaniels7737]

He spoke the truth !

[@framboise595]

No he did not. As usual. If you opened a Bible , you would know it.

[@Godfavorabletome]

thank you for this video all your videos help me

[@gratitude5740]

This is an amazing video . So much to take in . Listened 3 time .

[@franciscomatos2475]

Love gives, see a need fill a need. Both men and women need to submitt also known as don't be stubborn. God bless!

[@larrygentis3838]

Too true Francisco, value her and great things happen...

[@framboise595]

@ Francisco Matos The sexual purpose of marriage has been wilfully overlooked by countless spiritual hucksters in order to let SATAN in. 1 Co 7:5 is not about love but about SEX. Because sex is the core of marriage . Nothing else. That is why marriage is carnal . The two shall become one flesh . But God's will is scorned , mocked , debased and questioned by tons of lukewarm christians who listen to Evans and the like.

[@framboise595]

@@larrygentis3838 Value her ands make her suffer at the same time . The female body needs that violence because it is used to it ( regulars , delivery) . Most western men today are such wimps that they have no clue how the female body and mind work. Women need both pleasure and suffering.

[@katherinehurt5238]

In my humble opinion, I feel like there is a strong evil spirit of women not wanting to submit to their husbands nowadays. It's like women act like they want to be empowered but yet they want to be happily married. That's an oxymoron a woman has to submit to her husband and also give in to his needs as a man for sex. If a woman does not give him the satisfaction. It will make him feel rejected and no one wants to feel that way.

[@kennethfok]

@@framboise595 I don’t think sex between husband and wife should have anything to do with violence. We are born with sexual organs just like any other animals. And the very obvious purpose of sexual organs is to have sex and make babies. Of course we humans are made differently by God. Besides procreation, our sexual organs are also made to give pleasure to our spouse. God actually did not want us to get married but because of all the sexual sin that takes place, God want us to get married so that we have that one special partner who will satisfy our sexual desires. Why should people avoid sex when they have come together in a marriage? Marriage is the union of two individuals as one flesh and having sex is the best representation of being together as one flesh. Because the two sexual organs are “joined” together in the act of sexual intercourse and through the exchange of body fluids (semen from a man entering the woman’s vagina), it forms a new individual with the DNA of the two persons. Sex is only shameful and dirty when it’s done outside of a marriage. When it takes place in a marriage, the two individuals have been blessed by God and the act of sexual intercourse becomes sacred and holy yet is a beautiful thing because it has been blessed by God. We should come together with our spouse in marriage with the intention of giving ourselves fully to our spouse through the special act of sexual intercourse because it is the most special way to express love.

[@nikkic3884]

Good advice for couples!

[@framboise595]

+Nikki C Good advice ? All that isgood comes from the Lord. Where is the Bible of that fraudulent teacher who teaches that a wife can say no to sex ??? The Bible says the EXACT OPPOSITE . But Mr Quack avoids quoting 1 Corinthians 7:5 which is the best teaching for married people ever since it comes from the Lord. Anyone can read in it that NO SPOUSE has authority over his/her own body but the other spouse has. So , a wife has NO RIGHT to defraud her husband without his consent. That man is a liar , a wolf in sheep clothing who teaches fallacies and skips the core of marriage , which is marital duty .

[@trishapaniagua9192]

what women want is to have a man make a big deal about her like holding her hand when you walk together,When shes cooking kiss her neck and tell her how much you love her.Its not always about romance its about effort show her that you think about her during the day and they she means something to her.Like realizing that when she is coming to you after a hard day something as lil as asking her do you want me to watch the kids so you can nap or coming home with dinner.Thoughtfullness goes so far,for myself if someone is thoughtfull and they put in effort there is nothing i wont do for you.I think if more people did this there would be less divorce and more people would feel loved

[@trishapaniagua9192]

@Sweet Monster yes but in all fairness he is super sweet, funny ,sexy and we do everything together

[@ianjones2731]

All I hear from your comment is ME ME ME, men are tired of this and turning their backs on marriage in big numbers because for a man it's a rotten deal not to mention 70-80% of divorces are instigated by women for the flimsiest reasons.

[@trishapaniagua9192]

@@ianjones2731 sounds like youve been burnt.Marriage is what you make of it.If you expect not to be thoughtfull or put any effort in then you can expect things not to last.I expect 110% from my husband but you can bet i give 110%as well.I love him with all i have and all that is in me,if things dont work then i cant say i didnt try.I have a great husband though so i dont think i would ever give up on him over something trivial.

[@ianjones2731]

@@trishapaniagua9192 'burnt' lol knew you'd say that. Well that's great but let's see how you 'feel' in the future if all your princess needs aren't met 24/7. 3rd wave feminism has destroyed the institution and '110% effort' just won't cut it these days unfortunately. The risk is for men and you couldn't possibly understand.

[@Lexmorningstarnz]

👏 hit the nail on the head

[@shermicachandler9427]

On point!

[@lindadavenport5811]

It's not good when he waits until you're asleep, and THEN wakes you up in the middle of the night with a poke and doesn't have your satisfaction in mind.

[@rosettemarshall3024]

Better he poke you than another woman...

[@framboise595]

@@rosettemarshall3024 A WISE answer. At last.

[@dumfriesspearhead7398]

Waits until you're asleep? Why? Sounds dodgy to me.

[@jaded9247]

@@rosettemarshall3024 exactly, at least he wants to have sex with her still

[@nwankaanze7018]

lol a poke, a unicorn

[@peggybehr5094]

So true

[@relltv8231]

When none of the party’s are doing none of the 5 things it’s hard to come back it’s just is. It gets to a point like why even try because when you do it just get looked over. I think I’m done ....

[@3931aaron]

I feel this 100%

[@bbienaime]

Thank the Lord for your ministry! Such a God send ‼️‼️‼️

[@framboise595]

@ B Bien Aime Thank Satan for such unscriptural ministry that turns marriage into everything but a sinfix. Thank Satan for liars who basically teach that married men have to "earn " sex. 100% devilish. Big party in hell . This is where the church is at now. Corrupt to the core by the Luciferian/feminist spirit. Not just Evans's country. Europe is screwed too.

[@bbienaime]

@@framboise595 I thank no other than one and only true Sovereign God! And yet He still loves you and so do I; I’m praying the Spirit of deception leaves your bosom so that you can receive the fullness of our Lord Yeshua’s love to free you to live the life you were destined to pursue! I love you be blessed!

