The POWER of NO CONTACT! (What To Do When She Breaks Up With You!)

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Apollonia Ponti

Apollonia Ponti

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@cornellodomusmc
@cornellodomusmc Жыл бұрын
This is so understated. He said if you re-approach “not feeling secure where you are in your own life” you won’t have that level of confidence needed to retain her and she can subconsciously feel that. . So do the work!
@paulsell2438
@paulsell2438 10 ай бұрын
No contact is healthy. Focus on things about yourself that need attention (health, career growth, and self reflection). Work on those and reconnecting with friends, they will help keep you occupied and happy. Whatever happens down the road is out of control, but youll be putting yourself in the best position to reconnect or be better for another relationship. Good luck.
@marguskiis7711
@marguskiis7711 7 ай бұрын
take the meth better
@peterwilliams6361
@peterwilliams6361 Жыл бұрын
Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
@peterwilliams6361
@peterwilliams6361 Жыл бұрын
@Johnson Llobet Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
@peterwilliams6361
@peterwilliams6361 Жыл бұрын
@Johnson Llobet Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
@baldersn4474
@baldersn4474 Жыл бұрын
Never be too keen...Its a turn off..
@Sound7heWarCry
@Sound7heWarCry Жыл бұрын
​@@peterwilliams6361 could possibly be just a scam. Please be careful
@jizzleman8378
@jizzleman8378 Жыл бұрын
Bro snap out of it your stronger than that your too good for her
@cedricnicholson7446
@cedricnicholson7446 Жыл бұрын
I’m a certified professional coach and I’ll tell any man to never go back unless it’s just for fun. There’s a good chance that she has stepped out with someone and is trying to come back after realizing that she got played. Don’t be a simp and allow her to come back. There’s more out there and more than one person you can love. Just move on and become the best you possible for the next relationship.
@daddyshark
@daddyshark Жыл бұрын
I really doubt the kind of coach you are. How do you know s/he didn't leave because you were too needy or clingy or didn't have a goal in your life?
@nathanmgumba1752
@nathanmgumba1752 Жыл бұрын
​@@daddysharki agree with him. Partner of 6 years stepped out on me, 6 months of no contacts she decides to reach out, whilst shes in that very same mans house btw. Saying it just isnt the same, can we meet up for "closure" etc, Completely delusional. Focus on yourself and never take an unfaithful woman back. Period.
@cdrmt3229
@cdrmt3229 11 ай бұрын
Agree. I lived it. Any vvoman I used to be involved with would come back. It’s fun catching up. But throw them back after a short term. The only time i took someone back it was a Sh*t show. She was disrespectful, unkind and entitled. I had to walk away after a very bad extended period
@unk77nown77
@unk77nown77 10 ай бұрын
Dating bf and girlfriend I agree but when a family is involved and you have kids together the dynamic is changed.
@AlessandroGenTLe
@AlessandroGenTLe Жыл бұрын
I think the main question is: "Is it a good thing to get her back?". Because sometimes the breakup is, after coping with it and overtaking the grieve, a blessing, if you look at it with proper logic and not with your emotions...
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Not all the time its a great thing to get an ex back. It all depends on the relationship, if your both willing to grow, and the reason for the breakup :-)
@DemocracyFirst2025
@DemocracyFirst2025 2 ай бұрын
@@ApolloniaPontiare you related to Luis Guzman?
@ThorfinnSkullsplitter-fz7ff
@ThorfinnSkullsplitter-fz7ff Жыл бұрын
I personally know several cases where wives walked out of good marriages with good men with little or no warning, and for no reason (infidelity, abuse or some such). The cost, not just the emotional, but the financial costs were huge. And the suffering the children went through was and is also huge.
@baldersn4474
@baldersn4474 Жыл бұрын
Ah the female Narcissist...
@marcoi7035
@marcoi7035 Жыл бұрын
they got bored
@ThorfinnSkullsplitter-fz7ff
@ThorfinnSkullsplitter-fz7ff Жыл бұрын
@@marcoi7035 Bored is not a valid reason for divorce.
@birhanjommy
@birhanjommy 10 ай бұрын
Narcissistic women sacrifice their marriage just to gain empathy and compassion from people.
