Answering Your Tough Life Questions 💜🖤 The Welsh Twins

[@priscmoi3382]

*"If they don't know you personally, then don't take it personally."* Such a good motto tbh.

[@raew6366]

💗

[@AshleeyEm]

Yees. I want that on a shirt💞

[@natashaowens2177]

And how someone thinks or feels about us isn't any of our business.

[@katdeekelly3228]

Yes! Or - Never take criticism from someone you wouldn't advice from!

[@vnsasmlls]

actually the best way to live by ..

[@mandycarter1]

“There’s people in cars around us, and it’s annoying me.” Most relatable sentence I’ve ever heard.

[@the_eerie_faerie_tales]

While driving, I often say, "get away from me!!" 😆

[@mandycarter1]

@@the_eerie_faerie_tales sammmeee 😂😂

[@Ireallyhatestyrofoam]

It’s funny because it’s true! I was literally talking with a friend an hour before I watched this, saying something similar 😂😂

[@dixierae3442]

Oh isn't the most annoying when there's someone driving in front of you driving 15 km under the speed limit and your late. OMG

[@JamesWelsh]

Me to Robert: Look shocked! Robert: 😬

[@MoniqueV119]

Your nails! ❤🖤❤ I love it! Were you bored during fourth period in school? 😆

[@cherylbo888]

Exactly!😂 He is displaying a total mix of emotions there. This is gonna be fun!💜🖤✌🏼

[@cve7051]

I'm going to be honest, Robert looks constipated...

[@asmarashid2221]

Will Marcus ever make a special appearance?

[@MoniqueV119]

@@cve7051 I don't mean to laugh 😭😭😭😭🤣😭

[@margaretmorris2944]

As a 61 year old woman, I can confirm your thoughts that everyone is faking it. So TRUE. I know I am. I keep waiting to feel like/be a grown up. I'll prob get myself together right on my deathbed. I'll be all..."Oh THAT"S IT!! I FINALLY GET IT !! " aaaaannnnnd then I die! You can only do your best. Ever! :)

[@goodiegoodygumdrops]

😂😂😂 Too funny. Ya made me SNORT. XD

[@SwedePotato314]

Lmaoooo this is hilarious. I'm 34 but I hope I'm just like you when I grow up. You're the best

[@andrealoehry8835]

Yeah i so get you, I’m 61 too but I’m sure I’m just a child really!!!I actually think I’ll never be an AdULT. What is that anyway?😂

[@brialeah7351]

I love and appreciate your comment :)

[@LawNerdAmber]

I'm 40 and feeling the same way. Thanks for sharing. We're all in this storm together

[@angelicalugo6752]

Petition to have a series of car talk with Robert and James and they get food drive around and talk about life ✨💕

[@katesmith7868]

Signed!!!!!!!!🤣

[@makeupwithcass7165]

Signed.

[@schmuppiii]

I want to sit with them in the car and get a starbucks... and pet their dogs 🤣

[@ashub4324]

Signed 💖👏🏻

[@Ruby-tx9kp]

Signed ✅

[@sophdoeslife]

Robert calling it the panic window was actually more accurate 🙃 also nice hoodie 🤪

[@hannahvlntn]

I was gonna say that, Robert wearing your hoodie, very cute 😄🥰

[@tashaleeman]

Literally!!

[@121saba1]

NEVER leave your vehicles unchecked. kzbin.info/www/bejne/qn-mmo1nYpqradE

[@crystalperry274]

@@hannahvlntn pp1qQqqq101qqq

[@crystalperry274]

@@hannahvlntn 1Q!+qa!q

[@1015SaturdayNight]

"Don't set yourself goals and you won't feel unproductive" WISEST OF WORDS

[@kerry4368]

Robert not remembering how/what to order at starbucks, rehearsing how to say the order before driving up and still messing it up, becoming overwhelmed and just getting what the other person ordered, and then hating oat milk is the most relatable content on youtube 😂❤️ iconic

[@heathersyvilla9617]

I thought your profile picture was Stephanie harlowe for a second lol

[@scrapinmomma]

I do the same thing!? I get what I now refer to as "drive thru anxiety" and I just end up randomly selecting something smh

[@workinprogress3329]

That’s why I exclusively do mobile order. I can’t handle the pressure 😬😬

[@A.R.S.1309]

Happens to me too. I just make a note of what I want on my phone

[@jspearson9267]

'Not to sound like a fridge magnet but.....' My new segway into every piece of life advice I will ever give.

[@whatdebbiedidnext]

I love your impressions of a lawyer “you’re going to court!” ...”you’re illegal!” 😂

[@solangepolegar]

“Everyone is pretending to be an adult” is the most real sentence I’ve heard whilst trying to do the duvet hack from a KZbin video on my bed at 1 am. I’m 41...

[@pinkitura]

I don't know why but your comment made my heart melt 😂

[@lucyfur]

I am also 41 and i cannot for the life of me do that duvet hack. I still end up having to get inside with the duvet to get the corners right.

[@solangepolegar]

@@lucyfur it actually works ok for me, but I keep forgetting the steps... Lolol

[@acmaeve8269]

34 here... And idk what that even means... O .o

[@janel3046]

Yes I too was doing the duvet hack last weekend lol

[@margiejcupcakeprincess4711]

I was a dishwasher, factory worker,data entry operator, then at 32 I went to college and was a Registered Nurse for 30 years now retired at 70 years old

[@KatieThomasCreative]

My mum started going to uni for her nursing degree at 50, I think she's finally found her calling!