[@framboise595]

@@bbienaime If you love the Lord , you cannot love such awful teachings . If you love the Lord , you have HIS vision of marriage and of sex . No other. Not that twisted feminist vision of "sexual consent" which comes from the devil. Let me ask you a question : What do we get married for according to the Bible ? Why does God allow marriage for his children ?

[@bbienaime]

@@framboise595 I’m praying for you! 💝 Receive the gift of love; it is free!

[@framboise595]

@@bbienaime What has this have to do with the way God made us biologically ? Sex IS a form of male violence on the female body and women crave it. Can you deny the way God inflicted more pain IN the female body ? Genesis 3

[@jasminemalone8022]

I will take this advice

[@maletadunne4316]

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[@HeavenlyLights]

This gentleman is Right On the Money 👊🏻 Great Advice.

[@rainealogan6068]

"Never be afraid to ask GOD for guidance". Continue she'd light in a biblical way.

[@MiscName1493]

For me the spiritual heart comes first. Smiles...Know God, Know Connection. Next is romance and third is appreciation/affirmation. The song... Tose Naina Lage (English translation) expresses my feelings on the topic perfectly. It's worth listening to if you've never heard it.

[@larrygentis3838]

Deborah Bloedorn, I really appreciate your priorities....so many believers get this wrong, well-expressed! www.ifyouliveme.co.uk

[@framboise595]

@ Deborah Bloedorn Marriage is not about romance . Marriage is the sexual union between a man and a woman as God meant it to be. Sex is not more spiritual than food or drink ! How can Christians be so confused ? Take King David , he had his prayers to fill the void of his soul and quench his spiritual thirst (the amazing psalms he left us prove it wonderfully) and his wife/wes to quench his sexual desires ! But men were men in the past. Not wimps kneeling in front of their wives . That makes all the difference ...

[@MiscName1493]

@@framboise595 Dear I have no clue what you're talking about. The minister said women listed 5 priorities. Romance was one of the five. For me it's number 2 on the list. No doubt people will have different priorities relative to temperament.

[@framboise595]

@@MiscName1493 I ignored that God needed to know about women's priorities to teach his flock ! The man in the video called husbands PERVERTS for going to their wives for sex. I did hear him say that . So , what he says is nothing compared with what the word of God teaches. And if women who listed their stupid priorities were WISE Christian women , they would list SEX as the first priority of marriage , because wise Christians get married because of sex , to avoid sexual immorality and temptations as 1 Co 7 teaches. The Bible talks about the marriage BED . Not some stupid romantic stuff. This is how this society is going down the drains because it is all about women today . Nothing biblical anymore.

[@MiscName1493]

@@framboise595 I don't know why the joy and romance of others troubles you. The Bible gives basic requirements. Chastity and no fornication for single adults.. and a commandment against adultry. In marriage the couple becomes "one flesh". That is a spiritual reality as well as physical. It's beautiful, deep and nurturing. Sex is certainly more than eat, drink or a carnal maintenance need. And sex is far from the number one reason to marry. Sex isn't enough to hold a marriage together BUT being one in spirit, mind & body is better than Superglue. Of course if joy and the intimacy of romance trouble you then you can always marry someone who thinks sex is just an appetite to be kept at bay. But that's your preference, it's not a Biblical duty.

[@AyoBaby]

Way too many pastors are afraid to be this candid about sex. It's very confusing.

[@larrygentis3838]

Whodunit, most pastors are ill-equipped for the challenges of today's relational needs in marriages.. www.ifyouloveme.co.uk

[@framboise595]

@@larrygentis3838 The challenge of TODAY 's relational needs in marriages ? I love the " today" stuff . As if Christian marriage could change . The truth is , the today stuff has added so much to the Bible that it all comes from the devil with a veneer of Bible. The today stuff tells men to submit and adapt to their whimsical crazy wives in the name of "love" . Like Samson to Delilha . 100% devilish.

[@larrygentis3838]

@@framboise595 complete agreement, I believe when a woman sees a true biblical man, she loves it. We mustn't fit in with the world, because that's what made things go pear-shaped to begin with!

[@larrygentis3838]

It's true, there's a sort of "hide-in-the closet approach to this subject. Truth is, with questions of this nature, most pastors are out of their depth but the try to keep up appearances as if they weren't..

[@crystalthow5533]

" sex " is a very sensitive word and even many married couples do not talk about it, but we have learnt to talk about it. Thank you so much

[@chrismill9896]

Diamonds ! He got that right.

[@jmkeeter517]

so true

[@wrinthiak3431]

Spiritual intimacy is soooo important in a marriage!!!!!!

[@damienasmodeus928]

what to do is a couple is not spiritual at all?

[@wrinthiak3431]

@@damienasmodeus928 that's a problem. I mean, if a couple/individual doesn't believe in God, that's their choice; however, if the opposite is true, I wholeheartedly concur that a woman reallyreally needs that spiritual connection with her husband. When it's missing - on a consistent basis - a void is felt.

[@framboise595]

@ Wrinthia K There is no such thing as "spiritual intimacy" in marriage. But there is such thing as SEXUAL intimacy. A couple must refrain from sex for a time in order to pray and fast. (1 Co 7:5) Those are the things that any Christian does , married or not. This has absolutely nothing to do with marriage at all. You do'nt read the Bible because you're married ! You don't pray because you're married ! But you have SEX because you're married. Because the law of marriage is sex , you have to temporary break this law in order to deal with higher spiritual matters . Please don't get everything mixed up. Divide the spirit and the flesh in a biblical way

[@wrinthiak3431]

@@framboise595 the term "spiritual intimacy" came from Pastor Evans, not me. Did you even listen to the teaching? Or, did you, in your quest to troll, simply post something 🤔? Let's pray to be ready for His return and occupy while we're here. Blessings

[@framboise595]

@@wrinthiak3431 Pastor Evans lol I've watched so many of his videos and his countless lies that I'm not duped anymore. But you said it yourself , this term comes from him , not from the Lord ! When God united Adam and Eve he united them carnally , not spiritually. Man and wife are one flesh , not one spirit. Can you see the diffeence ? We are one spirit in Christ , all believers . But this has nothing to do with marriage specifically. Evans just dances around and turns duties into "meeting of needs" , and the marital debt which is sex becomes a 'free gift" ..well , total mess . I I hear Evans then I check in the Bible . Who lies Evans or God ?

