An Untold Story : My TRAUMATIC Marriage / DIVORCE

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Saloomys Diaries

Saloomys Diaries

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@Adonis300
@Adonis300 11 күн бұрын
As a guy of the same ethnicity Omani / Zanzibari .. this tabia is reckless and disrespectful .....good thing you left.. may Allah grant you with someone who will value you and hold you as his main priority .. Ameen
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 11 күн бұрын
@@Adonis300 Salam bro … Thank you for your duas . Ameen thummah Ameen yarrab for all yarrab.
@catpuccino6186
@catpuccino6186 19 күн бұрын
My mum stayed for "us" - her children, but i wish she had left instead of stayed 😢
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
@@catpuccino6186 Bless her .. it’s very very difficult so i understand her but i feel it for children who’ve grown up in these situations it’s very damaging. I hope you’re ok ❤️❤️❤️
@dianaa3336
@dianaa3336 16 күн бұрын
Some women claim to stay for the kids but they use that as an excuse when its really about them not wanting to leave
@fazilashahidkhaloo3978
@fazilashahidkhaloo3978 13 күн бұрын
The same thing my mum said, she said for 'us', I very much wished she left a long time. It was such an abusive marriage, she's messed up, because of that.
@MarwaAhmed-ni3tw
@MarwaAhmed-ni3tw 12 күн бұрын
Omg we had the same story my mom stayed with my dad bcs of us
@ceothesheriffshow
@ceothesheriffshow 4 күн бұрын
Then when you all grew up, did she leave immediately?
@sabootio786
@sabootio786 16 күн бұрын
I'm so sorry you went through this. At the same time, I believe Allah put you through this to achieve something else. The same happened to me and although the journey wasn't pretty, Alhamdulillah Allah answered my duas and I'm in a much better place now. I pray Allah grants you affiyah and happiness ameen!
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 15 күн бұрын
Ameen yarrab Ameen sis thank you ❤❤❤
@madagirlmadagirl5893
@madagirlmadagirl5893 16 күн бұрын
Always have your mom approval, they have the BEST INTUITION for their daughters
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 16 күн бұрын
@@madagirlmadagirl5893 100% sis 🙏
@ceothesheriffshow
@ceothesheriffshow 4 күн бұрын
The good mothers, not all. There are many mothers who would sell their daughters for nickels…
@yamokha
@yamokha 7 күн бұрын
I'm 5 months pregnant going through this while taking care of a toddler named Yara. Thank you for sharing your story it's a sign for me to get myself together and leave 💜
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@yamokha 7ayati I’m so sorry sis. May Allah make it easy for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@ceothesheriffshow
@ceothesheriffshow 4 күн бұрын
Ya Allah sister, in pregnancy, with a toddler? May Allah keep you all protected. Please is there a reason why you haven’t left please? Abuse is not acceptable in Islam at all.
@annieahmed7840
@annieahmed7840 11 күн бұрын
The process of sponsoring is a bloody headache I’ve done and I remember us doing it together I believe you did it before me. It’s a lot !
@nadzk2003
@nadzk2003 20 күн бұрын
So happy I came across this video. I just turned 21 and feel so much pressure from social media (not family) to settle down and get married. These stories are so important for young women to hear, so thank you for sharing, Dada Wangu.
