Answering The Big Question That's Been Ignored - Chateau Life 🏰 EP 317

So time to answer the question that has been asked a lot and been ignored....
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[@user-fc2hb3de2w]

Your kindness is epic. Yes, I wondered. No, I would never have asked. You both have a right to your privacy.

[@JudithBisson]

Same, it’s not our lives. We are just lucky enough to be part of it. ❤️🙏

[@chericornish4800]

I agree that your private life is just that. Best wishes to you both. Continued success

[@janesuprise8669]

Absolutely. I had wondered, hoped I was reading too much into the absence but would never have asked. I figured as much after your birthday video. Sorry

[@TheWendyls]

Totally agree with your privacy stand Phil. It could be easier for you if Angelina was removed from the chateau life general vlogg banner and info pages.

[@derekbeauchamp1501]

Well said, phil !! Good luck for your future ❤ xx

[@lesleybonarius2085]

It is nobody else's business, no need to apologise!! Good luck for the future 😘

[@lotusdolphin]

Absolutely Phil. Your business is your business. No apologies needed I wish the best for both of you going forward. However, that looks. Sending loads of love from California.🤟🏻💜😎🐬🇺🇸

[@jackiehobson9501]

Dear Phil, Angelina many months ago on her Instagram stated that she would not be returning to France. You are not alone. Enjoy your new life and hopefully you will be able to continue looking after your fabulous castle.

[@scotchette]

Yes, I remember.

[@paulette6087]

What is her insta? Is she still doing crafts?

[@TheasChristmasVillages]

Don't complain, don't explain. Your private life is your business. We love you and wish you all the best. The channel is called Chateau Life, which is all we need to know about. Keep on rockin', buddy! You are doing great.

[@casperbenj]

well said.

[@bonnieeely4826]

Crack On

[@annhardesty1696]

The elephant has left the room. Good of you to show it out. Onward.

[@bscraig7308]

I think most of us had worked it out. 'Nuff said. Subject closed. Take care.

[@globalunity4249]

I made the assumption long ago. Best to both of you and you certainly do not have to justify your approach with the matter. Rock on.

[@samanthabloggins1775]

I'm sorry that you had to go public with your private life!! Wishing you better days ahead!!

[@quietspacearts]

none of our business what your private life is, all you need to do is be happy in life for you xx

[@patriciafoley1494]

Hey Phil fix your house fix your car that’s enough. Don’t read the nasty comments!! If someone has the bad manners to inquire about your private life thats on them!! We are all just living life taking chances. Ok all my mom wants to see is the Range Rover up and running 🏃‍♀️

[@pamkullman8839]

we rather you be not so anxious and not faint or have a heart attack while you give your answer to such a difficult thing or process that people go through. Love to you both. very brave...take a deep breath, it is out in the universe now and everyone can get on.

[@CynthiaBerry713]

My statement to a tee.

[@fasteddy917]

Elephants always make so much noise leaving the room and the clean up can be monumental. All the best to you both and really, it's no ones business but your own.

[@tamithirion7766]

It truly must be difficult being a KZbinr. Yes, it's insane how people feel that they have the right to be so personal with you. May you and Angelina have blessed and happy life, and deserve to have a private life. 🙏🤗

[@bonniefrench9884]

Sticky pads work really well for the hornets..😊👍💗

[@catherinefromchristchurchn6508]

And what do you do with the ANGRY hornets when they are stuck to the sticky pads?

[@rrl4245]

Wishing you, and Angelina, all the best. You're both great people...

[@bridgetmustard5285]

Angelina posted on Instagram over a year ago that she had left France,left the chateau and left Phillip. It's your business and no one else's. Look forward to seeing what you do with the range Rover.xx

[@marshawargo7238]

I don't Insta but I did feel that it was a split when she wasn't back after a month. But I'll just keep watching for the house content & to Anyone else who watches it should just be a blip in someone Else's Personal life! I imagine she's been asked often, to have made it like an announcement. Or maybe is starting to date. Still nobody's business but theirs. Even when you ask "how are you" it's kind of a surprise if they answer with something other than "fine". People on this social think they deserve Everything, including information you just don't want to address😢! Then they give their opinions!!! Just hope they're doing good!❤

[@potterkelly487]

Thank you, Phil! It was obvious and none of our business.🇨🇦❤️

[@fineweaver]

Misplaced love is not a concept I had ever considered. Thank you for giving me something very important to meditate on. You are an incredibly kind man, Phil.

