Anna Clendening - Bare Minimum [Official Video]

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Lyrics:
Don’t even kiss anymore, just say “I love you” cause you think you're supposed to
You're always coming up short, and you got every excuse now don't you
Do you even listen when I speak
Cause I've been telling you just what I need
A little more conversation, a little communication
Why is that so hard to see
You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum
All you're giving me
Nothing but silence, I’m always trying
I thought you wanted this what happened, you're never there
I used to think you cared, but you've given up
You're giving me the bare, bare minimum
You think I ask for too much, don't want the world I just want you to want me
How come you're so out of touch? We share a bed but I'm still feeling lonely
Do you even listen when I speak
Cause I've been telling you just what I need
A little more conversation, a little communication
Why is that so hard to see
You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum
All you're giving me
Nothing but silence, I’m always trying
I thought you wanted this what happened, you're never there
I used to think you cared, but you've given up
You're giving me the bare, bare minimum
(You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare, bare minimum
All you giving me is the bare, bare, bare, bare, bare minimum
All your giving me is the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum
All your giving me is the bare, bare, bare minimum)
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[@theunicornsin1144]

I don’t know how men can decide to pursue you, giving you promises and convince you that they’re worth your time and love but end up treating you this way...

[@jameshusentoff2953]

Cause the woman want the perfect chads and don’t give nice guys a chance

[@blazingbreeze7427]

@@jameshusentoff2953 I gave the nice guy a chance. He turned into this after he broke my heart and went for another girl and then my cousin and then all my "friends".. then I took him back because he wanted me back and was sorry for everything he did...then 1 1/2 years later he's distant and then gone again

[@lizmagixmusic]

Mood

[@lizmagixmusic]

@@jameshusentoff2953 "nice" doesn't mean kind. My ex guy was "nice" but gave me worse than bare minimum

[@jameshusentoff2953]

@@lizmagixmusic I’ve been used for free meals more than I can count. Now my first date consist of coffee or a walk around town. Some woman get upset but that date idea though.

[@mandafayeee4234]

This is less than the bare minimum. I know this heartache. When you’re like roommates and just exist because it’s easier than making an effort or starting new. Took me finding someone who loves me how I deserve to show me that the bare minimum is still more than this. ❤

[@2131singer]

my eye caught your comment becuz my name is Amanda Lee technically 😁💕and I'm glad You got the vision of what You were dealing with....so strong that You kept climbing out of it when I know how depleted You were I battled 2Nice people simultaneously I called Narcissists nice people in casual conversations so I was more protected becuz I had read and learned through my researching of the topic before it all became more mainstream in the mental health world and general population of daily verbage spoken....it said that they could not know and if they found out I would be even more toasted than the burnt piece of trash I felt like as I faded and became so jaded pieces of my memory were leaving me and EMDR saved my hippocampus from striking vegetative like state .....but it takes miracles to see and get to the place of knowledge and getting out is a Godly divinity of happenings of the right people the right experts etc. so that is why I started out with a happy You saw what You needed to see and that You are worth more than nothingness You were made to feel and dig out of kind of deal it's awful beyond idk either why or how in the raw bons of a person acting like that to another on purpose and everything just shew anywho I in one of my before the nice people attacking worst pain of my life and felt like trumping hell for sure when I got out so yeah so strong and beautiful we are and then reaching out to help others become thrivers is proof of that heart inside we have that is most beautiful so full of Love despite wreckage and destructive happenings light in the dark hands in the waves taking us under the life boat the coast guard the angel the missing piece of our puzzled pieces making the picture reveal itself so we all can have the love from within ourselves the knowledge to get out the strength to find the will to keep on no matter how much pain and tired we feel and struggle with hope I mean I also learned that maybe each of our abusers who rewired our fragile brains and shredded our hearts was or is different but the victims are the same in how they are broken down in their body make up from emotional to physical that could be why our stories each little something we see from another amazing soul who is hanging on fighting the roughage making a way sharing their story brave so very brave maybe that's why we relate and reply I have been at this for many years now and that's what I see so it reiterates what experts and life coaches shared in info from the get go .....but I during another domestic violence relationship saw how bad things were for me when I was able to catch a glimpse from the outside looking in ...taking the view from let's say extremely loving friends Unconditional and true and saw how they saw me and how beyond sickened they would have been had they seen me at home where I lived with this person for a bit and that's how I caught the real of what was not acceptable at all but I had been coping and dealing with and hiding from work and just so sad but good too.....and prayers I stopped and said share with these people the way to get out and for those out keep us on the go .....meaning going forward none the less of my jumbled possibly words here simply my heart speak no edit just felt seen in my mind and typed I hope You are finding your way to being health happy loved by Yourself and able to Love on a grander scale becuz You allow only the best inside Your World keeping boundaries and staying true to what You know You deserve the best and then some and Thank You for sharing 😊🥰much love please stay safe and keep on keeping on peace out for now