@yodieman3779
@yodieman3779 8 ай бұрын
Sometimes the damage, heartbreak, and pain inflicted by both parties, even though you really do love and have feelings for each other, you know in your heart that going back is impossible as the betrayal and vindictiveness that occurred will always be there and can never really be forgiven.
@Juli-n-David
@Juli-n-David Жыл бұрын
Yesss the break up helpd me get alot of clarity on a whole lot of things
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
100% I believe no contact and breakups give us a lot of insight.
@Juli-n-David
@Juli-n-David Жыл бұрын
@Apollonia Ponti yes ma'am sure does , at the time i did all what he said an like the fighter flight mode you've spoke of an now after some help an time im able to see better an live better amen thank you Apollonia for everything you continue to do Happy Early Easter ‼️
@Jumpmaster1990
@Jumpmaster1990 Жыл бұрын
My divorce taught me a lot about relationships. There's no advantage for a man to get married. Women have all the cards to play At anytime they can file for divorce, take half of your assets and minimize your contact with your own children. So for me no contact is keeping her out of my life.
@nelsonmollo1892
@nelsonmollo1892 10 ай бұрын
My Relationship of 8 years ended in February.but she move on so quick with the other man and she is posting the guy.whats really sad is that i think she is been with this man during our staying together.but they deserve each other.she cheated with the guy and now they are together.i wonder what's going on in that guys mind bcz he knows he is in a relationship with the woman who cheated.
@hjb1199
@hjb1199 Жыл бұрын
So you have to break no contact?...then it is to contact the one who dumped you!!... definitely that lowers your value even more...start moving on and find someone better better who will not leave.
@mrkeitt
@mrkeitt 7 ай бұрын
I'm a mere 13 days of NC and me and my ex gf slept together 2 weeks ago and ended on amicable terms. When I saw her last she said her daughters and best friend said she should get back with me. We were in a serious relationship for 2.5 years and it ended due to trivial matters and disagreeing on certain things way too much. I miss her alot. But being she broke up with me , she has to reach out. She said there is NOBODY ELSE and I believe her because she is honest and brutally honest sometimes. I definitely added value to her life and her family liked me. I pray she returns after some time apart.
@vladsciencedrums
@vladsciencedrums 7 ай бұрын
Same boat as you. 2.5 years we were great but I know the flaws I had and said I’d work on them. But it is what it is. She has to reach out…
@91Wildcat700
@91Wildcat700 6 ай бұрын
Same here man we slept together and then she told me she wanted a break later that night, her family told her not to and still say they miss me.
@shog7396
@shog7396 Жыл бұрын
She decided to end the relationship yesterday. We’ve been together for 7 months. Twas okay at first but we started having arguments. All minor issues. But she started distancing. I asked her several times and she kept telling me it’s nothing. So now she wants us to be friends. She said we are better off as friends. She’s a single mother of two. I have a very strong bond with the kids already. This is so hard for me.
@ronaldclaude1892
@ronaldclaude1892 Жыл бұрын
That’s exactly what my ex told me, that we are better as friends. I’m confident that no contract is the best way to go. It really has the power to build attraction, but you have to stick to it for as long as possible. Good luck bro
@deefoodachill2150
@deefoodachill2150 Жыл бұрын
That’s why you don’t date single mothers lol. Can almost guarantee you she went back to their father. They have a bond that you will never be able to compete with.
@TheAzureSpirit
@TheAzureSpirit Жыл бұрын
Omg never take single mother unless her husband died and thats the resdon she is single. She already made a mistake before so let her enjoy it.
@3-dreticle826
@3-dreticle826 Жыл бұрын
She did you favor. Who the hell wanna take care of 2 kids that ain’t yours. 😂 congratulations. Time heals all wounds 💯.
