Txhob Cia siab Dhau Rau Cov Tub. 11/26/21

Txhob Cia siab Dhau Rau Cov Tub
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[@luckypeony345]

I hope hmong men understand that it is not a matter of whether the child is boy or girl. It is HOW you raise and teach your kids so that they love you at old age. If you fail as parents, don't blame on gender issues; no kid begged to be born. If you don't want to be responsible, use protection!!

[@MsBL32]

I’m so glad you didn’t take your dead beat dad back, he doesn’t deserve your love! Love is unconditional and he decided to throw your sister and your mom away like you didn’t have any emotions. Your mom is the true hero of the story here, karma always sees good and bad in people.

[@gAnyuOhc]

Hmong men continue to treat women & daughters like this because there are no consequences for their actions. These sisters should've said no to paying for the funeral. Your dad treated your mom and you guys like animals and in the end, you still buried him. SMH. This is why Hmong men do not change.

[@Abkid02]

But the vauv are Hmong men or are they not getting credit?

[@Zeb1245]

Before we point fingers at the men, please hold MOST Hmong women who are married to the Hmong men accountable, too! I’ve seen a lot of Hmong women threatening their Hmong (and even their meska) husbands to don’t help their family too much but only her family. I get it if the guy’s family is toxic or if they dragged the wife through hell, if that’s not the case then both parties should be hold accountable for being selfish a-holes! Other than that, if I were one of daughters in the story, I wouldn’t even buried my dad if he treated my mom and siblings badly.

[@ScatteredYO]

Honestly, you girls should have just let your dad rot in the open. Let it teach other OGs about girls do have strong will and determination that cannot be overlooked or looked down upon. That this generation, girls have just as much guts as boys do and many times, more.

[@yialee6284]

May aw ua cas es tej zaj neej neeg no es yuav tus siab ua luaj li os

[@arinalis3130]

Seriously! I'm so over people who wants kids, have kids but don't want to put in the work of raising them. Then blame others when their own kids get hurt. 🤦‍♀️ Exactly what my brother and nyab are doing to my parents. 🙄

[@ncolubneejhmoob6971]

kuv tuaj koom koj lawm thib o

[@kaibvwj5999]

Haha..Pabniag Neejtsa Ntxhaw Nyiaj...Pab tsajmuag dhaulawm laus.. Cuab neejtsa nov nas..

[@pogtxawjtshiavchannel4659]

Thov kom Koj & Koj cov viv ncaus Noj qab pw sov o mog.

[@maimoua1371]

Many and many true stories of hmong daughters open their hearts broken stories how they fathers treated their daughters so badly hope many fathers out there leaned and re-love nej cov daughters nawb

[@jeanpaul2317]

Cov kwv nej tsis txhov ua lub siab phem lis nos news mog thov caw peb cov txiv neej hmoob los mloog lub mai no naws. Peb hmoob lub siab phem ....

[@tyuihtyh962]

Yog lawm os ib tug ntxhai yua mu saum luag ce txau hlub tshaj li os lawv ntshai 2 tsam luag g hlub li os

[@keith23615]

ntxub cov txiv neej hmoob uas cem saib tsis tau cov ntxhais hu ua maum kuag ,es txiv neej twb yog tawm hauv poj niam plab los xwb los sav …..xav kom zoo zoo ua ntej uas yuav cem cov ntxhais nawb . cov txiv neej hmoob naj.

[@sandly5831]

Hmong men need to change. We are the new hmong generation. It is up to us to change this mindset of multiple marriages because of their wishes of wanting sons. A child is a blessing from God. There's millions of people that can't have children. There's very few hmong couples that can't have children. Therefore, hmong men should be blessed to be able to father a child. In this story.... we are in America. If you chose to have children. As a man it is your responsibility to take care your children. It is NOT your 1st wife's job or responsibility to provide care for the children you father with another woman. It is NOT the responsibility of your daughters either. Remember these are the children you did not want and abandoned.

