I spent a day with people w/ DOWN SYNDROME

[@AnthonyPadilla]

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[@MrCommentGod]

Ok

[@Bruh-bu5ts]

Hi

[@vrourk]

Hi

[@nait7849]

Cool

[@alexihavenoidea]

oooo cool

[@JackOfAllTrades0404]

My godmother had Down syndrome. As a kid I noticed she would pretend she didn’t know how to do something and others would do it for her. One day I told her “I know you’re smart, you’re not getting away with that with me” and she laughed and easily and quickly did the task she was trying to pawn off on me. The way she figures it, if people want to make incorrect perceptions instead of actually asking questions and learning, why not let them in a way that at least benefits you as well.

[@ghostedrevolver420]

Queen shit fr

[@DDub04]

That’s that alpha grindset right there

[@BoredSudoku]

Same with old people tbh

[@stupidbeatsaberplayer]

Hot girl shit

[@mushroomscum5153]

I do the same thing with my 12 yr old sister with down syndrome too 😂

[@MillerMMA]

How sick do you have to be to bully someone for a condition they didn’t choose to have.

[@TukeShark]

Yeah they should stop spreading rumors and start spreading that 🅰️SS 😋

[@lijisoffline]

@@TukeShark ?

[@darklesbian6653]

how sick do you have to be to be a bully.

[@wifehaver6973]

@@TukeShark Bro..

[@insertnamehere7583]

Do people often choose to have conditions?

[@EulogyPlagerism]

I love this cause it honestly discusses a condition that it typically infantilized and it's great seeing adults treated like adults.

[@jessica-sm1nc]

For real. That reminds of in high school when the stuck up girls would treat these people like they were little kids and almost talk in a voice that you would use when talking to a baby or a dog. It’s so easy just to treat someone like everyone else.

[@loralea3142]

@@jessica-sm1nc fr those suck up girls are like the biggest stealth bullies; won't leave you alone, make a huge deal of your disability and infantellize to no end but nobody takes it seriously when you complain over the endless harassment cuz they're "just being nice and helping"

[@felixhenson9926]

YES when I saw the thumbnail say "we're not always happy" that made ME very happy.

[@BrokenFrames]

Huge facts. I was kinda hesitant to watch this video for that reason but I was happy to see it was not like that

[@kingkilla1267]

@@jessica-sm1nc I’m autistic and Ive experienced THE EXACT SAME THING!!!! I remember when people would say “GOOD JOB LITTLE BUDDY” every time I did anything, and they would make baby noises at me like they’re trying to call over a dog, and once I was even called “cute” by a special ed teacher. I hated it. I never felt respected.

[@canneds00p]

everyday im so proud of my older brother. he was born in poland and once he was born, nurses told my mom that he wouldn't be more than a "vegetable." but nearly 30 years later and the dude is BILINGUAL, a very dedicated gamer, insane lego builder, has a phenomenal memory, and just a very sweet and caring person, and of course sometimes annoying just like all siblings are. i wish people weren't so mean and judgmental sometimes :/

[@chaosincarnate7304]

Forget eating her own words the Nurse must've completely DEVOURED AND DIGESTED her words, still can't believe anyone can tell someone that.

[@MiYakuT]

I've worked with DS people myself and also bilingual! Do you know how difficult and rare that is? Your older brother is smarter than most people!

[@anonymoustoes]

He sounds awesome! What languages does he speak?

[@winniethexiping1062]

im from Polish and yeah people knew he had it in Poland he wouldent have a very good time

[@jackburkhardt7]

LEGO BUILDERS UNITE!!🫡

[@goblin3143]

I'm a survivor of attempted murder, it's a topic that's surprisingly never talked about. I've personally never met anyone who's gone through this and it would help other survivors feel less alone. Please consider it

[@Saltygatorade]

There is a link in the description to request a topic

[@yyg4632]

theres a great podcast called other people's lives and theyv interviewed a person who experienced that. it was in depth

[@jordanleighwheatley]

@@yyg4632 I just watched their newest episode before watching this one lol

[@laymonhalimon2824]

Nice profile pic

[@goblin3143]

@@Saltygatorade thank you!

[@s.l.c.543]

Honestly this series is one of the most interesting on the platform it gives so much awareness to so many different topics and walks of life. Absolutely love it.

[@AxxLAfriku]

One thing! Just one thing! Please tell IT to me: WHY tf do I have so many fans even though no KZbinr is unprettier than I am? WORLDWIDE!!!! WHY??? Tell me, dear slc

[@coweyloaf]

@@AxxLAfriku pls this is a special moment, don't disturb it with your self promotion

[@s.l.c.543]

@@coweyloaf yeah like jacksepticeye said, the KZbin comment section plague continues to be prevalent everywhere unfortunately

[@GLEAM0721]

Ding ding ding .. you've won 🏆the obvious award ...yes I know I'm being bitchy ... sorry 😐🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳🥳

[@mycoachknowsthesheriff]

Architects

[@Psykells]

There was a girl in my Sign Language class with Down Syndrome struggling with fine motor movements in her hands. The professor was very cruel because it took her longer to make her handshapes and kept getting frustrated with her.

[@kaleyr817]

That’s so cruel… isn’t the whole point of sign language to help people with a hearing disability?? So to put someone down with a disability is so ridiculous

[@olimon675]

They just don't understand

[@JamaicanRain]

That is wrong. The special Ed teacher should have learned the sign language or at least gotten the correct materials.

[@seantaggart7382]

I know i would get frustrated too but you cant

[@MoistCrumpet]

That professor shouldn’t be teaching sign language if they’re that impatient.

[@May-or-May-not]

When Kennedy said she told her mom "No, thanks. I have Down Syndrome" when her mom asked her to clean her room it reminded me a bit of the Swedish mass calling in "too gay to go to work" as a protest to homosexuality being considered an illness in Sweden. Sometimes acting this way is a really good way of demonstrating how ridiculous people are when they keep underestimating what you can do 😊You guys are awesome!

[@DAME993]

You do know gay can mean happy tho?

[@May-or-May-not]

@@DAME993 yes, I know it does in English. How is that related though?

[@BanishforCost]

I often find myself too happy to go to work too, it’s all good

[@DAME993]

@@May-or-May-not when tf did I even comment that? Damn I was tired or something.

[@mckali9999]

@@DAME993 that's the worst argument considering the meaning of a word is the most popular use of it and not its previous or potential meanings

[@Seanansucks862]

Anthony is so respectful he doesn’t try baby talk them he treats them like grown people which is who they are

[@M0_z]

Matthew is extremely articulate. More than many people I've known or worked with! We have to tear down stereotypes at all cost!

[@sharpeningtheaxe]

Applauding someone for not falling into a stereotype when speech difficulties are just a normal part of down syndrome seems like a very underhanded compliment to me that kind of puts down people with down syndrome who are “less articulate.”

[@theactualgarfield5024]

Hehehheheheh. Down. Hehehehheh.

