An Interabled Love Story (Intimacy and Disability)

[@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids]

Great to meet you Shane and Hannah! These two run a KZbin channel where they share their daily routine and adventures in detail. Check it out at kzbin.info/door/domP1JqhnyBQGaBmfDl4KQ.

[@viickiii]

Special Books by Special Kids hi

[@alexbrown3345]

Your such a great youtuber and man

[@cherryblossomteacake5591]

💛

[@TeamAutismpedia]

She is such a good person to see the good in him. Not everyone takes the time to do that

[@sunangel5917]

You know it's a very normal relationship when she can point out things he does that annoy her lol. That cracked me up.

[@Joesy015]

This is the definition of loving someone genuinely for who they are

[@colephelps9913]

would she do it without the fame though lmao

[@TheFlutertutter]

Cole Phelps. They’ve been together for 3 years. Pretty sure the fame came way after

[@casualgamer4898]

cole phelps lol what fame

[@littlebird8346]

That's overly simplistic. She likely is in large part attracted to him BECAUSE of his disability.

[@aduzzz3322]

@@littlebird8346 really why do you think that

[@Reflectionofmedusa]

The way she looks at him with such loving eyes every time he talks is literally the purest thing ever💕

[@Cavemenandgods]

Realy? Because its the one thing that makes me question her intentions...inalmost feel like it just seems to much like the way a mother or teacher looks at a child....

[@Reflectionofmedusa]

Leigh-Anne Cooper that’s interesting but I’ve never seen a parent or teacher look at someone like that. If you watch a lot of their videos you’ll see like she gets this look before she kisses him where she gets a big smile and she seems to get almost giddy with excitement like you do when you kiss someone you love. I’ve never seen a parent or teacher look at their child with THAT much affection. Like I separate romantic love from platonic love and I feel that her look she gives looks romantic to me but that’s completely biased to my ideas of love and affection.

[@greenpoint7689]

She is a young woman and must be sexually active so then what does she do??????

[@wilE6764]

he said she's his primary caregiver

[@straysignatus1382]

two words: paid actress. Google Anna Reinalda. She was Shane's "ex". She looked at him in the same way. Suspicious.

[@bryhalla]

The way she looks at him.. 😭💕

[@saouer]

@damselcausingdistress 81 I think they just go to every channel they can find for the memes lul

[@elephantsdontforget]

@@albertohoued3453 Yo Funny dude

[@pamkoravv5729]

* I want to eat him *

[@monicaann2136]

I know true love

[@bryhalla]

@@pamkoravv5729 Girl, keep the comments PG. 😭😂

[@rioreason]

0:59 “You love my body? You should tell me that more often.” -Everyone in a relationship since the beginning of time

[@ifl1476]

she is joking.

[@tutsybassista]

@@yolo.kay4191 Yes, she is!

[@ebutuoy4811]

She loves all the money they are making even more

[@SpainSpace]

@@yolo.kay4191 Yes, she is. She may have some kind of kink, actually. But no, I really doubt she loves his body.

[@fluffyclouds555]

Of course there are haters in this comment section. People who won’t believe she loves his body are insecure and close minded

[@ellacompton9185]

"You're doing amazing by the way" the way he comforts her it shows that he takes care of her just as much as she takes care of him. so sweet

[@DanjaZone]

*my first love was disabled..born with severe leg deformity (had zero muscle from mid thigh down and walked with severe difficulty..). He was gorgeous..I was his biggest cheerleader..he was my best friend!*

[@nightsky3981]

What happened? Are you guys still together? 😊

[@VlogsByJoli]

Aw that is wonderful:)

[@DanjaZone]

@@nightsky3981 we ended up being separated by our parents at 17 (I was sent to my grandparents several states away), because we were both obsessed with each other. I joined the USAF at 18 and last I heard he moved from our home state of Florida to Missouri. I've tried contacting him and sadly he would never return my calls. 6 yrs ago his younger brother told me that because I had married someone I met during my service career, that he was irked at me. I tried contacting him so many times. He was my soul mate and I'll always love him. I pray he's a happy guy Today. 😪💔

[@ebbietee98]

DanjA zonE I’m sorry to hear that 😢😢

[@valentinaisidoraibarravald6958]

Holy crap I used to date a guy with the very same condition, but my story ended on a sour note.

[@MessiShay]

“Life is better when you’re laughing.” This is so true!

[@0i1f]

oh really i thought it would be worse.

[@1sonia]

So true

[@MessiShay]

@Crystal Dreams My insta is @ShayFeltman

[@whitestguyuknow]

The fact that they met online, that she saw his condition first off and that he didn't see her at first is kinda perfect tbh. I just imagine that scenario is the best for instilling confidence in the relationship. She knows it's never just her looks and he'll never feel like she was "trapped" into the relationship (which she's clearly not but we can't help the thoughts that cross our minds). They love each other for the person they are. Which I think is so awesome and inspiring

[@mcmerry2846]

Good woman right there

[@sherremullins3354]

He takes care of her emotionally and she takes care of his physical needs. So happy for them!

[@tinicoleofficial]

Sherre Mullins 😭💕

[@littlebird8346]

Except he mocks her and bosses her around. it's not an equal relationship

[@littlebird8346]

@@skywarita336 Shane seems to do it a lot more, and it's a lot more pointed. I don't think it's appropriate for him to regularly insinuate that she eats too much.

[@loomick]

@@littlebird8346 thats the most ridiculous thing Ive ever heard. To suggest that how he acts within their relationship isnt appropriate is completely moronic. Im sure she knows what she does and doesnt like.

[@Rock_star1620]

Lol but she says inappropriate things such as he poops his pants daily but it was obviously joke but could be considered mean. So it’s a two way street.

[@mootsay]

Shane has such a charismatic personality I can see why she fell for him.

[@toni5543]

mootsay totally!

[@redhead6821]

And he's very handsome❤

[@carriegeib9922]

A very good looking guy and intelligent.

[@JP-jl3qf]

no body is going to see that flag waving offline

[@bretthardingtelford8043]

I think he is a cool guy. Lady is cool too

[@okk7188]

I can see how she fell for him, what a charming man ! He’s handsome . His charisma shows inside and out .

[@milaaanx4231]

Ok K yes!

[@kirstenashley4289]

Hugh La-Traviata How so?

