An African American Man Married To A Ugandan Woman REVEALS These CULTURAL Differences! EP 32

Today we are on with ‪@howimetmyugandanwifebrando579‬ (How I Met My Ugandan Wife) KZbin Channel. It is operated by Brandon and Hajarah. Today we are going to be discussing the differences between dating an African American vs. A Ugandan.
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[@Kenganda]

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[@ggmb1032]

I'm from Uganda living in Texas. Thank you my sisters for treating those brothers with respect. You give the entire country a good name. Continue the good work.

[@BlackMist123]

have you ever sent a package to Uganda from Texas? If so how much was it?

[@saraibabra131]

Coming soon

[@abdulsharif6541]

Ugandan, kenyan, Tanzanian, and Rwandan women are absolutely beautiful

[@damanibaraka7896]

Don't leave out Congolese.

[@chosenone-akayorubaprince1393]

The looks is mostly irrelevant its about the femininity

[@Thatthing1234]

South African and Nigerian too🤌🏽

[@fabianparson3378]

This is a very humble and down to earth brother. I'm happy for him and his bride. Great show!

[@humblebrotha1]

I'm dating a Ugandan woman. She is beautiful..

[@blissug4290]

Kudos bro

[@kennykross3306]

date ur own woman clown

[@humblebrotha1]

@@kennykross3306 Excuse me clown what do you mean.

[@hopenakita7480]

@@humblebrotha1 she didn't mean it in a bad way I think she was trying to sound American and she didn't know how it may sound kind of weird for her do say kiddos bro pardon our village sister trying to sound American 😊🙏 but she meant no harm or disrespect to you and I will say congratulations to you and your Ugandan lady

[@humblebrotha1]

@@hopenakita7480 It's all good I'm not tripping.

[@howimetmyugandanwifebrando579]

Shout out to our Kenganda Family! Thank you for the great interview 🙏🏽

[@s.o.smigration.4067]

More American brothers should come to the motherland and marry their queen.Congratulations my brother.May God bless your marriage.

[@s.o.smigration.4067]

@@sweetcheekz2261 Money ?Is there a free lunch or dinner?

[@patriciamorrison187]

Yes thats what i say a humble beautiful brother all the best

[@brianmcdew5826]

@Gentle Breeze what you mean troll

[@karinazrzu]

Yes, that would be so beautiful. African sisters are so beautiful and traditional.

[@MyPrimeone]

I'm on it but so far I have met scammers not so easy 😆

[@tyronsimpson2143]

I've got my Ungandan girl. Love from Manchester England ❤️

[@ibrahimmansaray4705]

This brother look and sound humble and I think he will be happy with his new life in Africa.

[@trishtrish2349]

Nice . It is refreshing to see a B American that is open minded about Africa.

[@thelocdtype]

I am married to nigerian. I'm AA

[@tonymckinney1355]

Millions of us are.

[@kameronhill8965]

Cool guy to have on. Oshay hits on a whole new frequency when it comes to the comparison of western women and African women.

[@anngore3842]

I am happy for this brother that he met the love of his life, likewise his bride. However i do find the comparisons between AA women and Ugandan women unhelpful. Ugandans don't have to deal with racism in the workplace and in the society as a whole, the stress of just existing affects you mentally and physically. It really takes its toll on you and impacts on how we relate to each other.

[@Silverbackugx]

Lol..please Ms Gore, I live in Uganda and I'm a single man. I hear personally and daily how women here from different tribes diss each other, when they all after the same thing....🙄..sigh

[@ekfreeman1]

You are correct Ann. Racism does have a major effect on us.

[@APOLO-oq3ce]

I dated quite a few African American sisters in Los Angeles, I delt with all their racist issues when they came home.We also have other issues we have to deal with Raising a family in Africa is not a walk in the park. At least you folks can send your chidren to public schools, even get help from your government, with a credit line American can start a successful business. And in your old age you still can get affordable housing and social security. Some women even stick around for a husband pension and social security.

