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[@clarissahughes6200]

You know you got a good hairstylist when they recommend not getting braids right now. I love those kind of people because it’s not always about just getting the money for them; they actually care about the health of your hair

[@BlackGirlLovesAnime6]

Those types of hair stylists are hard to come by nowadays

[@FruitIsLove2]

GMA just did a story on covid hairloss. They said it's happening to alot of people and can last around two months or more but your hair will grow back. Keep your stress as low as you can and know that you are beautiful and we all love and appreciate you Jess. Hang in there girl. ❤

[@sherrellpatterson418]

This explains so much, I thought I was losing my mind along with my hair. Like my hair has never acted like this, I was so sad. Its good to know the reason

[@lejo281]

Losing my hair too had covid 2xs

[@angelalewis9927]

We should start a support group.... I'm in the same boat. It's depressing 😞

[@quanajohnson9]

Def losing my hair from covid ...I've been natural for for 4 yrs and my hair was so thick and shoulder length... Even with getting my hair dyed, my hair was flourishing...kept.up.with my hair appts for trims and treatments and I was loving it... Got covid right b4 Christmas and I promise you, my hair fell our so.bad....like badly broken off... the left side is what broke off badly and the middle of my hair and it's weak, too much breakage, and just not right...I told my stylist I just need to come and get most of it chopped so that I can start over fresh and healthy ... it has to be done...I thought I was the only one losing hair because of covid🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ its DAMAGED

[@neya292]

Yes- I saw this as well!

[@mrsbrownLove]

Stress issues: Buying a home, Covid, your stair railings, your wedding, your reception dress,…..need I say more? You’ve done ALOT in the last year. It’s a wonder that you even have hair AT ALL!😩 It’ll grow back once everything tapers off and you get use to your new life. Keep your ends trimmed, take your vitamins, drink some aloe juice and lots of water. You’ve always had a great head of hair. Make sure you’re not low on iron too. You’ve got this lil sis!

[@taijhaie02]

This is 💯 correct!!! You are so right and I agree that she should just do exactly what you said.

[@dandnclaxton]

This! Until you have kids and it’s luxe and luxurious for a year and all falls out 🤦🏾‍♀️

[@pinkaddiction13]

Dang. You know her whole life 0_o

[@d.nichole4753]

Facts... that's what happens when people rush through life instead of taking their time

[@michelled.2112]

I think it’s Covid and the vaccine. I have thick hair and mine started thinning and edges snatch

[@zariahantoinette1329]

I almost went through this because i was obsessed with stretching my wash n gos with a blow dryer. The natural hair girlies never talk about the damage it does.

[@iaintoncrack]

Literally. Ever since I started just sitting under a dryer or air drying shrunk and then banding overnight, my hair has been so much healthier. And the effect is literally the same

[@gentlestormwyatt]

I’ve been blow drying my hair every wash day. Never had an issue with my hair either. I never used a heat protectants or any of that. I did hot oil treatments, deep conditioned every wash, and only washed my hair once very month and a half or so depending on the style. When I washed I blew my hair out using the tension method on low heat and then used a comb attachment OR a paddle brush. My hair was perfect until Covid hit me in December.

[@paradoxavakin3420]

Omg me too

[@vivid5203]

Ohhh yeah, that’s a lot

[@CrystalRose1111]

The mere concept of blow drying my hair on a regular basis …. My hair is breaking off just thinking about that lmao

[@curlyana6138]

When Covid made its debut album took me out. Happy to see you optimistic about your hair changing

[@dionenewman9031]

That had me 💀 😂!

[@blessingsforbes7238]

Me too the Covid debut album I’m done

[@royalrayne8948]

Perhaps the ONLY thing that I know about U Jess, is that your hair grows SO FAST & U STILL LOOK GOOD!!!🎆😊🎆

[@Tabetha.]

👍

[@Vonda618]

Yes! And she has beautiful hair!! All she had to do is cut off bad hair and stop COLORING. We can be so impulsive and hard-headed.

[@agirlthatgetsit]

Cut it cut it! Your hair will grow back and be beautiful at every stage. You’re not new to this, you’re true to this 💕

[@deshaabernathy482]

I want her to get professional trims!