[@okk7188]

Hugh La-Traviata all ppl deserve love . Happy New Years to everyone let’s spread love to all

[@Thedollydevine]

Agreed! He’s awesome!

[@bookmilla8616]

Yeah he’s charming!

[@derrickbullard8054]

I’m a 37 year old big “tough” guy, but I absolutely love these two ! As a caretaker of my 32 year old wife with stage 4 ovarian cancer, caretaking is never a burden to anyone that truly loves you man ! With that being said, SBSK is one of my family’s favorite yt channels. Thank you from the bottom of my heart for giving EVERYONE the chance to learn more about all walks of life. My children (daughter 13, and son 8) ask to sit and watch SBSK as a family all of the time. Thank you again ! We love you all !

[@Ela.elizabeth]

Mad respect to you, Derrick. I'm the main caretaker for my mom, who has multiple myeloma. It can be hard, but it's so worth it. I can't imagine what it's like to care for someone in that way that you're in love with - it's got to be really difficult mentally sometimes. I think you're an amazing person and I imagine your cheerful outlook on things means the world to your wife. All the best!!

[@moodmeditation4458]

Respect

[@MatiDota]

Respect!!! True love is being always no Mather what for your Friends and family. Your wife must be so happy with the love You are giving !!

[@meaganfish1052]

I hope your wife is doing alright. Definitely sending amazing thoughts to your family.

[@MMWEST01]

Derrick Bullard 🙏 I wish the best for you and your wife

[@MsParkour1992]

Ever since I was diagnosed with autism in 2017.. I have struggled to accept it until I started watching these videos and realized disability is not a bad word .. it doesn't make you less of a person.. it just means your path in life will be different than for neurotypical able bodied people and that is okay.. these videos also encourage me to not let my "condition" hold me back from reaching my goals in life and ultimately have helped me to accept myself 😊

[@SpecialBooksbySpecialKids]

Proud of you for accepting yourself!

[@laramaaike3050]

Perfect words! I didn't have this channel when I was diagnosed with autism, I think it would helped a lot though, but I was happy with a lot of help from family and friends. But I think for people with whatever kind of disability this channel is perfect. Also for the narrow minded persons btw.

[@marimartin3961]

What type of Autism?

[@MsParkour1992]

@@korylooper3170 with all due respect these are not the old days anymore and autism always existed only they didn't call it autism back then .. I don't think of myself as disabled but it makes me different and that's not necessarily a bad thing.. to me autism is simply a different neurology than the norm, which makes surviving in a predominantly neurotypical world very difficult because of lack of understanding, such as from people like yourself .. please do not comment back because I do not appreciate any form of abliesm

[@MsParkour1992]

@Jill Harris thank you , you too ! and don't worry I don't let that hold me back 🙂

[@chelsh_27]

I’ve been following this channel for a really long time and never did I expect MY OWN COUSIN to be interviewed! It brings me such joy to see how far he’s come and how him & Hannah have developed as a couple over the years❤️❤️

[@user-bg4qv3jp7e]

How does he get intimate?

[@user-py1fu6kb3j]

@@user-bg4qv3jp7e some people really don't know what respect is on the internet...

[@aniyahlawrence8356]

Chelsea H his book is amazing☺️

[@dave1234567ful]

Wow Chelsea you're very beautiful

[@actuallyash2438]

Monika Neither do you apparently, S K is asking a question that is on most of our minds but we choose not to ask because we are ‘polite’. SK is most likely younger than both you and I and doesn’t understand.

[@DrRobertMPick]

Chris I absolutely LOVED this! NO words.

[@thelanternof0]

That's a haircut

[@ldive]

Pxo Gamer why does it look edited on😂

[@elizabethquitanilla604]

My daughter has multiple sclerosis and she is severely disabled and in a wheelchair.her boyfriend is her caregiver also., God bless you both.

[@wiskmayer7739]

I'm really sorry for your situation. My uncle has been severely affected since 5 years, medical cannabis helps him a lot, especially with pain and lack of appetite, greetings and very good luck to your daughter

[@annaziganshina1104]

My warmest greetings and love ❤️ from Russia

[@pandabear1008]

Sending love ❤

[@Cy93]

@Z Why 2 personalities exactly?

[@ilovebilliejoe35]

Your channel is so underrated it’s unbelievable. I don’t know how you aren’t getting so much more recognition! This channel is beautiful and perfect and so much needed in the world. I’m so glad you make these videos. You deserve the world. Thank you for also showing us a part of the world we don’t see, and helping us realize to not take things for granted. Much love

[@jasonkuy7100]

1mill sub is not underrated budy

[@analuisa6157]

I love your pfp

[@ilovebilliejoe35]

I can clearly fuckin see he has 1 million. My statement above still stands. He is way more underrated than he should be.

[@ilovebilliejoe35]

Anne thank you ❤️❤️

[@sucram1015]

@@ilovebilliejoe35 😂😂😂😂😂

[@GabiBattaglia]

“I didn’t see her to start with. And I think that that is important. I read her email. And I fell for her mind, and her character, and her personality.” WOW THIS IS TOUCHING!💕💕

[@thememez2932]

Omg this is so strange as I was scrolling thru comments I saw this and they just said jt!!!

[@eunchulol]

Gabi Battaglia Has

[@VlOREL]

Bs

[@charisdenny7367]

But what a bonus that Hannah is absolutely gorgeous! They're so hilarious together. 💗

[@SkyeRangerNick]

Yes yes yes ... the answer to that question is always and forever yes... Are you worthy of love? Yes you are worthy of love; of self love, of love from friends, family and those closest to you ~ and you / we are worthy of divine love. I love this video. I laughed, and laughed, and laughed some more. What we have is each other; celebrate that, pour joy and honesty into that. ty

[@zedmanatutube]

i feel like this channel has made me more empathetic in general, ive been watching for a while now a kind of feel like i understand people better. i dunno petty lame thing to comment i guess

[@lexiofhyrule9543]

That's so not lame

[@WarWarriorx]

Me too, i have been learning from Chris and the experiences that the people in this videos share, and i feel like a more calm and empathetic person. Thank you Chris.