@naviifra2374
@naviifra2374 20 күн бұрын
Be very careful. Most girls who get married before 28 are divorced by 30 and single mothers. Your brain isn’t even fully developed yet to choose a lifetime partner. Be very very careful
@misss3461
@misss3461 20 күн бұрын
21 is super young sis live your life don’t rush into anything
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
You are soooooooooo YOUNG sis and have the rest of your life ahead of you . Travel , Educate yourself, Get your finances in tact , LIVE .. marriage is not and should never be a goal at your age . There will come a time for it when you will know and be ready yourself ❤️
@mrshonourable
@mrshonourable 18 күн бұрын
@@naviifra2374you’re make grown adults sound like they’re babies. 25 is a grown adult 🤣🤣
@mrshonourable
@mrshonourable 18 күн бұрын
Don’t feel rushed, it will happen when it’s supposed to, but please take your family’s advice. You have to be smart when you make a commitment and marry someone who is known by your family OR community. People will pretend TO BE everything you want especially when you don’t know their backgrounds
@rukhsarsiddiq1266
@rukhsarsiddiq1266 8 күн бұрын
So sorry that you went through this may Allah give you a better spouse soon ameen ❤
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@rukhsarsiddiq1266 Ameen yarrab ameen sis ❤️❤️❤️
@annieahmed7840
@annieahmed7840 11 күн бұрын
Always and forever a soldier for me hun! I have soo much respect for you ❤❤❤❤
@Shakx-u2p
@Shakx-u2p 10 күн бұрын
Only 15mins into this clip and I 100% agree with you sis. Our naivety takes over, however the intuition should not be neglected. It’s good you are sharing this because being a single mother is not easy and certainly not fair on the children
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@Shakx-u2p ❤️❤️❤️
@pinkowbs
@pinkowbs 5 күн бұрын
Habibi. Thanks for sharing your story. Takes lots of courage and shows the work and healing you've done. May Allah bless with with better and reward you for your trials ya rab.
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 4 күн бұрын
@@pinkowbs Habibti. Shukran ❤️. Ameen yarrab ameen
@cervantes_stewart7998
@cervantes_stewart7998 8 күн бұрын
It’s an interesting account you have presented and one that is inspiring. It shows that we all go through trauma and I hope others can be inspired by it like me
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@cervantes_stewart7998 thank you so much ❤️
@clarejones2421
@clarejones2421 14 күн бұрын
The Noor across your face speaks volumes Please do a second video I’ve just found your channel Jzk Sister May Allah keep you always smiling 🤲🏼
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 13 күн бұрын
@@clarejones2421 thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️
@NaziaH-v8z
@NaziaH-v8z 4 күн бұрын
Dont allow emotions to take over our intuition &be blind in love we live & learn its heart breaking
@yayacardstv2918
@yayacardstv2918 6 сағат бұрын
Nothing but haqq sis, thank you for sharing!!
@ouicestmoietquoi
@ouicestmoietquoi 6 сағат бұрын
Thank you for making this video. It makes me happy to see that you managed to heal from it alhamdulilah. I got married when I was 23 and just got divorced 2 months ago which was only 1 year later. We only lived together for 5 months as the first 6 months of marriage were long distance. Even though I was the one to make the call to end the marriage, I always feel really down and sad and gloomy about my future prospects. I always feel like I will never find another husband and it makes me just feel stuck in a rut. It is difficult because obviously we put our trust in Allah and that he has a better plan for us but my heart feels really sad and hopeless. I would really appreciate it if you make the video about healing and overcoming these feelings insha'allah.
@ouicestmoietquoi
@ouicestmoietquoi 6 сағат бұрын
Also, I feel like it is even more difficult with keeping things halal before marriage and striking the balance between getting to know a person without falling into haram so I feel like it adds to the stress.
@staytrue4094
@staytrue4094 14 күн бұрын
25 your brain isnt developed to know whats right or wrong. Your mother was right because she knows your worth shes been married and knows the struggles. I'm glad this generation of women are setting the bar high well done sis for breaking free. May Allah swt protect you and your daugher x
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 14 күн бұрын
Actually even adult women make those decisions that don't benefit them in marriage,so this has 0 to do with age and more of getting informed
@staytrue4094
@staytrue4094 14 күн бұрын
⁠​⁠​⁠@@purplelove3666 possibly but twenties is young.
@Nomad332
@Nomad332 2 күн бұрын
Your so beautiful mashallah! Thank you for sharing your story. May Allah protect you and bring you peace
@AbdulRehman-hm5do
@AbdulRehman-hm5do 13 күн бұрын
As a guy im getting married in 13 days, I want to have a trusting and loving relationship with my spouse. Putting aside all the cheating and physical abuse and all, this video is helpful to me because it tells me how people can drift apart and what I can do differently to ensure it does not happen
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 13 күн бұрын
@@AbdulRehman-hm5do May Allah grant you a righteous wife yarrab . I pray you have Noor in your union and offspring’s that will benefit you in this Dunia and the next . Aslong as you love each other for the sake of Allah you’ll be fine brother. 🙏
@Nazarene_Judaism
@Nazarene_Judaism 4 күн бұрын
dont do it
@Soloman_1800
@Soloman_1800 7 күн бұрын
Most arranged marriages comes with very high divorce rate because that spouse was chosen for you by someone else from your family or friends and it doesn’t end well in the long term, vetting your future husband or wife is one of the most important decisions anyone can make, avoiding red flags 🚩in your spouse is vital before it turns left, my advice to anyone who wants to marry someone is be careful of what someone says to you but, watch their actions carefully, date your future spouse at least a year that way you will understand each other needs, set family goals, talk about work, having children, etc ….