[@nicreven]

@@theactualgarfield5024 i love you

[@SierNotsruht]

It isn't a stereotype, the average person with down syndrome is intellectually disabled, not everyone will be but it's safe to assume.

[@Charlotte-wx4jz]

Isn’t he just!

[@nattpearl]

my little cousin has down syndrome , i feel it’s very misunderstood and things like this can really help get the representation they need :)

[@RealPVMovies]

My aunt has down syndrome. I feel this.

[@YoBoiHrcky]

My cousin has down syndrome and he's the sweetest person. On his birthday there was a cake with a Vin Diesel picture and he was so excited about it, it brought a new kind od warmth to my heart

[@catwellslilbro]

There is a girl with downsyndrome at my school she has few friends but isn't bullied and her friends treat her normal.

[@ken6492]

Same

[@evasmojang]

@@catwellslilbro That's nice to hear. Kids can be so cruel so it's good to hear that she has friends.

[@TheRealGuywithoutaMustache]

I'm happy you're actually covering this misunderstood topic, I feel like there's a lot of misinformation that you cleared up by doing this interview

[@LordWatermelon]

So true!

[@x-2325]

I agree

[@hayzplayz]

I finally see what the problem with KZbin comments is.. this is literally copied and pasted

[@Extremblox]

Hi

[@lune7220]

Ugh why does it have to be you as the top commenter?? 😡🥺 YOU BOTS ARE TAKING OVER KZbin.

[@JeranKing25]

Matthew is my cousin:) It’s very cool the amount of awareness and activism he has been bringing to the world regarding Down Syndrome. He also did a TedX talk!

[@CarmenVincentFilms]

That’s amazing! Do you think he’d be willing to give me feedback on a doc I’m working on about a family’s effort to educate first responders about Down syndrome? It’s called Teacher of Patience and I would be HONORED to get his thoughts.

[@curlygurly2112]

well now he's Matthew 2.0!

[@megczaban6814]

Omg you must be so proud :))

[@benjaminmarley1178]

Great guy

[@FluffyPoopPrincess]

He seems so sweet! All the love to your cousin (and you and your family!

[@rainecloudeee2516]

I actually know Kennedy personally and I can confidently say she's a wonderful, strong woman. I'm so glad I was able to see her on this interview! She deserves any and all love she gets so seriously, go follow her ❤

[@IzzieFlorez]

I couldn’t agree more! She is so sweet! And such a AMAZING friend, and I love her so much she’s like a sister to me! ❤️ go follow her!

[@Iwritetocope]

@@IzzieFlorez isn’t she a dhar Mann actress

[@lolweiku]

@@Iwritetocopeall these people saying nice things about her then f*cking DMNZ comes in like “isn’t she a dhar man actres” 😭☠️

[@Iwritetocope]

@@lolweiku Ik, that’s just what I do

[@lolweiku]

@@Iwritetocope fr

[@fabianshedenhelm2986]

When I was younger in high school all neurodivergent people used to group together to survive in highschool and we created strong networks of love and support. It made me so happy seeing this. We used to hear the r word get thrown at us all the damn time. Thanks for showing people with down syndrome respect, and other people who are neurodivergent, it means a lot.

[@twentyonetortas5921]

When you mean survive do you mean in terms of grades or bullying or something else? Since y'all grouped together did teachers and school staff do anything about any bullying? Any neurotypical allies? How much students were alright with you guys vs how much were mean to y'all?

[@supremekai7112]

I hate people who bully people for something they can’t control at all. It absolutely is heartbreaking for these people who go through the bullying.

[@eileensnow6153]

When I was a kid (seven years old) my baby brother died. I was already bullied pretty bad, so when word got out why I had been absent for several days, it became relentless. But those were children and I can accept now that they didn’t know the effect that their actions would have; *anybody* who doesn’t have the excuse of being a *literal child* needs to seriously reevaluate their morals.

[@dylanragon]

@@eileensnow6153 that's horrifying. The fact that you're able to effectively forgive those kids shows just how compassionate you are. You're a really cool person

[@supremekai7112]

@@eileensnow6153 that is awful, I hope you’re doing okay now

[@shroomie9561]

It is very sad ]:

[@vop4813]

I hate bullying in any case

[@hannahjensen7845]

I wish Anthony could talk to my aunt, she would be so excited to meet someone who would talk to her like an adult. I’m so glad you do this Anthony!

[@iamgoo]

I think he slipped a little bit tbh. Like how he said "your boyfriend" like she was a little kid. Not that I know her age or that he meant it in a bad way but just something I noticed. Very well done regardless. I've learned so much from these videos. Thanks Anthony

[@lee-hv1el]

does your aunt have down syndrome???

[@hannahjensen7845]

@@iamgoo I noticed that too, but I’m glad that he’s actually trying :)

[@bekanimal]

@@iamgoo I watched the video trying to listen for that, but I couldn't find it ... timestamp ?

[@lavaissocoolandamazing]

@@bekanimal i think that what they're talking about is at around 7:55 but im not sure. I couldn't hear anything but I'm not very good with hearing emotions and stuff when people talk so it might just be me i dont know

[@dbrad4524]

The fact that some people see others as inferior based on race, disability or even sex is insane. We’re all human we should be treated equally man…. 😔

[@treeman73272]

We should all be treated equally... As long as you're a white male (Unfortunately to some people it's not obvious this is a joke so I have to state here that it's a joke)

[@peepo19]

Equal in terms of value ethically for sure... But being lower IQ means you'll get treated differently, for instance I wouldn't explain something super fast to a kid unless that kid can absorb the information at that rapid pace, so for a down Syndrom kid you have to slow down further. It has nothing to do with value inherently but our society values intelligence a lot, hard work should be valued more.

[@dbrad4524]

@@peepo19 my best mate has Cerebral Palsy, which affects his brain in a number of ways, and he does struggle a bit when it comes to learning, however he’s pretty damn good when it comes to other things. I’m just so proud of Anthony for actually giving them light 👍

[@thegumball1809]

I think since there is that mentality and hustle culture with society, putting down others seems like it propells their life, by pushing others back. Of course if there was no worry for success and massive fame, money, or whatever, I don't think ppl would care that much

[@Ghostman223]

Exactly

[@tragic.6685]

my childhood friend passed about 3 months ago she had down syndrome. She passed away due to a heart condition that was linked to her down syndome. She was 13, thank you Anthony for spreading awareness on this misunderstood topic. RIP to all the people with daddy own syndrome who has died young we all love you. Rest in peace to my dear childhood friend Shreeyaa who passed away way too young. Thank you again Anthony, I love you. 25/04/22🤍🕊

[@tragic.6685]

@mansexman thank u darling

[@Godasdogas]

I know it's a serious comment and I feel really sorry for you but you misspelled "down" people could get confused

[@carmageddon19]

I’m so sorry 🕊️❤️

[@haydenjacobson6821]

I have NEVER been intentionally rude to any person with Down Syndrome or a learning disability, and I would never call someone with those problems the “r-word” . That being said, growing up, the casual or comedic use of the “r-word” has been something I would do occasionally. This video has finally enlightened me in a way that other things haven’t. Seeing these three express their feelings about how it makes them feel to hear that phrase really drove a point home, straight into my heart. Excellent work Anthony

[@yuitachibana6145]

I had a girl at my summer camp with Down Syndrome; but she didn’t let some diagnosis define her. She was hilarious, everyone in my age group loved her because she was so authentic and optimistic.

