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[@emmanuelstillstanding]

Kari e spencer on to somthing and Anton u know cause u said u had to understand bruh question

[@emmanuelstillstanding]

Like she said does he “have to” see that’s why she…see I can’t type it like I wanna say it but we grown mane

[@MrArtifacts205]

When B. Taylor mouth move, I get irritated. I gotta work on that. 😂

[@Skyte777]

Don't forget about Logic. Ironically he call himself that but I find very little logic when he speaks. He sounds like a male version of BTaylorTV

[@user-eq9zc3me7i]

The most irritating black woman on you tube by far.

[@logic6854]

No you don’t! She’s very annoying!

[@timchinchilla]

She talks too much... dis is why she can't keep a man

[@haltwhogoesthere47]

No need to work on it. She’s annoying af

[@RuokSpann]

Shout out to Anton and Keri representing for the married couples and making damn sense.

[@theofficialmojo]

I 2nd this!!! Anton and Keri spoke facts!! These hypotheticals from the single & unwed sound straight stupid. BTaylor and Logic offered no substance with their ignorant rhetoric. Clearly have no idea what a marriage is about. This coming from a BM (39) married to a BW (40) for 13 years. Thank you Anton and Keri for speaking up. This married life is the best life. 🫡

[@Mind-H-Walk]

And those who plan to be successfully married also lol 😂

[@buiefamily5454]

Facts

[@jermainelamar3093]

This is what happens when you have someone from a marriage, in the situation, successful at it, talking to single people hypothesizing about what they ain't gonna do. It amazes me how stubborn our people are. You have to listen to people doing it. Marriage "ain't" what you think it is, not a successful one anyway. This is what a marriage is 100/100, this is what my 20yrs with my wife has taught me. Y'all not ready

[@bobbysealejunior6590]

I agree. Been with my wife almost 10 years. I’m the breadwinner, she works, our household sees over $200k a year, I lead my household, she cooks, cleans, children, I cut grass, take care of the vehicles, but our day to day “duties” aren’t set in stone. We hold eachother down and get the job done. I figured that’s what all married couples do. The people on the panel that didn’t agree aren’t married, let alone SUCCESSFUL in marriage.

[@teelove4443]

It’s not just our people. White women have this same mentality

[@sugars01]

Logic is a dummy hands down

[@jahkarimirza7286]

​@@teelove4443True, but their marriages are more successful than ours.

[@Speakinurmynd]

Took the thought right out of my head! All these videos, panels, and podcasts got a lot of single people thinking they're dating/marriage experts. They all look and sound crazy with all their hypotheticals and relationships failures trying to pass it off as them knowing what they're talking about. I've been married for 15yrs, and have 2 kids. The 50/50 talk is BS and only had by people who arent married. Anton (and Keri) are right, my wife i do 100/100! We both work, and have a joint account where the majority of our money is deposited in to pay bills. We each have separate accounts where a set amount of our check goes into, thats our spending money that we can do whatever we want with. We both take care of the household and kids. We take turns cooking when needed. We both clean, the wife will take out the trash when needed! Folks on social media are tiring!

[@shantiafrazier7059]

Thank you Anton and Keri! This is how the majority of healthy marriages operate. We're a team, everything goes into one pot, we help each other. #16years

[@blackburnj83]

20 years here, it's crazy how loud the ignorant are

[@buiefamily5454]

Facts

[@colinf6440]

Exactly

[@plugmand1910]

My ex-wife didn't understand that AT ALL!

[@callidus5586]

As i get older (30's) I see that certain individuals usually don't have the intelligence to comprehend aspects outside their own experiences. Cognitive dissonance at an all time.

[@jaigeils1096]

"certain individuals" u say bro?? Try 3/4s of that existing panel my man. And in addition, most of em too busy trying to hard being "street", can't form a sentence without inserting body part or sexual connotation, ex., old-as dirt, foul mouth ass ILL-logic. PS. Yeah I'm not jus a vet, I'm a retired One. Carry-on.

[@chrissalley9468]

You're absolutely right. The older you get you realize that most just don't have what it takes. A lot of people aren't that bright

[@leftyloose8576]

Keri made absolute sense. In the real world in real time “tabs” shouldn’t be kept on tedious things. People in successful marriages operate as a team, find solutions and keep it moving.(this is me being single looking from the outside in) lol

[@GreyLee-ml4ge]

Yep my parents are an odd couple but one thing for sure they are happily married and they take the bumps and keep moving. I've overheard them going off on each other in private, things that would be a deal breaker for most and they moved through it like it was no big deal. seen them make adjustments in behavior simply off somebody bringing the issue to the front to be addressed and handled

[@GreyLee-ml4ge]

@@scream1237 where's the difference outside of excuses people make for not doing the best thing for themselves?