[@Quiteinfamous]

You go Margie!!!

[@FeatherstoneApothecary]

that's the issue with kids today. they don't retire anymore. they work temporary shitty jobs and don't get anywhere. I'm not retiring from my job but I have a life plan that's working and I'm stacking my 401k.

[@TheSwauzz]

@@FeatherstoneApothecary Why would kids retire when they're still kids? What is this comment even supposed to say? You can work a career job and still not make enough to have a healthy retirement or not have one at all. You have zero clue how other people are living their lives. Stop judging people you don't even know. Worry about what YOUR issues are. Jeez, you sure don't seem like an adult.

[@blobster91]

You go girl 👏🏻

[@monicaclasener]

James: "I only care for the health of my two dogs". Marcus shows 2 hedgehogs. Made my day!

[@tammy_vip]

Absolutely this!!

[@karyon1007]

Marcus was offended that James does not care about him!😆

[@allwaswell4741]

The hedgehogs absolutely SENT me

[@37trilogy]

I love Marcus!!! 😂

[@emilylight500]

Same!!

[@andreauk8020]

I've just shown my daughter this video. The reason is she's just turned 18 and at school she was a straight A student. Her teacher was always telling her that you had to get brilliant grades, go to college then university. Then get a good job. This teacher literally told her that you won't get anywhere in life if you don't do these things. Thanks to that teacher my daughter now has anxiety and OCD and is in therapy as she feels like she's 'failed at life'. She went to college and hated it so left and done online classes. Despite this, she constantly remembers what that teacher said. It kills me hearing my amazing daughter saying she's a failure. In my eyes the only failure is that teacher. So thank you for letting it be known that it's ok to change your mind and you don't have to do everything by a certain age. I really appreciated this video xx

[@ileenroychoudhury3110]

I admire you as a parent❤

[@andreauk8020]

@@ileenroychoudhury3110 Thank you so much xx

[@greeksilhouettekaterina6014]

Good marks are not the goal. Education is. People think good marks=well educated. Nope. Nah uh.

[@BirgitBauhaus]

@Andrea: You are a great, warmhearted Mum (or is Andrea a Men-Name from Italy or France? ) or Dad! Exactly right what you said! I was treated very bad of Teacher, too, and also to most of my very conservatice, all studied Family @ But I'm lucky with my Parents! So I did my School, because THIS is important, but than I learned/studied 3 different Professions. One after another, and I was really successful in all, but after 6-67 years I've changed and studied the 3thrd. 😅😂😉 And this was the perfect One ! Sometime we need more longer time to find a Profession which make us happy! I press my Thumbs for your Daughter, she has time for searching and Informations to find the perfect further Education and later a nice Job! ✌💪👍💕💖

[@BirgitBauhaus]

@@greeksilhouettekaterina6014 : True! Better to know 80 % x (or a bit less) of a Lot of different things as 100 % of only one special "Field"/or Work ... .and the Rest is "nothing", then you will live in a Tunnel!

[@CloudTalesVideos]

I'm literally 34 and I have just started to feel like I have landed on my own two feet these last two years. Hang in there young bloods. Enjoy the ride.

[@onlyifyoucallmebrian]

Come for the science, stay for the life advice, live for the double cackle.

[@Hundredacredaycare]

I wait all week for the double cackle ❤️

[@Ireallyhatestyrofoam]

Yasss! I love their laughing together 🧡🧡

[@tammy_vip]

“Being an adult isn’t about having it all together but about be able to do what the fuck you want” is THE BEST life advice 🙌🏻🙌🏻

[@lisakruger6281]

How about a puppy play date next? 🥺

[@AEW0416]

Wait, what? 😳

[@JamesWelsh]

YESSSSSS

[@AEW0416]

But maybe not title it “puppy play” or you could end up attracting a completely different demographic. Or do... I’m not here to judge. 🤷‍♀️

[@megaravalkyrie6880]

YES!!!

[@oopsydaisyX3]

Yes plz!!!!

[@mindibunch5232]

I'm in my mid-40's and I know one thing for certain: Comparison is a thief of joy. Stop comparing yourself to others. Your appearance, your job, your family, your *life* is fine. No one really is who they appear to be online. Just be. ❤

[@MsCortneySoHollywood]

Thank u for this!

[@nattfazz]

I know you said this a while ago, but I really needed to hear this today!

[@mindibunch5232]

@@nattfazz You are enough. ❤

[@nattfazz]

@@mindibunch5232 ♥️♥️

[@cammys7345]

Dr. James and Robert Welsh .. makeup and skincare expert, scientists, archeologists, fashun people, futurists , cosmetic surgeons , wig designers, historians, egg-boiling specialists, Diy masters and now therapists😌

[@michelleclothier3089]

You forgot disney princess

[@lexwithbub]

Fully qualified PDF and PNG!