[@koolkat-hq5xc]

@@Finn_River or the disorder itself. Sometimes a person's disorder effects their life, and that's okay! As long as no one gets hurt and everyone is happy.

[@AzureAsher]

One of my classmates has Down syndrome and I feel really bad for her whenever people are rude to her. I try to be kind to her and stick up for her. She’s really nice.

[@kamrynbell8107]

My aunt has Down Syndrome and absolutely everyone she comes in contact with she always puts a smile on their faces because she is just a genuinely loving and caring person. I really look up to her and she is really like my best friend, we do almost everything together.

[@metaeditzz6934]

I have a sister with Down syndrome who I care for more than ANYONE in my life. She’s my pride and joy. Just Hearing the R Word PISSES ME THE FUCK OFF. But it was never targeted to her, she is always so happy and she kept me going during my depression for a decade. I’m 15 almost 16 now and I’m no longer depressed. My sister while a pain in my ass (in a good way) she’s still my sister who I would do LITERALLY anything for and protect. And thanks to her I understand Down syndrome kids better than most adults. I’m so glad you made this video, it really gave me more knowledge on kids with downs. And luckily she’s surrounded by an amazing group of friends who are basically her bodyguards and people I trust to protect her

[@esther_6]

Aww that's so sweet I'm ur same age:))

[@Honeygirlhaylee]

I almost wanted to cry reading this. You are an amazing sibling.

[@coalver]

I have a younger sister and I know what you mean by saying you’d do anything for her. Im glad she has you, you sound like an amazing sibling

[@seantaggart7382]

Yeah If i could id edit the Universe and delete that VERY WORD

[@May-kc9cv]

I have an older sister just like you. She's my whole world too ❤️

[@weird0s5]

My sister has downs syndrome and I didn't realize until this video just how infantilized she really is. I think my parents have a lot of shame to get over and it may need to start with me.

[@weird0s5]

I think i need to reexamine some biases and shame that may have been taught to me. Thank you for doing this video.

[@zyrith9475]

I find myself in the same shoes feeling shame. I never talked bad about people with disabilities but I used to have these thoughts where I would dislike them. While my life has been very troubled and it is really difficult for me to relate to normal people and what normal behaviour is like as much as it is for them to relate to me, in my late teens I started to understand more and more about diseases, disorders, addiction, violence, abuse and neglect. I was also slowly introduced more and more to people with cognitive disabilities and it became more clear to me that we are one and the same. About a year ago I saw a short video about people with down-syndrome and I immediately pondered, why do some of us treat them like animals? The way we often treat animals is problematic too, they can be well-behaved and learn too, they aren't a species that are unintelligent and good for nothing, however I digress. It is simply gnorant to think that people who don't speak the same language or have difficulty with language or can't communicate optimally are inferior. People who had a stroke can get better, the same can be said to people who have schizophrenia, addicts can recover, blunt trauma to the head can get better and so much more. These are things that can happen to us, but the part that makes us human and alike also remains. People don't choose to suffer or be disabled, many are born like that, and you can learn to deal with it better; fully, or partially recover from it. I mean to say even if you feel shame, you shouldn't beat yourself up. I always make this clear to people. Work on improving, it is ok to make mistakes, and without them we can't learn efficiently.

[@fabplays6559]

@@zyrith9475 I'd just like to point out that your self-awareness is really admirable. A lot of people find it impossible to think critically about their own actions, and the fact that you can already demonstrates that you have nothing to be ashamed about. You're already on the path to improving that outlook and the way you view people with disabilities. You should be proud of that, not ashamed. Realising when you've got biases is the first step in getting rid of those biases.

[@zyrith9475]

@@fabplays6559 Thank you. It suddenly became clear to me as to why it may be that some people cannot clearly evaluate their actions, I always had trouble understanding this. Personally, I feel a lot of shame and blame for things I likely should not, but I can't help it but give myself the blame-- I also believe that that can give some form of a sense of control when in fact you were not in control of your fate. All things said, I am skeptical there is an outlook for me in this life. Nevertheless, I want to still do what is right. No person should suffer like I have.

[@Randomfactory56]

I completely understand, watching this video I was thinking of I friend I had in high school with Down syndrome and how I infantilized her … I never realized till now. I also want to change for the better.

[@animeisbest1161]

When I was really young, like 5, I had a boy with down syndrome in my pre school class. For ages, I was terrified of him. My teachers had to keep him away from me because of how scared I was. When I was 6, I finally made my peace with him and wasn't scared anymore. When I started 1st grade he was in the same school as me. His brother was in my class (as well as another boy with down syndrome who I love to pieces Nathan if you see this I miss you sm) and we became friends, and our parents did too. Sometimes, in 2nd grade I think, I would go over to their house (when it was one of their birthdays or just to visit) and eventually I got to know my friend's brother and his personality and realized how stupid I had been. Since then I've switched schools and am no longer friends with his brother, but from when I was in 2nd or first grade until now I've felt terrible for being scared of him. He's an amazing person. He's funny, kind, loyal, selfless and an amazing dancer. If you're reading this, know that I still think of you Luca. ❤

[@animeisbest1161]

Also sorry for literally writing an essay in this comment section everyone 😭

[@katiakat999]

I really appreciate how you humanize all of your guests and never infantilize them as well, that's so important

[@SierNotsruht]

Isn't that expected? It's a human right.

[@muckumsing8531]

I'm so glad my parents raised me to not judge people. I had a childhood friend with down syndrome and I never thought of them as disabled until someone else told me they had down syndrome 3 years into our friendship

[@marnenotmarnie259]

being disabled isn't bad though

[@muckumsing8531]

@@marnenotmarnie259 I never said it was /nm

[@marnenotmarnie259]

@@muckumsing8531 okay cool and good :) i've just heard that a lot in a negative way

[@dapz]

Woah, this was really informative and interesting! I don't think I've ever met a person with down syndrome (though that being said my memory is very limited) and I had a ton of wrong ideas about what down syndrome was and how it affected the lives of people with it. Thanks anthony :)

[@LordWatermelon]

Yeah true! *h prota-*

[@Aurora_Animates]

True :D

[@DrSupernerd]

@@LordWatermelon gonist

[@sparkz3428]

dapz is here

[@Belphegor616]

Hey

[@webbyishere]

Can you talk to people with functional neurological disorder? I never see any rep with my disorder anywhere. And make sure they're properly diagnosed. I'd love to see it

[@boosagi1609]

I second this!!! As someone who also has the disorder, FND needs more recognition

[@NinjaTellTales]

YOO I WOULD LOVE THAT!! I have FND and its such a complex and horrible disability

[@hdilie123]

Was legit just diagnosed with this last week and had never heard of it before, it's so weird/cool to see these comments now :) Don't feel as alone now!