[@gerryvang3244]

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[@hlubyang4072]

That not Hmoob man that is not represented me as a Hmong man. That is a stupid aub aub ruam. I hope you understand that he is not represented all the Hmong men.

[@solomoua5520]

😂 there is no such thing Cultures don’t change 👋

[@sandly5831]

@@hlubyang4072 I apologize. I'm addressing those majority of Hmong men who cannot and will not change their old ways. If you're the 5% of the MODERN HMONG men who isn't closed minded to change then this isn't about you. I'm glad you're not 1 of those men.

[@sandly5831]

@@solomoua5520 I believe you! This is why our race doesn't have a country.

[@leexiong5741]

Cov hlwb 75 ces yeej coj tus xeeb ceem li no. Tsis ntev ces yuav dhau mus vim cov hwb 75 tsawg zuj zus lawm. Tub ntxhais los yeej zoo ib yam os mog.

[@kuvtshajyexushlub6429]

Hais tau chim siab npau taws tshaj plaws li 2 tug dab Ntxwg nyoog ko ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws..Zoo heev li Thov sawv daws hlub hlub pab ntxhais nawb mog

[@yeeher5062]

Hais tau tu siab tshaj plaw li os tus me Vib ncau Aw

[@chermoua1525]

This is for all the hmong guys out there listen and learn!!

[@simonyang775]

This was a weak heart man that got influenced by his clan..not all men are like him. When something like this happens, don't blame only on all Hmong men; those are particularly cases. Have a bigger vision!!!

[@yingvang1276]

They don't listen, just by hearing all these stories they still continue to live this way. Then at the end they expect their kids to feel sorry for them.

[@ninjaballer8537]

Always grouping all Hmong men. Stfu!!! Not all Hmong men are the same like not all y’all Hmong women are the same

[@huabhawmmuajhmooleelee558]

Kv los yeej hlub2 kv cov ntxhais thiab lwm hnub kv cov ntxhais puas hlub kv os

[@yeeyiaduaoxiong5803]

Yog lub neej tiam no txhob cia2 rau ntej tub heev yuav tau hlub cov ntxhais thiab vim xav maim no cov tub yeej tsis tsha hlub cov laus lawm

[@msmaix808]

The guy cousin is a bad influencer. He ruined a good family and yet he have the audacity to call the daughters to cover the funeral expenses. No moral or self respect li. Smh

[@siathao4416]

I am happy you were able to voice your opinion at the end to that guy!

[@hlubyang4072]

Kwv tij kom yuav niam yau tab sis thaum tuag kwv tij tsis tha kwv tij yuav kom nej cov ntxhais tha ntag lo mas....thaum tuag ces kwv tij tsis xav poob nyiaj kwv tij yuav hais tias twb yug tau nej ib pab ntxhais ces nej yeej swb dua lawv phem npaum li no ho

[@daovang7148]

Nyiaj tshav ntuj cov kwv tij noj tag lawm nej tsis paub xwb pluag dlau lawm lawv noj lawv yus tsis pluag txhob tu siab los ua neeg ib vuag dlau xwb haiv neeg muaj haiv neeg tsim mog

[@hmoobxwb7119]

Koj txiv twb saib tsis tau pojniam cas tsis mus nrhiav txivneej los ua neej nawb...tseem mus yuav niamyau thiab...niamyau twb yog pojniam ne

[@Loves_GodSR]

May this story teach those who needs to hear it. This father disowned his daughters. Now at old age when none of his 2nd wife's children (that he had with) will take care of him, he goes back and guilt trip his children from his 1st wife that he divorced and abandoned to care for him??? Come now! Have some shame. If he didn't need you girls to take care of him, you wouldn't even exist to him. He wouldn't even call you. Good luck sister.

[@toosay200]

Why would you allow yourselves to be used at the very end? I just don't get these types of women. You have absolutely no obligation to your father, yet you're stuck having to bury him.

[@mayvue8369]

Tu txiv ntawv tab phim nawb 😄😄😄😄😄

[@zoovcibxyooj1991]

Nyob zoo os py tua koom koj thiab os py 👍👍🛎🛎

[@ScatteredYO]

Get rid of this kevcai qub. It divides family more than the new kevcai.

