ANOTHER BREAK UP? 💔 back To SOLO TRAVEL *what I've learned from past relationships*

[@montanadanna]

Hi guys ... late upload and some of the footage is whacko/repetitive 🙃. My bad, but didn't want to do another upload for the next 4 hours. Looking forward to new travel content .. in the meantime doing some R&R and going to sleep. Much love to you all and thank you as always for the support 💞

[@JohnSaxon-vw5vi]

You are a beautiful and caring and intelligent young woman who has done the best thing for you I am praying for you both and sending you all my thoughts and prayers and I love your hair colour looks beautiful and fabulous and I love it and it suits you very much please take care of yourself and stay healthy and safe and your not in your fourties’ you are only 29 prayers and blessings for you and your family love your number one Aussie family friend John ❤❤❤if you need to talk I am here for you as we all are on your channel 💜💜💜

[@justmarialing]

♥️

[@annca]

Hey, Danna. I came across your KZbin channel two weeks ago and I enjoy your videos. And I can say that I am similar to you as being able to see red flags early on. At first, I didn't realize what kind of character your ex has, but the more I watched it, especially the one from Burning Man, I noticed a few things. It's interesting how sometimes you don't need to see and say a lot to realize certain things, maybe because I experienced similar things. But I'm glad that you don't make compromises which does not represent you, don't make you feel comfortable and things don't bring you peace in your life and in your soul. Better alone than with the wrong person. You are a strong and independent person. We women don't need a man in our lives to see our worth and live our lives the way we want. If it's meant to be, that special person will come when you least expect it. Have an amazing day ❤!

[@sandiedrew4086]

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[@cheriefrank5402]

💞🙏💞🙌💞 no cats just forgive and go on your journey… YOU got this… me too just ended a year plus one…. So proud of you and your healing process

[@bricktastic2602]

Guard your heart girl, it’s the most valuable possession you have ❤

[@montanadanna]

Thank you 💖💫🦋

[@user56gghtf]

Yes!!! 💕💕💕

[@jackiewilde6754]

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[@amberp5207]

I watched a KZbinr the other night that is going thru a divorce say, “When someone shows u who they r, believe them.” That hit me hard. It’s really brave to end a relationship that u know is not right for u, than it is to stay and try to play pretend like a ton of people do. I just want u to know that I really care about u and things always get better w/time. 😘❤️

[@JT-ns4ug]

Poet Maya Angelou quote "When people show you who they are, believe them the first time" Quote I always told my students.

[@EastmanEditing]

I’m 38 and been single for 7 years and it’s been incredible just embracing it! I even just got a cat 😅 My life is complete. It wasn’t easy to reach this mentality though, but my friend helped me move past my deeply rooted fears that were causing my anxiety around being single and “dying alone surround by my hungry cats…” but she reminded me no one is guaranteed anything in the end, even if you marry and have children. You may get divorced, wind up in a toxic marriage, there may be unexpected deaths, deployments, etc…and there’s nothing you can do about it. We all envision a warm bed surrounded by grown kids and grandkids as we slip away peacefully, but you’re just as likely to be surrounded by close friendships that you nurture these days. Times have changed and people are closer than ever with those they’ve connected with outside of the family. And it’s easier to nurture those relationships when you’re not stuck in an incompatible relationship. It sounds depressing at first but it’s also very freeing to let go of the control that is the core of many unhealthy relationships. Also, it’s better to be eaten by your own cats than to be stuck in a toxic or abusive relationship. It’s great you followed your gut and ended things before too long. You’ve got this! You’re already there, I can tell!

[@montanadanna]

"It's better to be eaten by your cats than to be stuck in a toxic or abusive relationship" ... 🤣🤣🤣 AMENNNNN!

[@EastmanEditing]

Also somehow the moment I realized this, I stopped longing for company. I used to travel alone when I was 17-23 then reached a weird stage where I couldn’t have fun alone. I dated an addict and a few other guys who were “great” but we just weren’t compatible but I ignored those “orange” flags and stayed too long under the guise of giving them a fair chance. But now I don’t feel lonely or the need to date whatsoever. Not that I wouldn’t date-I absolutely would for the right person if they showed up- but it’s not even in the back of my mind. And it’s been years. I’ve had well meaning friends tell me I have to at least out “a little work in” if I want to find “the one,” but that’s just it. I no longer need to find “the one.” My deep fear may be different than others but if you can find whatever yours is in that deepest darkest place, I think it can snap you out of that painful longing and loneliness 💕💕💕

[@tracymoffett8251]

Check out Idaho along the way…

[@sandiedrew4086]

It’s true isn’t it? Our cats will eat us if we die and they get hungry. What a thought😂

[@jenniferwolford4646]

Wow! My exact fear!!! I do have kids, and I even have a grandchild, but I stay in my 32-year relationship because I'm terrified I'll get sick and die alone like my mom did. I DO NOT want that to be my kids' job!! Me and my husband invested too many years to die alone! We owe each other to be there for one another! Many times I've wished and dreamed of something else. I guess I truly believe, I'm not worth it!

