Why I thought I'd never become a single mother

[@Letstalkwithshona]

My father was raised by a single mother and she was an amazing woman. And she raised him to be such a god-fearing good man. She taught him to be strong and he raised all of his daughters to be strong. She was the greatest example May Allah swt bless her endlessly and my father as they have both passed away. My father was a real man, and being raised by an amazing women made him so caring and hold women at such a high level. May Allah swt make things easy for you and your children and bless you endlessly. They are blessed to have you ! Thank you for sharing your experience l❤️❤️❤️

[@Umm4b]

@@Letstalkwithshona so nice to hear sister. And was your father lacking something not growing up with a father? What i mean is did he feel like he needed to have a father figure somehow? I have 4 boys and i am very worried about raising them to be brave and responsible men. I am worried about not being able to give what a father gives..

[@mamamalet]

@@Umm4bmy father was in the same situation and he is the best dad Alhamdoulilah.

[@Letstalkwithshona]

@@Umm4b He met his father once, there was nothing he spoke about missing out on. I think it did push him to be a very present father to us though! In reality there are fathers just bring home a paycheck and don’t actually raise their children per se. They just pay the bills and that is the extent of their contribution to raising. Quality time is absolutely necessary to raise a child there is no way around it. I know many people who had a father present in the home who was distant to both male and female children in the home but paid the bills. If you have brother or uncles or your own father they can be great male role models. You can make sure your boys spend time in the mosque with some men from the community. It’s unfortunate that when men divorce a woman they decide to divorce their children as well. A father should still be a present co parent for his children. That is his Islamic duty as well. To be present for his children regardless of his relationship with their mother. May Allah swt protect you and your children and make them strong righteous men. ❤️

[@FatimahG.]

BarakaAllaahu feeki sis! May Allaah bless you and your family Aameen!! Sounds like he was an amazing dad. I agree some women do an incredible job raising their boys. We also have to take note of the fact that raising kids back then was different to now. Back then I believe there was a village. You know when they say “it takes a village to raise a child”. The village existed back then. Village of local men, uncles, granddads etc. Now unfortunately that village is no where to be found for many many many single mothers. 🌹

[@Itsokay224]

Yes! "I was a single married woman" 💯 You have a new sub🎉

[@FatimahG.]

Welcome sis! 💖

[@maria45afrah8]

A lot of the big scholars of time where raised in one parent households, like imam Ahmad ibn Hanbal, and so many more! There is truly khair in everything that Allah decrees for us!

[@FatimahG.]

Yes Maria, you are right. However these exemplary men had extraordinary examples of men to emulate and learn from. These women then didn’t raise their sons alone. Their uncles and grandparents were involved. Nowadays, only some sisters have support from male relatives to raise their sons when the dad is not actively present. And yes again, Allaah indeed the best of planners and yes there’s Khair in everything He decrees for us. X 🌹

[@shay2022]

Be positive, sister

[@MissEgyptian12]

Yes sister, your so inspiring. I also have 3 children and was married single mother literally from the start. Hearing your story, makes me feel like I can get through it ❤❤ May Allaah bless you and your children always ❤❤❤

[@FatimahG.]

Asalamu alaikum sis, I hope you are the kids are good! Yes sis subhanaAllaah a lot of us have relatable stories. May Allaah protect us. Sis, I promise you’ll be okay if you do the work. Aim to become a better version of yourself Deen wise and Dunyah wise. Personally I believe Allaah tested us with such, not to punish us but to awaken us. Now I know and you know that you’ll never tolerate anything close to that again in shaa Allaah. No matter how long it takes, keep strong and keep going and depend only on Allaah. You’ve got this sis ♥️♥️♥️♥️🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹♥️♥️🌹🌹❤️❤️❤️❤️😘😘

[@y_4683]

Thank you for sharing your story, your vibes are amazing and even though you’re in niqab I can see you’re glowing! I’m also a niqabi single mom and never ever wanted to be a single mom but here I am and it’s been almost a year and a half. I had the worst trauma bond but Allhamdulilah with Allahs help and determination it was indeed a short marriage I’ve tried to go back a few times because of the trauma bond but Allah has been saving me. I’ve healed in so many ways I learned so much about myself attachment style, childhood trauma, and allhamdulilah I’ve been in therapy for a while. I’m becoming okay with the idea of being single(not looking for a spouse), and giving myself a break to love and put 100% effort into myself in order to be the best mother and InshaAllah attract and be able to recognize healthy individual. Life is indeed too short to settle for loveless, unhealthy, toxic, abusive people. It takes away from who we are as servants of Allah, and how we show up in our relationships and responsibilities. The best thing that happened to me after my divorce was becoming my best self because in the marriage I became a shell of a person and it not only sucked the life out of me but took me to a very dark place mentally.

