【Apple】Future father in law judges me as a wimp for taking him to a cafe. So we decide to go…

[@jharris3267]

I thought her dad was lying but I can’t see that if anything he understated it.She is abusive and you can’t please an abuser you need to leave.

[@user-hr5pc3rt2n]

Dear old dad is a neanderthal and Emily is heading that way very quickly.. Hubs needs to get the hell out. 55:01

[@shaundagaffney8335]

My husband is very masculine but he's still very loving, kind and compassionate. He's been my rock and has taken care of me our whole marriage. I'm disabled and bed ridden now. I have been disabled since we met and he does everything from cooking to dishes to laundry.

[@Allie_phelps]

My husband is the same way, very masculine but extremely warm and loving with our kids, our families, and myself. I think there’s a very big difference between masculine and toxic masculinity. People have forgotten that though and just blame masculinity for all the wrong with man. It’s funny because my husband is a state trooper and most of our friends in the same field are the same very masculine but very loving. I’m so sorry to hear you are bedridden but I’m very thankful you have a husband that loves and cares for you so much. I truly hope you are doing good. It sounds like you’ve been blessed with an awesome, loving, amazing husband and him an awesome, amazing, loving wife. Cherish each other because you are both blessed to have each other. When I was in a car accident that broke my back and was paralyzed from the waist down, my husband was there pushing me every step of the way (in an extremely loving and supportive way). Thankful with MANY, MANY back surgeries, a year in the hospital and a year in rehab, I was able to learn to walk again, but I don’t know if I would’ve been able to do it without the love, support, and pushing to do better from my husband. He wouldn’t have cared if I was in a wheelchair for the rest of my life, he just knew how badly I wanted to be able to walk again and be able to do with out then 5 year old daughter. My husband is my everything and I’m so thankful he is the way he is.

[@macgrad1]

@@Allie_phelps, my husband and I have been married for fifty-four years and dated for four years before getting married. He did everything in the house as well, or better than I did. I went to university once our three children were in elementary school and my husband took over most household chores and took the kids on outings and spent a lot of time with them so I could study and write papers. He was an engineer and then in management and he did whatever he could to mentor and support younger female engineers and managers at a time when females in those professions were still given a rough time. He taught Sunday school for young people, was involved with scouting when our sons and daughter were involved, and was the most honest, faithful, and honourable man I knew. At the same time, he was definitely masculine. There are some jerks out there and they shouldn’t be tolerated but many men get lumped in together as jerks, just because they are male. Also, too many good men get overlooked by women who are more into bad boys.

[@gidgemo1869]

He should be “grateful” for the existence of divorce lawyers. Emily is worse than her horrible father.

[@GAMMAGOMA]

10 beers in one hour?! I can only handle about 5 before the room starts spinning and that's while nursing them for a bit with some food and having an Irishman's tolerance. This FIL is insane for putting this poor guy through that. No wonder he puked his guts out.

[@kelleywheeler7980]

Poor Sam. Insulted by the dad and abused by Emily

[@shadowki5687]

All these "real men" types always think they're the king of the world and deserve to be respected no matter what

[@markmcelroy8722]

Abusers come in all genders and colors. It's very akin to Prejudice everyone has their own.

[@GAMMAGOMA]

@markmcelroy8722 the difference is how much their prejudice runs their life. As a Wiccan, I don't like the hypocrisy of the church, but if they don't give me any grief or try to convert me, I have no problem hanging out with catholics, mormons, or anyone who's faith is tied to the church.

[@meztlistormheart2636]

I've dealt with so many abusive women. I actually started working with female abuse survivors... I started working with male ones just about the time I realized who the real abusers in my family were. Fast forward a decade or two. I've probably helped more men than women at this point, or same sex relationships. I'm kind of happy to see people talking about female perpetrated abuse more often

[@EricaHelms-w7g]

Yet another overprotective/toxic father that ruined a relationship due to toxic masculinity and ignorance. Get with the times, you old farts. Trying to be manly ruins lives. And you up and ruined your life and your daughter's life. Funny how they often downgrade, huh?

[@GAMMAGOMA]

Last time I checked, being an asshole wasn't strictly a male trait. At the same time, I do agree with you on some degree that times have changed. Personaly, I work in construction for a living and write as a hobby (hoping to turn profession). On top of that, I work out, have a responsible drinking habit, practice kickboxing, and keep the house in order. Most of these things are traditionally masculine things and I have no desire to be an asshole to others. Heck, I couldn't give any less of a damn what other people do, so long as it doesn't adversely affect me.

