Hlub Haus Tsev Ua Ntej Mam Hlub Sab Nraus. 9/17/22

[@toojmuathojchannel7202]

Tuaj koom koj

[@chaivxiong103]

Ruam dhau lawm os

[@ambervang8074]

Don't worry bro. Thier karma will be coming for disrespecting you. God is watching!!!

[@dungquang4896]

Koj hais yoj lawm os niam laus

[@youwatchme3631]

Thaum zoo li ko lawm mus nrhiav church mus koom lawv nawb kwvtij

[@NUNTHAPHON_SEREENAVAKUN]

👍👍👍👍

[@khamyang5128]

This is why I no longer associate myself with the Hmong culture and it's doing. Leaving the Yang family is the best thing I have ever done.

[@geuct3091]

Koj tau ib cov kwv tij dev xwb. Ah ah ah

[@suabcuathoj913]

Lus Hmoob Yog tseem tseem li no tiag: Zoo nraug ntxiag! Zoo nkauj rhib!

[@kmkm7492]

Yog kawg o tus rhuav yus ces yog yus ncov ntawm yus kaws taws xwb o

[@leexiong5741]

If relative wants to borrow money from you, gently tell them to go to the bank. Duh!

[@kuvtshajyexushlub6429]

Txhua tus neeg Siab phem ntuj yeej yuav muab Lov caj dab xwb...Ua tsaug uas koj tuaj muab piav ua kev kawm rau Peb

[@princessangelher8854]

Pawg kwv tij no phem kawg. Yog kuv ces khiav deb tshaj plaws lawm.

[@DsDs-oc7bs]

Tu niam ntxawm ca koj hai tau raug kv cov tub ntsuag ua luaj tu siab tshaj li

[@kaoxiong6148]

Bro, you did it to yourself. You don’t have to loan money to anyone. They’re just your relatives. I think your mistake is that you want theirs love, and you didn’t learn your lessons from other relatives that haven’t pay you back. Thankfully your wife is still with you…I would not loan my money 💰 to anyone other than my sons or daughters. If anyone harassed my wife and disrespect me, this person will have to answer to my foot and fist regardless…😩!!!

[@zhangthor912]

I would not use my feet or fist if my wife was assaulted, I will call the police and use the courts for punishment. I don’t care about the Hmong elders and any money awards. It’s all crap. I think it’s important for everyone to learn the law of the land and use it.

[@Lotus-og6if]

@@zhangthor912 use foot, fist, pot and pan then call police. Forgot the elder and their outdated pig dog rule. They always expect the easiest way out and don’t care about your suffering or loss. The elder’s way is to force abusive victim to return to their abuser. Gang up on people whom they deem weak such as widow, orphans, and poor people.

[@khuvxim6633]

໋໋

[@lalachocolate8251]

I 💯. he is one nigga that think his money talks. and he thinks he can control

[@xayxiong1061]

Exactly!

[@korxiong792]

Kev ua neeg tsis txhob xav kom luag qhuas yus vim cov neeg zoo muaj tsawg cov phem yog cov coob xwb.

[@NkaujSeeThojUaNyabKevDeb]

cov neeg ko saib tsi tau yu xwb xob thab kiag💪💪

[@nalaher3022]

These kind of stories doesn't get my sympathy. You should see your relatives' motives clear as day. Ditch them.

[@walee8530]

tus txiv tsev no txoj dab neeg hais tau mob hlwb tiag ua neeg siab zoo kom kwv tij nyiam kwv tij hlub tiam sis tsis raws siab xav vim yus yog neeg yooj yim thiab ho ruam thiab txog thaum kawg tseem muaj mob thiab nyiaj los tseem poob tas hais tsis tau kwv tij quav ci noj li pab koj tu siab tus txiv tsev. 😭😭😭😭😭 ..

[@Niamhuabtais24]

I would never loan that much $ to anyone except my mom and dad. I would not even do $2k.