[@keirobangs6666]

courage ❤

[@user-ve4zw6jp9i]

May Allah continue to bless you and your offspring and may Allah give me the the courage and strength and the contentment to to be alone rather than to keep going in circles with a non God fearing narcissist person Ameen

[@FatimahG.]

Asalamu alaikum sis, Thank you for sharing your this with us. I can feel the strength and resilience shining through your words, and it's inspiring, sis. Alhamdulillah, you've come so far, breaking free from a trauma bond and finding the courage to focus on healing, especially with the awareness of how trauma can shape our attachment styles and relationships, that’s amazing. I’m always so happy when I hear someone is aware of their attachment style and working towards healing it. It’s no small feat, and you’ve embraced this journey beautifully. Being a single mum can feel overwhelming, but, like you said, life is too short to settle for anything that dims our light or takes us away from our purpose. I can relate deeply to becoming a shell of oneself in a marriage and then rediscovering that inner glow through self-love, reflection, and reconnecting with Allaah. You’re absolutely right, nurturing yourself, recognising your worth, and setting healthy boundaries opens the path to attracting a genuine, righteous connection when the time is right, in shaa Allaah. In the meantime, may Allaah continue to strengthen you, bless your journey, and grant you peace and love in ways that enrich both your life and your children’s lives. Remember, you’re already doing an incredible job by showing up as the best version of yourself, for yourself and them. Keep going sis 🌹❤️❤️❤️🌹

[@TheQuranAlKareemchannel]

I am so grateful for this channel being recommend to me. I feel like I have connected with everything you've said without even meeting you. May Allah bless you with the highest ranks of jannah.

[@FatimahG.]

BarakaAllaahu feeki! I’m glad what I talked about could resonate with you. Allaahuma Aameen! May Allaah bless you with the same Aameen.

[@fatimahconteh3971]

I’m so glad to have found this channel. I’m also Sierra Leonean with the name Fatimah with the H at the end lol. My mother was also a single mother, although I’m not married. Being a single is also one of my biggest fears but all knows best.

[@FatimahG.]

Welcome namesake. How di body mi sista! Ar hope say all tin okay wit you. Most of our mothers were single parents. May Allaah reward them for their efforts Aameen! Don’t fear being single. You have time now to seek knowledge, you have time to learn so much about yourself, learn emotional intelligence and heal any trauma that may be hiding underneath, learn about parenting and marriage. I wish what I’m saying to you now someone said to me back then. Connect with yourself and love yourself and in shaa Allaah the right brother with come. 🌹 ❤️

[@Sophiamor-b7n]

Marrying someone you don't love for the sake of family and friends only. This concept works in countries when women depend on the man financially completely. Date argue before marriage try our best to see someone's flaws before you say I do.

[@SportsCricket-rs3mx]

More Power to you and your kids. May your hardships ease out. You became the best version if yourself. May Allah guide you eternally.

[@FatimahG.]

Allaahuma Aameen! May Allaah accept your duaa and may He bless you with better Aameen.

[@UpliftHigher]

An amazing video sister. You’re smashing it right now grow, glow and go hun!!! As for myself I had. No choice that was better than being a single mother because my garden was totally barren with an emotional/mental abuse. It was never for me how much I want to stay it was when I’m I leaving. Didn’t have the courage or bravery or the self love to go. But when I requested the khula it was my first taste of self love and kindness to myself . Before I knew what self love or self kindness was. Plus Allah’s mercy on me to have this time for true safety and love from Him. Never felt safe in that marriage mentally or emotionally. But Allah gave me that through divorce/khula. A lovely aunty said to me “ sometimes divorce is a mercy from Allah” as society teaches us marriage is an amazing thing a high level of love and union between to people. As that can be true to some but it doesn’t apply to everyone. Sometimes marriage can be a fitnah or a test for some ppl or a plain darkness. Maybe Allah wanted to mould me to prepare a peaceful departure (which it was) sometimes the worser the marriage you experience where you lose your sense of self. The better your divorce experience . Because Allah doesn’t burden a soul more than it can bear. And Allah doesn’t test you at the same level as before. So there is an importance to first studying yourself be you own degree, learn about your childhood trauma . Acceptance in what happen and reach for better. Allah wants better for us... 5 years now a single mother to 4 children a Self Development Coach Alhamdulilah. 5years of healing, on my inner self has been the biggest and best investment for my kids and myself. They finally see a mother they not afraid to share the worries to. And create a healthy environment alone and break those generational traumas together. So sis you doing great keep up with more videos of your journey . A beloved subscriber ❤❤❤

[@FatimahG.]