[@laurenwilson4065]

I think since it’s such a wide diagnosis it’d be hard to get an accurate view. Especially since doctors just throw the diagnosis at what they don’t understand

[@katie-kb6qd]

this is my first time hearing of this disorder, and now i’m curious on learning more about it

[@khazz33]

As someone with OCD, I really relate to what Zach said about not stuttering while acting. When I'm acting, I feel like my OCD melts away. I wonder if it has to do with certain parts of the brain

[@caoimhedoesstuff9293]

That would make sense because you see some people with Tourette’s don’t tic when they’re singing, and you see music and art used a lot in therapies. Being creative is just good for the soul and good for the brain

[@ddg0907]

I have OCD and the same exact thing happens when I play football (soccer). It’s like I transform into a completely different person.

[@ev4n.f_s]

Mathew not getting bullied and fitting in melted my heart so happy for him

[@GgTTV828]

As a person that also suffers from a disability, being in the Autism spectrum, I appreciate videos like this -- showing the lives and stories of people is important! Let's create a world of better understanding and love. Thank you, Padilla.

[@coweyloaf]

AYYY autistic gang, honestly I love this series, he's always so inclusive and shares the storys of misunderstood people and it's really fasinating. I just wish people didn't think so poorly of others.

[@treeman73272]

Intellectually disabled gang

[@ihavenoidea2805]

"Suffers" from autism - seriously? Being autistic doesn't automatically mean you're suffering? Wouldn't it better to say you're just autistic, because saying you ""suffer" from autism" makes it sound like it's a bad thing to be autistic lol

[@thestigmatickreature]

@@ihavenoidea2805 Amen!

[@GgTTV828]

@@coweyloaf amen! I love to see hoe he empowers people and shows care and understanding to their situations. He is a very kind man and I respect this a lot. I love that there are so many people with disabilities doing so many things -- like for example, despite my troubles learning, I am still getting as best of grades as I possible can! I habe trouble socializing, but have still made lots of friends! Think about it. Anyone can do anything if they truly put their minds to it! Although, yeah, as much as there are good people in this world... There will always be those individuals whom only wish to belittle that of those whom they deem "weak". But we aren't anything weak, we just haven't discovered our strength yet. Thanks for the comment! I appreciate you!

[@alexihavenoidea]

my twin sister has downs, and when i got this notif it made me rlly happy, thank you for covering things like this!!!!!

[@heyawhatup1215]

same! my twin sis has down syndrome and this video was a fun surprise to see so that others can learn more

[@KingTubeAR]

@@AlexVincent111 don't you think they would say that if they had it

[@cloudyday1764]

I feel the same, my twin also has down-syndrome!:))

[@heyawhatup1215]

@@AlexVincent111 no I do not, I had an equal chance of having it along with my sister but I didn't, which made my sister having down syndrome even more surprising.

[@Steve-xo5pq]

Isn't saying "downs" considered offensive? My cousin has down syndrome and my aunt says it is. She's very protective though so idk if she's just over reacting or if people really care

[@xotbirdox]

As an autistic person, I really relate to the whole r-word thing. It's such a damaging and hurtful word, and I wish the world would realise that. Even when you're not using it against disabled people, it's still hurtful to us because what you are basically saying is "you're so stupid that you could be a disabled person" like how is that right? It's not. I was late diagnosed with my autism but I still went through really traumatic bullying in school for my autistic traits/differences. In year 2, I'd often stim by sitting on my hands and then rubbing them on the carpet of the classroom, or I'd cover my ears in the lunch line because everyone was always so loud at lunchtime and I didn't like it. I also did my schoolwork very slowly because I was a perfectionist, and also because I often zoned out without meaning to. Sometimes, I would literally only have written the date and the heading by the time the lesson was over. Kids picked up on these traits and bullied me relentlessly for them. In primary school, I'd sit on my own at break time and doodle or take out my High School Musical books to read/write in because no one wanted to be my friend and I found HSM much more interesting anyway. I'd get picked on for always being sat in the same spot on my own, and when my mum and I complained to the headteacher, the headteacher said it was my fault because I "didn't try to make friends." How was I supposed to make friends with people that were bullying me? 😓 In secondary school, I got picked on even worse. By now, I'd learnt how to wear makeup, act super girly, and basically mask my way through life, but I still got bullied for my special interests, my looks, and the fact that I had very little friends. I had rumours spread about me in that school, I was threatened and I even got sexually harassed by one boy for a year because he knew I couldn't do anything about it. I was powerless. Teachers still blamed me for the bullying, and one time my mum got into a screaming match with my head of year in the science lab because my head of year tried to say I was "just as bad" as the bullies, which was absolute BS cause I was a goody-two-shoes at school and my mum knew that from all my positive school reports every year. The only issue I had was my attendance and that was it, other than that I was perfectly well-behaved. And I only had poor attendance because of the bullies. Bullying traumatised me, of course I didn't want to go. But yeah, I was called the r-word many, MANY times growing up. Even though no one knew I was autistic, they picked up on the fact that I was different and that was reason enough to call me it. Another reason why you shouldn't use it against ANYONE or ANYTHING, because even if you THINK you aren't hurting a disabled person with it, you absolutely could be. The person you're saying it to could be undiagnosed or hiding their disability, and even if they're completely able-bodied, if a disabled person hears or sees you saying that, all it says to us is that you don't care about us and our feelings and we should stay away from you. It shows us that you think we are less than, and that you think we can be used as an insult. I hate the r-word so much, I have such a visceral reaction to it now, especially since I got diagnosed and can put my past of being called it into context. I really wish society would dump that word.

[@Packers991]

@@lemon_kid4527 Understood is a org I would send my money to in order to support ND/disabled people. Ps coming from a ND/ disabled adult

[@fabplays6559]

@@lemon_kid4527 Hey Lemon, just a tip, don't reveal your age on the internet, especially when you're a minor! There are plenty of weirdos on the internet who might attempt to make contact with you and pretend to be your age in order to earn your trust. Stay safe! :)

[@Packers991]

@@lemon_kid4527 Thats not my point. Tell your mom about the Understood org. Also tell her to download wunder if you are having trouble. Your parents will do anything to support you, they just might not know how to. No hate intended by the way :)

[@realisticlazer]

my sister has always used it and I actually started saying it as well some years ago, but I’ve been thinking for the past year and I realized how damaging the word could be. I eventually started telling my sister to stop saying it but she kept making fun of me, from what I know, she’s stopped recently and I haven’t heard it since.

