Another one bites the dust (dating tea, Jungkook collab, thoughts on infidelity)

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[@bloopbloopbloopbloopbloop]

Studies have shown that women are happier single. They tend to do 70 + percent of the domestic work and childcare, even if both parents work outside the home.

[@traipsing__around]

this comment section is crazy. people telling you what to do… just do you anna. choose what you want and keep learning and growing. thats all that matters

[@lisaineurope]

That guy you were dating was so selfish. Good for you for finding out what his game was. I can’t believe he actually said to you about keeping in touch. Yeah, dream on! I hope you have a great time in the UK. Best wishes from Lisa in the UK 🇬🇧

[@larularulei7533]

The bigger problem with cheaters is that they are incapable of making a final choice, be it a girlfriend or family or business. Always jumping back and forth. Must be painful for a true ENTJ to watch :)

[@Megan9689]

36:11 i had a family member who had this happen to her: her highschool sweetheart turned husband after college, after 4 years of marriage, while they were trying to get pregnant, her friend told her she saw him playing footsie under the table with his ex at a big friend get-together!! She then checked his phone and saw all these raunchy conversations between him and his ex that sounded like it was leading to them wanting to have affairs(ex was also in a relationship). She confronted her husband and they hashed it out and he begged and pleaded and cut off communication to ex etc. My family member found out she was pregnant and i think that sealed trying to stay together too. Now even 12 years later from that incident, she still worries hes going to cheat and he didnt even get to actual cheating before. It was the intention and that was enough to break the trust. They're still married with 2 kids and 1 on the way but i feel for her always having that in the back of her mind to worry about.

[@marikrisseabiera]

Cheating is a choice. Cheating is zero tolerance for me.

[@Megan9689]

34:43 im exactly like you in this way. I've always had that view and when i got with my now husband 12 years ago, before we even started dating, we made sure we were on the same page for everything because we both wanted serious relationships(end goal marriage) and so we made sure we were on same page for the most important things, such as "do I want kids", and i made it crystal clear I would not accept cheating. There would be no conversation had, nothing. It would be over that instant, no excuses, begging, etc. If you have a mutual agreement its a monogamous relationship and you keep your communication open and therefore your connection strong, there should be no cheating unless they willingly wanted to go against that and intentionally know its going to end your relationship...then thats on them and NO amount of time will ever FULLY restore your faith/trust in them.

[@sunnyonthebeach]

anna you have a good heart and good thing you found out. i don't understand how you can date a person for weeks and also be seeing others at the same time. that's 100 cheating. i think relationships should be based on shared values like loyalty and commitment etc., not shared interests like watching movies for example. this guy had no loyalty or commitment or real love

[@ADifferentVibe]

Agree. You won't find useful long term relationship information over ice cream flavors vs shared values.

[@mizbiss]

From an older perspective, I don't think a two-week relationship is one that can be considered serious at all. You don't develop true feelings of love that fast. To me it sounds like this relationship got physical very quickly thus the feeling of being cheated when you learned/felt he was seeing someone else that one night. Also, an ex will circle back around when they're bored or find themselves between girls and shouldn't be taken as you say that they 'always' come back for you. Take things slower and you'll see a person's true colors before you give too much.

[@ADifferentVibe]

There are always 3 sides to each couple conflict...her side, his side, and the truth. We'll never know anything other than her side. She moved on and we'll see what happens next if she talks about it some more. Best of luck.

[@Megan9689]

57:32 well what did they expect being so clout-hungry and lowering themselves to even consider going out with him after what hes done. Nasty girls willing to look the other way for a famous guy spending money on them.

[@augustomigom]

I never understood the whole iPhone vs Galaxy...it's just a phone...and if it's about money, Samsung galaxy plus and ultras cost more than the iPhones 🤷‍♀️

[@ADifferentVibe]

Sorry to hear about the last dating tea.. If it helps, it would be nice if we met for a date! :) Over coffee or something light..I promise we won't waste each others' time!

