I agree it is a lack of respect for others and for self. For me I was addicted to porn because of the pain of rejection, heartbreak, insecurity, and jealousy and using it to justify addiction. It is a complex demon
@rubenhargis54546 ай бұрын
Amen, sister. I was a male stripper and if Yahweh can save me and help me, then their is hope for those who are open to let God help you, sister appreciate this convo this does need to be talk about because it's such a problem in this hour and yes it is important in marriage and beautiful as you said when done right god bless you
@blue_skies_are_coming5 ай бұрын
Hi Ezra! This revelation from the Holy Spirit about respect is so beautiful. I haven’t thought about that word very much. It helped me understand and see things from a new perspective.
@armanghorbani55036 ай бұрын
Such a pure energy 🩵
@stfauxtsj33824 ай бұрын
Thank you for your wisdom.
@HealingWatersOfBethesda6 ай бұрын
I remember God was showing me that I was not treating myself. I can see how that would be a lack of respect. thanks
@yudollia6 ай бұрын
That is so true …. Men’s attention or even friendship isnt even that special or genuine. It makes me sad because ever since I made the effort to improve my looks no woman wants to be friends with me. I was loved by other girls when I was ugly. But the undesirable men are in abundance
@danilaroche11566 ай бұрын
Women tend to be jealous. I endured it all my life because men thought I was beautiful. Pray for the men. They are under heavy siege & attack from Satan. They refuse to marry, disrespect women and are addicted to porn. It's spiritual. Ephesians 6.
@robertfeland79953 ай бұрын
Praise God for your vodeos keep spreading tje truth sister . ❤
@johnvega73466 ай бұрын
Thank you for your honesty and for your encouragement. God bless you!
@donnalowe93346 ай бұрын
Thank you. Appreciated. Lust fades over time.....just focused on their physical attributes. The main difference between lust and love is that lust is purely sexual physical attraction. While love is both passionate and compassionate. Many do not know the different. Much love
@888hereandnow6 ай бұрын
Yes and lust of any kind will never be satiated...
@4ll4nb31l6 ай бұрын
Thank u for making this
@stephaniemontgomery9366 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for talking about this and sharing this! 🙏🏻 God bless sis ❤
@gypsysoul2796 ай бұрын
You are blessed to be in a place right now where you can work on yourself and your relationship with Jesus...been married 25 years and have 4 kids and a grandson and its difficut trying to work on yourself and your relationship with Jesus when my life is so complicated and busy....
@carefulcarpenter6 ай бұрын
In 2000 I simply refused to lie to anyone in order to save them from reality. It takes time to servicevthe demands of others. Mahe no excuses either.
@qq846 ай бұрын
We're also called to dress modest.
@nextinline82346 ай бұрын
Keep up the great work, good job!
@gypsysoul2796 ай бұрын
I agree that we need to work on respecting ourselves and as we grow in that you will tolerate less in all areas,not just sex, boundaries are important but a battle because everyone is not going to respect them and then we have to make hard decisions like letting others go who refuse to respect us and boundaries...I struggle with this at 44...we need to focus on what Jesus thinks of us and not the messages of people....and it is hard...
@JulianCaesaro6 ай бұрын
Hearing her say the buzzword a bunch of times hit something in me that I wasn’t ready for. 🤔😅 More evidence of my needing to be perfected in love. Hallelujah!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳
@DT175Enduro6 ай бұрын
This is an excellent video. I shared it on my Facebook page.
