Kev Phem Dhau Kev Zoo Mam Los.12/24/21

[@pajthao4813]

So sad txoj kev niam txiv sib nrauj tu siab rau tej me nyuam uas tsis muaj kev txhaum

[@Susan79pojhmoob]

To the Txiv Tsev of the story : Working long hours traveling a lot can end up hurting your marriage, that's the truth. Work/life is hard to achieve choosing one over the other can lead to relationship stress. But that doesn't give her the right to cheat. Now she's a mess I'm sure she regret it. Well I'm glad your daughter is doing better now. Kids are first priority in our lives.

[@kongmengsuavllee8387]

Yog lawm. Yeej muaj tseeb li koj hais kawg , tus phem yeej tsis yeej tus zoo. kuv kuj muaj ib lub neej li koj thiab ,. Ua tsaug koj zaj lub cob qhia hais los saum toj no yeej mob kawg li.

[@mosvaj1385]

Qhuas koj qhov koj ua taus txiv pab tau koj cov minyuam lawm. 👍

[@chawmua5837]

Tos mloo txhua sij hawm

[@rickythao2834]

Brother, you did the right thing, I completely support.

[@niamtsevxeemlaujlauj5003]

😭😭 Poor baby girl. What an evil man and horrible mother. 🤬🤬🤬

[@diayang8949]

Vajtswv yeej txiav txim ncaj kawg li os. Amen

[@MrsYaj-ei2io]

Your ex wife is just a cheater. A cheater will alway be a cheater. Will find every excuse to cheat. Our hmoob brother need to know their right to fight for their children. Don’t give up. There will always be a way to have custody of your children. A lot of time out Hmong brothers give up too easily.

[@layingthesmackdown6160]

unless there’s prove that the mother is unfit, men will never win in a custody battle……

[@nengxiong6991]

Thank you for sharing your story to us brother , i have seen a lot hmong family have the same as your story , your story will help us a lot for some couple have a plane to cheating and not to do it .

[@sengsyvang8285]

Tej laus yeej hais tias ntuj nyob qis2...yuav tau ua neeg ncaj ncee thiaj tsis npam. Saib tsis tau nws txiv tab meeg mus tham lwm Kev npam thiaj rov los raug nws kom nws zoo li cas. Thov hais tus txiv tsev ntawd yog yus ua zoo lawm Vajtswv yuav rub yus tes tsis puas tuaj mog.

[@maivlaujchannel]

Kj tam tau zoo moo heev o

[@lemlem6608]

I’m so happy your daughter is doing better now.

[@Pokehmongz]

Who else gets depressed when they listen to may vang lol

[@nyajloojyaj600]

Wow..that's very sad....been there and done that....

[@waatchdogs6184]

What kind of mom would not want their kids to go to college because she don't want to pay child support wow that's just sad

[@hmoob-usalauj3934]

Brother, it's not just the husband suffering. We women suffer from the husband cheating and bad treatment, too. It's a two wat street. The new father or morher will mistreat the kids in different ways. The only difference is that in this country the mother has more rights over the father. Having an affair destroy family and the children ate caught in the middle.

[@myprecious6751]

GM folks. It's Christmas eve. That time of year where folks give gifts to each other's. Most importantly just spending time with family. Stay safe and Merry Christmas.

[@maivang3247]

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[@meexb6368]

Christmas is about the birth of our Lord Jesus.

[@ahuamobil2158]

Niam ntsuab teev Yuav xa li ca thiaj txog kJ kv Xavi kom kJ hai Ib xauj rau kv

[@neejkhuamsiabkwm8044]

Txoj kev ua neej ua neeg thaum nyob ua tsis zoo lawn zam cias nyias mus nyiaj hais rau coj poj niam txhob xav tias yus txoj cais loj ces yus yuav ua kom tus txiv tsis muaj lub neej ua tag team no txom nom tswv tsis pab tus txiv los nco nroov tias muaj lub ntuj yuav txiav rau tus neeg siab zoo nawb mog ib me poj niam ua tseem yuav npaj ua lub siab Tom no thov tso tseg mog.