[@misterae6430]

no stupid , the awnser is nt always to cut it,,, there are other solutions relatively simple and cheap to recover your hair's health... Protein treatment in this case.. . You almost caus this lady to give up years of hair growth

[@jayd524]

Not good advice

[@gentlestormwyatt]

@@jayd524 that’s amazing advice. The fact is that her hair will grow back. There’s nothing she or anyone can do to bring back the hair that has thinned out. I’m in her exact same boat. Right after Covid my hair started falling out so much. It looks just like hers. My mom’s did the same and we live in the same house. I got 2-3 inches cut and will slowly allow my hair to grow and cut what I need to. As well as keep my stress low, it’s a wonderful idea to let the dead ends go. 🥰🫶🏽

[@Acatalepsyyy]

@@gentlestormwyatt You make a good point but not everyone would want to start all over again when they cab can still just jeep growing it then cut it later. You can even see it now so it's best to leave it.

[@rcarson19679602]

Looks like heat damage, color damage, and stress! Stress is the variable that can change your body's response to everything.

[@shelbymcdandan4431]

@@Tye710 I believe she did in another video.

[@miscellaneouslife2778]

@@Tye710 shes been saying that the wedding planning was stressful

[@abbiecd16]

I agree, I think it’s a combination of things. But especially after she straightened it My hair still hasn’t gone back to normal since my once a year silk press

[@Sisima13]

The last time she straightened her hair she did a reverting back to curly video and her hair was fine…unless she straightened it again at some point

[@v.sing.7407]

I noticed a change after she put that black rinse/semi permanent color in it.

[@chubbi44]

My hair looked exactly like yours when i was experiencing severe Iron Deficiency.

[@KittKat_G]

My hair did that as well and I went to the doctors and I was diagnosed with severe anemia had to be referred to a specialist. It's been a year since that ordeal, now its at a normal level, my hair has bounced back literally. Lol

[@francenegayle3866]

Yup...this happened to me...iron deficiency and Vit D deficiency

[@rwilliams_]

This is what I was going to say too as it’s something in going through also - but I’ve also now had covid 2 times!! After the first time I started noticing changes in my hair. Just had covid again but I’ve started upping my iron intake and starting to notice a difference in my hair which I’m happy about - but then I am actually going to cut it today 😅

[@NayDay718]

Going through that right now

[@rosasellers1813]

@@francenegayle3866 same

[@LotusFlowerLife]

😫 Even though some of your curls got a bit damaged, you still look beautiful! You might want to try fenugreek masks for thickening your curls. It's all natural and works AMAZING and it also safe if it gets on your skin. It moisturizes the scalp & gets rid of itchiness & dryness as well.

[@lilliebrown4779]

You are so funny regardless of the hair situation. You are still blessed.

[@Tabetha.]

👍😁 yes

[@sydstride1]

Rogaine make the hair fall out after you stop using it so you’re gonna have to continue to use it if you start, so you might wanna rethink that one

[@celesteperry4929]

Hey Jess, your hair has definitely changed. However, your new growth looks thicker. So, I think you are on track for healthy hair again. You had to plan a wedding, had COVID, and had to move into a new home. Stress mixed COVID might have did your hair like that. Take it easy, and take care. ❤

[@monicahill750]

I love your attitude, regardless of what you are going through with your hair, you still your happy jolly self. COVID is no joke, my husband had it twice. I had it once over a year and a half ago and my sense of smell is all jacked up. Praying that you get the results you are looking for with your hair. Stay safe ❤️

[@shieasepuryear7038]

I can relate to the smell/taste being altered by covid. So bizarre and isolating.

[@penelopek6559]

May GOD HEAL YOU

[@CrystalM1917]

You should not still be having issues with smell. Get essentials oils and do smell training. Get plenty of zinc and vitamin d.

[@monicahill750]

@@CrystalM1917 That's what my ENT had me to do, it didn't work for me or maybe I didn't stick with it long enough, have you had to try this,if so, how did you do it ❤️

[@CrystalM1917]

@@monicahill750 yes. I had covid in April of 2021 and lost my smell completely and taste loss was around 40% i did sinus rinses with distilled water and saline 1-2x day for a couple weeks. I immediately began smell training and it took some time but with consistent supplementation and smell training it started coming back in a couple weeks. Peppermint was the first smell I started to sense. I was rotating that, eucalyptus, orange, lemongrass, tea tree, cedarwood, and lavendar. It came back completely after a few months. I will say there are a couple of things that don't smell exactly the same as they used to but not anything signifcant enough to be bothered by. I also ate a lot of oranges (vitamin c) and I think that helped with taste, though it was never gone completely like my smell was. Do the smell training atleast 3 x/day. Wishing you 100% recovery 🙏🏽 ❤️ .

[@tekoahcoriel5394]

My hair also went thru a major transition some years ago that looked similar. I learned that I was super deficient in iron and it took a few cuts, supplements and slightly changing my diet to correct. My hair was literally thinning from the bottom up it was crazy

[@Shapress7779]

Iron deficiency can definitely cause hair loss

[@misschin99]

Low ferritin?