[@amyeethomas2495]

😢

[@emmatarr3454]

this is me...

[@Jellybean_93]

Same

[@crystalgallegos4536]

Ditto!❤happy you found someone.

[@jonelafilms]

8 years and I had to end it. The most important part of 'communication' is actually comprehension. No matter how much I communicated I was never understood and he was a man of many empty promises.

[@baijeravlogsjeramyjuntado]

True

[@jasminelebel6960]

My nine years

[@emilygriffith6702]

This ^ people say it takes two to argue but it also takes two to communicate

[@Piipii16]

Good Job girl! I hope your happy now again. ❤

[@AmberPerchez]

@@baijeravlogsjeramyjuntado our 14 year marriage ended a few days ago. He doesn’t love me anymore, I knew it but he kept saying he did after telling me he didn’t when we fought.

[@kirkmillerBO84]

Any guy that treats his girl like this don't deserve her.

[@Blackcoffeeplaylists]

“Do you even listen when I speak” Part hits deep. Not for dating but for the relationship with my mom.

[@katelyntaylor1407]

FELT!!

[@Blackcoffeeplaylists]

@@katelyntaylor1407 fr 💀 I told her something and she goes, do you love me anymore. I just sat there and was like. 😃

[@artisticannaalexson1772]

I remember when she was just making videos talking about her mental health and wanting to make music and to see her now being as big as she is as an artist is just awesome she deserves it

[@BismillahirRahmanirRaheemB]

If you feel like this…..know it’s time to leave.

[@emmatarr3454]

how..

[@ashleys7943]

I am...

[@loveobviously]

This is how I feel right now . Ugh, this song is such a vibe

[@sanaaselby4403]

I hope you get out of that situation or find someone who gives you 100 times more than the bare minimum

[@chibiSORAchibiL]

Feeling like this also

[@nyalltimothy]

:)

[@jasperlucasscottkendall2115]

I just showed my sister this girl.. she's in an abusive relationship and I'm trying to help her out through music bc music had always been there n now I make music n ik it means about to her I hope it does

[@zombioric5890]

👏DUMP👏HIS👏ASS👏

[@UsernameTabyCat]

When you’re too comfortable in a relationship with someone even a friendship or whatnot that you stop pursuing the other person. The drive is lost and you fall out of love very very very quickly.

[@theunknown5686]

it gets aggravating when some one acts like it's a burden to give the BARE MINIMUM. I've listened to this song repeatedly for like 2 weeks now on loop. I remember I started listening to your songs when i was 14. I'm 21 now they continue to be the most relatable songs.

[@jodie1831]

Im 30 and still have this song on repeat !

