How To STOP Looking Frumpy In Winter

Don't you find that most winter fashion these days just makes you look & feel frumpy? In this video I reveal 10 frumpy winter fashion mistakes EVERYONE makes, and show you how you can stop looking frumpy this winter. Level up your life and style with the help of my guidance, enroll in my fashion styling course now: www.elegantstyle.me
From big oversized jumpers, to fur coats and skinny pants, which of these mistakes have you made? Let me know in the comments below.
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[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

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[@just_melinda]

I agree. I hate fashion today, with oversized, shapeless clothes.

[@CynthiaRothschild]

DEAREST ANNA , HELLO. MOST , ABOUT 99 PERCENT OF MY CLOTHES ARE " HEFTY BLACK TRASH BAGS " MATERIALS . BECAUSE OF THIS , I HAVE SAVED MILLIONS OF DOLLARS . AND MY REAL ANIMAL FURS CAME FROM ALREADY DEAD ANIMAL FROM THE WILD . AND MORE MILLIONS FROM THAT . ANNA , MY DEAR , HAVE YOU BEEN AS FRUGAL AS I DO ? ANNA , REMEMBER , ITS NEVER EVER TOO LATE TO START , OKAY ? DON'T CRY 😢😭 ME A RIVER .

[@genessatorsy3222]

Bahaha, do NOT correct Melania on her style. She is absolutely the queen!

[@Mubblz]

According to my kibbe it’s actually better I wear skinny pants and wide leg pants will have me looking like a little girl trying to wear her moms clothes 😅

[@ceasarsaran8573]

I completely disagree with the monochrome outfit. I think wearing one color head to toe like Melania pictures looks great.

[@christianaal.9761]

I love that Anna goes straight to the point and doesn't say the same thing for 10 minutes straight. On the contrary her speech is very dense. Kudos for the communication skills.

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

This is the nicest compliment a KZbinr can get! 😍 Thank you 🙏

[@p.b.4464]

I agree completely!

[@thenottakenone]

No intro, immediately on the topic. That’s why I’m a subscriber

[@ginnynolo9025]

I love that too!!!

[@starfishw7138]

Agreed. She keeps things moving

[@milica4277]

I missed Anna's videos. She is like a virtual online sister who gives me advices on how to look.

[@bellathereader1328]

Wouldn’t it be great to actually have a sister like Anna!❤

[@vienicestyles]

I feel the same way. I believe Anna is my bestie in my head. 🥰 🤗

[@liacorker5786]

for sure!! and also a great way to train my listening in English, great class!! I'm Brazilian and I love training English with Anna!! Elegant accent too 👏👏

[@ezgiruzgar8103]

@@liacorker5786voaaahh me tooo i am listening also for practice anna!!

[@mmadi]

You know the thing I respect about you the most, is the fact that you can admit to your own mistakes. Just like in this video, where you admitted to taking back a recommendation that you yourself made. Just like in other videos where you talk about your life before you decided you elevate it. Major respect!

[@dovi57]

I am so happy I did not buy that Sezane sweater😂 I had concerns it will look too bulky on me due to my bust

[@eliushi6220]

@@dovi57 I have that problem too with many sweaters and sweater dresses.

[@island661]

I'm 5'3 and petite. Straight legs and wide leg trousers make me look FRUMPY.

[@juliebray5250]

Yep. I’ve tried on tons and most make me look frumpy and add on weight too 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@island661]

I look like I'm wearing "mom jeans". 🤣

[@martinkathleen8981]

Same here. Not a good look for me!

[@Chericherry4]

I love Melania’s matchy-matchy look! It works for her bc she’s not copying anyone else.

[@spilltheteawithme2241]

Hundred percent agree Matchy matchy does look classy classy

[@ohsostylish60]

Amal’s look is a great example, however a bad example is Melania to criticize! She gets the colour combinations right all the time and understands what complements what. That takes knowledge and courage!

[@ohsostylish60]

Just a note on fur - fur has been around for many decades. There is nothing wrong with buying ethically sourced fur coats (do your research before buying) Some of the most elegant, and educated women will source the most beautiful fur coats that last the test of time AND pass them down to future generations. It’s these millennials and new money people that have no idea how to wear it and it can look cheap. Anna, consider the history of the garments when you talk about this! Viva fur forever!

[@StrawberryPavlova1]

I think Melania is extremely elegant and feminine.

[@renarettinger8523]

I was wondering if anyone else was thinking the same thing. I thought she looked 💯

[@jodybucci285]

I agree with your comments about oversized clothing - for most of us it is completely unflattering and make us look bigger and sloppy.

[@frostflower5555]

I regret buying this sweater that was kind of wide at the waist and too long and made me look frumpy with a skirt that I was embarrassed wearing it. lol

[@kpopobsessed2973]

Anna isn’t pregnant but she never fails to deliver

[@AnnaBeyOfficial]

This is so funny 😂

[@Tomisinshalewa]

Underrated comment😂

[@missg8861]

she’s the midwife of elegance 😊

[@Anamillio]

😂

[@chantastique]

😂😂😂

[@77aggiem]

I absolutely love the oversized, good-quality v-neck cardigan this autumn... 👍 Nothing wrong with it if you style it correctly in my humble opinion.