@gainzevolution5041
@gainzevolution5041 Жыл бұрын
Bro heal
@juangarciasotelo6505
@juangarciasotelo6505 8 ай бұрын
This one hit Hard “ No contact is more than a communication strategy , it’s a mind set of pulling away & focusing on you “ 9:19
@rayromo7222
@rayromo7222 Жыл бұрын
Don't look back, your not going that way
@Judymum
@Judymum Жыл бұрын
To be honest messaging DR OLOMOOBA was the best choice I have ever made…Thanks for bringing back my ex lover
@Juli-n-David
@Juli-n-David Жыл бұрын
Oh lord i needed this 3 years ago however everything he said is the truth now i stand back an realize I was trippin an doing better now but initially i was outta there
@michaelkittyle1511
@michaelkittyle1511 Жыл бұрын
This is so difficult. My relationship ended 2 weeks ago after 2 years living together. She was reluctant to start with me because I am 20 years older. She required distance a couple times during the relationship for a few days. The trigger seemed to be when our friends got engaged (3 couples got engaged during our time together). The break-up occurred during our first counseling session where we were going to work on tools for her to coup with the age gap. The love and connection was over the top which is what makes this so difficult. Facts: I am 62 year old male in great shape. She is 41 trying to get her her business off the ground (a lot of stress) and her family is not supporting the age gap. I am working to get my mind off this!
@michaelbodie1970
@michaelbodie1970 Жыл бұрын
Good luck…. I’m in a similar boat and it ain’t great.
@JDoomhauer87
@JDoomhauer87 Жыл бұрын
I didn’t understand what “no contact” was for a year ago. Moving forward I will use it to my advantage. My ex gf put me on the spot when she broke up with me, I was napping after working 10 days straight and she broke up With me via text then woke me up to see if I got her text.
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 Жыл бұрын
Toxic woman mess with men’s head. Healthy Woman wouldn’t mess with your head. Simple
@silvermine2033
@silvermine2033 Жыл бұрын
In my experience, I’ve found that if a woman is extremely attractive that no contact doesn’t work as she has endless options and a lot of male orbiters to choose from. I just move on!
@MRSTEEL15
@MRSTEEL15 Жыл бұрын
It's because, It wasn't meant to be
@silvermine2033
@silvermine2033 Жыл бұрын
@@MRSTEEL15 I agree. That’s why I just move on. I did have one come back to me 8 years later wanting to reconnect LOL
@MRSTEEL15
@MRSTEEL15 Жыл бұрын
@@silvermine2033 Never GO BACK! EVER!
@silvermine2033
@silvermine2033 Жыл бұрын
@@MRSTEEL15 I didn’t. I thanked her for her apology, but politely declined to reconnect.
@MRSTEEL15
@MRSTEEL15 Жыл бұрын
@@silvermine2033 id block her on all devices
@domingodeanda233
@domingodeanda233 Жыл бұрын
If it didn't work out the first time (along with therapy) you are done, it will not work out the 2nd time
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Correct not all cases are meant to be.
@KINGxDAVID94
@KINGxDAVID94 Жыл бұрын
My situation at this moment: I asked my ex for an item I left at her house Tuesday she didn’t respond for 3 days, I went no contact during these days after I asked. Today she calls, I don’t answer. She says “I’ll just keep it then”. She calls a second time. I don’t answer, she says I’m about to pull up. In the past she used this tactic to get me to respond she doesn’t even know if I’m home. It might turn ugly
@jermainepatterson3213
@jermainepatterson3213 Жыл бұрын
Epic content as always always like listen so i dont ever get caught slipping U saving people again appolonia
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Appreciate you!
@tedrodriguez3856
@tedrodriguez3856 2 ай бұрын
My girlfriend called me after we were together for a year and told me she doesn't want to see me again, and not to call or text. I don't know what happened I thought everything was going good. I was devastated! Can you please tell me what you think about this?
@siphoxulu9233
@siphoxulu9233 Жыл бұрын
My 2 favorite coaches 🎉
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Awesome!!! :-)
@Devin-ATL
@Devin-ATL 5 ай бұрын
Thank you so much for this advice!!!🙏🏽
@droflivelife
@droflivelife Жыл бұрын
4 months no contact done perfectly as suggested with my DA ex yet she never reached out. Definitely doesn't always work to have them reach out. Only good to help you heal but I'm still traumatised.