@MohseenLala
@MohseenLala 7 күн бұрын
Well, for one thing, muslims don't date in the western style. So it'll be hard to truly be alone and get to know a person. Secondly, in my experience, both love and arranged marriages seem to have an equal divorce outcome. Marriage is simply a gamble, how you do it really doesn't matter.
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@Soloman_1800 couldn’t agree more sis ❤️❤️❤️
@ceothesheriffshow
@ceothesheriffshow 4 күн бұрын
@@MohseenLalayou don’t need to be “truly alone” with a man. You can have a wali while you go somewhere and sit and talk. He can always come to your family or you go to his and study him very well. It’s very much possible
@ceothesheriffshow
@ceothesheriffshow 4 күн бұрын
I do not think it has to do with “arranged marriage”, if that was the case those “love marriages wouldn’t be having high rate divorces too… It all depends on the character of the person you’re marrying. If the peons is evil, no amount of love will help saldy
@MohseenLala
@MohseenLala 3 күн бұрын
@@ceothesheriffshow yeah, but that's not a real date, and you can't intimately get to know a person like that.
@IYeleven
@IYeleven 8 күн бұрын
Sadly so many prominent dawah bros online pressure ladies to stay in unhappy marriages
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@IYeleven this is a very very interesting topic wallah I’ve noticed it too .
@BilqeesZaman-e8c
@BilqeesZaman-e8c 15 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing. So brave of you. Sending you love ❤
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 13 күн бұрын
@BilqeesZaman-e8c thank you hun ❤️❤️❤️
@hxfizax
@hxfizax 12 күн бұрын
sleeping on the sofa ?? him making you leave your country to the middle east?? girll you were head over heels for him
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 11 күн бұрын
@@hxfizax I was inlove with him sis because I married him with the right intentions.
@Yaroo-u2s
@Yaroo-u2s 16 күн бұрын
You’re the best❤❤❤❤ everybody will watch all your videos so you can get so so much subscribers
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 16 күн бұрын
My Princess ❤️
@NaziaH-v8z
@NaziaH-v8z 4 күн бұрын
Trauma passing on to generations it needs to stop..
@NaziaH-v8z
@NaziaH-v8z 4 күн бұрын
Be very self aware & cautious sister's.. ⚠️
@yasminm.1801
@yasminm.1801 11 күн бұрын
truly don't know where some of these married muslim men get the audacity to cheat or physically abuse their wives. what happened to fearing Allah ? I hope you've found peace and healing now, in sha Allah xx
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@yasminm.1801 alhamdulillah Alhamdulillah I have . ❤️❤️❤️
@sonikuri-k8r
@sonikuri-k8r 6 күн бұрын
Thanks for sharing ur journey keep strong sis 😢
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@sonikuri-k8r hayati thank you ❤️
@internetwildling1337
@internetwildling1337 14 күн бұрын
I am sorry you went through this sister. But unfortunately your story was doomed from the start as he probably wanted UK visa. Number 1 rule never marry a man abroad it is too messy especially for kids later having to take airplane to see there father. May Allah grant you a righteous spouse. Life is not over after divorce, every body makes mistakes. Wish you all the best in the future.
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 13 күн бұрын
@@internetwildling1337 I couldn’t agree more sis . Alf Alhamdulillah we live and learn . ❤️❤️❤️❤️
@tariq980
@tariq980 2 күн бұрын
Your ex will never have happy marriage unless he changes his ways. He was used to sinning and it is hard to stop even if you're married. Being married only compounds the problem because you will start to resent your spouse for no other reason except that she becomes an obstacle to fullfilling desires which are ultimately fleeting and in the end you leave you empty.