[@Silverbackugx]

@@APOLO-oq3ce you have fully bought into the propaganda of America if you think raising a family in America is walk in the park. There was just ANOTHER school shooting in Tennessee. Business loans for Black people are high interest and predatory IF they can get one regardless of whether they qualify, there was a reason they had racial issues. Help from the government? You watch too much American propaganda. Affordable housing is code word for ghetto, Social Security is not a GIFT from the government, it's money that was taken from your salary if you worked in America for at least ten years. That money is taken and invested by the government where THEY make money off of it. If you live to age 65 they give you a portion of what they took until you die NOT the money they made while investing. This portion that you get is based on how much you actually paid into it, if you were a low wage worker, expect an income below poverty, if you made more, expect a salary at poverty. Poverty level is actually determined by these income levels. Before you speak on the American system maybe you should know what it really is and why it's going to implode very soon under BRICS.

[@Tealilly1777]

I’m very happy that he married an African woman vs YT women however there are American blk women do cook and clean and take care of their men. We just want our men to appreciate us. There is a difference in the lifestyles of Africans and Americans. They have never had to deal with what we deal with in the workplace remember we deal with Racism here which takes a toll on your mental state of mind.

[@pplopde4437]

There is difference between race, ethnicity and nationality . African is a race of black/ negroid people . European is a race of white/caucasoid people . Asian/ mongoloid like Native American or Korean . Compare Uganda to America nationality or black American to black Ugandans with multiple ethnicities like Baganda etc . racial issues global like challenges faced by black Zimbabweans, black Mexicans, black south Africa, black Americans , black British etc . Public schools less informative .

[@petersemugenyi9429]

You only need to stable your mind. Here too things aren't as easy as you think. Our women have challenges at workplace. Bosses solicit for sex to have them for work. What do you prefer now? Racism or sexual harassment? It is all about perception

[@africanglobalnomad]

@@petersemugenyi9429 not to mention the mandatory social expectations that African women have to fulfill for society, not just nuclear family or cooking and cleaning as she simplifies it 😂!

[@africanglobalnomad]

@Ms. some things are part of the culture as you said but some of it has to include upbringing and environment. Because we have a lot of African women overseas facing racism and married or single and still cook and clean as you put it. Of course every culture has outliers and even for the very “westernized” native Africans they have boundaries as far as submitting to husbands goes. What makes it easier is because African culture as a whole places a lot of respect for older people and men so it comes easier than in the west where relationships like these are very casual.

[@kingmelanin7468]

@@africanglobalnomad What are these other social expectations that East African women have to fulfill?

[@erickmoenga1206]

As a kenyan American..i would tell you for free...African American men...especially those who their life together makes the best husbands....if find a God fearing husband, you will live the best life, they are really good with spoiling their loved ones.

[@lisa196409]

As an African-American woman I am not mad at you. As long as she is of African descent I am good I am pleasantly surprised and I'm happy for you guys. At least you're doing it the right way. The American way is to have children then marry..... maybe 🤷🏿‍♀️ the proper way to do it is what you all are doing you marry her then you enjoy dating her, while being married. You make it work no matter what you all made a promise to God, for better or worse in sickness and in health, till death do you part.🎉🎉🎉🎉 Congratulations to the blushing Bride and congratulations to the groom. I am so happy for you guys. Congratulations this will be the best time of your life.❤❤❤❤

[@TheFlyyBohemian]

This is such a sweet message!!!

[@MarcusPark-rb8fl]

Who cares what you are mad about our choices as BM. You have proven what I say about BW. You think you own BM

[@MarcusPark-rb8fl]

Sweet 😂BM are not slaves and don’t need her approval

[@user-sl2jz8en3o]

As a Nigerian man that's a sweet message..I hope you find happiness too❤❤❤

[@nomadictravelerfromTx]

I met my now wife online too. I'm from Houston and she is black brazilian. I thought I was going to be single for the rest of my life too...Life is wonderful now. Traveling abroad was the best thing I ever done.😊

[@LionMentality1982]

From the States (H-Town, TX) I'm diggin the culture, especially the "Bride Price". I think our people in the states need more structure, & respect for culture. That foundation can help heal relationship wounds, dating (w/ purpose), steady marriages, and raising kids.

[@galvatron77]

Agree completely my brother. And it's "bride price". 😅💯

[@LionMentality1982]

@@galvatron77 fixed. lol

[@africanglobalnomad]

Enjoyed the discussion! So happy for this couple! We need more of these examples including the African diaspora women married to African men. Thanks 👌🏿👍🏿👏🏿✌🏿

[@Silverbackugx]

#African Global ...do these African men expect to go pay the "Brideprice" for diaspora women? 🤔..I wonder if the hustle goes both ways. You seem to want "integration" into your culture on a hypocritical basis of one-sidedness, but that's to be expected from a culture of "appreciation"..🤣

[@nelshiro]

Most African women are responsive to their husbands in the way that you mentioned because their husbands not only provide but protect them big time!. Not the case in the US. Most (not all) keep talking about going 50/50 or are entirely not responsible. An African man knows his place even if his wife earns an income. Respect is earned!