[@jeffbradley9201]

Good video

[@rufudhrurdhdhrjdjr7476]

great video

[@sbentsen2714]

Wow this is incredible!

[@framboise595]

@ Steven Bentsen Incredibly flase and unbiblical . This man is into catering foolish women who have lost the meaning and goal of marriage . What a disgrace ! If he were a true man of God , he would be upset pleasing GOD and HIS WORD , not women ! He would tell that marriage is being one FLESH , so sexless marriage is no marriage at all ! He would tell that sex is UNconditional in marriage and that BOTH spouses have power over the other spouse's body . The way so called Christians are being deceived today is appaling. I know what it is to be a wife ! My husband just has to go to me for sex and vice versa and if one of us wants to stop sex for a while , we have to mutually agree on it . My body belongs to him , not to me !! We are one flesh . I am no self centered bitch who manipulates him with what she has between her legs and thinks the whole world revolves around my pussy ! God does not need females to make his planet turn round.

[@Alphacentauri819]

Isabelle M that’s weird...if god didn’t think females were necessary...he wouldn’t have created Eve. They do make the world go round. So do men. In different ways...although the whole healthcare realm would collapse if no females existed, as most CNA’s and RN’s are female, many X-ray techs, phlebotomists, pharmacy techs and pharmacists, microbiologists...along with a growing amount of physiciens . Women are the most involved in advocacy for children and elders, most volunteers are women...and on and on. Women do the majority of appts for their children, drs and dentists and nursing them to health. Without women the death rate would be much higher...without men the death rate would be much lower (war, domestic violence, general violence, carelessness and negligence...much higher in men) So stop with hating on your own kind... 🙄 It’s 1000 times worse than a simp could ever be..,

[@rosettemarshall3024]

These things do not apply to the narcissist.

[@SnookOnTheFly]

Rosette Marshall That’s what I’m dealing with.

[@rosettemarshall3024]

@@SnookOnTheFly yes these people do not have a heart.

[@framboise595]

@@rosettemarshall3024 FEMALE narcissisim is what is totally screwing our Western civilisation. In a few years , white western men will be a memory in history books.

[@framboise595]

@Nathan Michaels Am I dealing with a woke moron ? Interesting. White western men are not reproducing anymore because they have lost control of their own women. That is how civilisation ends , when you pit women against men and men become too weak to take back control and put sex back in marriage .

[@michaelashcraft8569]

I have only one need to be met, catching my next big fish at the Pond, but, I'm 70ys old, been married for 47 years, retired from stud service...

[@robertharvey9047]

love would

[@robertharvey9047]

sex she hot man

[@jennys6087]

You can connect when you eat healthy!! Wanting each other more everyDay you work together!! #wantYouEveryday

[@firstladygift.2431]

I feel some dis connection from my husband lately.. I’m trying so hard do things with him but he just seems unbothered. And we hardly have sex now

[@b-ludwig5721]

infidelity possible?

[@firstladygift.2431]

@@b-ludwig5721 probably .. I don’t even understand him anymore

[@djn1822]

Most of this is honest but the difference you described are exaggerated in our social contexts and playing them up is not as beneficial as fact Expressing those differences in socially acceptable ways without tying men/women down with those social standards” is a better way forward

[@freechild1566]

Amen

[@jewelwhite2832]

👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏True.

[@randyranjel4516]

My wife restrictions me so much. I don't even try anymore.

[@kencopeland5205]

randy ranjel I can TOTALLY Relate Brutha.

[@loriwatkins7836]

Help take some chores off her then maybe she will be less stressed and want to relax with you

[@mekelreen9869]

lori watkins always the man’s fault huh? You don’t even know if he already does chores, you just assume her saying no is because he hasn’t earned it. Can you even conceive of the woman being at fault in not having sex?

[@loriwatkins7836]

Mekel Reen USA saying most of cases not always, It could also be shes not treated good outside the bedroom

[@cyndimoore8114]

Make it worth her while...... If she asked you to lose sleep, stress until you wanted to cry and worry about every friend and family member during a whole love making session. Would you want to? How can you deserve her attension? Deserve her time? Deserve her period. Sacrifice comes easy for women so they are defeated. Sacrifice yourself for her and she will feel vindicated. Maybe that explains it from a man view???

[@marshahinson2360]

Prayer! Yes. If she knows he is looking to God for his guidance she can follow. It does not need to b educated King James or lengthy. Just intentional.

[@framboise595]

@ Marsha Hinson Where has the REAL reason why Christians get married gone ? What have we made of marriage as God's long term solution for sexual temptations ?

[@jamesevans3830]

You have a great name

[@jeupshaw]

I agreed right up to the spiritual /praying part.

[@derekcrymble9085]

The couple's love life......... IS the barometer of the relationship .

[@joycegreer9391]

Love life and sex life aren't one and the same.

[@derekcrymble9085]

@@joycegreer9391 My wife and I have had a care-free intimate love life for 41 years and counting . I know what I am talking about . Don't make the mistake of thinking you can lecture an old man . I got married for love and affection . There is NO better way . Go split hairs elsewhere .

[@joycegreer9391]

@@derekcrymble9085 It's not splitting hairs. Love and sex are not one and the same. You can have a love life without sex, and lots of people have a sex life without love. I'm glad you got married for the right reasons; but don't YOU think you can lecture a woman probably the same age as you, old man. So if you mean sex by saying your love life is the barometer of the relationship, you are incorrect. Sex is not the barometer of the relationship, but love and commitment are with or without sex. AND, I know what I am talking about.

[@framboise595]

@@joycegreer9391 God created marriage for SEX . Not for love. You don't need to get married to love anyone. But you need to get married in order to have sex according to his paradigm. If marriage was about love ( completely insane and unscriptural) , then fornication would not be a problem . Of course sex life IS the barometer.. We get married because of sex. 1 Co 7:4

[@joycegreer9391]

@@framboise595 How would marriage being about love make fornication okay? Sex is only for marriage, not outside of marriage. We are to love everyone like we love ourselves anyway. Marriage is much more than sex. If that is the barometer of a marriage, I feel very sorry for both partners. God said for a man to leave his parents and cleave unto his wife, that it was not good for man to be alone so He created woman to be man's helpmate, the two shall become one and not just physically. Marriage is a union in every way; physically, emotionally, spiritually. Marriage doesn't need to be about "being in love". Real love is much more than that. Loving someone is a choice and commitment. If you marry for sex and nothing else, that is very superficial and selfish. What is insane and unscriptural is claiming marriage is sex and not love. Marriage is for better or worse, in sickness or health. So if sex is not possible a person should leave their spouse?? THAT is very much not Biblical.