[@rbryant1234567845678]

Just a little bit of advice from my departed mother that always makes me feel a little better in times like these. Another person can never truly be your happiness, you need to be happy in yourself and so do they. so that you're both happy and together. ❤️ not sure if that helps any. Love your videos, love your vibe and the purple hair is definitely on point! I hope you process and feel better when your ready hun x

[@montanadanna]

So so true! 🥰💜💙 Great advice! And thank you, the purple hair is from Luxy :) ombre lavender - they always have a holiday sale so keep an eye out 💜 Thanks for the love!

[@sandiedrew4086]

I am sure that you referred to this in one of your videos❤ happiness❤😊

[@MTCr8zy]

I LOVe you always! You know your worth and settling now and “managing” someone’s needs today will ultimately invite misery later on. You absolutely know exactly what you don’t want your life, let your heart heal and what you do what in your life is out there I know this wasn’t in the plan, but what time next to people and you’re one of the strongest woman I have ever known. I love your strength and resiliency… you are such an inspiration for all women. A lot of healing prayers for both of you.

[@beckyjohnson3565]

Wow Skylar, Matt, you must have some issue's!

[@Xiroi87]

@beckyjohnson3565 do you feel better being rude and judgemental? Maybe you are the kind that will settle with anyone out of fear to be alone. Fortunately Dana has more self-worth and intelligence than that.

[@magtag853]

You move too fast with these guys. Creates too much pressure . Slow down.

[@LeahFairfield]

She didn’t ask for your opinion

[@marleen6507]

I agree with you

[@sandiedrew4086]

I move too slow lol ❤😊

[@pisteuojustbelieve]

Yes she moves way to fast too much pressure on herself and the other person. Slow down hun it’s ok really. 🫶🏽

[@DoctorJoanieTool]

YES!

[@rosalitamarie8836]

Happy to see you not settling for less than what's best. Mature, level headed yet heart aching decision you made. So much respect for you beautiful lady. Hang in there & we are here for you 🥰

[@sandiedrew4086]

Oh yes. Much respect to you Danna.

[@sandiedrew4086]

Yeah you are not alone that’s for sure. No judgement just support❤

[@Rebecca-yw3yp]

Just 5 minutes in but I can't hold off commenting. Just sending the biggest virtual hug your way. My impression is that you're an incredibly brave and passionate person... Not just by sharing a relationship online like this, but by having been open to the possibilities in the first place. The bigger the love, the bigger the risk and potential hurt. It's a courageous thing to pursue, and I admire and respect the way you carry yourself... Toward opportunities and away from them when you've learned what you were supposed to. 💕💕💕💕 hope you keep hanging in and let yourself ride the wave of all the feelings

[@sandiedrew4086]

So nicely said❤❤

[@sarashattuck4022]

By expressing her experience she is helping other women live outside of fear and dive into experiences like love even when it doesn't work out. I think it's more about the journey than the destination.

[@montanadanna]

Thank you so much for the sweet comment, Rebecca 🖤🖤🖤 It's not easy putting my whole heart in, but also sharing it with everyone here so thank you for your kindness. I'm happy I put my all in to it. Better to find out sooner than later if it's going to work. I appreciate the love and can tell you're a very sweet soul. Thank you!

[@montanadanna]

@@sarashattuck4022 THIS IS WHY I share so much. It connect us in our shared experiences. I put my whole heart into everything and get a lot of judgement about that. I appreciate you being kind. Thank you 🖤🖤🖤

[@teresap.5991]

Oh my gosh Danna😢 I'm so sorry. ❤ Take your time now and just enjoy life and when love is meant to be, it will be, trust me on this.. you are too beautiful of a soul to compromise who you are. Hugs n prayers pretty lady ❤️ You have our support.🙏

[@montanadanna]

Thank you so much for the love 🥰💜💙 I appreciate your support, it means a lot!

[@pihla01]

"It's really in conflict when you find out whether you're truly compatable". YES!!! That's so true. ❤ Sending lots of love and well wishes your way!

[@montanadanna]

Thank you so much 🥰💫💖

[@L8-4A-D8]

You remind me a bit of my younger self. I always put 100% in my new relationships and tended to stay way past the point when I knew we weren't right for each other. Growing up with alcoholic narcissists, I was also most comfortable in a state of chaos with people who needed to be "fixed". I would completely give up my own interests, goals, friends in order to start living the other persons' life/happiness. When the relationship would end I was left with nothing...each and every time! It took me years to get a bit "selfish" and make "myself" a priority. It took me a long time to get it right, but I did, and I can see you are on the right path just by listening to your intuition. Wishing you the very best. You are beautiful inside and out and your person is out there! I found mine when I stopped looking and had given up...go figure :)...One thing I realized is that if you have childhood trauma it is best to pair up with someone who had a happy childhood. That made a huge difference in my healthy relationship.