[@hillarieoss1667]

It’s been 5 years living like this…..At first I blamed our move. Our lives are better than ever as for our children and careers….But we have simply became room Mates. I have tried and tried to talk to him….I have spent 12 years with him. And not a single one has been easy. I can’t believe he got all my 20’s and is working into my 30’s….I just know this can’t be the rest of my life

[@BlueJeepJay]

I feel the same way and it hurts so much

[@BajaRosie]

LEAVE!!! find ur person, lifes too short to be unhappy!!!

[@Ninibaby1]

Leave ma’am.

[@yeahno.2698]

This hurt to read for you and because I am so scared of this and terrified that it's what we are slowly becoming

[@haliecomo]

As someone who's been in this situation, but add to it every form of abuse, it never gets better, only worse!! Dont stay for your kids, they may not like it at first, but when they see you happy again, it's 1000% worth it!! YOLO!!!

[@SKEILLLL]

Less than bare minimum. You have to resuscitate the relationship every time and give them love while they don’t have to return anything. Let you not do 1 thing they want and all hell breaks loose. I know this feeling unfortunately

[@pinkladybugbug3273]

Like walking in egg shells then when you call them out on it they act like you are over reacting and need medication. Yup this single life is nice now.

[@EverythingxBeautiful]

Yup

[@Loveispatient_2024]

The single life is the most happy life.. im married for 1.5 years and my single days were way way more happy than this hell ​@@pinkladybugbug3273

[@PhantomTreasure]

When you just want the one person you love to love you

[@SPQRTejano]

That is unrealistic. it would be like me getting upset that Carolina Bang doesn't love me.

[@thatbtch5857]

​​@@SPQRTejano are you in a relationship with Carolina Bang? No? Then sit down, that isn't comparable.

[@DeadMelody]

@@SPQRTejano true, being in a relationship is the exact same as crushing over a celebrity 100%

[@TrustNobody89]

😒😔

[@katelyntaylor1407]

“We share a bed ,but i still feel lonely .” Damn 🖤

[@neelyohara8317]

Everything she's doing in this music video, I've been there. So I really felt that and this could occur for many reasons, many narcissistic partners will treat you this way, it's emotional abuse. They could also be experiencing some mental health issues of their own like depression and choosing not to open up about it. When you're on the receiving end though it feels extremely hurtful and invalidating.

[@kimberlywinkler6906]

Definitely can relate

[@melissavigilgatti4371]

😢

[@Jennifer0187]

Damn this pretty much sums up my marriage... I call it getting bread crumbs though, cuz damn I'd think it was my lucky day if I ever got just the bare minimum, at the very least.

[@taylorarmour5509]

This is exactly how I feel right now with the relationship I'm in at this moment

[@annaclendening]

I love you! 💕

[@taylorarmour5509]

@@annaclendening I love you and your music 🖤

[@SPQRTejano]

Have you worked towards improving yourself?

[@ayshrsaleh5381]

Same here

[@taylorarmour5509]

@@SPQRTejano Yes day by day but sometimes inner demons come into play in my mind and those are harder days but the answer is yes I have. Thanks for asking. Some times you have to take two steps forward to take one step back to realize when reality all sets in you have to move forward to move on that's life in general.

[@Regal1]

And the minute you find someone who gives you everything you deserve, they can't STAND it

[@meredithfisk1910]

Love yourself the most and if someone doesn’t complete you then show them the door

[@tinzzz7]

if someone in your life is like this... make them your ex, and go onto the NEXT. the thought I had after the video ended, was that I wouldn't have stayed. I would've left. if they don't appreciate you, when the going gets tough; they don't deserve you, when it gets good.

[@Tinyprincessss]

Past 4 years of this for me. Still stuck in it… can’t leave. Don’t have a car, job, or money… and they only do something for you when they think they can get that one thing from you

[@lotoyadavis]

Yes, you can leave,. I did even feeling like I couldn't. Trust me, its worth it.

[@ariyarobertson1378]

It’s scary sorry other people go through this to 😔

[@user-um9wf6gv2u]

If my man genuinely brushes off my cuddles and turns away DATS A WRAP!!!

