an HONEST chat about parenthood & why we stopped youtube

[@alaskaminnie644]

Kian, I just wanted to say I can (and I’m sure your other subscribers can too!) tell that you and Kyle have grown soooo much in your marriage and it has been such a joy to see the way you both have grown closer in Christ. Praise God for that! I’m only a distant viewer from CA but am praising Him for His undeniable sanctifying work in your marriage and especially in this chapter of parenthood! (Also Legend reminds me of my son Elliot! I had twins and they are the same age as Legend so I also love seeing all the new milestones he reaches since my babies reach them at the same time! But Legend looks and acts JUST like my twin boy 😊) love and grace, sister!

[@StrongerThanStroke]

Kyle, please do a fasting video. Thank you for being a supportive husband. I asked my husband (many years ago), if he could get up one day a week to take our baby to daycare so I’d have one morning to only get myself ready and he refused. You all are blessed to have each other so you both can be great ✨

[@marykatherinemorris5048]

Dude… Kyle is such a good husband.

[@marykatherinemorris5048]

I’ve been saying that ever since you married him- seriously, he never ceases to impress

[@aprilbentley-c6u]

You guys are light years beyond your early years together. You're so exciting and honest and GOOD together!!

[@shealovesfashio]

I agree! They really love each other and it shows. Such a beautiful witness to the sacrament of marriage. Their growth is incredible I can only pray the Holy Spirit will bless my marriage in a similar way.

[@molly_frances]

The podcast style suits you guys so well!! I would *definitely* listen to a podcast of you two! This whole video was so beautiful and soul nourishing. Your content lately is 😘 chefs kiss

[@Heavenly.Minded]

I watched this whole video in one sitting & i loved it. I loved the rawness of y’all communicating that little issue at the end. I also loved that y’all didn’t edit out the mess ups or frustrations but put them in there because it feels more relatable.

[@StrongerThanStroke]

** Preacher Mode Activated ** loved that part!! “Outside in the rain, picking up rocks”, there really is a message in that. We grow stronger in the storm 🙏🏽❤️ May the Lord continue to bless your family.

[@iveelovee]

Ouuuu that “not when you feel called to fast, but when you fast”. 🔥🔥🔥🔥

[@Kian_Wolfgang]

such a good word!!

[@hopeolivia590]

I would love to hear more about prayer and fasting !!!x@@Kian_Wolfgang

[@teresak9454]

Kyle's message on prayer and fasting was such a good reminder and inspiration. Thank you so much!

[@canalawrence9878]

I love everything about your videos, but by far, my favorite parts are when you and Kyle just talk together. Whether it's about trial (like this one) or trying to cook together (like in a different vid) it's just hilarious and wholesome! Truly brings a smile because you guys are so funny together! 😂

[@hannahann6219]

The Spirit speaks through Kyle! He has such a gift for speaking, it’s a gift to see it!❤

[@suewolfgang5130]

Kyle and Kian, I love how real you are with all of us, sharing daily special moments and little mishaps throughout your day!We can definitely all relate! Wise words from Pastor Kyle! 🙌❤️ Sending love and hugs to all three of you!!! 🥰

[@zareakirby7991]

I love the ending podcast style chat to see you navigate through a topic. I’m in my first several months of marriage and i want to be able to communicate with my husband this way. Thank you for sharing this light and inspiration definitely helps me with good prayer points. Love you guys let your light shine and salt be flavorful 💕

[@mrsdaisymama]

I couldn’t agree more about sleep comparison with your husband. We now have 2 under 2 and I’m also guilty of getting annoyed when my husband complains about being tired when I breastfeed through the night. That conversation was refreshing. Love that Kyle offers to wake up early and you accepted his help. It is definitely hard to *ask* for help VS accepting it.

[@user-mv2tg8hc8c]

It’s true! “if you’re a follower of mine, pick up your cross and follow me”. I tell myself, “Worse things happen”. What you said about trials was helpful Kyle!