[@wendycolbran3864]

Oh my gosh, you could have been writing about me, I always was a doormat, let men walk over me. Only in the last ten years have I found someone who treats me well, pity that I wasted all those years, putting everybody else first.

[@karyeluppen454]

Danna, I really appreciate this video! I also just went through a break up and your words/ thoughts are so helpful and I can also relate so so much. I am so sorry that it didn’t work out for you and sending love to you and to Dan too. You are so strong and you will get through this (I keep telling myself that too!)

[@tamaravaughan503]

You will get through it, darlin💖

[@lauriecailteux9451]

So sorry about your break up 😢 I’m glad you’re at least with your dad right now and in a beautiful area. Love to you and Dan.

[@carrieshow7817]

Something my therapist said to me is that the relationships and behaviors we see as a child become the template for what our unconscious minds consider "ideal." So if we grow up watching parents who have lots of drama and instability in their relationship, for example, our brains use that as the template for what we look for as adults. Our conscious brain might know something isn't good for us, but our unconscious mind still drives us toward it. It can take a lot of work and effort to turn things around.

[@itsnancytimeitsnancytime8317]

I have found mourning a relationship breakup is one of the hardest things in life. For myself, I now tend to avoid relationships because the aftermath is too hard. I'm so sorry for the breakup.❤️

[@MelissaCarterRealtor]

I am SO SO SO happy you stick to your gut and do what's best for YOU! Thank you for being open and transparent, I really appreciate your honesty. You are so brave to put yourself out to the world. I might be a complete stranger on the internets, but I want you to know I am proud of you!!!. **BIG VIRTUAL HUGS***

[@harrypottah8889]

GIRL YOU HAVE GOT TO GIVE YOURSELF SOME TIME!!! You’re moving at uhaul pace. Doesn’t matter if you’re in your 40s, running from one relationship to another is never it.

[@razorjean]

i was thinking the same

[@sunshine3914]

No she doesn’t. Life is short! Here I am over 60 & never found anyone compatible bc I was too busy making a living, only making time to date every couple years. While I’m still good friends with the ones who haven’t passed yet, there were dealbreakers that still hold true today.

[@harrypottah8889]

@@sunshine3914 I said wtf I said… jumping into relationship mere months after being ready to move in with someone not once, but twice is not healthy.

[@montanadanna]

It’s actually very normal and healthy to date. Most people just don’t share early relationships on social media. I actually don’t run from relationship to relationship, I was single for two years before this year. If someone shows up in my life, who seems like a good fit, I will definitely give them a shot. Otherwise, just doing my thing. Also, you see 40 minutes of my life every week. You actually don’t know what’s healthy for me and I’ll go ahead and consult my inner guidance and therapist on that matter. I will also be the judge of when it is healthy to leave a relationship. You guys have no idea what happens behind closed doors , But judge away. And I’ll keep doing my thing. I’ll take as much time as I need, and I’ll date when I’m ready. 💖💫

[@artisit999]

@@montanadannagirl, please don’t even listen to them. They’re lives are perfect. That’s why there in your comments berating and judging your actions cause their lives are SO perfect and every decision they’ve made is gold. 🙄🤢🥱 They’re messes and they’re projecting, more importantly.

[@sandiedrew4086]

Danna, please don’t rush out on the road. Take your time to rest as you heal when you sleep. Your Dad’s place is beautiful. Take your sweet time. We will keep watching❤❤❤

[@seattleogre]

Hugs kiddo. Everything will be alright. Ever forward.

[@montanadanna]

Thanks for the love 🥰💜💙

[@popspops3795]

Hi Danna. I'm sorry that the relationship with Dan did take the route that you planned. On the other hand, it was better that it happened at the beginning of the relationship, and not after marriage, etc. I have been through quite a bit of break ups in multiple continents, and even though they all have sucked, they have served as rehearsal for the big finale. We (your viewers) are here for you. Take care of yourself. You are very talented, sweet, adventurous, brave yet sensitive, and very interesting (p.s. I AM NOT HITTING ON YOU, just clarifying) Stay safe, stay healthy, and stay happy. And stay yourself! Sincerely, Pops

[@lauraa2778]

Sending lots of virtual hugs, Danna! Will keep supporting you and this channel!!

[@montanadanna]

Thank you so much, Laura 🥰💜💙

[@erinsoper2514]

Love you danna, you are awesome in my mind. We love you both. See you Thursday.

