Jay Barnett Speaks On Black Men With Trauma, Wealth & Relationships | Anthony ONeal

[@Itsalllove1111]

This was excellent conversation. As a female it’s so refreshing to see black men healing through therapy. Great Job Men❤️

[@everythingalyb]

16 min in and I’m heavily triggered. 😩 Whew! Those PK/father/mother wounds are no joke. So thankful he’s still here to not only tell his story, but liberate so many others. And how clever & strategic is God in gifting him with the same call as his father - to counsel & shepherd. 🙌🏾 God truly works all things together for our good & His glory. ❤️🙏🏾

[@HelloMsSongbird]

Same!

[@stephenleigh4571]

ditto to what you have said, signed me... A Christian Black man..... PK.... yeah.... what you said.

[@Gotsjuice]

bro had me in my work truck shedding tears.

[@nnamdiosix]

I’m going to keep it all the way 💯+ I had a face full of tears only like 20 minutes into this interview. To hear this man speak of some of the same pain I’ve dealt with, touched my soul to the point I know I MUST go see a therapist for the first time ever very soon. Thank you AO & Jay this episode blessed me 🙏🏾

[@ajwriter5699]

Jay on here holding a deliverance service! THIS is what we need to heal the culture. Broken parental bonds, divorce, identity complex, pent up emotional wounds, S attempts, vulnerability, that hurt inner kid, relationship blackmail, therapy, public humiliation, etc. Yeah, we need a Part 2. This episode is like disinfectant for that bruise that won’t heal.

[@slwalker02]

Omgosh! A Part 2 is most definitely needed…there are so many gems in this show…Thank you!!!

[@fendiig3079]

I agree.

[@arthan06]

Yes please!!!

[@nena1bomb]

My husband is black. I've been his "therapist" through our entire marriage. I had no idea that I was marrying a man that was truly emotionally broken. NO IDEA. The challenges I've had to endure with him, I don't think others would have survived. We've searched for therapists for years, and none of them would work after 5pm (when he would get off work). We also need to talk about access to mental health. Many of these therapists don't accept insurance at all. You have to pay them around $75.00-150.00 PER VISIT. Many don't have hours after 5pm, making it challenging when people have a full time job they can't call out of for therapy. Also. You can't tell your employer you have to be at a therapist meeting, or else they will either think of firing you, or hold it against you somehow. Which makes explaining why you need scheduled "time off" on a weekly or biweekly basis, very hard. Some men (and women) mental condition requires weekly sessions. Employers frown upon that, making getting adequate, timely help, incredibly hard.

[@shanalovecoaching6378]

Hello Naomi 👋🏾! It can be definitely frustrating, however, don't despair. I believe he mentioned "Better Help" and can possibly locate a therapist that may have the hours/days that suitable. Also, depending what stati you live, they counseling center that may offer free or low cost services. Especially, if you are running into issues that certain insurances are not accepted by most private practice vs agencies that offer counseling. I hope this helps.

[@maxinec1616]

Yaaay! Jay Barnett is at The Table, I'm all ears!

[@fitz2523]

This episode is so great, needed, and necessary I just sent it to all the men I know and my therapist and prays she sends it to other men…thanks so much AO and Jay for the vulnerability and transparency 💯🙏🏾🙌🏾

[@kaylaallison613]

I did the same and posted this on my Fb page. This was such a necessary conversation for so many. May God continue to bless and keep you both in your ministry AO and Jay Barnett!

[@susanakaan810]

Sometimes children can grow with both parents but still not feel their love, we must intentionally speak in to our children . Great reminder for me.

[@nattyb2924]

Anthony, I am woman and I agree wholeheartedly! If my future man frowns on the fact that I see a therapist monthly, and if he's against the idea for himself, I don't want him!

[@fitz2523]

One of the reasons why I left the ex 💯🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Missworku]

One of your BEST shows!!!!! I’m sharing with every male I know!

[@TheGayStoic]

AO we need a part 2 with Jay Barnett for real. that dude is pouring into me big time, good Lord 🙏🏾

[@herbertjreid3rd253]

This brother dropped wisdom, knowledge and an added bonus…wisdom!