[@ceasarsaran8573]

Im there.

[@Lafemmefutile]

Exactly - I’m 5’3 with a shorter torso with minimal hourglass - I do for long dresses - romantic style - high waist pants, « cropped » tops, etc… I realized all the oversized fashion looks terrible on me, does nothing for my height or my figure. I also had to realize I needed to get into shapewear and wear slimmer looks instead of hiding in large things just because I don’t have a super flat stomach - I’m a size 4-6. Body image can have you dressing wrong when you don’t really have to.

[@missamandaloo116]

Short torsos don't look good in high waisted pants and some cropped tops though.

[@zilam98]

shapewear is essential when trying to wear more slim fitting tops and dresses

[@mindyann8903]

Says who ? Every body type is different. I’m the same exact size and height as the lady commenting; crop tops and high waisted pants are my go to because it really accentuates my waist …. Gives me a waist line. Almost every stylist recommends these looks on me. I also have long limbs so that has a lot to do with it as well. What might not work for some or even the majority will work wonders for others.

[@JadoreMilan]

Same! I’m 5’2 with a bigger bust. So my waist has to be shown at all times or i just look big even though I’m average weight lol. Crop tops and high waist look the best on me or bodycon dresses as long as the material is thick & not cheap looking

[@danas-tu5rr]

I love how Melanie Trump is dressed. She is very elegant, decent, luxurious. She has beautiful curves!

[@MadamoftheCatHouse]

I actually like Melania's colour matching. She uses strong bold colours so matching some items avoids colour clashing and sensory overload.

[@shaynac-rd9iu]

😊I like it too, its put together looking instead of messy. Especially with so many handbags having patterns

[@abidemna4950]

Me too I love her style always on point .. I assume she is with stylist..

[@susanmclaughlin4266]

I’vee Lamre Mel Aladdin’smeeel

[@vanillacookie900]

I love her style.. and also it is much easier to combine different neural shades. She is wearing a lot of stronger colors and they need to match to look polished. I guess it comes down to taste.

[@gblikestosew]

I like some of the looks but not others!

[@EA-tf5jq]

I found your channel a month ago. I was searching for "how to give yourself a makeover" videos. As a college student, I currently wear extremely casual clothing like cargo pants, oversized tshirts, baggy jeans, sneakers, and hip-hop jewelry - this kind of style is considered cool in my college. On top of everything, I have multiple piercings on my ears. Even though this kind of style is considered cool, I see so many students wearing the exact same style, whether they are girls or guys. Even though I work out every day and have a toned hourglass body, I feel just like another guy because of my clothing style. I used to wear feminine clothing until a few years ago. In the last 30 days, I've watched all the videos on your channel and attended all the free workshops as I can't afford the paid content yet. You've inspired me to become a woman once again. I feel so much better mentally. I have applied so many of your tips in my life. I also started reading self-help books and I’m focusing more on my studies these days. I'm also working on building an elegant and classy wardrobe from scratch as I plan to donate my current clothes since I don't feel like myself in them. I'm shopping at thrift stores because I have a tight budget. Dear Anna, you've changed my life and my mindset! I'm so grateful for everything you've taught me so far! I can't thank you enough! 💖

[@payattention31]

You’re on the right track!

[@zilam98]

dressing like how Anna has advocated in her content will prepare you well for career after college. you won't struggle as much with office/work wear

[@aleeshamucharwa9127]

You’re doing so well , I’m proud of you Im 23 now and l used to dress the way you just described but after watching Anna’s videos l don’t look at my Jordans the same anymore 😂

[@midtownkitten483]

When my friend graduated from college I told her it was time to ditch the college clothes (cargo pants, t shirts, flip flips) and start dressing like an adult. She was taken aback but took it to heart and slowly began building a new wardrobe from the clearance racks at Banana Republic. Months later she thanked me and said she liked her new polished and feminine look and she was enjoying the compliments she began receiving from others.

[@frostflower5555]

My mom taught me that those types of clothing is for inside the house only and you just don't go out looking like you're in pajamas in public or at work.

[@dtgb8546]

Agree with Most of what you said except Melania comment. She is one of the most elegant ladies out there. I remember seeing her in in a really casual outfit t shirt jeans and utility jacket and she made ordinary look extraordinary!

[@Sarah_Spang]

I actually think the matching colors look much more cohesive and refined than the mismatching shades and tones that were in some of the other examples. Whenever you talk about someone going from trash outfits to elegant and elevated, Melania always pops in my mind. Her style is so beautiful and sophisticated. I always love your videos, Anna! You have the best tips, even if we don’t always see eye to eye 😊

[@StrawberryPavlova1]

I completely agree with you ❤❤❤

[@Whitstik1]

I agree

[@mikatekonkuna3453]

I agree with you. I liked most of those matching outfits more elegant than those mixed ones.