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 2 күн бұрын
@@tariq980 100% … very sad . May Allah guide him .
@happyme7513
@happyme7513 11 күн бұрын
Today i saw a video of a strong woman❤❤
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@happyme7513 thank you 🥹❤️❤️❤️
@lailaldn8703
@lailaldn8703 2 күн бұрын
Sis luvin the channel vids and everything ma sha Allah but is it me or is all the vids on fast forward 😅
@allthingsmumlifeUK
@allthingsmumlifeUK 19 күн бұрын
Please a part 2 - healing journey 🙌 I am going through it and need some advice (also UK based and don’t know who to speak to as no one is answering)
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
I have it will be up In Shaa Allah . I’m praying whatever it is you are going through God makes it easy for you babe ❤
@allthingsmumlifeUK
@allthingsmumlifeUK 18 күн бұрын
@@SaloomysDiaries Jazak Allah Khair sister May Allah reward you in abundance Ameen Ameen 💕💝❤️💕💝💝💝💝💝
@allthingsmumlifeUK
@allthingsmumlifeUK 18 күн бұрын
@ thank you sister May Allah reward you Ameen Ameen 💕💝 you know how it is with these traumas from men.. it’s raw but I know Allah is watching and just waiting on Allah’s timing and plan for a bright future hopefully 2025 will be the year for us women 🫶❤️💕 Asalam Alaikum 🫶🫶🫶🫶🫶
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 18 күн бұрын
Ameen yarrab ameen ameen ❤️❤️❤️
@naviifra2374
@naviifra2374 20 күн бұрын
So sad. We need to teach women that self love comes before loving a man. Men usually come to a woman to use her so we need to read the red flags. Marrying under 30 shouldn’t even be an option. Too many horror stories
@misss3461
@misss3461 20 күн бұрын
💯💯
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
Wallah I couldn’t agree more , I feel like it’s even worse now days . Kids get married at 18 thinking it’s all fun and games and end up divorced and traumatised a week later . We really need to teach ourselves self love , you are so right sis ❤️
@Francesca-b8z
@Francesca-b8z 19 күн бұрын
Is the chance of a horrible marriage less by delaying till after 30? Feel like it’s the same odds and delaying could just be kicking the can down the road. Also seems like the ‘older’ ones are more disillusioned and just end up playing the transactional game with that young innocent passion/love being non-existent in their experiences- which guess is ok for some. Anyhu I dunno, feel like regardless of the age we make own our luck.
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
@@Francesca-b8zforget men but us women are definitely wiser when we are past 30 then under 30. When I got married I was so naive and stupid compared to who I am now. ❤
@mrshonourable
@mrshonourable 18 күн бұрын
That’s ridiculous. Do you know how many women deal with infertility after 30? If marriage and having a child is something you want, delaying isn’t wise. I would say make a sound choice that isn’t based on desire and fear of being alone. And get family or a trusted elders advice.
@MuslimahY
@MuslimahY 19 күн бұрын
Allahu must'an, very sad to hear these stories happening in the muslim commmunity. If a man doesn't fear Allah who can he fear? Sometimes I think I'm naive to these things occurring. Alhamdulillah you are on the other side, may Allah continue to bless and protect you ameen ❤
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
Ameen yarrab ameen . Thank you sis . May Allah make it easy for you too ❤
@najuparker4726
@najuparker4726 19 күн бұрын
Slmz dear What an inspiration to women Your courage Authenticity Are amazing Your strength is admirable Keep it up You doing great Love from SA
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
Thank you so much love ❤❤❤
@faatimah_m
@faatimah_m 8 күн бұрын
Been through something so similar and the most helpful thing was listening to the muslim narcissist podcast on KZbin by Dr Mona Alyedreessy
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@faatimah_m thank you for sharing sis. I hope you’re ok. ❤️❤️
@l.m6869
@l.m6869 12 күн бұрын
Sis I don’t know you but you seem like such a genuine caring soul, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I see a ring though did you get re-married ? Would love to hear the happy moments x
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 11 күн бұрын
@@l.m6869 thank you huni . In Shaa Allah I will share in the near future In Shaa Allah.