[@isaacbright2235]

Mrs. Keri Cooks straight up destroyed it. She described the perfect example of a healthy relationship! Logic and B Taylor got shut down!!!!

[@eastgate6134]

She fried em!

[@Dylanx5]

Logic and B Taylor love to concoct hypothetical situations to prove their point, but hate when people’s real life situations dissolve their argument. How are you arguing with married people about what they do in their life?

[@KevinSmith-xt8xr]

Conflating is their favorite

[@jordanglasper1064]

Thank you, well said.

[@RobertoDeNegro]

This is how you can tell who is a relationship bench warmer and who is a relationship All-star. In a marriage, the work is all in one pot. The people in the marriage gravitate to what they are better suited at and then everything else is just filling in the gaps. B Taylor and Logic are looking at it like the roles are set and that bringing in money means you don't have to do anything else. They're also looking at it from the perspective that men who make a lot of money don't do anything else for their families outside of the corporate world. This is the furthest from the truth for active, successful relationships.

[@hometowngirlncurls5669]

I agree with Keri!!! It's very childish to keep tabs on what you're doing and not doing. Work together as a team and keep it pushing. Who had time for all of that??

[@MrThurman08]

S/O to Keri 👏🏾👏🏾 Marriage doesn't operate in a vacuum, it's constant compromise and effort.

[@SedSays]

NOT shocked the most logical ones are the successfully married people. TEAMWORK MAKES THE DREAM WORK!

[@joemoore441]

B Taylor got a excuse for everything 😂😂😂

[@jarellbrown824]

B Taylor’s existence is an excuse..

[@AllByDesign4]

Bird brain. Only low level will try and wife that 😂

[@JamesLee-nw8kz]

I see dog's and cat's in here future with no man.. 😂

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

when she finally realizes her mistake, she will be over 50 and then the sadness, pain and pills come in along with cats, dogs and the random eggplant that will use her up.

[@daredevil350]

Buy a dog 🐕 die alone, and yet she wonders why she's still without a man. You can't make this shit up!

[@bigjayce7456]

I believe this "keeping tabs" issue is a by-product of single-parent and toxic parent homes. What do these parents tend to say when the child is challenging their perspective? "I pay the bills on this house." "As long you're in my house, you're gonna do what I tell you." "You wanna make decisions in this house? Then start paying some bills." Rhetoric like this creates the mindset that you can only have a say if you contribute financially to the household or that the one who carries the most financial burden has the final say.

[@MrJduke40]

Thank you Keri and Anton. Thats real life stuff. There is only one way to tackle real life and that's to be all in.

[@nycepapi]

ask Btaylor how is her ideas and mindsets working out for her... Does she have what it is she wants? Yes or no.

[@cjrich7720]

Yes. She wants to be a single mother so she can call the shots. From her perspective she's winning. I ain't mad at her

[@damienkirksey7026]

​@@cjrich7720Lmao

[@keptbygrace6221]

​@@cjrich7720 she may think she's winning but I bet her kids wish they had a dad in the house

[@cjrich7720]

@@keptbygrace6221 Women gonna do what makes them feel good. Their children are an afterthought at best. I've accepted that reality

[@sugars01]

Women like B Taylor are a curse to your last name

[@passingoutvalue6238]

The main issue is that people who lead these convos come from single parent impoverished households. When you’re the first person in your family to make $50,000 you’re always going to over-inflate your value. A husband and wife roles were never static in the black community

[@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp]

back in the day, women stayed home and did home stuff and men worked. that was static.

[@passingoutvalue6238]

@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kp Back in the day, women worked in white people’s homes being their cook, nanny, maid even breastfeeding their children

[@quiznos247]

Not necessarily in the black community. Black women were employed at black owned businesses in the past. The dynamic you’re describing was the norm in traditional white homes.

[@passingoutvalue6238]

@@quiznos247 Lol black women were employed by white families. I know this since my father was born in 1949

[@malikgordon5230]

@@PumpdaBrakes-ub8kpThat is not true. Women have always got out of the house and worked

[@MileHi9H]

The two married people are telling them how life actually happens, all that hypothetical, individual, selfishness needs to go away if you want to have a successful marriage. I’m not married but mentally I’m ready. There has to be sacrifice of self at some point.