[@talktosummerofficial]

I agree with Anna...the exact matchy-matchy looked harsh as opposed to refined

[@tatianac333]

I agree with you! I thought those outfits were super elegant and almost high fashion

[@CassieleighL]

Usually you're on point, but I disagree about the matchy-matchy thing. I think all those examples you showed looked great! I like the intentionality of it.

[@user-qo7zp4pq6x]

I totally agree!!

[@zuuzuumahad3118]

Me too

[@deborahsauter9794]

Yes, "matchy -matchy" looks much more intentional than the average American-Slob.

[@Kayprofessor]

I liked the outfits too

[@extrastout1741]

depends on ur age, i think they def look dated, my mom likes them though

[@rubyrosemary1210]

I'm a larger gal and I can attest to the mistake of trying to cover my flaws by wearing baggy tops. I finally got over my fear and started wearing fitted garments. Much better!

[@mara-ue6ry]

Thank you for not only giving valuable information about elegance and style, but also for educating about animal cruelty in fashion and the damage to the environment caused by "fast fashion" as well, as you have done in many other videos ❤

[@LisaKeamy]

I agree. Besides, people will form an opinion about you based on what you wear if you choose to wear fur.

[@teedollxx]

Why not fur, but leather and silk is okay? Love them all. ❤

[@annastyles7445]

YEAH apparently leather that comes from alive animals is somehow better than fur for these hypocritical animal activist fashionistas @@teedollxx

[@Wolfieyani1314]

@@teedollxxI agree, I love my fur, leather, and silks as well.

[@looslooyoga4293]

Melania will always look cheap ...

[@karolinak828]

I love matchy matchy and Melanie Trump style!

[@enmodelife]

Skinny silhoutte pants/jeans will never completely go out of style - at least not according to a recent InStyle Magazine article. It's ok if something doesn't flatter your body type and you personally don't want to wear it, but we have all known for decades how everything comes in and out repeatedly. Just like the denim dress Anna is wearing in the video is very reminiscent of a dress style from the 80's (this is something you can google yourself if you're curious).

[@deborahsauter9794]

Flares and Bell Bottoms look so bad on most people. Everyone should know that Skinny Jeans are a perennial fashion STAPLE on a well proportioned woman.

[@zilam98]

@@deborahsauter9794 if i have to wear skinny bottoms, i can only wear them during winter and with boots. and not skinny JEANS, but more like thicker leggings for warmth. i've tried a pair of skinny jeans before, and i never felt comfortable in them. so yeah, skinny jeans are NEVER a fashion staple for me. i guess i'm not a well proportioned woman too, so probably i'm in the minority since skinny jeans are apparently a perennial fashion staple 😆😆😆

[@deborahsauter9794]

Who said skinny jeans are for EVERYbody?@@zilam98

[@ellylilly8836]

I'm a bit heavier now (UK 14) and I find skinny jeans look great on me. I'm tall & proportional. Yes legs look thick , but they are thick 😂

[@mindyann8903]

Lucky !!!Thick legs are IN ! I lift very heavy to make my legs thick like JLo ! ❤️

[@bnb0510]

I actually think wide trousers make people look hefty unless you’re stick thin… 🤷🏼‍♀️

[@eliushi6220]

I agree it doesn't look good on anyone. I love a cigarette tailored pants or jeans.

[@StrawberryPavlova1]

Wide trousers make me look like I'm a walking BOX 😂

[@bnb0510]

@@StrawberryPavlova1 right! That’s my point. I honestly don’t really think anyone looks great in them. Idk

[@rosyapplekitchen635]

And tall too, i am thin but short and I look awful even in straight trousers/jeans

[@Lavender687]

@@bnb0510 💯 😂😂

[@sharonalexa]

I love Melania’s matchy matchy aubergine outfit. Swoon! I am size 18 & love wearing large sweaters. Life is short so I wear fashion that warms my heart.

[@Bopzibeel]

I literally just proved a point on oversized clothes yesterday. I'm a smidge under 5 foot, size 10/12 European and hourglass shaped. My sister is three inches smaller in height and size 14/16, also hourglass shaped. She wears oversized clothes and frankly looks like a walking barrel in them. I took her with me to H&M and into the changing room to try on her styles to show her how her style looks on me. I looked awful in them and shapeless. Then I dressed her in my tailored but slightly retro style and tutored her in fit and figure. It was a game changer. You can be any size you want but don't wear oversized clothes head to foot. It looks untidy and as if you're trying to hide. Huge thanks to H&M staff at my store who were absolutely fantastic! Retail staff are legendary.

[@molinarimoney]

Regarding dresses with drop waist - as someone with very long legs but a very short torso, the drop waist is one of the only styles making me look proportionate. So just know your proportions and how to work with them.

[@jucxox]

I think the issue is that fashion is becoming so ugly, and shapeless. It’s very hard to find tasteful clothes when they are not easily sold. Most fast fashion looks like potato sacks.