[@blissug4290]

Waiting for more bro's to mingle with us🥰

[@petersemugenyi9429]

Always here for a divine encounter. You're welcome

[@suezcontours6653]

@@petersemugenyi9429 Good men. Don't bring the Passport Bros dissing Black American women. They are sus.

[@pharoahkhan6458]

Just invite a Brotha

[@suezcontours6653]

@@pharoahkhan6458 Nope. We have a vetting process

[@petersemugenyi9429]

@@suezcontours6653 why the passport? No stereotypes here. No prejudices only matters of a 💙

[@puntosxm]

Good to have you back.

[@lablueplumbing6073]

Oshay, thank you for "leading" this conversation and asking the tough questions. And even more so elaborating on the differences of women from Africa and American. Black American women need to get back into their femininity before they lose most of their men to African women.

[@fastrecon1]

​@Gentle Breeze and you are an example of a woman who has no femininity, accountability is certainly Krytonite .

[@fastrecon1]

​@Gentle Breeze "most of them are no good", so how do you know this?

[@KB-un3bt]

Why did you have to say such disrespectful things about Black American ladies?. Date who you want but don't insult Black American ladies.

[@marinesam6021]

African American women are merely operating in the position they were put in. You either adapt and overcome or drown. Check yourself, sir.

[@scottola2497]

Not only African American women, but many American women are gonna lose big time, until they learn keep quiet, support their man, respect the fact that marriage is really for better for worse and also ready to submit to their man !!

[@KobbeRJacc]

Great content. Congrats, Brandon. 🥇🏆

[@jahkarimirza7286]

This is awesome. Oshay, you should promote to the well-accomplished brothers who are travelling for a wife to come and marry a beautiful African woman. I don't think they know how wifey they can be compared to the women in America.

[@Silverbackugx]

"promote to the well-accomplished brothers"...be sure that these brothers know that they are well accomplished, and most of them will notice and resent a shake down attempt...then it's Zoom to Thailand or off to Brazil.

[@loyustasi1861]

Let us not compare our sisters. That is putting them against eachother.

[@thezu9250]

I’m also East African and in our culture, the bride gift or whatever is set by the bride. It also goes directly to her. The family is not allowed to touch it. So you got some pretty cool bridal ideas. Some people get animals. Some people get jewelry. Some people get religious readings by their husbands if they are very pious. This allows young people to get married and for women to have more control over who is an eligible suitor! At the end of the day, young women want to be with men their own age.

[@KZ-gh4yt]

I really enjoyed the podcast. Good luck with the marriage king.

[@uptowngeorgiaave900]

Love the show. And you have a new sub. Peace and love ✊🏿💪🏿

[@blockavelli]

I really like the repat podcast.

[@WallyW20M]

Wow!!!💥 Awesome!!!💥

[@kirungikellen383]

This is so sweet 💕

[@joshanderson7358]

Well done. That's the spirit. Stay safe.

[@Traveltheworldtube]

Great episode im happy for this brother and his bride..

[@nyeusinyoka9357]

This video is very insightful.

[@hanadetergent1651]

Watching from Uganda 🇺🇬 ❤❤❤

[@lisa196409]

He said "right babe"he even gets her approval on what they actually did when it came to getting her bride price. She is definitely worth it little brother from another mother. He did good and you did good and choosing one another.😢 So happy for you guys.

[@dug757]

Interesting!

[@drakemiller5356]

Interesting conversation.

[@shisuiuchiha480]

Same in South Africa. No meeting parents until you bring cows. Although I have to admit American culture is very influential here so you do get parents who all their sons/daughters to introduce them to their boyfriend/girlfriend.

[@provenceatuhaire-jl2ib]

I enjoyed the conversation,thnx to you kenganda it is my first time watching ...I must say Brandon and Hajalah wll make a great union bcoz thy are all well humble, respectful, caring n loving for each other, wat could else a woman want in aman? understanding, mostly we Ugandan ladies.congrat's both of you ❤❤

[@darionrobinson1]

Great awesome video

[@dug757]

Uh oh, is Mama Jackson wanting some Lil Oshays? 😂

[@africanglobalnomad]

Great question 😂

[@judyjones4959]

Oshay, mentioned African men show appreciation, that is key.