[@kuab50]

Thov txim ntawm tus txiv tsev hmoob yom!! ua neej nyob xob ruam2 maj puas yog koj khav theeb heev lawv thiaj xib tim txais koj nyiam, tsi tas li xwb tim dag tias koj poj niam thiab nws yog qub nkauj nraug los koj haj tseem ntseeg nws es tsi ntseeg koj poj niam thiab os, koj yuav yeej tus txiv ntxawm no yuav tsum yog koj poj niam koom tes nrog koj mog!!

[@LaoLao-vn4yg]

Cov neeg phem li nws yuav tuag ua ntej cia nws poj niam rau luag puag

[@7kangher]

This is why I don't trust anyone even family.

[@korxiong792]

Cas peb hmoob tseem muaj tej cov kwv tij ua kev qias neeg zoo li lub ntuj qub2 puag thaum ub tsis tau muaj kev kawm li.

[@keoxailuangvangxeng4748]

Muaj nyiaj ntau ce siab loj thaum nyiaj tag mam paub

[@chouamoua4226]

Koj cov kwv tij kos siab dev xwb g paub hlub neeg g muaj lawv los taus

[@tublojleebfaabkis1900]

ua tib neeg nyob yus tus yeeb ncuab yog yus tsev neeg thiab yus cov kwv tij ntag ov, nco zoo zoo tseg cim nroov cia ov mog, koj cov kwv tij ces yog kuv ces twb tsis yog ntaus xwb os, kuv ncaws xwb li os mog, txawm yog txiv ntxawm los tsis ok kkkkkkk li os,

[@suataunyiajlosxyooj8603]

zoo li koj pheej tsis zeem li na

[@xaiher9236]

ua kwv tij es yog phem npaum koj cov niag kwv tij ko tiag ce yog kuv ce kuv yeej tsi yuav nw ua kwv tij li lawm os koj yuav cov neeg phem ko ua koj kwv tij es zoo dab tsi rau koj naj cov neeg siab phem ko tsi muaj lo yeej tsi thau koj, txawm muaj lo yeej tsi ntxiv koj li naj!!

[@mainenglee-xiong3344]

Not sure how to believe this story. How can you barrow that much money and not go after them to get the money back? That is a lot of money! How can you barrow to so many people? Don’t you learn from your first mistake? If anyone barrow more than a thousand dollars, say no. You are not a bank.

[@a16klaos52]

Kuv g ntshaw phoojywg thb g ntshaw kwvtij kuv ntxub lawv heev lawv saib g taus kuv li os 😭😭😭

[@vdrtkrato1115]

👍 job bro. Love your own little family first. All day I agree with you

[@MsBL32]

I find this story to be unsatisfactory, this guy is very stupid, after all the money you gave away, you still let them take advantage of you!!! It’s almost like you are trying too hard to be accepted and loved by them. You need to love yourself and your wife only.

[@bosslady8498]

He is not stupid, but too kind and forgiving . Evil and mean people like to take advantage of kind people and think that kind person is stupid . Shame on them . Karma is real !

[@chouathao2122]

@@bosslady8498 that's the definition of stupidity. Guy just doesn't learn his lessons, if it's not stupidity then what is it? Burn some joss papers and the rest will be taken care of.

[@bosslady8498]

@@chouathao2122 call what you want , I guess you never been around or know a kind person that even though how bad others treat them they still don’t lose the good and kindness in them .

[@MsBL32]

@@bosslady8498 I know what kindness is but when you allow people to take advantage of your kindness, it’s called stupidity.

[@xiongvang9584]

Brother this is exactly what I was talking about with the other story when the father had a stroke and the wife got him better and she got sick. His family had a meeting to convince him to marry another wife and that was what he did. He left and expected his kids to send money to him and the new wife to take care of them. I am glad you saw those men for who they are and did not fall into the trap. The other man did and hood whole family fell apart. Brothers and fathers, please do not be short sited and listen to this man. He is right, they are only jealous and wants to destroy a family. When people see you have something good that they cannot have, they will use anything to justify their cause to take that from you. Pay attention and do not let go of your family, wives and husbands. God bless those who sees the truth.