@wandaba90
@wandaba90 15 күн бұрын
I wasn’t even pregnant and had the heavy bleeding for almost a year because of the extreme stress went on for weeks at a time. Same thing doctors didn’t know what was wrong. Once I dropped the ex “husband” I’ve been fine ever since Alhamdullilah
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 14 күн бұрын
Oh my God,are you serious?????
@wandaba90
@wandaba90 14 күн бұрын
@ yes! To clarify 3 weeks per month for almost a year
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 11 күн бұрын
It’s so scary 😢😢😢😢 I hope you are better hun ❤
@Zaina0525
@Zaina0525 19 күн бұрын
What a sad experience 😢 , oh it must have been hard waiting and waiting for your then husband at the hospital but no pitch that time you were a first time mom 🥺. You are such a good story teller i am hooked subscribed 😊🎉.
@Zaina0525
@Zaina0525 19 күн бұрын
True its never the solution to stay for the sake of kids this does more harm than good to the kids😢
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
@@Zaina0525 yeah it was very sad wallah no one should be made to feel like that after something as big as child birth. But alhamdulillah. Thank you sis ❤️
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 14 күн бұрын
Yeah she is a good story teller indeed
@salwaeldow1024
@salwaeldow1024 18 күн бұрын
Masha Allah sis, you done it I am so happy where you are now. Stay safe ,stay healthy, stay strong and be vigilant. Sending my love and hugs ❤
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 18 күн бұрын
Thank you sis ❤️❤️❤️
@CocoYazmin07
@CocoYazmin07 10 күн бұрын
Best not to help settle any man, their whole life changes for the better yet they treat women so badly and they lose out. I am glad people are normalising not staying ! women need to delay marriage and vet every single man before making a decision. and EVEN THEN have your own bank account and get out plan IN CASE! it isn't shameful at all
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@CocoYazmin07 louder 💯💯💯❤️❤️❤️
@KhadroMahamoud
@KhadroMahamoud 13 күн бұрын
Are you from sudan❤❤
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 13 күн бұрын
@@KhadroMahamoud no I’m Not I’m half Tanzanian , Quarter Omani , Quarter Baluchi 💚
@KhadroMahamoud
@KhadroMahamoud 13 күн бұрын
@SaloomysDiaries mashaAllah may Almighty Allah bless you and your beautiful family
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 11 күн бұрын
@@KhadroMahamoud ameen yarrab for all of yarrab ❤️
@mariamabdullahi935
@mariamabdullahi935 18 күн бұрын
Thank u so much for posting this,this was very helpful may Allah reward you ❤
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 18 күн бұрын
Ameen yarrab ameen sis ❤❤❤
@IYeleven
@IYeleven 8 күн бұрын
Sister you’re beautiful Masha’Allah
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@IYeleven and so are you Habibti ❤️❤️
@Sophiamor-b7n
@Sophiamor-b7n 11 күн бұрын
girl no judgement but you were not ready for marriage when you said it was simply because of your age and every one you knew was getting married. It never lasts when it's for those reasons.
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 11 күн бұрын
@@Sophiamor-b7n I wanted to get married because of the age thing yes however I took time and got to know the guy and really fell Inlove and went into my marriage with the right intentions. It doesn’t give anyone the right to abuse someone mentally, financially and certainly not PHYSICALLY!
@Sophiamor-b7n
@Sophiamor-b7n 10 күн бұрын
@SaloomysDiaries thank you for sharing I watched the whole video and I am sorry for what you went through!! absolutely no excuse for his behavior whatsoever !!!! It's all a learning experience
@xoxox903
@xoxox903 14 күн бұрын
The nerve of this man…I hope he doesn’t get papers.
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 13 күн бұрын
@@xoxox903 everyone will pay for their sins sis . I don’t care if he gets papers or not . One day he will pay for his sins . 🤍🤍🤍
@rashidagaye
@rashidagaye 14 күн бұрын
Did you make istakarah?
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 13 күн бұрын
@@rashidagaye I did this is something my mum advised me and I did. 🥹
@rashidagaye
@rashidagaye 10 күн бұрын
@ oh..mashallah. I’m sorry you experienced this. Did you not see any red flags in the beginning
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 7 күн бұрын
@@rashidagaye I did on our honeymoon but I was ashamed to leave at that point 🥹
@notyourtypicalfarah7194
@notyourtypicalfarah7194 7 күн бұрын
Im so sorry. Did he present as practicing Muslim before you met him?