[@lilwinged5291]

Awesome

[@kathleenpang7138]

More empathy is like the Number One thing we need more of! Seriously!!!!!!!!!!! And I’m a fairly world-wise professor who has spent a lifetime trying to understand the big picture and answer my sister’s perennial question: Why can’t we all just get along? And appreciating our wise mother, who, at the time the book “I’m ok, you’re ok” was popular, thought it shd be, “I’m not ok, you’re not ok, but it’s ok!” Thanks for listening :)

[@2timothy2kjv2]

Amen. I can relate.

[@roxannenoriega5661]

You both truly give me hope for my son!! Hes 26 yrs old and in a wheelchair...he wants so desperately wants a family someday and I pray he finds someone to love him so unconditionally!!

[@lissettedelarosa6679]

Nurse Noriega I hope he finds someone!! ❤️❤️Sending love and positivity!

[@roxannenoriega5661]

@@lissettedelarosa6679 YESSSS!! My son loves to have super in depth conversations while he takes a crap!!! Lmbooo

[@littlebird8346]

Tell him to start a youtube channel.

[@roxannenoriega5661]

@@littlebird8346 I DID!! LOL I see he spent hours watching ya'lls videos!!

[@alexnino7111]

It's very possible! I'm 24 and in a wheelchair. Been with my husband for 5 years!

[@aileen8598]

shane is so sweet and so is hannah, im so glad they found each other and are happy together.

[@samanthaparker9744]

“Time to shower, no more talking” HAD ME DEAD😂

[@missbeinghave5050]

Same!!

[@Laura-jr5wu]

I want to like this but it’s at 665 so I’ll be back later

[@ltaylor7241]

where did he say that

[@Jennifer-un7qo]

@@ltaylor7241 5:34

[@shaneluke346]

@@ltaylor7241 I think they should show MORE videos like this posted from London ENGLAND

[@jim191185]

"Oh!...… WIN." Dude is a legend.

[@Legends_Interviews]

🙄

[@BeBooBoopBeepBeep]

"life is better when you're laughing" ... What a beautiful statement.

[@amireal5458]

easier said than done...

[@robertothetaco9156]

“Life is better when you’re laughing.” That’s beautiful af😭

[@sharonnankinga3883]

These guys are making me jeolosy.. Cnt get wat they have.. 😗😓

[@jennamcafoose4776]

seriously one of my favorite videos! love the love they have together, it’s super sweet and you can tell it’s for real and you don’t see that often 😍

[@laurenhills239]

Jenna McAfoose ur profile picture is snatched

[@pauliosantos6379]

“Love is patient, love is kind. Love is not jealous, it is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury. Love does not rejoice over wrong-doing, but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”

[@sammiech9602]

Nice quote. Money is why she sitting next to him

[@MackenzieNerdyEMT]

Honestly i watch all your videos with my 5 year old daughter. Shes the most compassionate amazing little one who understands though everyone may not look the same we are all human and all deserve love and respect. Thank you for putting out such amazing videos with such amazing people. Its been helpful for myself and for showing my daughter all different walks of life :)

[@katiegeorge3824]

Mackenzie D. Awh that’s great. It’s good to know that she’s aware of that at such a young age ❤️

[@Twelvefourtyseven]

Mackenzie D. You’re a good momma.

[@chrisherbert2461]

They both seem a very kind, loving couple.

[@Annelove779]

The woman is gorgeous and the way she looks at him is nothing but pure love ❤️

[@jenniferkathleen2401]

i can see the love through her eyes. Its so touching.

[@raiderlove5923]

I'm disabled from having Spina Bifida and am in a wheelchair as well. This is the kind of love I one day hope to have.

[@cemo4642]

Hope you have great day

[@cliftongaither6642]

i hope you find it my friend. take care.

[@joycedominguez8997]

You will when you least expect it.

[@slevig415]

Do youtubing or get well off and maybe it'll happen too

[@laceyarrington6582]

My cousin has spina bifida too and in a wheelchair. She is the sweetest ❤

[@GreenAndTheToe]

“Life is better when you are laughing” Exactly! Sometimes I forget that!

[@BananaEnvyPodcast]

I CANT STOP SMILING IM SO HAPPY

[@ellieee_louiseee]

The bubbles thing pissed me off. Just because somebody has a physical disability, doesn't mean that they have no mental capacity or act like children! Don't assume somebody's capacity

[@craigjw87]

Ellie Louisë The guy who asked probably had good intentions wanting to be inclusive, we all make assumptions based on what we perceive. The next time he sees someone with a disability he probably won’t even look at them or include them at all.

[@ellieee_louiseee]

@@craigjw87 Yeah that's true. He was obviously trying to be sweet, we need more people to make an effort. It was just wrong to assume his mental capacity I guess

[@prettyredgemini2886]

Ellie Louisë I don’t think he was trying to be rude. I believe he had good intentions and Probably felt bad about it. I’m sure he’ll think twice if he was faced with a situation like that again, and would go about it differently.

[@ellieee_louiseee]

@@prettyredgemini2886 I agree with that. It's just a shame that as a society, we aren't more aware of disability and how to approach somebody who has one. At least he attempted to make an effort though and not just ignored him or stared at him as I've seen some people do.

[@AmyAndThePup]

I agree. I felt the old familiar disgust when got to that part of the video! I guess people think that someone in a wheelchair has a mental handicap or disability too. Wrong. Come again. It would have been sweet if he *had* been a child, but he's not, and I wish he had asked about that first. I'm blind, and I get so tired of people wrongly assuming things that sometimes it feels good to just vent and express how maddening ignorance really is. I love people, but I do not like ignorance and assumptions.

[@Eatabagofahunniddicks]

This made me realize how empty of a person i am

[@stundown]

Why

[@benten2462]

Same

[@Ela.elizabeth]

stundown I'm guessing that this person asked himself if he could do what she does or date someone like him and the answer he came up with was "no". I don't think that makes you an "empty" or bad person, though. As long as you're open to meeting people and treat everyone like a human being, you're fine. It's easy to say that you don't think you could do something when you're not in a position to do it. You never know what could happen in the future or who you may fall for. As long as you have an open heart and mind and treat people with respect no matter who they are, where they come from or what they look like, you can have a future with a very full heart indeed.

[@hasinaashraf9332]

Then don't be empty, simple .

[@elizabethsmith9624]

Hannah is with him because of severe codependency

[@gunner3921]

I wonder if she ever argues with him and just parks him somewhere.