[@montanadanna]

@@erinsoper2514 thanks, Erin 💫🦋

[@candacedaily2137]

Sorry you’re sad Danna you deserve respect and consideration. I know what you mean by grieving the life you planned together it’s rough but allowing yourself time to grieve and crochet, realizing there’s more happiness to come is a good post breakup self-care plan. Also Nick’s ice cream has no added sugar 250-320 calories per pint! You can easily allow yourself a guilt-free ice cream Netflix binge! I do it all the time it’s incredible ❤ your feelings matter, I see your inner beauty and love all the fun and creativity involved in your channel so remember there are good people out there who see you and appreciate everything you are.🤗

[@Nunyabiz34]

I’m sorry for your pain. Much love to you and Dan. ❤

[@lorilynL]

Sending you a hug, Danna. Things always work out the way they are meant to be. Looking forward to your future travels and adventures. Thank you for sharing your life with us. ❤❤

[@baypressbuzz]

Aaaww Danna I am so sorry😢 for the both of y'all. Sending you a sisterly hug from Texas. I know you will recover from this and get back to your fun and adventurous lifestyle that is best for you. Stay strong and prayers for good health. Have safe and fun travels.

[@Suzie-he9ni]

I broke up with a man once because he leaned into me while I answered my phone. He was trying to hear who called me ( it happened to be a female tenant) . I spoke openly in front of him so the behavior was unacceptable. Another thing he did was ask me if I ever wore my hair up because his ex-wife used to wear her hair up. Too many red flags! I also grew up in a toxic, disfunctional home and my main problem in the past was thinking I could fix a man instead of waiting for what I deserve. Looking forward to the crochet video and rig organization. I used to crochet and want to get back to it. Take care Danna.

[@mayam6678]

Sorry to hear that, as I know the pain that causes on many levels. Take the time to to process the loss, just like you mentioned. Sending hugs to both of you!

[@karenmays8889]

I'm so sorry this happened. Dan is a sweet guy. Everything happens for a reason. Stay strong. It's hard when this happens. Take care of yourself. I'm sure he feels bad as well. Always, always be yourself and never compromise what you want. ❤

[@jordanlyd8691]

🩷🩵🩷 you have so much strength and I love that you are able to leave a situation when you see the flags but I also understand how crappy that is to even be “good” at doing that. Sending you all the positive vibes. Your forever person IS out there. I admire you for not settling- listening to you talk about it gives me courage to do the same.

[@UteGoldkuhle]

The ‘art of letting go’ and ‘grow’ is a lifelong process! You are an example and role model to many of dealing with human complexities that confront us all but very few are willing to address with truth and honesty as it can be brutally painful. But the resolve can be equally enlightening, strengthening and maturing, reaching inner peace many never experience! I walked the walk and talked the talk, living the most peaceful and enlightened years as my candle is slowly burning low at age 82. You are among few on ‘the road less traveled’ - never sway or doubt! I love you for who you are as I know you through this medium ❤️

[@sunshine3914]

This was my first introduction to her, & it was awesome. Blessings to you!

[@lindaprefontaine3948]

Your positive attitude towards life will keep guiding you. Sorry it didn’t work out with Dan but glad you knew when it was time to part ways and leave as friends. You are a bright shining light. Love your videos and your lavender hair. “ 12:50 This too shall pass.” ❤

[@sallyshields6553]

Girl! Being alone is not a bad thing! Being single is strong! Being single is powerful! You don’t need someone else to be happy. You can’t fall in love so quickly! Take your time. Stay strong!

[@jillr759]

Since I got married at 35 (when I was happily single and a home owner) I’ve turned into a dependent insecure individual. Single is great!

[@milkdud9309]

You latched on too fast, and pushed forward too fast. Slow down. You worry too much about age, and still being single. Could have told you this wasn't going to work. Dan is way different than the man before him. Maybe, you will find a happy medium, but slow down. You come off as being so materialistic, and fake. Are you? In spite of what I see, I do hope you can find your happiness someday, with some inner peace.

[@LeahFairfield]

You don’t know why the relationship ended, so go somewhere else with your assumptions.

[@rachelanderson7930]

Your honesty and vulnerability is not only healing to yourself but to many others! I am sorry your future you thought was on track has derailed for the moment. Like several others have said, take time for you sweetness! Hang on! You are learning and growing. It takes strength and self awareness to end an unhealthy relationship.

[@shortwaist]

big kudos to you and Dan for having the guts to fall in love *and* recognize when it's just not a match. not many can jump into this YT world as openly (and entertainingly!) as Dan did. i loved learning about ranch life and seeing how in tune he is with those majestic horses. good on you for giving yourself space to just thaw out

[@Carolyncreatesmore]

As a 66 year old grandma I really enjoy your videos and how real you are. I love it that you “get” people sewing figurines and can actually make some great gravy! You have a lot going for you - a great personality, lots of wit and yet you have a lot of intelligence and creativeness. Please keep being real, continue to beep out any bad words - because I just don’t like hearing them. I appreciate that about you! You have character and I enjoy watching you. I also love to crochet and cannot wait to see more of your creative videos and projects!! That’s another thing I love about you is your creativeness, crochet, music, and decorating! All of my favorite things. I wish the best to you Danna! You are worthy!

