5 UNEXPECTED Signs Your Ex Will Come Back To You!

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Apollonia Ponti

Apollonia Ponti

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@thierryngoyi3188
@thierryngoyi3188 Жыл бұрын
The best collab ❤ S/O Appollonia S/O Adrian S/O Alex Cormont The Crème de la crème
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Aw, thanks! Much love to you. Thanks for including me in this awesome coach line up!
@thierryngoyi3188
@thierryngoyi3188 Жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti much love !!
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 Жыл бұрын
All A’s
@ebiokodo4087
@ebiokodo4087 Жыл бұрын
What if is with someone else and keeping distance from me and she didn't tell me that she broke up with me. Is that still hope that she will come back using the no contact rules?
@ismarcus00500
@ismarcus00500 Жыл бұрын
Stay open minded. My ex and I met when our worlds were so stressful and hectic, after the most amazing relationship she ended it with me and honestly, all my own fault. She stuck in there for me but I missed the signs she needed a lot more support. I went NC for 50+ days, we connected, my first text was a very casual one, a few weeks later she texts me, wanted to meet up for a coffee and dog walk. After a slow reintroduction to each other, we were both fixed and this time ready for the love we still carried inside for each other. 5 years on we have a beautiful daughter, our love and relationship is stronger than ever and next year we are getting married. STAY opened minded to the timing of your life.
@aaronsavage8018
@aaronsavage8018 Жыл бұрын
Thank you for sharing. My girlfriend moved her stuff out while I was at work and when I came back she told me in person she needed a break and that she needs to find yourself and be happy with herself, and not just when we’re together. I’m terrified that she is going to move on and I’m gonna be stuck waiting. I’ve lived with her for a quarter of my life and I’m only 21 so I don’t know what to do. I’m just lost man.
@ismarcus00500
@ismarcus00500 Жыл бұрын
@@aaronsavage8018 Key is my friend, give her what she wants, thats being space, do not beg, its time to really show her what she means to you, that is distance, give her what she needs and wants, anything else will 100% push her away. The only way to show her how strong you are is to do what she has asked for.
@yamomma5053
@yamomma5053 Жыл бұрын
A lot of ppl in the comments seem to think love is a one size fits all…just because it didn’t work for you DOESNT mean it can’t work for others. Plenty of people have been broken up and rekindled into long term relationships
@dannya.5812
@dannya.5812 Жыл бұрын
First! Also want to say that even if she does comes back, tread carefully, pace yourself, and don't forget the pain you've already been through with her. That doesn't just disappear.
@MarcusNewton24
@MarcusNewton24 Жыл бұрын
If someone breaks up with you, you should never reach out first.
@ksich8142
@ksich8142 Жыл бұрын
What if it was mutual ?
@Cahillm1127
@Cahillm1127 Жыл бұрын
@@ksich8142 don’t waste your time, remove them from social media out there contact on mute. If they reach out first give it atleast a day before answering
@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE
@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE Жыл бұрын
Most imPortant RULE….🫰🏾
@Masterdeber
@Masterdeber Жыл бұрын
What if u cheated?
@niongg8042
@niongg8042 Жыл бұрын
It depends if you are the one who messed up i think
@IntegraDIY
@IntegraDIY Жыл бұрын
An ex wanting to come back can be a huge problem. It’s a curse. Love bombing from someone you hate can be super annoying and frustrating to deal with. Unless you want them back, ignore ignore ignore!
@ismarcus00500
@ismarcus00500 Жыл бұрын
Not really. Open your mind. My ex and I met when our worlds were so stressful and hectic, after the most amazing relationship she ended it with me and honestly, all my own fault. She stuck in there for me but I missed the signs she needed a lot more support. I went NC for 30+ days, we connected, my text first, very casual one, a few weeks later she texts me, wanted to meet up for a coffee and dog walk. After a slow reintroduction to each other, we were both fixed and this time ready for the love we still carried inside. 5 years on we have a beautiful daughter, our love and relationship is stronger than ever and next year we are getting married. STAY opened minded to the timing of your life.
@artifactsantlersoh
@artifactsantlersoh Жыл бұрын
I really dig this man’s energy. Seems genuine and honest about what he sees.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Hit it on the nail. He really is. Very genuine. :-)
@Topgear.filmer
@Topgear.filmer Жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPontihey me and my ex did no contact I reached out a bit and was blocked. Then she continually blocks and un blocks me but don’t communicate. What do I do and what does that mean? Since the last unblocked moment I’ve just ignored her for 2 months
@briar35981
@briar35981 Жыл бұрын
Come on men !!!! Don't EVEN think about it. It's like going through your own garbage can at the end of your drive way. You know what's in there. It smells, it's nasty, and your neighbors will see you doing it. You disposed it for a reason. Stay strong, work on yourself, create happiness for yourself. You are 100% in charge of that happiness.