[@ericsmith3338]

The most important message to glean from this session is that marriage isnt for everyone, and especially if you're not a team player its definitely not for you.

[@manner7073]

You're off this weekend so you need to clean the gutters, mow the lawn, and replace the cabinets.

[@SilkySalamandr]

Thank you Anton and Keri. Im so tired of these low iq conversations where 2 and 3 time baby mommas and single dudes are trying to push a narrative of what they dont know or what they would do. Their little brains cannot fathom what they're hearing from Anton and Keri. This is why we stay losing as a people. I been with my wife for 16 years and married 11 and I cringe when I hear ignorant ass conversations with people that dont know what the hell they're talking about.

[@shirleythomas7255]

Majority of people in relationships are not giving 100% efforts

[@User17.2.9]

Social media has changed expectations

[@ManCodeTV]

Keri was aiming at B Taylor when she said sounds like someone with a "Juvenile perspective on a marriage or relationship" and she's right! B Taylor like a lot of modern BW in America have this Juvenile way of looking at relationships.

[@thelion9891]

Nothing is wrong with a man cooking and cleaning sometimes. That’s a really simple thing lol

[@knowledgeseeker1528]

Alot of men are better at it than women these days.

[@thelion9891]

@@karimbennett5651 Yes those are things every adult should automatically be doing.

[@matgamer5916]

Yep and women can’t start having more financial responsibility 😮

[@teelove4443]

Why should a man do that when the woman can’t even submit. She will believe she is the leader and your boss 😂

[@thelion9891]

@@teelove4443 I’m not the boss she doesn’t work for me. We are a team

[@Xayjohns]

BTaylorTV: "To put a woman through that, where she's fighting through traffic, fighting with her co-worker, fightin with her manager..." Quinton22" "Why you fightin' with everybody? Let's start there." 😂😂😂😂😂👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

[@smosby5]

Exactly! How is their work day such a fight lol?

[@sportstalkwithzo3707]

Women are just weak

[@ACE-Fast29]

These conversations prove why most of our women are unmarried. To many women are trying to barter and trade with what comes with being married. When most of our women speak of marriage it's like they're talking about being a slave to a man who is doing absolutely nothing. Most black men work just like women. If you have a man making 50k and a woman making 50k both can survive and pay their own bills. The purpose of marriage is to come together and build. Ladies if cooking and cleaning is that much of a labor after working, why not take the money you make and invest in a nanny, maid, or chef??? These things are very affordable with 2 ppl working making 50k. To many of our women think marriage is just for them to kick their feet up and not contribute to the house. A man gets no honor in the title of husband in 2023 , but she's supposed to get everything. That's a no go everytime 🤷🏾‍♂️

[@rasbot2]

50 50 is for roommates 😂

[@Shadowdragon_TV]

B.Taylor anecdotal experience. I dated a black woman who made more than me at the time we dated. She still cooked and cleaned, and I still paid for the majority of the things shared between us. There was never any jealousy over finance, roles never changed. That's the woman who chooses to want that, I've never heard a man being jealous of a woman's finances in a relationship. I agree with Keri and Anton.

[@sugars01]

Do not gift these women with marriage they will curse your last name

[@Eman14128]

It's not that women make more ,it the attitude change that comes with women making more. Most guys don't care what a women makes.

[@memcrew1]

Sorry, but there are men who can’t handle a women making more. I know quite a few.

[@floydphillipsco]

Great perspective from both Keri and Anton...

[@itsjcalli]

Logic a whole feminist and don't even know it haha

[@bandoprime]

Facts. Bruh be tweakn

[@dakingltroyproductofdade3579]

For real maybe he staring future cat man associates of America 🇺🇸

[@emmanuelstillstanding]

Kari e spencer said it” it sound like when people talk about relationships it’s like on a juvenile level-“

[@uchedim]

The two most chronically single people are the ones who will argue how things work in a successful marriage. Logic and BTaylor. They approach things with a single mindset. Its always Me, Me, Me with them

[@manterror6936]

This sista know every black man huh? Useless competition

[@neilnewton4427]

AD and Keri brought that home cooked stove dinner to the convo, and BTaylor and illogic came with that store bought freezer dinner out the microwave .

[@stephenfoster1257]

The 2 perspectives on marriage i hear come from wanting to win with your partner or wanting to win against your partner.The 2 married people see marriage as a coalition not a competition.

