An Introduction to Dating Apps and Psychic Damage for Trans People

[@niamhleeson3522]

There's a transfem 4 transfem dating app y'all should check out. It's called Discord

[@jeeBisOkay]

This but unironically, I met my gf through discord and we have kissed irl She's really pretty and I want to see her again but covid is homophobic

[@projectz975]

Discord is like Mecca for hornt up transfems

[@LexYeen]

4:55 Remember: Pillage first, _then_ burn. There's lots of valuable tools and crafting supplies inside a Hobby Lobby, after all.

[@EmilyAster]

I was already hesitant about dating apps and this did NOT change that to any more positive degree. 10/10

[@Shonalika]

holy shit this was FANTASTIC. I don't know what I was expecting, but like, I guess I expected it to be mostly serious?? and then I was on the floor within the first 30 seconds. I LOVE the bleak humour (and that it's still genuinely informative so far as I can confirm, which I guess is pretty bleak in and of itself). defo gonna binge your channel during lockdown ~

[@Pi-Mae]

Literally going to subscribe at this moment because you’re treating KZbin like a goddamn lecture hall and I f*ing love it! this is the next standard of media and learning. Don’t forget to list your sources and do your peer reviews

[@thereisnofood2008]

one time on grindr this old dude dmed me offering to be my sugar daddy, i said no, then he started using the "miles away" thing to try and guess where i was, sending shit like "where are you" and pictures of his location on google maps, and at the point where he was RIGHT DOWN THE STREET from my HOME i blocked him and deleted grindr for a while. being trans online is fucking insane

[@yourgirlmelt]

fuuuuuuuuck that

[@garbagewitch666]

"I think there's one kind of twink and it's bad" lollll

[@byttyrs]

I have used all three of these dating apps and the only thing I have to add is that I got shadowbanned from Tinder because cishet straight men do not read and are embarrassed enough to have matched with a woman who very clearly says that she is trans to report her for abusive behavior en masse

[@Julia-e]

I think I finally realized that I am not a man when it occurred to me that I am not illiterate

[@ahuggingsam]

the only way this video could have been more of a mood and that is if I had actually had the guts to actually go on one of those apps, because people are scary D:

[@emzedjiklool511]

death grips really adds to your vids

[@tlarn]

I had to pause the video and step away for a hot minute after the chickfilet jab because it was the kind of understated joke that sneaks up on you and takes you out, so I cleaned my restroom to level myself out before resuming. Any time I tried a dating app I'd get people coming onto me specifically because I "looked hispanic" soooo yeah.

[@yourgirlmelt]

jeeeeeesus

[@projectz975]

Melt is such a good name

[@fintheferalcat2626]

this is the tranarchist content i've been needing

[@Clash_In_Saff]

damn i missed this video but i love this stuff from you. Ace.

[@Julia-e]

the section on grindr is 100% accurate, can confirm

[@byttyrs]

incredible from beginning to end, standing ovation

[@scythewieldergf]

fantastic video, thank you for making this

[@futsukushii]

this video fucking whips

[@Longuncattr]

yeah this still slaps like hell :)

[@bourbonbobo]

As soon as I decided to stop even trying with guys on dating apps I met like 100 much nicer people instantly.

[@ohgirlieplease]

This is so good I feel very Seen

[@na8291]

holy shit i have that exact same shirt. GLOSS fucking rules

[@SevWildfang]

this video defaulted to 480p on my end and thats transphobic.

[@makingnoises2327]

this is amazing

[@ThisIsYourGodNow]

"Wow you're non binary? that's so coool haha" time passes *crickets*

[@TeamNutshell]

👍

[@ItsFefnir]

While I don't know why you would do this to yourself, I now want to divekick dating websites and burn down a hobby lobby so I feel like that's a pretty good measure of success.