[@greentortoise4629]

Dude, you need to set boundaries. But you continue to let them step over you and your family.

[@lalachocolate8251]

this guy is is chicken soups

[@hnubib12]

Never loan money to family or relatives. Just say no! They just want to advantage of you. Lesson learned.

[@chiaher3962]

Brother aw peb twb nyob rau lub teb chaws no lawm yog leej twg saib tsis taus yus poj niam ces cia li Ceeb toom rau tub ceev xwm xwb los mas hmoob txoj cai ces yog dev npua cai xwb os hais txog qhov txais nyiaj ces ntawm kuv ces tsa chij dawb lawm nawb thaum luag poob qhov ces lawv ua miv quaj hos thaum koj muab lawv rub tawm los ces lawv yuav ua tsov nyooj rau yus nawb.

[@ouradventuresnspecialmoments]

OMG!!! Stop being too ruam ruam thiab mam! There's a difference between being smart nice & ruam nice!!!

[@hmongsiabzoo]

Brother you didn’t learn from your first mistake. You’re trying to buy your relatives love with money. Tsk tsk hopefully you learn your lesson

[@jackieyunan4899]

Poj niam hmoob meskas siab phem heev nej txhob ntseeg nej tus niam tsev nawb cov kwv tij hmoob aw...

[@nancypha3576]

Khub niam tsev no ua thaj muaj muaj nyiaj ne tos kwv tij saib tsis taus na neb txais nyiaj 20 phav ne neb cia li ntsia to tsis tsib nyiaj ces ntse tim neb thiab twb paub tus txiv ntxawm ko ntxub neb npaum ko cas tseem txais nyiaj rau ces txua yam no tim neb khub niam txiv ko vim muaj nyiaj dhau ces luag thiaj li tsis them koj rov qab muaj ntau ces kav tsij txais kom ntau zog

[@chengvue4510]

Kwv tij Mas yog koj txai nyiaj rau ce nyiaj yog yeeb ncuab rov qab rau yus.. kuv twb mag ib zaug lawm.

[@hlubkojxwb8441]

PEB,hmoob cov muaj nyiaj yeej muaj lub siab pheev li ntawv vim li ntawv thiab tsis muaj teb chaws nrog luas nyob

[@ThePrincessWorrior]

Money Lesson: Loans are to be lending by banks. If you can’t gift it, NEVER involve money in your relationship with ANYBODY, even if it’s your own spouse and or children. Not even 1 cent, if it’s going to be in the name of borrowing. * Never end pretty. When you think your money will buy you notice and respect. Getting noticed and respected is not by paying with money. Some may get a little rush of it, but will be gone like a tornado. Just like this guy’s. He felt a little hype by getting noticed that his life got better, and seem like people started to look up to him by borrowing his dollars. BAAMM! He’s left handicap

[@lisadarling5126]

Yes, if they had to ask you for money because they can't afford whatever that they wanted, they clearly don't need it.

[@hlubvimkojusa2140]

Bro your relatives are BAD!!…If you needs help?…let me know,comment here

[@payang3701]

Cas yuav muaj nyiaj qiv rau luag ua luaj Xav tias ua siab zoo rau luag kom luag hlub no tab sis tab Tom rov ua kom mob yus xwb Kuv muab mloog mas ruam dhau lawm thiab hais tau mob hlwb Cas yuav tsis ntse thiab yus tsis hlub yus tus kheej li.

[@cneyxiong55]

I don’t know why you never learned from the first time. Don’t lend money to people to like you. They will never think that way.