[@RandomGlow444]

Don’t forget Science. They are ✨Science✨

[@sebumpostmortem]

Actually, if I remember well, 🤔in one of the videos they made us THE revelation: _We invented Scienceeeee. We created Scienceeee_ It didn' t exist before! 🤯🤭 And what about being gurus of a cult? That is a lot 🙆🏻‍♀️💁🏻‍♀️... Cannot with these comment threads 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜

[@RedHedyLamarr]

I was literally in the middle of a panic attack because of the anxiety of being a 35 year old with chronic illness and feeling like a failure. Pulled up KZbin to try and distract me and clicked on this to hear the very last questioned answered, “how do you make it as an adult.” Yoi guys are so kind and genuine. “You wouldn’t know I smell like onions.” Says Robert with a laugh. I know it’s so silly but it is still such a good reminder. Thanks for bringing so much of yourselves to us. You pulled me out of my panic attack and got me to remember life is not all we see on our screens. Thank you both, you’re doing more than you know. ♥️

[@vakyraraven5379]

Hey Bethany, i feel the same alot of times. I'm 25 and have a rare chronic illness and ppl judge me sometimes cause i cant be as active as them (eg. After a hard day of uni or work i like a nap!) But you should be proud that you keep going! 👏❤️

[@mallorymurphy2678]

I'm right there with you. 31 with lyme disease and I AM ALWAYS EXTREMELY FATIGUED and in pain

[@bethany6205]

Sending love from another Bethany.

[@shendisackett]

I have the same problem, I'm disabled and in severe chronic pain. I feel like such a failure sometimes as I initially studied engineering and got good qualifications but had to switch because of my disability, so I retrained as an accountant and had a good job earning good money. My pain and other chronic health issues has meant I couldn't continue working. So sometimes when I'm very down I'm like what's the point of me? Then I have to remind myself of the good things I have in my life like friends and family and my cats.

[@msellenandrea]

I feel you...33 years old and have been chronically ill since I was 21. Its terrible watching everyones lives go by while we snail our way forward. But you know what? We are not failures. We didn't cause our own illness, and we are doing the damned best we can, and that is good enough!

[@lizbethvizcarra761]

To Anonymus: When I finished highschool I went directly to University to study medicine because my dream was (still is) to be a change in the world and what could be better than saving lives right? Well everything was great... School, classes, grades... But I felt like my soul was dying and I fell in depression😞.. After a year I dropped out and I felt alive again... I got into a new school, new major...I graduated top of my class went to work in a company, had my office, the money was good... But my job wasn't changing the world and I felt empty, so I quit my job and started looking for something that could make me happy... Since I am bilingual I started a temporary job teaching English and the rest is history... My life is full now... Teaching is my way to change the world... I am a College professor now and I always tell my story to my students... We never know the path that life is going to present to us, we just walk and follow... But never... never think that you can't change your mind and start again to find your place in the world.

[@aleuxa]

Tysm! This is so helpful especially for me as a college student i feel the pressured to have my life "planned out" but life can surprise us and its okay to just start over.

[@Hundredacredaycare]

That’s amazing. Good for you ❤️🙏🏻❤️

[@vanityplates3125]

This was amazing to read. Thank u. I'm 38 and want to go to cosmetology school but keep thinking I'm too old. But now I think I may go for it.

[@acmaeve8269]

I so agree, my Love! 💪 🐺

[@jennilee1100]

Please make a Welsh twins inspirational quotes account! "Well done, you ate a block of cheese" is exactly the kind of non toxic content I need

[@angelique_cs]

Yes! "Fake it til you smell like onions" 🤣

[@sunshinem.7741]

Or a little book of tickets with the quotes on them! You can look through them, or take them out and post them around your living space.

[@baby.goblin]

I’m working on a compilation of some of the best gems from this channel hehe

[@vanityplates3125]

On IG, if u don't already know, there is a Welsh Twins meme page. It's pretty funny. You may enjoy it.

[@jennilee1100]

@@vanityplates3125 amazing! what's the @?

[@xfreyawatson]

Honestly, hearing Robert talk about how he hates people whilst being in an industry that involves working with new people all the time made me feel so much better, I really want to be a makeup artist but I’m autistic and shitty social skills and didn’t feel like I could do it but it made me happy to hear that there are ways around it :)

[@LawNerdAmber]

Absolutely! The great thing about new clients is you can basically memorize a script of "small talk" you got this!

[@nodiggity8746]

I'm a psychotherapist and I hate people, so that made me feel better too 😂

[@britters220]

Whenever I go to salons, I stress out over my responses for small talk... it's not a relaxing experience for me at all. I just wanna chill, and keep being my quiet self.

[@misssunnydee]

Freya, of course I don't exactly know what's worrying you, but one of the things that you can use is the fact that most people like to talk about themselves. If you memorise a few important questions for people you can get a conversation going. Maybe express your own opinions if you feel comfortable with that. If you have trouble being empathic it'll be easier to just nod and agree a lot 😄. As long as you're really listening and/or don't judge people will automatically feel good with you. And that's basically the most important thing about being "good" in social situations. You're not necessarily the one who needs to talk, nor do you have to share a lot 😄. You're the one working, so it isn't weird you won't be sharing: you're concentrating and giving *them* attention. Check out your hairdressers, the next time you're there, how they do it. However, that is the adaptation route. You don't have to be the same. Autism really doesn't need to be a hurdle in realising your dreams. Everyone is different and especially when it comes to creative professions it's predominantly about what you do and can do. I've noticed that when you do what you love you'll often be more yourself, more secure. And that alone will be enough in what you radiate towards clients. If you're working on my face I would not mind being quiet, especially when you are relaxed, or when there is relaxed music playing. As someone who is too ill to work the job of her dreams - I can't work at all anymore, nor do hobbies - I can only tell you that you'll regret it if you don't at least try. And know: You're nothing less than anyone else! (PS. I have a cousin with autism and I was the only one who supported him in his dreams. That was so sad. His direct family only kept telling him what he couldn't do and became angry with me that I "put thoughts in his head". He ended up going to university anyway, scored super high... but, honesty urges me to tell you that his dream of becoming a historian didn't come true, for just one stupid reason: he had too much trouble with the group exercises , so he couldn't finish his degree. However, the fact he tried helped him a lot. He's never regretted it because he loved his time there and learnt what he *could* do. It was way more than others told him. He's now very happy in another job that hangs on his great memory and analytical skills. He is even living on his own, has loads of friends and he dances ballroom on a decent level. In other words: not every "failure" is one. So ask yourself: what's the worst that could happen if I try? And the best? ).