[@jamesboyd-idt-c8736]

Teamwork makes the dream work.. Keri and Anton are 100% correct on this. IT is 100/100 across the board!

[@gsmoneybabyxxl7575]

@ 4:51 By BTaylor’s logic if the house front lawn need to be cut you cutting it? If the house needs repair with a Hammer and nails you grabbing that 30 ft ladder 🪜? It’s 50/50 right 🤨

[@plugmand1910]

I love this conversation. The vows are the vows for a reason! My ex-wife was EXACTLY like "BTaylor TV" which is why I left. My parents have been married for 50+ years and I GAURANTEE that if either of them were "keeping tabs" they would have been divorced A LONG TIME AGO. Bottom line you're either IN IT TOGETHER THE WHOLE WAY or stay TF by yourselves!!!!

[@AllByDesign4]

When men made all the money they took care of the whole house. Now women supposedly makin more they all of a sudden makin ridiculous demands. Selfish as can be. 😂

[@TM-fm3hh]

We've done things wrong for so long, that we've forgotten what right looks/sounds/feels like. So, when Anton and Keri describe "right", Logic and BTaylor (and a lot of society) act like they're telling folks to walk on water or something. We've gotten used to the Bizarro world; so, when someone says the right thing, it's deemed wrong and/or crazy.

[@94ftoflogic_idr14]

BTaylor be lying, you looked down on him. She said fighting through traffic 😂😂 she said “ you the feminine one now “

[@BlackBiker1017]

Salute to Keri 🫡

[@Figgs101]

I’m around female nurses and majority of them act like they better then u and do everything but they job…they LOVE to boss people around tho and then I know this nurse from Dominican Republic that’s cool asf…I think it’s a America thing

[@ManCodeTV]

It is an American thing. American Women are rotten! It's disgusting man. That's American Culture wrapped into what you just described.

[@Cahluvca]

💯

[@KevinSmith-xt8xr]

Majority of the nurses cheat

[@Mari-hy7vf]

BTaylor definitely single lol

[@coopergary2129]

Keri and Anton killed it with facts🎯

[@residualgeezy1669]

Like Anton said bottom line is if we consider that we our together both man and woman give 100%. If not their gonna be a problem some where down the line. Stop changing the scenario an stick to the question at hand.

[@JMeez917]

The need to be right is gonna be the death of some women

[@RuokSpann]

Even though the woman may generate more income for the family, i'm pretty sure that the mans job is more demanding and physical. Marriage is a team effort. You may have to take on certain roles in the mean time in the relationships/marriage to keep things rolling. The single people on this platform don't know.

[@ssmarcocarlo]

Logic childish,

[@truezladye1893]

What Tyler said is the truth.

[@micheckmagg4085]

Men don’t love you for you, we love you for what you can do

[@blackamericandestroyergod1957]

That's right men are utilitarian and not visual and women are creatures of ornamentation and not emotion more so empathic.

[@thelion9891]

If my woman makes more money than me I have no problem making sure everything is perfect in our home so all she has to do is come back home and relax. If you love that person you will literally do anything to make them happy

[@truthseekingfreethinker5214]

The picture is becoming clearer. Most black people have no idea what love is. It seems that love is some fantastical concept, and they treat it as such.

[@musiq1472]

As long as it’s love. It’s not going to be a problem. People are missing Anton’s point.

[@thelion9891]

No one will have a successful relationship if they just want to be the boss all the time. Respect is the most important thing. If you respect your spouse you will get everything that you want.

[@kyushak6804]

Happy wife happy life)

[@blackamericandestroyergod1957]

​@kyushak6804 what about the husband being happy first ? That's an egotistical selfish self destroying saying

[@leftyloose8576]

One of my good friends is the breadwinner(engineer)and own a food truck as well. He by nature has no problem coming in from work and whipping up a dope meal because he’s so use to cooking in general.

[@louisj4645]

Nurses are some of the worst women to date.

[@Imagineunicorns_zm]

I never thought I'd see the day where Keri would say something wise. Big up yourself

[@vancej6809]

B. Taylor is a duck 🦆. Just quacking away 🤣.

[@calvinwilds46]

Anton is right good relationship switch off roles sometimes

[@MrSupersaiyangoku]

You would think the one that’s MARRIED would be able to talk about that it really takes. But the singles are the loudest and always wrong

[@antoniolayrock1802]

Sooo single people is arguing with with married people about how relationships should be. That's equivalent to a person with no transportation arguing with someone with a car on how to travel.😒🤦🏾‍♂️

[@kidedwards8762]

I think the part of the problem is like your saying people need to learn how to operate as a team. Part of that for me is that people aspect to fail so they don’t even try.