[@camknows6135]

Apollo 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

[@beaky3178]

Apollo lol 😝... surely if she did, she wouldn’t leave him there for very long.

[@beleneguren]

One of my close friends has the same disability and sometimes we do that lol of course he takes it as a joke if not we wouldn’t do it

[@gunner3921]

belen eguren yea I’ve had friends in school that would tear a muscle or break a leg, and weed say the same thing

[@moselleconger4156]

In one of the videos on his channel they joke about this exact thing. She just puts him in time out. Lol! They crack me up.

[@jenk6895]

“And I love his body and everything about him really...” Pauses, looks off camera “why are you laughing you told me to say that!” LOLLOL!!?

[@flxmkr]

Yeah, it looks like he set her up and got her good. LOL

[@bethanygrace4968]

That was my fave part lmao! Such a funny and cute relationship

[@chrisherbert2461]

I wish people would treat those with disabilities a lot better, and learn to understand their needs and feelings.

[@MiniMeags]

Of me to do because I know how much my partner loves me wheels and all

[@loveyoursoul32]

chris herbert I don’t understand the polar opposite of doing so, isn’t it part of our humanity to feel compelled in loving and understanding those with less fortunate conditions, there is something off with people when they aren’t that way, their humanity has been contaminated with something

[@ryanthechurchboy9408]

I personally look up to this man. He takes something that might make most people sad and flips it. He's happy with life and he's just someone I personally look up to!!!!

[@Pepperjohnson99]

What a gorgeous relationship..you can tell how in love they are

[@user-gt1ox1bh6s]

dear people who comment “and i can’t even get a text back?”, that is a low, condescending and rude thing to say. it’s quite pathetic to presume that if he can have a relationship anyone can. if you don’t have kind words for the couple then don’t comment at all. *P.S.- Anyone making discrimination comments will be reported!

[@ryanstreckfuss9590]

Aden, it's pretty clear that he has less going for him than most. People are entitled to their opinions.

[@ripplayboicactus9279]

it’s a joke, calm down smh

[@griffbenoit4998]

She in it for the 💰💰💰

[@rakadoni8403]

Well said :) I think people lack that empathy and look at it from such a single minded point of view. Of course he got a girl, he's charming af. But I guess there's always KZbin comments where people say things they would never say to the person's face.

[@magicd5780]

I cant even get a text 😅

[@grace-23102]

“I fell for her mind, I fell for her personality” ugh 😊 I love those kind of relationships

[@zacktobin8026]

I honestly want their life to be made into a romantic movie.

[@yirimay4807]

There's a actually a movie with a pretty similar storyline, it's call "Pumpkin". It's really nice.

[@cakekyo7]

Yirimay the difference is that this guy is not mentally challenged at all. I love his dark sense of humor

[@siriusblack3568]

Yesss

[@dennisreiss8748]

They're working on it

[@marymccowan6629]

Cake kyo Shane is not mentally challenged.

[@MrStanislavski123]

Well I had a massive smile on my face the entire video!

[@meghanservidio8961]

Everyone is saying “he’s so lucky to have her,” how about she’s lucky to have him. He’s super good looking, funny, intelligent, good hearted........ on and on. They are both lucky to have each other.

[@robotikempire]

Let's be real. She will be taking care of him the rest of their relationship and that can be burdensome on her even if she doesn't feel like it is now. Many highly disabled people like this guy do not find partners who are willing to take on that responsibility, so I'd say he got pretty damn lucky. I'm glad they're happy, but let's not fool ourselves.

[@pbassassinz8097]

Your saying he got lucky no... she got lucky he's rich now she doesn't have to worry about money ever again.

[@smscanal]

​@@robotikempire I get you. But it can be the case that she's a genuinely good person. And that kind of people don't do stuff thinking about it as a burden. Maybe she's doing it by love. And in that case, even the hardest things aren't burdensome. Love to all specially those two 💖

[@filipzawistowski8552]

Super good looking?

[@lilboem9813]

Good looking?

[@BikeAllDay12]

“And then the first time I saw her face I was like oh..... win” Lmaooo big W bro

[@elmerovero7528]

lmaooooo true

[@ebutuoy4811]

The first time she saw him she was like oh..... $$$

[@debbiewilcox8890]

ebuTuoY what money? Daft comment - anyone who follows them sees how much she genuinely loves him!

[@TheChrislewis1989]

@@ebutuoy4811 if he had money that everyone claims he has then why doesnt he have that mechanical arm that he wanted to get for his wheelchair to make him a little bit more independent???

[@user-ru3zw6lz9h]

@@ebutuoy4811 WHAT money, lol...you sound so ridiculous

[@panpani5079]

Like I'm not even suprised. He's a confident, funny and brave guy, why shouldn't he have a girlfriend?

[@Deenique16]

Who says he shouldn't. He seems like hes bae several

[@sundaypoe666]

RIGHT? what a cutie. love them.

[@breeannaw.1309]

Omg is that Rhett in your profile picture? 😂

[@MiniMeags]

NeickhaSuPRA a lot of people in the comments say he shouldn’t

[@loveyoursoul32]

pan banan exactly!!!!!

[@mattsexton4787]

My name is Shalene.. and my husband Matthew now has a traumatic spinal cord injury.. I just want you all to know how much of an inspiration you are .. and I absolutely love you all even though we have never met.. just know you are amazing.. and the love y’all have is amazing! I am also his part time caregiver .. and it is hard sometimes but never a burden. Love has no limits ! And yes people need to know that disability does make you different .. but special! I love your love!!!

[@doloreserin]

Matt Sextons Many blessings to you and your husband, having a disability makes you different and special in a way. Just a different way of navigating life, I'm totally blind and my husband is sighted. We are a normal couple in every way, except I cook by taste and smell. My husband inspires me everyday and sees all my abilities rather than my differences.

[@mattsexton4787]

Allison Manzino wow that is absolutely AMAZING!!!! Many blessings to you too!! And thank you!!! You are a rockstar!

[@kerrysmith7122]

You probably left him or cheated on him

[@moodmeditation4458]

All the strength to you.

[@livinglife5295]

I really hope to love someone so much in life that I could look past any disability they could receive in the future.