[@victoriawoods3231]

Tell me you’re going through a divorce without telling me you’re going through a divorce… you aced it Phil this last year. I’m sorry you’ve had to be this transparent. Like the legend you are, you smashed this completely awkward and unnecessary video. It was painful to watch tbh. I hope you’re ok. To the stalker, shame on you!! Said with peace and love 🤬

[@roberta1678]

Wishing you well and safety through the storm. The rest is, as you say, none of our business.

[@TheDooskinCO]

Three years ago, I watched you restore the Swan House. It is heartbreaking to see it covered in pea soup. Hopefully the water level will go down soon.

[@nancycowan6109]

Sorry this was painful for you. But truthfully, your channel was a collab with Angelina and you and she was a big part of everything. So naturally we were concerned. Most of us could “read the room” and not ask intrusive questions. You’re a gem, Phil. Thanks for sharing shit that is really none of our business. Now back to those man-eating bees. Yikes.

[@nancynally]

It boggles my mind that some people hadn't figured this out already...you've handled this with class Phil.

[@TGPR233]

I just assumed she didn't want to be in the videos anymore

[@Loops25]

Because I care, I would not ask. However, I want to say that you have done very well managing the channel, and the chateau, despite the change in circumstances. That is what I notice. Bravo!

[@lisaakinlabi]

How unfortunate that you felt pressure to divulge your private life. So disgusting that strangers feel they have a right to know and get into your business. Big hugs Phil - you are a good man and I respect that you kept it personal until now. Now let's move on! DO BETTER PEOPLE! Now leave it be!

[@angelathompson5196]

Don’t be sad about the past it’s Gone..Don’t stress about the future it hasn’t arrived..live in the present and make it Beautiful 💕 Bless you for keeping going with you tube …you’re thoughtfulness shines best wishes Phil 😊

[@CynthiaBerry713]

Deep breath, Phil! In...out...go on, breathe deep. You did it. Looking forward to seeing you more upbeat and at ease, now that the elephant has trudged on down the lane. Life goes onward! Um, dare I ask...where is Lightning?? I hope he's ok!

[@ceciliacraig9509]

Your private life should stay private. You are a very kind person, always stay positive! Love watching you helping Billy, and helping Simon with the roof, looking after you beautiful château! Good luck going forward, you deserve the best!

[@vhopeful1]

Phil, I'm sorry that you felt you had to share. Although it's sad, it happens. I was married for 20 years and it all fell apart. It took me a good 5 years to recover and another 15 years before I found my true love. Live is a journey. You are a loving and caring person. Hang in there. I love watching your vlogs !❤

[@jenniwatson8799]

I had figured out Angelina wasn't coming back & would never have asked such a personal question. Love to both yourself & Angelina.

[@1maryposa]

thanks Phil for your openness on what i can only imagine is a delicate subject and i hope others are satisfied and leave that door to your private life closed

[@michaelwieneke1992]

You're right, Phil, people sometimes just grow apart despite good intentions. Hang in there, you have our support. ❤ to Angelina, as well. Wish her all the best.

[@Grandmotherof3]

You are such a generous person. Always believing everyone has good meanings! You definitely have the right to a private life! But thank you for sharing. Love to you from USA and prayers for you and Angelina to have happy futures! ❤❤❤

[@gwendolyneglinton1704]

Phil, I taught my children years ago that life has many roads. There will always be ups and downs with many turns. You are kind and generous. I enjoy your videos because of that.

[@simonlloyd8424]

Good luck to you both for the future! Most people had realised what had happened and didn’t want to invade your private lives.

[@MK-Farm-Michigan]

I understood from a year ago Phil. I feel for you I have been there myself. God will help you heal!

[@tannisslimmon]

What a generous soul you are. I’m sorry that you’ve had to share so much, but you’ve certainly done it with class. ❤

[@danielulz1640]

I am sorry to hear that things did not work out the way you might have hoped. I do hope that you and Angelina are both happy and at peace with your lives.

[@wandacasper5612]

I just want to say, thank u for allowing us into your life. To share the home u live in, an how u work on it. Thank u. U don't have to say any thing more. I've learned more carpenter ins an out. Stay safe with the storm coming.😊😊😊

[@rosemaryferguson7644]

We had a problem with a hornet invasion. It began slowly but within a couple days it was unmanageable. Turned out the old chimney we had blocked off had a very large nest in it. Check your chimney! Take care and look after yourself.

[@allisonrobb5329]

Understood, Phil. As a recently divorced person I empathise. Life definitely goes on. Courage.

[@janescott4574]

You’d have to be thick as a plank not to realise that you have separated from Angelina. I have the theory that the people that keep asking where she is are perfectly well aware of what’s happened, they just want you to go into all the reasons and spill the beans on what is none of their business, its like rubber necking a road accident. Hopefully they will now shut up. You are a lovely man and an incredible friend to so many, may you find happiness again in your personal life, you deserve it.