[@drake1763]

My ex didn’t see me for 7+ months… always excuses why she “couldn’t”. Then always talked about “you don’t love me” when i begged constantly for time, connection, affection, to be missed, to be loved.

[@brysonregister9096]

Men go through it too! Women can be assholes too! Maybe even more so then men!

[@jamiehale3984]

Whoa….. going through that right now…. Why can’t he just admit it

[@christinamarynicolemusic]

Anna writes alot about all the different types of trouble/problems in her relationships and I can relate.

[@TammyAnderson-n7l]

Too many times I’ve been surviving trauma trying so hard to break the chains of generational curses forget love

[@dazedconfused2998]

My husband gives me less then the bare minimum. I'm pregnant. I feel like I'm breaking inside. 😢 So many of your songs I feel a connection to.

[@tinzzz7]

you deserve the world. always remember that. if he's not giving you that, there's someone else more than willing to. know your worth

[@vlr7368]

Please try to leave for a better life. You deserve better. You and your baby deserve the world.

[@thecat174]

Have you tried talking through your problems?

[@iangoodberlet3886]

Love languages🙏🏽

[@Toni-MarieGeddesLozeau-br1ib]

@dazedandconfused2998 find it for yourself and stop relying on him to love you. You'll feel a lot better trust me.

[@toruthegreat6473]

A song that tells a tale of my life for past 10 yesrs

[@Scarrgh]

For 10 years have either one of you tried to fix it?

[@zombioric5890]

👏DUMP👏HIS👏ASS👏

[@Tess.of.all.trades]

Feel like this was literally written straight out of my thoughts when I was with my ex. Wow 💯

[@YoitsSarahx]

They give you everything when they want you but once they have you? You get bare minimum

[@stuff1784]

EXACTLY

[@elsadeshmukh97]

I can feel the same heartache right now in me so bad, it feels like killing so hard inside. It's like a sharp knife wounds

[@ParadoxDemon]

You can communicate all you want but comprehension is what you need. 😕

[@EverythingxBeautiful]

This

[@tianarussin7374]

Some how i found a song to describe the past 2 years of my life perfectly

[@Tinyprincessss]

Past 4 of mine

[@Bean126]

thank you! my relationship in 2019 needed this song but with the healed 2022 mindset i have now ❤❤

[@jennifermichaels6481]

I am thinking the same thing for myself.

[@samacetra]

I just discovered this lovely lady and man, this is exactly what I’ve been going through every night. It’s the loneliest feeling and in my situation I can’t just walk away. It causes anxiety attacks and bad depression, so I really hope those that can get help to know their value, get it. The rest of us aren’t counted out, it’s just a harder road to self-love and freedom, but it will happen. I hope. ❤

[@getoffmyaccountmichelle]

Hi hun are things getting better?

[@leilaearl]

Stay Strong❤

[@getoffmyaccountmichelle]

@@leilaearl hi

[@walkinginhopedoulaphotographer]

This is my life and it hurts so deep.

[@jackieguenette2323]

Same 💔

[@SPQRTejano]

It is the life you choose.

[@zombioric5890]

👏DUMP👏HIS👏ASS👏

[@rosaj.a.4750]

The same thing that I m living right now... and I need to get it out...

[@emilysin9853]

Underrated artist♥️

[@BabyWick351]

💜🤟💜🤟💜

[@kiffanimahan9553]

It's definitely a vibe I'm feeling for life rn ..

[@tianarussin7374]

Omg this is my relationship.....

[@naomeepenafiel]

I saw myself in this music video 5 hours ago. Hurts like hell.