[@livinglife5295]

kaship98 I know

[@rylee4268]

if it’s true love, you’ll love them no matter what they look like. most of the time, being physically attracted comes with being in love.

[@Brynwyn123]

You don't look past it, you *accept* it.

[@veeabbey40]

I think what they are trying to say is their love isn’t the reason she can “look past” his disabilities because his disabilities where there before the love was. It is about changing your mindset. Like with these videos Chris makes we need to be a people that doesn’t let disabilities be the forefront of someone’s personality. Seeing people as people rather than their disabilities etc. Than you won’t have to look past anything.

[@Meanbomb]

She's not looking past it. She's always seen it. She accepts it. She encourages him. You can love someone and their disability.

[@estherpennington7826]

I am albino and legally blind. I am insecure about my eyes because they shake and do not maintain focus. I was teased a lot through life and still am sometimes This has stopped me from making a KZbin channel because I am so insecure about my disability. Thank you Shane. You've inspired me.

[@alondrasosa1035]

Goddess otsutsuki 😍

[@Technique-kj2bp]

What does legally blind mean?

[@christinablair1978]

@@Technique-kj2bp Legal blindness occurs when a person has central visual acuity (vision that allows a person to see straight ahead of them) of 20/200 or less in his or her better eye with correction. With 20/200 visual acuity, a person can see at 20 feet, what a person with 20/20 vision sees at 200 feet.

[@kitkatkiki677]

I am shook. I have been in a couple interabled relationships and it’s a beautiful experience. I wish we had more portrayals of interabled couples in the media, TV, and movies, where they are seen and understood as everyday couples. I wish PWDs were overall better represented in the media. Ahhh! I’m so shook, it’s bits of social media like this that take the first steps!! I feel like this channel is so beautiful bc everyone who watches this either learns a new perspective or they are touched bc a story similar to theirs is being heard, told from a genuine perspective. Thanks for telling a story similar to mine that strikes a chord. THANK YOU!!! 🙏♥️

[@bellakatherman1477]

Yesica1993 everything has to be sugarcoated these days

[@mirsey93]

I think there are many people, like myself, who are completely ignorant to interabled relationships and I wish there was more information being portrayed through the media. This was a suggested video through another video and I'm so glad I got to learn more about interabled dating!

[@laneymcnamara3266]

Everyone saying he mocks her should really check out their channel. They constantly are joking about each other, it's just their thing. I'm so happy for them and wish them the best.

[@nspector]

+Laney Yes, exactly. I watched this interview about a week ago. Since then I've watched maybe seven or eight of Hannah and Shane's videos. The doubts and worries that people express on here would probably disappear if they did a little more digging.

[@kaitholomew]

Every time someone talks about Shane mocking her I want to show them the video where Hannah called him an atrophied little giraffe boy and they both laughed so hard

[@nspector]

@@kaitholomew Yes.

[@pepinyostep3592]

WATS THEIR CHANNEL

[@kaitholomew]

@@pepinyostep3592 their channel is called squirmy and grubs!

[@audise2]

Thanks for introducing us to all these awesome people. Some videos end with a tear but there's always the biggest smile on my face after each one. Also helps dispel ignorance on disability from myself and everyone who watches. Keep it up!

[@virginiamaggio5549]

" Life is better when you're laughing" This guy has understood how living his life. I think highly of you and I hope your life will be amazing with Hannah😘

[@noe8516]

3:11 I laughed so much at the mustache part, the chemistry between these two is so evident and beautiful. I wish you all the best things in life✨

[@jimgarza8800]

No you didn't.

[@gracenorman6812]

If these two don’t get married I’m gonna be devastated. They are the cutest couple

[@Amusegirl1980]

What if they stayed together forever unmarried? 😉😘

[@ylime5544]

@@Amusegirl1980 didn't you know that this is Impossible?!🕵️ Just Kidding, good Point 🕺

[@jayaom4946]

They reminded me that the hardest part of an interabled relationship where one person is the caregiver is becoming isolated as other people don't understand, don't relate. And, of course, the fact that one person is dependent while the other person can just walk away. That becomes more and more of a difficult dynamic as the years go on.

[@loveyoursoul32]

Grace Norman Dont hang your hopes on the coat hanger of other people, find the statisfication you need from love in your own life and relationships, don’t base it off of others

[@maddio998]

“And she helps me poop.”😂 That’s true love right there.

[@glowworm2]

That's what made me like him right away--what a great sense of humor!

[@elegantlywasted5447]

Madelynn King I couldn’t do it

[@rx350guy]

Isn’t that a normal part of every relationship? My ex has some explaining to do.

[@TheInternationalBlackLipPlate]

Yeah. "true love". More like $$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$$

[@ThornEternal]

They literally got married just yesterday. Their video came up 10hrs who as of rn! Good for them

[@yolandad2.031]

@@littlebird8346 I was wondering about that. I still like the message their relationship sends.

[@MoejiiOsmanTV]

@@littlebird8346u can see the marriage license on there page

[@emilywilliams3277]

I love this my fiance was born with a very rare tumor on his spinal cord that has left him paralyzed from the waist down, i meet him 6 years ago and we fell in love. I take care of him everyday and would never in my entire life change that for anything. I am beyond blessed to have found him. And even though doctors have told his parents he wouldnt survive past two years old he is now 26 and faces obstacles everyday but he is one strong man. He is my hero. I love watching these videos.

[@visual_honey]

Beautiful :)

[@rav_666_]

Aww this is so sweet

[@emilywilliams3277]

Thank yall

[@treyowens9674]

Wow I'm suprised you can comment on this vid

[@thestation4768]

yikes :(

[@kobe0007]

Right! KZbin can't seem to get it right.

[@spoiler4019]

KZbin only won’t let you comment on videos that have minors in them now. They’re over 18, so you can comment.

[@pudchaa]

spoiler ......except I just watched another video about them on this channel and the comment section was disabled.... Soooooooooo yeahhhh.....🤔

[@paprika8334]

badfeminist It’s bot their fault. KZbin is disabling comments. They have a video on it

[@shimshi1232]

Hi Shane and Hannah. I never comment on KZbin videos. But I had to. I am a physiotherapiest from Israel and regularly treat a 12 year old girl diagnosed with sma. You guys are all I hope the future holds for her. You guys are amazing. Thank you.