[@toomuchsoysauce]

So true. The "slob look" is in. Someone should remind women that the burlap sack look never looked good.

[@lonelyplanet2021]

True

[@EmmaAnimalWelfare]

As a 'clear/bright Spring' seasoned girl, the matchy-matchy in bold colours is a really fun look for me that I love. Monochromaxima!!

[@deborahsauter9794]

Yes, matchy always looks more INTENTIONAL ! It is no longer insulted in fashion circles.

[@EmmaAnimalWelfare]

@@deborahsauter9794 I think there's always a fine balance with it looking effortless and trying too hard - if you already wear a lot of separates of one particular colour it can look so well put together if you block them. It takes a bit of courage in a bold colour (like bottle green, red, or royal blue), but wear it with confidence and good makeup/hair and most people will look at you in a positive light I think feel.

[@user-ci4be6xp1u]

I found all the "wrong" pictures fabulous...

[@deborahsauter9794]

Yes, Anna : your critiques were OFF!

[@IloveCamels335]

Me too! From Melania to Rosie - all great looks ☺️ Better than the jeans dress I would say 😇😇

[@koteto999]

Thank you for speaking up against the animal cruelty of the fur and leather industries! I’m not an elegant lady but I do love learning about it, I love your tips!

[@tetanbrannen9276]

Thank you!!! You are the first influencer to bring up what we all know- the oversized trend is not flattering on anyone under size 2. I don’t even like it.

[@ri-oj1ul]

100% right on the oversized clothes. I’ve always stuck to form fitting clothes because anything loose made me took 10x bigger than I was (i had an athletic but hourglass body maybe size 4). Then I lost maybe 15 lbs (size 0) and for first time in my life loose oversized clothes work!

[@user-vf7ew8hu2d]

To each their own -at your size 4 or a zero I doubt it really is a big deal. Some people like it and if it gets them put together and out of the house, carry on. The worst case scenario is not that you look 10x bigger than you are (especially if starting at a size 0).

[@deborahsauter9794]

Melania's outfits look much better than average. What a silly critique on monochromatic classics!

[@juliesharp5077]

I agree with ana. The clothes were too obviously matched. Better that somebody looks pleasing without the observer knowing exactly why. It will be subtly matched

[@deborahsauter9794]

@@juliesharp5077 Almost monochromatic, planned outfits look much more EXPENSIVE!

[@shannonshunk8897]

Thank you, Anna, about talking about the current trends. It is a relief to hear you say this trend (over size) is not for everyone. I am only 5'3" and "thick". I love you and your channel. You are a guiding light in the darkness of fast fashion. ❤

[@user-ej6ge7jv6m]

Anna is a definition of learing and un-learning and I love that journey for her and for us, the ones who also take some tips from her.

[@mrsbettytracy6669]

I finally discovered why I like how a slightly dropped waist looks on me: I have longer than average legs with a short torso. So for me, that slight drop balances out my proportions. Like you say, it's all about knowing what works for your body.

[@frostflower5555]

read my comment about it, I love drop waist dresses. Those are so classic and very hard to find for years. They make bodies look so much nicer if they are cut right and not too tight.

[@abeal49]

my skinny trousers are to be worn with high boots while slogging through mud and so on There is a photo of Princess Catherine with her skinny trousers inside tall boots, while in Balmoral. She looked marvelous dressed that way in Scotland.

[@robinsnest4306]

I think Melania is so classy! Love her style! She’s gorgeous.

[@Forever30byci]

I really think the most of the looks she showed as flampy were fine. It’s a lot to do with style too. I don’t necessarily think fitted is better than oversized pieces… just saying! Love you Ana 😘

[@ingaguliyeva]

Thank you Anna for speaking out against fur! It is absolutely cruel what they do to those poor animals. Like you said, there are so many more ways to look elegant.

[@ninatouchdown2500]

No there isn't! Says my cat ❤😂

[@Mady299]

Fur made from wool like Max Mara teddy bear, honestly I like it and it's very warm.

[@deirdreloughran8258]

I love faux fur I make no apologies for my fur coat and platform doc marten boots

[@Jaz-wx4vo]

What about leather? Is it any less cruel?

[@jojojes1352]

Hi @@Jaz-wx4vo Leather is a by-product, the animals are not bred & slaughtered specifically for their pelt. The fur trade is imho, abhorrent. There is absolutely no reason for anyone to wear real fur for fashion when there are fabulous alternatives. It's just a selfish, blinkered mindset. If those people saw 'their' fur coat being ripped from the screaming animals it belonged to one would hope they would have a huge change of heart... but many just don't care about anything but themselves.

[@karladoane7323]

As there was a comment about fur I figured this would be a good opportunity for me to ask a question that I have been pondering for some time. What does one do with already existing furs? My feeling is some poor critter gave its life up I really should wear it In honor of the animal . I almost need to wear a sign saying this- This fur is very old I inherited It ;it was custom made. It isn't something one would wear every day as it is more formal to me. I thought of donating it to the film industry. I'm sure they could use period Items as I have quite a bit of beautiful, elegant things that were owned by my mother . When I grew up in the 50s and 60s. Fur was still very, very popular.

