And of course, there's the man's side of it: Wives are called to submit to the husband, BUT HUSBANDS are called to love their wife with the same sacrificial love of Christ for His Bride - He Who laid down His own life to cover/save/protect/provide for His Bride.
@birda1274 ай бұрын
So, myfuture wife is narcissist
@LifeOfNikko9 ай бұрын
This is fantastic! I really like your perspective/posture of "woman was created to help the man". Because you're not jostling men out of the way to have their God-given authority or to dethrone them; but instead are focused on coming to love and serve well as Christ did. And I can def confirm that Godly men see that, and it draws us to realize "I can trust her; her heart is in the right place", and then we WANT to find out the unique gifts, desires, and dreams God gave you; and give our everything to support and walk with you in that. Your submitted Love doesn't jostle to be on top and in control: And many times, it'll stir men with God's heart to raise you up. Just like God does for us (HIS Bride), He loves to exalt those who humble themselves before Him, but pride is a quick way to a sudden fall.
@Brandonmccullen777 ай бұрын
I believe the Lord led me to this video. I mean this with nothing but love and in the spirit of grace and empathy. Let him go young lady. You don’t want a man covering you who’s not surrendering to the Lord. Count it as a blessing that he cut you off. God has a godly man who will love you and wasn’t you. Above all he will be totally surrendered to Jesus. Good luck. I’m praying for you
@agatachristian99259 ай бұрын
Hey sister, you are not alone. I've been going through a very similar situation since mid 2019. We had a long distance relationship and we both believed that it was meant to be. We have been separated now for a few years due to a lot of bad circumstances that have been beyond our control. All of this has been so incredible hard but I believe this whole process is God ordained. Recently he chose the easier option and is dating someone else. But God keeps me standing and praying for him in isolation... I also have times when I want to throw in the towel. We will get through this ❤ God showed me the end result in a dream and I know it will be worth it. God has been teaching me so much through all of this, including what it's like to love like Him. Even when someone rejects Him/us. God bless you sis. And hey sister, you are still young! I'm going to turn 30 next year. It's all about God's will and timing and not what other people want us to do.
@marialouisa-y2s6 ай бұрын
Hi Ezralee! God led me to your videos about a month ago! ❤I couldn’t believe this video when I found it. I was blown away!!! Girl, I’ve had the exact ( EXACT) situation in my life. And I wanted to let you know that hearing your heart was one of the biggest blessings I have experienced so far because my heart is exact same- all the the things you said rang so true to my feelings that my jaw was on the ground and I was just crying and saying thank you Lord. I’m 28 and I originally dated him 5 years ago ( 2018, I was 23) a similar thing where we dated briefly but he made a huge impact on me. And I was left with the same patient, unconditional love, that you described, love that is forever, and waits, and doesn’t demand anything in return. It’s been painful too, and I love that you’ve had the confidence and fearlessness to put up this video, because when you’re in this situation it’s so hard. Had so many Christian people think I was crazy, and even tell me not to pray for him but God never told me to stop praying. I met him again in 2021 and that’s the last I’ve seen him. It’s still on my heart and mind to pray for him. Although I don’t know if I’ll ever see him again in this world, I do know that he’ll be saved and I will be with him for eternity. And if God does allow us to be reunited and connected in marriage, it would be amazing and such a blessing, but as time has worn on I’ve realized more and more that this is about Gods perfect plan for marriage. And to rest in the fact that He knows the end at the beginning and He will lead me to the husband he’s created and prepared for me. So while I don’t have exact answers I keep praying, and definitely pray for Ben all the time, whenever he is on my heart or mind. I never thought I would say this, but all these years or feeling so much pain ( I’m very relationally driven as you said you are), trying to stay correctable as you said, dating other people I really wasn’t interested in but I’ve tried to stay open to Gods will- it’s been only a blessing because it’s showed me now more than ever that God is so sovereign, so good, and so kind, and no matter what His will is, He is a rewarder of those who diligently seek Him. So I’m praying for you and this man that you’ve had on your heart! As I continue as well to pray for my situation and wait on the Lord ❤
@hopess919 ай бұрын
Thank u so much for making this video. God prompted me to watch this video. Just few minutes back I was asking about this unique situation and his promise and asking if it's just my desire and not God's will, but he assured me my choice to wait is not foolishness and there is a purpose and his promises for me still holds. ❤ I prayed for u sister. I know its difficult. But let's just keep focus on jesus. He will come through
@tonythai59919 ай бұрын
Thanks for your update and follow up. No God no love.