[@carlforpresidentanthony4574]

after you say Del Paso heights i need a "GUNSHOTS PLEASE!" sample 😂😂🤣

[@lennywilliams9675]

Awesome story

[@joanabjorklund5419]

This guy is a good man. Just imagine him thinking of his parents. So sweet thinking of your aging parents. Good bless you.

[@ednaW5940]

Well I pray all goes well, however, trouble hit in all marriages no matter what part of the world!

[@hassanabdur-rahman1559]

This brother's experience is almost identical to my experience. My wife is from the Gambia. She is my soulmate and her family is my family. In fact we both took a DNA test and found out that we are actually distant cousins.

[@agente180]

True love still exists. People that care about the well being of the other.

[@TheScentConnoisseur]

Lovely broadcast humble brotha congratulations to him and his wife and many blessings!

[@kingdomwatchmanministries2230]

You always get what you deserve: this guy growing up in usa and never met another girl until he met the right one, very surprising...same was to me, now 7 kids in North America. God will always bless your respect to yourself and to others

[@rojielehepburn6065]

Awwwwwesome!! 😎👍👍👍👍

[@junenothere]

Blessings to all.

[@Cahluvca]

Congrats to that brotha!

[@glensmiller6104]

i have got to go to Uganda

[@leeimhotep71]

Dumelang, greetings from RSA

[@Demonte202]

Crazy that the parents didn't know about it because biblically bride prize, courtship, and father blessing ,

[@Silverbackugx]

Please show or reference ANY PLACE in the Bible were there is Bride Price...👀👀...and NOT some non sense open for "interpretation"

[@africaine4889]

@@Silverbackugx get over it bride peice is not going asay dear. Go and marry a black american womam. Or asia. Or latina or white

[@Silverbackugx]

@@africaine4889 lady don't concern yourself with who I marry or don't marry. The problem with bride price isn't my problem, it's Africa's problem because of the social effects it has. Young people speak freely when there are no "not so wise elders" around. They suffer because of old people. Men still moving around and acting like boys well into their thirties, being fully sexually mature and producing babies all over the place, the poverty and lack of opportunity keeping bride price out of their reach, but old people benefit from the free labor of children and young adults who resentfully abandon them at the first opportunity leaving their old selfish asses to beg in the streets or begin selling off land. You can hold on to your old outdated irrelevant BS and call it "appreciation" or anything else you want to call it, the bribery and corruption plaguing the continent is also called "appreciation". Until African wake up and adjust their culture, they will always be stagnated in the 17th century.

[@johntewithers5444]

What up O’Shay. As an African American I’ve noticed that when we date a person from another culture we tend to always be the ones that adjust our conduct and cultural norms to adhere to the other persons cultural norms. I rarely see it reciprocated. It appears as it’s almost become the expectation. Even in the relationships in America.

[@thepreciousperspective]

In what case are your cultural norms being pushed to the side?

[@Silverbackugx]

You are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT MR WITHERS!! well said, I have found them quick to shoot off ignorance about us not having a culture and value system of traditions we also are proud of.

[@Silverbackugx]

@@thepreciousperspective the idea and practice of "bride price" is one example of cultural divergence.

[@tyali84]

I'd also be interested to find out what cultural norms as a Black American are you expected to push aside?

[@Silverbackugx]

@@tyali84 let me give you a few....1. people are not for sale. 2. Punctuality and HONESTY are important. 3. Friendship is not based on usefulness, 4. Responsibility and ACCOUNTABILITY are human character traits, not imaginary income level attributes. 5. Bribery and corruption are THEFT, on a higher level than a poor person stealing a cell phone and getting beat to death in the street. I could go on but I'm sure you'll claim that I have no culture or traditions ..lol. l only live in your society, your culture will never be mine, no matter how many times I arrive at 9am for a 9am appointment and I'm still three hours early. That's truthful sarcasm if you don't understand.

[@DJDavis844]

Where is he located in Texas? I'm in Dallas and got my wife in Uganda. Would like to link up with the bro

[@africanglobalnomad]

Where are you from?