[@FancyFallon]

Same here. I had breads to try to protect my hair and because o didn’t address my iron deficiency , vitamin B deficiency and low ferritin levels it broke off from the friction. I have 1-2 inch hairs throughout my head. But since I’ve been taking my supplements I see less shedding and the new growth is coming in. I cut it from mid back to shoulder length to hid it.

[@prettylady818]

Yes the low iron and anemia wrecked my hair. I had no idea you could have hair loss and thinning from iron deficiency.

[@kaystar3434]

Just went to the doctor. I may be low in iron, as well. Waiting on the labs to come back!

[@alanvilleskeete2061]

Girl my hair did that and I chopped it off last November. I had covid back in February and I had no hair issues. It's beautiful, thick and healthy now

[@Ethi___]

Love you JESS !!!! I literally just texturized my natural hair of 4 years & BEST decision I made lol natural im over it right now

[@tabithathewholistic]

Which brand of texturizer did you use, and did you diy it or had it professionally done? Thanks!

[@michelled.2112]

I’ve done it once, It relaxed my cuts and made it more wavy. Ms Jessie’s is a good restoring curly product line

[@michelled.2112]

@@tabithathewholistic motions professional line is good

[@shevewelch306]

Transition from single hair to married hair :-)

[@Thatonegirl989]

I hope she sees this because it’s hilarious 😂

[@claudialachelle4852]

I sent her a similar message on IG lol I wanna see a new “I’s married now!” look/transformation

[@jneezypv]

I had single to married to pregnant. And now a baby pulling out my edges. Back to back to back.

[@shevewelch306]

@@jneezypv what you doing for it?

[@jneezypv]

@@shevewelch306 I tried to rest my hair. No braids. I did a keratin treatment to have some long-term low maintenance straight hair. Castor oil on my edges. Try to keep my baby from pulling my hair. We are still working it out.

[@raqibee]

The way the strands are, in that one area, it looks like it could be heat damage, cause the strands looked more "relaxed" in that one area and your hair has grown since you straightened it. Just a guess, based on the shot, but it doesn't look bad tho🤷🏽‍♀️ we only know because you showed us. You look good, girl! 🦋

[@kimberlyb9509]

Jess, mama, this is definitely a clean slate - and that’s an amazing thing to be aware of. It’s ALL about the journey, girl. The beautiful thing about it all, is that no matter what, hair grows BACK. ❤️ Will be staying tuned for sure. Love you!

[@Ms88keys1]

Yep, I went thru the same thing. I did it by pressing my hair 3 times and I lost my curl pattern. I held on for a while, tried everything you did, got 30% curl patter back but that it. Once my new growth got almost armpit length, I had my girl cut off the raggedy ends (she’s a licensed beautician) and been in braids ever since to not shed tears looking at armpit length instead of mid back. I’m glad I did it, no regrets, hair is growing mad crazy, will be mid back again by the end of 2022 with only one texture. My Advice……..Once you know how to retain length and keep hair moisturized and healthy it’s ok to cut and start over. Go ahead and cut, IT WILL grow back fast.

[@yamziz]

I am facing similar frustrations with my hair. So this makes me feel like I am not alone. Thank you for sharing the highs and lows of your hair journey.

[@Tabetha.]

Hoping you figure it out. I'm rooting for you.

[@yamziz]

@@Tabetha.thanks! 😊

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

You've got this sis 💪🏾 good luck 🙂

[@charmainer.johnson3447]

I think the two of you are adorable. You are the reason I started watching your videos. People are going to hate on you even if you are perfect. I've been married 35yrs and my husband cooks for me even if I haven't done a damn thing all day but guess what it's no bodies business but ours. Continue to be who you are and please do not worry about what people say they are just jealous.

[@Tellylove12]

Grey hair and some types of hair loss/thinning are also related to low iron, vitamin d, zinc or thyroid issues. This is true for me based on my lab results. Sharing this information in case it can help someone.

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

😮 interesting now. I have had all of the above but mine was more high stress related than vitamins deficiency

[@ashleycollins3653]

I honestly believe it's the covid. My hair was fine prior to contracting the virus. One to 2 months later, I noticed severe shedding, edges started thinning, bald spots in few places of my head. My stress level has been high too so that's another thing. Presently, I'm using my zinc, iron , B and D vitamins; and I'll work on managing my stress. Perhaps that should help ease the telogen effluvium ( severe shedding). But I'm definitely not shaving my head.