@maxwell97346 ай бұрын
Wow, ... just wow. I don't have any words... You're simply amazing! I'm old enough to be your father and you just knocked me off balance. As I listened to you, I slowly realized how much we have in common. I spent many times intoxicated and staring into a fire.. I was just too slow to figure it out. Had nobody else to confer with.. didn't go home until noon the next day, because of the hangover. Stopped doing that and didn't form an addiction to it, (Thank God). But, went through life feeling guilty and shameful of it. Couldn't find anyone to connect with.. ignored Jesus and the knowledge of the holy word. .... fast-forward to now and here You Are! I don't know how I even got this video... All I kept thinking about was Why, couldn't I have met someone like this during those days??? You're getting the words out! And, your philosophy is so spot-on.. I would have walked through fire to have met someone like you, when I was 25.. I know that you're helping a lot of people.. I watched this, with tears streaming down my cheeks.. you are a beautiful soul. Don't ever change. Ignore Satan and keep your head up. I fell in love with you in 15 minutes and if it were possible, I would do it all again, just for a chance to meet you. 💜 New Sub here!!! 🙏
@GG-vq6ro6 ай бұрын
I was with you until the last part but the end of your comment is creepy. Especially since yku said you're old enough to be her dad 😟
@witness43126 ай бұрын
Be ye therfore perfect such as thy father in heaven is perfect,be of sober mind,Noone is perfect,but we must do our best in honor of the True One,continual daily repentance is the way and Truth is the path,this is why the True one insists on living in the spirit and not in the flesh, amen ✌ ❤ 😊 🙏!
@JREANNE16 ай бұрын
Wow 🤩 I’m so glad I’m watching this 🙌🏾🙌🏾
@SDRicky6 ай бұрын
Well, I understand, It's ok, the past is past. I don't judge you , neither I think if someone is non virgin, that woman is necessarily not promiscuous. I hope , in your journey in life , relationship, you had learned from your past , that sometimes setting boundaries is essential, especially in a commited relationship. Mutual trust is very important. Once broken , it's nearly impossible to re build the trust. May holy spirit guide you through the right path . This is a virgin's perspective 😊
@hycynth828286 ай бұрын
Sometimes I hear you and other people’s ministry and I look Arun’s and k feel like it’s impossible for those things to happen. I need more faith
@Joniyah4446 ай бұрын
You can make love to someone and have respect for them. Lust replaces LOVE, it’s not for lack of respect but for that.
@jeremycarpenter55506 ай бұрын
Sister in christ thank you for this we need to walk in freedom . Is what your living for worth christ dieing for i can say with a resounding yes I'm walking in freedom from my past . He is the healing balm of gilleead .
@Griffin44556 ай бұрын
How do I let the Holy Spirit purify my mind and heart because I feel I've gotten nowhere in the fight with this sin in 2 years
@ezraleethescribe80476 ай бұрын
Don’t focus on purifying your mind. Focus on Jesus. Read the Bible. What does He say about you and think about you. Knowing Him more, makes you more pure, as the Holy Spirit sanctifies you, as you see Jesus more clearly!
@GG-vq6ro6 ай бұрын
Same. I have been able to stop all my other sins but the sexual one feels almost impossible. I can go a week or 2 but then the physical desire gets so overwhelming 😢 I'm afraid this one sin just has a hold of me and I'm stuck
@jeremycarpenter55506 ай бұрын
I am a 1 timothy chapter 3 man looking for my proverbs 6:18 s 31 wife . Aman sister keep it up men need to lead women need to follow. Both men and women need to follow christ have standards biblical standards focus on christ .
@mundall12716 ай бұрын
@12:15 “Nakedness doesn’t need to be sexualized”. From a Christian perspective we have the Biblical narrative of sin entering the world Genesis 3:7 (KJV). “And the eyes of them both were opened, and they knew that they [were] naked; and they sewed fig leaves together, and made themselves aprons.”. From animal husbandry science we know that animals can be sexually aroused by even photos of the opposite gender.
@PreciousMemoryBook6 ай бұрын
although this may be partly true. For me no those I truly find attractive I highly respect. This one girl really can control me but for some reason I think the world of her.
@hycynth828286 ай бұрын
8:36 I wish God would talk to em like that. He is always so silent
@888hereandnow6 ай бұрын
If you know God as Father ,You can hear His voice.My sheep hear my voice....❤Psalm 139
@danilaroche11566 ай бұрын
God is always speaking. People just can't or refuse to listen because their sin blocks them.
@Chris-hp2gg6 ай бұрын
It's anthropological. It is physiological.😂
@Designer_TopG6 ай бұрын
You're right.
