Answering Your Bisexuality Questions | Melanie Murphy Q&A

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

Where do you fall on the LGBTQ+ spectrum? Tell me/us down in the comments! Happy pride month internet fam! xx

[@indiand6460]

Melanie Murphy think I'm Panromantic Grey/Demisexual but not sure how to identify my gender-somewhere between agender and female I think

[@jodievance]

Melanie Murphy no idea what I identify as lmao, just going with the flow

[@queenofmyvagina4451]

Melanie Murphy I'm really gay

[@emilyjade7722]

I get too excited when you upload :D I very heavily identify as bisexual

[@lunathealien1967]

Melanie Murphy I'm super duper bi

[@artlines6770]

Okay but saying "oh they're not bisexual, because they've only gone out with their opposite gender." Is like saying all virgins are asexual?? Like? No? That's not how it works🙄

[@blackcatinahatreilly1683]

Artlines thank you so much, I was always looking for the best way to combat an accusation such as that and this point is absolutely perfect

[@noisyowl5482]

Artlines thats true

[@sophie4877]

I’ve also had a friend refer to one of his pals as “properly bisexual” bc she’s been with a fairly equal number of men and women... like what?! 😂

[@chloereed2434]

@@badis1173 so people are straight until proven guilty aswell then

[@Aboutamovie]

* sees Bisexuality in the title, drops everything and clicks on the vid.* i seriously need to start studying lol. Also, Melanie, your hair is gorgeous!!

[@shannonbailey6785]

About a movie Same!! aaah it's a real struggle!

[@carrriiybeck1439]

About a movie yass! Love finding other little bi youtubers! x

[@cahilreilly9849]

About a movie cathal like you girl :)

[@smitimodhurima7284]

hey i love your channel!

[@michellegoggin3522]

ooo relate so hard❤ #fuckthelc

[@jodievance]

bi people are like werewolves, when they're in human form, they're still a werewolf and when they're in wolf form they're still a werewolf. so all bi people are werewolves.

[@diariodecaru]

Jodie Vance best metaphor ever

[@cahilreilly9849]

Jodie Vance cathal like you girl :)

[@naima5300]

Jodie Vance mindblown 😂

[@nvmindem]

Jodie Vance werewolves are officially bi culture

[@isabell6636]

i love this

[@BivikaBalal]

The way she talks is so soothing😍

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

I love that so many people think so! :) x

[@sarahxx4347]

Bivika Balal god! so true!♥️

Asmr? PLEASE

[@hannahdockerty2674]

I identify as bisexual happy pride month 💗💜💙

[@alimarie8077]

Hannah Dockerty 💗💜💙

[@ruth5460]

Hannah Dockerty HALSEY ❤❤❤❤❤

[@RitaaLeci]

*whispers* I'm here and I'm queer ❤️🏳️‍🌈

[@jowoznicka1931]

Ritaaaaaaaaa

[@sera1227]

Hello again I like men Jk 😂

[@hescrem9316]

And im full of existential fear

[@nicolaclarke2581]

I love being gay. Girls are great.

[@romyvdd2570]

Vincent Vendetta HAHA

[@lalapipi2527]

Nicola Clarke same

[@marcomac6991]

Nicola Clarke same

[@kayaeki]

I'm bi and girls are so awesomeee

[@emmamcdonald477]

Yash Keni yeah

[@AlteFritte]

I think after all these women commenting, I as a male have to step up and say something, too. I'm not bi-romantic, but I have felt bi-sexual and enjoyed bi-sexual porn for a little while now. My romantic interest is all about women, my sexual interest is about men and women. Have a wonderful day everyone! Love you Melanie! You're amazing!

[@willneverforgets3341]

Perfectly fine too!!! I'm more romantically inclined to women too, though not exclusively, but sexually definitely to both.

[@diariodecaru]

where is my Bisexual babes ?

[@kirstyturnbull7928]

Here ;)

[@daynalang4845]

here!

[@gizemsahin3092]

peachmands Here ;)

[@heaventide]

hereee ;)

[@cahilreilly9849]

peachmands cathal like you girl :)

[@snowymitts6023]

I'm bi and I strongly lean towards women. Anyone else?

[@jessie8471]

I have romantic crushes on girls all the time, and I also have sexual feelings for women. Not too much romantic attraction to men, but damn guys can be fine....

