If A Married Man Wants You!

[@goddesst5405]

He doesn’t respect himself, his wife or you! Run!🏃🏾‍♀️

[@yezkex]

haha this is so true. He respects no one, he is a lonely sad man.

[@CruzxJess]

My man who is married and his wife is my best friend. We been dating for 4 years. Sometimes I feel bad when I’m at the house and I see them together but it turns me on more knowing I have his heart more than her. She struggles having children so we’re in the process of me carrying her baby. He pays for everything but I feel bad cause she’s my best friend.

[@ashleycavin]

Yes run as fast as you can it's a complete dead end! 🙏🏾

[@trinibby3964]

@@charityskygrace and has the nerve to say she feels bad because that’s her best friend.

[@BlackEnchantress]

@@CruzxJess This is a real honest question, Are you and your best friend that's married are in an opened marriage or Polyamorous partnership?

[@toritribe953]

“If you claim to be a whole woman then you won’t settle for half of a man” - enough said. 🙏🏽🙌🏽

[@TheRoyalty1982]

💯

[@Bella_M26]

Amen 🙏🏾

[@lwarfield52]

True

[@brittthecancerqueenempress9137]

Bingo 🎯‼️

[@kimyahunter710]

Yes!!!!!!!

[@nevergivingupmission1370]

If a married man wants you, he's a devil narcissist!

[@mylyfe4382]

Nobody pursue a woman harder than a married man

[@ThickSweet]

Facts!

[@stephthecreative6312]

They have nothing to lose.

[@Ngozin1]

Facts!!

[@natashabrown41]

It’s truly sickening if single men did that this dating epidemic would be over

[@tarahbruno3793]

😂😂. Goes harder for her than his wife

[@Shortee452]

Married men please stop stay in your lane.

[@beckalee4966]

Nobody is more single than a married man😂

[@aq5118]

Stg 😮i never knew they were so many single but married men in the world 😂😂😂it's insane!!

[@natashabrown41]

Message

[@nicolerogers1310]

My ex guy I dated once told me he text plenty of women while he was married and got caught many times and that his wife was boring!🤦‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️🙅‍♀️

[@cuniqueness]

I had to learn there is no friendship w/ men. Ego gets in the way.

[@MsAldil]

Please explain ​@@cuniqueness

[@kittenmayz611]

My dad told me to take it as an insult. When a married man goes after you & tells you he’s married, he thinks you’re stupid/low self esteem.

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

It's more of an insult to himself, men will try anything in a skirt, regardless of how the woman feels about herself. What your dad said is just another way for the man to blame the woman. I have had at least one or two married men try to cross the line with me in my lifetime and my confidence is through the roof. So sorry, your dad was wrong love......🤷🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[@doriswolfe849]

Men don't tell you they are married .

[@OpinionatedBlues]

@@tiffanyyisrael7989two things can be right at the same time. The men who do this are bold and stupid, the women who continue with a man after finding out he’s married are also stupid. So no, her father wasn’t wrong at all love.

[@OpinionatedBlues]

@@tiffanyyisrael7989you didn’t go for the bait they were throwing, that’s the difference boo. Think about what’s actually being said before taking offense.

[@rogers5622]

​@@tiffanyyisrael7989💯 this is the comment . It's crazy how it's always seen as the woman's fault .the married one is the selfish one .

[@tricetrice2096]

A married man willing to risk it all for a someone he sees as a disposable piece of trash is crazy

[@Lizzygirl-z2v]

@@tricetrice2096 right he dug into the ladies trust me noone cares how a married cheater feels about anyone

[@AnnaSarogianni]

Cause maybe the disposable piece of trash is in his home… lot of ppl have placeholders cause they are convenient and easy to deal with. Don’t you have some stuff at your home you don’t value so much but have issue throwing them away cause you have memories or you are used to them being around?

[@asmrcat5130]

He’s not willing to risk at all. He just wants to have a side piece. That’s his whole point. He wants to have his cake and eat it too.

[@sweetyface4672]

This is so spot on! This has been my mantra "I don't get involved with married men, or men who are separated!" I don't get in between what God has joined! Plus I have a healthy respect for not only myself but KARMA!

[@naturalious3195]

I agree with this, a married man wanting you is not a flex. Sometimes these married men try to make you a side chick without you knowing you’re a side piece. Please ladies be careful when dating.

[@SoulBeauty1111]

🎯

[@tarus0430]

This happened to me with an old high school coach! I have lupus and he’s supported my journey since my diagnosis as a mentor but recently admitted to have romanticized emotions for me ( he cld literally be my father lol) it was so weird. He wld send gifts and do dinners with me but with his wife so that made it even more cringe !!

[@MissHannah2036]

it is more the thrill and excitement they are married as opposed to just a single dude, the risk it takes, not only the casual sex. It is the excitement in the risk-taking behavior on both sides more so that drives these men and woman.