[@2usa87]

Koj txiv tub muab koj niam nej niam tub nrauj tu kua thiab tsi hlub nej. Tsi tsim nyog nej hlub nej txiv lawm.

[@ntxhaisvajkevlomzem7162]

Peb moob ces yeej hais qhov kom yuav niam yau xwb os yog yus tsi yug tub tu siab thiab zoo mloog kawg li..😩😢🤗

[@hlinralee9661]

Zoo kawg nkaus rau cov ntxhais uas txiv yeej saib tsis taus ces thaum kawg thiaj zoo li. U leej niam yeej yog tus sawv nraim haus u siab vim muaj nws uas qhov zoo kom sawv daws thiaj paub sib hlub.

[@pamthao3082]

Good for you about telling your uncle because of him who broke up your family

[@kaciewanh1986]

Cov kwvtij uas pheej txhawb kom yuav niamyau rhuav luag lub neej. Kom nws sau ntawv lav tseg hnub twg muaj teebmeem, tuag txog ces kom nws nres txhua yam tsis pub dim, tsis li ces nws🤐🤐🤐

[@caaspasvang7427]

Cov txiv neej coj lub siab phem li ko ces yog siab dab xwb os

[@sengyang1093]

Cov niag txiv dev siv dev npua Cai cov niag ntsej muag ruam tsab ntse lim hiam siab dev xyov yuav yog tiam twg hmoob mam hloov hmoob lub niag siab phem lim hiam no hmoob.

[@beevveil2240]

Omg kuv mas ntxub cov neeg pheej tsis hlub ntxhais. Tab sis ho hmo ntuj no ho txawj nkag mus nrog poj niam pw thiab mas. Tsis muaj ntxhais ces Nej cov txiv neej tuag tag li os

[@Leea209]

Totally understand you sister. My father denied us girls as his own, but he happily accepted the 2nd wife kids- daughters from her previous marriage as his own legally. That’s too crazy how a father could denied the truth. I guess some men are just plain Stupid! At the end we disowned daughters gave him a beautiful funeral. The other half don’t even care. The money after the funeral I got $20. lol… it’s okay is all about the love and blessing. Money will disappear. The blessings will remain forever. God bless!

[@vajxeemtsab]

Hais tau zoo heev li os

[@hmoobmekas2567]

Nej ces dev siab xwb tseem sov cov phem Liam ntawv kuv ces ciaj tuag lis yeej tsis khes li lawv yuav zoo li cas los lawv teeb meem kuv yog niam yau mas kuv foob kom nej tuag txhuas tys twb tsis yog koj niam mag xwb vim nej siab dev

[@xiavue8364]

Ua cas seem yuav mus Pam ib tug neeg pov tseg nas los

[@ScatteredYO]

The OG will be OG. BUT!!! If one woman doesn't do this to another woman, this will be taken care of. When a woman knowingly does this to another woman, she does it to herself. However, men of this type are considered unfit, unloving, uncaring, evil, men are really controlled, overly self-centered, narrow-minded. Such men deserve to be treated badly later on. You girls shouldn't have even buried him. Let him rot out in the open. This Niam Yau is very evil herself. Wow, talking about evil. She does this to her own gender. She doesn't love, cares, or respect her own gender.

[@tengher2889]

Why is it that when old hmong men of this type are old and sick always trying to apologize and ask for forgiveness and talk about giving blessings. Chump dad's like this should never ask for help when their helpless. When you leave your kids, don't come looking for them ok. Now where's your family that told you to leave your wife and kids. Where are they now. Get them to come take care of you. Don't depend on your kids you left behind. He doesn't deserve their love. This has nothing to do with forgiveness because he did this to himself. Enough said!!!