[@snowymitts6023]

I think I have the opposite with the latter. I don't find masculine features all that attractive personally and the personality and behaviors of the individual is quite important to me.

[@jessie8471]

I think I experience the same thing with personality and behavior - sometimes a person will stand out to me solely because of their mannerisms and personality traits - it varies a lot.

[@jessicacarter9988]

I have the same thing happening to me now I like guys a lot but I am finding that I find girls more attractive sexually and romantically

[@artandme_]

For me, I am very masculine myself and I am attracted to feminine people Bi-five 🖐️

[@uhicanexplain3858]

Bisexual 💙💜 but honestly I relate to you so much on the "never in the closet" idea because it never really was a big deal and my parents knew before I even did lmao but thankfully I have accepting parents 💖

[@bethhawkins.01]

The-fandom-life14 Yessss same. I've always been out to my friends and so the never in the closet thing quite a applies to me, although Ive still not come out to my parents I definitely don't feel like I'm lying to myself and and out pretty much everywhere else. X

[@jaelleouapou4578]

Also Bi and I relate to never being in the closet. Happy pride!

[@smolbean6594]

hey its bethany same!!

[@rosalineaurora2543]

The-fandom-life14 you're so lucky to have accepting parents, I'm too scared to come out to my parents.

[@KearaGraves]

Fellow bi gal here! Love you girlie!💗

[@paulinemartens9900]

omg the part about picturing sex from the point of view of a man - I thought i was the only one doing this! and it literally made/makes me question my gender just like you did, which makes no sense because in all other aspects of life i'm a happy female! thankyou so much for sharing your experiences, it really helps :)

[@paulinemartens9900]

Oh and i forgot to add: i identify as bi atm, but i'm constantly questioning myself, sometimes i think i only like men, but then i see a gorgeous woman and my head goes 'ew, men'... urgh it's really so confusing :p

[@katieduffy1535]

Pauline Martens me to, for a time i was genuinely worried not because i don't respect trans gender but because i love being a girl, so i was glad to hear this!

[@theagaram9581]

Pauline Martens that's what I thought too! Like do I wanna be a man or am I a lesbian? But I'm bi so yay! That's actually the first time I typed that I was bi, never said it out loud to anyone though

[@theagaram9581]

Pauline Martens Wow! That is also so me! It's really confusing..

[@cuervus_]

Right? I was so damn confused and hearing Melanie describe it assures me that it's just a bi thing hahahha

[@KearaGraves]

I'm also a very feminine bi gal so I totally relate to everyone assuming I'm straight!😩

[@conlon4332]

Woah, Keara Graves commented on this and got only 16 likes?!

[@megbarth]

This couldn't have come out on a better day. I just told my family I was bi yesterday!!! Some of them didn't take it too well but it's okay; my sister is the one that is most important and I told her a few years ago when I was 16 and she was okay with it☺️💕

[@megbarth]

For a while I thought I was straight but I think that was only because I was open to myself. But ever since graduating and talking with other people and watching videos like this, I came to terms. And I love myself better than before😄💕

[@megbarth]

I UNDERSTAND THE THING WITH PICTURING FROM A MANS PERSPECTIVE OH MY. I THOUGHT I WAS A LOST CAUSE

[@luisejohanna5534]

meggie hahahahah same :D

[@jessicacarter9988]

Aw don’t worry you have all of us to talk to

[@amberisabel9474]

yass girl oh my allll the queer content I'm lovin pride month, makes me so proud of our lovely lil community

[@lunastarsx]

I'm bi and I'm officially planning to come out to my family via a Facebook post of me at a pride event this year. Sounds mad but I've been out to my friends since I was 14 and now I'm 18 I just want to announce it. I know no one has to 'officially come out' but I just don't want it to be a shock when I go into relationships and talk about my love life. Loved the video Mel x

[@luc3414]

LunaStarsX I hope everything goes amazingly 😘

[@alyssavocadoo]

Ahh I feel the same! I'm giving them hints here and there on Instagram because I just don't want to sit them down, it's too serious for my taste. Instead, I want it to be as casual as possible, I want something chill haha

[@melissascull1726]

From one bi girl to another, I really hope it goes well! And even if it doesn't, who cares. You do you girl x

[@miriamansell]

I love your hair it suits you so much x

[@Mrym-q1q]

the word "bi" means 2 so whenever you encounter a bisexual there is a smaller angrier bisexual close. a mere bistander or standbi.