[@druidriley3163]

Wear your vintage fur and enjoy it. It doesn't add to the demand for the fur industry and is relatively inexpensive. You can repurpose them when they start to get too old.

[@Amy-hs1qe]

I'm 63 and I agree with virtually everything here. I've found that I've had to up my game as I've gotten older and being polished and classic but not boring is always the goal. That being said, I'll never get rid of my leggings - they're just too comfortable and easy.

[@frostflower5555]

leggings should stay at home

[@petyailieva5685]

Although I am not looking to changing my lifestyle (I am more of a street-style person) and I am mostly watching Anna's videos for fun, I am now realizing how watching those influenced me and actually made my outfits so much more elevated. It's amazing.

[@jeniferbfly]

Love the matchy matchy! The photos shown were elegant and put together.

[@penelopesanchez1679]

I love the oversized cardigan!

[@mac2807]

Grammatically speaking... it's either 'most frumpy' or 'frumpiest' or 'frumpier', not 'most frumpiest' or 'most frumpier'. I'm not criticizing, believe me, but I thought you would like to know since you are about elevating us to be the best we can be. Using correct grammar also 'elevates' us. xo

[@youareinbarbados2578]

I find easier to look frumpy in summer look than fall winter. In the hot summer it's hard to find elegant, classy, basic clothes and dresses.

[@bekanimal]

exactly, same

[@Jazzy4612]

I know and there is no opportunity to layer in the hot summer--which makes dressing a bit harder.

[@frostflower5555]

I agree. Most of the dresses look like rags or the type for weddings. It's incredible how there is no choice for summertime classic clothing. I wish the looks from the 70's and 80's Sears catalogues can come back. People should be ashamed to wear leggings out in public. I cringe when I see girls or ladies wearing them and they think it's ok to wear.

[@tplayspiano]

Thank you for your ideas, I have always hated the pants tucked into boots look. Both myself and friends have been gifted real fur coats from important women in our lives. These coats not only have sentimental value, they were made decades ago, are extremely warm - I have no guilt wearing them. Faux fur today is quite glamorous and lovely, an option our mothers and grandmothers did not have. It would dishonor them to throw their lovely coats in the landfill.

[@malgorzatagoralewicz2403]

Thank you Anna for speaking openly about animal cruelty. You are not only beautiful, elegant and smart but also kind ❤

[@EvelynT.]

I would never buy a new fur that’s just cruelty but I won’t stop rocking my grandmother’s vintage furs. I would rather wearing it than throwing it away. I am super supportive to the vintage/second hand industry in general.

[@StrawberryPavlova1]

I love Anna's videos and have been a follower for many years. I disagree about the points made about fitted jeans and Melania Trump's style. I am short and petite, wide legged jeans make me look like a box - whilst fitted jeans are very flattering and can be so versatile. Matching/harmonising your shoes and bags is actually a timeless fashion basic law for coherence. I love that Anna spoke up about fur ❤🙌🙌🙌

[@cyberqueen7784]

Ever since I started watching your channel, you’ve given some great advice that I try to keep in mind every day! I don’t like oversized clothes anyway, so I don’t have to worry. I do prefer elegant styles that flatter my body.

[@hazydreamer7965]

Anna´s style is elegant. We women do not pay attention to our clothes daily - sometimes never - but we ought to do it. Not like a friend of mine, who answers: " Colors and prints not matching? Who cares, I am in the city center only for 2 h. No one knows me." It is often amazingly difficult to get this message through. We do not need to look like the top models on a glossy magazine, -just put together and clean, ironed, and somehow stylish. All the best.

[@_Amy]

I feel like an elephant in wide leg pants, I think they are hard to pull off unless you are super thin

[@Alyona-ty4pp]

When it's -40C-50C nothing will keep you nonfrozen but natural fur. Maybe it's about an ego in warm countries but they're some places in the world where it's cold. Btw, what's about the the cut-off sleeves on this jean-dress today? It should be included in today's list.

[@Nadia-18]

The intro is hilarious. I love your sense of humor through very clear messages and you have the best facial expressions, being disgusted and cute at the same time is not an easy thing to do :D

[@katarzynaj434]

Anna, just a question. What is the moral difference in wearing fur coat vs leather boots? Seems that there is a lot of support towards one of them and respecitvely a lot of dissaproval to the other, but I personally do not see any difference between cow's leather and mink fur Greetings

[@druidriley3163]

Leather is a by product of the meat industry. Fur from non-meat providing animals is not.

[@MsSisi9898]

Exactly what I've been pondering. Also, consuming animal products on a daily basis, while unconditionally disaprove of wearing fur...like okay...where's the logic here? 😄

[@wallybistrich3474]

Production of fur: bad animal treatment and only the fur is used. As long as animals were eaten it makes sense to use the whole animal, for example for leather production. - Vegan leather production is very often not very ecological.