[@shereewhite4828]

●Years ago, there was a married man who wanted to sleep with me. I told him that I'm wife material, not side chick material! ●He told me I needed to lower my standards because they were too high. I told him I'd rather keep my standards high and wait on God to send my Boaz than to lower them and sleep with him! He had nothing else to say and stopped flirting with me! Ladies please know your worth!!!

[@WarriorPrincess615]

A married man told me once to lower my standards. It's the audacity for me. I didn't know he was married, and didn't find out until after we stopped dating. I'm just thankful we never had sex.

[@shereewhite4828]

@@WarriorPrincess615 I'm glad you didn't sleep with him either! You deserve much better! You are a queen who deserves a king!

[@vielkavelarde4934]

Praise the lord!!!!!........sometimes u get tested....u PASSS THE TEST

[@C.387]

lol 😂wow this deep the expressions are priceless thank you

[@TheMetamorphosisEffect]

I recently had a clients husband shoot a huge shot at me. It was crazy rude and bold. I said no of course. But I had to make a decision between telling her now and losing current income or risk it up coming later and ruining my business brand as a whole. I called her and he ran the whole “average ninja” lines. But since then I’ve gained 4 clients. One booked a couple hours after I called her. I said all that to say. Queens, don’t sell yourself short. Wte he promise he can do for you, God can do better! Just trust the Holy Spirit and enjoy your journey. 🌻

[@MissTNicole]

Thank you, thank thank you for sharing your story!❤

[@patriciamccoy1901]

Amen 🙏 ( PROVERBS 31:30) ROYALTY BABY 👑 Thank You Heavenly Father ❤ 😊

[@RaeC140]

Amen to that!

[@amaragrace94]

Amen! Even if she let's it slide (because it's likely not the first time), you did the right thing. Love rejoices in truth, not wrongdoing.

[@emiemilia6219]

What he promise he can do for you, GOD CAN DO IT BETTER ❤️💖❤️💖❤️, I LOVE THAT ❤️💖 PRAISE GOD 💖💖💖!!

[@breannn]

There are plenty of single men who will gladly waste your time! No need to mess with a married man to waste your time.

[@heather7119]

😅😅😂 girl ur so right! And without the messy drama of a wife calling u,

[@tiffanyyisrael7989]

Exactly 🤣

[@violetdreams6603]

😂😂😂😂

[@yvettem.holland5072]

🤣

[@devinesent7696]

Word

[@candyk7851]

Ladies if he is married, he is not free to love you and he has no regard for you. You are more valuable than that💯

[@Piavangel]

I truly believe God will not send me someone else husband !

[@amaragrace94]

But Satan and his ministers surely will. Pray for discernment. Keep that armor of God up, as well as those boundaries.

[@Living2PleaseHim]

That Part! 🙌🏾

[@BlackblondieTv]

I know that’s right

[@SimplyBeingTT]

Amen!

[@honeywest39j95]

I truly believe this as well. I have told my daughter the same thing.

[@catricemoore6676]

If a married man wants me that means he lied to God in heaven so he dang sure will lie to me. 😂😂😂❤❤❤

[@shereewhite4828]

Preeeeach!🙋🏽‍♀️🙌🏽👏🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽

[@msgorg3ous18]

Say this shit again for the people in the back!! 😂👏🏽👏🏽

[@BlackEnchantress]

And that also means he's not a so called Christian either but was pretending to be one.

[@JustNina81]

Yesss indeed

[@AUniqueLook]

I like listening to you Tony, but these same conversations men have about the side chick being trash and the wife being everything doesn’t have any logic to it. He’s using the side chick and the wife too. He doesn’t respect either of them. He’s with his wife for his own gain and not because that’s where his heart is. He acts like a married man for his own gain. The comforts of life… to have someone by his side for his convenience. To have a home. Cooked food. Clean clothes etc… It’s not genuine love. Not if you’re doing your wife dirty it isn’t. And if you think so then you don’t know love. Please. Neither the side chick or the wife mean anything to him… not really. If the wife meant anything to him then they’d be no side chick to begin with. Sometimes I swear men sing this same song about their wife still being their everything just to make themselves feel good through the cheating… somehow this justifies it because it’s like… “Oh… but I love my wife and the side chick is trash.” And it’s like no… you love only yourself. Point… blank… period!!!!

[@Lateias]

Yup.

[@Hairbytoyia]

Amen 👏🏾

[@MsGemini40]

Ase! But feel a certain type of way when the Wife steps out!!! We matching energy in 2024!!!

[@africaneagle7397]

So true! Selfish men or people are not capable of true love.They just do what suits them. They try to maximize their benefits, while minimizing their losses. 😢😢

[@rubysfastfitness8740]

This 11 min video potentially saved me from 11 years of misery. I feel empowered walking away and tapping into my worth. This message has been delivered in divine timing. Thank you and God bless always

[@lisawilson4332]

😢

[@tonjastandley375]

❤❤

[@user_abcxyzz]

11 11 is a spiritual number

[@chanelmitchell1632]

AMEN. Hallelujah!!!

[@ladyluck1211]

Well said

[@tenelleharris5696]

You need to have a conversation about how married men cheat with married women ‼️😒

[@NatashallDunbar]

That's to blackmail each other. You don't tell my spouse and ruin my family...I won't tell yours or ruin your family.