[@monettevalliere]

I love the fact that he corrected AO on his early statement.

[@lifewithherr4018]

His back story broke my heart

[@ladyrenaethomasjames]

We need him back at the table Anthony 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@LBinDisWae]

Please do a part 2. You guys are great

[@sandramadrey7602]

Praise God! This is healing salve on my sore eyes. It's really a blessing to see our black men finally being healed from the generational, bloodline curses. God bless you! 👍

[@seemoni0900]

This is the most honest discussion about what is wrong with Black men that I have ever heard.

[@kimdavis3259]

“The man is accomplished but the boy is still broken”. Wow!! That’s deep!

[@JeremiahTate]

Great episode. The truth is there will be seasons in our lives where we need therapy. It is inevitable. Thank you for tackling these hard topics

[@lisahobbs2312]

My question is how do parents have the capacity to do for others but not for there own? Never the less Mourning what you did not have and burying it, is definitely a wonderful option.

[@fitz2523]

It’s hard to say but I think it comes from the mindset of if I lacked it growing up my child can do without it too and jealousy in why would I give my child what I always wanted and it went unfulfilled

[@toshistokes9277]

What a POWERFUL conversation. Thank you for your transparency. I’m sending this to my son.

[@soniagonzalez1462]

Wow the adult is accomplished but the child is broken. This episode has brought me to tears. You’ve walked me through my entire life. Now at 53 I replay the possible one effects of the pre therapy mom on my son

[@justinegrant8024]

A part 2 is definitely needed👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@jlclandscapeja]

For every wife, mother and friend. This hits home for most blk men and young sons. Behind that smile or anger this is what’s going through the minds of many men.

[@BabyyListen]

Idk how I found this channel but I hope your platform grow a larger cause these topics and interviews are logical practical and so soothing for the black community

[@ashleym7839]

This was everything! I’m passing it along to the men in my family…. And we definitely need a part 2.

[@angy7]

healing is a journey. wholeness is the destination.

[@jerrytwin]

Congrats Kings!!!!! Much needed discussion!!!💥🤴🏿🔥

[@stevensantora2976]

This episode was so healing for me, thank you so much Anthony. I pray that you and Jay do a part 2 to this episode, it was so rich.

[@terribstylin]

This is one of the best conversations that addresses the totality of our black men on so many levels. Thank you guys! My son will be watching.

[@rachelvillafana6263]

This may be one of your best episodes to date. Keep THESE kind of convos going!!!!

[@tiffanydnorman]

This episode was everything!! Thank you so much! It's giving me more perceptive and insight in how to relate to the men in my life, including my sons. This is a MUST listen to for both men and women. When we learn/know better we can do better!

[@missnya4368]

Yes 👏🏿

[@seekgodfirstallways8798]

PLEASE ANTHONY WE NEED A PART 2 🙏🏽👍🏽

[@parthiniatillmon1244]

This was definitely life changing for me. I can't believe how ignorant I was to much of this. This episode caused me to repent and it has humbled me. Thank you for sharing

[@kw3870]

We need part 2 great conversation

[@slicingitupwithselena2234]

Thank you guys for being so transparent and vulnerable. This session amazing 🙏🏿❤️

[@susanakaan810]

Healing is a journey, wholeness is the destination,.

[@thesacredhealher]

This was the best episode so far!!!! I could be bias because I’m a mental health therapist but JAY did that!! Thank you for always standing in the gap for our men and our Black Men.

[@Mzzg]

I love listening to Jay speak and teach. Ladies we need this so we know better how to help/listen to the black men in our lives, brother/son/lover/nephew/husband/friend. Yes Anthony we need a part 2❤️

[@ericadwells658]

It is a blessing to hear an unfiltered male point of view about life and healing. Learning much from you both. Therapy is a journey worth taking.

[@lisahobbs2312]

Very good show men!

[@renaesimon6298]

Thank you for this AO. Part 2 is absolutely needed.

[@susanakaan810]

This conversation is soooo important, my father was always hugging me telling me how I can accomplish great things. Great video.