[@patervang1682]

ua cas neeg nyob teb chaws mekas teb no tseem muaj ib cov txiv neej ruam npaum li thiab mas yog muaj cov txiv neej rua npaum no tiag thov huv rau kuv pab lub tswv yeem tau

[@nkaujhnubvajchannel776]

Xav thov kev pab ntawm nej sawv daw o leej twg khoom ce tuaj pab caum kuv thiab o kuv yog ib tug ntxhai hmoob nyob nlog teb o

[@pkcyang2910]

Txojkev ib tug mus nyob ib qhov ces yog ib qhov temptation loj heev. Ib tug tsis ua los ib tug yeej yuav ua.

[@nengvang430]

Poj niam tsis sawm zoo...siab phem ntxeev siab...

[@thaevang5369]

Kwv tij koj puas kam tuaj update txog qhov xais ceeb lub ntsis rau lub paus pub rau peb tau kawm mus pab peb tsev neeg thiab.

[@itsmaichee]

Omg poor girl!!! 😭😭😭

[@anasiangirly]

As a hmong man, this story gives me high blood pressure and high anxiety, it makes me feel like I never want to get married to a hmong woman. But thank you for sharing

[@leefamily6061]

Don't be discouraged by 1 Hmong woman cheating story. There are cheaters in every race. This woman is just unfaithful and there are good, faithful Hmong women out there too. Cheaters will always find a way to cheat

[@XMML33]

You can get marry to a Hmong woman, just dont work in a different city and leave your wife alone by herself every night. Bad things can happens.

[@leefamily6061]

@@XMML33 cheater will find a way to cheat regardless. Husband and wife works same city but different shift and they still cheat. It's the person in my opinion 🤷

[@tengher2889]

Buddy, it's not only hmong women... It's every women that's want to hurt you or ruin your life. It's up to a woman to decide if she want to love you or another. A woman is never yours even if married. She's only there with you until she decides to stay or go. If she goes and think the grass is greener on the other side then life is hell. If she stays a value her marriage with you then love her the way you would want to be loved. Bottom line, relationship are toxic is because one person want out or isn't happy. It takes to to tango and two to ruin a relationship. Sorry but it's the truth. It has nothing to do with a hmong woman.

[@hlubyang4072]

Thaub tsis ntev ces pog rov qab lo thawj koj dua xwb os....

[@kevkawmkevpaub6189]

Don't focus on your wife and try to convince her to come back to you when she is cheating on you. Instead, learn as much as you can about your rights and responsibilities. Spend nights and days in the libraries and read law books if you have to. This way you can take the stand and fight for your rights in court. Remember, there is no legal system. The legal system is just a game. If you know how to play the game, you will win. I won from state court all the way to the federal court, and this was what I did.

[@lisvaj7375]

Brother, I had a job that required me to work and travel, after one year I quit. It takes a toll on your personal life. There is no balance to work and life for those kind of jobs. As we get older it’s not about money but doing something we enjoy, and take less of our time.

[@159nightangel]

Restraining order!!!

[@ylauj3523]

Your spouse an her family is your worst enemy

[@yinglor8962]

Sib nrauj tsis yog qho yooj yim kiag nawb cov phooj ywg..leej twg raug thiaj paub os..kev mob..kev chim..kev khib..kev ntxub..kev tu siab nyob tag nrho hauv yus lub hlwb kawg poob phaus xwb xwb li nawb thaum 1 xyoos rov hauv

[@simonyang775]

A person that is willing to have a affair with a married woman or man is a no good person. Always remember that!

[@pajlugtswb5341]

You are the best Dad

[@paweenahanwachira9883]

tug poj niam kom liam dhau lawm tsw yuav los zoo lawm

[@hwmxaibhwmxaasphaaslis8020]

Ub lo lo sim neej nuav cov qos puj Moob tuaj nyob tsooj teb nuav phem tag tag le phem ti txhaa nkaus xaav ua kuam tug qos yawg mas tuag kiag taab sis tej laug yeej tau has tas tug phem yeej swb tug zoo qho zoo yeej yeej qhov phem tes yog zoo le tug txiv tsev zaaj keeb puam nuav tag, noog yeej meem txom kawg le hab kuas thaum kawg txaus sab kawg lawm hab paab qhuas tug txiv tsev nuav kawg.