[@C.387]

Not this one because I ain't going.

[@elenaherring4118]

Yes

[@kizzyharrison6906]

😲

[@OpinionatedBlues]

@@NatashallDunbarthat sounds like such a miserable time. Always wondering and looking over your shoulder for when the secret is gonna be exposed, lol.

[@tlashai9902]

I had a married man get upset with me because I didn’t want a relationship with him. He thought I was low hanging fruit, I just didn’t care to bother, then I told on him for bothering me. Filed a sexual harassment lawsuit against him. A lot of men don’t count the cost.

[@EarthMimi]

Amen, I just explained to my husband that my faithfulness is a result of me loving and fearing THEE Most High God!!🎉

[@thejoyebony]

🎯🎯🎯

[@cydgood4959]

Love this!

[@soliderforthelord364]

A cheating man is NOT thinking of his wife. A woman who gets approached by a married man is NOT LOW fruit. The womans character has nothing to do with a married approaching her. All blame and character lays squarely with the married man

[@Kandy_Kaneee]

Amen!! I know I’ve been approached by some married men and I definitely don’t consider myself as low fruit. It’s not my problem he has low self esteem.

[@kimberlyblunt]

Facts...he thinks his word is bond.

[@Kandy_Kaneee]

@@kimberlyblunt And it’s really not. Stop pointing fingers and be clear about it. I feel exactly what you’re saying. 🥰🙌🏽

[@ntildesley2071]

Absolutely, well said

[@58julib]

Sounds like someone whose been with a married man

[@doriswolfe849]

Men that cheat are poor excuse for a human being.

[@burnettaallen2492]

When I was a married woman about to divorce and I met a man that I believed to be a potential. You are absolutely right. I refused to get involved with him whatsoever while I was still legally married. If he was still there afterwards so be it. He wasn't and that was fine too because I wasn't divorcing my husband for him. Although my divorce was justified by his adultery, I was still accountable to God.

[@erehistruth2356]

I agree. My husband and I have many issues and I don't think we will stay married, but until then I will NEVER cheat on him. I rather just get divorced.

[@DivineAwareness88]

Plus, if the guy who wanted to pursue you knew you were married then he's not to be trusted.

[@JaimieMills-p8v]

The wisdom being preached in this video saved my life. Edit: Just noticed this video is 11:11 minutes long. Divine message indeed!✨🙏

[@iamyimjackson]

Ladies do not stay with him if you catch him being unfaithful.

[@tamikaa9815]

Exactly!!! I’m all for it, just walk away it’ll be the best decision you’ll make! 🙌🏽

[@MissFunnyBunnyKC]

Yup, once a cheater always a cheater

[@Ballerina_777]

@@iamyimjackson too much money involved

[@ashleydaniels519]

Married men is where I draw the line. At 40 I see women my age and older going after these married men and it’s sad. We’re old enough to know better. Messy situation and it makes the woman look really desperate.

[@appliedknowledgeispower2024]

A piece of paper will not stop some men even if it is divorce judgment as in my case, he was still taking to his previous/ex-wife so at the end of the day it is about the man and his integrity

[@userofyoutuve]

It’s deeper than a piece of paper 📑, it’s vows he and she made and took a oath, just like in court , legal binding and spiritual binding agreement, and nobody honors or respects them because they assume it’s just a piece of paper, marriage is no joke nor is adultery unfortunately it hits deep depending on if the shoe turns to the other foot, then same as it was paper it’s another’s home broken and destruction, it’s ashamed that it wash recycle and repeat and nobody cares until it happens to them

[@NataliaSolakian-kc1sn]

Thank you, Tony! Lots of ears have to hear this! Some men have no shame in how they lasso a woman in WHILE they're married. He's playing BOTH WOMEN. Also, no side dishes should EVER want to have a man divorce his wife. She should not even deal with him to begin with. The moment she finds out he is married, she should RUN!

[@honeykiss9350]

One of my family members was with a man , he was living with her for 16 years. He never divorce his wife cause he said he didn't see no reason to. Anyways when he died in 2021, the wife was left as his beneficiary to his life insurance. My family member didn't get a dime. He didn't want her to. Everything Tony says is the truth.

[@meekashabazz6135]

Did she go to his funeral?

[@honeykiss9350]

@@meekashabazz6135 No! His wife didn't tell her when they were having it. She didn't want her there she was the side piece that's why she put him out.

[@ellenringer5236]

That is the absolute truth!

[@honeykiss9350]

@@meekashabazz6135 No the wife didn't tell her when they were having it.

[@Zara-pt5xq]

All you married people out there with your happy little situations with whatever disgusting mess you've got going on with your weird needy lives with whoever you can zombily attach too STOP WATCHING ME

[@MusicLover-cv9gp]

I don't agree with the low hanging fruit part. I know women who doesn't care about what the married man does with his wife or what the wife will get when he dies, most women have their own. The married man gives the other woman good sex, pays bills in the home and gives lavish trips and gifts. A lot of these married men have relationships with these women for years and they are not considered jump offs as a matter of fact they end up falling in love with these women

[@amicisun]

If a married man comes after you, run!! morals....