[@bright123321]

This was a word! So relatable! Thanks so much for opening up and sharing your true feelings to show it’s okay as black men to talk and heal.

[@vancampbell3847]

Great show and very informative 👏

[@TheGayStoic]

this interview right here is one of the best I've seen on KZbin in a long time 🔥

[@Me-xn6tz]

This episode was incredible! The questions you asked to help the ladies interact with the men in their lives were awesome too. I love that Jay is touring this message 💪🏽……Dynamic team guys!

[@kamladixon8374]

Yes we need a part 2. Thank you both for sharing

[@ladyrenaethomasjames]

Ok ok so this got DEEP real real quick 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

[@katrinawilliams651]

This is amazing and healing! I will definitely forward this video to my 4 blood. But moving forward for me as a single black queen, I am listening to you. Trust looks different for a woman and a man! I never heard that before and never new that. Thank you for the knowledge! Peace and Blessings!

[@sunnylove3521]

I came upon this episode not by chance or coincidence but hecause it came into my vibration because I am in a situation where I am sending someone for an evaluation and to see a therapist, Thank you so much this conversation has been educational and understandable as I move forward in helping my loved one. Much appreciaiton.

[@astovall4678]

One of the best conversations! Meaningful and eye opening.

[@battleforit]

I’d come back for a part 2. Anthony! You make me cry! The end is precious. I wasn’t ready.

[@jasminebailey6810]

Thank you King Anthony and King Jay for sharing this message. We’re so grateful that you are walking the path of healing. We acknowledge you both as Black Men 🌿🙏🏾

[@quantellamcgill5477]

Great show!

[@wendyhenry8313]

This is so deep. It’s so good at unpacking. My hubby and I have both had therapy. I’ve been suicidal, I get you absolutely. And it is a process you’re so right. We’re white but this applies to black and white because we can all identify here. My hubby is a pastor, he had no voice as a kid, neither did I. We weren’t valued. We weren’t encouraged. We were never told good job. This was so great for me as a women to understand a man’s point of view. Thank you for sharing.

[@MissLovelyLawson]

This is sooo eye-opening!!

[@mariemoontarot]

This is really truly beautiful!❤ I am here for it!❤❤❤

[@sharidthomas573]

This was one of your best shows, being vulnerable can be a scary place...my heart is full from this show.

[@patricebrown777]

Always a phenomenal exchange, when Jay Barnett speaks.Thank you for this, Sharing this!❤🙏🏽

[@michellefisher470]

I had to share this on my FACEBOOK

[@AquariusShero]

This is hands down the BEST show I’ve ever watched on KZbin!!! Big Thank you to you Both for sharing your experiences and wisdom!! Huge Fan of you both. Wow!! Sharing this with my husband, fathers and brothers.

[@_LeighPaul]

This man literally spoke to my soul 7 mins into this video! Okay let me sit down and take notes 📝

[@Crob3621]

More of this please... Fantastic work and I love the direction your content is going.

[@TheInspiredAthlete]

Looove this conversation. Thank you both!!!

[@edithwaithira9967]

I have already listened 2x to this episode. Part 2 is needed...thank you for such phenomenal conversation

[@revacleveland5238]

Beautiful!!!! I love to see our Black Kings being their authentic self.

[@yoanneM]

I can’t wait for part 2

[@shaywatts6338]

This is one of my favorite episodes AO!!! Jay ALWAYS delivers!!! I hope there’s a part 2!!

[@myraaustin3392]

Great interview!!!!