[@DJDavis844]

@@africanglobalnomad I'm born and bred in NYC. Now living in Dallas

[@howimetmyugandanwifebrando579]

Our page link is up on the video reach out and our page has a email adress , reach out please but am in Austin

[@ignitechildrenshopeinitiative]

Austin

[@jywist]

This is funny. Our Black American men are in SO MUCH pain.

[@pastorgideontruzindaminist8746]

Ugandans we are people who respect our culture and we always stand for our rights if we hate something we pickup our weapons and we fight against it.and if we love something you will not seduce us to stop. We are known as the pearl of Africa because we are pan Africanist. Our young sisters are taught to respect men from their child hood .We believe that civilization of families unity started from uganda. We ar the source of the Nile the longest river in Africa begins from ug

[@ajokeemmanuel4649]

Your knowledge is very limited. I am glad YOU believe civilisation of family unity started from Uganda!!! "Delusional" does not begin to describe you.

[@kdunc41]

I am planning on making that move to Uganda for love as well . Its mainly for peace of mind but I ran into someone in the process. What say ye?

[@junenothere]

Amen

[@glensmiller6104]

Got to come to Uganda

[@marthanamusabi4614]

Please come there are great women here in Uganda

[@abdulsharif6541]

j am coming to Africa (Black Africa) to create opportunities

[@PantherParty84]

That's how it was in the 50 's and 60's

[@favouratta6047]

Great 👏👏 show guys I enjoyed watching.. to add to what the other guy was sayings about AFRICAN WOMEN get influence when they travel to America they start to change or something like that.. I don't think is in a bad way it is more like. I have a voice here I can speak out and stand for myself when I'm being treated badly.. because back home there's nothing like that.. I'm from Nigeria so most Girls Growing in Africa we saw our mothers, sisters, aunties being abuse & treated badly by our fathers,& uncles but couldn't do/ say anything cause of their softness & how we were raised.. so you coming to America and seeing things done different knowing that you now have a voice and can stand up for themselves and not accept bad treatment the thing is any woman can be soft or feminine to a man but it's just the Fear of getting abuse cause a lot of men tend to use advantage of the women being feminine to be abusive &mistreat her so men should just learn not to take advantage of a woman softness..

[@Silverbackugx]

💯 agreed @Favor Atta

[@ednaW5940]

On my God! What! Please ! Some of us don't like each other! That's everywhere, anyway, well as being in Ghana all is not peaches and cream. No disrespect to my Ghanaian family!

[@therealmotivator4U]

This video makes me want to travel to Uganda more and more...just not sure what part of Uganda

[@kcchristop]

Start from the capital

[@therealmotivator4U]

@@kcchristop That's the first place I seen a video of was Kampala... appreciate it

[@provenceatuhaire-jl2ib]

Start with the Kampala then mbarara the western Uganda,wow... you wll thank me later .

[@saraibabra131]

Brandon how did you go about the process of immigration of your wife

[@dariush.4241]

ATX in the House!

[@Nell654]

In the African American culture there are seldom dads in the picture and there are no cultural rituals unlike in Africa. It’s a serious matter. I have several advanced degrees. I live in the USA and I have cooked almost everyday for years and submissive at home.

[@Silverbackugx]

@Nelly with "several advanced degrees"..lol ..in African culture there are seldom dads in the picture and there are all kinds of useless, backwards A$$ cultural rituals that enable child abandonment and female abuse. I cook almost everyday also, and am not submissive at home because it's my house.

[@Silverbackugx]

@Guevara the current estimated population of Africa is 1.4B people ...the current Black population of America is estimated around 40M. Just by the numbers, I can guarantee there are more gay men in Africa than in America..you are the reason that people say most African men are just dumb. It's not because of educational opportunities or mental capacity, it's backward A$$ cultural arrogance.

[@karinazrzu]

Exactly!

[@africaine4889]

​​@@Silverbackugxthe arrogant here is you. Love africa but hate the owners of the land. Mtchewww. And u lie thinking we Africans do not know exactly what is going in the US I'm your community. Nine of us is above the other

[@tnbn55]

European ancestry in his genes is highly dominant.

[@Ismail-cf6xu]

Oshay sippin' on that syrup feelin' nice.

[@realpeopleoftheinternet]

In America Your " Main Chick " is someones side chick. Thats why dudes give up on relationships , Good dudes get broken want relationships .

[@MrKevin1144]

This channel is going to be serious.