[@rachelmccoy6447]

@@britters220 You should tell the stylist that! Most will happily respect that, and many will probably be glad to have a break from making small talk. If they don't respect the fact that you don't want to talk, then find someone new

[@IzzyandShadow]

Robert on toxic people “just ignore them” My manager: Toni you can’t just ignore customers when they ring up

[@Mel_T.s]

🤣🤣🤣🤣 this comment! I'm dead!☠

[@junemacauley7239]

I find that when I'm treated with silence, I'm confused. Am I being dropped? Are they busy? Did they not get my message? It's rude & weak. Be real. But I know it's the way it's done nowadays. Age: your cool Auntie

[@mplwy]

@@junemacauley7239 Yeah, I'm a late Xer/early Xennial and also not a people person. It's super uncomfortable to confront people and/or "break up", but it's best for everyone of you're upfront and honest.

[@Zimzum93]

@@junemacauley7239 some people are so toxic and shitty that they don’t even deserve the courtesy of being told why you’re cutting them out, and even if you tried to be real with them and have a civilised conversation about why you’re removing them from you’re life they would either start a huge argument or manipulate/guilt trip/gaslight you into backing down and letting them stay, or they would turn around and ruin your reputation as revenge. So for those types of people, ignoring them and giving them nothing but silence is the best option.

[@mammajamma4397]

​@@junemacauley7239 your reaction is exactly why people get the silent treatment. Most people who get it have been crappy to others and I (speaking for myself) want to know what that feels like. Glad to know it works.

[@ritagalvao3849]

Once a week is not a enough dose of you guys together, be aware of it

[@maryelizabeth3064]

Podcast - the double cleanse

[@ritagalvao3849]

@@maryelizabeth3064 I've been binge listening to the podcast lately!

[@baby.goblin]

But we are grateful for it :)

[@pebblesandwoowoo]

@@ritagalvao3849 It's hard when you find "new" content - there's nor enough to binge 😂 but their own channels are great too, Marcus has made one too xx

[@staceydimig478]

I agree

[@eiwansk]

As the mother of a herd of children ranging from 30-14, I will tell you, you never stop helping your kids. As long as I see them trying I'm willing to help them. 90% of the time they don't need it, but every so often life happens and I'm ok with that.

[@candyce6233]

So true ☝🏻👆🏻

[@brittanylight1549]

Will you adopt me?

[@ES-vb9in]

Yess #mamalife 💗

[@dontbefatuousjeffrey2494]

That's so lovely. My grandfather (my Mum only told me this not long before she died) was not particularly wealthy, but apparently whenever he saw her he would press a note (money) into her hand before she left - "just in case". He was 92 when he died and she was in her early 60's then. You have kids for life. It's the model I try to follow with my own, especially now that it's just so much harder for kids to get ahead financially. Good on you, Erika. Champion mum!

[@bulbasaurevolved]

Yes! I’m not a parent, but as a kid - I was feeling very guilty about needing my parent’s help at a certain time in my life, and my boyfriend said, “you know, they’re probably happy that they can be in a position to help you when you need it.” It was such a nice sentiment. They’ve worked hard their lives for themselves AND for their kids!

[@randl7423]

How to tell you've been productive enough: A Manifesto by the Welsh Twins: - you've had a yawghurt - you've eaten a block of cheese - you've written in your diary. 💀

[@brunameneghetti]

I feel good about this

[@ByHerHand]

Don’t forget “scraped the sick off your tongue” 😂

[@AshleeyEm]

✔✅✔

[@neramystique]

I'm at peace with this

[@emmaengland2726]

My philosophy on adulthood: You become an adult when the bills come in your name. The rest is just trying to figure out how to pay them and squeeze a little joy in between.

[@spaceinveda7408]

Me, who's been paying for my own bills since I was 17 : 😬

[@Marina_7]

Is that your wedding picture? So beautiful!

[@ho-ry5uf]

@@spaceinveda7408 it's never a competition tho

[@spaceinveda7408]

@@ho-ry5uf wow yeah having parents that don't give a shit is a competition Are you for real People like me would die to live off of mom and dad until I'm in my mid 20s. That is a god send. Feel blessed you aren't forced out of your home at an early age. Kids that are, aren't competing with you. They're FORCED to pay bills. Its not a competition, you're right.