[@prosperpetuity7987]

The real conversation is the men that these married men are sleeping with! Your competition isn’t another woman, it’s another man!!

[@BlackEnchantress]

This is also the Truth too.

[@thhe5859]

I had a friend that started dating a married man and helped him file for divorce. I dropped her like a bad habit. There is no way that I will be friends with such a woman.

[@mlbradley4322]

Of course cheatig is wrong; but I personally don't believe all the men view the other woman as "Trash". My view point.

[@rachelross5829]

I agree! I was always #1 but know a married man who simply adores me. Hell hang out with me and not even try to have sex.

[@MontManii]

Ikr

[@MissHannah2036]

its odd the woman gets called side piece and trash, what is the cheating married man who made serious vows to his wife called.

[@hotmomma1552]

If you cheat with him he will! If you turn him down he maybe mad but he’ll be forced to respect you.

[@hotmomma1552]

@@MissHannah2036whatever you wanna call him! But keep this in mind , a person can never cheat if the other party turns them away. Unfortunately they usually find someone who goes along with the BS. Turn them down flat, period.

[@Rossi.K]

For me, I absolutely would not care lol. That’s like a homeless person calling someone a bum. Who they really feel are low hanging fruits are themselves.A cheating man’s opinion of me would never matter lol. I’m def NOT getting with a married man tho.

[@JessiJess416]

I don’t know what triggered you to make this video, but THANK YOU!!!! 🙏🏽 & from a woman’s POV a good & decent woman have more class than to deal with someone who is still married even through separation. I would say, “If you truly are getting divorced, look me up when it’s final” but that’s also because of my relationship with God. Women who do this are operating out of “Desperation” & have no real relationship with God & that’s a FACT! I’ll stand on that!

[@kat64470]

You speak truth brother. Wished I heard it in my 30’s. But I pray I will never be unfaithful to God again!

[@aleciaclark6634]

If we only had more people with God fearing hearts as you! God Bless you!

[@EstelleCreativeDesigns]

I wish married men would stop putting women in danger by NOT telling them he’s married. To many woman lives have been put in danger because they didn’t know.

[@jeanettemena1286]

Side chicks listen to him! He telling the truth. Even if he’s excited to get with you. Even if he Sees you as a prize. He sees you as something he can put on a shelf and admire or toy with however and whenever he wants…a prize alright! 😏He sees you as disposable a piece of trash. There’s no investment with you and he’ll drop you at the slightest inconvenience. Speaking from a place of experience. Speaking from a perspective of when I was deceived. The man knows what it is so don’t be deceived. It’ll never work with a taken man. It’s evil

[@BrendaBaBoom]

🎯🎯🎯

[@alwaysaccurate8725]

True my sister ex husband cheated for years- they divorced he did marry one of the side chicks but now he cheating on her too. The lady had the audacity to call my sister to vent- boy she hollered 😂😂😂😂 they always need 2 stupid.

[@Aisha_babii]

So sad knowing that a stomachache or headache or just being plain tired every now and then pushes some men to cheat 😵‍💫

[@bossladi5963]

I met a guy who was separated and that’s the biggest mistake I’ve ever made. We dated for 7 months. Said he was in love with me etc. I even met his 4 year old daughter. Long story short after a very bad disagreement he left me. And I found out via social media that he was back with her. I knew it and asked him but he never told me the truth smh. So hurtful !!! I’ve learned my lesson 😢

[@bossladi5963]

He told me he wasn’t attracted to her anymore And so many other things. But now I know it was all lies. I kept asking him was he sure he didn’t want to be with her anymore. She even knew about me. I just knew that was over. But

[@lelo46]

You ASKED for that one sis. 😩 Like he TOLD you he was still married. He gave you that option up front. But we all live in learn, hope you learned and are healing.

[@bossladi5963]

@@lelo46 he said they was separated and getting a divorce. But yes lesson learned. They were living separately

[@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely]

⁠@@bossladi5963Wait… the wife KNEW of u? And the children now u too? And the wife still took him back? Is this man rich? What was the reason for getting back together?

[@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely]

@@bossladi5963I hope you’re not letting this affect u too bad. I have a feeling u might’ve dodged a major bullet. The fact that the wife and children know about u, and she took him back is crazy. That means he’s a dog. I’d bet money u aren’t the first or only woman he’s pulled this with. I hope you’re able to laugh about this one day. Don’t let it get to u too bad. U will have your time eventually. Stay positive.✌🏿

[@isisturner5859]

Amen brother. Speak the truth. Ladies, love yourself and wait on God to bless you with your husband. It will be a beautiful journey once you're blessed with your soulmate.

[@misst5748]

Sadly just because a man is married doesn't mean hes loyal. I know this about my own husband. He does what he wants, leaves when he wants, etc. Obviously I don't have his heart, he doesnt care what i have to gain from separation.