[@pajrosedawb8047]

Child support is not based on custody. It’s based on parenting time. You only have every other weekend so your child support will be high. If you have equal parenting time, child support will be minimal or nothing.

[@noumoua2954]

👍👍👍

[@kayeng1978]

Pab koj zoo siab tias tseem no koj yog ib tug txiv zoo heev xav khawv kev kho los ntawm tug txiv tsev no es koj puas kam muaj koj tug xov tooj rau kuv

[@jahia9895]

once a cheater, your feeling all disappear... ask for help early on.

[@maylovang1880]

Tsis ntej no ces nws rov qab l I s thawj nej cov txiv tub lawm xwb los mas, koj mas muaj tus poj niam tshiab lawm ces tsis koj tsis yuav nws lawm tab sis koj cov me nyuam ces thaum kawg yeej tau khaws leej niam xwb osnawb.

[@meexb6368]

Tug txiv tsev, kuv xav kawm koj txog xais ceeb thiab es puas muaj ib txoj hauv kev tiv toj tau koj qhia rau kuv tau kawm.

[@somman9639]

Ua cas hmoob mes kas mas tsuas yog thawj poj niam xwb ntshai poj niam tas lub neej li xwb lwm teb chaws mas poj niam thawj tus txiv xwb tsis yuav cais nrauj kiag xwb txiv neej tsis lam guaj poj nian tes li nrauj cais faib me nyuam kiag los yog tso nruab nrab ais ob leeg sib pab saib xyuas xwb nrog leej twg nyob los tau

[@XMML33]

Brother, if I were your parents or one of your close relatives. I would advised you to not take the long distance job. Working in a different city and leave your wife alone with the kids by herself. Things like this are bond to happened. Most women need a man by their side every night. They need comfort, security and love. Always be by their side as much as possible. Some women are just easily persuade. Although I feel sorry for what happened to your daughter. I’m glad to hear she’s recovering.

[@hl6615]

What a damn woman? She should have settled less with you. You better off without this woman. It seems like you are not a strong father too

[@ntujntshiab8667]

15 xyoos los 15 hunb ?

[@yuxianlee2864]

So sad

[@cbbd247]

You know you can sue the maum dev for bodily farm, I woud sue the maum dev for that siat

[@menkaujntsesmenraugnoog6718]

Where are uou?? We missed your stories

[@hmongtoyota1]

El cheater pretty soon cow going to lost their life for calling your soul bagging to remarried you again and she won’t cheat any more

[@kellielee9829]

I’m not understanding how you don’t have any rights to your own children??? The only reason why you would lose your rights is if you’re abusing them. If you fight for them. Some key information is missing from this story. No matter what she can’t just take the kids if you don’t agree you can claim kidnapping.

[@bluewhisper5008]

Back in the the 1990-2000 men had no rights. It was very unfair for all the men who actually wants to be in the children's lives. I know because I was a mediator and translator for families like this. The law is much better now.

[@kellielee9829]

@@bluewhisper5008 it’s so sad how some women can just lie and get their way with the law. There are some men that actually wants to be involved with their children. Not all of them are bad like how not all women are bad too.

[@bluewhisper5008]

@@kellielee9829 i know. Many women use their children as a weapon to hurt the father from making him pay child support but refuses to let them see these kids, and lie to the kids so they would hate their father allnthe while he's trying so hard just to be able to see their kids. And the kids are the ones who hurt the most in these situations. I feel so bad for these children.

[@misspa8590]

Sb phem li kj nws thj ntseem sb rau kj ntag kj los yv mu g txog twg o thaub laus ca kj g tsam muag li tseem kab muab los tham ua dab neeg thb kv pab kj tsam muag ohhoho

[@ibobpebplaub9354]

Koj yog thaub niag pojniam siab phem ntawv pob...nws tsis yuav koj lawm os, kav tsij mus ua niam dev ntxiv xwb mas

[@bliaxiong9563]

Bad mother