[@imfinereally]

This

[@dom4517]

Im 21, working two jobs, and I was crying on the phone to my sister today about how I was failing at being independent because I had to ask for help to pay to fix my truck. I cannot tell you how much I needed this today ♥️

[@tamekag6299]

Your 21 working 2 jobs your already independent. Try not to compare your circumstances to others we all need help sometime. Your doing good luv. You only fail at life when you give up on life so, keep trying and that will be enough. 😗❤

[@dom4517]

@@tamekag6299 thank you 😊 I struggle with comparing myself to my siblings but I’m trying to better

[@Tinyfredocat]

@@dom4517 I know this is a week old but just wanted to chip in. I moved out 5 years ago, and am 27 now. The first few years consisted of a lot of tearful phone calls, struggling to make ends meet sometimes even though I was working extremely hard and every penny went on house bills. Part of independence is being strong enough to ask for help when you need it :) never feel shame for reaching out. It helps you grow and connect as an adult. Family and friends are there to support you, just like you would support them. I wish you the best of luck with your future, every single step you take, no matter how small, means you are doing it :)

[@dom4517]

@@Tinyfredocat thank you ♥️ you have no idea how much hearing that helps

[@sabitadas2150]

You are already better than I am at 23. At least you FEEL independent. I am independent but I don't feel independent I live with my parents, I mean that's just how society works here so girl, you keep going.

[@workinprogress3329]

James said in one of his own videos “don’t work yourself to death for a company that doesn’t care about you” I still remember that. Love these guys 💜💜💜

[@thelivingrisi7233]

My gosh this is facts. Left my job that required a 24hr turnaround time from us employees, but took 1 week to let us know one person working in the same floor as us tested covid positive. 🙄🙄🙄 Took a week to tell us we've been exposed to someone positive! Didnt even tell us not to come in the office! What the hell is that????🙄🙄🙄

[@workinprogress3329]

@@thelivingrisi7233 it’s all about the money, not safety.

[@KatieThomasCreative]

I worked at a company that completely overworked us, paid basic wages, had to deal with verbal abuse from customers all day long, couldn't ever take sick days because it was never worth coming back to a extra work. Then they laid off dozens of loyal employees a few days before Christmas and I decided then that you would have to be stupid to ever give loyalty to a corporate company. Maybe a small business, but a corporate company no no no no.

[@KatieThomasCreative]

@@thelivingrisi7233 my gosh, I'm so sorry. What a pathetic excuse of a company.

[@workinprogress3329]

@@KatieThomasCreative absolutely. I’m doing what’s asked and then clocking out. I’ve worked 60+ hours and for the same raise as other people that only worked 40 hours.

[@melissavangulck8658]

Just wait until your 40s!!! Right when you think you don’t care what anyone else thinks, you find that there’s an even lower level of caring than that! It’s great!!

[@malin943]

That sounds amazing 🙏 just recently I realized that the only important people in my life are my family, partner, (few) best friends and family dog 🐶

[@melissavangulck8658]

Exactly!! It’s quite freeing to be honest. We’re trying to get out kids to understand this, but i think it’s just the different phases of life they have to go through to really see what’s important and what doesn’t even matter

[@malin943]

@@melissavangulck8658 that’s a great thing to try and teach the kids, but it night be as you say, something that they learn along the way ❤️

[@melissavangulck8658]

@@malin943 exactly. I was their age at one point, and I knew everything then too 😉.

[@Steak-r3w]

So true it's so liberating!

[@MrsBungle78]

To the person who has the ex that wants to meet up- just tell him/her “absolutely! I’d love to meet your husband/wife!”! That should do it!☺️

[@sunshinem.7741]

It'll totally work if they're monogamous! Embarrass him! If they're swingers, or poly though, it might not have the desired effect lol

[@christinac2652]

"That's how you be an adult, you sit in your pajamas and smell like onion" made me laugh like a deranged snake 🐍

[@michelleallen2294]

Tsssssststststststssss

[@zettyzainal]

The Welsh twins are the school counsellors that I wish I had

[@maryannkelly6502]

Amen!

[@nalsar648]

Love how the practice-before-you-order-at-Starbucks is an international thing 😹

[@thelivingrisi7233]

For reals, people should do this! Stop hogging the line! People are grumpy in the morning without their coffee.

[@tw1800]

I’m glad I’m not the only one who panic orders.

[@marconemeth9683]

Omg since lockdown my real-life social interactions are limited and I genuinely panic ordered coffee last time :D It was weird talking to another human being

[@mutantfroggy]

Thank goodness for food delivery apps 😅

[@umassigkap]

Mobile order solves this :)

[@tw1800]

Huge menus are a nightmare 😂

[@beckybennett1999]

I panic ordered at McDonald's. I said I wanted a chicken burger eventhough I don't really like them. Then she miss heard me and I ended up with 40 nuggets 😂

[@cve7051]

Robert in a drive through: "And I'm at the panic window" Me: Omg same...

[@brittanyw.9351]

I can't with the complicated orders. I need to verbal vomit my order out too quickly for that.

[@charissagabrielle6810]

Totally agree about the “being settled” at 30 🥰 a lot of folks see turning thirty as something that’s so dreadful and everything because there’s a societal apprehension about growing old and yet! 🥂 to being in your 30s and beyond!

[@stephanipeloquin4631]

30s is the prime of life.