[@kateya0]

@@wallybistrich3474 I dont think that animals to be eaten are treated better than animals for fur 😃 in order for fur to look good, animal has to be healthy, with shiny hair. Fur is expensive for a reason. In order to kill animal for food, just google chicken farms and how small those cages are. Millions of them killed every day for fastfood, so there are the worst conditions - because food has to be cheap

[@gehanghobrial2449]

I agree with you on everything. I always listen to your advice carefully and take it to an action with my simple budget, and that makes me feel good about myself. I don’t have to shop expensive clothes to feel expensive, just choose what works for me body and makes me look elevated. I love your channel and I always look forward to hearing from you.

[@jlea2480]

Finally someone calling out the oversized look!

[@user-on5no2fs1i]

Anna Bey, hearing you explain how wearing fur [hair and skin torn from innocent animals] looks cheap is just what fashion fans need to hear! You are so right - looking classy need never involve cruelty, and wearing fur to prove your worth is so passé.

[@stephaniecoleman9689]

thank you for speaking up against fur as elegance! many years ago I bought a Korean vintage rabbit fur coat, rationalizing that because it had been bought/worn before I wasn't contributing to fur markets. When I looked inside, I saw the stitching where they attached each of the skins. On this small short jacket, there were probably 10+ rabbits used. It was disgusting and made me feel the exact opposite of luxury. I had a small animal graveyard around me. Bleh. It's gone now, but don't make this same mistake!

[@zilam98]

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[@catlillith]

When I was a child, I always thought the animals' fur was shaved; I never in my wildest dreams thought the poor animals were killed. If some people want to wear fur, they should let their own body hair grow no more shaving, waxing, etc.

[@zilam98]

@@catlillith not just outright killed. some are even skinned alive for some reason

[@catlillith]

@@zilam98 poor animals. The only animals that deserve to be skinned alive are the so called "humans" killing the animals and the "humans" wanting the fur.

[@agata8587]

Unfortunately happens sometimes that actually also sheep are skinned alive in their back for profit more in some terrific farm for wool production, be aware of that and choose "mulesing free" wool clothes, please ❤

[@lauravterrazas]

I love oversized cardigans and quite honestly I think I pull it off in a non frumpy way. Cozy, casual chic. 😏

[@joan8178]

Thanks, Anna. No wide leg pants for me! Re fur...i have many furs, all bought 2nd hand. I wear them for warmth as I run very cold. They are light and the warmest. I love animals. These precious fur garments keep me warm & well.

[@annisabaksh4533]

Thank you thank you for shedding the light on animal cruelty, I was so afraid you were going to promote the wear of real fur. I have seen videos of how those animals are treated and it makes me cry each and every time.

[@iahelcathartesaura3887]

Those of us who came of age in the late 70s, 80s and early 90s, or if that's when we gained our style sense, are often stuck on the matchy matchy thing. It was expected back then, very strongly! And was the only way to look classy and elegant at the time? And the more unique & difficult-to-find the color, the classier & wealthier it looked. Now we have to look more mature, elegant, realistic, classic - and less like a careful, monochrome cartoon 😅 Thank you, Anna!

[@alexandram5052]

I would like to see videos about more casual looks but elevated at the same time, just outfits that look "effortlessly" chic and classy. Many of us just have regular jobs or work from home and not all of us dress so elegantly when going out in mall or park, or with friends.

[@coyoter9691]

Would like some tips on this too. I don't go many places where I can dress overtly elegant. I'm usually going to casual places. How to look elevated and chic on the more casual outings (without looking too done up). The park to go on a walk is a place I usually feel frumpy. I'm not big on wearing activewear, so what else would be appropriate to look nice (for example, if you're on a date to a park).

[@frostflower5555]

That's the problem. The stores don't have too many coordinated classical casual clothing. It's either rags or too fancy items. What happened to the looks from the 70's and 80's and 90's when classical clothing was everywhere? And leggings should be banned from public and considered pajama wear.

[@mikeletaurus4728]

Miss Bey, I cannot thank you enough for speaking with frankness about fur and your perspective on it. I wish you every success, and I am grateful for your KZbin content. You are almost always on point, and there aren't many beauty/fashion channels which can claim that. Thank you and every good wish to you.

[@carolannaitken5812]

You should do a video on the overuse of botox especially in the lips. It can hinder your style when someone is unable to focus on your style due to over inflated lips.

[@denicevstaaf7506]

I love you Anna, and absolutely soak up your tips and courses, but I have one suggestion. I hope this tip is taken in the same spirit that I am delivering it, which is to be helpful, not hurtful. A tip I learned in Interior Design school was that the vocabulary will make you sound like a professional- or not. For example, a professional interior designer would never say "couch." It is a sofa. Along the same lines, I have heard this term spoken several times, which always makes me pause. When describing the thickness or drape of the fabric, the key term is fabric, not material. Thanks again for such great content Anna. I know you are always looking to improve therefore, I thought I would offer something to level up your vocabulary even more.