[@hmoobxwb7119]

Cov txiv neej saib tsis tau pojniam cas twb xav2 tau pojniam lub povhaum noj tsis tau ibtug txivneej tus khwv ne

[@tongher8912]

Yog nej xwb. Yog kuv ces kuv yuav npuaj tes rau cov txiv dev ua cob nej txiv yuav niam yau kom ntiaj teb paub tias ntxhais muaj nqe npaum cas. Siaj....

[@User-h6t6s]

My mom have us a lot of girl with no big my dad blame my mom for not having boy and married a second wife. At the end my mom have couple boy. Now at ok’d she. My mom children love him and my mom more. His second children care less about him. Especially their son. Their daughter are divorced, cheating on their husband tib pab liam2 xwb. Vim muab hlub dhau lawm es muaj2 phlu.

[@maitongvue5397]

Ib tug txiv twg es pheej tsis hlub ntxhais ces tus txiv ntawv tsis txwm pua lawv tej zaum nws yog cov txiv dev guest xwb os lawv

[@hmoobqabteb7943]

Phak dat, I'd make niam yau kids pay majority of the funeral.

[@Abkid02]

Living in America with old county mentality. No working yerrr

[@pebtsevxeemthoj3391]

Cov niag txiv neej hmoob mas thaum tseem ua taus txiv dev mas muab cov niam thiab tej mesnyuam mus tso pov tseg tag. Thaum ua tsi tau noj es tsi muaj neeg tu thiab tsi muaj chaws tuag mam yus mam rov dev leg los tuag rau tej ntxhais thiab tej tub xwb.

[@flryprn745]

This is a GOOD lesson for all hmoob. Degrading women is a SiN!! We R all born equal!! Example: We have a cousin only hav 2daughters, they force him to marry 2nd wife, had 2sons n now both sons R married to Mexican gurls! How good is that?? The sons don’t even speak/understand hmoob n definitely hav no clue about hmoob culture bcuz they were born in the states. This hmoob rule doesn’t seem to work in the states anymore!! The hmoob culture need modernizing!! In our family, we treat daughters equal like a son so during funerals, both sons n daughters split equal amount for funeral!

[@pkcyang2910]

No one can force a man to married niam yau. It's his choice, he didn't love his wife.

[@monkeybanana9269]

@@pkcyang2910 : Very true. If someone doesn't want to do evil, no matter what or who says, they wouldn't do it regardless. Those that do, their heart is already wicked to begin with.

[@ktsuyaj]

Kajtsi hu kwvtij pam xwb. Tsis k li vim saib ntxhais tsis rau nqi!

[@huhahhh3285]

Nej niag niam yau kov yeej yuav tuag ib hnub thiab ma lwm hnub tso nqs caij tuag nej txhob pam nawb nws siab pheem dhau lawm nws cov tub los yog noob liam ntxhaw nyian dhau lawm tub dev vwm xwb os

[@xuethao3108]

Ruam li koj txiv cia tuag liab qab ib niag txiv tsim nej xwb cov niag txiv dev liam ces ib txwm poob qab nej cov ntxhais tsis tas quav ntsej quav ntswg hlo li os

[@pakulee3126]

This story makes my blood boil.

[@payongvue9130]

Why, after all the stuff that this old man did, does he feel so entitled to come back and live with his daughters? No thanks.

[@hlubyang4072]

Pab nej cov ntxhais tu siab leej txiv muab nej nrauj pov tseg tag thaum kawg kwv tij tsis tha tseem yuam kom nej tha thiab cov kwv tij no yog aub xwb tsis yog neeg yug...yog neeg yug no paub txaj muag rau koj niam tej neej tsa....yog nej cov txiv hlub nej xwb nawb yog lawv tsis hlub nej ces cov neej tsa no lawv tsis pab nej li os...nej tuaj txog lo lawv yeej hais tias lawv yeej nrauj nej tag nrog niam lawm lawv tsis thaj tsob nej xwb

[@bliaxiong9563]

Cov txiv neej hmoob uas saib tsis tau cov ntxhais zoo lis no mas uas rau kuv ntshav siab.