[@tatyanasorokina6145]

I've figured out that I'm bisexual after identifying as a lesbian for the longest time and I feel so strange. The people around me are super biphobic so I know that I need to surround myself with positivity so thank you for these videos Melanie

[@avidreader2316]

omg you are glowing asdfghjkl (i know i made a similar comment on your last video but idc) also i'm bi, so yay for more bisexual content this pride month :)

[@melissamoussa5596]

i made myself a cup of tea...and then MELANIE UPLOADS!! YAAASS. lysm💕💕💕💕💕💕💕

[@summerberryxoxox]

I am a proud bisexual and you are the reason I felt confident enough to be myself fully and openly and over the years of watching you videos like this have been so helpful to me so thank you so much xxx

[@esmee928]

Your uploads make me so so happy! 💚💙💛💜❤ p.s Any more food diary Fridays?

[@eliskatesarova3104]

I'm 23 and I started to identify as bisexual three years ago, but the thing is, heteronormativity's real and I've been wondering if I'm not a lesbian after all because my attraction to guys sort of "faded out" after I realized I could also like girls (and hell, I liked them) in a romantic way...my point is, this can also be a reason to come out as bi even though that person's gay all along. I hope I figure it out for myself, wish me luck haha

[@TheGLegna]

Eliška Tesařová I'm having the same situation. It's being really hard to figure that out

[@melkidrizzly7390]

Eliška Tesařová _I'm 23 and I started to identify as bisexual three years ago, but the thing is, heteronormativity's real and I've been _*_wondering if I'm not a lesbian after all because my attraction to guys sort of "faded out" after I realized I could also like girls_*_ (and hell, I liked them) in a romantic way...my point is, this can also be a reason to come out as bi even though that person's gay all along. I hope I figure it out for myself, wish me luck haha_ ~ I think you might be experiencing fluidity throughout your newfound discovery. ~ Me

[@erin-eh2sl]

Woaahhh same

[@annamarie9416]

hahah funny you mentioned Wonder Woman... I mean, I alomst died while watching it. Too many hot people!

[@lsuchik93]

I'm bi. I'm still figuring it all out. Haven't told my parents, don't really think it's their business til it applies to them. I don't plan on lying or denying but I haven't ever really had that relationship with my family. We never really talked about me dating anyone until I was in college and I had been dating that guy for 4 months at that point. Sooo yeah. I don't know. I'd love for them to be super supportive but I don't know that I'll get that from them. And I'd rather just live my life and be happy.

[@jessie8471]

I'm kind of the same - I've only told my mum but at the moment it's not really relevant as I'm not with anyone. If i need to later in life I would probably say something...

[@francescagarrett3063]

I feel like people always assume taht cuz I like girls and guys the girls that I am attracted too are masculine but it the exact opposite I'm a lot more attracted to really feminine woman and really masculine men

[@chellebelle6458]

Thankyou for being so authentic and for sharing your story! I'm bisexual and it's such a relief to hear other people's stories 🙂🌈💜

[@amira222]

I'm sitting here in my bathtub, watch your video and actually cry...Bc I'm so confused. I don't know what I am (not only sexual) But I think you help me with realising that I don't need to identify myself rn. I can see were it goes. But all my friends say I'm 100% straight bc I don't look 'gay'. Dunno

[@junobrill127]

I wouldn't worry about it too much. I was in the same place a while back and eventually decided that I don't need to label it. While I do identify as straight, I'm open to just letting life take me wherever and change that label as need be. Also, it really helps if you can find a friend who's in a similar position to you to talk about it. Best of luck xx

[@elliepeters7534]

💗💜💙 Bisexual squad were you at?💗💜💙

[@emofruitcup05]

Here! 💖💜💙

[@oban2005]

Ellie Fitz im biromantic can I still join???

[@emilyscloset2648]

@@oban2005 course 💜

[@DanniiG12i]

Pansexual girl! It took a while to stop saying I'm bisexual for the sake of others' understanding, but in the end I realised it's not my problem when others are uneducated, and once they're willing to learn I'm happy to explain!

[@stephaniestorie5825]

I love your discussion/description of why asexuality as a label is so important! Having words in our vocabulary is such a huge way that we include and recognize that people and feelings and experiences are real and legitimate! xox

[@pucksandpaperbacks]

I'm 23, and I'm just realizing that I'm bi-sexual. These videos really help me better understand my sexuality! I've been boy crazy all my life, but I developed a strong crush on one of my friends who happens to be a bisexual girl, too. However, I don't have any desire to have sex with a man.