[@Simplypat87]

Same mine was falling out in clumps so sad black tea rinse help me alot

[@Tabetha.]

Yes make sure you're not stressing too much. I'm rooting for you.

[@Tabetha.]

@@Simplypat87 I'm rooting for you. And yes black tea is good. The caffeine in black tea is not drying your hair out is it?

[@ashleycollins3653]

Thank you both for the encouragement and advice. Will try the black tea rinse.

[@Simplypat87]

@@ashleycollins3653 also try the mielle rosemary oil

[@wizzy_2053]

Hi Jess, i barely comment on videos but i feel like i need to share this with you, YOU ARE NOT ALONE. March 2022 i had to do my fourth big chop reluntly due to color damamge and i felt so sad and insecure being back to the akward length. Sometimes i still regret it but my hair is growing back already at its healthy state which gives me the strength to continue my natural hair journey. I remember that when i had my third bigchop due to heat damage, my hair was the same length as yours, so i would always watch your hair videos to remind me of how long my hair would be if i didn't flat iron it and it would hurt so badly. I have had to many stepbacks due to heat, color damage, stress and negligence, that sometimes i feel like i will never reach my hair goal. But time,patience and consistency are the keys, we just need to stay focused and stay away from anything that can interrupt our journey again. Besides, many hair influencers (Isimeme, Mercy, faceovermatter, etc) are having setbacks and bigchops this year, so it is nice to know that there are others going through the same thing and they are also sharing tips on how they are recovering their hair. I will be here watching your hair recovery journey as i am also in the same journey. Cheers.

[@brittnibenjamin5404]

I haven’t made it through the whole video yet, but I was going through that but due to postpartum shedding. Anyhow, I started doing hot oil treatments once a week and when I tell you my hair sheds less and my hair feels so good!!! I 1000% recommend it!

[@smharris6732]

Same exact thing for me. Post partum snatched my edges and then some. I too started doing wkly treatments and also included rosemary oil and my protective styles is just me two strand twisting and letting it be. To add, upped on the vitamins intake. Oh to be a woman 😄

[@joygabby64]

I think it’s Dreads!! Yes can’t wait to see! Our hair textures are similar and I’ve been back and forth with the idea so I’m excited to see them on you, hopefully.

[@crystallake5825]

If you are itching that bad and you hair is thinning a lot than it's iron deficiency. Have your iron level checked.

[@aishamoore7599]

I have LITERALLY been dealing with the same problem with my hair. Although I have never colored it or had covid in 7 years of being natural. Locs are looking very near in the future for me

[@MariaJ.Patterson]

I've been there. I'm iron deficient. I take my iron like I'm supposed to, but my hair never really thickened back up on that one side. I went natural and that helped some, but I also realized that I'm getting older and sometimes your hair thins when you get older. My Mom's hair did. I just got sisterlocks installed in June and it really, really helped in hiding the thin side. You really can't tell cause of how my loctician did my hair. Don't worry, you'll figure out what to do for your hair.

[@Barnes247]

I mentioned it in one of your other videos that I went through the exact same thing. I loss about 40-50% of my hair after having COVID (2020). I got it a 2nd time this year but didn’t experience any hair loss thank goodness! My hair was bra strap length and I cut it to the demarcation line which was similar to yours. Lastly, this is also my 3rd time having to cut my hair. It’s been so damn frustrating! 🥴 Your hair is clearly on its come back and will start thriving again! 💯🙌🏽

[@Kimillions]

Hi! My hair went through something similar. I clarified weekly and changed my showerhead (added a filter). When I tell you night and day difference!! My hair was more healthy than even before the issues started. I hope things get better for you soon ❤

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

What's a shower head with a filter supposed to do ?

[@nowthatimlocd4459]

I loc’d my hair in january because I just got to the point where it was time I don’t regret my decision and it’s a lot easier do what is best for you but if you decide to come over to the loc side and loc up we’ll be waiting for you and it’s a beautiful experience 🥰👸🏾✨🦋💎

[@ejacques1157]

Yes it is! I got Microlocs and am loving it!

[@nowthatimlocd4459]

@@ejacques1157 yes Locs are the real mvp I always regret not Locing my hair sooner I have thick traditional Locs and I love them 🥰👸🏾💎✨🦋

[@pri_shay_dior]

This is the point I'm at. My hair thinned out from thyroid disease. It started growing back thicker, but now it's super uneven and causing knots and major split ends. I don't think I even want to bother with getting a shape up and starting over AGAIN. Locs are looking promising.