[@antoowacathy4529]

wow,🙏🙏🙏

[@ronaldreagan7772]

5:26 😆😆😆😆😆

[@TheCulturedHillbilly]

I guess my lot is to suffer in silence. I can't even bring up the subject without an argument ensuing.

[@judith018]

Jay Burgherr I'm suffering in silence as well. If I bring up the topic, there's an argument and greater tension then before. So it's just not worth it. I feel for you.

[@judith018]

Joe Brennan I'm not starting over again after 32 years and six children.

[@judith018]

Joe Brennan my children are mostly all grown and are very happy to have parents that are together. They would be destroyed if we divorced. And I would rather stay unhappy then to take their happiness away.

[@judith018]

Joe Brennan thank you very much, you've been kind. Have a wonderful Holiday Season!

[@sl4983]

Those women are in disobedience. Or they have not been taught correctly. Or I would wonder about their spiritual condition.

[@dani-uf1eo]

I feel like this is cultural and not universal, but correct me if I'm wrong.

[@sallybyrd3712]

The universal attitude is that women exist for men's pleasure.

[@joycegreer9391]

I would say universal because it is heart desires, not superficial cultural expectations.

[@lonemotheomatshaba9640]

The KZbin algorithm being doing the most

[@sowmuchlove]

On the phone

[@evelynsaungikar3553]

My husband didn’t know what colour my eyes were, for the first 12 years of our marriage.

[@damienasmodeus928]

your eyes are hazelnut brown.

[@evelynsaungikar3553]

@@damienasmodeus928 That’s what he said, but nope!

[@damienasmodeus928]

@@evelynsaungikar3553 the mirror is lying to you!

[@andycapp8843]

You mention this as a criticism, whereas he may have no interest in eye colour whatsoever and simply does not want to remember, yours or anyone else’s like children’s. What you failed to mention and is a failing on your part are the endearing features of your husband that has kept you together and that is far more important. What have you done over the 12 years to make him consider you important enough to remember a small issue such as eye colour? If there is nothing that appeals any more, you have a decision to make. None of us are perfect, read the numerous posts and it will confirm it takes two to make a partnership work.

[@thisisyoutubetv3235]

Yo. I’m not even married but this will make me a good husband someday Peace and love ❤️

[@framboise595]

@ Thisisyoutube Tv Sure , a good husband unable to subject his OWN wife to the duty of sex as GOD wants it . A good husband unable to enforce God's will for sex in HIS own marriage and bedroom. A good husband who will let his wife do what she please with her body and who will SIN against the Lord . What is a good husband according to this adulterated church system ? A husband who submits to his wife's whims and immorality. In NO WAY a husband who submits to the Lord's will and vision for sex as written in the Bible.

[@bonniecondon9076]

If I may, highly recommend praying solutions!

[@ficknfish]

What do i do if my wife hates sex and intimicy do to childhood trauma ? How can i help her and have something like a marriage ?

[@65micheal]

Was this before cell phones and tech?

[@3931aaron]

I was thinking the same thing. Technology ruins relationships.

[@edwood3336]

Why is the church so unwilling to assist single Christians in their desire to find a Christian spouse.

[@JaniceHylton]

Im here!! Church Gurls Want To Get Married Too.💖

[@MiscName1493]

I'm here too. A nice woman will stand in line to meet a man who respects, honors and loves the Lord.

[@ValleyoftheRogue]

Why do you think you need to be married? You don't.

[@dxdjoshua8799]

@@ValleyoftheRogue not all are able to recieve this

[@americansweetheart5597]

Because the word of God says it is better for you to remain unmarried.

[@shawnajohnson6655]

So glad to hear about being ‘CONNECTED’ it is so true. I think the world could hear this more and more, as a counselor, I run into so much pornography use in men and women.

[@framboise595]

@ Shawna Johnson There is no such thing as "being connected" in the Bible. Marriage is about becoming one flesh , ie SEX and sex only. Sex is what connects man and woman together. As GOD (hated , mocked , scorned , bashed ) wants it.

[@Alphacentauri819]

Isabelle M EVERYTHING is about connection in the Bible. It is a love story of relationship. Sex is merely a physical expression of the potential of a deeper spiritual and emotional connection. The Bible speaks of this connection many times, let no man tear asunder.... etc. That’s not the physical act. God’s not saying let no one pull them out of literally having sex...but the spiritual bond that makes them one. The physical act is the tangible piece. The spiritual connection is the non tangible...accessed through the physical/tangible act. Of course not all sex will have that connection, since we live in a sinful/selfish world....but it was created with deep communion as the possibility...just as communion/ restored connection/relationship was the ultimate goal, with Jesus being sent as Savior. The ultimate wounding, hurt, occurs when one feels abandoned in relationship...this is often emotionally and spiritually. If someone is using sex selfishly, it can result in this disconnect, which is like tearing away connection. Jesus cries out “my god, my god, why hast though forsaken me”... this was the ultimate pain, that being alone, being turned from. It wasn’t physical...but emotional and spiritual. We were created in God’s image..and since he isn’t a sexual being...that’s so minor...it’s but a gateway to connecting. Jesus was all about connecting to others and it didn’t involve sex🙄 Sex is a gift, and yes a tool for reproduction...but the hormones (bonding ones) are similar to when a mother breastfeeds her baby. It creates a desire to nurture, it’s connecting and establishing a deeper bond. Of course god would create hormones like this...for attachment etc, to make it more likely that a family unit is in place. Society, selfishness etc..makes it so this isn’t often the case. Too many get bored and move on...we live in a fast paced, disposable, jaded society. Why would a woman be at all interested in marriage in which a man can get sex whenever? When a woman can find plenty of men who will get to know her, wait and not push for sex...but when they finally do, he actually can please her...unlike so many men out there. Sex is so man centered in some realms...that a man who will please a woman is incredibly enticing and more motivating to do things with. Otherwise, a woman feeling obligated, will fake things to get things over...be dissatisfied and disassociated during sex, wishing it would end...and creating more harm to her psyche. If a man is understanding, loving and will do what needs to happen for his wife to have pleasure...oh, wow...it’s on.