@countdowntorevolution9986
@countdowntorevolution9986 Жыл бұрын
yeap, it absolutely sucks doesn't it? (NC doesn't always bring them back)
@kazykamakaze131
@kazykamakaze131 Жыл бұрын
NC doesn't work on DA's they are generally broken people and tend to also be those with the most trauma. Never go back for a DA as I can bet you now within a few days after you broke up they were in bed with someone else as they are broken and broken people break people, stay away and thank the universe it didn't work out.
@markshedrawy9447
@markshedrawy9447 Жыл бұрын
This is exceptional information thank you.
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Glad it was helpful!
@RobertLoyale
@RobertLoyale 10 ай бұрын
I started no contact with my ex and she started coming hard. But she don’t want a relationship right now 😮‍💨 so weird
@karmaking1263
@karmaking1263 Жыл бұрын
Great guest advice
@4d.4c.4b4
@4d.4c.4b4 Жыл бұрын
I am that woman who finds NC not easy and currently finding it really hard and we weren't even dating - just been chatting for over 3 months then after 1 date that seemed to have gone so well even him texted later that 'he wanted more of that feeling' but me with a habit of too long expressive texts I believe I put him off :( Why do I feel so heartbroken when we were not even officially dating??? Does this make me insane and naive???
@MRSTEEL15
@MRSTEEL15 Жыл бұрын
Insecurities and neediness are the main issues. 99.999999% of all breakups are because IT WASN'T MEANT TO BE........The universe brings us together with someone for a brief period of time, for whatever reason it has. Once the Universe feels ITS TIME to split and move on? Things will start to shake things up. A spiritual person can see this and just go with the flow. Once the first break up happens? There's no turning back. Don't look into the rearview mirror of life......Full steam ahead and into the next Karmic Debt and so on............Of course it's easier said than done. But this is how life works The Dali Rick 😊
@norswil8763
@norswil8763 11 ай бұрын
If you don't look into the rear view mirror of life how do you hope to learn anything from your mistakes? Sounds like I should be blaming the universe for making my girl run instead.
@MRSTEEL15
@MRSTEEL15 11 ай бұрын
@@norswil8763 It means to not go back where you came from. Toxic Relationships, Toxic friendships, Toxic Jobs...etc.....let it go and move on....
@norswil8763
@norswil8763 11 ай бұрын
@@MRSTEEL15 if it's toxic then I agree, but that's not always the case. If you did try again with a willing dedicated partner, and it did work you'd have to agree it was meant to be.
@danieltrottier8599
@danieltrottier8599 Жыл бұрын
Find your purpose
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 Жыл бұрын
More then just that
@danieltrottier8599
@danieltrottier8599 Жыл бұрын
@@TomFox1 what else?
@JIYADY
@JIYADY Жыл бұрын
Any girl who breaks up with you does not deserve you. Leave her be and move on… Don’t try to get her back for any reason. If she’s on the fence about both of you, forget her totally….
@norswil8763
@norswil8763 11 ай бұрын
Sounds like some petty pride thing, you can keep fking up relationships or fix your flaws. If you screw up a happy, otherwise healthy relationship with a compatible hottie and you have the chance to get your head straight and gain some clarity you'd be a fool to apply your policy.
@bjiwuoha
@bjiwuoha Жыл бұрын
Powerful video. Thank you for this guys
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Thank you for your comment! Glad you liked this video.
@jehan_7550
@jehan_7550 Жыл бұрын
Yes im experiencing a lot of break up with my LDR for almost 5years. Hard now cause we meet in person and now he's back to his live in partner and we're still connected in social media. My case is im with him and he is suffering from mental illness. How can I walk away from this complicated relationship though I always want to help him.. please advise. Thank you 🙏
@avelathulanintsangani746
@avelathulanintsangani746 Жыл бұрын
Love your work guys
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
Thanks so much!
@millwallfan06
@millwallfan06 Жыл бұрын
I had a 9 year relationship. And had two kids with the girl. And she went cold One day. And I found out she was cheating on me for Over a year. I went mad! Called her every name under the sun. The tears everything. Then 3 weeks later, we started flirting. Got On and I moved back in. Then a month later she went cold again. I then started the grieving process and admitting it was over! THEN, 3 weeks later she started flirting with me.. the girl just doesn’t know what she wants. Does anyone have any ideas on what to do here? Or even what the hell she’s playing at. I’ve gone no contact from the last break. Has that played with her mind?