[@thefinalrebrand]

The perspective of the fan is wild 😂

[@lougreen7770]

& you got every excuse now don’t you! Damn that hits…💯

[@Feedmeimhungry]

I like this , she definitely ate these lyrics

[@haileysanders6706]

Been feeling like this for far too long 😢 thanks for sharing your talents with the world!❤

[@zombioric5890]

👏DUMP👏HIS👏ASS👏

[@haileysanders6706]

@@zombioric5890 I did!! 🙌

[@jamettemannix5468]

Just found this song and this is how I'm feeling now been in a relationship almost 10 years and this is exactly what's happening 💔 😢

[@Ikkasnyyd]

Same here, but we also share a child together.

[@TheNovaMuse]

0:25 oooh thats why they call them throw pillows. got it

[@rebeccakruise1660]

Boy, I've felt this so many times I can't even keep count anymore

[@mistyrenaud2322]

its scary how exact this video is, and the words

[@Godisfirst21]

Bread crumbs

[@kirakyouji1021]

This is the song that's reminded me not to go back and that I deserve more

[@kaileyb2000]

Bro it went from love songs to i cant stop listening to heart broken songs i litterally cant get over this guy who cant give me the bare minimum but he promised me so many things you think you know someone after 8 years im currently separating myself from him... But hes the prize right? At least thats how he likes to think of himself and not listen to me :( anna please keep the song writing up ive listened to your songs for years!

[@iceprincess4112]

my life

[@bozsipali4074]

Take Her up to the best charts please All around the world! 💓

[@Pure.Freaking.Meredith]

I just found you. I have been writing songs about the abuse I lived with for years. This song makes me cry in a big beautiful release kind of way. If someone ever feels like for something I wrote then it will all be worth it.

[@Devilbxby420]

I really like the song! ..The vid is honestly how my bf treats me and when I try to stick up for myself all I get is I don’t wanna hear it.. sh*t sucks but I guess it is what it is

[@getoffmyaccountmichelle]

Nope they don't want to hear it because they know they are the problem freaken narcissistic jerks 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢

[@labodesa]

Half of my marriage looked like this. I was so alone, the bed was so cold, I loved him with all I was and all I had. He lost, not me. It still hurts, but I'll survive.

[@martina-dd6vb]

Im sorry youve been through that, you deserve better❤

[@samriddhisachdeva9799]

Lyrics: Don't even kiss anymore Just say, "I love you, " 'cause you think you're supposed to You're always coming up short And you got every excuse now, don't you? Do you even listen when I speak? 'Cause I've been telling you just what I need A little more conversation, a little communication Why is that so hard to see? You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum All you're giving me Nothing but silence, I'm always trying I thought you wanted this What happened? You're never there I used to think you cared But you've given up You're giving me the bare, bare minimum You think I ask for too much Don't want the world, I just want you to want me How come you're so out of touch? We share a bed, but I'm still feeling lonely Do you even listen when I speak? 'Cause I've been telling you just what I need A little more conversation, a little communication Why is that so hard to see? You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum All you're giving me Nothing but silence, I'm always trying I thought you wanted this What happened? You're never there I used to think you cared But you've given up You're giving me the bare, bare minimum You're giving me the bare, bare, bare, bare, bare minimum All you're giving me Is the bare, bare, bare, bare, bare minimum All you're giving me Is the bare, bare, bare, bare minimum All you're giving me Is the bare, bare, bare minimum

[@baijeravlogsjeramyjuntado]

Love it

[@brandistagnolia3658]

2:11

[@EverythingxBeautiful]

Thank you

[@nickyxann]

I needed to see and hear this😢💔

[@karlaoseguera3838]

Been going through this for the past 3 years

[@crystalwoody3090]

Oh dam so true girl !!! Love this song

[@Jezze7]

Just let go because this whole year broke me completely

[@SaravanjaSteele]

Great song. Makes me so incredibly grateful, yet again, that I have a man who loves me and shows it.

[@0aubrea0]

Transparent vibes.