[@cassie3787]

I'm designated drive thru speaker bc my husband just falls apart and forgets he has ever spoken words lmao

[@ForYourCynicism]

same! My husband is so confident until it comes to drive thru and calling in takeout

[@Alliesaephan]

Same! My husband is a freakin mess as soon as he has to speak an order lol

[@catherinegreentree8235]

Hahaha same, and same for my parents when I'm with them as well

[@Ladyscarface]

Sameeee 🤣 his brain just starts melting

[@JessRodr]

@Cassie same!!! I am beyond excited I’m not alone 🤣 my hubby is so smart & in control at work & life... put him in front of the panic window (formally known as the drive thru) and he turns into a 2 year old! He’s the same if he has to call in a pick up order too! 😱🤣🤣

[@roxyred0145]

Therapists as well ?? Is there nothing you guys can’t do ? 💜

[@justineglickman]

It was gross, you didn't miss anything 😄

[@siobhanmorrison3561]

R:”And I exercised 5 times a week for 30 minutes”, J:“That sounds horrible“, R: “Mhmm” 😂😂

[@melaniethetruckdriver]

Best part so far 😂😂😂😂😂

[@acmaeve8269]

Tehe. I adore these two. True Angels on Earth! 💪

[@bethanycooke7497]

I needed the advice about “you don’t have to do the thing you studied” so badly I almost cried. I have been out of grad school for about a year & I hate my job and have been questioning my field 🥲 thanks besties

[@mynamesnotjo]

I always panic ordered and would say things wrong or would forget something so now i have all my possible starbucks orders written down in my notes and i just read it. LIFE CHANGER.

[@cindyg1392]

*vigorous writing on sticky note*

[@gemmahodges574]

‘If they ain’t paying your bills, who gives a flying shit what they say.’ Best advice my nanna ever gave me!

[@katdeekelly3228]

The 3 F's rule 😅 If they are feeding you, funding you or f*ck*ng you 😜 they don't make your choices!

[@celeste7301]

Basically gaslight your mother-in-law into thinking she's losing her memory 😂

[@emilymulcahy]

I may or may not be guilty of this 😬

[@chelseanoble263]

"Are there billions of people?" "Probably!" /flashback "Why do people not like influencers?" The self-aware clap backs are absolute gold.

[@destinydurden]

From now on the drive thru will forever be called a panic window.

[@TheWitchesCastle13]

Love these two so much! Wish they had a reality series on Netflix. It would be the one and only realty show I would ever watch 😂

[@Funeral_Prinny]

The first piece of advice is spot on, I studied Art and Art History for 6 years.... now I'm a mortician. Life changes are good boos

[@Simplesstff]

Wow ... that's a story I'd like to hear more about, how'd you choose, how was the interview and what do you do in a normal days work. Sorry if I sounds too intrusive I apologise.

[@MsFiebchen]

Horrible day and now there is light on the end of the tunnel. Need my dose of giggles. 😘

[@tammy_vip]

Sending hugs your way 🤗 May tomorrow be wonderful ❤️

[@ryanfreeman8648]

Do you think they ever get tired of hearing how soothing their voices are? Because... their voices are so soothing.

[@winnifredslade6589]

Wise beyond your years. Am in my 50's and everything you said is spot on. Love watching your videos. Gives me my smile and laugh for the day....

[@suzy8109]

Robert: "I don't assume everyone who sees me on the internet is going to like me" Me: "You should. You are just adorable"

[@laurenhexes]

"Robert, and myself, and I," Superhero alter-ego confirmed

[@sarahcolonia8906]

Dear Anonymous who is 44 and loosing hope ❤️ My dad found the love of his life at 65! Not to say that it will take that long but that it’s never too late for LOVE

[@shadowcat311]

My mom did too. And she had a few relationships between her divorce at age 47 and meeting him so 44 is definitely not too late.

[@cazc.8626]

I agree. I felt like that, having no one sucked. I was single for the best part of my teens - late 30s. I got so fed up, I just stopped looking. I got married at 41 because I met someone when I really wasn't after a relationship. I really do think "stop looking, concentrate on yourself" is the best advice. If it's going to happen it will happen when you least expect it.

[@belonging9200]

It's the best age ever. I know tons of people who did the whole traditional relationship concept & family & kids & career thing. Been there, done that. And then come to really live & love how they really authentically want. And see so much more open, fulfilled and better parents that way too. So dive in.

[@EmEm872]

I met my husband at 46 and this honestly is the happiest and only healthy relationship I have had. We have been together for 8 years now and he had stood by me during my breast cancer crap and having both breasts removed and choosing not to have reconstruction. I had never dreamt of getting married and had been so content in my life and then I met him. I had to learn to love myself first. ❤❤

[@melr215]

Nope. Totally true. Found my soul mate 2.5 years ago after I swore off love forever. So had he. We are so in love, our relationship is fantastic and we were obviously meant to be. Never give up.

[@bbod-qz2zy]

They’re so comforting, like super funny, kind and relatable big brothers. Just genuinely get the vibe that they’re nice people who actually want the best for us 😂😂

[@lmi1045]

As a 56 yr old, I found all the advice to be spot on. By the time you hit 50, you REALLY don't care what others think. One thing that struck me was "If you don't know them personally, don't take it personally". That is wonderful advice that I never thought of and will try to instill that frame of mind to my two 20+ year old kids. Thank you for the wonderful video. Your videos always make my Sundays much brighter.

[@ShellyS2060]

hey, I'm replying to your post a year later, I just want you to know, it made me feel better

[@pinkitura]

I don't believe I have ever seen such a great mix of people in the comments. All ages, all with amazing stories of their lives, full of wisdom and great advice. These guys are changing the game of creating a community.

[@biddygirl22]

James is correct about dating. It just happens when it happens. When I gave up on dating, my husband super liked me on Tinder and we gave been married 4 years now.

[@recjtg2466]

Right. I stopped "dating" with "mutual" friends and I never have the confidence to meet up with anyone online but when I did let it happen - the very first person I met on a dating site is now my husband who travelled 10,000 miles just to see me!