[@karentozer1871]

Ditto ❤

[@Billkwando]

Don't be so judgy, not everyone watches every single video. They might just be thinking she decided to step away from the camera for a while, or even worry that she's unwell. Did you know Billy Petherick has a "mystery" brother who lives there but doesn't want to be shown on camera? Anything is possible.....folks can think of lots of less dire reasons....I just did, and I hadn't even thought about her not being around until now. I wouldn't assume folks are trolling....Phil certainly is giving them the benefit of the doubt, so let him be positive about it if that's what he wants.

[@phyllisburrell8661]

​@@Billkwando, she called you 'vile' , I don't think so. ; )

[@Billkwando]

@@phyllisburrell8661and I wouldn't have mentioned it if Billy hadn't mentioned it in his own videos first. He just mentions it once, IIRC, but it's not a "secret", that's why I put it in quotes.

[@phyllisburrell8661]

@@Billkwando, I know, I remember him saying it. Billy blocked me from comments awhile back, not sure what it was that I said, but I am curious. He had liked and responded to lots of my comments,so I was surprised. I 'think' it was because I left a comment on their friend Darcy taking a apartment there. Even though it was obvious to me, he hadn't announced it or maybe still hasn't, I'm not sure. Didn't take a genius to figure it out though. I have never considered your comments anything other than funny and upbeat.

[@claudetteparadis3969]

Respect to you for handling this delicate subject so well Phil. Not easy to do but you did it with class and kindness. Hope that storm passes by quickly and that everyone stays safe.

[@Ldyrev1]

Your story is your story and you don't need to say anything. You both have my most sincere blessings on your lives as you move forward. Thank you for understanding that there are so many of us that do care about you both! Hugs and prayers for healing.

[@marykelly9698]

You 2 people are beautiful and i wish nothing but happiness and love for yous both ❤❤

[@marciajacotine7857]

Good luck to you Phil, you are a wonderful person❤️🇦🇺

[@Cueman222]

You're a good man Phil. I wish nothing but the best for you.

[@lhmcd5538]

I thought it was obvious that you were no longer with Angelina. I would never dare to ask. You are such a gentleman Phil. Thank you for being you. May you please take care and stay safe. Louisa. 👏👏👏❤️❤️❤️🤩🤩🤩

[@latrisatate8613]

What a classy guy you are Phil. Thanks for the clarification. On another note, I really love what you did to that room! It looks so cozy!

[@jeanniewaters8465]

Love ya Phil, these things happen but no judgment here🎉 carry on, love your honesty❤

[@TheFiown]

Such a massive undertaking is a make or break. I did wonder but as you say it is your private life. I am always commenting to Ms Jarvis that she does not have to say everything or justify herself. We do not own you. Wishing you all the best in both your lives. Hugs xxx

[@GyurlTrini]

Hey Phil! ... I just remembered something that I think you should make a note of ... in your "about" section of your channel, it clearly mentions Angelina's name ... as if the channel would also be featuring her. So, you might want to make some edits there & rewrite it a bit!

[@user-dq2ms5tn5n]

Thank you Phil. Best of luck and love to you and Angelina.

[@YeBeWarnedArtists]

We love you Phil and are behind you 100%! You’re an amazing man with a good heart. We wish you both healing, happiness and peace. 😘

[@poodlegirl55]

Good luck to you both, I wish you well. I think subscribers get attached to seeing their KZbin people and wonder if they haven't seen them for awhile. On the Pethericks people will ask where has Rick been, where is Yanis? They just get used to seeing them. But of course you all deserve your personal space.

[@shirleyleichliter4487]

Best wishes to you both ❤

[@vanlassie]

Haha! I just saw Yanis rocking out at the Petherick’s Halloween party! It was epic.

[@prwmath]

Thank you for your honesty. I pray for you both to find peace.

[@stockholm1655]

Maybe an update of your channel header image and description, will be a way to show a new identity of Chateau Live

[@cousinbillybob3224]

That must’ve taken a lot of courage Phil, but well done for talking about it so openly. You have many supporters and great friends, so I’m sure you’ll knuckle down to work like you always do..👍🏻

[@lynnkornegay1898]

Hey Phil, Thankyou for being real. In the words of the late & great John Lennon, “Life is what happens when you’re busy making other plans.” Blessings, Lynn

[@ehpeachylove]

Praying the storm does not cause damage to your château and the gardens. You’re a wonderful caring man, you are doing a great job on your property and have wonderful friends. Life moves on for all of us. Wishing you every happiness Phil. I enjoy your channel’s and looking forward to seeing the Range Rover back on the road for Billy. See you tomorrow or when you feel up to posting. Enjoy your time at the pub. Cheers 🍻

[@sheryld1957]

I hope you get a handle on that pea soup soon. Anything else is no ones business. Sending hugs and prayers for peace about each step to your restoration.

