An UnCommon Love Live replay Q&A session

[@nechellescott5093]

Wow… that’s how I feel I’ve conditioned myself to look at my husband as if he has a illness or disability because the man, my husband would not abandon me or hurt me like this. I’m definitely standing on God’s promise he gave me.

[@TreasurePI9838]

I can't stop listening to you both in this season of my life. You are such a BEACON of hope to the body of Christ. May God keep keeping you both in his ever loving arms. I ❤ you so much. Thanks again for your transparency and honesty.

[@marybrown4487]

Hello guys I just started watching last week! I was looking for something else and you guys popped up! Praise God! I have been standing for restoration for my marriage since 2005 me and my Husband had been married for 28 years first marriage for us both. But he left me and our 5 kids at that time and have remarried and old friend of his and old Neighbor of us both! It has been hard at times! I felt like giving up until I came across you guys KZbin videos. So please keep me and my Husband Terry and Family in your prayers. Thank you both for being obedient to God.

[@GuyaneseFitChick-hl3bs]

I have seen this video circling on KZbin, but this is the first time I sat down actually listen to your video. I thank you for sharing your restoration as this is definitely a message from God.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Glad it was helpful!

[@tameshagardner2695]

I watched the live and I am replaying. I took so many nuggets. I thank you both for the obedience in your ministry!

[@amberanderson7200]

Thank you both for taking the time to do this 🙏🏾

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Our pleasure!

[@traceytrievel4902]

Your 9 months together during covid was God restoring the years the locusts stole ❤️.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Yes, that was the beginning....

[@NateJamesonSpeaks]

Thanks for this video. Really encouraged me. Going through a tough time right now and standing in the gap with my own marriage. I KNOW KNOW KNOW GOD can fix anything! Thanks for your ministry. Please do not stop. Bless you & your family

[@littlelady3276]

Thank you for you guys wisdom I will keep hope in my ❤ for Melvin will reach out to me and his daughter and grandchildrens💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@ideeg7205]

I missed the first 30 mins of the live…thank you for posting this! You both are amazing & I appreciate your transparency. God is so Good!! Your marriage restoration is such an encouragement to so many! God Bless You Both & your family!

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Our pleasure!

[@disampande3566]

Joining from South Africa 🇿🇦. Thank you for your ministry.

[@Jess_quez]

So even though he may have thought at the beginning you were pinning the kids against him come to find out it was your stand and loving him no matter what that made the kids want to love him through their pain. 🙏🏼❤️

[@TB-gx6vn]

Blessings, Watched Replay. Thanks for sharing

[@anuncommonlove1112]

You are so welcome

[@Blue77Blue]

Wow please do more Q/A

[@alessandrazanette09]

Hi thanx and be blessed, it would be nice to see in the description the questions you have answered and the minutes you did, this is how a ministry does it in Guatemala. It's very helpful.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

There is so much that most don't even read the full description to see let alone the contact info. Most are watching on tvs which does not allow description info unless on a phone or tablet.

[@bugkel21]

Thanks!

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you...Bless you for tuning in...

[@bugkel21]

You guys are amazing. Adrienne and Shon I know, because I'm there right now, this was not easy to endure and go through, but I want to thank you for choosing to accept God's challenge. You both are such a blessing and help ro us that are hurting at this moment. Thanks so much! I truly believe I can speak for your audience and say that we will be keeping you and your ministry lifted in Prayer.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

🙏

[@asamusicdude]

Wow so much good info. Straight to the point. So much channels have alot of word salad 😁 Thank you

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for reaching and bless you for the compliment.. Word salad😂😂? Oh please elaborate on that....😀 Welcome to our family🙏

[@asamusicdude]

@@anuncommonlove1112 it's where you try to use a bunch of words trying to explain something to the point where it doesn't make sense anymore.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Wow.... :) too funny

[@PB-oe7gm]

I am encouraged by your messages. Was married 27 yrs. 5 kids. He is remarried to the other woman. Praying for him

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Yes God will honor your faith...thank you so much for reaching out and welcome to the family🙏, be blessed

[@Savingmoneywithjazzy]

I'm so excited 😄 about this

[@joseyndaba5076]

I love your testimony!... Question: If you believe God only covers the first covenant, what happens if both spouses break covenant and remarry. Do you believe God will not honour the second covenant?

[@staceygidaracos-em6cp]

Thank you for this valuable encouragement. I have been standing for 2.5 years and my husband has progressed with the divorce and my heart is broken & I am losing hope as he is living with someone else and very hostile with me. My kids are still hurting so much and do not yet know the divorce is about to go through, so I feel like maybe I need to cut communication and focus on doing the very best for them I can alone and start to heal, but I feel maybe God is still asking me to stand, though even the Christian’s around me say I should move on .Please let me know what/how much you told your children at the time the divorce went through? Mine are both under 10years old. Thank you

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Our youngest at the time was 18, and I spoke to them before I left. I wanted to make sure that they (children) were not the cause and to know this was not something their mother wanted but it was on me. Most use the children for pawns in marriage difficulties but I wanted to make sure they knew the real deal, whether or not they disagreed with me. Were they disappointed and hurt? Yes they were, but through it all God.......