@organicquotes6 ай бұрын
Stay true to yourself and God. God's divine detour is better than your own selfish path. When someone unexpectedly leaves, remember, God is saving you from something you do not know. The right one will come your way and make sure you know, he will stand with you, not against you. Don't worry, your future husband is out there. He is doing everything he can to get to you...🙂
@robschaller90615 ай бұрын
In my humble opinion as a guy who is a VERY youthful 60 something-years-old, DO NOT rely on what you think God has told you about who your "future" spouse is. As a Believer you "SHOULD" be very plugged into a network of other believers some of whom are mature, wise, and learned followers of Messiah. Its best (though not always an option) have parents who are mature believers and followers of Messiah. Listen to advice and accept instruction, that you may gain wisdom in the future. Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand. -- Proverbs 19:20-21 Marriage is a VERY serious thing and the pain and destruction that is caused by divorce is horrific. In order to exercise wisdom, much council is needed with others who you consider to be wise, godly people who can give you guidance and you must be prepared for them to tell you do not do this. That means if they say no, you follow that advice. This is why it is so important to have those kinds of believers in your life who display all of the things scripture tells us what it looks like to as James in Acts says of Paul " you yourself walk orderly and upright..."
@ezraleethescribe80475 ай бұрын
I love this. It’s true wisdom. All the wise people in my life who are older and have known me since I was a baby love the Lord and are cheering me on in this. Inspired by the faith that Jesus and only Jesus has placed in my heart. Before anyone confirmed it…I knew. The Holy Spirit told me so clearly. The confirmation and support has been astronomical. It floors me. Divorce is ugly. Thanks for your advice. It’s VERY true!
@BingoNamo-gb8pz4 ай бұрын
@@ezraleethescribe8047he has no interest in you & no interest in Jesus but your mentors elders & mature Christian friends are all encouraging you to pursue him?
@pureblood77759 ай бұрын
Genesis 5:32 32 After Noah was 500 years old, he became the father of Shem, Ham and Japheth.❤ Blessings all.
@sarahmichelle_018 ай бұрын
amen! i’m in the same boat sister! God is gonna do it in His perfect time and it is so He can get the utmost glory! i can’t wait for the beautiful testimonies 🙌🏾
@rev.robertmcelderry23408 ай бұрын
I didn't get engaged until my mid to late 30's and definitely praying
@bloombeyond5 ай бұрын
Thank you, Jesus, for bringing me to your words coming through Ezra. I just sat in my prayer closet praying for my partner who has made a lot of sinful decisions that the Lord is now bringing to light one after the other for him to repent for. And just like you, Ezra, God has put on my heart this immense patience and unconditional love that I can't explain towards him. All I know is that this is not just my own patience, it is Jesus'. It's just this loving compassion for where my partner and people in general are in their lives. All I keep hearing in the prayer closet is "Be the example of Jesus in his life." In a worldly sense I have all the reasons to run away, but God says "Stay and let me speak to him and love him through you." I believe God is calling us to a revival in patience for people in a world that is everything but patient.
@xKaylaHeli6 ай бұрын
Literally a very similar testimony - and your heart and what you’re learning is exactly what the Lord has been teaching me too… love… and used to depending on relationships and others… From the dating a guy- breaking it off- God told me he was my husband, to the book of Hosea, and overall heart posture …. Mind blown! Thanks for posting this.
@jenniferscott91646 ай бұрын
God may be working on him too you just don’t know that Hang onto Gods promises for you no matter what the reality looks like That’s a sign of strong faith. What God has told you is the opposite of what you’re seeing but you still believe Him
@user-eu8jm4rg9p3 ай бұрын
Please pray for me Katarina, who is my kingdom husband ? Thanks, God bless you ...
@danielbyram75953 ай бұрын
I needed this thankyou sweet sister it been hard I've felt like giving up lately it's alot of pressure but I know what the holy spirit said to me back in 2022 about one particular woman God bless your future marriage
@sarahqp998 ай бұрын
Your channel just randomly popped up in my recommended on KZbin and I'm so glad it did! I commend you for speaking God's truth over your life publicly! The situation you are going through is something I experinced with my now husband of almost 4 years. When my husband and I initially started dating we ended in a few short months at 18 and 19 but while we were separated I heard God say that he would be my husband but it wasn't the right timing due to maturity in many aspects of our lives. A year or so later we reconnected and have been together ever since and now have a beautiful daughter together. God's timing is perfect and I pray that God's will would be done in this situation and that you would be covered in his perfect peace and love. I'm excited to see what he does in your life. :) You've gained a subscriber!