[@jotrotter1540]

As a long time special education teacher, this channel is so informational. It provides honest encounters and assists viewers to encounter special people with less anxiety and more true interactions. Great channel

[@vl2425]

Informative???

[@jotrotter1540]

@@vl2425 informational

[@cmani1234]

This video is so inspiring, It really gives me hope that having a disability shouldn't make me lose hope in finding a significant other

[@pragmaticcat7619]

Good for you there is someone for everyone. Never surrender to negativity.

[@bizmonkey007]

I hope you can find someone. Life is hard. It’s a little easier (or can be a little easier) with somebody.

[@lifewithcerebralpalsymegha8683]

I have cerebral palsy and walk on a walker. This video gives me hope in finding love one day.

[@tval4840]

The walker doesn't define you, neither does CP. I'm sure you are beautiful inside and out!

[@hiheyitsme_tayaltanese2826]

I have cerebral palsy too and it used to be hard for me most definitely, but I crafted my relationships through LOA.😊😊

[@canikeepyouforever]

What side of your body does the cp affect? Because i have it also

[@canikeepyouforever]

@1100 0010011110 thank you!

[@Bigmeatyclaws1237]

My brother has cerebral palsy, he doesn’t walk with a walker or anything like that, just his arm and leg on his right side are effected, but he’s 27 now but he met his partner when he was 18. She’s the love of his life. He’s also has a lot of cerebral palsy friends who are in relationships. Don’t worry love will come to you 😌

[@MrRishik123]

Sometimes it's easy to forget there are amazing people like this who truly care about their significant other regardless of their superficial looks. In this day and age with tindr and all that, it's hard to believe relationships as precious as this one actually exist.

[@MrRishik123]

@Mavi Olave love ya too bro. Gotta keep the world positive. :)

[@LightYagami-tz7ci]

Mr Rishi The Cookie wise words, L.

[@MrRishik123]

@@LightYagami-tz7ci sup

[@zoewhaley2783]

Mr Rishi The Cookie amen

[@kristianj.8798]

Mr Rishi The Cookie I have nothing to add to your comment; just that I'm totally seconding it!

[@samuels5329]

If you watch their videos on their channel, you can tell that they have the exact same sense of humor. Because of that, it's easy to understand why they clicked so well.

[@sthr2110]

PROOF that you don't have to be able-bodied, wealthy and/or "hot" (...or whatever you want to call it) to score a beautiful, loving GF...you just need to be a good, kind, intelligent, caring person and be fortunate enough to come across the right one...or see if she finds you first.

[@angrygrouse4989]

@The Meta just be patient and let the universe do its thing

[@__1201]

Sr Hr No it's not really proof of anything. A couple of things: They never disclosed his income or what she earns by taking care of him. Additionally, she isn't married to the guy, so being a girlfriend isn't exactly a long term commitment.

[@CP-hb4ff]

Nor does everyone think she’s beautiful

[@Randompotatoes-qs7bm]

_ _ long term commitment? His illness is progressive dudel. And judging by how much caregivers get paid I don’t think she’s doing it for that reason..

[@CP-hb4ff]

Chicken Nugget well no that’s just rude my opinion was too but you took it to a next level lol

[@ToriNoHiko]

I just love this story. So many times I heard "she/he is a saint" about a caregiver and I just don't like it! Hannah is not a saint, she is just a loving, caring girlfriend and they are a normal couple. They have pet peeves, they care about each other. Yes, she sacrificed something for him, but I'm sure he did too. As I did for my husband, as he did for me. Because it's normal. Thank you for sharing their story, Hannah and Shane are an amazing couple.

[@hayleymarse2853]

I mean saints sacrificed a lot but they were also normal humans who made mistakes, and fought with people as well. It’s a compliment saying someone is a saint because everyone should strive to be saint because that is how we get to heaven

[@ToriNoHiko]

@@hayleymarse2853 maybe I interpret it wrong because I'm not a religious person

[@bruhkent6895]

Lmao you know that a lot of people are named saints because of their sacrifices right?

[@xena439]

Kotago I have gotten that comment and others to the same effect because my boyfriend is legally blind and it does make me feel a bit uncomfortable. I'm not with him so I can be a good person or to provide some act of charity. I just love him for who he is!

[@TheJesusAlejandra]

I agree shes just a very loving and caring girlfriend

[@Lemons19902010]

Just subscribed to their channel! They seem like such an awesome, laid back couple! Would love to see more relationships featuring disabled/non disabled persons in mainstream media!

[@SarahKDB]

Agreed! I'm disabled and my husband is not. It's nice to see another couple like us.

[@heysaucemikehere1804]

These videos are some of my favorite, their humor, their love, I’m so happy I’ve found their channel. This is truly beautiful.

[@GoodbyeRubyTu3sday]

I actually think that the bubbles guy was very sweet and it literally made me smile. Yes he got the wrong assumption thinking he was facing a kid with a mental disability but I think it was a very loving gesture, especially since you said he was there with his kids. I think it was a good way to teach his kids to always accept the others no matter their physical appearance, he had a sweet heart and I think in this you should have explained him the situation and educate him on your condition.

[@clivelambert-oe7kg]

@Ale Silva yep the bubble guy could of just walked awkwardly past but he tried to make his day better he had good intentions :)

[@samanthaflorence733]

@Jessica Daniel of course. It is understandable that he felt bad by that father's misunderstanding. This comment just means that if he could look it in another perspective, a perspective that maybe that father just wanted to do something nice but didn't know better, and maybe he could make that father understand more about how to approach people with certain conditions.

[@rickwrites2612]

As a person with a disability, it gets very tiring to have to constantly educate everyone you meet on your condition for their or the worlds benefit. I would describe it as feeling like being at work 24/7 year after year and it's not fair to expect that of people. Also (maybe because my disabilities came on slowly and only the mobility issues are visible and only because I use equipment) I have a difficult time keeping my mother or my partner of 10 yrs from forgetting how they affect me. I just cant imagine having to educate everyone I meet sufficiently because apparently it's difficult to learn and accept what people strengths and limitations are? I imagine it may even be more difficult when it's more visibly different and people have preconceived ideas that your a child, or intellectually disabled, or nonverbal etc. Just my thoughts. Maybe I'm wrong and because I look pretty similar to able bodied people that is why it's so hard to explain to my family because they cant stop treating me as a "normal" person who just fails as basic things. But when I re-educate or ask them directly they say they know ...but within wks it happens again... I'm sorry I'm getting off topic. It's not just me though most disability activists say it's not fair to expect people to educate you on their disability. It sounds like the Bubbles man learned everything he needed to when the gentleman looked at him and said "No, thank you." Lol. Priceless. Of course Bubbles' master meant well, it's rare that someone would not be well intentioned. It's just ignorant. Thus the need to be educated. I think he was, though. Or that'd be a pretty big Whoosh.