[@NeworldDirector]

I'm just realizing/becoming comfortable with being bi, and it's because of videos like these!! I watched your sexuality videos a lot these past few months and they've helped me so much

[@AliceRed]

I'm always really interested in these videos even though I'm about 95% straight (the other 5% is reserved for Ruby Rose) x

[@melkidrizzly7390]

Alice Red Are you bi-curious / hetero-flexible / incidentally homosexual? :O 🤔

[@SinsOfCerulean]

I'm 21 and bisexual. Recently I've determined that I am also Heteroromantic, which I feel is difficult to explain to people outside of the community. I'm out to all of my friends and out at work. I'm not out to my parents (not because I think they will disown me or anything) but because I'm not close with my mom at all and I avoid telling her anything personal. I love that I can watch you and gain courage for everyday situations. Love you lots, Mel!

[@jademilton6887]

I'm bi ❤️💜 Love you lots Mel! You're videos help me be more confident in my sexuality. Happy Pride Month love!

[@bellamt6953]

I love that you openly and proudly discuss your's and other people's sexualities yet still can acknowledge it is not all that defines you as a person x

[@laurakrtzr]

I am questioning (lgbtQ), but with a bisexual tendency, which means i'm not sure, and i don't actually care, but i think i'm bisexual

[@spookysadhbh8560]

This video actually helped me understand being bisexual so much, everyone always just says we're 'greedy' or 'we don't know what we want' but watching your video helped me a lot thank you 💕

[@megelizabeth1296]

pride representation! I love the honesty in this video, I'm WNEGEFHWOLA about the whole pride month (don't really know if thats hyped, excited, proud, happy etc or all of them) xxxx

[@emilyspectre]

dropping a comment before i watch the rest of the vid to say im a huge lesbian! surrounding myself with other LGBTQ youtuber's content has helped and comforted me so much

[@wonderingwhys]

I've been waiting for this! You look wonderful Mel 💙

[@brodie7043]

I FUCKING LOVE THIS!!!! Listening you talk is about bisexuality is literally hearing out loud what has been going around in my head for 4 years ❤️ P.S you're freaking gorgeous

[@djijifashion]

im straight af but im here cuz you're too beautiful and i love watching you

[@helenafisher230]

Ughhhh who else loves when Mel makes sexuality vids? It's so nice to have someone that is so open and it makes u feel like you're not alone. Plz make more of these ily❤️❤️❤️

[@emily0144]

I have been waiting for this for so long

[@412music412]

i identify as bi and pan! for me bi already includes nonbinary people (since i like the "similar and other genders" model of bisexuality) and pan is sorta a modifier that specifies how i experience attraction as well! i feel like my identity is incomplete without both ♡

[@JessWWECena1]

im a raging bisexual

[@anjamu7067]

I'm usually a silent viewer but i wanted to let you know how safe, comfortable and happy your videos always make me feel! The way you spread the love and compassion is just wonderful! Keep on doing what you're doing and thank you for sharing your thoughts with us! xx

[@maypickles2396]

i am non-binary and currently questioning my sexuality (though probably somewhere on the asexuality spectrum)... yay! i'm here, i'm queer!

[@acedragon1456]

Hi queer! I'm ace, nice to meet you :D *ha...ha...ha* my jokes are so bad :)

[@maypickles2396]

Nice to meet yo Patton, dad jokes are wonderful

[@kirashane2418]

Thank you so much for these. I see SO many parallels in our experiences and the confusion, like when you said "but I don't want to be a boy, am I just a pervert!?" The struggle is real! So glad you're on this side of it and sharing all these wonderful, personal, super super helpful things with all of us!

[@jodiesuzanne9086]

Hi Melanie 💚 I'm 23 and I have identified as straight for most of my life, I've only ever been with men. However over the last 2 years I've been thinking about girls more in a sexual way. Do you think it's odd that I've only just developed these feelings for women? Ive noticed that a lot of BI or lesbian women know they're into other women from a young age but for me it's been something that's recently developed. Is this odd? 😬 xxxxx

[@rachelwalsh7050]

this is literally the case with me as well. i only really started realising and acknowledging it when i was maybe 19. often heterosexuality is kind of learnt, since it's so ingrained, so yeah people can believe they're straight for a long time but basically start to 'unlearn' heterosexuality to figure out that they're not straight.