[@wolfzmusic9706]

@@geminiwolf0077 what did lemonkid do? Nothing they said was bad imo

[@starclips_466]

For those who couldn’t hear properly what Zack was saying when he was talking about being bullied, he said: “They always had something through their heads, I don’t get any respect at all”. Anthony has closed captions for this video that aren’t auto-generated, so they’re exactly as said. The captions picked it up as [?], so I thought I’d translate. Hope this helps :)

[@NauticalTurtle]

Thank you!!!

[@diloshyanimations8011]

I’m very glad that Anthony talked to them like real people and not like a little kid that they don’t want to be with

[@afanontheceiling]

With all the ableism that is in society, this video is very important, thank you Anthony and thank you to those who shared their stories on here. Could you consider spending a day with people with Selective Mutism or people who had it as children? Most people with Selective Mutism also have Social Anxiety I know, but people like me who suffered from it are slowly gaining confidence and maybe some others will be able to speak on it (or some alternative way of communicating? A thought?). It's a very misunderstood disorder and not very well-known or represented in media (and not represented well).

[@emilytetreault2516]

Take my upvote, this would be a great video.

[@jordanleighwheatley]

Maybe one of those text to speech typing programs? Someone asks the question and they type the responses?

[@termite9753]

I've never heard of this before your comment, but now I'm wondering if I might have had it. I also have an anxiety disorder that I was given as an adult. I always had a hard time speaking to people when I was younger. Except for the few who I could actually force words out for.

[@afanontheceiling]

@@termite9753 the only reason I even got diagnosed with it was because my mom saw a random tv special on it. And psychiatrists knew nothing about helping with the disorder back around 2005. I think it is a bit more well known now compared to like 15 years ago, but I still see people confuse it with other forms of mutism. But for real I did a presentation on Selective Mutism (ironic considering I was suffering from it then but I took some prescribed xanax and I managed), and I had a woman tell me after that she thinks her son has this and she had no idea. People go all of their lives thinking that they’re just being shy and stubborn even though they know they can’t help it. It’s so important for young people to hear about this, and parents as well. Without accommodations for my disorder, I would have struggled so much more in school and life.

[@livinqlovelyy]

Ahh i had this (diagnosed)

[@lovingmayberry307]

Bullying is one of the most devastating conditions that exist in America's schools. It's made worse because it is 100% preventable but schools will not do the right thing!

[@olliewithab1926]

No ya schools (at least where im from) dont actually give a shit about bullying

[@olliewithab1926]

@@chaoticneutral6288 Oh believe me, I know, I live in Texas. Still, Ive had friends who havnt had help from the school and it makes them feel awful. No reason both things can't be issues. Also the commenter said one of the most. Obviously school shootings are worse lol.

[@foreverfuturebound]

@@chaoticneutral6288 Bullying is much MUCH more common than school shootings. School shootings are actually pretty rare, but the media hypes it up (kind of like how shark attacks are treated, even though it's more common to be killed by a vending machine than a shark)

[@droptherapy2085]

The special ed programs in my middle school and first high school sucked. I felt really bad for the students in that class because they were constantly degraded. It sucks to think I was almost in a special ed class because I was more prone to meltdowns in kindergarten thanks to my autism. I can't imagine what that would have done to me.

[@EmmaN3ms]

The people with Down Syndrome in my life are some of the sweetest people I know. It's disheartening knowing what they have to deal with on a day to day basis. People are truly horrible.

[@JamaicanRain]

Only some have day to days! 🙂

[@carahamelie]

Such a great video and very educational. I would love to see one about people with dyslexia

[@Zultzify]

i got dyslexia and had to get the different coloured papers and stuff, its a very misunderstood thing and often comes with advantages when you fully realise it

[@carahamelie]

@@Zultzify my daughter is dyslexic and I have learned SO much in studying it... and its true... her strengths are insane. people dont realize that its not really a disability... but more so just a brain difference.

[@Zultzify]

@@carahamelie exactly, most dyslexic people have insane muscle memory and thrive on hands on learning. forget where i read that honestly but it applies to me and everyone i know who has it, they end up loving art, music or spoken poetry and other things. i hate when ppl think that youre uneducated because of it

[@Thebetterparadisesystem]

as a dyslexic person yes

[@feline.equation]

@@Zultzify i’m dyslexic, and so is most of my family (it’s hugely genetic). while each of us have all had our struggles, we are all super highly educated. i’m a mathematician, my dad is a financial analyst, grandpa was a fighter pilot, etc. it’s a huge misconception that dyslexic people are uneducated. the primary reason imo why it’s assumed we are “slow” is because it takes significantly more energy for our brains to do the same things as the typical brain. my brain is wired differently which takes so much energy. however, i think i have exceptional problem solving and problem avoiding skills, i can sort of see problems in my head and the path to a solution. hence why i am a mathematician. also, there’s almost no reading involved, as math uses symbols that don’t necessarily have phonetic translations, the symbols translate to an idea. similar to music. i never had a problem with reading music, because it’s not phonetic. anyway, i hope you get the chance to meet a bunch of super educated dyslexics!

[@SleepyGemstone]

My little sister has Down syndrome and I know that she is smarter than everyone thinks she is. She is nonverbal and is half deaf, so it has been a struggle to communicate. My family has learned sign language and we got her a communication device. She loves learning but she rarely communicates with anyone. I know that she would like to speak because she try’s all the time. She loves to sing and dance! She is such an awesome person but she is still a mystery to me. I wish I knew what she was saying sometimes. And we know that she gets unhappy. She loves school, and during summer when she doesn’t have school, she does get really sad. She has ran away a few times. Our family does everything we can to help her live out her dreams. She is kind and strong. I hate that she is always so underestimated. We love her and she is one of the most amazing people I’ve ever met! I’m so happy to have her as a sister

[@pigpjs]

I wish more people were as thoughtful about having kids as Matthew is. He's realistic about potential challenges and outcomes. Everyone should put that level of thought before having kids!

[@pamelah1220]

It probably made him very sad.

[@tuxedosam5400]

my sister has down syndrome and has limited communication. it makes me so happy that people with down syndrome who are blessed with the ability to talk about their experiences do it since she can’t. big thanks to kennedy, matthew and zack for this 💕

[@jordiflower]

♥️

[@kaywee4200]

Is she younger? I'm sure she doesn't need to talk too much to make your heart happy though ❤️☺️

[@gam2247]

My cousin has Down syndrome and I’m gonna send this to him bc he feels ugly and it really breaks my heart ❤️

[@SigvaldtheMagnificentPrince]

lol

[@RealDlovanSl]

@@SigvaldtheMagnificentPrince not funny

[@gam2247]

Thank you to everyone saying very nice things

[@darklesbian6653]

he's beautiful, i hope someday he realize that. 💚

[@VLT.]

Tell him everyone is different in their own ways and that’s what makes them beautiful. I don’t know him but I bet he has a beautiful heart as well.💗

[@gabrialkauffmannn2737]

I love Zack so much. He is literally one of my favorite actors of the past 10 years. His work in The Peanut Butter Falcon really helped me look at people with Down syndrome. I used to bully a kid in school because he had Down syndrome. I just wish I could go back and hug him and tell him how sorry I am.