[@WiWillemijn]

I know right and he must have felt pretty terrible afterwards

[@maryobrien6014]

Rick Laurent Feely , thank you! For years I got asked, “what did you do” like my slight disability is MY FAULT several times a day!! Strangers thought it okay to just say that 1st thing just as I’m trying to run errands. It is so tiring to have to explain it to loved 1s who don’t understand or see me often. I get such dirty looks when I need a wheelchair because, for the time, I can’t walk.

[@captainobvious5650]

7:29 - "The first time I saw her face I was like. Oh. WIN!!!" lol

[@sevos6359]

yea, i was also confused.. its not a normal reaction lmao.. he's cringy asf

[@bellajanae1475]

Sevos That is not what they was saying oml. Congratulations. You just pissed me off.

[@hehe4422]

@@sevos6359 did u like ur own comment or somn lmfao

[@SkaterOrnez]

@@sevos6359 you're own your own. Stay over there in the corner, confused...everyone else thought it was funny😂

[@Releasethebats123]

@@sevos6359 you're cringy

[@briannamccullough5423]

I see what she sees. You just spark a conversation. You seem open and kind and non-judgemental. You are something different in a VERY very monotonous world : )

[@firk407]

Dodger Nice try lol

[@289rory]

You’re very beautiful. From the comment I believe your beauty is inside and out.

[@bridgettholman4074]

What a sweetheart you are!

[@michaeljechon6139]

You get it.

[@MarvelousMark30]

Not just disabled men are nice they are men who ain't disabled are also nice

[@nanaopfernandes]

this is the best and most important channel on youtube, i'm not kidding. i just wanna take the opportunity (since i can comment on this video) to thank you, chris. honestly. your videos made me take the courage to seek help for my depression. there are no words to describe the impact that this channel had and continue to have on me. as someone else said here, watching your videos made me a more understanding and empathetic person. i grew so much and i honestly feel like i'm stronger now because of it. you have a special soul, and i only wish the world gives back all the good you're making to people around the world. truly: thank you.

[@kia-oracho-cho170]

I truly hope you're doing better these days...love...; )

[@nanaopfernandes]

@@kia-oracho-cho170 thank you so much, sweetheart. I am! hope you're doing good out there too :)

[@screamcc6947]

The way she looks at him is so genuine. I love it

[@allyh.publico1823]

Shane's advice on finding love made me tear up. I've had people say to me several times that I need to fix myself (as someone with Bipolar Disorder II), which is why no one likes me. But this video inspires me, that someone will accept me as I am. I also appreciate Shane's advice on using humor as his way of dealing with problems; it reminded me to laugh and love myself a little more too. 💜

[@BirdyMum]

What complete rubbish those people have said to you! I have a couple of invisible ilnesses and BP1 and I've been married almost 4 years. Your mental illness absolutely doesn't mean that you need "fixing" or won't find a loving relationship

[@CarelessError]

Shane and Hannah’s relationship is just wonderful. My boyfriend of 3 years was diagnosed with Leukemia a little over a year ago and had a relapse. Although he can move on his own, there are times I have to help him shower, walk him to the bathroom, make food for him, etc. So to me, that is a similarity in the relationship between shane and hannah, me and my boyfriend. It’s always caring and loving and never a chore but just part of life. Love seeing this and loved meeting Hannah and Shane. Just sweet, loving wonderful human beings! Hi friends!

[@xena439]

Lane D My boyfriend of 7 years is legally blind so I can relate as well, and I just love the the way you put it. Love is never a chore. It's so true!

[@jackiedrago5854]

y’all i’m crying. as someone who works with people with disabilities, cognitive and physical, this is amazing. hannah and shane give me faith that they will teach the world that everyone is the same and deserving of love

[@marys3127]

"Does he want to play with bubbles?" oh.my.gosh. People. please.think.before.speaking.

[@juliannenance6919]

Mary Smith I thought the same thing! I'm sure the man had good intentions but still...

[@orionma5425]

I'm a teenager and still enjoy playing with bubbles. Moreover, I expect that I'll still enjoy playing with bubbles when I'm 50. I get your point though.

[@flxmkr]

I get that the bubble blowers presumed a bit too much, but given the disabilities they THOUGHT he had, you have to give them credit for wanting to make him happy and include him in their fun. If he did have the mental capacity of a child, he would've enjoyed playing bubbles. I think it was very sweet of them for offering, as opposed to ignoring him as if he never existed. And this would've been the time to educate them and explain that physical ability/disability doesn't reflect mental capacity, and become friends. Sure, one could become offended and angry at the wrong assumption, but that would lead people to shutting down and refusing to even try and be nice the next similar opportunity. Their heart was in the right place. Use that as a springboard to educate them, because they seemed like the type of people who would listen and take heed, and even educate others..Besides, who doesn't like bubbles? :-)

[@marys3127]

@@flxmkr - I agree. However I cannot imagine how many people speak directly to Hannah and not to Shane. That part is very sad and everyone needs to be taught to address the person in the wheelchair directly, if possible.

[@dianastjames6796]

im sorry but that does make me laugh. does he want to play with bubbles ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha. I don't think they were trying to be mean though.

[@Anthony-df4bs]

I just want to be friends with all of these people featured on this channel.

[@TheVintageRomance]

Anthony Ricci me too :)

[@daniepdx]

Same!

[@smudgy264]

You must be very loney

[@Anthony-df4bs]

@@smudgy264 Furthest thing from it, my friend.

[@cheesecakelasagna]

@@smudgy264 that actually shows the opposite.

[@Tam712]

What an inspirational couple! Just the unconditional love they share towards one another, I'd call that true love.

[@amrichiang4659]

When Shane says “and then I saw her face... WIN” LOLOL I love you guys ❤️😇 I wish you guys nothing but the best in life!!