[@eamonnoconnor3778]

Phil keep up the great work

[@leneanker9518]

I’m glad you told us Phil. We have all felt your sadness. Lots of us have gone trough divorce, and it is SO hard. You are a really good guy and in the future someone will throw their big love at you and spoil you like crazy, and my God you deserve it ❤❤❤

[@user-wx4pv4uc1p]

I am sorry that people keep asking.

[@judymills3599]

Phil you are the same age as my son and all i really want to do is give you a motherly hug. Anyhow, you have a beautiful chateau and a gorgeous puppy dog and wonderful friends. Keep on smiling and carry on being you.

[@Chris-NZ]

One of the interesting things about youtube is that when you follow channels for long enough you realise that the couples that are portrayed do not live some life that is charmed in a way the the rest of us aren’t. I’ve seen multiple relationship splits, deaths through covid , successful channels just vaporising , if anything I think the pressure of KZbin puts much more strain on relationships than most of us appreciate .

[@rostallar4243]

You are absolutely correct that this issue is nobody else’s bussines but yours & Angelinas.

[@cremebrulee4759]

Thank you, Phil. It was a bit confusing and concerning when Angelina suddenly wasn't in any videos anymore after seeing her so much. So I think it was proper for you to address it without going into detail. You didn't say anything but seemed okay and kept making videos, so I kept thinking she was coming back. I am sad for both of you and for Lightning. I was concerned about you having to manage everything at the chateau yourself, but it seems you are managing it just fine. Plus, you are constantly helping others. Plus, working on the car. I don't know how you do it. Again, thank you for letting us all know the situation.

[@carolannecosgrove5152]

I'm so sorry to hear that, but remember, once one door closes another one opens.❤

[@merrileeheard3889]

Phil, I didn't start following your channel until very recently. I had a feeling you were going to be on your own. I wish you all the best. ❤

[@kathykline7686]

Sending prayers to you both!

[@hollysterrett104]

Love watching your channel. Look forward to what you do in the future.

[@LA-jf1zn]

Blessings to you both. I wish you both much happiness. 🙏🦋

[@terrileyda5346]

Love you both & have been where you are. Thank you & bless you both!💕💕

[@delanebredvik]

Sending you positive vibes! Thanks for this.

[@lcg5790]

Thank you for sharing Phil.

[@annreeve9280]

Prayers go with you! 💜

[@supremlyfoxylass]

Philly I figured that out a long time ago. Her loss, your a great guy with such a kind heart. You don’t owe anyone any explanation. The more you explain the more people want. It’s ok to keep some things private! Love from Vermont, USA

[@RVGlerup]

Hoping the best for you both.

[@alanbenton]

Thank you for sharing with us, Phil!

[@annettemackinnon5755]

Thank you for sharing, good wishes to both of you.

[@michaelhudson145]

Wishing you both the best.

[@charlesstrunk3413]

Thank you for sharing.

[@sallykeen3791]

Sending hugs and praying for you. Enjoy watching you

[@shirleyreynolds2090]

We love you both! Happy life to you both❤

[@maryanncollins4945]

Sending hugs !! Keep being you 😁❤

[@tammyjackson8801]

Much respect for you 2,much love and blessings ❤

[@janeharris6925]

Thanks for updating us.

[@dawnb7494]

Best wishes to you both. Thank you for sharing ❤

[@paularichardson5849]

Thank you. Your a brave man

[@Stephen_A.]

I'm sorry to hear of your sad news. Sending hope and prayers. 💝

[@kirkshrum6222]

Thank you for sharing Phil, no more info is needed. Cheers Kirk

[@rosiebeardshaw658]

All the best for the future to you both. A new chapter.

[@ritacarlson9522]

I wish nothing but the best for you Phil...live your life and may many years of happiness lay ahead. 😊

[@celiaellen3408]

Thanks for sharing. Good luck to you both for the future. :)

[@reneesteffenauer3159]

Supporting you both in your futures and wishing you both the best. Change is difficult.

[@zurastewart6375]

Wishing you both wellness and happiness in years to come.

[@jeangodding6348]

Best wishes to you both .

[@heatherholland7801]

You have a gorgeous château! Thank you for sharing your lovely château ! I wish you well wishes.

[@michellecook2338]

You are quite right . ❤ take care .