[@angelayang1658]

Ntuj os Ntuj aw….Kuv mloog tsis tau tas Kuv twb npau taws lawm lau, koj koj yuav tseg tau nyiaj rau koj cov niag neeg txais ua luaj os niag ruam aw…Yog leej twg xav txais nyuaj ces kom nws mus txais tom bank xwb los pob. Tseg tau nyiaj ces coj koj tus niam tsev neb mus noj lab qab qab xwb los mas….

[@chongxiong340]

It's a great story for us to learn but you also make mistakes because 20k is not little. If your relatives want up to thousands. Banks are everywhere now, they can do loans. And you are also not smart enough from the first mistake. It's should be only first mistake and no more second. But seems like you didn't learn as well.

[@oppolao8442]

cas tsis hlawv xyab hlawv ntawv kom tuag 3 tiam los tshuav nqi kom txom nyem kom tuag ma cas kuv nrog khib ua luaj . . .

[@yx6889]

So tired of these crappy clan issues. We are in America, stop it already. There is no need to loan people money. They can go to a bank, you need to take care of your own family first.

[@ndzaeumoua7006]

Monsieur toute ma vie de marié,je suis une femme est rejeté part ma famille, alors moi ma façon vivre avec mon mari, c'est de restait loin de ma famille,du côté de mon mari et du côté de ma famille loin de moi.

[@BNP-HAWJ]

Totally understand you! Remember we don’t need people like that in our lives! It’s ok to be alone.. you are living in US

[@akulathao4654]

The problems is that you can't stand up to yourself! If I'm in your position those two uncle's and that brother will fear me!

[@ItsYou2]

Ua ca koj tsi Foom mas foom kom tuag kom tag. Foom kom taug koj txojkev. tsi hlub koj siab tsis tau yug, los koj tsi k hlub thiab. Cancel them and go to church.....

[@danv6920]

Lesson learned from this story is: Don’t be stupid like this guy!! Period!!

[@jorvang1420]

Cas ho tsis hu public na tsis tas yuav kwv tij hais hais nab kwv tij no tsi muaj kev ncaj ncees na ncaj ncees ces yog public xwb os

[@sombunman5551]

Twb muaj nyiaj txhob ruam 2 maj yawg ! Muab nyiaj huv si pub rau luag tsis muaj peev xwm hais cais thaum kawg yuav yuav poob poj niam rau luag , vim poj niam Los tuaj lawv tog zuj zus lawd !

[@pajntxivduaj2231]

Zaj no mloog tau mob taub hau. txhua yam vim koj tsi hlub koj tu kheej xwb lawv twb saib tsi tau koj lo koj tseem ua siab dawb2 rau thiab ce vim koj tu kheej xwb

[@laceycha628]

You can always write a contract for a loan and notarize it...theres places for that...

[@bluewhisper5008]

Koj ua rau koj tus kheej xwb os. Cov txom txom nyem li koj Mas ib nyuag muaj xwb mas ua tus muaj muaj. Nyiam qhuav haum. Zaum ib Mas yeej hais tias tsis paub. Zaum 2 ces nyiam qhuav haum. Tsawg sawm.

[@dejntshiabhawj8224]

Txiv ntse ntsuav tub noj quav ces koj yog ib tug lawm ntag.

[@hlubforlife]

NEVER lend money over than $500 to families/friends. No heartache and headache.

[@souavang9152]

Cut the cord from these toxic people. Focus on your wife and kids only.

[@wendyher6594]

Never tell anyone how much you have in your personal life and never lend anyone any pennies because borrowing money one day becoming your worst enemy in the end. Tell them off that you don’t have any money 💰. They must know better that you are not a bank for them to borrow money. Tell them to go borrow money from the bank instead of borrowing from you. Don’t let people destroy your life in whatever you have work hard for. They need to go work their butts off than borrowing money from people. Don’t show off to people that you have big money because it’s dangerous that people will rob you sooner or later. Keep things to yourself from causing enemies or troubles for yourself. Be smart enough to say no and don’t feel any guilty for anyone. Period.