[@MiniMexii]

Being 26, I simultaneously feel like I’m still a kid trying to find my way in the world, and feel like I’m running out of time to get my life together 😂😂

[@Nails_By_Kimberlee]

Honey, I'm 45, married, and a mom and I feel exactly the same. 🤷‍♀️

[@LawNerdAmber]

I believe you might have perfectly defined what it means to be an adult. I'm 40 and still feel exactly the same.

[@luna_belle5029]

Sounds like you've got it down. This is the way of it, hun. 🙏🏻

[@leacazara7819]

I'm 37 and have no clue of whatever I should be doing

[@DoctorUltraviolence]

I feel the same and am 26 as well. I think we'll be okay though.

[@fave525]

i had a friend who studied to be a doctor, so he is a doctor, but his dream was to be a waiter at a posh restaurant and he fulfilled his dream. i studied to be a chemical analysis technician, a beautician and a dental hygienist, so i can only ask myself: what's next? astrophysics? (no, i'm too stupid for that, but i love astrophysics) but what i mean is life is too short to stick to one thing. if you can, keep looking for things that interest you and see where it takes you.

[@TaliaBSJ]

Sounds like me! Went to culinary school... then cosmetology school... then taught cosmetology school... then nursing school, and worked in inpatient drug and alcohol, and now I’m a labor and delivery nurse. Finally in my dream job, but def took a couple detours to get here!

[@angmerci]

I love this I went to college for 6 years for my BA and Masters degree and just started my big girl job at 24 but I already know this isn’t all I wanna do in life. Hearing experiences like this remind me that life is about the adventure and journey.

[@nso5625]

Couldn't agree more! I studied languages first and then neuroscience. I've worked as a teacher, a magazine editor, a copywriter, a wedding planner, and a PR agent, and I'm now studying to become a skincare specialist whilst running a fashion boutique of my own. Life is WAY too short not to pursue the things you love ❤️ variety is the spice of life, as they say!

[@nso5625]

@@angmerci You're gonna be fine, poppet! Don't worry. You're young and the world is your oyster :) Life is an adventure!

[@smb611]

There is never shame in admitting you need a change. I started in hairdressing out of high school, waitress, cashier, pharmacy Technician, customer service by phone, at age 46, I went into long-haul truck driving, at almost 50 I went to college for pharmacy Technician and medical records technology and earned the 1st degree in my family, an AS degree at age 52! You are never too old to do something new!!!

[@lauraarmbruster973]

Pleeeeease make this like a monthly thing, sitting in the car answering questions whilst trying dairy free coffees 😂❤️

[@brookiecookie6675]

You two remind me so much of how me and my sister were together, so much laughter and inside jokes. She passed away ten years ago and it still doesn’t seem real, although it makes me miss my time with her, seeing you two also makes me remember the good times and how she used to make me laugh like no one else could. Thank you both for just being the awesome people you are. You guys have also reminded me how much I loved working in the beauty community, I still have my esthetician’s license and need to put that thing to work. 💕♥️😍😘👯‍♀️👨🏻‍🤝‍👨🏽

[@toorv09]

Totally the same for me. My sister passed away in 2019. Their cackle is 100 percent what me and my sister would do, finish each other's sentences, etc. I'm so sorry for your loss.

[@brookiecookie6675]

@@toorv09 There’s is just nothing like laughing with a sister that knows you for the good and the bad and loves you no matter what. thank you for your sweet comment, I’m so incredibly, deeply sorry for your loss . It’s a world shaking thing to loose someone you love so much , and it changes us I remember my best friend saying even my voice sounded different after my sister passed and I remember thinking how strange that was but also of course it did because everything was different. Thank you again for your comment, I’m sending you a big hug.

[@jenniferserena1416]

Seeing you both out of your usual studio is like seeing a teacher out of schoo as a kid.

[@jessesgirl096]

The dog thing!!! We got a rescue puppy and he hated humans. We knew that it was going to be rough and he bonded immediately with our other dog who was a year older. He peed EVERYWHERE for two years. He refused to potty train. Everyone was telling us to take him to a shelter and we got do mad because we didn't get a dog for just the good parts. We kept at it and one day it was like ok, I'll go outside now. Best dogs ever.

[@taylorcarluccio4884]

"Go hide in the stockroom for an hour" - me, my first 2 years working retail LOL. I really needed this video today - thank you both so so much for being so transparent and real about these issues. You're amazing.

[@AcidLovingZillenial]

As a 22 year old who's quite lost in life I really appreciate all the talk about faking adulthood & figuring things out as you go haha Honestly loved this format, you should make it a series !!! 🙌🏽 💚

[@cgomez113]

My advice: society has told us you have to pick one thing to “be” when you’re an “adult”. F that, you can love something for decades and then choose differently and love something new. That’s awesome, you never made a mistake. All of your experiences make you, use what you have learned and apply it your next endeavor. Give yourself permission to do so.

[@randl7423]

Love this advice 💖

[@oevilone]

"Don't make plans, life is fickle." James Welsh 2021

[@spaceinveda7408]

I honestly love that quote and it helped me so much 😭🖤

[@juliaw5317]

"not to sound like a fridge magnet" 😂 motivational coaches have nothing on you, boys!

[@rachaelbeck5293]

I resonated with so much of this. I'm nearing 30, I'm single, and happy with it. I'm learning how to carve out independence as I can't afford to leave my parents place. I've also stopped dieting, and now I just eat healthily, and exercise.