[@jodiesuzanne9086]

Rachel Walsh Well that makes sense. Thanks for replying! X

[@NuggetGalSoph]

Jodie Suzanne Also, sexuality can be fluid and change over time.

[@danai3630]

Most girls actually fully develop sexualy when they are over 20 so that maybe is happening to you.Don't stress about it honestly,you will understand when you are ready to question yourself more deeply.Just love whoever you want and you don't need a label.It's your choice xx

[@Jess-Rabbit]

Thats not weird at all. I am 26 and for most of my life thought I was straight. My best friend in high school was very close minded and thought being gay was "gross" so I think I repressed any feelings I may have felt for the same sex back then. Wasnt until I was 18 that I realized that I was into women beyond just thinking that theyre pretty. Dont know if youve had a similar situation, but I personally never thought that it was a possibility for me to be anything other than straight until I really opened myself up to my real feelings

[@louisakate72videos]

You've been one of my biggest inspirations in coming out to myself and my friends/family as bi. Thank you for being like an older sister to me/someone i can look up to, as a young 20 year old who is taking the steps to figuring herself out! All my love x

[@missxdaydream640]

Yaaaaas pride month, I'm so queer

[@susannareid3563]

mel, you've been such a massive part of me coming to terms with my identity & its helped me so much to have someone like me- a bisexual (or maybe heteroflexible idk) girl with acne- be so confident & loved, so thankyou so much!! keep doing your thing, lovely!! ❤️❤️

[@KyraRachelle]

Loving your hair, Mel! 😍

[@hannahshove9826]

What you are saying about being on a bisexual spectrum is so eye opening and relevant to me. Thank you for discussing this topic, not many people understand. You speak so much wisdom on such a powerful platform. Keep doing you girl 💞 ps. you're beautiful 😍

[@cartoontrash5096]

An ace is in the place! I'm asexual! 😊

[@acedragon1456]

Me too :D

[@sophie-wf1kg]

Rachel Arthurs saaame

[@sweetperry26]

Rachel Arthurs sameee

[@ellawomack4632]

saaaame!

[@AvivaRuth]

Rachel Arthurs how do you know if your asexual, or just haven't felt sexual feelings yet? Like at what point did you know? I'm so unsure. I'm 17 and on the one hand most people I know have felt sexual attractions already, but on the other hand adults are like "you'll grow into it". I have romantic attractions, but ive never felt anything sexually, even when like masturbating or something.

[@cassv5619]

OMG that "am I just a perve?" thought came up when I was younger, I completely forgot about it! (Currently, finally coming to the realisation, that I'm bi) Xx

[@J25-n8t]

I just see a new video from Melanie, talking about bisexuality (which is my favorite topic because obviously I'm bi 😁) I'm the happier girl on earth 😍 Love love from a fan in France 😁

[@caitlinscherer721]

On est deux ;)

[@aiden3030]

Justine 78 trois o/

[@matildavankooten4908]

Amazing video Melanie! I'm bisexual myself and the way you spoke about your sexual attraction to both men and women is so similar to how I feel! It's so comforting and reassuring to know that there are people who feel the same way. Thank you so so much!

[@EmeleGibson]

Hopefully I get the chance to meet you at dublin or london pride!

[@melaniemurphyofficial]

I HOPE WE MEET TOOOOO I WANT TO MEET SO MANY OF YOU ALL

[@lucygarlick1333]

It is s nice to watch how confident you are about your sexuality, embrace it girl! Have a brilliant time at pride❤️💕

[@susannareid3563]

I'm part of the lgbtq+ community!! I'd probably identify as bi or heteroflexible xo

[@9_in_the_afternoon]

I'm also bi, and this is honestly the most relatable video I've seen in a while! I didn't even remember this until you mentioned it, but I remember being soo confused about whether I was just a perv or not for liking girls (back before I knew bisexuality was a thing). It's pretty nice to know that someone else felt the same way, so thank you :D

[@mrd4518]

yay happy pride month!! i'm a very feminine lesbian so i also get that "but you don't look gay" bullshit. any lesbian or straight man (or anyone for that matter) who doesn't want to date you because you are bisexual absolutely does not deserve you!!