[@framboise595]

@@Alphacentauri819 Marriage is everything but spiritual ! You mix up the temporal and the spiritual. You mix up the needs of the body and the needs of the soul. God created man in his image because man is the glory of God , but woman is the glory of man. He created man SEXUAL even though he is not sexual . Did he make a mistake ? " Sex is merely a physical expression of the potential of a deeper spiritual and emotional connection" Do we know better than God who just portrays sex like hunger or thirst since he tells men to go and DRINK the waters that flow from your cistern ( ie the wife's body). Proverbs 5:18 Sex is so simple in the Bible. Why we women have to complicate it all ? Sex connects man to woman like prayer connects man to God. If a man does not have sex with his wife , he will never be connected to her in anyway. This has nothing to do with spirituality ! " in marriage in which a man can get sex whenever" Not only the man but also the wife since a husband is commanded to render his wife sex whenever too. This is what the Bible says . But this is NOT what is preached today since they have suppressed the biblical concept of marital duty , opening the door to Satan. Why would not a woman be "interested" in marriage in which a man can get sex whenever ? Do you realize what you are saying ? What does that mean ? That she is only interested if she can manipulate him with sex and trade her body like a whore ? I cannnot believe it ! Are we women that devilish ? Or is it that evil desire inside us that expresses itself ? The desire to usurp male sexual power through evil manipulation ? God gave man the sexual power with the erectile function of the male body. I wonder if some women , especially those insane feminists that have poisoned our civilisation are not jealous of it and do not cover this special power. Thus , the simplicity and righteouness of marital duty as stated in the Bible has been left aside ( not only by the world because pagans had marital duty too , but worse of all , by so called men of God whether pastors , priests or whatever) in order to let female manipulation go free ride. What you say is scary . Then women shoud not be interested in something steady , straight and efficient , they have to twist it all all the time ?? God created marriage but women created divorce , right ? 70% of divorces filed by women . Scary. To get back to what you said , of course a woman can have pleasure during sex , that is not difficult , that is natural , she just has to tell her husband what she sould like him to do for her or even initiate it since she also has power over his body . What is very dangerous though , is when we focus on female pleasure because we women tend to be easily unsatisifed . The feminist focus on female pleasure has opened some kind of Pandora's box that has never been closed. We want more , more and always more because we are entitled to expect more and always more. It seems that pleasure for men is not the same , men do not obsess over pleasure maybe because it comes more naturally for them or they are easily satisifed , in fact I don't know. That is also why focusing on men 's needs or will makes things steadier .

[@Alphacentauri819]

Isabelle M By pursuing sex, man is pursuing pleasure...and to be hypocritical and say a wife shouldn’t ?! That would be a good incentive! It’s certainly made a difference for me😂 Although really, women can get themselves off so much easier... so, really? The statistics state that women are filing for divorce at 66%... they are pushed to their limit. This is often after many horrible years..where the risk/benefit ratio (emotional mental) shifts... once a woman is so anxious, depressed, unsafe.. there is a tipping point. I have NEVER known a woman who wanted a divorce whose primary goal was to screw a man over...but get away from being screwed over herself. It was to save herself, not destroy the man...but that’s how men see it. Myopic and distorted. Statistics now reveal that around 60% of marriage end due to a problem with porn (including the men with PIED) Many of these men are no longer having sex with willing wives..either because they use all their energy masturbating to porn..or have shifted their dopamine reward system (that has to be working for erection...to answer your pleasure question)..and they can’t perform anyways. There is a very small percentage of women relieved..as they didn’t like the sex with their husbands anyways... but many are frustrated and lonely, feeling very unwanted etc. Divorce is driven by this dynamic more than any other cause...and this was released from a study by divorce lawyers. So riddle me that!!!!!!

[@Alphacentauri819]

Isabelle M cosmopolitan and other trash magazines through the years...focus on male pleasure etc... and it became so ingrained in me to be whatever a man wanted...that I certainly can get almost any man I want and turn them upside down with pleasure...but I had lost myself along the way. I I didn’t even realize that was part of the puzzle, my experience was valid.. most of sex has been about the male erection and orgasm..so male centric. To empower women about their bodies and pleasure is not a bad thing. Too many times it’s about the man...me are already naturally now selfish, and women more giving...it’s about time the tides changed a little. And having sex with a man who wants to please is AMAZING!!!!!!

[@alicealems2357]

I wish my husband could hear this maybe we won't be seperated

[@Kenya12891]

Send it to him 🙏🏽

[@purplemoose6431]

I never thought I’d be getting sexual advice from Batman!

[@katiemould6970]

Guys, is it true that you don’t need/want non-sexual affection? .. I just find it hard to believe!

[@mahmoudharmel1569]

We want it as much as women do..

[@indyj16]

Some train themselves not to want it so it won’t matter if they don’t get it.

[@abisamraj4408]

Everyone needs that but we can get non sexual affection from our parents and friends

[@boxelder9167]

I can get my need for respect met at work or with friends but when I only go to one person for sexual needs and get turned down regularly... I find it hard to believe that when you are having sex that you BOTH GET TO HAVE SEX but when I am meeting her emotional needs it almost never ends in sex and yet within 24 hours those emotional needs come right back to me wanting to be fed again. Whatever I did yesterday doesn’t count anymore and the sex we had 2 months ago should be enough to keep me satisfied. 😔

[@framboise595]

@ Katie Mould If men wanted non sexual affection , they would only turn a brother or a male friend . Doesn't the Bible call sex the "use of the woman"?

[@framboise595]

What do we get married for ? Who can still answer this critical question biblically ?

[@wrinthiak3431]

Marriage - or more succinctly, the covenant of marriage - is by God's design for sexual intimacy (Genesis 2-24), children and mirroring the oneness that Christ has with FatherGod. Ephesians 5 elaborates on the roles of both the husband and wife. Now, it's true that one can have sex and produce children without being married, but if one's desire is to follow God's instruction, "it is better to marry than to burn" (with lust). I hope this answers your question. Blessings

[@framboise595]

@@wrinthiak3431 Thanks for this answer. I knew the answer but I asked in a very provocative way to see if biblical truth still existed in this churchian spiritual and moral desert . I've heard so many times the lie that we get married because of "love" . As if love could do anything for people's sexual urges ! It is so serious. Evans is terrible at making marriage all about love and romance when marriage is primarily about SEX . Evans tell wives that they can say NO to sex . Do you realise how devilish his teachings are ? He deceives us wives into thinking that we still have ownership of our bodies . Evans encourages wives to be unsubmissive but tell husbands to "love" their wives unconditionally. Satanism posing as christian wisdom.