@hm_nn_5633
@hm_nn_5633 Жыл бұрын
The BIG question is - Is it worth to take her back? No contact or otherwise.
@yonypanofsky2763
@yonypanofsky2763 9 ай бұрын
This is the real truth
@lparra51
@lparra51 6 ай бұрын
Red flags had me tell her no more
@mgway4661
@mgway4661 Жыл бұрын
I want her back so bad. I messed up, I cheated. I’m committed to change but she does not believe that I can
@kazykamakaze131
@kazykamakaze131 Жыл бұрын
Move on, cheating is a one way road, it destroys everything. Be an adult and move on.
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 Жыл бұрын
Her Loss - Drake
@91Wildcat700
@91Wildcat700 6 ай бұрын
How do you break no contact in a non threatening way without putting them on a pedestal? Do you basically just ask them how they have been?
@mrreddington777
@mrreddington777 6 ай бұрын
I’m sorry but if a woman says she is done it’s not up to me to win her back. I shouldn’t have to sell myself to get her back. Yesterday my gf decided to break up after SHE was rude and disrespectful to me just because I wanted to discuss I was feeling like i was being taken for granted. She was like it seems that your issues and the problems going on are because of her. I said ok. Let me know when you want to pick up your things. She assumed I was going to beg and cry. She has been pulling the threatening to break up crap for a month and I always reached out. Not this time. Now she’s spending her whole time trying to get my attention by changing the background on our DMs…etc
@TheFiestyhick
@TheFiestyhick Жыл бұрын
Good details
@williamhayes981
@williamhayes981 Жыл бұрын
"What to do when she breaks up with you" ? Umm, move on....like why wouldn't you unless you want her back. And, why would you want her back when she broke up with you? Straight forward questions.
@Hello-hellowearethebillyboys
@Hello-hellowearethebillyboys 11 ай бұрын
Which stage am I at in my mind? Genuine question, 17 years together over 6 married. I was 40 In January my wife went in for major surgery on my birthday and she messaged me saying happy birthday love you all I told her I loved her then a week later I was asking what she wanted and she said she needed space etc and I probs annoyed her keeping asking his can you not know what you want then I sent her 1 last message saying I’ll leave you alone now you won’t hear from me and deleted everything we don’t do a lot of social media so every single thing was deleted and I kept to NC then out the blue she asked me to go to a wedding with her I kept to NC and a couple other questions I kept to NC then she was going on about going to her friends wedding and I said no. She hasn’t officially finished with me as in said that’s it she’s just asking me questions now and again and I keep the answers very short and always respond when it’s to do with kids. I’m at the stage I don’t know if I even want to be with her now but she’s on my mind all the time. I’m so confused it’s unbelievable. Any help is greatly welcomed.
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 Жыл бұрын
How you read my heart? 🙏😔
@artemvsoloviev
@artemvsoloviev Жыл бұрын
What if we separated end of Aug 2022 and she started dating someone in Oct/Nov 2022, then left him and came back to me end of Nov, and now she left me for the same guy again end of Feb 2023 ? And she tells me that she wants me to leave her alone and never wants to be with me. Is it still possible for us to be together ? (When we have 2 kids together)
@Erik7prc
@Erik7prc Жыл бұрын
You should ask yourself why you don't mind being a woman's #2. Don't let any woman toy with your emotions. When she went back to you, you proved to her that when it gets rough with the other guy, she can always run back to you for emotional, physical support, and that you'll still be there waiting......like you are now. Has it occurred to you this is probably a blessing? She's showing you all the red flags in the clear day and you are still willing to be with her Don't use the kids as an excuse for someone to treat you like shit chief
@larryhurley2314
@larryhurley2314 Жыл бұрын
You need to RUN !!!!
@Anon-qp3kt
@Anon-qp3kt Жыл бұрын
She keeps monkey branching because no contact worked the first time but Idk if your behavior changed enough for her
@jeffnfbg15
@jeffnfbg15 Жыл бұрын
Question, what if we are in the no contact not because we fell out of love, but she was emotionally unavailable due to past trauma from her ex that she still has to deal with because of thier child? Should I ever break the no contact to see how she is doing? She broke it once in the first week, apologizing how she was in such a dark place and missed me.