[@GrandesGirlies]

Hi Melanie!! 💕 I just wanted to say that it is only recently that I have concluded that I am bisexual, and it had been a HUGE help having somebody I feel that I can truly relate to in terms of my sexuality and my journey (😪 so corny) in discovering where I truly stand on the LGBTQ spectrum. Although I haven't really come out to anybody yet, I feel so comfortable in myself and am genuinely excited for the moment I finally feel comfortable in telling all my peers 🌟 Thank you again, please keep doing what you do xx

[@rachelmoseley1592]

I started painting my nails during this video and by the end they were rainbow... totally unplanned 😂

[@buru44]

Blue is the warmest color was faaaar from perfect I know, but damn, it is one of the very very few films that depicted bisexuality in depth, and I appreciated that.

[@TheCeska90]

my parents will never understand that I'm asexual, so I can only tell them that "I don't want a guy right now cause I like my independecy" (never mentioned girls or such cause they will freak out) and my friends are straight AF and are kinda disgusted when I say "oh, I could date a girl". so yeah...

[@acedragon1456]

Yeh, my parents don't really understand that I'm asexual either, they are just waiting for me to "grow up and get married"

[@TheCeska90]

wack! I'm 27 and I'm pretty sure they suspect that because I've never brought home a guy, I'm lesbian, which is why they never touch the argument "relationship" with me

[@Geethealien]

TheCeska90 same

[@Rydgiir]

I appreciate your profile picture ;)

[@joanneday527]

i came across your channel as I believe one of my step sons is a part of the lgbtq community. I have always made sure all our children know that we support all and any choices of love. I just want to have the best info to be there when the time comes xxx

[@loganwinters9485]

I don't really know how to say this.. I'm pansexual..I'm sexually attracted to pans. Strictly pans. Pots were never really my thing. Okay but in all seriousness I am actually pansexual🙃 yes I know, most heard and over used pans joke in the history of nonexistent (to my knowledge) pans jokes but I'm gonna blame the bad humor on my sexuality.

[@kramasnu3826]

Thank you so much for making these videos on your sexuality. I think talking openly about your own experiences is the best way to put a face on so many issues and questions a person might have. You're doing an excellent job, and I'm particularly happy for the younger generations who have role models and educators like you available just a few clicks away. And as a straight adult, I learn a lot too, feeling how personal videos like these make me understand better and ultimately become a better ally. Big thank you for that!

[@reginagreinix8521]

I don't even really wanna label myself - I also try to always get the massage across through the way a talk about everything in general like I mean I am an open person in general so I can really relate to your experiences 😍😘 but if someone asks me about my sexuality I would say I am bi but sadly I am living in a really narrow-minded countryside so I never really meet bi/lesbian/pan girl so I have not that much of possibility to experience my sexuality which makes me really sad..

[@reginagreinix8521]

In desperate need of a friend like you❤

[@danai3630]

Some people may actually be just like you but bc as you said it's a narrow-minded place to live in they don't talk about it

[@wietskejanse5951]

I still haven't figured out my sexuality yet but I'm loving all the sexuality related videos this pride month ^^ Especially from you Melanie, I always just drop everything I'm doing when I see that you've uploaded a new video :) xxx

[@francescagarrett3063]

I'm 13 and I'm bi 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

[@SoaringPaul2000]

Francesca Garrett I was your age too when my best friend and I experimented with each other, I'm bi too and have been for a long time now. If your interested, I can tell you how I found out I was bi.

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

+Paul Rudholm That came off as a bit come-into-the-back-of-my-van-so-you-can-see-some-puppies/candy... I assume you found out you were bi because you realized you are attracted towards men & woman?

[@starbit8756]

I'm 13 and I have a crush on my best friend (female) and we both have no idea what to do ;--;

[@emilybullen9845]

Same 😄🏳️‍🌈

[@SchokoKeksLens]

I'm bisexual myself and you are actually one of the reasons I realised that (one one side because of your videos and on the other because I had a little crush on you when I first discovered your videos haha) so thank you a lot for that

[@stefaniawelvaert7063]

I wasn't in the closet either and I don't realy believe in coming out 😉 I am who I am and I love it ^^ and you gave me the courage to be honest with myself 💚💚💚

[@thegirlonbakerstreet]

I'm here and I'm super queer! It's been such a joy to watch you become more open about your sexuality on this channel💚💚🌈

[@jizellabrooks562]

I'm bisexual 💖💜💙

[@FandomMatters]

Your makeup looks so pretty here! For a while I identified as heteroflexible before I had a full grasp of what bisexuality is. I've been in a relationship with a man for 8 years and have only dated men, but I'm attracted to men and women, and I've learned and accepted that that can mean I'm bisexual, and I'm so glad I've learned that I don't have to have experiences with both to identify that way. My family doesn't know because I don't really have a reason to bring it up and I doubt they'd understand, but having that understanding myself is great.