[@littlelady3276]

My grandchildren are asking for there grandfather asking were is he grandpa Melvin 💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for reaching out Ollie, Just know we. have you and the family in prayer and you are not alone. Remember the god you serve and to totally trust him in all things. He is the God of more and enough and is always on time. As you walk this thing out, know he is doing a work in you as well and he will get the glory out of your life. Many blessings to you, Shon

[@olliehall-qz8kd]

❤❤❤❤❤❤ Thank you for your❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

[@littlelady3276]

❤❤❤❤ Thank you so much gor your wisdom Standing strong with the LORD bind up separation in my marriage 2024​@anuncommonlove1112

[@littlelady3276]

​@@anuncommonlove1112Thank you so much❤❤❤❤😂

[@Savingmoneywithjazzy]

Catching it late

[@lavernesmith1754]

Question! Can you guys do a show on. What to do when your are weary in the wait? Thanks

[@anne-cj3rf]

Did you renew your vows and again did he divorce the other woman ❤

[@ellenw9889]

My husband left while I was at work one day and said he needed time to think about what he wanted. 2 weeks later we meet up and he tells me their is someone else and he wants a divorce. A few days later I found out that the last affair 3 years ago produced a child that he knew about but I did not. He had even seen the child. My husband is an alcoholic and past drug addict. I know he has been drinking but I believe he has started using drugs again. So out of our 14 year marriage this is the 4th affair. I love him and believe that God wants me to stand for my marriage. However, everyone except my mother, my in laws, and myself think I should divorce him. Even my therapist said to divorce him. I believe that he is not himself right now. My heart tells me to stand. Please give me your thoughts. We have 3 kids also who will not talk to him and he has only seen 1 of them less than 2 hours since he left on may 5th. I'm feeling defeated and am starting to doubt what I think God wants me to do.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for reaching out Ellen...I believe God can do anything and everything we could ever ask or think. Many times when things don't look the way we want it to be we tend to tap out and say forget it. I know God has a plan for your life and your husband and yes I agree the alcohol is not helping the matter, but that is where prayer and supplication to God come is in to play. Stay before God, pray against the drinking, the alcoholism and bring back a right and fruitful mind. While God is working on him, he will also direct you to do certain things too and watch how it all turns out...be blessed and welcome to our family🙏

[@niralismokes4229]

I’m new to your channel… I missed the actual live… I have soooo many questions lol but…. How did God come to you and tell you to stand on your marriage? Discerning the voice of God is something I’m still learning. Right now I’m not clear if this is what God is telling to be for my marriage

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for coming to the channel and welcome..We have so many videos to help encourage you in your current process. Im sure as you begin going through them many of the answers you are looking for will be answered. Shon goes through a 4 part series of Restoration of a man on his imdealingwith channel as well to hear a prodigals prospective. Be blessed, welcome and make yourself at home..

[@patricebrown777]

🔥🙏🏽❤🔥

[@melanierafael1745]

Praying for next steps and i have a question. What if you want to stand for the marriage after your prodigal spouse abandoned you and had an affair but God doesn't want you to stand? My husband wants to reconcile but still needs to fall on his knees and fully repent and give his life to God.

[@anuncommonlove1112]

You as an individual have to want to stand in spite of the challenges. In regards to God saying not to.. If he did tell you that, he definitely is not going to give another husband (violating his own rules). Scripture says you can reconcile or separate but both must remain untouched and not taking another while either spouse lives. So, God will honor your stand, yes there will be challenges but at the end of it all restoration is on both parts, the sander and the Prodigal. God will make you both whole... Trust God..

[@melindajorgensen7166]

Is there a video u guys can point me to I'm not sure if you guys adressed this question or not since I've followed your channel I havent came across it but, was their ever a time u both felt like you didnt love each other anymore?!

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Good question, but we never encountered the "I don't love you", thing. But there was plenty of "I don't like you's" to be sure.

[@melindajorgensen7166]

@@anuncommonlove1112 thank you for responding! I can def relate with the "I dont like you" phase couples sometimes encounter! Thank you guys for always being so transparent with us!

[@anne-cj3rf]

Please can you help me understand why you keep saying fake ceremony did he divorce you and try to marry up it's a little bit confusing please help me get it when you can be blessed 💞

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Thank you for writing in.....we did divorce back in 17 and he later did a ceremony with someone else. Later came home, filed and we re-wed. When in marriage it is always meant for one man one woman till one of them dies. So when a divorce is done and a new ceremony created with a new person, Bible states as long as first spouse is still alive you are in adultery. Hince fake marriage, ceremony ect. We are to either separate and remain untouched till death or reconcile with spouse. Strange woman or man represents new person in spouses life

[@dianacouturier1408]

Hi

[@elsabailey7764]

Sean- did you go home to Adrienne once you had that uhaul packed up? Also, why were you bitter when you decided to leave the marriage? I’m so thankful for y’all’s channel and the clarity and encouragement you guys impart as you went through your storm. All the glory to God!

[@anuncommonlove1112]

Yep went home dropped off the truck and went to stay the night at my parents... As a father, when you are empty you have to go get filled, so I sat with my father to pour into me as a son.

[@baugherchrystal3958]

During the time that you were divorced, were you still intimate at all? My husband and I are legally divorced, but I know that God has given me a promise that He will restore. He still feels like my husband, but legally, he is not… just curious

[@anuncommonlove1112]

As still husband and wife (before God) you both will have to agree on what you will and won't do together. This is entirely up to you both as you are not the OW, but the wife God recognizes. Thank you for tuning in and welcome to the family🙏

[@blackbuttaflywashington9846]

When my husband and I were separated.. I had to come to a decision to set boundaries in regards to intimacy. I couldn't let him keep coming by for a snack and not wanting the whole meal. Neither one of us would think clearly or heal fully leaving that door open ..but then recommittment part was off the table. Then in that case everything is off the table. It was a painful decision but a necessary one.