[@jstebakova]

@@framboise595 🤡🤡🤡

[@jessefoster2832]

I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME PHIL 4:13

[@otispage4]

So men who connected 100+.attempts still got divorced. 19% of the time.

[@framboise595]

@ otis page 4 Men get divorced in droves today because they listen to their deceived wives and are not dominant anymore.

[@joycegreer9391]

@@framboise595 It's more complicated than that.

[@panda59043]

There are so many disconnected people.

[@danitadrake8765]

So what’s the most important need for men? Jimmy said mutual satisfaction is #1 but then he said #4 of initiating sex is what men said is their most important need.

[@angloaust1575]

Such shall have troubles of the flesh

[@rachaelf1746]

Well, my husband doesn't give a care if I have enjoyment or not... 9 years, one orgasm (for me) and no urgency to change on his end. Hopefully the next "needs" are accurate 😒

[@lame_emo4011]

You migjt want to talk about that sound like a shitty guy

[@framboise595]

@ Rachael G. Men do not always know what please us most. It is good to tell them about it . They cannot guess it . Are you afraid of communicating your sexual needs to him ?

[@Alphacentauri819]

Maybe you guys can read ‘The Seven Levels of Intimacy’ together and have an open discussion. The only way you have a chance of having your needs met, is to talk about it. A healthy relationship requires vulnerability, openness, honesty, expressing needs and feelings. Too many times people develop toxic patterns and don’t even realize. You have every right to be fulfilled in your relationship, and you must connect to yourself and needs to do that. Good luck 🌸

[@larrygentis3838]

A man only becomes a king when he treats his wife like a queen! See ifyouloveme.co.uk

[@larrygentis3838]

So....thanks for your viewing, and let's treat our wives like the queens they are!

[@framboise595]

@@larrygentis3838 Women are not queens. Puttig women on a pedestal is what makes society crumble.

[@larrygentis3838]

@@framboise595 disagree....my wife is a queen because she behaves like one, and is treated accordingly. This is not a pedestal, it's a throne.

[@framboise595]

@@larrygentis3838 Well , the Bible says that a virtuous wife is her HUSBAND's crown. It is the husband who wears the crown , just like Christ is King of kings. A man does not "become" a king IF . He is the king of his kingdom , ie his family. Treating the wife as a queen is a new concept now shared by Catholics too. In Proverbs 31 , the wife is praised and honoured by her husband and her sons , but she is not regarded as a "queen" first. Anyway , in Israel , you had kings , but never queens. The only queen in Judah was a usurper. That said , some may say , if the husband is king , the wife is his queen then . OK , but in submission only.

[@larrygentis3838]

@@framboise595 point taken Isabelle...I'm only really saying that if a woman feels valued, it brings out the best in her. The crown, or the throne, are only images and allegorical expressions of this. Encouragement has great power for good, but discouragement has the adverse effect. I surely don't mean to "idolize" my wife, but rather to value her as God's great gift to me. That's what I mean by "my queen!"

[@smartiemart252]

There should not be any time that a wife tells her husband no about sex, and vice-versa. 1 CORINTHIANS 7 #oneflesh #Godsway #husbandloveyourwife #wifesubmit2yourownhusband #Ephesians5

[@Nothingbutdust_]

So, is it ok for a man to rape his wife if his wife is sick or in pain? There are situations where husbands should be required to sacrifice his own needs and not be inconsiderate. Both husband and wife serve God first and foremost, only secondly they serve their spouses. God is also telling husbands to be considerate and loving, righteous and not selfish, so where would all of that be in such a situation? A wife's duty comes only second to her husband after her duty to Christ who is the head and foundation of a holy marriage. A abusive husband is not a righteous husband with God's love. Wives need not be mindless slaves to their husbands who are unable of righteous dicernment. God did not create women to be animals to suffer under abusive men. Men need to also abide by God's commands.

[@framboise595]

@@Nothingbutdust_ " So , is it ok for a man to rape his wife" More Luciferian language .that is NEVER to be found in the Bible. You don't have the language of the Bible at all but you just pander to rebellious women who have premarital sex with any kind of men but who think they have a right to say "no" to their husbands !!! Evans teaches what the DEVIL wants to be taught and you agree with that liar. " to suffer under abusive men" Women naturally suffer itn their own bodies and it was GOD Hilmself (what an abuser !) who inflicted that pain to the woman in transgression and as a consequence to all women. Women are so used to suffering in their bodies that forceful sex is not even a thing to them.

[@robertharvey9047]

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[@robertharvey9047]

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[@robertharvey9047]

sex she man love

[@georgesontag2192]

The women will be hard to keep happy no matter what you do or say. Keeping the man happy is easy.

[@fifinana1000]

My husband was never happy, we have only good sex, the rest was catastrophy. Egoism kills love...

[@framboise595]

@ George sontag "Keeping the man happy is easy" Exactly. That's why the BIBLE that Evans the feminist scorns and mocks makes marriage about the MAN first and foremost.

[@Denise-ob8dk]

Hey get in the bedroom. ...lol!

[@larrygentis3838]

Denise 1101 if all the action is only in the bedroom, the relationship will be as small as the room. www.ifyouloveme.co.uk

[@framboise595]

@@larrygentis3838 Everything starts off in the bedroom because the marriage bed is the centre of marriage. This is how the two become" one flesh" and this is God's definition of marriage. No marriage without a marriage bed. Sex IS the primary reason why Christians get married : " To avoid sexual immorality , let every man have his wife (..) " 1 co 7

[@abisamraj4408]

Super

[@Android-ds9ie]

@@larrygentis3838 you are stupid

[@framboise595]

@@Android-ds9ie Like most western men who are unable to possess their wives sexually and wonder why their marriage is a joke.

[@sparklessconnectionselectrical]

My wife:honey, what do you want for your birthday? Me: you, or a 5 liter Mustang with a 6 speed... ... I wish that red was silk but metal will do.