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@notyourtypicalfarah7194 yes he did .. infact his family are very very extreme religious people . His father is an imam . He grew up in a masjid .
@dionnesdreams2700
@dionnesdreams2700 19 күн бұрын
Thank you for sharing your story sis ❤your strength is reflected in the things you overcome
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
Thank you sis ❤❤❤
@memsaab2003
@memsaab2003 7 күн бұрын
I totally agree sis a child need to be brought up in a healthy home or else they don’t do well in life,that’s exactly what I did 12 years ago left my kids Father after suffering and thinking to stay for the sake of kids,now my kids grown up and studying at uni and Alhamdullillah doing very well and I am a very proud mother,looking back thinking if I stayed with their father ,it would’ve been impossible
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@memsaab2003 thank you for sharing sis Alf Alhamdulillah for you . May Allah continue to bless you always yarrab ❤️❤️❤️
@Sunny_78609
@Sunny_78609 19 күн бұрын
Salaam. my sister hope your well? Am 37 years old male looking for a marriage I want to settle down am British born citizen. My parents are from azad kashmir Pakistan. My brother is happily married and she is from here UK. I am looking for someone who's British born Muslim It's very hard to find a spouse these days these dating apps etc are no good hard to. Trust anyone pray for me sister. Insha Allah🙏. Take care thank you.
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
May Allah make it easy for you brother and grant you a righteous spouse yarrab 🙏
@FELISTERSNDUNGE-lj1pq
@FELISTERSNDUNGE-lj1pq 18 күн бұрын
Am in a marriage where my husband is cheating on me but he don't want to give me talak because we have 2kids together, wallah I don't know wat to do
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 18 күн бұрын
😓 I’m sorry that this is happening to you. I pray you find strength to do what’s best for you ❤️
@zarahm2650
@zarahm2650 15 күн бұрын
Pray tahajjud my sister and ask Allahswt to provide you with a solution. Pray istikharah afterwards. May Allahswt make it easy for you.
@sadia8721
@sadia8721 15 күн бұрын
May Allah make it easy for you, if a man doesn't want to give a woman divorce she can go to a kadhi, imam or whoever initiates marriage in your country and ask for nikah fask(nullification of the divorce) the above has a right to nullify the marriage if found a good reason which I believe adultery is.
@purplelove3666
@purplelove3666 14 күн бұрын
You can still leave if you want ,because he is cheating, seek information on divorce,ask your sheikh on what to do,if you don't know ,I wish women ,would seek information on divorce before getting married
@Oneworld-nc2kb
@Oneworld-nc2kb 14 күн бұрын
Make sure you save the proof that he’s cheating, otherwise it will be a difficult fight in court. At least you will be granted something
@Sara_1431
@Sara_1431 12 күн бұрын
Ohh sorry sister 😢
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 11 күн бұрын
@@Sara_1431 ❤️
@tajbelin1254
@tajbelin1254 9 күн бұрын
Oh Darling, it was lock off from the moment you decided to bring someone from overseas. But more importantly I want to add that your boundaries need to be stricter - Don’t wait until he’s received hotel confirmation to drop his backside?? You pack your bags when he dares to even speak to another woman in an overfriendly manner
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@tajbelin1254 you are right sis. We live and learn .❤️❤️
@ceothesheriffshow
@ceothesheriffshow 4 күн бұрын
She was younger and has learned from her mistakes… just want to say dinging someone from overseas is not the issue. The man was bad. He as not a practicing muslim. I’ve seen men and women bring their spouses abroad (UK, US and European countries) and they are happy and together strong and thriving. Some over 15 years and the spouses did not become suddenly evil.
@YungShoe
@YungShoe 11 күн бұрын
Can I get to know you?
@catpuccino6186
@catpuccino6186 19 күн бұрын
Salaam sister, ❤, that's so sad. I wish U happiness, In Shaa Allah.
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
@@catpuccino6186 ameen yarrab ameen thank you huni ❤️
@sabiakhatun-y3w
@sabiakhatun-y3w 7 күн бұрын
Your very pretty, what's your ethnicity?