[@twentyonetortas5921]

What's stopping you? Find his name or his family or friends' names to check which one of them has social media. Then find out if he has social media too and reach out to him if you can.

[@dominikaksiazek7177]

@@twentyonetortas5921 that's a wonderful idea!

[@katet8639]

I I I and I. Learn to use other words than I. It sounds selfish.

[@gabrialkauffmannn2737]

@@katet8639 (I) used (I) 5 times to describe how (I) felt about the situation and what (I)’ve done in MY past. This is a situation about HIM and (I) talking about how (I) feel badly. Why don’t you take your opinion and leave if your opinion is going to be “You said I to much in a post about YOU feeling badly about bullying someone.” If this was a post about what (I) have done, as in describing what I’ve done… (I) would have mentioned the story from his perspective. Get out of here with that “selfish” shit.

[@jaredday7656]

@@katet8639 ????

[@theplaguepadart3743]

I'm 30. I've used the "r" word in my teens. Along with many other words such as cunt, asshole,fucker, and other shit probably. Tho I never used the "R" word to someone with down syndrome. I've always went out of my way and wanted to be kind to those people because they are people. This video opened my eyes a bit. That even if I never used the "R" word to those with down syndrome I can see (because of this video) how it would still be horribly offensive to them. I haven't used it in a very long time and tbh I don't think I ever will again because of this.

[@DM.123]

Growth - we love to see it 👏👏👏

[@theplaguepadart3743]

@@DM.123 I see it more as like educated, and learning. 90s and early 2000s were very for lack of a better word was offensive. We didn't think of what certain words would make others feel like. Now we can learn with all the tech. There's no reason to be hateful or rude if we're educated.

[@Wallacewellsenthusiast]

I'm so happy that you have improved a lot since your teens!

[@theplaguepadart3743]

@@Wallacewellsenthusiast Thank you! That's the Point of life in my opinion. Our Horrible ways can be excused to a certain degree as children as long as Learn with time, Own our mistakes but not repeat them. We all are not perfect, but if we try to see where we are alike instead of different we can better the world

[@harveym.glatman5955]

As someone who was bullied to the point of multiple suicide attempts with the r word and the treatment that comes with it, apologize to those you said that to and then I’ll care.

[@lightlover4004]

I was so elated the moment I saw the title of this video. Even more so, when I saw "we aren't always happy" in the thumbnail. my youngest sister has down syndrome and a lot of people assume exactly that. What most people fail to realize is how dehumanizing it is to say that someone with down syndrome doesn't have the capability to feel anything else. The part that made me the most happy though, was seeing the GIANT grin Mathew had after talking about the friend that was there for him when he needed it. Shout out to whoever that girl is. We need more open minded, caring and kick ass people like that in our world. Thank you for sharing this Anthony. It really does mean a lot.

[@fabplays6559]

Exactly! I feel like there are two distinct kinds of ableism and that BOTH are harmful: - Ableism where you have hatred or contempt for disabled people and view us as incapable of anything. - Ableism where you treat disabled people like adorable puppies and infantalise and patronise us. Every human is HUMAN and deserves to be treated with respect and empathy!

[@tabie380]

I love the "The Peanut Butter Falcon" movie, its so good!, and its fantastic that we got to see a interview with Zack the actor from the movie, and also props to every other person for reaching their goals!.

[@trevorpgamer1936]

Sameeee I loved that movie

[@tabie380]

@@trevorpgamer1936 yep, it was so good!

[@Imfailingmath]

I loved that movie so much.

[@raylynne5280]

I just fell in LOVE with all of them, everyone in this episode was so sweet and well spoken, they explained their thoughts SO well! I'm so sorry to those who have had to face discrimination or bullying for being different and thank you to those who came on the show, I think you showed a lot of people that downs syndrome doesn't mean you're any less smart or any less capable than someone without it!

[@princessmonkey3399]

I have a cousin with Down syndrome and due to sickness when she was younger it’s affected her speech so she can’t put her thoughts into words. It was amazing to watch the people in this video talk so fluently and in depth. I didn’t even realize I had a somewhat biased view until seeing this. It’s so nice to be corrected and to understand more about people with Down syndrome.

[@stefania9959]

0:21 bro peanut butter falcon is such a good movie. I watched it with my class in school

[@haydenjacobson6821]

Zach was great in Peanut Butter Falcon! Just a nice lighthearted feel-good movie, of course Shia kills it as well, but the chemistry between the two is excellent.

[@NauticalTurtle]

Yes. I love the movie, and the music is so good, too!!!

[@Code_EJ]

can we just appreciate how respectful Anthony is in every single interview?

[@sincerelyrio_vball]

AHHH I WAS HAVING A HORRIBLE DAY AND I JUST NEEDED TO SEE THIS THANK YOU!!! Edit: bro that’s a lot of likes for only six minutes

[@jen9745]

Same 😣 good luckk

[@raichu753siordia2]

It's just that bad of a day it'll get better gotta keep hoping

[@Kristiekins2]

My cousin has Down Syndrome and she is without a doubt one of my favorite people. It is really heartwarming to see this topic being covered. People with DS are just as capable in so many ways. My cousin was put through mainstream school and was at the top of her class for several years in math.

[@thryssinstitches9655]

My son is 17 and has Down Syndrome. Best blessing of my life this kid. My heart is kind of aching right now watching this. I always knew he was more severely delayed then most but watching the verbal abilities and what these lovely individuals can go out and do or do for themselves really is bringing it into clarity for me. He's his own man and so strong and we are gonna keep pushing and learning and growing and never accepting being counted out. He will still do great things. It's motivation to keep striving.

[@jut_dwaetoucher]

It’s actually sad to hear what people in my school say about people with Down syndrome, there was a girl in my year with it and everyone always bullied her. She’d always come to me if anyone made fun of her and I was constantly pressured by my parents to look after her and protect her, now don’t get me wrong I loved her and I felt so bad but it was tiring for me as well. I remember once she came to me crying with a bleeding nose saying this girl slammed her head against a door and I just lost it, I walked up to her and slapped her so hard she had a red handprint on her face for the next week. I know it wasn’t a good thing to do but it was kinda just a reaction in the moment, and after that at home I had my parents screaming at me telling me how immature I was to do that. I was confused at the time, I was just trying to protect her and make people hesitate before picking on her but it just wasn’t enough. A few weeks later she left the school and my parents constantly told me that I failed making her feel safe and happy and it just ruined me, I thought it was my fault she left. Anyway a few months pass and it all blew over and I got better friends and my parents loosened up on me a bit but then she came back to my school and was constantly hanging on to me, she wouldn’t leave me alone and she’d get very angry whenever my other friends tried talking to me. I eventually got way to angry and I had to leave her, I asked if I could have a different time table to her and they agreed. I still feel bad tbh but it was exhausting for me and everyone else interacting with her, I made sure she had other friends to go to and she looks happy so I’m glad. Am I a bad person for leaving her? I honestly don’t know, I still ask myself this question everyday.