[@fiae2897]

Protect yourself in every way ❤🙏🏼

[@TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

Please leave. This is alienation of marriage and abusive. We have one life to live and don’t know when our last day will be. If you trust God and love yourself, you will be guided to the answer.

[@ButterCookie1984]

So get a divorce.

[@MarinaM-o6p]

if you ask the married women out there , all of them say the same thing ….men cheat and lie …they only care about sex , money and fame . They profess loyalty , ask about it , but they never reciprocate. THIS IS THE WISDOM THAT ALL WOMEN NEED .

[@AyesheIsAlwaysLovely]

So what’s the purpose of being married then? Are u cheating back? Is your husband rich? What are u gaining?

[@Sandy-jm7ud]

Some men lie about marriage from the get go......so he has no respect for nobody!!

[@carlottaberry6527]

Was approached by a man while out jogging, well to do by world’s standards based off his profession, which he quickly mentioned. After a few questions asked he disclosed he was married but separated. I checked him really fast, cause I knew what he was looking for. I ain’t nobody’s “low hanging fruit!” Get da steppin’ my brotha!

[@SoulBeauty1111]

🎯🙌🏽

[@madelineasmr926]

Yes! As soon as they say they’re married, dismissed! See ya!

[@GoddesssofMind]

Same exact thing happened to me.3 weeks ago He said he was a photographer, we hung out, then he told me yesterday he was married.

[@milliexxx6390]

The timing ⏱ of this video was confirmation 🔥

[@kylieking8163]

Isn’t it funny that he’s focusing on the women and not the cheating men ? Men always do this 😂. Making women hate and call each other names while they also cheat in secret

[@Exoticano]

Yes unfortunately most focus on the woman and it is the man that promised loyalty and faithfulness to someone not the other woman. Most times these men trick women into believing they are single, no ring, no wife posted etc only to later find out they are not.

[@allotatalk]

Exactly when it’s the cheating man that’s low hanging fruit he knows inside he ain’t ish don’t think much of himself and view himself as trash it shows in his behavior no wife has a cheating husband’s heart he has no heart some of these men need to stop giving advice or insight on cheating married men if they can’t relate

[@Exoticano]

@@allotatalk great point

[@diaryofanafricanladyutanyo9656]

Yup always the woman’s fault not thr man who took vows

[@kimberlyblunt]

Because he's a narcissist himself and is not as happy in his marriage as he want people to believe. It's pure content. He's so annoying.

[@LaChocolatScorpio]

as a woman who found out I was a side chick to a married man….THIS MAN IS SPEAKING PURE FACTS! EVERYTHING HE SAID IS TRUE!…and once u sit and have an honest conversation with yourself EVERYTHING he said is the conclusion you’ll come to!…they have u do the “trashy” stuff the wife won’t and that man hated me and thought I was trash and I allowed it cuz I didn’t love myself…

[@Allthingstali]

Just reaffirmed my decision to block this old married man. Worked with him , he never said anything directly but I could tell he liked me. Fast forward, somehow he found me on social media and liked a couple pictures. Two words….. BLOCKT & DELETE

[@Patricia-qy5kb]

Sadly to say but it's the other woman that gets the brunt of every backlash of the cheating whether she realized the man was married or not. Chances are very great that the married man is never really going to leave or be completely done with his wife, even if he ever does his eyes will always be dancing around for another woman.

[@TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

Never really going to leave: quiet as it’s kept, many of these “woah is me, unhappily married and staying for the kids” are VERY happily married. Just want to sow their royal oats. Remember, there are two sides to a story. Best to not play with fire at all.

[@beefaye6861]

YASSSS!!!!!!!! SIDE CHICK beware 😮😮😮

[@TheGoodLifeStarterPack]

@@beefaye6861Once you’ve seen even cheating videos, the storylines start to sound the same. Many of these cheating husbands are in happy marriages. Just have no regard for their wives. ☹️

[@evaabdullahi5240]

Ah! Here’s one for you… my ex-husband from 35 years ago always stayed in touch; lives in another state now. Well he started talking to me said he wanted to see me. I’m thinking oh really. Ummm. Older more mature, church going, professional, upstanding citizen, etc. Well he tells me he has friends with benefits. Then he tells me one has been his FWB for over 10 years!!!!! Well, 10+years!!! That’s like a marriage to me!! REALLY!! You can’t make this stuff up!! 35 years and he hasn’t changed a thing.!!! I’m out. Point blank PERI ODD!!

[@Asneeded]

Awesome teaching! A married man , separated from his wife came at me.! I advised him that I am not second hand Sally!!

[@portiawebb533]

Thank you ✌🏽. Do not put yourself in this compromising position. It’s not a good look.

[@bf1822]

Married men have more games then a Vegas Casino. Get out my face 😅

[@rakelpeneyambeko]

@@bf1822 🤣🤣🤣🤣 . Man that's a good one, you hilarious.

[@rakelpeneyambeko]

🤣🤣🤣🤣. That was a good one, you hilarious 🙆‍♀️🙆‍♀️.