[@formicapple2]

Did all those and more. Wife has refused to demonstrate any affection for the last twenty two years. Re Ken we married the wrong spouse

[@Free-bt6gn]

Is this a church service? Man, church sure has changed !

[@wilmacook4754]

Marriage Conference

[@faith4today]

Lol 😂

[@JTDyer21]

I think all this can be accomplished with a nap.

[@illssolution5720]

Just tuned in... LMAO with his #1 Men needs from sex. Still laughing!

[@EnemyAce88]

So what do you do when your wife is always on her phone and is NEVER interested in sex? All my affection and attempts to make her feel loved and get her in the mood go completely unnoticed and unappreciated. Our sex life consists of "hurry up and get it overwith" once a month if I'm lucky. And by the way, I have to ask her to help me with chores. If the housework was left up to her we'd be on an episode of Hoarders.

[@harmoneeabraham9336]

Pray for your relationship with your wife. Invite God into each and every aspect of it. Talk less about what your wife doesn't do and more about what makes you so happy to call her your wife. You may be better at the house work and she better with the kids or finances. Celebrate the fact that your not on an episode of Hoarders and buy yourself a gadget that would make the chores a little easier for you. God holds marrieds in a special place in his heart. Remember that you and your wife are set apart. I'll be praying for you. Smile. it's not really as bad as it could be :-)

[@EnemyAce88]

Harmonee Abraham I appreciate that. Thank you.

[@tshidisokhaudi6601]

am also affected by this no sex show. I think i am losing my mind and still playing an understanding husband. Discussing has not helped

[@SadeWithTheReceipts]

EnemyAce88 MY MAN JUST STARTS EATING THE PIE WHILE IM ON MY PHONE....AND IF I SAY NO I DON'T FEEL LIKE IT AND PUSH HIM AWAY...THEN HE HOLDS MY HANDS AND ARMS DOWN AND GOES TO WORK!!! THAT'S A TURN ON FOR ME AND HE NOW KNOWS THAT. SO NOO HES NOT A RAPIST PEOPLE😂😂HOWEVER, HE IS A CHEATER. FOUND OUT ABOUT THE 1ST GIRL IN DECEMBER WHILE I WAS PREGNANT....HE WAS WITH HER MORE THAN ONCE. SO I CRIED STAYED UP DIDN'T EAT FOR A WEEK. NO EXAGGERATION. FAST FOWARD A BIT, GAVE BIRTH TO OUR DAUGHTER EARLY AND SHE JUST TURNED A MONTH OLD, STILL IN THE NICU BTW....FOUND OUT ABOUT ANOTHER WOMAN THE NIGHT B4 LAST. INVITED HER OVER...HIS FACE WAS PRICELESS. B4 SHE SLAPPED HIM SEVERAL TIMES SHE SAID SHE WAS IN LOVE WITH HIM AND BEEN WITH HIM FOR 3 MONTHS. REMEMBER OUR BABY IS A MONTH. HE TOLD HER HE LIVES WITH HIS SISTER AND SHE DOESN'T ALLOW PPL OVER. I TOLD HER EVEN IF IT WERE TRUE I WOULD'VE KNOCKED ON THE DOOR TO SEE 4 MYSELF....THEN SHE WOULD'VE MET ME AT THE DOOR LOONG AGO B4 CATCHING FEELINGS WITH THE DOGG. SHE SEEMED JUST AS HURT AS I AM. BUT GOD & PRAYER👍👍👋👋🙏🙏 #JESUS

[@aminakhmadi9193]

That's what you get, when you play games on husband.

[@framboise595]

Where has marital duty as taught in the Bible gone ? Where has the word and vision of God for sex gone ? Where is western Christianity going to with this silly romanticism ?

[@kuteesaelizabeth7862]

He refers to the bible a lot as far as I know..... Most of his teaching s are biblical besides this is 8 yrs ago

[@framboise595]

@@kuteesaelizabeth7862 Sorry but he does not teach as the Bible teaches , ie the sexual obligation in marriage. He takes one or two verses and then twist them to fit his feminist agenda .

[@lindaburnette2200]

@@framboise595 Nowhere in the Bible does God talk about sex between a husband and a wife. If you get right down to it, strictly speaking, the Bible speaks of two things when it comes “sex”; procreation and abstinence. If a husband, or wife for that matter, are not having sex for the specific purpose of getting pregnant; both the husband and the wife are to abstain from sex. Your interpretation of “Marital Duty” for any other reason than to procreate is incorrect. When the Bible speaks of “submission” it actually speaks to both the husband and the wife submitting to each other. Having a sexual relationship must be a mutual decision. If it’s not; it’s called rape.

[@jamesthompson316]

@@lindaburnette2200 so what your saying is if you only want one or two kids that’s the only sex you can have with each other? That’s very depressing, no wonder religious zealots are so bleedin miserable

[@lindaburnette2200]

@@jamesthompson316 I was answering the original post by Isabelle M who seems to think that a woman doesn’t have a right to say “No” to her husband. To that way of thinking RAPE is okay as long as it takes place in the marital bed. Like a wife is supposed to be submissive to her husband, no matter the circumstances.

[@georgettecross4149]

I want all of this with my True Husband Because I am Still In Love with him and I need him tonight . He is still my Handsome man he is still a smart cookie that I 💝to eat and hold and kiss and make love to.

[@jackanthony976]

"Making love" are nothing but code words for sex which is the devil's playground.

[@velvetbrown74]

@@jackanthony976 God created sex. Calling what is good "evil" is evil itself. The mind is where sex starts and an mind un-renewed to God's Word can be the devil's playground but sex in and of itself is not.

[@framboise595]

@ Georgette Cross ' Because I am still in Love with him" What if you didn't ? Sex does not depend on how you feel. Sex is DUTY , something that is owed by both spouses. Making sex an emotional thing is what opens the door to Satan 1 Co 7:5 Only duty sex makes any marriage last .

[@faith4today]

This is the kind of woman I want...and I will do anything to keep her in love with me!

[@framboise595]

@@faith4today As if men had anything to do to "keep women in love with them" ! Where do you see that in the Bible ? It is so weak , so feminised , so silly , so emotional , so unmanly. There is absolutely no steadiness anymore when men start to apologise to women and walk on egg shells with them as they do today. A man married a woman , she stands by him , period . Women are so changing that you can never trust in female fidelity. Women feel A on monday and B on tuesday . There is a reason why GOD made man head of woman , but he is not anymore. He is a pussy who complains intead of imposing his will and vision of things . He acts feminine and wonders why he is not heard and respected anymore !!! Joke.