[@nengthao8318]

Npua tshom rau dev huas ces yog li nej tiag. Cas koj txiv cov tub lim hiam ua luaj li? Cov txiv neej hmoob yuav niam yau tsis hlub niam loj cov me nyuam ib qho li ces tuag niam loj cov me nyuam tsis txhob pam lawm. Cia rau niam you cov me nyuam mam pam xwb. Pam tau li cas yuav li ntawd xwb cov txiv dev laus no tsis sawm zoo na.

[@yingvang1276]

Your father is playing the guilt trip.

[@tophatmellon5739]

Hahaha, where is his dame good SON'S!

[@paweenahanwachira9883]

siab phem li kom nej tsw ntsej los tsw npam nej li. twb ntshaw2 kom cov tub kwv lub taub hau thaum tuag rau hauv qhov thiaj phov2 tub tas npaum kom tseem mus tas ib pob ib thooj rau thiab

[@kaciewanh1986]

Vidncaus, peb txiv kuj yuav 2 tug niamyau los yug tub, tabsis thaum tuag yog peb thas nws xwb. cov tub tias lawv tsis muaj nyiaj li.

[@jiaxiong8991]

Omg all these gender roles are always a problem. Just because you don’t have sons doesn’t mean you should marry a second or they’re wife! Most daughters love their parents more than the sons anyway, the sons get controlled by their wives by moving out of the home. Your father is obnoxious! Bringing his brats over to you girls to babysit. If I were you I wouldn’t care.

[@chongly8351]

Ua cas tsis file restraining order rau koj txiv thiab niam yau na kom nws txhob tuaj thab tau nej.

[@gaosayvu6554]

Hmoob ces yeej ib txwm xam cov tub xwb yog niam hlob tsis muaj tub ces 95 % yeej yuav niam yau xwb os

[@kaibvwj5999]

Tus Txivdev liam xwb coj linov nas

[@hlubyang4072]

Nej tsis tha nej txiv lo yeej tsis npam vim nws yeej nrauj nej tu tu lawm...kwv tij tsis tha ces tsum xwb dab qhuas kev cai yog kwv tij puas tsuaj ib tog lo tsis txoj nej cov ntxhais vim nej yog nej tu txiv neeg nej tsis yog neej tsa neeg...tim ntsej tim muag neej tsa lam ua nej tsaug tab sis tom pob tw lawv yeej hais tias pab niag ntxhais ruam...

[@pkcyang2910]

Yep, pab niag ntxhias no yeej ruam tiag2 thiaj lav pam txiv aub

[@geyang2562]

@@pkcyang2910 My thought exactly, why would they (the daughters) still feel obligated to take care of that evil deadbeat dad’s funeral anyway? Don’t they realized that when he divorced their mother and left them, that’s it?

[@touyang3403]

Zoo li cov ntseeg tswv zam tau txim no sav?

[@nkaujsuamuas4822]

zoo heev li o

[@hlubyang4072]

Kuv ntseeg tias tus neeg no tsis yog txiv tsev tab sis yog txiv aub ruam. Nws yog 1 tug neeg uas tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws, neeg lwj neeg liam, siab phem lim hiam....! Tus neeg no nws yuav tuag li tus aub tuag...!

[@maylee9765]

Hmong men in this world will not change its very sad Hmong nes Hmong os smh we Hmong kids are getting super book smart but some still follow the old traditional

[@Abkid02]

So the vauv help paid for the funeral is not Hmong men changing or is it normal for that to happen?

[@maylee9765]

@@Abkid02 hi I don’t kno much about Hmong but the Hmong men have no respect for our Hmong ladies that will never change we have soft heart so we do wat ever our men like but never satisfied that’s all I’m saying :)

[@jeanpaul2317]

Ua neej nyob ces siab phem lis peb hmoob ces 100 % feem zoo lis tu kwv tij hmoob no tau ntxhais ces xav tau tub xwb kos yog siab pheem. ua neeg nyob tsis txhov ua tus siab phem lis tu kwv tij no 😂😂😂😂 america hais yog karma news. Siab phem lis ntawm cia nws tuag nws mus os ....ua siab os mog cov me niam tai tsis npam lis os ...