Alhamdulilah, sister thank you so much for your heartfelt message and for sharing your journey with such strength and resilience. It takes so much courage to recognise when a situation is harming us and to take steps toward healing, especially when society often places expectations on us to stay. May Allaah reward you abundantly for prioritising your mental and emotional well-being and for creating a safe and loving environment for your children. Your journey is truly inspiring transforming pain into self-love and kindness. The aunty was right sometimes indeed divorce is a mercy from Allaah. For me it was a great mercy that I only realised when I started healing and letting go. Allaah indeed knows what’s best for us. Allaahuma Barrik, becoming a Self Development Coach and dedicating these years to inner healing is a beautiful way to break generational trauma and build a future of peace for your children. BarakaAllaahu feeki for sharing your story, you are truly inspiring. Your story is a beacon of hope for so many women who are on similar paths but might be struggling to take that first step. May Allaah continue to guide you, keep you strong, and make your journey of healing and growth easy and blessed. Thank you again for the encouragement-you’re inspiring me to keep going and sharing my journey, and I pray it reaches many hearts. Stay strong, sis, and know that you are a beautiful example of what it means to trust Allaah’s wisdom in the face of hardship. May Allaah bless your children and may Allaah make them amongst the rights d pious Aameen. Love from your beloved sister , Fatimah 💖 💖💖❤️❤️♥️🌹🌹🌹

[@Reynacampbell]

You are a breathe of fresh air sis, your aura is beautiful. Barakallahu feek for passing on these pearls and gems you’ve learnt and gathered on your journey. May Allah grant you and your family the highest place in jannah, ameen🧡🧡🧡

[@FatimahG.]

Aameen, sis! JazakiAllaahu khair for your beautiful words. May Allah shower you with endless blessings and grant you strength, wisdom, and peace in every step of your life Aameen. May Allah grant you the best in this life and the hereafter, and may He surround you with love, joy, and guidance always. Aameen ♥️♥️♥️🌹🌹🌹

[@wadlington1853]

@@FatimahG..

[@Sidra_Asghar]

This is why I never plan on becoming a mother. I am a muslim childfree by choice woman and the very thought of becoming a single mother haunts me. With how a lot of relationships are, one cannot blame me for being cautious. I pray for all of you single mothers. Please keep your head up, let Allah take control and He will lead you where you need to be. Call upon Him, He will respond.❤

[@FatimahG.]

I hope you’re okay Sis. I don’t even know how to answer this comment. I think it’s something that I’d love to do a video about. I don’t think because of the fear of becoming a single mother should prevent anybody from becoming a mother. Being a mother is such a beautiful blessing that I thank Allaah for every single day. Even though yes I am raising my children alone but I am so grateful for them because they bring a sense of joy and peace and calm to my heart and my Healing that I don’t know what I would’ve been able to do without them. They are such kind and sweet and amazing little people that I find so much joy looking after them even alone. I must also add that one of the reasons Allaah created us in this Dunyah is to multiply the Ummaah and if somebody’s intentionally choosing not to have children because of the fear of raising them alone and I guess that’ll be between that person and Allaah. also I must add that most women even if they are in a relationship raise their children predominantly alone because the men are usually out to provide so whether single parenting or not most times a child will spend more time with the mum, but thank you for your comment and I Allaah and make everything easier for you and He bless you and your family 💜💜💜💜. And Thanks sis Aameen! I’ll always continue to Call up Allaah 🌹

[@unknown-fl2ug]

Thank you so much for sharing! I have a question. You mentioned you and your ex-husband not being compatible & without sharing too much of your personal business, can you explain how a younger Muslimah is suppose to know if we’re compatible with a potential spouse? Isn’t that something I would only know after marriage?? People hide things all the time. People make false promises. So I would I be able to see through that?