@danyghaziri3048
@danyghaziri3048 Жыл бұрын
i wonder what happened in your case? i am living the same one....
@jorgeromero7532
@jorgeromero7532 Жыл бұрын
Im confused with one thing now.. its the NO CONTACT RULE.. which technically suppose to create attraction.. but then he said "if you're not talking you're probably not gonna get back together"
@Anon-qp3kt
@Anon-qp3kt Жыл бұрын
The no contact rule is to build mystery, create fear of missing out, create fear of loss etc. You then use that time to rebuild yourself back to be better especially become 10X better. When she gets curious, she'll want to see you and that's when she realized you were always the one.
@cj_8686
@cj_8686 9 ай бұрын
@apolloinaponti My now ex wife uncle death anniversary and her grand mother passing are this week and next.. I'm in limited contact because we have kids.. should I reach out or stay in no contact??
@kristahunter1588
@kristahunter1588 Жыл бұрын
Economicism isn't just about the opposite sex relationships or love relationships. Narcissism can be friendships. Family problems, co-worker problems, and boss, problems as well as lovers. I just wanted to state that there was way too much narcissism between man and woman videos. You need to start exposing more friendship. Narcissistic problems and possibly more workplace, narcissistic problems. And family narcissistic problems. And romantic narcissistic problems. It's the romantic and the family ones that you hear the most about. You never hear about the workplace hardly and you don't ever hear about friendships. There needs to be more of that.
@alvonblair4251
@alvonblair4251 Жыл бұрын
Coach Adrian/Appolonia! Does this information also apply in a LDR friendzone situation? She was interested in a romantic relationship at one point,then I started becoming clingy/needy at one point,she pulled away,and lost interest
@godstimegolding9484
@godstimegolding9484 10 ай бұрын
How were you able to sort this out man....???
@garychen9831
@garychen9831 Жыл бұрын
What if we broke up (she left) and I kept in touch with her. It's been little over a month since the break up. We still hang out and talk. Would this work if I stopped contacting her or is it too late to reconcile?
@kazykamakaze131
@kazykamakaze131 Жыл бұрын
The staying friends after breakup is for a woman to cope, they use you for attention and think it lets you off easier so they don't feel guilty. You can't be friends if you dated romantically, once that barrier was crossed you can't go back. It's not healthy to keep in contact unless they are trying to get back together which in most cases is not happening. Go no contact and dethatch from your ex partner and focus your energy back on yourself to prepare and build yourself for the next person. Nothing worse than a person stringing you along because they are emotionally immature.
@ThorfinnSkullsplitter-fz7ff
@ThorfinnSkullsplitter-fz7ff Жыл бұрын
Apollonia, There is a lot of good info on your videos. However, I wish you would address the damage that 3rd, now going on 4th, wave Feminism is doing to family formation, marriage formation and the building of healthy male-female relationships. It is extremely risky today for a man to marry. Women are incented to walk away from marriages by just the way society has become structured.
@florinaldea7094
@florinaldea7094 11 ай бұрын
no contact and ignoring are the same things?
@x.__animefreak_1216
@x.__animefreak_1216 4 ай бұрын
Hello..I'm new here..I tried this no contact..Just 2days now.. she asked for space andI haven't contacted my gf..but she keeps sending my reels on Instagram what do I do?
@APBGOLF
@APBGOLF Жыл бұрын
I did all the wrong things😂
@marguskiis7711
@marguskiis7711 7 ай бұрын
NC never works actually.