[@sydneyinnature]

I’ve had some of the darkest times these past few months and this video hit me hard for so many different reasons. Thank you guys for being so awesome❤️

[@kaylanfomby7506]

Was this video sped up a bit? I slowed it down to .75 and it felt more like their talking pace, but maybe I just haven’t seen a vid in a while and they just talk faster, idk!

[@LoveeeeelyM]

You guys made a gorgeous baby! Legend is soooo gorgeous 😻😍🫶🏻 happy to see all three of you! 🌸🙏🏻

[@kevinjroyal]

Happy for you guys, love the vulnerable moment about fighting and sleep resentment, you guys are amazing; blessings!

[@stephjacksonmusic]

I love your content so much Kian, it's become such a safe space for me

[@miaroman9320]

Your advice on new parenthood and marriage is SO WISE! Love y’all! 🤟🏼💛🙌🏼

[@soniaalexa2195]

I always keep coming back to you guys! Love all the chapters I've seen along the way. Keep on living the way God keeps on calling you guys to live ☺️

[@yuggoof]

Beautiful family, Kyle is such an inspiration! May the Lord bless all of you.

[@angelconiglio6496]

I love the Bethkes!! That’s awesome. So beautiful to see how you’ve grown as a fam. Y’all are precious

[@aureecee3781]

I have no children and I loved the ad couldn’t even tell it was refilmed 😂 so thankful for y’all’s transparency it’s hard to come by these days.

[@nancydroge7682]

~LOVED this! ~FULL of treasure; wisdom & joy! Thank you, Kian, Kyle, & Legend! Thank you for showing us all how to navigate when things don’t go ‘our way’ & for reminding us that it is often through trials that our faith is refined, if our hearts are open to this process! You are irreplaceable, absolutely amazing & delightful people! JOYful Easter! ✝️🌺

[@Ms_808]

I wish you both would do a podcast. I would listen, even if it was just once a week. Unedited just real and raw. Love your channel! Your son is the cutest little man!!❤❤

[@LoveeeeelyM]

I laughed and cried with you guys. Thank you for being you 🫶🏻

[@kathrynmartin8224]

Legend is the most beautiful wee baby, he was so good during that video, not a squeak out of him.. God Bless you all. ❤❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@LynnzeyLynn]

“The dang rocks fell over” took me out 😭🤣🤣🤣 I love y’all 🤍

[@vonawwest]

amen loved the realness and rawness of this in every single way God bless y'all

[@dominiqueingle8598]

This is the healthiest vlog/q&a I’ve watched thus far. It could be because my little family and I are in the same season as you and Kyle though lol. I follow a few Christian influencers and I always leave feeling a bit agitated. I think there’s a deep discernment that they’re slapping on the “Christian influencer” title but the ideologies they have, statements they make, and lives they lead seem to contradict that. I am in no way here to say that I know what their lives are like behind closed doors, nor am I judging them. But to listen and see how you and Kyle handle conflict, speak to one another, and the advice you are giving to your followers (us) shows that you honor the Lord and that you are actively growing in your walk.. I absolutely love this.

[@KyrahStewart]

loved this!!! 🥺

[@elianamankel4573]

You guys are a blessing!! 🧡💕

[@kaligilday94]

Yes Kyle - a whole video on fasting please!!

[@laurenvollmer7]

Yes came here to say this!!

[@katiehoward7242]

I love your marriage! So sweet! 💛

[@LoveeeeelyM]

Definitely make a video on fasting & obedience! 🙌🏼

[@FreedomINSurrender]

Hi, I have been watching since 2021 when my husband and I married and we have a 19-month-old girl now, and it has been an adventure being parents. My husband always sees you and says; "that's my sister." I agree he resembles you; his freckles, nose, and face shape. Anyway God bless you and your family :)

[@FairlightChristianna1Cor318]

Loved the moment of you guys in the car just processing your meltdown. 😅

[@gabrielatriveno1630]

1:30 legend just YEETS himself out 😂🤣🥹😍😍❤️❤️❤️ the cutest!