[@benzov4487]

I completely understand why you’d feel that way. In the end as much as we want to help other sometimes there’s only so much we can do. Don’t beat yourself up too much ❤

[@jut_dwaetoucher]

@@benzov4487 Thank you 🫶🫶

[@oldmatetomi]

I genuinely believe that he has covered more than my local news channel.

[@mellojello7563]

Everyone is amazing, just because people may “look” or “seem” or “act” different doesn’t mean u treat them anything less. We need to show more kindness because people need it, let’s make this world a better place and a safer place for everyone !

[@coolkid4405]

Amazing video! Not many people know enough about down syndrome that's why I think they are misjudged so easily. Thank you for talking about this subject!

[@sunnystrange]

Zack is from my hometown, and I’ve had the pleasure of meeting him and his family a handful of times and have even worked on some local film projects with him. He is such a sweet, funny and hardworking guy and a talented actor who always lit up the room while on set. So proud of you Zack!!! 👏💛

[@victoriavvc]

My cousin died from complications of lupus at 19, but she also had Down syndrome. I can’t help but cry at the idea that she was probably bullied because she was my best friend at family parties. I loved playing with her and now I know that she definitely wasn’t given the chance she needed to thrive. Her name was Brenda, and I miss her so much.

[@matyldakrupa3775]

I’m a med student and Anthony, you are my person to look up to with your communication skills❤️ You always say the right things and can perfectly comfort someone. I hope I can be a doctor one day that makes people as comfortable as you make them in every interview ❤️

[@SoniasWay]

I love how Anthony always asks the right and relevant questions. He always makes the guests feel so comfortable by being so understanding

[@amylou6727]

Please do narcissists , there are some self aware narcissists , who would be willing to do this, would be so interesting 🤔 xx

[@Ghostman223]

Excuse me? People deserve to be heard. You don't. Please sit down and shut up.

[@baroozer4517]

@@Ghostman223 ?

[@noviibutnotactive8385]

@ghostpad gunship What do you mean? Narcissism is an actual personality disorder.

[@pastellified6040]

this would genuinely be really good, as it's probably the only disorder that the same people who say "don't stigmatize disorders!!" will use as an insult, i've seen it happen so often... we need people to see it's a real condition, not just a label you can slap onto any self-obsessed bad person that comes around.

[@noviibutnotactive8385]

@pastellified this!!! Also, the fact that they just slap on narcissism as their only trait as a human being, which is destructive as its own. Narcissists can have their own hobbies, personalities, goals, other than their disorder.

[@Everything-wy2dg]

I’ve been through bullying because of disorders too, because I have Tourette’s and I was constantly mocked and made fun of. I struggled to make friends because of anxiety too. I was pushed to my absolute LIMIT after I was put in a headlock and thrown to the floor, and had been given death threats. At one point, I seriously thought about offing myself. But I’m at a new school that has been much better, and I am much happier now!

[@luneybby]

i'm so happy that you're doing better ! i've been bullied for being autistic since i was little too :/

[@Misunao23]

Anthony is always incredibly respectful in his interviews. He always greets his guests with respect, asks how they wish to be addressed with their condition or lifestyle, and then let’s the guests speak of their experiences as he asks the questions. He never approaches with assumptions and he moves carefully each time. He’s highly empathetic and you can always see it in his face how much he respects his guests.

[@Poodles855]

My little sister has down syndrome and she gets a lot of stares in public and whenever someone wants to ask her a question they ask me (since I'm usually physically closest to her in public) or another member of my family. She's not very verbal but it doesn't help when people either talk to other people instead of her or use a baby voice with her. I catch myself doing the little voice sometimes and I try to stop myself. Though I burn with the hatred of a thousand suns when someone her age (early teens) does that to her. Moral of the story is treat people like people and don't assume someone doesn't understand you just because of a chromosomal disorder.

[@latefortheparty1440]

I love how you interviewed the guests. You spoke to them just the way you would have spoken to anyone else. You didn’t talk down to anyone and that’s admirable.

[@sixswords3227]

It’s is sad these people had to go through all of this, I’m happy that Anthony talked to these people to see through these peoples perspective.

[@kendra4932]

As someone who works for people with intensive disabilities in assisted living, videos like this are soooo important. Do not underestimate or baby people with disabilities. Thank you Anthony and guests and crew ❤️

[@franciskakocifaj344]

I can't comprehend what goes through minds of bullies. From early childhood I was surrounded by children with different medical problems, with different ethnicity, verbal and non verbal children. I remember my kindergarten teacher coming up with a game where we pretended to be angles and help with everything one random student for a week and then we would switch places. For me those "different" children were just kids that had something fun and special about them. Like one girl had pink hearing aid with flowers, every girl was just jealous of her because we all wanted that pink thing with flowers. I loved all my friends the same I still do. I'm just baffled how cruel someone can be.

[@jennydunn340]

for some reason, people think that people with downs syndrome are children. the same thing happens with people with dwarfism - they think that because they dont look like them and they have different physical characteristics. theyre literally just people who happen to have a condition

[@halien6384]

i dont have down syndrome i have autism but growing up i would go to extra curricular activities that had lots of kids with disabilities, lots of activities. it really bothered me how some of the non disabled volunteers would talk to us like children. Even when i was a kid I would always pick up on how they talked to us. They were trying to be nice but it actually comes across as really patronizing. Just treat us how you would treat anyone else.

[@Sakitu]

I have a family member who has down syndrome, who is actually stunted far enough to have the mentality of about an 6-8 year old. It really just kinda depends person to person how severe it is.

[@fabplays6559]

@@Sakitu I'd like to point out that just because someone seems like they behave as a child, that doesn't mean they aren't deserving of respect and empathy. Never talk down to a disabled person, no matter how old you think they behave.

[@Sakitu]

@@fabplays6559 Oh of course. I just thought it'd be good to mention that some folks with downs can be more effected, and in those cases, sometimes you have to work with them in different ways. He does well for himself, he currently lives in a home with other heavily effected individuals who can't easily take care of themselves, but he still has a job and etc.

[@wolfzmusic9706]

Well some people with downs have a significantly lower mental age than their actual age so it's hard to treat them like an adult if they mentally aren't one. For example, I would avoid using certain words and maybe talk to them in more simplified language if it helped them and they understood better. Obviously you should still treat them with respect and stuff, but sometimes it's impossible to treat them like a normal human being bc they are a bit different and therefore you might have to treat them differently too.

[@_mistydreamer_6838]

At some point I really want Anthony to spend a day with people who have Epilepsy. I myself have it and I want people to be further educated in the topic as its hardly shown in media and deserves to be told!

[@_mistydreamer_6838]

I also think Evie Meg would be a good candidate if she'd want to tell her story.