[@alternateuniversescollidde313]

Any advice for a bisexual gal entering the dating world?

[@emilyrichards4529]

So today I told my friends about being bi. Honestly so happy and proud of myself. I couldn't have done it without your videos and how comfortable you are with your sexuality. You're such an inspiration Melanie. Thankyou❤️❤️❤️

[@emmahathaway1177]

I'm bi

[@audibleliquid]

I only discovered you and your sisters videos on youtube yesterday and I can't stop binge watching. I'm sooo attracted to you and it makes me so happy that you're bisexual haha ^_^ yayyyyy

[@dontmindme5646]

I currently identify as heteroflexible.

[@NotAnotherKuromi]

Why do you prefer that label rather than bisexual or bicurious?

[@BisexualRealTalkNow]

You do such a great job with these videos. Do you know a great thing about living in America? There were literally 22 lead bi characters on TV last year and 22 supporting bi characters. I was shocked when I actually starting counting them. Things have changed so much in the last 3 years. I'm sure that's a sign of things to come for the rest of the world. :-)

[@sethcarstens3669]

BI FAMILY, WHERE YOÜ AT? 🏳️‍🌈✨

[@shanefrancis14]

Omg I'm so glad I found you! I am a 21 year old Bisexual and your videos have made me feel more confident with finally coming out to my parents. Like I need to do that and knowing that there are larger voices in this world who are like me and can defend me are so validating. Bisexuality is real and I used to doubt that in myself! I used to think I had to choose one gender or another, and that made me feel pressure to find where I belonged in a specific stereotype! I even thought for a while that I was trans as well! You're not alone in that! I'm very lucky to have a safe community in college that allows me to be my truest self, but when I come home, I have to hide myself and I can't handle it anymore. Just because I am in a hetero relationship doesn't mean I am not who I am. Ugh thank you so much for existing, I am subscribed! haha

[@ughmary6386]

i think i am bicurious? i feel almost the exact way, i bond way more easily with men, sexually i like both... i dont know i have had one crush on a girl yet but i am open to love both so i guess i am bisexual? naturally, i feel more comfortable with women... and i told my friends and they are obviously okay with it and surprisingly a few told me they were bi too which obv was soooo nice! i probably wont tell my parents because i support lgbtq openly and my mum knows i accept gays etc so if i ever will be with a girl i wont hesitate to tell her since i have never "came out" as straight. #bifamily

[@saintnikz]

Melanie, thank you so very much for sharing your thoughts and experience with us. I'm bi, and still sort of getting comfortable with who I am. I adore your honesty and it's so nice to hear others point of view. I love how your videos feel like we're all sitting together having a chat. So lovely 💜

[@tropicalcandyland6266]

I see myself as bi💕

[@Leeny21]

You have genuinely helped me identify my sexuality so much! I used to think I was completely straight for so long and I am in a happy long term relationship with a guy. However, I do cheerleading and I found myself checking out so many of the girls and I was just like WHAT AM I DOING :( Hearing you talk so freely in these videos has helped me clock that I'm not weird and that I'm just bi xD

[@cheeseisok]

I'm Bi! 💖❤💛💚💙💜

[@petravellichor8372]

Thank you so much for just being you. Watching your videos makes me feel like it's okay to be me and that I don't have to justify myself to anyone, especially myself.

[@elisecapewife7641]

I'm lesbian and i'm a bit scared and nervous that i'm never going to find a girl that likes me back.🤧🤧🤧🤧😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢☹️🙁☹️🙁😣😣😣😞😞

[@SuperMusicalPassion1]

Elise Capewife yooo I know the feeling

[@jaelynrae8836]

I appreciate this video so much! I am also bisexual but it sometimes feels like the only representation I see is from people who are either lesbian, gay, or trans in the LGBTQ+ community. Also, it's so important to see and recognize the complexities of sexuality and the fact that it's different between each person, which is something that bi people have a lot of experience with. Love this!