[@purplebutterfly-ol2hw]

Baby more of us need the fear of God. That's what it boils down too! Thank u

[@girlygirl402]

Omg talk about a punch to the gut😫 damn… i’d rather hear the harsh truth thank you🙏🏻

[@JaimieMills-p8v]

Same..

[@carolkipruto]

I needed to hear this today, right this minute.

[@JaimieMills-p8v]

Me too.. Hugs! 💞

[@fishie1321]

Howabout talking to the "man" and telling him not ti be playing games....POINT, BLANK, PERIIIIOOOD!

[@pamelarichardson6124]

Don't entertain that nonsense

[@januarywalton7376]

Yep I'm the one that's going to tell the wife...and she straight up told me "that's whats wrong with yall side chick's, don't know how to stay in a side chick's place!" I was flabbergasted because first of all your husband lied..I never knew I was a side chick! Smh 😫

[@Holistretch]

Lol! A lot of wives know but they don’t want to know. They keep a blind eye to “keep the peace”.

[@MsTi-tf1og]

It's funny😂😂😂, but not funny.

[@chanelmitchell1632]

That is so sad.

[@Amylynnklh900]

2 1/2 year affair with my co worker at the airport. Should I tell his wife?

[@777videos7777]

Yes, tell the wife!!

[@jackiecolbert3915]

My ex husband left me for his sidechick. Then he moves her into the townhouse we shared together. Its just so messy I don't understand why they didn't move away from me. Its so sad we live in the same community. 2yrs divorced after 21yrs married. Men don't care anymore.

[@iammarycarter]

Wow! That's crazy and low. Well ether way clearly you have the best end of the deal.

[@Beautybizz28]

That's the point he left he didn't string her along. You won though he's no good

[@erehistruth2356]

All she did was take out the trash. You will be fine.😊

[@banditbabyyy]

I’m so sorry that happened to you. You didn’t deserve that.

[@TrinaRuss25]

He was most likely a person with narcissistic personality disorder. Read up on what they do, and see if your ex match tone traits

[@ashleyspence4449]

I was just put in this situation and it was wild asf no ring no pictures on social media nothing!!!! The disrespect is wild in these streets

[@MsWillita8]

Yeah there is zero record of me on my husband’s social media. He says women are always coming on to him. I wonder why 😒. The lack of posting me atleast once pisses me off! He claims he keeps his business and personal life separate.

[@ashleyspence4449]

@@MsWillita8 omg he definitely needs to post you so a woman can know. Because i had no clue

[@MsWillita8]

@@ashleyspence4449 I think that’s why he won’t post me. I said I would never get married because when I was single married men would hit on me.

[@userofyoutuve]

Some don’t care, they find joy in what they do, that’s why you don’t go back and forth with the other woman they eventually get the same man, he’s usually worse after

[@Vi_lovely]

The woman actually isint low hanging fruit most of the time you don’t even no these men are married. The only people who made an allegiance to the marriage is the husband and wife. The woman owes nobody no loyalty cuz she dosint know. By the time she finds out she’s already in love with the man. Most of the time the wives know what kind of man they have and stay.

[@aprilchow-chee5281]

And these side women stay too cause "they in love" 🤨

[@pennstea6711]

Most side pieces are trash, god forgive me, it’s been 30yrs & still counting, also! when a married man cheats, talking from experience…he no longer wants to be married! so he went from a 100% to 20% yes he had to go once I found out! and he regrets it every day

[@caramelmosaicmosaic7940]

Great point. Married men cheating …are lower than the status they view side pieces as. Married (cheating) men: 1- lack self control 2-lack self worth 3-definitely lack trustworthiness

[@C.387]

Amen

[@Luver4lyfe]

Is he trash though ?

[@BrendaBaBoom]

@@Luver4lyfe Excellent question. 🙋🏽‍♀️

[@JustDoRight]

That's why he wants his wife to be the one to leave him. Men have a harder time leaving than women do. So men move on even in her face. They'll even tell her to leave if she wants to. Sometimes the women leave and sometimes they don't. Either or its a process. Sad, but it is what it is.

[@esthera92]

If a married man shows interest just ignore his advances or make it clear. Simple as that.

[@ashleycavin]

God bless I needed to hear this 🙏🏾 Definitely never want to settle for a half of a man and to be used for what I know I deserve to be with a whole man!

[@sheshae4101]

When I was of the world and I had a married man I got my rent paid, vacations, a car, but him and his wife were seperated and I ABSOLUTELY HAD NO DESIRE for him to leave his wife cause I saw first hand how bad he would lie to her. & even when I left him alone I had to literally threaten him like I was gonna get a restraining order. But the whole time I would think like how can u be married and out here acting like you don’t have a wife. Anyway it had got so bad that he started stalking and I had to get my uncles involved for him to leave me alone. Remind you this a big time self defense lawyer in the city and I left him alone because it was just fun for me but serious to him. But don’t degrade a woman when a man is the biggest DOWNFALL to any desire they have. Men are the worst when it comes to doing what they want, but when they get caught up everybody want the woman to take the blame. I despise when Mr. Gaskin get on here and try to down women when we all know a man has always been weak when it comes to his desires and flesh.