[@misstaytay9694]

The relatives suck for pushing the dad to make that decision to cheat. Good for her for calling him out. Instant karma for the dad for listening to them. Glad she was able to care for her mom. Hopefully Hmong men keep moving forward and not stay in this backwards way of thinking that daughters have no value.

[@maitongvue5397]

Ib leej txiv dev siab phem2 li ntawv cas nej tseem zov nkawv cov tub xyob txhiaj ntawv thiab mas kav tsij hlub2 koj niam xwb ho koj txiv ces xam tias tuag lawm no xwb mas lo

[@hlubyang4072]

Ib leej txiv phem li ko nej txawm zov loj lo yeej yuav txw kom tsis hlub nej

[@zoolisxyooj8251]

Hmong just talking about money

[@xuexiong4431]

Sister, kuv twb Yog 1 tug ntawm 6 tus ntxhais thiab os. I feel your pain.

[@myself.kuvxwb8406]

So proud of you. For your father, he had a devil whispering in his ear called kwstij. He should be cut up and fed to his kwstij's family to eat. So sorry. The injustice is too much! But you and your sisters did well by your mother and father. Money can be made, and your lives will be fruitefull because of your kindness. The problem with children coming to deadbeat parent's rescue is that it perpetuates their bad atitude and behaviors. Asian parents leave their kids and are fine with the idea because they know in their last moment of life the kids will still be there no matter the hurt they inflicted upon those kids. Maybe, it is time to let the deadbeat father or mother leave this earth all by themselves so that deadbeat parents will learn. Just a thought. The abondonment of children is not limited to only men.

[@bchang227]

These types of stories just pisses me off to no ends. I wouldn't have given a single penny for s sperm donor. Cov niag kwvtij dev liam no ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws! Txws txws txws yus txiv mus yuav niam yau thaum kawg nyias nrhiav nyias kev khiav! Tab txawm yog yus txov kiag los nej cov niag kwvtij dev twb Cia Cia siab rau cov niag tub dev nev? Ua cas tsis khoos kom tau cov niag tub dev coj mus ua lub ntees? Ua cas tseem muaj phlus rov qab los hais cov ntxhais? Nej twb hais tias ntxhais xwb, nej tsis thab thab txog no ne? If it was me, Cia mekas coj mus hlawv losis faus lawv.

[@pkcyang2910]

Cov ntxhais no ruam tshaj plaws. Ntshe lawv xav tias lawv tha kom cov kwvtij poob ntsejmuag tabsis ruam tshaj plaws

[@likely89appleJuice]

That's what he get for listening to his damn kws tij that told him to get a niam yau. So glad you called that kws tij's ass out on it.

[@lovetoplaywithyou3530]

I hope that you guys don’t deal with the niam yau.

[@yisong4259]

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[@DinaMeYoung4797]

Wow koj txiv mas ruam tshaj plaws es tseem ntseeg cov niag kwv tij dev lau, hos koj niag niam yau los tseem tseem ib niag niam nkauj kub kaw ua cas koj txiv twb Hlub Hlub koj niag niam nkauj kub kaws es thaum kawg ho tsis tau chaw nyob

[@mouavang3371]

Sister, I'm so proud of you and your sisters for all the things that you did for your dad and including all your husband's too. Hope your story will inspire and a lesson learned to us listeners

[@nkaujseelee4905]

Man like this old man don’t deserve anything from the girls…

[@lotusvert7024]

Tos peb cov niam tsev tim america pheej zamzam txim rau cov niag txiv dev no los nej tsis muaj peev xwm nyob tu thiab khwv ib puas tsav yam los rau nej tej metub menyuam noj hnav es nej thiaj pheej uv. Kuv hais rau phaum laus xwb nawb.

[@mailee64]

Yuav tsum muab cov nyiaj tshav ntuj rau cov ntxhais nawj

[@maivlaujchannel]

Zoo kawg li o