[@GreyLee-ml4ge]

People will choose the easy route towards excuses any day. Allot of people need to accept the fact that they aren't team players or leaders. My dad did it all and so did my mom if you saw one the other was not far away. As an human adult washing dishes and daily things you should be doing for yourself shouldn't be 19x harder when doing it for another person especially someone your on the road to marriage with or having children with. Who raised y'all? With this black and white prospective views when the world is grey.

[@myway420_]

In a marriage all you have to do is play your position. Whatever that position is at that giving time. Marriage is not for everybody. If the love ain’t pure, then the love won’t work. Great video 👍

[@KingDonnyDaIceHashira]

so do kids not have chores? Because from what I'm hearing is the responsibility of the upkeep of the house is either on the mother or the father that is contributing less.

[@dothemostrav]

B Taylor got two kids with two different baby daddies it’s hard to listen to anything she has to say 😂

[@musiq1472]

Anton is one of last Mohicans of marital success.

[@Mind-H-Walk]

These conversations are great, it puts into perspective what value some women have for men. Just have to pay attention and sift through

[@blaxpoitation8528]

I think the convos are very important, but the problem is, we always have ppl on the panel that have to advocate and borderline promote some of our community 's worst traits. It's unfortunate that when talking about what's healthy and productive in terms of relationships, you'll still find some who will argue with the ones who are in actual healthy and functioning relationships.

[@Mind-H-Walk]

@@blaxpoitation8528 allows us to see what to stay away from…

[@yirmeyahuwbenyehuwdah3995]

Thank you Anton

[@JustMe-ug3mk]

What a lot of these men on the this platform are failing to acknowledge is that they are just outsiders looking in. I was raised in Africa by a working mother who had maids and extended family supporting her. The maids did all the cleaning (except for my parents room), cooking and all my mother had to do was plate up my dad's food. It's easier for women from cultures outside of the US to cater to their men because they have villages and support systems.

[@elnuggetfnf]

It’s crazy how.. the people on the panel.. arguing with Anton.. I would be trying to soak as much game from Anton.. He happily married and successful.

[@jayjay-dz3is]

KERI!!!!!! GETS IT!!!

[@gw504saints]

I 100% agree with your closing statement.

[@JayloveTheFoodguy]

Why is so important to change roles... Everybody just do your part?

[@adamspeaks6223]

Anton & Spencer are PREACHING! CHURCH!

[@anthonynewton9608]

Kerry and Anton cooked!! Keep it going y’all!! If they don’t take this advice no marriage will last!

[@williejohnson4510]

This is crazy how we operate

[@antoniohuntley5]

Let’s not confuse in when women say he can make rather than what he asking for

[@louisj4645]

Keri was in gooo mode when the video started...the body language said everything

[@Only1Winner729]

I think that dude was using his life as a hypothetical scenario to see what answer he’ll get cos he was so defensive for a so called “goofy example”. 😂

[@puddleofthoughts2822]

Notice the difference between the married speakers and the unmarried ones....

[@antoniobeck5051]

By me having a prison record, my woman have always made more money than me, legally.. Now on the streets is something different.. But I must stay legal and stay out of prison.. No more modern-day slavery for me!

[@daprinceize]

Anton man, thank you for all that you’ve just said. No disrespect brother, most of the people on panel, both men and women don’t have a clue what a marriage is supposed. Their idea of marriage is a partnership and not a union, becoming one, the “us” part of it. Thank god my wife is nothing like this!!

[@CL_Duybah]

My neighbor works 10 plus hour days with Friday being his half days. On Friday as soon as he get home...his wife leaves for the rest of the day. I used to think she was running errands but nope...just her day out. He then told me she has a Lady Night out for about 3hrs each Wednesday. So i asked him when was his "day out" and he just laughed and shrugged. He said she purposely waits until Saturday to go grocery shopping and etc. He'd be out there doing yard work with one eye on a 3yr old while the 1yr is strapped to his back in a carrier as he uses an electric push mower to cut his yard. Basically summarized it by saying "this is just what i have to do for now to protect my wife bc she is experiencing Post-partum Deppression. Yeah it sucks for me bc I get worn thin but i can handle it better than her. I just want her to mentally return to herself and not be of harm to the kids or herself".