[@kathrynchadwick]

I love how petty James can be 🤣 ‘block block block’, ‘bring your partner along let’s eat cakes’ ‘act like you’ve murdered someone’ 😅

[@kristenbasson3744]

The editing is EVERYTHING I never knew I needed

[@StillNatty]

Marcus is so talented!!

[@LJayne]

So excited for my weekly reminder that you two are not the same person!😂 Love you both!💜

[@chiiblossom]

I so needed this today,, was taking my dog to be put down tomorrow but he took a turn for the worst, had to take him tonight instead. Got back, had a cry and immediately came here. This channel really feels like a safe space, thankyou 💜

[@marycartter2095]

I'm so sorry about your dog. That is tha hardest part of loving your pets. God bless you both

[@chiiblossom]

@@marycartter2095 thankyou, it really is. I hope you are well 💜

[@marycartter2095]

@@chiiblossom 💜

[@malin943]

So so sorry for your loss ❤️ dogs are truly a gift in life ❤️

[@thelivingrisi7233]

Chiii.. sending virtual hugs and good vibes your way.. 💐 Even when we know from the start that our dogs won't be with us for as long as we would like, nobody is ever ready to let them go.

[@mathable1611]

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU for talking about pet shelters and pet adoption. As an animal lover, I try to educate and encourage people to adopt from animal shelters. I also cannot stress enough the fact that adopting a pet is a lifelong commitment!!! 🐶🐱

[@melissarosie366]

The three Welsh brothers have been more brothers to me than my own biological family. Thanks for the love. ❤️

[@mariainesoliveira7439]

As a vet, hearing the advice on when to get a dog - 5* advice!! This is what we advise our clients, family and friends, absolute truth! A very important message and a great way of conveying it. Loving your content!!

[@joysleigman7129]

“Scrape the sick off my tongue”. Still laughing. Robert and James you are very funny.

[@valerierodriguez2342]

The rain makes this very cozy. Like im talking to good friends in my living room 😊

[@michelled34]

Hands down this is my favorite Welsh twins video.

[@StephieFaith]

“Powder Frew” is my new daily mantra. 🤣

[@jessiejessiejessie123]

The 30s really do be hitting different. They're the best. No Fs given.

[@ganymededarling]

Everything is so chill now. Would not go back to my 20s for anything

[@jessiejessiejessie123]

@@ganymededarling Literally not enough money available to tempt me to go back.

[@TheFaro2011]

Leaving,30s soon! You really get to know yourself

[@jessiejessiejessie123]

@@TheFaro2011 I love to hear it only gets better! I can't wait. Being young is so overrated.

[@eleanornaomigabrielle4105]

Totally agree! 31 is my favourite age so far x

[@jennie1104]

The eye creasing tip with a fake smile is even more important now we're all rocking around with masks on🤣🤣🤣

[@savanahbanana13]

Set small realistic goals! Like make the bed... Read one page of college notes whatever it is , think of a goal then make it smaller and once you're able to actually achieve that goal you'll feel good and get that burst of accomplishment 🙂 rather than setting unrealistic goals like I'm gonna write ten pages in one day , day after day, not being able to accomplish it makes you feel bad , so small realistic goals!

[@ParticularlyChar]

Robert saying he smells like onions is somehow comforting... we’re all in this together 😂

[@LawNerdAmber]

It must be a terpene because sometimes grass smells like onions too!?

[@welcome2myhappyworld]

35:27 "Someone out there wishes they were you." Wow, that gave me a confidence boost I didn't think I needed...

[@brennaofarcadia]

Never take anything personally. Even if you do know them. Because someone else's opinion says more about them than you. It's never really about you.

[@appetitefordeconstruction]

The drive-through window should absolutely be renamed "the panic window". Also, the cut to a Mr Bean scene is gold.

[@Mgaillenak]

How do I stop shopping? J&R: No. You just can't. 🤣🤣🤣💀

[@1Skorpia]

For the "22" question. Don't feel forced to fit the mold and do these huge decisions young .Many things change. People lose their jobs,divorce,breakup, move back with their parents,have health problems etc..its not about being " grown up" its about making smart decisions that are for you and not anyone else. It's YOUR LIFE!

[@jimmygolucky23]

I had to put down my cat today and I'm heartbroken and I felt so lost, because I can't even go and see friends or family. I didn't know how to cheer myself up, but then I saw this. Thank you so much

[@nobodynowhere_5141]

We had to put out dog down recently so I completely relate. Sending hugs 🤗 xx

[@sebumpostmortem]

Reading this right now and sending you a rib cracker hug. 🧛🏻‍♀️🐶💜🙍🏻‍♀️🐱

[@meowcenary21]

You two make my Sundays so enjoyable. Chronic illness follower and I cant tell you how many times your videos got me through tough days of pain. 🖤🦇💁🏻‍♂️💁🏻‍♂️

[@sarahbon421]

Me too ❤️

[@Ladyscarface]

Hope you have an amazing day beautiful lady ✌

[@akira_ariga]

I don't have brothers, so this is just really wholesome and great

[@mmmikhaella]

Robert and James laughing over literally nothing Me goes laughing along 😂😂

[@Co-xu3xk]

"When its right for the dog" I really wish people thought like that! ❤

[@jovana_kocic]

Can we bring Marcus here too on a road trip or something, we need another head peeking through the seats:)

[@julissacampos4304]

as I child who entered their 20s during a "once in a lifetime" pandemic I needed to hear all of this