@KyleLeeuw6 ай бұрын
You’re amazing sweetie ❤❤❤❤! Wish I could talk to you
@lisalisa68216 ай бұрын
20:51-21:14 couldn’t have said it better 👏🏼
@wordsofjames6 ай бұрын
I have a question, what do you mean by sexual immorality within a marriage? This has been a discussion among many of my Christian friend groups and would love to get another outside perspective. Thank you in advance. Bless you and your following of your calling.
@ireinthomas25506 ай бұрын
I think it could mean to reduce your wife or husband to an object, for your own sexual fulfillment, instead of seeking mutual delight.
@GG-vq6ro6 ай бұрын
Probably that you're still not allowed to commit sodomy. God didn't create the rear end for things to go up in there. That would still be immoral
@laughattack12046 ай бұрын
Sexual immorality is any sexual act that is immoral. Adultery is the most common sexual immorality within a marriage. Majority of married couples don't love each other and instead give into lust. Making fun of someone's features is sexually immoral and both sides are guilty. Also, I know this won't be popular opinion, but I can't help myself. Satan temps everyone with homosexuality, anyone who says they are as straight as an arrow doesn't understand sin and is capping out of insecurity. In a sense, we are all gay, and I love calling it out. You can become gay in relationship. Sexual abuse such as rape within marriage is immoral. The marriage doesn't separate you from basic human functions. The marriage just means it will be more difficult because you have two complex creatures. How many married men watch porn? As well, none of us are perfect and some parts of this world can make certain sexual sins inescapable in the moment. Plenty of men and women imagine themselves with other people. Then you got couples swapping each other routinely and breaking the marriage bond. Even if you are fine but tempt someone else to sexual sin, you've committed sexual immorality yourself.
@GodTurnItAroundАй бұрын
Porn, Masturbation, Fantasy, Bdsm, Polyamory, and using sex as a means of manipulation... To name a few things.
@nnekaokike3156 ай бұрын
wait can you describe the sexual immorality in marriage?
@GG-vq6ro6 ай бұрын
I'm assuming it's Sodomy because God didn't intend for the rear end to be penetrated
@GodTurnItAroundАй бұрын
Porn, Masturbation, Fantasy, Bdsm, Polyamory, and using sex as a means of manipulation... To name a few things.
@Soliloquy-gy6zf6 ай бұрын
⚠️ are you waiting for Jesus? If yes, learn how to read
@garyfrancis61936 ай бұрын
43 minutes is a” little video”?
@Rugz-smoke6 ай бұрын
I have no sin on the matter
@michaelvanmastrigt75916 ай бұрын
Lust and sex are as natural and normal as hunger and thirst. Humans need it like they need sleep. This notion that sex or sexuality is immoral or sinful is nor based in reality and is religious dogma. Embrace sex, sexual desire and your humanity. Anyone who denies that part of themselves typically end up becoming mentally and emotionally imbalanced & often times do bad things like rape or molestation. Think about various priests who do bad stuff behind the scenes because they disallowed themselves to experience a healthy sexual relationship. I love God and believe in God as well but sex is a part of your humanity. Let go of these false ideas that “perversion is bad”. It is not. It is a very real and inescapable part of your life on this earth 🌍
@ezraleethescribe80476 ай бұрын
Perversion is bad. Sex isn’t.
@michaelvanmastrigt75916 ай бұрын
It depends on the context & how you’re using that word. In this context, we are discussing sexuality and intercourse between consenting adults. In my opinion, 2 men laying together is not perversion but abomination. However a man and a women exploring different sexual experiences that they both consent to, even if it is things outside of what some would consider “normal”, would not meet the definition of “perversion” in my mind. When you say perversion is bad, what are you referring to exactly? Or what do you mean my that? Let’s say you’re at a gym and see men and women dressed a certain way, working out all hot and sweaty. There is obviously a lot of sexual tension in these situations and sometimes people check eachother out and even think thoughts about eachother. Is that a good example of what you mean by “perversion”? Help me understand better
@wordsoflife423 ай бұрын
The God of Scripture, whom followers of Christ serve, has made it abundantly clear that sex outside of the marriage bed is sin and immoral. Ezra has been pretty clear as well that she is a follower of Christ. You are welcome to disagree with Jesus, but if you really want to understand His word and follow Him, I recommend you begin by reading it and obeying Him.@@michaelvanmastrigt7591
@jeremycarpenter55506 ай бұрын
Me to by women .