[@ThePinkPantha21]

No human is perfect I wish that idea didn't exist. Even if a marriage doesn't work out doesn't mean another won't. Compatibility is overrated really. Kindness and compassion are most important and you learn lessons about yourself that you wouldn't learn single. Alot of beliefs about marriage are overrated.

[@bushraqaasim4677]

Dua goes a long way( most of us really take Dua for granted and it is indeed our greatest weapon when making any life decisions) because marriage isn't a thing to take with levity keep making Dua to ALLAAH during the process of getting to know this person if there is good in it for you, your Iman and Deen not just in this temporary world but your akirah and your relationship with Allah. Most of us don't know if the person is good or probably hiding something from us remember Allah knows every single one of us more than we know our own selves put your full trust in Allah do you due diligence( by asking crucial questions to know if your goals and ambitions are aligning) and also never leave out Dua keep beseeching HIM to guide your heart in choosing that which is best for you and protect us from that which will harm you in both worlds.

[@iNikkah]

May Allah preserve you sis- your story touched me, I hope you find the love of your life ameen love u for the sake of Allah

[@FatimahG.]

Allaahuma Aameen!! May Allaah preserve you too sis! Aameen! Keeping making that duaa for me. Marriage is such a blessing and pray to Allaah that He blesses me with competing half of my Deen again someday Bi’tnilaah taa’aala. May He whom you love me for love you Aameen!

[@l.m6869]

The channel I didn’t know I needed

[@FatimahG.]

The channel Allaah sent you because He knew you needed 💖 Welcome sis!! 🌹

[@Umm4b]

Asalamu alaikum dear sister.thank u so much for being so honest. Can i ask you when did u think it was time for u to stop trying in your marriage?

[@FatimahG.]

Wa alaikum Salam dear sister, I hope you are okay. You are welcome sis. For me I stopped trying when I: - asked his closer friend to intervene and speak to him but that didn’t work (worse thing I did) - got multiply students of knowledge and sheikh to intervene - my aunt and uncle to intervene but that didn’t work, they gave up lol - my uncle and dad to intervene but that also didn’t work - tried to get his parents to intervene even tho they are not Muslims but I thought because he loved them so much he’d take heed - got an Islamic marriage therapist for marriage counselling but he refused to attend - I was the only one trying and working hard to keep the marriage - tried to convinced him to get Ruqya done because for some reason I thought the way things changed drastically; it might have been spiritual. Allaahu alam though - started working on my self esteem and healing my traumas Sister, after all the above, I started begging Allaah to help me leave. I start begging the ex to divorce me. Why are you holding on to me when you know you don’t want to change? There’s more to the story but because it’s also my kids story I’d have to keep that private. Personally, I don’t like to just give up, so I gave it all my all and Alhamdulilaah Allaah helped me and one day I called him and begged him to let me go and by Allaah’s grace he let me go. I don’t know your story but one thing I’ll say don’t give up so quickly. Try everything you possibly can so that when you make a decision; it’ll be a decision you are content with. Sending you love and lots of hugs and kisses 🌹❤️

[@Umm4b]

@@FatimahG. jazakAllah khayra sister. I ve been trying a very long time..20 years!!! When u said working on ur self esteem....i think it s key for me... Allah knows best. But it s nice to hear that ease comes after hardship. And that being divorced is not the end of the family. I have 4 kids and just like you i dont want to put them in a what people love to call a " broken" family. But maybe it s already broken and divorce would mean fixing the family.....so hard to take a decision when kids are involved. Anyway really appreciated u sharing your experience without the feminism aspect if you see what I mean. May Allah bless u and ur loved ones. Ameen.

[@susuileamura]

May I ask how are you able to support yourself and your child as a single mom who is in a full covering?

[@dinomauss1157]

I’m married to a Sierra Leonian man and I’m south Asian. Everything you said I can relate to so much even tho we are also quite different. I’m at the end part of my marriage and what secured it for me personally is that as soon as I started to actively practise again… I never felt so securely that I do not want to be in this toxic situation any more. I also did the attachment style test many many time through the last six years of marriage, always got fearful avoidant. This last year, working on myself, on my deen, my connection with Allah…. It’s crazy to think every single time I do the test now, it’s secure… I’ve come a long way from 21… I’m never gna be that little girl anymore either! 😂

[@FatimahG.]