[@Emptytopfloor]

I agree! But tony knows men don’t listen to anyone. So he talks to women.

[@sheshae4101]

@@Emptytopfloorregardless if they listen or not don’t reflect it on women trying to make them feel bad . Cause 85-90% of the time A MAN start and initiates everything with a woman. But don’t get on here calling a woman trash and low hanging fruit because of what a man decided to do with her. I don’t care if a woman is a crackhead I’m still gonna respect her at the end of the day because she’s a woman, she’s still someone’s mother, aunt, cousin, niece and she didn’t become trash or a low hanging fruit alone a man started it.

[@nakooshaalbert8884]

Thanks for sharing but maybe you may need some more healing! I don’t see it as downgrading women. The facts are being stated. We all know married men can’t cheat if the woman does not participate in the cheating. They only could do with what a woman allow. Of course women have influence so it’s up to us if we choose to be the side chick.

[@sheshae4101]

@@nakooshaalbert8884 I’m not really gonna respond to you because look like the type that’ll believe anything a man say anyway. & as far as healing I never was the one that needed the healing the man was. Get outta internet world and come on down here to reality town. Now I said what I had to say just as everyone else does and that’s that. I could type more but I’m passenger side riding, heading to Louisiana to get a puppy I want. ✌🏽

[@raynishanicole]

He was obsessed because you were easy. You KNEW he was married and still went along with it for the perks like a gold digger. Most women don’t want to happily be a sidechick so of course he was mad when he was losing his jumpoff. The fact you are trying to talk down to Tony instead of admitting you were extremely WRONG shows you haven’t learned from your mistake. Y’all both were 🗑️ in that situation & Tony said what he said 😂🤷🏽‍♀️

[@fishie1321]

Women, Everyday PAY ATTENTION, to the red flags. Not just in romantic relationships....we all deserve Respect and dont let anyones insults or opions about you stop you from your journey. We all deserve true love, you have to pick out the bad apples. Also need to self reflect. MEN ARE LOW BEARING FRUIT as well.

[@robinsonrochelle7033]

Looove this! Soooo respect you brother for your devotion to the Lord! That's it!!! Character and integrity- the man needs it and all women must possess it out of the box!!! Separated is still MARRIED!!!

[@ConcreteRose0219US]

Thank you Tony for telling the absolute truth!!! People that cheat think they’re winning!!! They never count the cost and they find out the price is way too high!!! My husband found out the hard way… and then he died!!!😊🙏🏽❤️👍🏽

[@andrewgomezpoetry]

This hit hard. Definitely appreciate the perspective you shared. As a man hoping to get married soon I’ll keep this in mind always. Thanks 👊🏽

[@ToniCobbins]

Point blank PERIOD 🎯🎯🎯

[@sweetie932]

Point blank period 👍🏾

[@user-fh6hv4eb56]

Tell the truth and shame the Devil! God bless you Mr Gaskins! Peace and blessings to all!

[@jodynori1214]

Single, married they all cheat if the opportunity presence itself. When he cheats he doesn’t love the wife , mistress, side chick, ( whatever title) He only loves himself. Question is if you are the wife what are you going to do when you find out? Leave or stay?

[@hotmomma1552]

He doesn’t even love himself because if he did he would know that he deserves better than to be a cheating loser.

[@TheRoyalty1982]

I agree with this message and Lord thank you for showing me who I am in you.

[@fatirahandfatir4200]

Thank you for this video. I never found it appealing when married men would try to talk to me. I respect marriage too much to ever mess with a married man. I hate that side chicks are glorified and women brag about being with a married man. There is nothing cute about that.

[@csaffaazid7236]

Thanks Tony. This hurts me so real.

[@darlenec3231]

i was chuckling & agreeing with every word Mr. Gaskins - WHY CAN’T FOLK JUST BE RESPECTFUL & TRUE

[@KT-gm1no]

A man is as faithful as his options 🤷🏾‍♀️

[@Lexlove95]

Went through this with my ex husband. Men can’t cheat if there aren’t women to cheat with! Once a woman knows the man has someone or is married, it hightens the desire to be wanted by that man and be chosen over who’s been there with him. It’s the chase on both ends and the one who has nothing to do with it gets the messy end of the stick. Its sickening. Thank you for this video!!

[@kemetricajones9906]

Not you blaming other women to make him be faithful😂😂😂 sick!

[@AnnaSarogianni]

@@kemetricajones9906true 😂 with the same logic cheaters wouldn’t exist if wives knew how to pick good men and not settle for trash and then blame others for their own choice

[@sydniruth]

My good, man-of-character, community advocate, Doctor of Education, church/God-seeking separated and very married HUSBAND is on dating apps looking for another relationship. 🤷🏿‍♀️ Yet, he's dragging out of divorce and disagreeing with me on everything. It's laughable at this point

[@SoulBeauty1111]

😮😮😢 Praying for you Queen.