[@brookedelaney7725]

Im in this realtionship 😢

[@lolo64286]

Damn if this doesn't hit home right now! 😭💔

[@myasylem8642]

This hits home right now 😞

[@sabocikotic7632]

So good - music and everything else

[@TheCentralPlaza]

You’re so good Anna! I remember back when you dated Tretzy you had stopped making videos for so long, you literally have one of the best voices I’ve ever heard ❤

[@chrispuglisi8171]

I love this song so much

[@ahmedanisaissat638]

Amazing artist I love you From Algeria 🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿🇩🇿

[@tinsleyka]

My feelings in a song. Anna, you always hit right where it hurts 🤕 in a good way. I feel so heard in your songs. I find pieces of my soul in this.........

[@user-um9wf6gv2u]

Dump him no stick

[@BabyWick351]

💜🤟💜🤟💜

[@tokes1803]

If I was a flower that required being watered everyday. I’d be dead by now.

[@zozodabozo]

This is the saddest song with banger beats

[@nissyk666]

Leave them. Just walk away. It ain't worth the emotional hurt.

[@mariducasse126]

This says everything I didn't even realize I'm feeling.

[@nisifranklin2927]

This song is amazing and she amazing singer and I love this song and I love all her another songs and I can listen to her songs all the time

[@gabriellalewis5214]

Oh waw that's how I feel

[@SL-ip5kc]

I've never related to a song more in my life

[@crazygirlval5871]

This song speaks to so many people ❤

[@belindaholmes7697]

This is my life for almost 4 years now. I'm at the end of my rope. 🥺

[@Yapper-oo]

It will never get better until you leave. That person doesn’t belong with you; you are not their person. Please leave ❤

[@belindaholmes7697]

@@Yapper-oo I can't leave. I can't do it all again. 🥺

[@getoffmyaccountmichelle]

​​ 2:41 im sorry hu 2:41 n@@belindaholmes7697

[@TheFridge1313]

Love this song

[@julyj8151]

I just went through this 🥺 he had me believing I was the issue 😪

[@getoffmyaccountmichelle]

What a jerk same here hun they gas light us!

[@chrispuglisi3936]

This is such a beautiful song absolutely love your voice first time hearing it ❤️

[@christalann6072]

Been my life for years now

[@briredrose]

Every song is always so good. I love music videos

[@zacharyagan3842]

One of my favorite artists out now. I needed to hear this song

[@darrylcarter3691]

Why is she not a superstar yet?

[@Guy_original]

Its funny, after listening the song I now realize I didn't think of anyone specific while listening. There isn't anyone in my life and no one gives me anything, not even bare minimum. Last night I dreamt I was talking to a moth on the wall. 😄I don't even like moths. Everything's fine, good even.

[@michellebennett1340]

Awww I really hope you are okay? Everyone deserves their needs met! Sometimes we think we are just meant to be alone but in reality we are surrounded by selfish assholes. Find your clan dude they are out there I promise! Take care and Message me if you need to :)

[@Guy_original]

@@michellebennett1340 Thank you for your kind words.

[@whitneyleigh3975]

I feel this

[@c5d53g2e]

I felt this. 💙

[@andrearobinson7861]

This one hit hard

[@kirocontoy]

Your songs hit me hard and I love every single one ❤

[@itsmaribell1415]

this is why I broke up with my last ex even though he was such a great guy...he refused to work on his communication skills and 2 yrs in I realized I'd be happier alone than staying with him and feeling alone

[@shannonwatson9716]

Amen

[@angeloneal8061]

I'm so glad you are here Anna ❤️ ;

[@annaclendening]

I'm so glad YOU are here. 💕💕💕

[@ExploreWithEthan]

I love this .

[@jenniferharris7625]

You have one of the most impressive voices I've heard for a long time. Always wished I could sing, but since I can't it makes me appreciate those we'll can, so much more❤

[@whoisit1322]

Exactly how i feel. Exactly what is happening to me. Damn

[@shannonyohe6296]

That made me fall into tears

[@sz2996]

Exactly what i'm going through rn...