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@sabiakhatun-y3w how kind thank you . I’m half Tanzanian. Quarter Omani and Ouarter Baluchi . X
@fauziaomar6763
@fauziaomar6763 19 күн бұрын
Am so happy you finally let all this go. May Allah bless you and keep you happy always 🙏
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
Ameen yarrab Ameen . ILY ❤❤❤
@allthingsmumlifeUK
@allthingsmumlifeUK 19 күн бұрын
Did you also let your ex husband have contact with your child? I am conflicted with this myself 😢
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
I will definitely get to all of that sis ❤❤❤
@allthingsmumlifeUK
@allthingsmumlifeUK 18 күн бұрын
@ 🫶no pressure sister ❤️❤️, I hope you have brighter days now and thank you for sharing your story, sadly so many women both Muslim and non Muslim going through hell from these so called excuse of a “man” and needing to hear they aren’t alone in their experiences , May Allah reward you ameen ameen from a fellow uk muslimah 💕🫶 Asalam Alaikum wa ramatullah ❤️
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 18 күн бұрын
@@allthingsmumlifeUKthank you sis ameen yarrab Ameen for all of us yarrab ❤
@ceothesheriffshow
@ceothesheriffshow 4 күн бұрын
If you are safe and your child’s life will be safe around him, then this should be encouraged. He can have a relationship with both your kids brassy from you… all depends on the safety of you two
@allthingsmumlifeUK
@allthingsmumlifeUK 3 күн бұрын
@@ceothesheriffshow thank you, safety is fine for my case but how about this.. I recently discovered he has a dating profile and on it is says “never married” and “0 kids” I’m trying also to arrange a court agreement on when he’ll have his child.. but it’s really concerning me now he’ll not even bother to properly acknowledge or stick to seeing his son.. isn’t that more harmful for the child if the father is flaky as opposed to just out of the picture ..? I don’t know 🤷‍♀️
@samranoor1360
@samranoor1360 20 күн бұрын
Good cousin he was to advise him so he can have time with u
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
Yeah sis he used me and got what he wanted and left 🥹
@saverasavera3652
@saverasavera3652 19 күн бұрын
i hope he didnt get ILR please say he didnt
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 19 күн бұрын
@@saverasavera3652 wallah sis I don’t know .. I have no contact with him so god knows .
@Suefeena
@Suefeena 17 күн бұрын
This sociaty takes over thinking what the world is gona say 🙄so sad 😊❤❤❤
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 17 күн бұрын
Very sis 😓🥹
@Suefeena
@Suefeena 17 күн бұрын
@SaloomysDiaries 😊
@Suefeena
@Suefeena 17 күн бұрын
@@SaloomysDiaries wish yu all best😘
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 17 күн бұрын
@@SuefeenaHabibti ❤
@Leadwithlove654
@Leadwithlove654 12 күн бұрын
i love your energy sis thanks for the advice, am at this stage now 21, i am finishing my degree and going to law school but i keep thinking of how i am kinda behind, i have never had any relationship yet and my friends are all starting to get married
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 11 күн бұрын
@@Leadwithlove654 thank you huni .. please don’t envy people. Do what’s best for yourself , take your time and make sure whatever decision you make is what you want not others ❤️. Good luck with your studies 🙏
@chocolatestripes0
@chocolatestripes0 7 күн бұрын
Please listen to her. I got used too. And sponsored a guy. Baaaad idea. Very bad idea. And I also got pregnant straight away. Was doing the sponsorship paperwork while pregnant. Now am a divorcee and single mom...make money and take your timee
@Onemorebookpodcast.
@Onemorebookpodcast. 7 күн бұрын
The minute you said 'African', I was like ooop 🫢!
@SaloomysDiaries
@SaloomysDiaries 6 күн бұрын
@@Onemorebookpodcast. 🥹🥹
@ceothesheriffshow
@ceothesheriffshow 4 күн бұрын
Oh please stop the stereotype and racism. I’ve watched countless videos like this and Asian/arab/caucasian are doing the same and worse. Arabs and Asians are in Africa who call themselves as Africans too. I’m married town African Gambian and he is the best. I was married to another one before from Guinea Conakry and he was the worst. So these kinds of men are across ethnicities.
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