@amberevans935 ай бұрын
I feel the same thing....ugh I understand completely what you are saying I can so relate and so glad I found your page last night. I needed this!!! ❤❤❤❤
@yasmindelece97097 ай бұрын
It’s a “DIVINE PROMISE” from God!!
@IbelongtoGod199 ай бұрын
The vulnerability in this is so beautiful❤
@Littleboyblue20016 ай бұрын
Incredible video, I’ll keep you and this man in prayer! God bless!
@hycynth828289 ай бұрын
Im really excited for you and the love story God has for you!❤️🥺
@ConfidenceinChrist906 ай бұрын
Amen! You have no idea how similar our testimonies in this, are!! Praying for you that the Lord strengthen you in the waiting and show you glimpses of His promises throughout this year. Stay strong and keep doing His will. The Lord is smiling on you and loves you so much.
@LaneJoyy5 ай бұрын
Wow! I can relate. I wonder did you receive the confirmations through like everyday “coincidences” and maybe even numbers? That all point back to this marriage promise?
@melodioussoul956 ай бұрын
I can totally relate to you. Iam 28 and I have the same experience.Lord spoke to me about my future husband and we did have an instant connection like what you said but now we are in different directions due to some family involvements. I actually dont know how God would unite us bit I totally trust in Jesus.His ways are different than us so we can be at peace.let him work now .be patient
@gregsmith77959 ай бұрын
A good woman is given to a man by Yahuah, and a good man is given to a woman by Yahuah
@racheloshaksmusic8 ай бұрын
You’re 2 years older than me and you look younger but SIS. I TOTALLY RELATE. You said so much that I have felt and also realised. Many of us are truly standing on God’s promise. One thing I’ll say is be obedient to what God is telling you to do next! And yes you’re right, it will happen in His time ❤ You’re a beautiful, pretty girl and you are deserving of a man of God that will love you as you deserve and if this man disobeys God, then it is for the best because you want a man that hears God and God will convict him. Keep praying. Reach out when prompted! And be at peace and enjoy your single time with God, fall more in love with Jesus. That’s what God is doing with me as I felt all these discouraging emotions of “does he like me, will he choose me?”. Peace and rest in God’s promise to you about your spouse. What will be WILL BE! If indeed God told you your spouse will choose you in the end then he will ! And yes girl we were made to help men! Although not all of us are called to marriage, but those of us who have the strong desire to serve and help a man, just shows how natural it is for us, because we were made for them.
@alissakain93028 ай бұрын
09/2025 is being highlighted to me regarding this situation for you. Bring it back to Jesus, obviously, but yeah I feel like by that Fall (‘25) you’ll see more progress. If you have to delete this comment for warfare reasons (I totally get it-they love more information so they can attack what Gods doing), I understand. I’m also hearing “It’s Not Over” by Daughtry in my head(:
@trulyhuman62276 ай бұрын
GOD is my one True Love, yet i feel like I AM missing a piece of me, and GOD has been speaking alot about marriage to me the past few months. Patience, what's meant to be will be. In Truth i want to lose my desire for a wife, and marry GOD in my heart. Its been a long road, one day at a time. GOD is with Us. Amen
@yasmindelece97097 ай бұрын
Hey sis I can definitely relate with you regarding this “kingdom spouse journey!” IT IS A PROCESS LOL 😆 God has a funny way of revealing things to us all, even our future spouses. God bless you on your journey. You are not in this alone, I’m in this situation too. It’s really a blessing! I’m glad God actually chose my spouse for me!
@debraglick82178 ай бұрын
Hi Hun, thank you for sharing your story. I watched the first video and I could REALLY relate. I am waiting in faith on a person that God told me about. I haven't met him, not even any social media connection, (because I haven't felt lead to search him out). The unique thing about it is that I believe that God often uses someone that I just know looks a lot like the guy He has for me. God gave me my guy's name and little details that are unique to him. It has been through dreams, words, visions, and me often seeing the (example) of this person. It all started in 2019. There is honestly so much to this... I've tried many times to pray it away, then would have no peace, then it would float back in. I am still waiting (please don't be discouraged by that!) I know that It's just not my/our time. I'm still working on myself. God bless you and your journey!
@BansheeKing226 ай бұрын
The few relationships I tried to have each lasted less than a single week. The girl always left for someone else. Two of them married the guys the left me for and the third left for another girl. Im used to things never working out. Plus im not a virgin and its hypocritical that i want a virgin wife so my only option is to isolate myself because love just isnt in the cards for me. No ones ever wanted me before and they certainly wont now.
@ryanskilnick19859 ай бұрын
I fear the rapture will happen before I get married. Being obedient and patient is one of the hardest things to do
@ezraleethescribe80479 ай бұрын
I get that, but ask Jesus to show you how to be content with either happening equally. Like you getting married before the rapture or the rapture coming before you get married!