[@michellesantos6706]

Thiz is Dan...Danny Kang!!! You FINALLY mention him. Ohhhhh he is so handsome! I've been following his channel forever! How cool!!! He akways mentions how he's so Introverted. 😄

[@misosoup8030]

How can we see the Live Chat replay? You often mention it, but I never can find the live chat replay. Thank you.

[@slavvalb3933]

Anna dear, my take on the subject re: relationships. I know you always prefer hot guys, but when it comes to a serious relationship attractiveness maybe deceiving . Do not judge book by it's cover . Give it a try to an ordinary looking guy. Inner beauty is more important. What good do the handsome face and abs do if the person has a very unattractive character ? Sometimes ordinary looking guy, when u get to know him, might be the sexiest man alive for you ! After all, u most likely want to get married . You settle with this person for the rest of your live . Good luck dear Anna ❤️

[@ADifferentVibe]

I agree! Hot guys don't always equal good guys. Not saying she should date a physically unattractive person, but understand the balance of having both a good looking person and a principled man whose values are good. PS. She should give me a chance! I'm a stranger to her but I'm healthy on all fronts to take her out for coffee/food first date! 😁

[@slavvalb3933]

@@ADifferentVibe not necessarily physically unattractive. I am talking about ordinary looking guy . But, when u get to know him, he might be the most handsome man in the world .

[@christinepaley6149]

I agree that physical attractiveness and financial status are only part of the equation. You also need to know: Are they a kind and loving person? Do you share similar values and interests? Do they have a good sense of humor? Will they be supportive of you and treat you the way you deserve to be treated? And more! It takes time to uncover if these qualities exist, and you need time to discover if a person is appropriate for you or not.

[@mayathayil]

Saw the whole video Anna... Anna good for you for leaving a guy who's not into commitment. Personally if a woman judges a man based on his mobile phone then she is shallow, and even those buying big brands in excess like hermes etc i feel are people who are shallow n need things as a sort of external validation for some empty void inside them .... shallowness at it's best. There is a difference between boyfriend material and marriage/ husband matrial in men....the guy super fit etc will be more of boyfriend material cuz hes into his looks but a husband will have the responsibility of life n running a family on their shoulder. So if one wants to settle they need to see the intrinsic qualities in a man rather than extrinsic qualities superfit, only brands etc etc. Intrinsic qualities like gentleness, frugal in money matters, kindness, n qualities to discuss matters and solve it rather n bottling things up as this will lead to wholesome relationship in the long run. Bang pd might be using the young woman as a sugar daddy cuz i scrolled through Google on him n his gf, it looks like she has gone to the surgeon for the chest job etc....n she gives a clear hyper sexualized vibe... sadly she seems groomed to be an escort like most of these wanna be popstars are who belong to the entertainment industry.... better stay away from these kind of people. That's the vibe her pics give sadly...

[@SuperJanieg]

If you go to Edinburgh you may want to check out the Johnnie Walker Experience for whiskey tasting. Not been there myself but heard that it's good

[@stefheathcote6123]

Woo-hoo! Will you have time for fans catch up? Pleaseee❤❤

[@Megan9689]

49:50 i only understand a little worry for those guys who are well-off monetarily and then worried for a divorce and losing some or half of THAT money but anything gained AFTER getting together, not just married, she helped him make. Like Anna said, she is super loving and supportive 100% and that helps your partner make decisions for his career and helps his mental health(wife probably taking the brunt of parenting if a stay-at-home mom so he has time/opportunity to focus on work/career, peace of mind knowing his kids are in a safe environment with someone trusted so he's not worried or trying to juggle childcare) and so that monetary gain while theyre together, thats not only theirs that HE made, but also the wifes. Men and people today arent putting value in non-monetary things and thats seems especially bad in Korea where money=everything. NOT to mention the costs of childcare are so expensive, at least here in the US, most of the time I know someone becomes a stay-at-home parent is because even losing that income, it comes out about even with childcare costs if you have several kids, you might as well lose the income but then be able to raise your own kids and in what you know is a safe environment. It just makes sense here in the US if you don't have family nearby to help watch kids and have to pay for childcare, it's not worth both parents continuing to work.