@smiley-qb3nt
@smiley-qb3nt Жыл бұрын
This happened to me dating a girl about a month she was so into me but then I text her to much and called one day . Abd I think I looked needy then she said few day later she wasn't intetested anymore . She blocked my number after bc I told her ok that's fine but I wanted tocall her. I'm hoping to try this
@Anon-qp3kt
@Anon-qp3kt Жыл бұрын
You were probably a rebound
@alballplaya
@alballplaya Жыл бұрын
I feel like anyone who has been with someone for over a year and have to result to “no contact “ to try to get them back are selfish as hell , the hell I want someone back who doesn’t want to work with me and leaves ? fuck em
@FABBYFLAME
@FABBYFLAME Жыл бұрын
my gf and i broke up 1 week ago cuz of long distance, she is in a new city new study, (its only 2 years then she is back here) trying to get new friends etc and said distance with me and with all that going on for her is just to much for her, she wants to be able to just walk to my house spontaniuslly she said and with a flight distance between us that is not possobile..we both stil love eachother, i miss her like crazy,she said she needed a bit space to figure things out there.... any tips? is it over for good, should i move on?
@juanyanez755
@juanyanez755 10 ай бұрын
update? im in the same situation
@FABBYFLAME
@FABBYFLAME 10 ай бұрын
@@juanyanez755 it didnt work out brother…2 years is a long time :// i still think about her
@ogdeuce4934
@ogdeuce4934 5 ай бұрын
She left me over chicken i cook and i never chase her she dont even got a phone every now and then she will text me or call me she told me somebody told her i was looking for her i told her i dont chase no body im trying to get a bag and she stop calling me
@TheColtonStreeter
@TheColtonStreeter Жыл бұрын
If we can't discuss what happened or what went wrong then what is the point?
@CrazyApprentices
@CrazyApprentices Жыл бұрын
I'm going through a break up and I think I've realised that part of it is realising yourself what went wrong rather than relying on them telling you because that'll put them off
@mytravelogue404
@mytravelogue404 Жыл бұрын
First one to comment 😅
@marcos3874
@marcos3874 Жыл бұрын
What if my ex asked for us not to contact each other?
@kazykamakaze131
@kazykamakaze131 Жыл бұрын
Then don't contact her, she has expressed she doesn't want you in her life. Most probable case is she found someone else probably while you were still together(i know it sucks) and wants you out of the picture to focus on that person as you bring guilt back for them as they are reminded of what they did. Do you really want to be with a person that does not want you?...No, have self respect, suck it up and use your energy on yourself. It gets significantly better with time especially once the rose tinted glasses come off. For me if the case makes sense she left me for someone else, I would lose ALL respect for her and wouldn't want her back knowing she was with someone else already after me, but that's just me, but makes moving on a LOT easier.
@TheAce1991x
@TheAce1991x Жыл бұрын
Been hurt for a week after my breakup from my gf over a text message from a woman way back in december but wasn't that serious. She felt crushed tried to get together with her ex who is my best friend and have sex but we still talked for about four days she told me she is moving to ny. She tells me im gonna text u in the am. Welp no text around 3pm that next day and was told she is dating another guy out there.
@caliboyz8314
@caliboyz8314 Жыл бұрын
Hardest part 😔
@minimalism-freedom
@minimalism-freedom Жыл бұрын
As a very good woman, your comment after 9-45! Also wondering how a woman feels when a beta guy starts doing this? If it's not a relationship, just a friend zone? What does a woman feel? That you don't care about me? Did he go off to do his own thing? Am I not important anymore? Are you starting to see him as a man? Is this attractive in all cases? Or does it just make you curious as to why this is? There are many videos about getting out of the friend zone, but not enough about how a woman feels when that happens?? Many people would be interested in this, what is going on inside you!!
@ijam1729
@ijam1729 Жыл бұрын
Will it work if she lost feelings before breaking up in the first place?
@kazykamakaze131
@kazykamakaze131 Жыл бұрын
No it won't as what will she miss if you don't reach out? It's the same when you spoke to a woman then realized you don't like her and stopped talking, do you miss that woman? No because you have no feelings for them.
@tijansanyang7975
@tijansanyang7975 Жыл бұрын
how to reply a girl who say she doesn't have feelings right now
@TomFox1
@TomFox1 Жыл бұрын
watch video.
@mary_canary
@mary_canary Жыл бұрын
Give it time. She might have said it in anger, some time will pass and she might change her mind.
@killakilla1038
@killakilla1038 Жыл бұрын
Don't even respond to her and go ghost on her. Hit the gym, buy clothes, upgrade yourself! She will be back to you within a month
@JohnM...