[@deborahsauter9794]

Also, the word SATIN - can be EITHER silk or polyester. Satin refers to the WEAVE , not the FIBER content.

[@anitamiko9975]

Yesss on squashing the fur trend. Thank you! Never even looked good, and always left a bad aftertaste for those wearing as well as seeing it. But I disagree on the wide leg trend. Short ladies very rarely look good in the wider trousers trending now. Skinny pants are here to stay for some of us! And I found your choice of denim top in this video surprisingly “frumpy” given your normal tasteful figure fitting attire. Also, I personally loved all the photos you showed of people over matching. I’m surprised to hear that it appeared trying too hard. Unless you have 3+ items that match colors, you’re not overdoing it. All the photos had only 2 items of the same color.

[@zilam98]

would have to disagree with your point on skinny pants. i've never looked good in them, and i'm only 4'9". i've always looked more polished and sophisticated in wide legged dress pants, even to a point of being palazzo pants that they look like maxi skirts

[@zilam98]

i'm in my 40s now, and i've preferred wearing wide legged trousers ever since finishing college and started working. even off work, i'd still prefer to wear wide legged/bootleg dress pants than jeans. i just find jeans, even the dark wash ones, not as versatile to most events than dress pants

[@zilam98]

granted, i don't do "dirty" work like how farming people would prefer wearing denim for the work they do, but when i'm outside in the elements for my current work, i prefer to wear wide legged scrub pants. so comfy and less maintenance than even any pair of jeans

[@gloombla]

I actually like Melania’s style .. it reminds me of the classic Elena my outfits of the 1960 I love it

[@alexdalton4535]

I actually love those "matchy" outfits!

[@christinequintana881]

I inherited a vintage white rabbit stoal that has been in my family for several generations. I would never buy a new piece but I can not let that one go. Too many family memories and I feel connected to the past when I wear it. All of my current pieces were purchased as faux. When we know better, we do better. ❤

[@CristinaPerez-ib2uu]

Thank you for raising awareness about animal cruelty! Luvya!!!

[@Maybesure]

Thank you for being honest and keeping us bigger gals in mind. I totally agree with everything! When will I get the courage to wear wide leg pants though? I feel so huge in them…

[@claudiadriesler7285]

Me too... I tried it, and started wearing skinny jeans again.

[@Gabistruwwelliese]

Love the video. Gotta say, as a Brazilian, skinny trousers if not too tight match our feminines style because here it is a good thing to have voluptuous curvy legs.

[@nardatira5095]

I totally agree with you, ANA. I stopped using skinny jeans after one of your past videos . I'm Latina, and I'm curvy, and I recognize that skinny jeans don't suit me, I look unstetic 😢and bigger.Thanks, Anna, for all your suggestions ❤have a wonderful week!

[@mahee144]

Thank you anna for pointing out style for normal weight ladies or over weight plus size. Fall fashion seems to be made for skinny girls we feel left out and end up wearing baggy clothes. I m grateful to you for talking about normal people 🙏 waiting for ur more videos ❤

[@francielebischoff7895]

What about fur pieces that are in your family for generations? I have like 5 or 6 pieces of fur that are here with me and my mom used, my grandma used... What do I do with them? They are so beautiful. I think it would be such a waste not to use it....

[@candynewton4945]

Me too. I inherited beautiful furs. I plan to wear them but not buy more. Indigenous people in Alaska and Siberia today still make furs by hand to wear for warmth in their cold climate to work and live. Anna Bey is not speaking about these, she is addressing the fur trade for MONETARY PROFIT. Big difference! 😊

[@christinekellyrose9435]

Me too. The animal has been dead for years. Wear it with pride and joy of your memories. Faux fur is disgusting. It never breaks down in a landfill.

[@NicoleLevit_]

Thank you for raising awareness about fur! It's such important topic in fashion. However I don't agree with statement that killing animals for fur is worst type of cruelty. What animals endure in slaughterhouses is just as horrific. With so many alternatives available nowadays, it's so unnecessary. Please look it up.

[@lydiabell6218]

I am glad you talk about the weight, scale, overall proportions, the size and other factors in considering what is suitable for one's figure. I, for example, have an oversized b...tt and oversized thighs (at least in my opinion) and therefore NEVER wear pants. Instead I prefer all types of A-lines skirts, preferably midi-length, which makes me look slimmer on my relative not quite petite figure..I do wear some pencil type skirts, but mainly in a dark color, since light colors emphasize the size. I am glad midi-length skirts are in right now, since I love to wear them with boots. I appreciate your educated suggestions and opinions.

[@marleypup4462]

Melania looks stunning…she’s basically in uniform as First Lady in the pics so it’s not like she’s being a civilian

[@angelavonborstel185]

I really wish you'd do a video specifically for plus sized women in mind. I am 5' 11" L/XL and my mom is 5' 10" 2XL. Finding tall clothes is horribly difficult but that combo with size is very difficult.

[@eliushi6220]

I would like to see that too.