@theworld7094
@theworld7094 Жыл бұрын
The most sensible post
@armanddimeo6575
@armanddimeo6575 Жыл бұрын
After having several bad experiences with this, I will never get back together with an ex. When I'm done, I'm done.
@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE
@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE Жыл бұрын
Why you on this video then….🤔
@armanddimeo6575
@armanddimeo6575 Жыл бұрын
@@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE So that if I see the signs she is coming back to me, I can run as far as possible in the other direction.
@byrunroca4908
@byrunroca4908 Жыл бұрын
My ex left me during the pandemic. I can safely say that I moved on and fully healed. If she leaves, its better to gut it all out and let time do the proper healing and move on. Is it easy? definitely not, but as time heals, your eyes begin to open again
@erniet
@erniet Жыл бұрын
I have never gone back with an ex. Never have never will. Period. I put all my effort into making a relationship work so when I’m done it’s forever. Peace ✌🏿
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Yes, this is good too. Not every relationship is meant to go back to. :-)
@theworld7094
@theworld7094 Жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPontido you guys know what your talking about at all ?
@sergiosolis4538
@sergiosolis4538 Жыл бұрын
My ex tried to come back, but I blocked her. After the crap that she was pulling, I want nothing to do with her. I will find someone else.
@KylePuglisi
@KylePuglisi Жыл бұрын
I can’t even explain how helpful this video was. I’m going through this literal exact situation and she has done every single one of these signs. I’ve just had trouble not reaching out and trying to get her back immediately. I think it hasn’t changed anything as long as I stop doing it now so I am so happy I saw this video. I know it will take time and I really feel like this video just changed my perspective on everything. I’m gonna start hitting the gym again and having fun with my friends and posting like I should be. That’s the person who she fell in love with so why would she want me if I was desperate and not changing or growing. I really appreciate this I think this is a turning point for me
@DeshawnBrown-hk3zz
@DeshawnBrown-hk3zz Жыл бұрын
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@cristiancortes9
@cristiancortes9 Жыл бұрын
From my own recovered girlfriend....she allowed me to have contact for months after breackup...even when she literally said multiple times she didnt want it anymore...she also accepted to see me from time to time...she showed jealous...she showed anger consistenly...and by the time she started taking iniciative to contact me...her comeback happened shortly after
@elayubi7351
@elayubi7351 Жыл бұрын
I rather die suffering than getting my ex back
@theunwanted6122
@theunwanted6122 Жыл бұрын
They always do want to . But I will never take any of them back! An ex is an ex for a reason screw them. Life moves on I do to.
@sherminator7108
@sherminator7108 Жыл бұрын
I need this girl back so bad I am devastated but I’m forcing myself to not reach out and praying for the best
@nii4xo
@nii4xo Жыл бұрын
how did it go im 3 days in i miss her and want another chance
@sherminator7108
@sherminator7108 Жыл бұрын
@@nii4xo she hasn’t wrote me back or attempted to contact me at this point as painful as it’s been I’m moving on and reminding myself that I got a lot of self worth and somebody else will see that when the time is right
@d0cn0tes
@d0cn0tes Жыл бұрын
If men or women had a video of their exes being intimate with another person, both would say no to coming back into the old relationship. So assume you you’ve seen video and move on
@Euphoryaaa
@Euphoryaaa Жыл бұрын
@6:15 What if this happened to me over the period of 4 months? She asked for space but I didn’t know how long and my anxious attachment got to me and kept on reaching out. I pretty much have no chance of getting her back now right? 1st time: after 2 weeks NC 2nd time: after another 2 weeks NC 3rd time: after a month and two weeks of NC And a week later sent flowers to her job like an idiot because I think she’s still mad at me from something I said to her-Blocked But before blocking she sent a message saying she appreciated the sentiment but no longer wanted to be involved with me and she wanted no further contact. I don’t plan on ever contacting her and I realize now she was a dismissive avoidant and her panic alarms and fear of her loss of independence went off as soon as I started getting kinda serious talking about a future too soon. Idk. Maybe I was moving too fast but she could’ve just told me that instead of shutting down and stonewalling/ghosting me. That’s not really an attractive quality to have in a partner, someone that can’t communicate.