[@emeth1455]

It looks like signs of heat damage, or your curl pattern has loosened a lot. My hair is like that in the front. I haven't dyed my hair, but I have blown dry, and straightened it several times. I also had Covid and it really went crazy after that. I had so much inflammation in my body from Covid including on my scalp. It was so bad I went to a Dermatologist. She put me on antibiotics and I have to wash my hair 3 times a week with this prescription shampoo. It itching on my scalp was crazy also. The treatment is working.

[@daniellehoward7161]

The struggle is real! I understand and feel you, little sis!

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

You will get it sorted out. You've got this!

[@joyroa7913]

Sometimes hair products that make your hair grow can stimulate the follicles on the scalp and make it itch. I think the itching is normal if you’re using a product that is super potent. Just a physical sign that the follicles are activated and allowing growth

[@Blackscubaqueen101]

Tea rinses helps with itching and shedding. Try green and cloves with neem teas. Also invest in an electric scalp massager. If you use as clarifying shampoo, use the scalp massager while the shampoo is still in. Three times a week, use an oil with rosemary and massage your scalp with the oil a minimum of 3 times a week. Also eliminate stress. You were stressed before the wedding. Don't cut just yet.

[@kerry6689]

Try the Aphogee treatment to correct the damaged strands it will take a few months but it certainly works. An alternative to cutting it.

[@oneflyladismith9761]

It could be a mixture of stress of the wedding planning, birth control, covid and emotions. Keep up the great work on keeping the hair & life updates coming despite the uncertainty of your hair.

[@Tabetha.]

👍

[@BlackBeauty2023]

I agree 💯. I also think that she should really be careful when combing her hair, while it's wet. That is when it's most fragile and most likely to break off. I know personally that this is easier said than done though lol.

[@Dancingbyfaith3]

Hey ! I’m sorry you are going through this. I pray God gives you wisdom and will return the glory to your hair ! Pray for your hair it works 😇🥰

[@soriyazz]

It's the Wild Growth Hair Oil Jess. I promise you. Mine did the exact thing. I cut it 3x before I realized this was it. 6-7 months before It started to fill in again w/o it literally falling out in the shower. Touching it. Anything It was the oil.

[@demi5378]

I know, I tried one of these oils & it was too strong for me. It touch my face (my hair after applying) made it irritated & swollen.

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

😲 so sorry to hear that has happened to you lot, thanks for sharing ladies

[@jeanineteel9034]

Stay strong, the beauty of hair is… it’s a wonderful accessory that changes through time… good or bad enjoy the journey, we are here cheering you on 🎉🎉!

[@jaysspot8141]

Omg girl where you been…why am I not getting my notifications now I gotta go catch up so I’ll be back to watch this one! Miss you 🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽

[@ninarobertson3901]

I had pretty bad postpartum shedding and just did a big chop, my second one and it’s been hard! My hair was pretty long and healthy but pregnancy completely changed my hair. Getting used to short hair but the shedding stopped and my hair is getting back to normal 🥰

[@nickys6656]

My Postpartum shedding with my son was horrible. While pregnant with him I had enough hair for 2 1/2 people. Then I lost softball sized hair balls after I had him. Thankfully I did not have bald spots, but I’m still recovering nearly 3yrs later 😫. I have tons of new growth now, but I’m working on getting my length back. I had two kids back to back so I’m sure that had a lot to do with my massive hair loss.

[@apara2005]

I know you don't want to cut it because it will be so short, but it's going to break off at the line anyway. Save yourself the stress and heartache of seeing the large amount of hair loss at wash day/styling, and just cut it all off, and work with the twa.

[@Tabetha.]

👍

[@racheloshaksmusic]

I know you said you're not ready but I think you should do the big chop and keep the new growth than holding on to the hair that is no longer serving you for another 6 months, as it might start to go up the hair shaft to your new growth. Btw you are beautifullll. Congratulations to your new season, marriage and so on, maybe your hair is reflecting the new changes and a new hair cut could be part of the new start. There's nothing wrong with starting again, your a champ and your hair grows very fast and healthy and luscious and this time next year, your hair will be grown back to shoulder length and better.

[@iamtorichanel444xoxo]

omg watching this video seriously made me feel like I’m not alone and finally have a few answers/suggestions on why tf my hair is going through this thank you Jesssssss!

[@carbonwildflower]

If it makes you feel any better.. you cant tell when your hair is dry. I know alot of people (including myself from post partum) going through similar things! X

[@michellegabrielleee]

The same exact thing happened to me, I just did a curly cut because I couldn’t take it anymore 😭. I did my big chop a couple months after yours and now all that hair I grew is gone

[@jessicajones4925]

Hey Jess! Loved your video! Wanted to provide some feedback. I used Rogaine and I made the decision to stop. If you use Rogaine, it is strongly recommend that you continue to use it for the rest of your life or else the hair that grew with the help of Rogaine will for sure fall out. I experienced it and it is stated on the packaging. Post hair shedding my scalp itched like crazy. To resolve this issue, I used rosemary and clove water for a month and my scalp completely stopped itching. Wishing you many blessings on your hair journey!