[@lejumoga6233]

This is a good information, but it does not apply to all tribes in Uganda. Other tribes will have a different way of doing a marriage.

[@Silverbackugx]

Thank you....@Leju Moga

[@ZedGirl]

@25:03 is that low-key envy from the host due to the brothers' love story?😮

[@ZedGirl]

@31:56 comment about him (right side guest) getting more views also sounds like envy 😢 (from the guy sitting on the left. )

[@jahifaraji]

This is the positive brides we need to continue build. ..the humble ones of us need this type of unions..

[@odoyoaghaye]

Oshay & Racheal please get married 💍

[@ednaW5940]

Really its so sad my heart is full. down thru time BW have taken a licking but managed to keep on ticking. Yes there are bad women but this is all people, majority of black women have stuck with their Man through thick and thin. Yes this younger generation is different but to hear black men do and say I just don't know! Now a lot of black women are turning to wm, the majority of black women want their own men but have been rejected. God help us!

[@jhakusembe8211]

Im from Namibia, in our culture the Uncles from the mothers side ARE the ones who keep the bride price, not the father or mother. The father is not allowed to touch the bride price money. In our culture you can not eat money for your daughters' waist.

[@gideonkawooya]

That's so surprising because in Uganda those uncles don't really do much in a niece or nephew's lives

[@africanglobalnomad]

@J oh just hearing of this. Interesting that the father should take it - and for good reason!

[@jhakusembe8211]

@@gideonkawooya True, Nowadays those uncles don't do much, they take care of their own kids ( school, university ect.)but they also don't get any cattle when their own daughters get married.

[@selphaadweya]

I think is an east African thing pride price goes to the dad I'm Kenyan

[@Silverbackugx]

@@selphaadweya I'm from America, bride price goes into MY household for MY wife and children, her father can always come over for dinner and a cold beer, but he nor any members of her family are NOT welcome into my pockets.

[@Tmmd75]

Do you think the black church helps or hinder relationships? Why are there more women attending church than men. Does culture hold more weight over religion

[@Demonte202]

Thier is no such thing as boyfriend and girlfriend in our culture

[@Silverbackugx]

That's Interesting @Te Douglas, because you sure have a $#!+ ton of baby mamas..

[@APOLO-oq3ce]

That is not true, I knew alot of women in Uganda who moved in with a man right off jump street. I hope outsiders don't go to Uganda, and think they won't have issues.

[@Silverbackugx]

@@APOLO-oq3ce they are going to have plenty of issues as you simply just different issues than in America. I've noticed when a foreigner is seen or shows interest in a woman she suddenly becomes his " wife" , I haven't seen Ugandan men have that problem. It's as if they think we don't have a vetting process called dating.

[@penuelyahucodiyah.4678]

Marry Black., Doesn´t matter where!!!

[@moseskazungu1158]

Jownita mwinanyo olugambo byebatakubuziza oyogerabyaki? Mu Uganda tugamba ebyomunju tebitotolwa,.waliwo byewerekereza.bqemulaba abantu Abagwira mubabulira ,bulikimu,mwagala babawane.mukola bulungi,.mweswaza mweka,mubikangako,.sibulikimu,.!!!!!sikuvumye naye nkubulira nga omwana.!!!!

[@kanyikehajarah9977]

I think Joanita did a great job there is nothing bad she said and the show is about learning and opening up about different cultures. Joanita keep doing what you do gorgeous we here for it and thank you for your openness I love it, you go girrrllllll❤❤❤

[@africanglobalnomad]

@@kanyikehajarah9977 thanks!

[@africanglobalnomad]

@Moses are you serious? You need to chill out bro! We are here to learn! Also no need of speaking in vernacular here - it’s not that serious.

[@em.marcus3970]

I thought dude was white

[@sarawaweru7664]

But in most African traditions you don't take boyfriends home unless it is serious for how many men will your parents meet 😂 As a Kenyan I really don't know much about African Americans but I hear most of African American can be very rough and the very rich ones , marry white women

[@ZedGirl]

@27:00 Thank you, Lady, for saying that African women are educating themselves and understand financial matters. The brother on the left (host) is trying to marginalize our knowledge. Host - please stop comparing & just discuss without offending 😡😩

[@black2create71]

Why does the man have to pay for the woman when the father would be releasing an expensive and giving it unto another man The man is the asset , shouldn't the woman's family should pay him?