@exarck3722
@exarck3722 Жыл бұрын
That's all fair. But it's no contact for a reason. 30-45 days. Ideally even 60 sometimes depending on if she really is an avoidant style person. The reality is you can't communicate well either. Which is evident on your problem and what happened and your inability to logically think through what's transpiring and what you need to do in the space between. You kept seeking validation and that was your result. Clingy/Needy and that's not an attractive quality set, regardless of how you "thought" it seemed. Work on you, What you did, what you didn't do, how you failed her and yourself. Progress your LIFE. See how it's going in 2 months from now. Go from there after you've done some work on you.
@skitzupshaw7009
@skitzupshaw7009 Жыл бұрын
I went through the same thing it was 6 months in. Dismissive Avoidant I found out. Ghosted me after a simple txt. 5 days went by I went to get house we had a respectful heated conversation. She stated I wasn't patient & felt like I was forcing a conversation, i said I need to know what's going on, if u need time then it. Conversation smoothed out later I asked is that it are we good are we done, she said she still wants to talk & hang. NC next time I saw her we were working together she said she had triggers she needed to work on. We cool now hugs when we meet but still NC
@anthonyanand369
@anthonyanand369 Жыл бұрын
This was a great booster. Thank you🌹 both.
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 Жыл бұрын
I don’t think she will ever come back, she lost me and I lost her.
@leejames9999
@leejames9999 Жыл бұрын
She called me from a blocked number and didn’t say a single word when I picked up. I felt her presence though the phone
@ProSportsENT
@ProSportsENT 8 ай бұрын
Simping bro
@terrodar19
@terrodar19 Жыл бұрын
Friendly Divorced for 2 and a half months, share 3 kids, and she’s already dating some bum. i dont think i want her back but im curious as to how can i get her to be emotionally attracted to me again….shes got a lot of emotional damage from our relationship which originally started amazing.
@FrenchRelationshipExpert
@FrenchRelationshipExpert Жыл бұрын
This content is awesome. Good job guys :-)
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much Coach Alex! 😊
@cliffordhartono7784
@cliffordhartono7784 Жыл бұрын
Me, My Ex, and Her sister are taking a course while we were dating. Since we already broke up, we still joined the class and sometimes bumped. A few weeks ago her sister sit at the same table as me and I found it weird because she normally sits with her sister and her friends, but this time she chooses to sit next to me while there were so many empty seats around us. Could this mean she's trying to get information from me for her sister? since she's asking about me.
@christiansantillanes
@christiansantillanes Жыл бұрын
it’s been about 4 months no contact. i truly don’t even know who broke up with who but i left the country for a month and i’m back. now a lot of feelings are coming back - i.e. im seeing her car all over the place but it’s not her.
@christophergranados2682
@christophergranados2682 Жыл бұрын
I was going through such situation but a friend told me about a man on KZbin who helped him out, so I tried him out and hopefully it worked and we are about to marry. Check out his KZbin channel on @Dr Smith Reunion
@christiansantillanes
@christiansantillanes Жыл бұрын
@@christophergranados2682 thank you
@theYungSquids
@theYungSquids Жыл бұрын
What if during the reconnection phase, about 2 months in.. you're doing good. I love yous, sex, sleepovers, but she's also talking to another guy and saying you're just friends. We have 5 kids.
@AnimalArcTV
@AnimalArcTV Жыл бұрын
I just blocked her from everything after coming across her IG and she has new posts mentioning “he said these aren’t the biggest” when she was talking about huge bouquet of roses she was holding. I never did anything to upset her. She just tossed me aside like old pair of shoes just to go with a man who has money 😨😰😡😡
@Living_Life965
@Living_Life965 Жыл бұрын
My ex gf told me she miss me a lot she miss being with me and she Miss when when I hold her she’s in a rebound relationship right now. What do you think of that? Do you think she wants me back ? Or will come back to me?
@moisesmontanez5101
@moisesmontanez5101 Жыл бұрын
THIS IS A AWESOME VIDEO💥💥💥💥💥💥💥
@ebiokodo4087
@ebiokodo4087 Жыл бұрын
What if your partner is with another person without telling you that she hasn't broke up with you?
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 Жыл бұрын
This is for me!! 😭
@troyehnisz9907
@troyehnisz9907 Жыл бұрын
I broke up with my ex she was toxic I have no intention on getting back together and have moved on with another woman
@folengndieshe2398
@folengndieshe2398 Жыл бұрын
Awesome content. Kudos..