[@sassys1240]

You could big chop now and wear you hair blown out. Short straight hair is so cute 🥰. I miss my short styles sometimes. I'm still on my journey, but I'll cut it again for the short look. I love the style at the end. Will be doing that under my wig next month. Thanks for sharing.

[@bjnaturalz6819]

Seborrheic dermatitis is probably what you going through with the itching because I am experiencing the same itch I can’t keep in styles lost my edges. My hair is thinning from the roots. That’s what my dermatologist told me for me. I’m leaving all alcohol products alone to see if it will reconstruct my hair. Everything DIY products I will let you know the results ❤️❤️❤️

[@GILDAONLINEE]

The same thing has happened to my hair and the one thing we have in common is the straightening ... It's giving heat damage

[@AC-we8so]

I’m in a similar position :( my stylist said that I have chemical damage from something, but I don’t know. She thinks someone put a texturizer in my hair and, based on my experience at a diff salon, I agree. My entire curl pattern is looser, but I am not a fan cause it is also weaker and doesn’t hold a shape. It was my first go at being natural, and I took this pretty hard because I was finally starting to love my hair natural… I admire how you seem to be lighthearted about it. I’m trying..and luckily I still have curls that I can wear naturally, even if they aren’t the curls I grew to love. Bottom line, your attitude in this video was motivating for me. Thanks 😊

[@MsJay0913]

Kudos to you for listening to your stylist.. And to her for not just saying okay to whatever you ask for knowing it would make things worse.

[@EDM254]

Two years of back to back stressors,traumas, and deaths has resulted in vey thin hair. I also found out my Vitamin D is low and that could cause the hair loss. We have to take care of ourselves as much as we can.

[@brittanytiera3299]

Covid hair loss is real. I got like 3 inches of my hair cut in May and I’m so happy I did. It’s growing back healthy again.

[@gentlestormwyatt]

Same. Me too. I’m so happy I had it cut. They made the biggest difference in the world 🥰🫶🏽

[@beautyfulldrey]

Girl you are naturally too funny . I love it . I’m kinda going thru this hair phase as well . Pray it gets better

[@malisashackelford-eades3117]

Rosemary as an essential oil can be strong. Try diluting it just a little with almond or coconut oil and see if that helps.

[@sparkleboea]

Jess, I’m sorry about what happened to your hair! I can relate completely. This same thing happened to my hair and I had to do a big chop #2 about 6 months ago. It happened right after I dyed my hair black and straightened it the next week. I wouldn’t count the black box dye out and combo of straightening natural hair especially if it’s not used to that kind of stress. My problems started about 2 months later I could notice the thinning. Better days are ahead though ♥️

[@kekelopez6256]

It may be you stretching out your hair with the blow dryer, the damage parts looks like it’s the same area where you apply heat when stretching

[@try8042]

After my divorce I was losing so much hair I also was very anemic. I started taking iron, keeping my hair in twist, and trimming my ends weekly and I’m seeing great improvement. I also bumped up my protein on my hair twice a month. It grows back so I’m just enjoying the journey.

[@naturally_nica]

Oh no!! The mark is definitely there. You can tell the difference in the curl pattern as well. Whatever is in that oil you're probably allergic to. That type of itching is definitely bad sign of allergy. Your big chop will be glorious.

[@ariellotusflowervlog4727]

My hair did the same thing after covid, and a few people I know also. Your hair looks exactly like mine, and I did a bunch of research on the topic. It has to do with a high temp, but also the body pulls from everywhere to fight off the virus. And that includes hair for both women and men. But it's more noticeable for women obviously. So my bet is definitely Covid, I'm sorry hunni.

[@saraiibokette7111]

That’s heat damage babe. It’s happened to me every single time I flat ironed my hair. I notice it months later. Flat ironing my hair literally means I have to start over.

[@shinebrightaj]

Yes Jess! I could definitely see you with micro locks/sister locks.