[@xtremezone3820]

You're so pretty... marry me. =)

[@littlebird8346]

I hope Hannah frees herself and doesn't spend her whole life as a caregiver out of low self-esteem

[@Scrazelope]

@@littlebird8346 how?

[@xmuta]

Scrazelope - how to free herself?

[@Scrazelope]

@@xmuta no I was asking how is she doing it out of low self esteem

[@LazerNR]

i need a girl like this. i'm genuinely happy for you buddy, glad you can cope with this horrible disorder and have found happiness. very strong person and awesome personality.

[@majorOhyeahyeah]

Dang Chris why are you always pulling on the heart strings.

[@beepboop9519]

y’all cracking on them but they’re actually happy so who’s really winning HMMMMM

[@kaijohnson9048]

Exactly!!! They are happier than most fully able bodied couples. Love them 😍

[@briancalifornia1]

At least there are women like her who would love and care for a disabled man who can’t physically take care of himself I am glad they are women like her she’s beautiful inside and outside and he’s lucky to have her.

[@samuelderbidge2340]

Yah just waiting for mine i am phyisicaly disabled had 2 back surgeries leg surgeries arm surgies and feet surgeries. I also have a back fracture and have to eat vegan organic non pesticide non chemical do do to what gmo is which is horrible. Anyways i pray i find a girl that can be there for me like he has her :).

[@deidre1965]

I'm inspired by this love story.. btw, love your tag name

[@kodiakdunsworth]

This is one of the most incredible things I’ve ever seen. Seeing this made my day so much better. You two are amazing

[@Lavender_Louis]

Wow! I think I've never said this about a couple but honestly, this is what I call relationship goals! When he described the feeling when they moved in with each other I just thought YES. THIS is what I want to feel like with a partner one day. Not nervous or unsure just at ease and content with the situation 😌

[@bkw11]

Absolutely. This is why the right relationships are so sought after. I wish I knew this growing up. I didn't understand what was the big deal. But now I do

[@lidek7273]

THIS IS AWESOME! I am so happy your channels intersected to do this interview :) I have been watching and enjoying the SBSK channel and Hannah & Shane’s channel each independently for a while now. Both channels have taught me how to better understand and connect with another person. Watching Shane & Hannah’s vlogs and getting used to their humour and quirks, and then seeing them featured here in an interview with Chris on SBSK is so special! Thank you for bringing this together! Your work is so impactful, Chris, and provides an opportunity to host such crucial conversations :)

[@collettewhosthatgirl1330]

Shane was on SBSK before he met Hannah too😊😊

[@lidek7273]

Cece Ruben Squirmy and Grubs :)

[@lidek7273]

Collette who'sthatgirl That’s awesome! Do you know the name of that video?

[@memorymalunga670]

Shane has a beautiful mind. Hannah too, she's so beautiful, inside and out. You're such a lovely couple.

[@moonxbea6502]

This must be the only video with comments. So I have lots to say. This channel is sooooooooo respectfull. It’s beautiful. It makes me apriciate disabled people so much more. I want you to know how much I love all these videos. And it makes me want to be friends with someone who needs it so much. I can not thank you enough for being so respectful of these beautiful people, and sharing it with us. THANK YOU!!!!

[@palmchika13marycharry9]

Make a movie out of this couple some body PLEASE

[@palmchika13marycharry9]

@Rachel T I KNOW RIGHT ...only if some one could🙏🙏🙏👌

[@flynnryder3943]

palmchika13 Mary charry They have their own KZbin channel called squirmy and grubs

[@carmenschwering7346]

I guess 'the theory of everything' would come close! Except these people have 0 drama

[@palmchika13marycharry9]

@@flynnryder3943 thanks

[@palmchika13marycharry9]

@@carmenschwering7346 i mean like how they met and every thing OOHHH THAT WOULD BE A NICE THING TO READ OR WATCH🔥🙏🙌👌💛

[@80085pen15]

I saw Shane talk at an event at the University of Cincinnati almost 2 years ago. Such a funny guy and motivating speaker

[@vignyvictorine2254]

I understand them soo much my husband just like him and has the same disability , we live in Finland have been together for 6 to five years of marriage . Very soon we are welcoming our daughter,just because am black ppl think am whit him because of money or something Cox it not normal for a girl like me to be whit him ppl look at us and think and ask if is my sugar daddy but well now I know that we are not the only couple that are like this soo happy for them and I hope the end up like us, married and making a lot of babies .

[@linsay3574]

Congratulations on your baby! Good luck to you.

[@gizanglyer5299]

Beautiful story

[@itsbrittbritt4183]

6 to five?

[@holly5878]

Congratulations

[@HannahRose19960]

Girl F those people who think and say that! I’m so happy you have your true love and congratulations on your baby

[@kianakosack7800]

I'm so happy Shane has found medicine that works for him :) It's crazy how much his speech has improved since this video :D

[@JamaicanRain]

I wish he could stay on Spinraza, but whatever keeps him alive and kicking for decades to come!

[@prettymuchaheadass348]

this is SO PURE! it’s clear that they have true love for each other and it’s beautiful to see

[@aarons4996]

For everyone saying she’s freeloading off him she doesn’t have much to. if you follow them you’d know that she is not a paid caregiver and wouldn’t get a dime if something happens to him. So it’s extremely disrespectful for people to second guess the strong relationship they have together.

[@loveyoursoul32]

Aaron S people don’t want to believe that other people will do things simply out of love, because they themselves don’t have the capacity to be that way, so they self reflect and assume they know the in and out, and make all these negative comments and false analyzations to make sense of things, because their small incapable minds can’t decipher the idea that there is someone out there that is doing something they would never do without an advantage.

[@pudchaa]

Marie Sparrow facts.

[@rissarose3423]

No way she freeloading she’s taking care of everything for him! If anything freeloading is the wrong word to use!

[@haroldlamble5163]

I half to admit I had some of those thoughts I am sorry God forgive me and God bless you both .

[@williamhandlebar9585]

@@loveyoursoul32 PREACH

[@tylerrainsings]

Literally started balling when he said “ you are worthy of love”

[@mokaPCP]

This is so beautiful I sincerely hope I can achieve a relationship this fulfilling and genuine like theirs. Thank you all for sharing. Peace and love!