@thefortisforre7186 ай бұрын
Hello Ezra..i dont think your name is Ezra its really biblical..you really have biblical name..am thanksfull i found you came recently now on my feed if i can say that way
@jeremycarpenter55506 ай бұрын
Looking for my proverbs 31 wife . Read my second post.
@thejoyofrolling6 ай бұрын
F A C T S
@danilaroche11566 ай бұрын
She has valid points but she sounds & presents as if she's a teenager. Speak slower and work on diction.
@seventynine16 ай бұрын
Dress properly
@danilaroche11566 ай бұрын
She's probably new in the Lord.
@jeffwhatley26346 ай бұрын
You have no children. This is your blind spot. The moment you have children, then you will understand sex. Not before. If you never have children, then you are free from the effects of "sin". We are all born from "sin". "Sin" is actually "ignorance". We are all born from "ignorance". We ignore what we wish not to see. We wish to ignore the fact that our parents were also young once. They did very nasty things with each other. Does that make you uncomfortable? It often does make people feel that way. There is no real need to dwell on it. However, these "truths" must be either acknowledged or ignored. Many simply choose to deny. Remember that ALL of what you see started because of Adam and Eve. The love story? And yet you can't have a love story without any heat. Can you? Jesus brings the light. Moses approached the burning bush because it only gave LIGHT. Not heat. God said "let there be LIGHT. Christ is the LIGHT of the world. Where is the heat? If there were no "sin", there would be no world. Sin is necessary, isn't it? The "love of money" is the root of all evil...but money IS necessary. Seek and you WILL find. The best I can do is loosen things up. The world serves God's Purpose, not mine. I am just a tiny bit of blood and bone. I got here like you got here. God arranged the "romance". My ma and pa did the "deed". I did it too. Now I have a kid. ...and two ex-wives. You see? ...the effects of ignorance. I ignored the obvious... ...I wanted the heat...the flames...the "excitement". And my son is born from that ignorance. It's true. God arranged it. I learned lessons that can be taught no other way. ...and now I know better. I know i'll never do THAT again. Eve is best left to her own pursuits. Frankly...she turned the Garden of Eden into "real estate". Women. God let her do it. I have given up trying to fight her. Why bother? She got the gold mine... ...I got the shaft. Great song. Jerry Reed. ...that's right... ...they split it all down the middle... but they gave her the better half. Well it all sounds kinda funny... but it hurts too much to laugh... She got the gold mine... I got the shaft. Lessons learned. Who disrespected who? Does it really matter now? vaya con Dios. ...
@wordsofjames6 ай бұрын
Verbose nonsense. You need not experience something to have clear vision and understanding about it. It is illogical and factually invalid to claim that.
@jeffwhatley26346 ай бұрын
@@wordsofjames I never claimed to be logical. I won't let you do my thinking. That's not your job. God will judge the matter. Period.
@stellacitera58776 ай бұрын
Are you claiming having children is unholy, or sex is impure as such? As far as God let me know in this life, we actually are supposed to be burning, but out of the holy flame of the heart, which is the only one entitled to awaken the fire of sensual love. ❤
@jeffwhatley26346 ай бұрын
@@stellacitera5877 Cain kills Abel. Does he not? These are the sons of Adam. Brother kills brother. Jesus says, "love your enemies". Look around. Do you see that happening? Gaza? Ukraine? Afghanistan? Are you paying attention? At all? Wake up.
@wordsofjames6 ай бұрын
@@jeffwhatley2634 scripture cannot be defeated by logic as it is logical. Your post is nonsense.
@kingmaafa1206 ай бұрын
From what I’ve seen With the internet 🛜 It’s just a free for all Of course Depending upon where you and who you are or wanna be It’s Sodom and Gomorrah Stay strong 💪 👍