[@JermaineAuNatural]

It is a trip how our bodies go through random changes and how it affects us BUT my darling friend, if you have not, I would suggest making a doctors appointment and getting some blood work done just to make sure it’s not a internal thing. A PCP appointment not Urgent care😆 Theories are cool but facts present actual receipts of issue or no issue. I just want you to be full headed and healthy and know for sure what’s happening instead of guessing.💚

[@litebohopekeche8648]

When I saw "Another SAD hair update" on my notification bar I found myself thinking "not another big chop🤧"

[@denyshadials5702]

Looks a lot like heat damage. The covid hair loss I’ve seen looks more similar to postpartum. But I mean if you want to cut there’s absolutely nothing wrong with that.

[@bobatearoar]

I know it's been two weeks but what would you recommend for someone who has heat damage? I also need to strip my hair strands and I'm not sure what to use. I have thick 4c hair :) And I already trimmed the damaged ends.

[@cookiemonster8184]

@@bobatearoar If you need a stripping shampoo, I recommend Come Clean by Kinky Curly and for the heat damage, try to add more protein products in your regimen

[@nakiaakbarx3042]

This is a great video! Jess is positive - even when giving disappointing hair updates. Never afraid to experiment, nor is Jess ever afraid to cut her hair. Most of the time when I dye or straighten my hair, I experience hair loss too. Jess, keep the videos coming! & thank you

[@olubebe]

Chillllsss. The vocals, the harmonizations!! They just eat and eat and EATTT!! We have no choice but to Stan 😩

[@BreunaShynece]

The same thing happened to me after covid. My hair is thin all over but the front… the front really exited stage left 😩 I don’t want to big cup because my hair is the longest it’s been since childhood 😢

[@cindistock]

Do not use Rogaine two of my aunts used that on their hair yes it made their hair grow but once they stop using it their hair fell completely outs. Like bald eagle out. Romaine is not good for you

[@wenemnemew1580]

It's the bobble head moment for me 🤣😂🤣 I love your new bob Jess!!! You make me want to book my appointment because You make it look so good!

[@nai1042]

Hey Jess I'm so glad you uploaded this, my hair has been going through the same thing in terms of it being supper itchy. My mom is a natural hair chemist and she said my hair is growing so it could definitely be that for you too.

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

Oh yeah? Well, thanks for sharing 👍🏾

[@chanelbriggs9501]

I’ve never been so fast lol !

[@panda22518]

Same!!

[@HOPROPHETA]

Try Clove and rosemary water x 1 week only. It is a mild protein treatment.

[@flames22x]

Rosemary and what???

[@HOPROPHETA]

@@flames22x clove.......spell check!😐

[@flames22x]

@@HOPROPHETA thank you. How do I use this as protein treatment???

[@HOPROPHETA]

@@flames22x Make a tea with it. Let it cool down to room temperature. Put it in a spray bottle. Spray your hair with it 2 times a day. I layer black castor oil on top. It makes your hair strong and thick. Maintain the protein moisture balance though.

[@flames22x]

@@HOPROPHETA thank you so much!!! Definitely gonna try this

[@missfitfortrucking2738]

Hey Jess I did the last Big Chop with you. My hair is still flourishing. I keep it in protective styles. Thx you for keeping us posted on your life's journey.

[@ChocoLex]

What a coincidence, I too have did three big chops because unfortunately all the stylists I go to cannot straighten my hair without damaging it. But you can definitely do some mini twists or mini braids before you get braids with braiding hair. If I had to guess what your fun style will be, I would say maybe a nice shaped cut/curly cut or some sort of natural hair updo?

[@VenezuelanPapiQueenB]

You know before you big chop, try a protein treatment and see how that helps. Your hair can bounce back, hang in there!

[@tay9sdaughter121]

Wow Jess my hair is going through the same thing. I never had covid tho. I think my hair is suffering from the way the shampoo girl blow dry my hair.

[@vettharris3043]

I get it. I just did the big chop just yesterday. Hopefully my hair will grow back healthy this time around. Fingers crossed 🤞🏽

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

👏🏾 It will, keep us all updated!

[@melaninmomchronicles2357]

Have you ever had your water levels tested? Hard water is serious on the hair as well

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

I've been reading this kind of comment a lot . Could you please explain what's the problem with hard on our hair ?

[@melaninmomchronicles2357]

@@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick I figured it would make more sense if I gave you info from a website because I’d confuse you with my rambling 🤣: That’s because hard water contains a buildup of minerals, such as calcium and magnesium. This produces a film on the hair, making it difficult for moisture to penetrate. As a result, the hair is left dry and prone to breakage.