[@miralatik5100]

Wow truly kyle’s gift is preaching and teaching and this blessed me, please do a video about getting in the word and fasting. Also the pure messiness and reactions in these videos blessed my heart and shattered this frustration u feel after viewing social media because everyone tries to be so perfect, u gave beauty to mess ups in the schedule that happen every now and then kyle. Love u both and little legend. Thank you for sharing

[@FreedomINSurrender]

I went through the same thing as you when you said; "how dare you." I would cry my eyes out because my husband would knock out and I could not sleep because of my colicky baby. It took a while for him to finally help me. It is different now since our little girl is bigger now but of course, now it's her rolling over me when she sleeps and she hits my face haha.

[@annaingold2115]

Always love a little impromptu 1 Peter preaching 🤣❤️

[@therealsubaekhyang]

Tbh ive been fasting a bit from youtubers so I hadnt noticed that you havent posted in a while 😅 however nice to see youre back

[@grace_841]

I LOVED this video!!!! It was so funny, sweet, touching! And filled with wisdom from the Holy Spirit

[@Mamalegendjen]

What!! This got recommended! but I have seen youre testimony that I relate to. We have a 4 year old , Legend !!❤ I only heard it one other time so far ! Our sweet boy is , Legend Aritsos Datu . Congrats on youre baby boy!

[@rainbow616]

Your son is so cute and relaxed. 🙏💚

[@dejaamara]

imagine you and kyle started a podcast 👀👀👀 ❤

[@belovedinjesuschrist]

Prayers for your cute family.

[@Kelseybobian]

Omg the preacher mode activated had me 😂🤣😭

[@itsrubylove]

I loved the jumpsuit, what’s the brand?

[@bellavita3097]

If you bring toys and chew toys that L can play with especially while teething when you’re out at restaurants/places, to keep him busy. Babes sleep better on their tummy esp when you can watch them during the day naps.

[@dalefiatoa]

Maaaan I miss you Kyle 😭

[@Inrosegoldeyes]

I’ve been considering Christianity and kian watching your videos the last few years has definitely contributed to my decision❤

[@scrubsandjesus]

♥️ love this! & praying for the ultimate healing of your eyes. I saw some of your vlogs & I’m sure none of that was easy. God will heal you, keep you, & sustain you through all seasons :)

[@Inrosegoldeyes]

@@scrubsandjesus thanks got so much it meals a lot 🥹🤍

[@ThisisAlexaRose]

It will be the best decision of your life. Jesus is IT!!!

[@Inrosegoldeyes]

@@ThisisAlexaRose learning more everyday!

[@kaitlynianni5027]

Love the video ❤❤ are you still swaddling him?

[@StrongerThanStroke]

Such a good video 🙏🏽❤️

[@Mrs.Butterworth]

As someone who has been married for 31 years, I know marriage is never going to be 50/50. That being said, it's not a wife's job to wake a husband up to take care of his child. Kyle, set a buzz alarm on your watch that will go off well before you know that your son will wake up. That way Kian isn't woken up in the morning at all.

[@sherbetstraw]

I agree kinda but maybe he wakes up at different times each morning

[@milar792]

you can see in this video that the joy of the Lord is your strength!!

[@everythingalayna]

Kian! Where did you get the dress you are wearing in the beginning half! So beautiful ❤️

[@bellavita3097]

Or if you pump you take turns every other night sleeping while the other parent gets up and can feed the baby.

[@ayah316]

Dying to your flesh fasting in the scriptures is food! 1 to 3 days water fast or start with Intermittent fasting or daniel fast introducing yourself to it with prayer !🙌🕊✨️

[@jesst1306]

❤

[@bellavita3097]

Legend is so sweet! He wants to learn play go momma. Sorry K lost me at the end.

[@JacquelineServantess]

congrats.i hope he is figured out how to set better boundaries regarding time for both himself to take care of his own basic needs like sleep (?!) but also to of course be a dad and husband which imo is his top priority ministry anyways no?🙏20 hour days is not sustainable. and a church should of all places take measures to protect it's employees. in Jesus' Name & by His blood according to His will amen. 👍