[@karenbrown5977]

Ive always made more money than my late husband and all our money went into the same pot. We had our defined rolls. He worked Ups.long hours, i worked corporate. I took care of the house and kids (he did do laundry) and he took care of house maintenance and everything else to do with the house. I was fortunate that i never had to pick up after him, etc. He was more of a clean freek than me. He retired 5 years before he died and he stated to do stuff and i only cooked. You have to define your roles and not how much the woman make. All the money in our house was our money

[@draggoon9121]

This panel just showed people are getting married for the weong reasons , they dont want to be team players....... SMH

[@ladellmimms]

Up here keeping tabs not going to win that way😅 a Bih make a penny more than you you going to hear about it

[@elnuggetfnf]

Quiton asking B Taylor like she qualified🤦🏾‍♂️🤣

[@johnathanmeeks58]

AD is correct

[@mus434]

Ladies if you set your schedules to get your dinner prepared the night before, thats easy, most men don't know how to cook.

[@malrofo]

The problem with women that make more is........the woman wants to be the boss while simutaneously wanting a man that can be the boss

[@moneymitchamp]

Female acting like she can’t pick up 2 meals from Texas Roadhouse for her and her man. She blaming work,as if she work at ups loading trucks . Lol

[@Imhotep_DrummerJones]

He was already cookin,😂 but 6:42 he shut it down with an irrefutable fact🤷🏿‍♂️😂😂

[@KIDTOOREAL]

Listening to B Taylor is just so sad to listen to. Bless her heart.

[@stefonharris5895]

Great convo much needed

[@cahokia33]

These singles on the panel live in FEAR.

[@sincerecrisp]

It's crazy that they can do everything single, but nothing together. How much you make shouldn't dictate your participation in the relationship or the home. In my previous marriage, I was the primary provider, cooked almost daily, mainly reared the kids, and did all the yard work. Cause I understood it was all on her when I was away for business.

[@ANTHONYTERRELL]

B Taylor, when somebody break in the house are y’all still 50/50???

[@films9762]

I agree but only to an extent. If you set boundaries, you dont have to deal with that person for the rest of your life unless you want to. When your kids get into their teens and especially grown, there is no reason to speak to the other parent. My daughter is 15 and her mom and I are both remarried. Her mom and I literally only text if we need to communicate. The only time I've seen her mom was at one of her softball games and it was hi and bye sat on opposite ends. I think people still deal with the other emotionally and it doesnt have to be that way. Especially when the kids grown you can deal directly with the kid.

[@dcfmkyn]

BTaylor TV, around 8:17, is talking under the assumption the man has no job at all or is a house husband. A man affording to pay only a few bills is likely going to a job (a low paying one) for a number of hours a day just like the woman. What Anton is saying is that the women in Asian countries maintain traditional female roles regardless of the income they or their men bring home. Mostly in the West we associate higher income with masculinity even if the female is the higher earner. This shows our Western selfishness, childishness, and how conditional our version of unconditional love really is.

[@redboyjocko1977]

Cooking is hard...when you don't know how to cook!😅😅😅

[@Imhotep_DrummerJones]

17:54 that fade to black is when you realize Logic is still talking about dating. Anton/Keri were talking about marriage and basically giving a lesson.. maybe I’m wrong 🤷🏿‍♂️

[@justinpearson9170]

What KeriESpencor is talking about is the exact same thing I've saw my parents do things growing up. Was there gender roles in my parent's marriage? Yes. But the roles was not super rigid to the point that a man would never do dishes or clean. Both worked. One would make more money at one point and the other person would make more money at another point. My mom would work long hours sometimes and still come home and cook. If her hours were too long then my dad would cook but majority of the time she's cooking regardless of if she worked that day or not. He did the majority of the yard work. Every one in a while she'd come out to give him a hand but the majority was done by him. The amount of gender roles they did was not based on how much one person made over the other or who worked harder than the other... it was based on traditional roles of a husband and a wife and they would fill in the gaps of the other person when needed. Let's be 100% honest... if you're single you're already doing BOTH ROLES TO SOME EXTENT. If a wife don't want to do wifely duties because she's making more money (like BTaylor basically said) then that's an easy fix: You will no longer be a wife. That man will do it all himself or find a woman who is more willing. The moment you let your paycheck dictate the roles you're playing at home is the moment you lose. And I wouldn't be surprised if she's the type to find a guy that makes more but attempt to make more money herself to try to justify offloading wifely duties into him. At that point you're in competition, not in union, with your spouse.