@racheloshaksmusic8 ай бұрын
Sis you want to be raptured. That’s greater than being married. Heaven is far greater than Earth. There’s a lot of crazy things that’s going to happen on this Earth and you do not want to be here for it❤ Rapture is the goal ! Marriage is the pleasure/privilege of life
@fernandosandoval93066 ай бұрын
Me to it could be confusing! I know! 😵💫😵😵💫
@fernandosandoval93066 ай бұрын
Split like the stock market!
@omarestrada74839 ай бұрын
This girl is awesome
@fernandosandoval93066 ай бұрын
Perfect conversation 👌 what about Permeteus,
@amyfretz33878 ай бұрын
I love your beautiful tea/coffee floral mug. Who is this by/designer? I couldn’t quite read the inscription on the bottom. I’d love to try to find one one to purchase.
@MichaelKellett6 ай бұрын
Amen sister , me too, just waiting for, gods will , , I waiting a long time , gods love is perfect 😇
@fernandosandoval93066 ай бұрын
Me to! I want the best for you! Hard test!
@annahenry25668 ай бұрын
Ha .. I guessed that you would end the video with “yea” based on how you were talking right before . I catch on to your lingo missy ma’am !
@amberevans935 ай бұрын
Thank you so so much for posting this.. ❤
@Cantthinkofwhatshouldgohere6 ай бұрын
Demons send signs and wonders too but you probably haven’t read the book of exodus or revelation. Done commenting and praying the Lord gives you eyes to see and ears to hear because…. ”And then shall that Wicked be revealed, whom the Lord shall consume with the spirit of his mouth, and shall destroy with the brightness of his coming: And for this cause God shall send them strong delusion, that they should believe a lie: that they all might be damned who believed not the truth, but had pleasure in unrighteousness.“ 2 Thessalonians 2:8, 11-12 KJV
@acloudortree9 ай бұрын
Related to this so much
@fernandosandoval93066 ай бұрын
What about Michael Myers!🤨🤔🧐🧐🤨🤔🤔
@MatthewElevenАй бұрын
Would you put an angel or a star on top of your Xmas tree ?!!!
@Arianespace0076 ай бұрын
Out of love do you like this guy b/c of his money, life style, etc? Or what makes you think he is for you? Reminder “You cannot serve both God and money.” Matt 6:24. I just see this a lot in the church girls like a guy & think God’s going to give me both by way of a guy with $$$ I’m stuck on a girl 5+ yrs I relate to this post more than u might suspect
@fernandosandoval93066 ай бұрын
Is the Extercise in the Bible!
@hycynth828289 ай бұрын
9:52 amén
@danielchiappe7 ай бұрын
How did God tell you he is your future husband?
@reginaclayton26066 ай бұрын
Lol he blocked me too we’re twiiinnnnnninnnnnn
@fernandosandoval93066 ай бұрын
What are you drinking! 🤔🤨🧐🧐🤔🤔
@OTurkey245 ай бұрын
Please keep us updated ❤
@hycynth828289 ай бұрын
You’ve talked about decisions and I thought that made a lot of sense, you said those were things God was saying, I know we can make mistakes, please don’t think I’m judging you, I’m just a bit confused, what do you think about that now?
@hycynth828289 ай бұрын
I’m asking not because I wanna judge or be invasive but at the time I was on a somewhat similar situation and I thought that was an answer from God, idk, I’m sorry for asking
@ezraleethescribe80479 ай бұрын
I hear you. I am just wondering what you exact question is? Could you reword it for me? 😇
@fernandosandoval93066 ай бұрын
Maybe you love Jesus and God more then the guy! 🤔🧐🤔
@LeeAverette-qr8md9 ай бұрын
Do you believe in the Holy Ghost baptism
@kyleherschend812827 күн бұрын
So, you think this guy was your husband? Hm.
@ezraleethescribe804727 күн бұрын
I know he is
@sarahmichelle_018 ай бұрын
thank you for your vulnerability bc you really provided so much confirmation and encouragement for me 🫶🏾
@noah_samples_ig7 ай бұрын
Did u delete that original video? About ur chosen spouse?
@ezraleethescribe80477 ай бұрын
I removed it for a sec 🙌🏼🙌🏼 it will be back up eventually
@noah_samples_ig7 ай бұрын
Okay bet thank you, it’s weird that I heard once from the lord and you keep on having confirmations.. it’s might not be true but this girl is definetly submissive, like at work when I first met her, I knew she was like very submissive not easily angered either, very good quality’s.