[@fatimadiallo6947]

U always bring great content but this one is excellent. He’s right about everything. When u keep winning and never heard from your father that he is proud of you hurt. I’m one of those that’s missing that. However it motivates me. Also, as a nurse I saw many people trying to take their lives because of lack of mental and emotional support. Thank you so much for this. ❤️

[@Drsashamercedes]

I absolutely love this message. This was a powerful segment. I’m a behavioral health therapist, single mother with two sons and I feel that men need more of these. I shared this with my sons

[@love7loyalty-MHA]

This was amazing! Thank you for this 💫

[@jailenrjones]

You and Jay knocked it out the park with this one. I think this may be the most impactful podcast episode I’ve ever listened to… in my life

[@SCFKASB]

I cried my eyes out watching this. SO NECESSARY and I commend his bravery in sharing his struggles. I hope this can lead to a door opening for black men: to be open, emotionally healed, and assured in asking for whatever it is you need. I LOVE YOU, black man! 💕

[@Thatbul]

Thanks

[@SCFKASB]

@@Thatbul you’re welcome hun

[@terrieceleste9194]

Omg , I have been watching your KZbin channel and they are all good but this one really touch my heart and is so real and true God Bless Mr. Barnett for sharing his story 🙏🏽

[@Yoursewinggalpal]

Yes that’s so true I opened up to my man and he opened up to me. I will keep that with me and no one will ever know

[@soleilwhitton6397]

I almost skipped this episode but so glad I did not. Definitely some rich info to take care of your relationships y'all. I may have to listen to this one a 2nd time. AO "Thank You for offering a variety of topics to grow on. Prayers............

[@kimberlysmith2392]

Two men that totally “get” the significance of showing up authentically

[@recipebandit3563]

Wow! Sounds like Jay's dad was only able to perform but couldn't provide for his family. I pray Jay can break his generational trauma, sounds like he's doing the work. Blessings Jay

[@ohthatsdom]

DA*N only 30min in and this ish rocked me! This was Powerful. I understand so much more about myself and my habits of old

[@lidyanaredeemed9848]

Amazing! See, there is always a purpose to suffering. God always always always uses the broken peaces of our life and use it to the kingdom. I felt his pain. Listening and thinking about my nephew at the same time. Non of us have it all together and both men and women need God’s grace and protection! I pray that the peace of our savior that surpasses human understanding be with all of us! I am really happy about this brother overcoming all the odds and now he is shining! ❤️both!🙏🙏

[@c.edales740]

This reached me as I’m sure it did others. “ you can’t give what you don’t have” it took counseling for me to see that…then o was free

[@AllAboutIvory]

This needs to hit 1million ‼️‼️‼️‼️🙌🏽

[@chloelageaux769]

This was such a beautiful and transparent discussion. Healing is so paramount in every aspect of life because if we don't we run the risk of destroying ourselves and others!

[@kevarop7626]

Love seeing the growth in you Anthony! Thanks for being willing to share your own growth journey with us. And we love Jay! he has a way of speaking and relating that is honest and beautiful.

[@hopespeaks7k332]

Thank you 🙏 we need more videos like this bc men have such a hard time going to therapy. It’s appreciated. I’m sharing this video in my social media blog and in my KZbin channel. I received 7 keys from my grandfather after he had passed away. I had to discover the meaning. It’s a cool story. Now I teach the machinery of the brain and how to drive it.

[@mikea.4477]

AO is gotta say I absolutely love this show brother! As long as you keep putting these videos out and meaningful conversations together I’ll be a supporter for life! ✊🏽

[@305poppaFl]

I'm definitely in the A|O stands I do want a women who isn't currently and consistently helping or evolving her mental health. I'm 30 and I don't have nothing going on but I've stayed in therapy for the entire time I've been , Up and down. I think this episode is beautiful for someone like me lost and still fighting with mental fears.

[@tonya4496]

I really like the way you speak to the public

[@hazelm.8822]

Please have a part 2! This is amazing, he is amazing!

[@cikizwayekani5473]

Thanks AO, this is so eye opening "thought provoking"

[@diedrawilson4369]

This was an excellent program today. Thanks for sharing.

[@SongiGodsgirl]

We need Part 2 Anthony, I listened to this on Spotify then came to KZbin to watch it for the second time which I know won't be my last. I am sending it to all my Friends. These conversations are much needed. Geezz

[@90daydetox]

I’m excited about this one! Jay is truly inspirational

[@devettemalloy]

Please do a PT 2!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I didn't want this to end!

[@shywonderful81]

Another insightful & wonderful episode w/ Jay. Part 2 definitely needed. Blessings 🙌🏾💜