[@kayci27]

Damn hate these hmong people who keeps going around asking for money like money grows on trees

[@seed2319]

Kuv ua neej laus li no kuv tsis tau hnov dua ib Co neeg siab phem lim hiam li kod dua li kuv mas npau taws rau koj cov niag kwv tij Liam tshaj tsiaj lawm thiab

[@nancypha3576]

Zaj dab neeg no hais tau mob hlwb kawg cas neb khub niam txiv no muaj nyiaj kawg yom cas twb paub luag tsis hlub yua cas ho yuav txais 20 phav rau 1 tug tsis txaus tseem ho txais nyiaj dua neb 2 tug ko muaj nyiaj ntau dhau ces nyuam qhuav haum qhov ko yog me me xwb os vim nyiaj muaj luaj nqes cas yuav muaj nyiaj txais ntau ua luaj na peb ua neeg nyob txais nyiaj txog 3 tsw li ko ces luag tsis kam them muaj nyiaj ntau tsis tau kev rau os

[@mamancarapa8847]

Aub yau ua lis cas tsua hnov nej cov niag hmoob muas lwj kas no es yuav xav pluag ua luaj li os tsuas hnov mus txais luaj nyiaj es txog thaum kawg no ces ho pheej mus kwv luag nuj luag nqe es tsis txaj muag lo hmoob aw???

[@normoua6165]

Tus neeg phem ib hnub twg yeej yuav tau txoj kev phem xwb kaj siab lug thiaj tsis muaj mob. Coj koj tsev neeg mus church os brother.

[@jiaxiong8991]

There is a lot haters out there who’ll do anything to sabotage your life and ruin your marriage. It’s pretty sad when it’s your own relatives who do it. You’d best take your family and move away from these toxic people. Take care of your family first. No more loaning money, you’ve been fooled to. These snakes will suffer their own karma.

[@paweenahanwachira9883]

tug neeg siab phem noj koj tej nyiaj ua khib koj yuav npam xwb2 li mas qhov koj mob twb yog niag neeg phem kom ua ntag. nwg yuav mob tshaj koj 10 npaug tsw txhob rawm zoo2 siab lub ntuj nyob qeg2 cog niag neeg phem txhua2 tug tau noj tej nyiaj yuav tau koj tej kev mob kev txom nyem mug kom tas

[@dablaugntximntxub2318]

koj pojniam thiab koj ruam heev yog zoo li no ces lwm zaus hu tas npluaj rau nws xwb… koj yeej ruam tiag luag twb tsis hlub koj na .. koj pojniam los yog lawv muab kov ces hu tas npluaj rau xwb txhob ntdd sad haw kwv tij yog liam npaum li no na

[@hmoobmekas2567]

Ntsej muag DEV aw kwv tij txais koj nyiaj txog $50,000 es hais tsis tau kom lawv them ces kav tsij tuag tsuag tsuag mus zoo duas nyob los xuab dhaus lawm

[@brandonblaine7585]

hmoob phem tiag2 hope the poeple that borrow from you they will get karma sooner or later

[@ntxawmxyooj6595]

Kuv li cov neeg thaum hluas lawv ntxub ntxub kuv tuaj zeb kuv mas kuv yaj yam ceev faaj thiab hab yam tsi muab rau peb kuv yeej tsi ua kom lawv qhua kuv li

[@MV-ct6nj]

These storylines seems to be repeated ones

[@mayyang1341]

Yog vim li cas es ib txhia neeg es yuav qiv nyiaj tas li xwb?