[@oskirules]

Never say never. Bang PD might be your guy.

[@sani2205]

ew

[@PLATO97]

you iinspire me ii want to start a podcast ... do you have any advice please, anna?

[@Ads1384]

You should visit Ireland if you get the chance - plenty of whiskey here 😂

[@tkjho]

31:55 The clarification did not seem to be clear enough, the 2 sides might end up interpret it in different ways. A causal answer of "no, I'm not seeing other people" did not imply that he did not intend not to see other people. It could be just a lull in his love life, so he got on Tinder to catch up.

[@Megan9689]

44:46 sounds really red-pilled there. I think the problem from all my years of consuming Korean culture in the form of K news, vlogs, music, etc, it seems like money and appearances is so important there and now with the tough times and the competitive nature of what seems like everything there in Korea, people are getting more like backs-up-against-the-wall and watching out for #1. I can see from the culture of everything there how it would lead to this thinking and behavior. Why arent the guys just looking for women on their level then? Like economic and "success"(i put in quotes bc money usually equals success for Koreans from what I've seen). They dont really want equals in that way? They only see women as below them and their worth is less too especially if they dont make as much money or are as "successful" outwardly as them. Sad times...

[@keithpalmer1843]

Good morning Anna, have a wonderful day😀

[@XOut4This]

Travel question: In your experience for economy class on Korea Air, is it one free checked luggage and one free carry on bag? (But can you also have a backpack instead of a pocketbook and carry on?)

[@sani2205]

Just saw danny's body profile pic on insta .. I can honestly say i don't find danny attractive whatsoever (face or personality ) but his body is 100 % better than jungkook's ... Be serious Anna 😭💀

[@joy8801]

Who is danny?

[@sani2205]

@@joy8801 danny from dkdktv

[@noraraymundo2233]

Oh my daughter lives in Primrose hills after she graduated in UCLA as BUNAC organization University program for 6 months she worked as HIV editor the best time of her life every weekend she do backpacking travelled all over the world Italy, France, Germany, Switzerland, Austria her last stop in Madrid and Barcelona stay there for 8 months. What an experience for her.

[@Megan9689]

1:00:30 yeah if you dont put looks as #1. He doesnt have sketchy history like Seungni(sp) and is a billionaire and genius im sure hes fascinating to be around and seems like a nice guy. People are really being immature about the idea of it? Must be young.

[@TORREYTHEPROUDTRIBALWARRIOR]

😍😍😍😍😍

[@MsStageact]

Interesting question about forgiving cheating. I'm old, but I always used to say "Everybody's allowed to make mistakes"...and my only condition in a relationship always was 'not lying'. So, I think I might forgive cheating, when I ask him about it and he confesses and is sorry about it. But if he straight up lies to me, it's over. Cause when he lies I cannot trust him. And where's no trust, there cannot be a relationship. Apart from that: when I ask him about it, I know. Denying means he either thinks poorly of my intelligence or he is not very intelligent. And that would be another reason to call it quits. :)

[@thecoolintroverttv8381]

And if he continues to cheat after seeing how lenient you are towards infidelity?

[@MsStageact]

@@thecoolintroverttv8381 well, with age usually comes wisdom. If a man confesses right away he’a usually not someone who cheats on a regular basis. Most men will deny. And that would mean ‘bye, bye’

[@timmie569]

😂😂😂😂 Nonsense

[@MsStageact]

@@timmie569 you’re free to believe what you want. I’m tolerant enough to accept a different opinion. I think you’ve got a deficit in that field.

[@Megan9689]

48:46 then they need to start doing prenups there. How realistic is it to just not get married and have kids etc than it is to just get prenups? Korea is now a first world country and everything but then are "held back" still by certain things, like stigma of prenups I guess and their hierarchical society, if they want to continue to grow as a world leader, which it seems like theyre trying to do.