[@davidjackson7281]

Every guy finds her disgusting.

[@STT511]

So sorry. I’m 40 too & just had a break up 2 days ago so I feel you. Thank you so much for being vulnerable & sharing this🙏😢 I read this quote today. Appreciate it for what it was and step boldly forward. We got this💪🏼 No Cheeto’s, ice cream & excessive laying in bed for us…..all of which I’m doing as I type this🤫. Tomorrow is a new day.

[@A.L.I.S.O.N]

I love how you dug in & shared your experiences & some red flags & how they played out, etc. That is so relatable & eye opening to viewers in their possible circumstances. I've had similar experiences. You got this!💛🌼💛😊

[@nadinemadsen4366]

I applaud you for seeing and ackowledging that it wasn't what you wanted or needed. I have been stuck on the fringes of a relationship for the past year and just took a 3 day trip and the entire time I kept telling myself how stupid I was to keep doing this to myself, that it will never change no matter how much I want it to. I know it needs to end and I will have to be the one who does it. So hearing your affirmations is what I needed to hear. And second, yes I want to see you crochet, your crochet projects and anything crochet!!!! For an entire year after my divorce I crocheted every night. It kept my mind occupied and it couldn't wander to the dark places. So a YES to the crochet videos.

[@200kristena]

I admire your commitment to yourself. Finding lasting love is difficult and ultimately not something we can control. Something that has helped me is realizing we are actually incapable of predicting what will make us happy. That's out of our control, but within our control is the ability to create an inner strength that can give us lasting joy through lifes ups and downs. ❤

[@angieengel714]

I’m so sorry Danna! I’m sending you a huge virtual hug! I love and support your channel! I’ve been here over 10 years…I think actually about 12! I’m not going anywhere! I look forward to your new adventures. Take care of yourself and your heart. ❤ I would still love to see your storage clean out video if you hopefully plan to still upload that one. Rest up and take the time you need to heal. I know you said you were having some health issues and I hope and pray you are healing physically as well as emotionally. If you’re ever in Texas…let me know! I recommend waiting until winter though! The summer has been unbearable this year! Love and hugs from Texas!❤😊😸

[@terimcgibney4930]

Hi Danna, I'm a 63 year old woman who has been through life and wow, the most important thing I've learned from you is (too late in my life), one's mental health comes first. Though, I'm sorry to hear you are going through this, I'm very, very proud of you. On to the next chapter of life. And, maybe your crochet get together could be in Southern California. I live near the gorgeous Torrance Beach. All my love.

[@user56gghtf]

Danna your happiness the first priority 💕 sending hugs 🤗

[@montanadanna]

Thank you so much 🥰💜💙

[@taylorbailorvlogs]

I've been following your channel since way back in the LA days and have stuck around through a lot because I admire how transparent yet classy you always keep your videos. You always keep it real with your following and never sugarcoat life but also have a sense of elegance about how you share it. I know you have joked in the past video about how elegant you are but truly, you maintain life even through the hard times in such positive ways and never try to spread hate or blame on people even when you're upset and anger at times. That shows true maturity and is inspiring to someone who has grown up with a narcissistic parent with mental illness as well and who has also at times let that trauma turn me into a bitter, often times petty person. I strive to heal to point where you are at where you can maintain your feelings towards someone or a situation without being hateful or bitter. I'm just not always there yet but you inspire me to get there. One of these days....lol Much love to you Danna! If you decide to come to the East Coast or Virginia at all, let me know! I would always love to meet up!

[@janenejones2036]

Danna…so sorry about your breakup. We’ve ALL been there. Give yourself time. Time and gentleness with yourself is a real healer. ❤ On a ‘nuther note…I love your purple accents! Did you do them? Are they clip-ins? So, so cool!

[@sandiedrew4086]

Hugs to you Danna😊 I wish the best for you, now and always. ❤❤❤

[@SarahBethBanning]

I’m so sorry Danna and Dan. I understand completely. Breakups are so hard. Much love 💕 ❤💕❤️

[@miriamwyse5781]

Sending you happy thoughts! I just finished the book "Good Boundaries and Goodbyes" by Lysa Terkeurst; which seems similar in the book about boundaries. "How to love others without losing the best of who you are." You are setting great boundaries for yourself, so proud of you.

[@kathleenflanagan9141]

Love to you and dan, moving forward with lessons learned

[@Stephanie-mh4ee]

Oh friend.. I am so sorry 😔 it was not whacko repetitive you speak beautifully! I was really hoping this was the one for you but kudos to you for following your gut and not staying with someone just because . Keep moving forward ❤ looking forward to the next chapter !! Sending all my love and healing vibes ❤

[@markbrown3857]

I am a guy and i relate completely with where you find yourself in relationships. I have realized that trying to discover what i want in someone im with should not be the priority. Red flags are supposed to be . . . Red flags. You may be able to help people with their red flags but at what cost to you? And you should always expect the red flag to return . Red Flag Returning. Great name for a song.