[@allisonnorasingh7645]

Muaj nyiaj los ua tus tsis muaj ntse los ua li tus nruam luag saib tsis tau yus los tsis ua cas you don't lose anything yeej tsis taug neb thiaj yuav tsis muaj teeb meem lis tus me kwv no tsev neeg nawb

[@SamNuchue]

Never loan to friends and family, there’s Bank everywhere, seem like you put your relatives and community first just like the old hmong way, in this generation you need to put you first then your own little family

[@joshualee2133]

Do not complain when you have no contract written for lending money. And do not associate with toxic people.

[@MV-ct6nj]

Tim koj ua ruam ntsab ntse muaj es thiaj zoo li mas!. Koj fault xwb no one😊

[@jorvang1420]

Cas yus ho tsis muab rau yus tej me nyuam os es yus ho muab rau tej neeg sab nrauv noj dawb dawb es yus tej me nyuam ho tsis tau yus tej nyiaj tsam nk ces lig dhau lawm lau seb yuav ua li cas es lawv thiaj li them rov rau koj os

[@d_anx4565]

Nyob zoo os.hais txog koj cov nkwv tij ntawv.hais li koj hais ntawm kos ,kuv homogénéités mas yog lawm Nike koj dhaug lawm xwb.txhob tus siab tseem txhuav peb tsis zoo li koj cov kuv tij !…..

[@mailee7449]

Love the ones who deserves it and don't spend your energy on making everyone like you. At the end of the day, the ones who will love you and be there for you is your spouse and kids.

[@yiatho8830]

Yawg aws ua li cas koj cov kwvtij no yuav phem tag npaum li txhob nrog lawv nyob thiab txhob quav ntsej lawv lawm los mas koj nrog lawv uake tau dabtsi naj

[@everydaylifewithmoua9817]

This story stress me. He lost so much money. And not learn his lesson.

[@hlixyooj8179]

Brother, for thousand-dollar worth loans, there are banks and other family members who are closer to the borrower than you...so why did you agree? My take is you were an outcast so you were eager to give away your life savings to buy their approval. If I were you, I would only give a fraction of what they ask, with the knowledge that I may not get it back and just be done with it.

[@nhiaxiong6089]

I work too hard for my money. There is a place call a bank that you can borrow money. My parents didn't fund my college degree. My inlaws didn't give me a hand out. I don't go anywhere without my partner. At the end of the day, the only person that's got your back is your partner. Don't believe the snakes that are trying to poison your house. Live for yourself.

[@cindythao369]

You should of learned your lesson when you give your uncle and he didn't paid you back. You should of stop the first time.

[@itsmaichee]

I will never lend people money. They can go to the bank or we can sign a contract.

[@botmcg6886]

Koj yuav qhuav pib muaj xwb koj twb khav theeb txawm siv qev nyiaj ntau ua luaj txhais tau tias koj muaj nyiaj heev li

[@chouathao2122]

Omg stop with the loan money to your relatives. Just burn some joss papers.

[@cindyxiong7697]

Thaub no ruam heev. Yuam kev mas ib zaug xwb pob.

[@johnnylis4347]

You a good person but your clan family doesn't care about you. Stay as far away from them. Stop worrying about your clan they're all negative environment.

[@Mloogzoo]

In America, if u want money. Go to the bank. Lending money NEVER go well. Trust me I know. I lost so much money to my relatives just like u. Word is cheep..

[@lenalo6736]

Well, you think you are the bank that's why they cheat you. Those peoples borrowed your money don't pay back burn papers and stick to heaven ko lawv npam xwb mam. Alot of money to let it go

[@jimmyyang6417]

Thaub no npwb dhau lawm os Cas koj nim yuav muaj nyiaj ua luaj li os Tej tug neeg tshuav yus nqi es tseem muaj plus npaum ntawv kuv ces twb mag luam luam os

[@chaothaochannel]

Kuv twb yuav laug mag lub maib ko zoo kuv tsis qiv $20k.

[@tsis-k-koj]

I wouldn't even borrow 20k to my own family members let alone an outside relative. Poor judgement on your part for trying to win the affection of people who don't matter.🤦‍♂️