Sis! May Allaah bless you Aameen! Sounds like you’ve been through such a worthwhile journey! May You continue to grow and grow and becoming stronger and better and better. HIGH FIVE! 🖐️ do you know how happy I get when I hear a sister has actively worked on healing her attachment style!! Allaahuma Barrik!! Keep going! Sending you lots of love and kisses!!

[@satzone4241]

As Salam Alaikum, 'do yah a beg you yah" hahaha got me cracking I love krio. May Allāh ﷻ bless, and protect you and your children ameen.

[@FatimahG.]

Wa alaikum Salam. Haha I was like to myself, ‘I sound like an aunty’ haha forgetting that I’m the new generation of aunties haha. Allaahuma Aameen sis. 🌹

[@An86115]

May Allah make it easy for you sister Ameen .

[@FatimahG.]

Aameen!! And for us all. Aameen!

[@fsheik1127]

It was nice and funny and realistic. Thank you for sharing with us sis

[@FatimahG.]

Haha you are welcome !!

[@Rosywater]

Asalamu alaikum sisters, may Allah grant the singles sisters god-fearing, rich, generous, caring handsome husbands, who will love them for the sake of Allah. And may Allah make husbands of our married sisters god-fearing, rich, generous, caring, handsome and make them love their wives for the sake of Allah

[@Rosywater]

And may Allah Almighty make us among His favourite and best slaves

[@FatimahG.]

Allaahuma Aameen!!

[@lailaelo9755]

TOXIC IDEA TO BELIEVE THAT WE ARE NOT COMPLETE WITH OURSELFS ALONE I AM COMPLETE YPU ARE COMPLETE... STOP LOOKIN FOR A HALF

[@FatimahG.]

Laila, I agree. Because of a lot of women’s trauma and insecurities, they tend to believe that seeking a man would complete them. While on the other hand, the Deen of Allaah has encouraged seeking marriage and completing half of our Deen, but I believe it should be sought in a manner that will bring overall good and with individuals who are self aware and fear Allaah.

[@lailaelo9755]

@@FatimahG. thats simply not true... wives of the prophet sa where not allowed to marry after his death. marriage is not a goal its a given its something ordained . do not seek it...period

[@zainab9641]

@@lailaelo9755I disagree with this. Of course marriage is ordained by Allah but to get married we need to seek a righteous spouse and of course to have a righteous spouse that fears Allah you need to work on striving towards righteousness yourself and increase your knowledge and Iman so that you can continue to grow together in a marriage that is pleasing to Allah In Shaa Allah. You can’t just sit there wanting to be married when you are not putting in the work and trusting in Allah too. I agree marriage is not our sole purpose in life but a good marriage between righteous spouses that is pleasing to Allah is a means to get closer to Allah and be rewarded Jannah In Shaa Allah.

[@lailaelo9755]

@@zainab9641 thats not how relationships and the world works sister. i used to think like you this woehoe unpragmatic mindset. Allah does what he wills their is no trophee at the end of it all. it seems your stuck in muslim fairytale land

[@zainab9641]

@@lailaelo9755I guess we can agree to disagree, I will continue to have the mindset I have as I trust Allah and I do believe that good Muslim marriages exist and just because you may have experienced a bad marriage doesn’t mean you can’t experience a good one in the future In Shaa Allah. May Allah make it easier for you and heal any pain/trauma you may have experienced in the past that has made you have the mindset you have today. Ameen

[@n_iya20]

i love your energy Allahumabarik always be you sis keep going 💓💓💓

[@FatimahG.]

Aameen! Thanks so much sis. 💜💜💜

[@s.7090]

Assalaamu'alaykum sister Fatima! Can you make a video on the "2 parent household" expectation which many sisters who come from broken families have, and the importance of your potential spouse working through their trauma, we are waiting for you! ps. I thoroughly enjoyed this video:) jazakillahu khayran

[@FatimahG.]

Wa alaikum Salam sister! I’ve got you! In shaa Allah I’ll do a video on that. I’m glad you enjoyed the video. BarakaAllaahu feeki xx

[@fatimam4613]

SubhanAllah the dressing dragged me here,I’m inspired by sisters wearing niqab in these times hafidhakumUllah. JazaakumUllah for sharing your experience sister and may Allah grant us and you benefit from it 🥰

[@FatimahG.]