@JohnM... Жыл бұрын
@@killakilla1038 This!!
@mirapilates
@mirapilates Жыл бұрын
Had a DA with serious abondonment issues tell me "Im done this isnt going to work out" . Sounded quite final. I think she sees no contact as a game of chicken. To reach out after a few months sounds like she will take satisfaction on going silent. She is extremely stubborn and uses silence as a weapon.
@brianwaller7383
@brianwaller7383 Жыл бұрын
This is why you never put her on a pedestal and make her the center of your life. If she goes no contact then view it as her loss and move on. I have zero tolerance for ghosting. You ghost me you’re gone no exceptions
@collettekingrodriguez4492
@collettekingrodriguez4492 Жыл бұрын
Hi, I do not want to contact her. She dumped me I want her to contact me.
@risevision1080
@risevision1080 Жыл бұрын
Which is very uhm considering you're situation two women with the same values and outlooks on life it won't happen, all I'm gonna say is welcome to mens world. Men always have to break no contact because women don't, trust me it will be a very long time if she does even consider breaking it. Women rarely break it, I'm going through it where she took a social media break and cut me off and broke up with me but I know I'm not some dog on a leash and won't feed her ego boost, eif she doesn't come back that's it. I'm not xhasing
@JoeM370
@JoeM370 Жыл бұрын
This content is splendid. A book that covered these topics reshaped my entire outlook. "The Art of Saying No: Mastering Boundaries for a Fulfilling Life" by Samuel Dawn
@fitforfreelance
@fitforfreelance Жыл бұрын
This expertise 😚🤌🏾
@UmaRichmond
@UmaRichmond Жыл бұрын
O wow
@Oddduck39
@Oddduck39 Жыл бұрын
15 women to one man, just keep moving forward and dont look in that rear view mirror😊.
@daymeonsmith5442
@daymeonsmith5442 Жыл бұрын
The never break up with me to love I can give to you
@daymeonsmith5442
@daymeonsmith5442 Жыл бұрын
You'll love me forever
@vinnybambam
@vinnybambam 11 ай бұрын
Where’s the advice on how to break no contact
@cinegoer9220
@cinegoer9220 Жыл бұрын
💋😘💋😘💋👄👄💋💋😘
@baldersn4474
@baldersn4474 Жыл бұрын
Didnt know Bill Cosby was doing dating advice ?
@baldersn4474
@baldersn4474 11 ай бұрын
@@billy77511 ha ha ha
@anthonyr7208
@anthonyr7208 Жыл бұрын
You disappear
@pigslefats
@pigslefats Жыл бұрын
8:07 "This man can provide for me." And that's the crux. The man who fits the bill is the man who pays the bill. Always been and always will be. I'll take a pass on that! And men in general are also taking a pass-check out the record low marriage rates. Women bleat about no decent men ie no men willing to provide a free meal ticket. Pump and Dump!
@JohnM...
@JohnM... Жыл бұрын
Someone I knew in my former word dumped her husband after starting college, then met another man ‘not long after’ , moved in with him, and has lived rent free with him while attending university. It’s my opinion she’s just using him until she graduates.
@pigslefats
@pigslefats Жыл бұрын
@@JohnM... Yep. Monkey brancher alert
@gouravsapra8142
@gouravsapra8142 Жыл бұрын
Absolute fake information
@michaelpiwcewicz1412
@michaelpiwcewicz1412 8 ай бұрын
GO OUT WITH HER FRIEND WHIO HAS A CAR AND GAS MONEY// SHE CAN START COLLECTING CATS EARLY/NOW NO ONE WANTS HER//
@cocobolo_chris
@cocobolo_chris Жыл бұрын
This video is gold! Thank you so so much!
@ApolloniaPonti
@ApolloniaPonti Жыл бұрын
You're so welcome! Glad you enjoyed it. :-)
@Leandros-Lounge
@Leandros-Lounge Жыл бұрын
@@ApolloniaPonti I have a question for you well first of all I’m thinking about signing up to your program. But my question is my ex girlfriend says she needs space to heal and so do I but let’s say that she gets the space that she needs during no contact and she find someone else. What do I do?
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