[@azzeddineelbouhlali1853]

How are you doing

[@Mindsetolympics]

LISTEN! stop looking for a man and you will find him. SEVERAL wives have told me this!!!!!!

[@TheBigBananaaa]

👍✅🙀✅👍

[@PLATO97]

31:00 you acted like a lady til the end. Also it protects your karma.

[@Megan9689]

1:03:05 well i was with you until you said about the bag. I know women who dont care #1 about looks and date men based on things that actually matter, like say their interests and world views, morals etc. Men are more visual and care about looks. My one friend even prefers "chunkier" guys.

[@slavvalb3933]

Anna, what is the point if the guy unattractive or attractive ? Beauty is in the eyes of beholder. Someone is junk is another persons treasure. The same true about people. ' By the way , your last video, you have problem with comments. Due to KZbin error or whatever . Maybe u should tend to the comments ?! Otherwise, why do we leave comments , just to leave them ?

[@Megan9689]

39:20 so yeah theres even less reason in today's day and age to cheat. You can always leave if youre not happy with them and cant work it out and want to cheat. No excuses of being trapped anymore. Same for being cheated on and staying in the relationship. More freedom to. just. leave!

[@yosh1to]

To what extent is considered cheating to you or Koreans in general? I watched some Japanese KZbinrs interview Japanese girls and guys and seems like in Japan that a good amount of people think that seeing a prostitute or brothel isn’t considered cheating, that as long as there is no feelings involved and it is just to “relieve” themselves and that they are not trying to hide it/are forthcoming, then it is not considered cheating. Do you agree?

[@mayathayil]

Going to a Prostituée when one is in a relationship is definitely cheating. N even if one isn't in a relationship it shows lack of self control n a slave to dopamine kick.... basically a shallow person

[@Han-cj2jp]

Hi Anna, What? That guy was cheating on you. I would have broken something in his place and start yelling too. And at the end told him that he was bad in bed or like he kisses like my grandma. Haha I also want to hear about David’s dating.

[@manomyth11]

is that a Hickey on your chest''?

[@snotrohmitabc123]

Take accountability for your choices in men. It's your fault for giving your time, attention, emotions to a cheater. Use this experience to make you wiser. Stop choosing men who aren't qualified for long term relationships, marriage, and family.

[@brbapappa]

She found out after a couple of weeks and completely cut him off. What are you on about?

[@slavvalb3933]

It takes time to get to know one . When u meet someone both of you trying to be your best. As the time progresses people take off their mask and show their true self.

[@ADifferentVibe]

@@brbapappai think what the person means is to choose a different place to find men to date long-term. If she keeps using these dating apps and runs into the same kind of guys, she should consider another avenue.

[@vs123]

You steaming

[@xXHanna84Xx]

Ive been with the same man for 15 years, we both cheated on each other, but stayed together. I mean we don't want to destroy everything we built up. And after 15 years....come on,shit happens 😂

[@Megan9689]

That's sad you've made excuses of "lots if time=mistakes happen". Maybe for you two it's no big deal and you've both decided to do it so it says something about your relationship. But no, for others and their strength of their relationship, keeping their connection solid and communication open, if it's understood to be a closed relationship/monogamous then there won't be cheating. Don't make excuses for you 2 and what you lead/let your relationship get to where you both cheated...just sayin'...

[@xXHanna84Xx]

@@Megan9689 Yeah it hurt, but we both did it and we try to move forward.

[@slavvalb3933]

Anything can happen during marriage. People are getting divorced a lot. But, if u are looking for your soulmate , you should have at least similar interests ,as well as emotional/ physical attachment . Finding that your BF or GF is easy and promiscuous for a cheating affairs rings the 🔔 . This person most likely will cheat on you when u get engaged . U do not want to find out that there are lovers, including pregnant women by your partner. Have I also mentioned bringing home STD 😂