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

@@melaninmomchronicles2357 oh my God! Thank you so much for this precious piece of information ❤️ I'll spread it around me. This is The type of stuff people need to be aware of maaaad! THANKS a lot and ur explanation was crystal clear 👌🏾

[@melaninmomchronicles2357]

@@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick No problem and the only reason I found out is because when I moved to Houston I ended up needing 4 inches taken off 😡 when I got a silk press. I deep condition weekly so I knew it couldn’t have been me

[@spacetimecontinuum]

Girl you better pop some gel on that hair put it in a bun and call it a day, it will give all that it needs to give, until you decide to big chop or not.

[@Leah-rv7zy]

This video is not for my hair type but I enjoyed watching you style it & listening to you, it felt like I was hanging with a friend in her bathroom & I caught myself laughing a few times lol❤️

[@shandrarichardson8954]

I know a lot of people are not gonna agree with me but you have got to change your hair routine. When you are constantly wetting your hair, manipulating it, and letting it add dry this is why your hair is thinning. I had to learn this for my own hair. The only time that your hair should be wet is when you wash it. Put it in the style you're going to put it in and dry it completely. Honestly, I learned a lot from Cyndoll's channel. She is so honest about the science of hair air and debunking all of these natural hair hacks and myths.

[@krystalnmitchell]

Heyyy Jess girl your hair is gonna grow back in 2mins anyway 😆

[@lilnativa_That_4C_hair_Chick]

😁😁 I second this!

[@LaLazWay1]

If you blow dry it will it make it more damaged?

[@rejesus7106]

Re read that question. Yes and yea it will

[@cheyannegrimes4513]

Girl it's all the stress getting to you, you went through a lot this year and it shows in your hair.

[@T56757]

Thanks for sharing. It looks like heat damage. Take a break from heat. If you do it again use a heat protectant. One brand that’s really good is from CHI. All the best and give us an update video.

[@simplyteyana1047]

Girl loc it up I know you want to. Love your vids 💗

[@lrobertson2009]

Girl I know how you feel. My hubby finally laid down the law and has abolished me from wearing weaves. Now that I am wearing my hair I'm so lost. It's damaged but not too horrible. Idk what styles will work but it's been scary but fun exploring what's right for my hair. I pray you have a successful hair journey. I love your energy and smile❤

[@EpicRealistTV]

Wow! He is a real man for that. Not many men will abolish that. I agree wholeheartedly. I have never worn weaves and my hubby appreciates it, and my hair always flourishes. EVen in my bored hair moments, I just color it and it's still fine.

[@lrobertson2009]

Over 20yrs of our marriage, I've wore my hair maybe 20 times. All my excuses are no longer valid 😂 It's taking time to get used to. Thank u for feedback.

[@DannielleElliott]

I've been dyeing my hair with Clairol Grey Solutions. I left it on longer that I should have because I thought it wasn't damaging, but as soon as I rinsed it, I notice my hair had loosened in several places. Now my hair looks very similar to yours, especially in the front.

[@keilahmills9271]

Hey girl, I just wanted to encourage you and say that this is only a season and your hair will come back fuller and stronger 💕💕. Also if you did choose to chop it off you would still look good either way 🙏🏾

[@rasheikarp]

🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[@iyaniabizzett8543]

Child you know it's the straightening 😭😭😭😭😭

[@suzanneglass-foster5626]

The same thing is happening to me. It is so weak that when I was braiding it clumps were/are coming out. I think it is from straightening my hair in December. I had gotten it really straight.

[@rozonnrickerby1412]

I literally lost all my hair the first time I got covid. My grandma had passed around the same time so my body went unto a frenzy. I cut all my hair last year and I've had significant growth, but I got covid again last month. Lmao my hair is in braids and I'm dreading taking them out. Pray for me, y'all. 🙏🏿❤

[@lisadunk323]

Rozonn, Jess selected me as a prize winner and i am passing on the gift to you. God bless and enjoy.

[@deborahcarr9023]

Sally, you are a wonderful person, that is so nice of you🌹🤩🙏🏼

[@ivymerritt7577]

I'm glad you've found products that are helping you with your hair loss!! 🤗♥️🤗♥️🤗♥️🤗♥️

[@Tabetha.]

👍

[@debbie2211]

You are Beautiful regardless of your hair status! I watch your videos because you always make me laugh… I Think it was the the dress maker and the contractor who stressed you out! Blessings to you! Debbie

[@clew5010]

😂😂

[@asia91070]

I literally just went through the same thing. After 10 years of beautiful healthy hair I ended up having to do a big chop. I just decided to keep it short and now its super healthy.

[@skiniminonochie]

Sounds like you have an allergy to an ingredient in the oil stimulator. Direct contact with Lavender oil does that to me and it took a little trial and error to figure that out.

[@demi5378]

That was me with coconut oil...