[@USER-tp8lb]

sometimes the issue is they don't know ow to be alone. They sre afraid to leave unless they find someone that's going to take your place.

[@EllieM_Travels]

You are SO right! I had a man tell me he wanted to cheat on his finance with me, and I said good luck with that and walked. He married her. I’m so glad I have enough self respect to stay clear of that nonsense!

[@brandyl.robinson7823]

Poor logic. Married men cheat because marriage means nothing to them. It has nothing to do with whom he cheats with. The victim is the wife that has to continue giving loyalty and love to a deceiving husband. Stay single ladies marriage gives up your rights as a woman. Form independent relationships with trustworthy female associates. ❤

[@guashuanareed1748]

I agree! I've met a married man recently and he doesn't care anymore about his marriage. He's tried of his situation. Waiting for his youngest to graduate from high school next year. I have not and will not get involved with him and he knows it.

[@Beautybizz28]

​@@guashuanareed1748he's lying

[@brittthecancerqueenempress9137]

This‼️‼️

[@Beautybizz28]

​@@guashuanareed1748he's lying men don't stay where they don't want it to be. He's running game.

[@Cosmos20244]

Exactlyyy, God sees everything🙏🙏

[@LisaSimmons-mn2sr]

“You done fell off.” I’m done! Lmbo 😂

[@rayray094life]

😂😂😂

[@SistahJay27]

The Holy Spirit is moving because HE gave me this same vehicle analogy. Tony, we don’t live in a perfect world, by perfect world I mean a mature world. Let me start by saying that this is a very sensitive and touchy subject for me. Some dudes aren’t honest about who they really are in the very beginning. When some married men approaches a single woman they act as if they are a single man. They will lead you on for two years and have sex with you and then woman catches feelings, when he knows good and dog-on well he got somebody else. Dude gets the woman pregnant, and then he wants to tell you the truth that he’s married. Now he expects for this woman to get an abortion??? Not, right. No woman deserves to have to go through an abortion because someone lie to her about who he really is and then she messed around I can’t have no more kids in the future because of his lie. This is how women get caught up. I don’t think it’s fair to call women low hanging fruit because they are having sex outside of marriage because there’s a lot of married women who have had sex before they gotten married to their husband. I’m not saying go have sex outside of marriage because boundaries are definitely needed. I’m shining a light to let you in on how it really happens to some women. I enjoy watching your videos and sometimes it can be a hard pill to swallow. Your insight and perspective is greatly appreciated. I just want you to see it from a woman’s perspective. Please don’t block me Tony 😂 I know you are quick with it. Much love

[@vielkavelarde4934]

I love you tony for this MESSAGE!!!( PRAISE THE LORD )... love this message...im so glad i NEVER got involve with a married man...but i had seem attractive one & i looked but keep walking.....thank u lord that im a strong woman & u keep me under your wing

[@sephinew3333]

Great advice. I blocked him and deleted some ways he contacted me. ❤ Thank you for this!

[@1WomenScorned]

Talk about it. Point blank PERIOD.

[@MarinaM-o6p]

When the “ married man “ cheats he will be forever in the dog house with his wife ….

[@ashtrott1599]

This is right on time. Appreciate it brother.

[@Pam_ela]

Perfect message ending 11:11 😊

[@NikkiDavis-f5o]

Squirrels trying to get a nut. Dying after crossing the road to get a nut. Wow. Too funny. Great conversation Mr. Gaskin. My spiritual brother always.

[@delerinebright1650]

Only a real God fearing men speak like this thank you

[@open2417]

I’ve been divorced for 14 years after my ex cheated for 11 of our 14 year marriage. He ended up marrying the woman he cheated with. Since my divorce the majority of the men who have approached me to date are married. I met a man on an online dating site. After months of communicating he finally tells me he’s married…and living with his wife, but working on getting a divorce. I immediately cut him off and told him how upset I am that he lied. Now he’s stalking me talking about I’m supposed to be his wife. What??? I’m so sick of these men. 😠The most relationship-minded men are married…🙄

[@sunshinedy7659]

Most men on dating apps are married

[@open2417]

@@sunshinedy7659 so true. And the married men I meet in person are the most flirtatious. The single men tend to be more hesitant.

[@patriciamitchell1924]

I agree with u 100 percent,any married man pursue another woman is trying to fill avoid at home...I have an plenty of married man trying to talk with me...because of my respect for myself and his wife I refuse to date a marry man or à man that's dating another woman.I myself feel if any woman dates a marry man if he cheats on his wife he will also cheats on you as well ...Being a Christian woman I have Respect for myself and I am willing to wait for the Lord to bring that man to me and not me going looking for a man that the Lord did mold for me alone...

[@sibongilepearl7242]

Thank you for your heartfelt support, and the love for your sisters

[@Barbywinston]

You are smarter than a lot of men older than you. Many men just do things and don't think about their actions and how it affects and hurts others. Many are caught up in the worldly pursuits.

[@MzJauna11]

I needed this. Thank you for this revelation.