[@teresachapman205]

I just call them neon flags now. Because I know they serve as a bright/blinding warning to guard myself and disengage. Reclaim my independence and limit contact immediately :)

[@debbiebaldwin1824]

Danna, you're an inspiration, I wish I had your strength and knowledge about healing and the cycles of relationships. I'm close to 60 and have resigned myself to being alone for the rest of my life. Healing from childhood trauma is harder than people realise. Sending you love and healing ❤

[@mege711]

I'm so, so sad to hear this! My heart breaks for you. Losing someone you love for whatever reason is so hard. Take the time you need to grieve. We'll all be here when you're ready ❤ (ps - love the crochet content so that would be a fun video!)

[@montanadanna]

It is so hard. Thank you so much for the love 🖤🖤🖤 Crochet content coming Monday. (Tomorrow is an organize video). Hope you're having a great week

[@maxx8650]

I just binged a few videos.. i love the first 3 months of the honeymoon phase but never start dreaming about a future until after. It makes breaking up easier... You were super happy and glowy. I hope you find that happiness again

[@margenn3889]

I'm so sorry to hear this. Best wishes to you both for your separate future's ❤️

[@montanadanna]

Thank you for supporting us both 💖💫

[@laurenkeppel9199]

I love that you are staying true to yourself and it’s inspiring seeing you push through the hard times so that you keep your happiness. Sending you all the love! ❤

[@mkslatte41]

I’m so sorry Danna. My heart goes out to you Sending you lots of healing.

[@spunkycat6144]

Same here girl. Same attraction but drawn to not great folks and same childhood. Keep going, girl. Never give up.

[@noworneverlife5933]

You are such a strong lady, you’ve got this!🌞💕

[@craezh1203]

I’m sure this was tough to make and hard to post to the world! I love how real you are! You’re my new favorite vlogger!

[@SugarCookie1957]

How are you living in my head??! You sound just like my (much) younger self. We come from chaos and we're drawn to it and attract it! Sounds like you're on the right path so just keep doing you, girlie. 💜 So much love to you and Dan.

[@sunshine3914]

Humans tend to go with what we know. As stranger as it seems, it’s a comfort to many.

[@molly9011]

Sending you so much love and healing. You are brilliant, clever, beautiful and kind. Everything will be okay Xx

[@udontknowjack]

You are fantastic and you deserve to find someone who lets you be you honey. You are such a sweet soul.. Best to Dan!

[@brandyrobbins9633]

Sending so much love out to you and Dan. You are both wonderful people and I am excited for you and sad at the same time, was hoping to get up to Montana next year to visit and meet you. Looking forward to all of your upcoming posts no matter if you just ramble and vent or share some amazing scenery. Take all the time you need for YOU 💜💜💜

[@caseyc4567]

Aw, Danna. Sorry you're going through this right now. Sending you hugs and healing. ❤

[@Xiroi87]

So good that you're dealing with what keeps on manifesting in your life. Why do you spend so much time and energy helping others? It's called projection. Our issues feel too hard to process so we try and help others heal. It never works, you can't really help others before you heal yourself. So we end up attracting into our lives those that are also not addressing their own issues. Focusing on healing yourself and setting healthy boundaries shows you're working in the right direction. 💪💪

[@trumpwon8972]

I thought you made a cute couple. We all come to the table broken. We aren’t perfect and relationships can’t be perfect. Wishing you the best going forward. ❤️

[@cravinsunshineNW]

It takes strength to show your vulnerability. I heard what you said and you know what you want and need for long term. You are such a special person, you deserve the very best. Cheering you on, thanks for sharing your talented life. ❤

[@Lilliebug01]

Dear Dan and dana thank you for the last few months I wish you both the very best you both be bless

[@liz4581]

Sending you and Dan a lot of love and peace, patience, gentleness and rest while you both move forward. You are correct: breakups are so very hard!!!! Praying for you both!

[@carm1030]

I’m sorry your going thru this. Your last video where you slept in the truck, cause he wanted windows open vs shut. I couldn’t believe he would let you sleep in the truck. Not very gentlemen like. Your so brave for knowing what you want and need and standing up for yourself!! Good for you!

[@April-ny8iq]

Hey Danna breakups do hurt alot but this video will help you move forward and bring you to a new adventure in your life. You and Dan deserve happiness!! Take care of yourself this week and looking forward to your next video!!

[@forceofnature9894]

I knew burning man's disagreement and conflict resolution would let you know whether Dan was the life partner for you. Well, my love, forward and onward. BETTER NOW THAN LATER.😔❤❤❤😢

[@marieneu264]

Was the disagreement just about keeping the windows open or not? What a small issue to get upset about!