[@tinalab7682]

How do you have intimacy with a verbal abuser whether you have sex or not.

[@christianswhoquestion2676]

A simple study to see the differences between all 41,000 Christian denominations will show ONLY MINOR differences BUT a close look at the CORE BELIEFS know as "The profession of Faith" of each of the 41,000 denominations will show they are EXACTLY THE SAME...... ............................................ Protestant also includes ALL of the 41,000 denominations baptists , SDA, Pentecostal , Methodist, Assemblies of God and on and on AND ALL of the 41,000 .. ............................................ In the 4th century of the Roman Empire Constantine who himself thought he was a god, was frustrated at all the pagan religions springing up in Rome that caused bloodshed and division and knew he could not just kill and continue to persecute all the Christians SO HE decided to bring them all together in ONE UNIFIED "UNIVERSAL" ROMAN CHURCH.... ........................................... The word "catholic" literally means "universal" .. The Latin word is catholicus, and in Greek it is katholikos.. The word in English can mean "including a wide variety of things"= universal , all-embracing= universal . ............................................ The Cult of Isis, an Egyptian mother-goddess religion, was absorbed into Christianity by replacing Isis with Mary. MARY was then given the titles that were used for Isis, such as “Queen of Heaven,” “Mother of God,” and theotokos(“God-bearer”) were given to Mary.... The "SUN" worshippers were included and became "SON" worshipers OF THE GOD MARY BORE ! Constantine absorbed all the gods of love, the god of peace, and the gods of joy into ONE GOD CALLED "THE FATHER" and consolidated the gods of war, the gods of strength and the gods of wisdom INTO ONE god called "THE SPIRIT"... ............................................ The pagan Jewish belief of "ABRAHAMS BOSOM" became "PURGATORY" and "ETERNAL TORMENT" was added to fill people with fear and fully obedient to Rome and its increasing demands for" MONEY and Power..... ............................................ In AD 313 Constantine lifted the ban or Christianity and in AD 325 Constantine called the Council of Nicea and formally launched "THE ROMAN UNIVERSAL CHURCH" made up of the bastardisation of Christianity and the demonic pagan cults of early Rome. Constantine made an EDICT (an official order or proclamation) THAT ALL future doctrine MUST REFLECT THE TEACHING OF ROME... .. Today THE CORE BELIEFS of early Rome are STILL TAUGHT in every single one of the worlds 41,000 denominations ... ............................................ THERE ARE 3 gods The Father is a god the son Jesus is a god the spirit is a god and Mary is the mother of ALL THE gods...... 1/The Father god of love ............................................ 2/ The spirit god of wisdom ............................................ 3/ the "SUN" god now called "THE SON" CHANGED FROM ZEUS TO JESUS...... ............................................ 4/ ALL the gods have a mother called "MARY" Jesus the SON god is born of Mary... ............................................ 5/ The Father god (OF LOVE) will torment you forever IF YOU DO NOT OBEY HIM...... ............................................ The Bible speaks of a "THE MOTHER OF HARLOTS" or "whore" church has many daughters. The Protestant and her 41,000 denominations are the harlots daughters as she has 3 gods and the 41,000 protestant denominations are "the many daughters" of the "harlot and whore church system" of Revelation 17. The mother of Revelation 17 is the Roman Catholic church and her harlot daughters are ALL the 41,000 Protestant denominations.. The Creators word the bible also warns us that the "harlot and her daughters" will be dressed in "purple and scarlet" the exact colours that bishops and cardinals wear in both the catholic and protestant church ..!!! ............................................... THE PROFESSION OF FAITH of every single one of the 41,000 denominations AGREE COMPLETELY WITH ROME AND USE CLEAVER WORDING TO HIDE THE FACT THAT ALL 41,0000 DENOMINATIONS ARE FULLY AND WHOLLY PAGAN AND DEMONIC AND TWIST SCRIPTURE JUST LIKE SATAN TO SUIT AND AGREE WITH THERE DOCTRINE OF MEN!!! ............................................... THE CREATOR GOD PRESERVED THE TRUTH AND CAN BE FOUND IN THE BIBLE """ONLY""" TO THOSE WHO STUDY FOR THEMSELVES AND WORK TO FIND THE TRUTH......... ............................................... HOW TO BE TRULY SAVED 1/ Keep the first Commandment NO OTHER gods Except the Creator of all flesh Yahweh 2/ Believe in the second Adam the Saviour THE MAN Yeshua / Jesus who was born of a women A FLESH AND BLOOD MAN NOT A god and that he lived on earth and died sinless for your sins and was RAISED FROM THE DEAD BY THE CREATOR YAHWEH The Creator of all flesh (Romans 10:9) .................................................. The fact that all the worlds Christian denominations are now pagan backs up the teaching of Jesus Christ that "THE END TIMES" would be the same as "IN THE DAYS OF NOAH" WHEN THE WHOLE WORLD WAS ALSO PAGAN except for "a few" ......... .................................................... Time to wake up Church ...THERE WILL NOT BE A NEXT TIME !!! ................................................... Taken from the FREE book “What every person should consider now”. A fully interactive and simple to read book that is not part of any church or any denomination allowing the writer to tell the absolute truth and shame the devil. Get your FREE copy at www.godsairforce.org

[@tracilovespsych]

I have found men to be the undersexed ones. It is too much effort for them to actually help you enjoy it too so they just don’t want it that much. Then when they do it is underwhelming. It is really sad that the person you are supposed to have sex with does not want it.

[@nofybn7794]

Which is why they like blow ------- and hand ------ so much, no effort from him.

[@abisamraj4408]

@@nofybn7794 you don't have to prove it again and again that u r a stupid

[@timagination1295]

Very very sad

[@Android-ds9ie]

@@timagination1295 don't worry good days are coming soon all all women will be replaced by realistic sex robots hahaha

[@Alphacentauri819]

So, so true... many women not having the sex they want and feeling deprived. Many men are wasting their energy on porn and then don’t have the desire or energy for their partners. It’s a sad state of affairs. It’s just as bad as cheating...and I see no reason to stay with a man like that.