[@edithobrien7118]

There are cashmeere and wool cardigans that don't look frumpy ... :( it also depends on the whole outfit , balance and proportions

[@thecollector5243]

I really love boxy jackets but I am an hour-glass. My solution is to crop them at the tailor's so that the narrower part of my waist shows. I combine it with high-waisted pleated wool trousers. That way I don't look like a square. 😊

[@n.mn.m1990]

Wear whatever you want to wear . Don’t repress yourself , express yourself !!!

[@julieelliott943]

Fantastic video Anna! Thank you so much! You made some great points for leveling up our fall wardrobes! 😍❤❤🙏🙏🙏🙏

[@stur5252]

I agree that a lot of these things that we've been conditioned to accept as must-haves or essentials at some point, especially by luxury brands, don't actually look very good, or only on certain body types. Thank you for saying it out loud.

[@lorrainerobitaille69]

I have a full fur coat and it was second hand and it keeps me warm in the winter and I am keeping it for that reason !

[@SA61977]

Melania Trump is undoubtably one of the best dressed fashion icons of our era. She's beautiful, elegant and poised and her co-ordinated outfits project old money!

[@jdo4715]

Love your practical advice. The sweater dress advice is spot on.

[@npkrn6764]

I agree that many trends or styles do not look good on everyone. Everything is about proportion. As a short lady at 5'1", I have to be very aware of the fit and cut and style of the clothing I buy, and what other things to pair certain things with. And not only am I short, but I have curves as well - which only adds to the look of weight. Even though I'm not overweight, being short with a chest and hips, if I don't wear form fitting items (meaning, if I wear oversized items) I will look heavy very quickly - so I have to choose items very carefully. I almost always prefer classic cuts over trends to accentuate my positive features as much as possible.

[@deelehey2827]

I love matchy matchy

[@nicoleh6182]

Should make one on the really long fake lash extensions trend and no bra trend 😂

[@cassandradevine4752]

I agree about the oversized cardigans and clothes, but what can you wear instead during fall or the cooler months? What are some good alternatives to oversized or boxy clothes (especially cardigans and sweaters) that fit well, look tailored and keep warm at the same time? Please can you do a follow-up video about what to wear in fall that works instead of what not to wear?

[@tennilledebysingh5819]

A simple V-neck sweater. Quince has beautiful cashmere and wool styles that are classic and versatile.

[@americafirst9144]

Cashmere is thin and warmer than wool.

[@mysterygirl2881]

Dear Anna, I agree with you. The problem is that malls and clothes stores are full of sloppy garments nowadays. It is a challenge to find a nice fitting sweater that delicately emphasizes the silhouete that's not oversized or superlong. Or, on the countrary, too short.

[@nvaranavage]

It takes me a long time to find good fitting clothes at a price I can afford, sometimes I have to bite the proverbial bullet of shopping in stores that are fueled by the fast fashion industry in order to find the one piece I am looking for. I don't shop often, very rarely in fact because I try to take good care of my clothes. So I hear you on not being able to find clothes that fit right. It's a real struggle.

[@dtgb8546]

Not many of us can afford to buy what Anna does. Not too hard to look expensive when what you buy and wear IS expensive!

[@ann-chiyu3193]

I must say that I love a nice slightly oversized or loose cardigan during autumn and winter 😅. Sometimes I just don’t feel like showing my figure. I just want to be comfortable and use the cardigan like a blanket on my shoulders without actually bringing a blanket to work 😂. Especially if my pants or dress is more fittet, it can make my feel less exposed. A have a rule for myself when I get dressed. One fittet item, for example top, and one loose item, for example wide leg pants. So if I’m wearing my skinny jeans with boots, it’s the big cardigan 😁

[@haldis23]

I love Melanias looks in this video i can't see a problem there 😮

[@rainforestblessed5031]

Thank you for your fur opinions Anna 💕

[@forooghkhodadadi3453]

Hi Anna , I do like your subjects and the method you teach us how to be an elegant lady. However, in my opinion being an elegant lady is not only related to our clothes. The most of your videos are about this topic. I personally follow you to learn more about other aspects of elegancy like speaking, listening, presenting, introducing ourselves, even teaching in an elegant way ❤❤❤❤ Thank you so much. I greatly appreciate your efforts to make us understand how to have a good lifestyle and classy manner

[@anitagabriel4533]

Love this content and also the fact you mentioned animal cruelty behind fur industry. Many content creators too scared to speak their truth! Thank you

[@elinebakker5951]

Genuine question (I'm not wearing or liking any fur myself, i'm just curious): Does anyone know what the difference is between making a fur coat vs. making a leather coat when it comes to animal cruelty? It seems that people are avoiding fur, but don't avoid leather, which seems the same thing to me when it comes to the cruelty aspect. Why the difference? Thanks in advance for answering :)

[@gorgo4910]

There isn’t. The animal is either raised and harvested humanely or it isn’t. What happens to the skin after the fact is after the fact. It’s like debating if it’s more humane to eat hamburger or steak.