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Thanks a ton
@inneswood7711
@inneswood7711 Жыл бұрын
I want my true love back, so this will be a good thing
@theworld7094
@theworld7094 Жыл бұрын
The moment you hear that statement” as a woman” the next thing is baseless, narcissistic and selfishness.
@tikhirnaga6712
@tikhirnaga6712 Жыл бұрын
I break up with my love and she is in love with other guy. But,, still I'm missing her can't forgot
@Gagemaynard1986
@Gagemaynard1986 Жыл бұрын
Miss Ponti I could really use your help. I really like this girl that I've been talking to for the last couple of months. We met through a mutual friend and she described me as her "dream man". So far we've hung out in person twice and we cuddled both times, I've really fallen for her character so far as she's exceeded all my expectations, but I found out through the same mutual friend that introduced us that she is scared of me as I am the first guy to actually treat her good in a long time. She described it as daunting. What should I do? PS I've been on a self improvement journey for a while now and your videos have helped me come a long way!
@bhwillis1048
@bhwillis1048 Жыл бұрын
Something here makes no sense. She is afraid of you because you treat her good? That is daunting? There is something not adding up.
@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE
@yuNGDeLaPhoNtE Жыл бұрын
@@bhwillis1048naw it’s simPle she’s still in her needing a bad boy faze.
@levitebaptiste5360
@levitebaptiste5360 9 ай бұрын
Is this only for ex girlfriend what about the ex boyfriend?
@cinegoer9220
@cinegoer9220 Жыл бұрын
Nice content.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Appreciated
@jermainepatterson3213
@jermainepatterson3213 Жыл бұрын
Great content once again
@andersnielsen6044
@andersnielsen6044 Жыл бұрын
Who on earth wants an ex back!?
@deniahmadhendra8842
@deniahmadhendra8842 Жыл бұрын
very nice....
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Thanks a lot
@anthonyfowler2623
@anthonyfowler2623 Жыл бұрын
Is it worth it
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Depends on the relationship. ❤️
@datacollectorx1022
@datacollectorx1022 Жыл бұрын
@lifeofrico
@lifeofrico Жыл бұрын
No offense but iv had 8 gf’s since I was 18 I’m 32 now none of them ever came back lol
@Loosehead
@Loosehead 2 ай бұрын
Win her back? Think you’ve this mixed up.
@johngutierrez8399
@johngutierrez8399 Жыл бұрын
When fishermen take fishing advice from the fish 🎣 😂
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 Жыл бұрын
fish is smart
@redken5988
@redken5988 Жыл бұрын
For real. Move on
@bhwillis1048
@bhwillis1048 Жыл бұрын
That is known as an overarching cliche.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Oh so "original" never heard this before. 😜
@johngutierrez8399
@johngutierrez8399 Жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti 🤪
@skitzupshaw7009
@skitzupshaw7009 Жыл бұрын
Whats better no contact or keeping contact open to have positive interactions
@MrTheomighty1
@MrTheomighty1 Жыл бұрын
My SP not ex tells me she loves me and misses me so much but yet doesn’t make plans to follow up on her words. I saw her last 2 weeks ago
@noairbag1
@noairbag1 Жыл бұрын
I just ran into my ex and her rebound or whatever that is..i approached them and told them how I've never been more depressed in years..i dont care if it was awkward..i was being transparent and vulnerable😢
@Mygfislazy
@Mygfislazy Жыл бұрын
Guessing that didnt go well
@sercollc7908
@sercollc7908 Жыл бұрын
Should I wish her a happy Mother’s Day?
@niongg8042
@niongg8042 Жыл бұрын
No she dont give a fuck
@justcommenting8657
@justcommenting8657 Жыл бұрын
I'll never understand why chicks got to be so confusing I mean I'll play the game so I can keep getting what I want but it gets tiring
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Watch more of my videos if you like. The emotional immature ones will want the "game" and also some men like this. But there is alot of content where I talk about human behavior and dating. Why it feels like a "game".
@inneswood7711
@inneswood7711 Жыл бұрын
If your not my wife you get nothing and if your my wife and you don't live with me you get nothing, and if i give you its a act of kindness not a requirement you can't expect a wife status on a girlfriend passport. this is my new rules it's actually working. the people who like me stays the gold diggers leave. it's the perfect measuring sieve. If you have to buy love when the money is gone, so is the person.
@tb22k
@tb22k Жыл бұрын
😂😂
@theworld7094
@theworld7094 Жыл бұрын
In all, this video is telling how to waste your life as a slave
@buckaroobaizuo25
@buckaroobaizuo25 Жыл бұрын
If you read the same book twice, you'll get the same ending
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