[@nataleeisjustchilling2737]

My best friend has epilepsy and brain tumors, she doesn’t let that stop her though because she does horseback riding and she’s on the track team at her school

[@_mistydreamer_6838]

@@nataleeisjustchilling2737 Im glad it doesnt stop her from doing the things she loves

[@nataleeisjustchilling2737]

@@_mistydreamer_6838 yeah she's a really nice girl we've been best friends since kindergarten

[@milkchocolate6719]

I don't know if it'd be possible but I think interviewing KZbinrs who left KZbin would be super interesting to see how their life was affected by their choice

[@connectwithcait2227]

Now this would be sooooo good

[@Horologica]

This video helped me learn that they're a lot more capable than I was originally taught. Thanks a lot

[@famvirious]

These individuals that spoke in this video have really opened my eyes. They are so much more intelligent than i have been shown ever. I am so glad they were given a voice.

[@windstormbreeze]

My older brother has Down syndrome and he is honestly one of the most outgoing people I know. He is so good with names and talking to people. Honestly I would follow him around to meet people whenever we went out. My brother was lucky cause the school we went to everyone loved him, but it’s very sad that some people look down on those who are different. Thanks Anthony for doing this interview and helping others learn more about different people and having a better understanding of things.

[@dhzero6990]

Anthony I have a 6 year old son with Down syndrome and this video has absolutely made my day. Been a long time fan of both you and Ian and all I can say is thank you for providing the best content on KZbin for me for all these years. Keep doing what you do!

[@cybergr4pe]

Not even 2 minutes in and I'm smiling, I have a relative with down syndrome and she means the world to me. God bless these people.

[@caroline8239]

I love how well-spoken Matthew is! So nice to hear about a condition from the people experiencing it. Great video as always!

[@kellikantaloupe9467]

My older brother has autism, and was in special Ed. he used to get called the R word, and I was also effected by the bullying as well. I'm so glad you've done this review and it's so helpful for all of us.

[@idkman5098]

I love how respectful Anthony always is in these, it's so nice to see!

[@pablosaavedra1435]

My aunt has down syndrome and she's the best person I know, I love her ❤️

[@addijaye185]

Honestly, this video is so helpful! I’ve never had anything against people with mental disabilities, but I’ve always been afraid I will say something wrong or upsetting which has kept me from ever becoming friends w/ or speaking to someone with a mental disability. Thank you for completely changing my mind Anthony and all the guests you’ve had on today :)

[@Sophhhieee]

I went to school with Matthew, he’s the sweetest! Our group of friends within our program at school had each other’s backs thankfully! - I’m so glad you talk about a lot of topics that are misunderstood by so many💜

[@jlbeeen]

Speaking of genetic disorders, could you do a video on EDS (Ehler's Danlos Syndromes)? There are many types, but it's a disorder affecting connective tissue often leading to strange scars, and joint dislocations among other things. I'm on the wait list for a diagnosis, but having a hidden disability isn't easy, especially with the pain of a shoulder out of place.

[@babsstrijkert5365]

Seconding connective tissue disorder day for Anthony

[@Jacechatter]

1+ , i have marfans

[@ttaylor3294]

There’s a link in bio to request a topic

[@-lixiepixie-]

Yoooo eds squad! I hope your journey and diagnosis goes well :)!

[@EPIC_FAMILY5]

I remember when I was in the sixth grade, I saw a girl with Down syndrome playing with a Barbie doll in the courtyard. I remember whispering to my friend: “Who plays with barbies anymore?” I don’t know why I said this, I wouldn’t even say this to a Neuro typical person. Maybe I was just in shock or something. I felt awful afterwards. I still feel bad about it to this day. And even though she never heard me, afterwards I introduced myself to her and we became very good friends. Unfortunately we didn’t stay close when her family moved away. I still regret saying those things to this day, but I am glad that i learned from my mistakes.

[@shanbut123]

As you always do, thank you for treating these people as people 🙏. So often i see adults with down syndrome be talked to like children as though they're incapable of intellectual, adult conversation. Thank you for addressing stigma and showcasing to the world that this is not the case. Great interview, Anthony.

[@LeviPedde]

I’m glad you covered this topic. I didn’t know much about Down Syndrome, and this taught me a lot. Thank you Anthony, Kennedy, Zach, and Matthew!😁

[@SquarahKat]

I feel like I've been ignorant for so long. I've never really had the chance to interact with anyone with Down-Syndrome, they aren't really presented in media either. I'm really glad I found this video!

[@atheweirdo2285]

My sister has Down syndrome and when I was a kid I didn’t really understand what that meant and would get angry when she wouldn’t understand something and I’m so glad my mother gave me so much shit for doing that cause it was a bad thing to do and showed me that misunderstanding can cause pain and bullying.

[@serpie2482]

The bullying people face for something they don’t choose- I can only imagine how rough it is because there are traits that are visual. Stay strong loves

[@xoxolovechristielynn]

They’re all amazing (and Peanut Butter Falcon was a phenomenal movie) but Matthew is exceptionally inspiring to me. You can see how much he expects out of life and from himself. When he said “my goal is to always try to be a better person than I was the day before” I literally got chills. Even most people who don’t have any cognitive or physical limitations, still don’t have this commendable mindset. That’s amazing. All 3 of them should be so proud of themselves and I wish the absolute best for them. I hope they accomplish everything they desire. Loved this episode, Anthony. 💜

[@theaquaticz]

I like how with a lot of these interviews you can clearly see the sadness and the sympathy in anthonys eyes. Much respect ♡

[@StatiKlinge]

One of my best friends growing up had down syndrome, he unfortunately passed a few years ago. But He taught me so much, and he never let it show when he was upset by being bullied. He often stood up for others who were bullied as well. I miss you Daniel, I'm glad this video has been made as well.

[@mrotter792]

Grandpa: “ I remember the days when the r-word was a normal word “ Me: “ ok boomer “

[@annav6037]

quite a few of the older teachers at my school still use it too

[@kvltslime2261]

People love to say "it used to be fine to use " like no. Developmentally challenged people have always hated the word.

[@wolfzmusic9706]

@@kvltslime2261 why would people have hated it if it was a medically used word?

[@karineloveswangxian9172]

Finally someone talks about Down Syndrome with people with Down Syndrome, here in Brazil this doesn't happen, they talk with parents, doctors, and friends but never with the person with Down Syndrome. This is an amazing and well done video, congratulations for everyone

[@ericahenderson7262]

KENNEDY, ZACH AND MATTHEW, YOU ARE WORLD CHANGERS! Thank you so much! Love and blessings to you!

[@mawc3yb0y]

My twin brother has Down syndrome I’m so glad you made this video it’s really lovely

[@JoTheAnomaly]

This series is so important. I’ve always wanted to better educate myself on living with Down Syndrome, but I’ve never know someone with it, I don’t want to approach a stranger and ask questions, and most things I’ve found on the internet aren’t written by those who have the syndrome. Thanks for letting people tell their own stories, this show is an invaluable resource.