[@raespaans1203]

So sad to see you so heartbroken, I'm praying for both you and Dan, its very hard to make the decision to move on when you realize it isnt working, stay brave and continue to work on what makes you happy, that is what the most important thing you can do for your self right now. Sending good vibes and positive energy❤

[@Blind_Bibliophilic_Life]

Looking forward to seeing your future travels.

[@health4lifecooking]

You are a beautiful, talented, and wise woman! I really admire your strength or courage! BTW, cats are the way to go! And a good hiking dog is great as well! Much love and hugs coming your way😘❤

[@theresawooten6455]

Why am I not surprised!! You run through men like water going down the drain! I knew from the get-go it would never last!

[@artisit999]

Ok you failed abortion.

[@alexlauren86]

Thanks for sharing! Your doing great and it’s very mature of you to recognize this stuff early on. Good for you

[@lindawiedemann4647]

I liked this video so much. I kept wishing there was a like button throughout the video. Thank you for opening up to so many people. 🙏🏻❤️

[@Mrsveggie1]

Hi Danna, I wasn't planning on commenting, but I wanted to share an impression that I hope isn't taken the wrong way, as it's what I would tell a friend I care about. I've noticed in your videos over the years (now take this with a grain of salt, as those are brief glimpses into your life) that you tend to go "all in" VERY quickly in relationships. The way you talk about your boyfriends only weeks in, it's as if you've found your soulmate. I don't see much emotional caution by way of words or time. It seems that you give your heart over too quickly, and somewhat recklessly, before he's had a chance to earn your trust, and before the potential of the relationship can truly be known. Again, I say all of this knowing that I'm operating off of limited info., but I wanted to say it in case it helps in the future. Love your content and will be thinking of you during this hard time 💙.

[@gingerl2995]

You are so Not alone. Much love. Huge hugs and prayers for whole healing, comfort and insight.

[@serenastanley9830]

Hello, dear Danna, Is Dan a commitment-phobe? Do not feel any pressure to respond to me. I am an old retired M.D. with dogs instead of cats, but still single and perfectly fine. Take care of yourself and move forward! Hugs!

[@rachelwasser]

Aww I'm sorry Danna ❤ Of course that's hard 😕 You have high hopes and it's tough when things just don't pan out like we thought they might... Never lose faith that as you grow you are inevitably getting closer and closer to what/who is best for you! Sending you a big virtual hug ❤

[@sarahsevers4215]

Oh sweetheart Danna. I just wanna squeeze you. Ugh it sucks sucks sucks. I was worried when you said you guys were going to burning man and then when I watched your vlog from it, I got even more nervous. The energy between you and the difference in opinion on the air and sleeping, etc…. Energy just wasn’t right. But, in hindsight, it’s much better to just go ahead and expose the reality of what life would be like with that person early on. Esp as you get older, you know? Ain’t got no time for that bullshit. Times a-wastin’. Only put out and accept the good vibes. If it doesn’t serve you well and make you feel like the best version of you, then bye bye. You deserve all the goodness. Selfishly, I am sad you won’t be in Montana anymore. Which is funny because I still haven’t met you in person and you are just half an hour away… I wanna be your friend so bad. Haha. Anyway, thinking of you. Heal and rest up and then take us on an adventure, please! 🫶

[@sarahsevers4215]

PS, love the purple hairs

[@theblackschaos]

Give yourself grace…. Your a beautiful soul Danna. I’ve noticed you GO GO GO. And that might be your way of healing, but just try to be there for yourself etc. your amazing and heartbreak is normal and who knows! Traveling to burning man, and having to do all that WORK and stress and you got sick, I mean that’s a lot! Love you so much and regardless I know you will be ok and your so strong I just want you to find that LOVE you so deserve. It’s even about 10-13 years I’ve been watching you I feel like, and I just want you to know I’m always sending you love and positivity, kindness and friendship. 🙏🏼❤️

[@westy40]

We love and support you, Danna! The gym is a great stress reliever. P.S. YES TO NASHVILLE!!! That is the one place I'd love to go. My aunt lives in Knoxville and she loves the area. The people supposedly are down home friendly.

[@montanadanna]

Thank you so much to you and A. Yes! can't wait to get up in the hills too! Thanks for having my back on TikTok btw haha. Love you guys 🥰💜💙

[@cclose8007]

Your self reflection is beautiful. A guidance that comes thru when I watch and listen to you is to take more time when you start a relationship. I’m sure there feels a time Pressure with age but I see you jumping all in very quickly and maybe taking time will give you the chance to hear and listen to your intuitions lovely. Sending so much love as you plan your next era queen x ❤

[@cclose8007]

Also yes to your standards! The fact you haven’t found someone to meet those standards isn’t on you. You are aware of your own traumas and healings and that’s huge accountability. I send high vibrations and love to you x

[@cclose8007]

I do wonder what your human design is. I’m a projector. It links to energy work too when you look at where your energy comes from.