[@remyryder6986]

That's their culture. In India women pay dairies to men. If you don't understand it then it's not for you.

[@SoundTheAlarm7]

Black american women do all the things Y’all saying black american women don't. It takes a real black american man to be with a black american women, not any man can. We are just not gonna be a slave if we're out working all day. It's not healthy to have to come home and do everything by ourselves, if he can help do it too, and if you have children they should be assisting. Everyone helps each other. We're not about to be run down because this society has done that to both of us enough as it is. I come from a culture where black american women do everything Y’all say other women be doing, so Y’all lying and in my marriage my husband was required to meet my father even when we dated, it's safer even if your not married. We met in high school and have been together 32 years. We grew up in the 80s and 90s, which is one of the best Era's if you ask me.

[@Aboriginal_American_Hebrew]

You’re speaking from a personal experience of the minority this is not the majority of encounters men half with women this past three decades, especially this last decade

[@SoundTheAlarm7]

@KyheemCarter No, I'm speaking about today, I know many black american women who do all of these things he is saying he supposedly can't get in america, this is a narrative they're using. It's the same one they use when marrying and dating interracially. Instead of just being honest and just saying that he doesn't want a black american women, he lies and puts a negative stigma on black americans' period. It's disrespectful, and there are black american women who will look at this and use it as an excuse to do the same. He is self-hating also because he made sure he adhered to the standards of his wife's culture while ignoring his by not making sure his parents meet her parents. He knows he wouldn't do that for a black american women anyways if it was vise versa. A lot of these males will go and conform to other foreign peoples standards while neglecting their own. Me and my husband examine the behavior of people here and on the continent, and some things said about their culture was not good. However, he'll go along with it. Good riddens to him, though lol.

[@hopenakita7480]

I think it's not even just about the cooking and cleaning it's about being polite and kind and soft spoken and knowing when to say something or not to say anything knowing when to back down and always be respectful to your husband and his family and friends at all times

[@SoundTheAlarm7]

@hopenakita7480 As I said, black american women do that to, y’all really need to stop with the dumb excuses. We have problems with black american men too, a lot of problems and I'm not gonna run to anyone else of another culture, race or ethnicity and prop them up like they're greater than my father, grandfather, brothers, uncles. Because at the end of the day, they're going to understand me. They're going to understand that our people is not something to throw away. The disrespect is over the top. If I did get someone from another culture, I'm gonna expect the same from him as I would an american black man, and I'm not gonna prop him up. Peace and blessings to all of my black american brothers and sisters in america who is fighting the american government who is trying to genocide, ethonocide and erase are people and any of the diapora who supports us.

[@africaine4889]

@@SoundTheAlarm7 let me get this straight in africa before getting married both the parents of the man and woman have to meet before. I guess in their case they didmt at first because of the distance.

[@scottola2497]

Damn Oshey why didn't you bring in the Ugandan wifey to present her side of the story, wouldn't it have provided for a richer discussion ?? Passport brethrens... go to Africa and get your madams... it's a free world gaadddammnnn ittt ... winks !!

[@pointofgrace3002]

Do professional women in Uganda and of other countries outside of the western system have help in the home… SO THAT they have the abilities to BE feminine, and not always stuck / doused in the fight or flight energy , of the toxic environments that the western systems of providing for the family. Appreciate the male guest to point out the fact that the woman is stuck in traffic after work , etc etc,… This host has NEVER appreciated the dynamics of the work life system in the 2 worlds. He ONLY sees the system not the cause. IF HE WAS MY DOCTOR I WOULD RUN.

[@Kenganda]

He wouldn't ever accept you as a patient either trust me 🤣🤣

[@marthanamusabi4614]

Yes my sister is in UK but she takes care of her family

[@cosmicviewer477]

You bring up a good point, there. In Western culture, the husband/men help out a lot compared with some other cultures. My father was a Jamaican man who was born in the 1930s. He worked a typical 9 to 5 job when immigrated to the States. My Mom was Jamaican as well, she was a nurse who worked the night shift, and my Dad would make sure that me and my brother were ready for school, had our breakfast, etc. In fact, I learned how to cook from my father. Additionally, I grew up around other Jamaicans from the same generation who experienced the same thing, and that's one of the reasons you'll find a lot of Jamaican men who know how to cook (and clean).