Yes sis, it takes courage, strength and dedication to keep the niqab on. But Alhamdulilaah for everything! Allaahuma Aameen sis 🌹

[@dekaahmed3065]

Lol am single mom especially when they were 5 months and 1yr and 9 months 😂 Alhamdulilah I did it alone physically but financially he had to sort us out after Allah ❤

[@Umm4b]

@@dekaahmed3065 asalamu alaikum Sister. Hope you are good. What do you mean by he had to sort you out financially. I know he has to be responsible for the kids but as for you how did it happen? I dont work anymore for a very long time and i cant claim befenits. Did you work? Did u go back to work? My kids are so young i dont know how i am gona cope financially.

[@FatimahG.]

Alhamdulilaah sis! May Allaah make it easy and may He look after you and your children! Aameen!!! It’s beautiful to know that he financially supports you guys. Allaahuma Barrik. May Allaah bless it for you 💖

[@HereWeGoAgain4753]

Habibti I hear you I have boys. But we’re Ahmad ibn Hanbal and Bukhari (may Allāh ﷻ be pleased with them) who were raised by women any lesser men? No Al-Hamdulilāh they can be sent to some male teachers In’ shā’ Allāh as they were and learn from them.

[@hananemansouri4570]

They had father figures though women were never alone at this time in history they always had men from their family helping them 🤍

[@FatimahG.]

Habibtee, I hear you too. I think you might have misunderstood me. They were definitely not lesser men. We cannot compare the men of those times to the men of nowadays. Back then these boys/men raised by their mothers, had role models with exemplary character and manners. The mothers were confident enough to send their boys to scholars just to learn their manners and how to be men. Let’s take Ibn Qayyim (May Allaah Taa’ala be please with him) for example, his mother encouraged him to learn from Ibn Taymiyyah (May Allaah Taa’ala be pleased with him) not just for his knowledge, but also to benefit from his exemplary character, manners and qualities that Ibn Qayyim’s mother wanted him to embody by being in his company. Just that example alone is evidence that Ibn Qayyim’s mother was not able to attain by herself. Another example is when our boys in shaa Allaah taala reach the age of puberty, yes we can read a good book about puberty according to Islam to them but ultimately it is better for our boys to learn about puberty from men and how to be real men. Times have changed and as you know the men nowadays are just getting weaker and weaker and we need strong men to step up and help us raise our boys to men. BarakaAllaahu feeki sis may Allaah us all and may Allaah make us raise exemplary men and leaders of the Ummaah Aameen ❤️

[@An86115]

May Allah bless You with righteous spouse Ameen

[@FatimahG.]

Allaahuma Aameen!!!!!

[@umiipetite]

I love this mashallah keep showing up 😍😍

[@FatimahG.]

Thanks sis. 🌹

[@aishakeef]

New subbie because of this video🎉

[@FatimahG.]

Welcome sister Aisha! 🌹❤️

[@mizzgoodie123]

Subscribed ! I like you already

[@FatimahG.]

Yay! Thank you! You are welcome here!

[@l.m6869]

More of this content please! Xx

[@FatimahG.]

Yes yes! Pending in shaa Allaah 🌹 💖

[@hawomohamed507]

New subscriber and also new friend.

[@FatimahG.]

Welcome friend!!! I’m so happy to have you here ❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹

[@mirlysamb]

❤❤❤

[@margaretmukasa2998]

Take off the blanket😮

[@FatimahG.]

No, this “blanket” keeps me grounded Margaret.

[@FleurRebelle]

I feel so sorry for these women. They have to cover up any sign of femininity, even their fingers! Only her eyes can show… I would be so depressed 😢omg I couldn’t do it. Is it shame? I guess they’re ok with it?

[@fsheik1127]

@@FleurRebelle listen being free and feeling free is different for every women. Some women feel free because nobody can see how they look like. The way you think is a westernised way of thinking. Feeling free by showing yourself is a westernised concept. For us you are a slave to your society. You have so much pressure to look a certain way. Your body have to look a certain way. So much time energy and money spend on this. If it makes you happy. Good for you. But I feel bad you have all this pressure from society and men and you think it’s normal.

[@fsheik1127]

@@FleurRebelleit will make me so depressed that I have to follow up with what your society is expecting from you. It must be draining. I guess you must be ok with it😢

[@fsheik1127]

@@FleurRebelleI don’t understand feminist fighting for women to do what they feel like. But in the minute you don’t want to be seen or you feel empowered to be covered it’s a problem. I don’t think it is right. Real feminism is letting all women around the world no matter how different we are. Respecting each other. Even if we don’t understand each other. Anyway. God bless.