[@cclose8007]

Yes I’m a crocheter and totally up for your video. Enjoy taking your time to heal x

[@montanadanna]

I don't mind jumping in quickly. You learn who someone is fast and less time is wasted if there are incompatibilities. I do think that living in a van is more the issue than wanting kids/the age thing. There is NO way I'm living in my trailer in MT over the winter, nor am I living in my dads basement. So I had to decide to move somewhere local if I were going to date Dan. Obviously, if I had already lived in MT and wasn't traveling, I wouldn't be moving into tiny homes etc. It's more of a logistical thing than anything.Thank you for sending some love and I appreciate your insights. It helps me look at it from a different point of view, so thank you 💖

[@cclose8007]

Oh yes no judgement, totally understand the logistics and it’s good you know the signs so soon, yes thank you for bringing that different perspective to me too. Thank you and lots of love back x hope you find a fun and safe solution for your next phase x

[@jacquelynwathen8676]

That’s what dating is for…. You both figured it out and now moving on. That’s big to know it’s not right. A day at a time and I know you will be fine Look forward to your future videos ❤️

[@analcalap00]

I'm no longer dating in my 50's so, never mind, beautiful soul. Just enjoy every single tiny detail in your life, you came here to be happy. And if you feel like coming to Spain, you have a home here 😗

[@reneemartel8802]

Love love love the purple hair!💜

[@montanadanna]

Thanks, love 💜💜💜

[@wanmte]

Having your relationships and dating life on view for the public is crazy. Relationships have ups and downs and sometimes the downs can be hard and not very pretty. When my husband and I started dating we were so attracted to each other but we both came with some baggage from past relationships. He had to learn to trust and I had to learn not to give up. We had some heated arguments. It takes two and both people have to not want to give up, learn respect, honesty, learn it's ok not to be perfect and keep trying. We've been together 15 years now and we're inseparable. I sure hope you find that person who appreciates all of your great qualities. I also hope you get a tiny house you can call home.

[@Heather037]

We are comfortable with what we know. I had a bi-polar mother and alcoholic father, so needless to say my childhood was chaotic. I know all the red flags and did all the work, yet still attracted the wrong kind of man for years because it was what I knew and was comfortable with. Finally, at 47 I can say I broke the cycle and found a really good man. It's still hard for me to express my feelings when we disagree, but its so worth it for the right person. We're getting married next year. P.S. He was the boring guy.

[@sunshine3914]

There’s actually some KZbinrs who are “boring” guys, & they have the most polite & supportive followers. One evening I was watching another episode of a one preparing to camp out for the night, & amongst the thousands of comments, was one that said “I have no idea why I’m watching a grown man sleeping on the ground, but I’m here for it!”. That “boring” Canadian has over a million subscribers.

[@Heather037]

@sunshine3914 No doubt! What I mean by "boring" is he is even keeled and has no drama. Something I was not used to and perceived as boring. For me, if you weren't full of drama, you were boring. I've been shown the light.

[@shellyvavrick1088]

Aww man, this is a bummer ,but you have to follow your gut. Do what's best for you. Wishing you lots of love and healing♥️

[@pattik902]

Its best to be a fiancially independent single woman. Men all got issues.😊

[@ljss2850]

Blowing some happy dust to you and Dan. My heart hurts for both of you …. Never easy no matter what side you are on.

[@lorrainekleingunther5632]

If at all possible, don't give up on seeing the horses and giving them their treats. Incredibily therapeutic especially in this instance. Very heartsore to hear. Not downing him but he doesn't seem like the easiest of characters. Just my opinion. No harm intended.

[@LeahFairfield]

You don’t know him

[@user-mp4zs2by9m]

My heart is with you during this grieving time. Take care of you & thanks for sharing. xx

[@jonlatz6078]

You "fall in love" too easily and way too fast. You and Skylar broke up then all of a sudden you're talking about moving in and having kids with a new guy. You're too pushy and hyper. Most guys I think find that to be a turn off. Next time around maybe try acting your age instead of like some teenager with their first crush. You're beautiful and I'm not saying any of that to be mean. It's just what I see and my opinion.

[@LeahFairfield]

She didn’t ask for your unsolicited opinion.

[@jonlatz6078]

And I didn't ask for yours. That's the beauty of it...It's MY OPINION. @@LeahFairfield

[@LeahFairfield]

@@jonlatz6078 I didn’t give my opinion, silly. I stated a fact. Do you really think anyones assumptions about her really matter to her? 😂 She’s stronger than that. Your “opinion” of her are just empty words. Nothing more.

[@hopper345]

Danna I'm sorry things didn't work out between you and Dan Thank you for sharing your life with us I will see you Thursday hope you have a great day😊

[@forceofnature9894]

You did good. I'm proud of u.❤