[@fofofofo6182]

Very few percentage of women have a maid. Most work outside or are sellers in the market and come back home to do housework. Sometimes kids are left at grandmother or a relative house. The daughters start helping the mothers with household cores when they are 10 years old, others 9. My sister started cooking for us when she was 9. My mother was a market seller.

[@missarmiller78]

🙄🙄🙄wow really? He spent so much time trying to integrate bashing black american women. Smh 1st of all the process of marrying the women that he kept trying to harp on actually 3xposes the fact that African fathers value their daughters more than Black American males do!!!! Oh but it's all abt the blk woman being masculine and independent... im so turned off to this channel now.

[@CYR1977]

Men want to have sons, but that bride prize sure is an equalizer.😂

[@Silverbackugx]

@ Warrtaa Maya..I'm not sure what you mean by this..please explain🤔🧐

[@africaine4889]

​​@@Silverbackugx 😂😂😂 everytime the word bride price cime up on comments u are sure to see Steven Bryant pop out

[@Silverbackugx]

@@africaine4889 target selection 😉

[@TheIslandBelle]

He talks about Black American women being professional, but don’t talk about the lack in African American men. He’s not talking about the amount of Black American men who are lackluster and don’t have good values, morals, and are not traditional in any sense of the word. They talk about Black American women not growing up with a father, like it’s not the men choosing not to be active in their children’s life. This conversation is one sided and disingenuous. They talk about African American women being masculine and don’t understand the greater context. And I am a woman from the Caribbean. The idea that you expect a woman to slave herself out is crazy to me. When you talk about feminine energy, how does Black American culture foster that energy? This conversation is intellectually limited!

[@carmenmich]

There’s a lot of bashing of Black American women here. There are agendas at play as to why Black women and Black men are divided. To say these things in front of Africans just creates division also. All African women aren’t feminine. There is a spectrum. They are being put on a pedestal. The cultures are different. Most non-American women will show you everything you want to see.

[@dangerwetikosclose2682]

I don't believe there's a bashing of Black American women. I happen to be married to a Black American woman who is the greatest woman I've ever met! Truth is truth. There is a problem with some of the sisters from our group. And it is a bad one. You just fail to acknowledge it.

[@thezu9250]

You have to just look into the history of one of the hosts and you will see why these types of comments exist. His audience is following him.

[@realmaureenoyakhilome]

Culture keeps Africans grounded. That’s the difference. It’s not ba women, it’s the western world that makes people rotten.

[@TheIslandBelle]

He talks about Black American women being professional, but don’t talk about the lack in African American men. He’s not talking about the amount of Black American men who are lackluster and don’t have good values, morals, and are not traditional in any sense of the word. They talk about Black Americans women not growing up with a father, like it’s not the men choosing not to be active in their children’s life. This conversation is one sided and disingenuous. They talk about African American women being masculine and don’t understand the greater context.

[@wisdommasterreviews4712]

This guy is not FBA! African America is a title that doesn't describe all black Americans, remember we have had massive immigration since the 60s an most of these people are not apart of the old bloodlines!

[@wambokodavid7109]

I find anyone who subscribes to acronyms sad.why do y'all like living in "boxes"?

[@JimStanfield-zo2pz]

Dude looks damn near white

[@vanessaedwards54]

What kind of American women did you guys have? Because that's a lot from the pit of Hell.

[@Kreedo1110]

I don't really like the covert bashing of Black American women in this video tbh

[@africanglobalnomad]

So you are asking them to be two-faced (political correctness)? People are increasingly traveling and dating and getting married so programs like these especially for people who are already in these relationships are important to learn about the truth especially cultural differences!! Eg some men may not like paying dowry, dealing with a huge African family or require a wife to cook three meals a day even if she’s working etc to each their own. Best for buyer to beware

[@ATSdream]

They don’t say anything bad here come on

[@raheemsoumah9372]

I really like the African American who lives in the countries some of them r very respectful ,but African woman r the best to marry because they have a respect for their husbands, and most of them raised by father and mother this is the reason why they know how to handle a family or husband more then African Americans no disrespect but it’s true.

[@TheFlyyBohemian]

I’m African and I don’t like it either

[@Kreedo1110]

@@ATSdream They didn’t directly say anything denigrating to Solaan women, but they (especially the host) did indirectly defame our women; even if he didn’t mean it in that way. But the constant comparing and contrasting of African woman and Solaan women is very obviously damaging, and is really embarrassing.