[@420alltime]

You over look the facts, SHE CHEATED ON HER HUSBAND

[@EricaHelms-w7g]

@420alltime I ain't. That is awful as well. Her dad may have been the one to brainwash her into hating her husband it was her choice at the end of the day to cheat. And she essentially downgraded. So it was her own fault at the end. She chose to cheat, and she paid the price.

[@FeralPreacher]

The first conversation he had with Emily showed there are major red flags with her. I would be saying bye with her attitude and demeanor. From the FIL to be to the wife to be there is toxicity and arrogance. There will be no partnership if the marriage happens.

[@lucyhearts472]

My thoughts exactly

[@Mama_of_a_dragon]

Why on earth is he arguing with him? Just nod at lot and move on, don't bother to take him out again, and he doesn't need to impress him or get his approval.

[@leeannsampson6050]

Good Evening to Everyone from here in Tennessee! 👋

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Good evening Leeann! Have a good night 👋🤗

[@leeannsampson6050]

@@bridgetdebourgh5698 I hope you enjoy your night Bridget!👋

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

@@leeannsampson6050 I got my belly full and watching a movie with the four year old. It's a good night. Enjoy your night 👋🤗

[@bridgetdebourgh5698]

Good evening everyone and have a relaxing evening 👋🤗 From Louisiana 🐊

[@angelynnjensen]

I like the long format, but the FIL being a jerk and then the wife being SUCH a total egomaniacal putz is too much. I’ve never personally met anyone as ridiculous and selfishly rude as Emily. Why would they marry if she had such disdain for her husband? With characters like these, get frustrated and fast forward to get past the vindictive jerkism. I love these most of the time but…

[@LoveOnTheInsidex3]

I believe the right term is tuckered out.

[@StoopidMonkeysMomma]

Thank you!!!

[@tumiemat]

😂😂😂😂Wait!!!! Wait a minute!! Emily lied to her dad??? All this while I assumed her dad was the problem. I've been mad at the FIL for no reason...

[@Mehp2]

Aaaaand the guy is talking to himself

[@rvndmnmt1]

I was in the Navy and 10 beers an hour is excessive. Like pass out drunk, puking all over the place excessive at best. In the hospital for alcohol poisoning at worst. What is this sorcery?

[@happydoots382]

A ‘real’ man that can take care of not just themselves but their family in whatever way they’re good at is the best kinda man. Same with women.

[@carlosalbertomendes4636]

Here in Brazil we called... The apple doesn't fall far from the tree...... The father and his daughter are in the same bag....

[@t3ddyRa3]

Idk why they mentioned he's paying child support if he knew he wasn't the dad...wtf...some continuity

[@danielabolivar1761]

Good story!!!

[@Arthur09608]

1:15:44 .... Sooo... Your greatest aspiration for your daughter was, not for her to be a strong, independent individual, but for her to be a gold-digging leach? To not go out and make something of herself through her own will and effort, but to parasitize a rich guy and make him do everything? Some father....

[@stacy4530]

Run and get the divorce papers. Emily is a crappy person and her dad too.

[@Madhattergal]

I am sorry was he suppose to take you to a shooting range or a place where you throw axes at the wall? Your meeting the in laws for the first time you want to take them to a place where you can oh I don't know HEAR EACH OTHER TALK!!!

[@beingalittleextra]

The transphobia and misogyny was super loud in the first 10 minutes! Wow!

[@dragonfire300]

I never understood the “real man/alpha male” mentality

[@songbyrd0001]

This story was drawn out way too long.

[@sonjafe]

It would be really nice if they could keep the names straight. 🙄

[@ghostsquad410]

The title of the video confuses me with the actual video

[@Rynigin]

Not trying to be sexist of anything and I'm not laughing at the dead. But across this country there have been so many stories of people who have died and firewomen who either died or got really hurt just because they physically couldn't do the job a guy should have been there to do. Women's Equal Rights go so far until how many people die? You want to be a fire woman, great. Nobody has a problem with that. Please don't try to rescue a 250-300 pound guy by yourself. And then the other firemen have to go and rescue the victim and the firewoman and put themselves in danger too.

[@meztlistormheart2636]

I think it honestly depends on the woman, but they need to know their limits. Before I was in a construction accident, I could have handled it, but these days I know better. I was competing with men most of my life, though. I consider it more of an exception than anything. If a person isn't ready, prepared and trained to do a heavy labor and lifting job, that's absolutely not what they need to do. Meanwhile, I blame myself for trusting my guy to secure the ladder and not double-checking. It only takes one mistake no matter how well prepared you are.

[@dragonyami]

Ugh. Another story that really REALLY didn't need to be this long! There's so much repetitive conversations! It's boring!! Honestly I'm just going to start automatically disliking these long ones and skipping them.

[@Ronin.Samurai]

The video/story is completely fine. You’re just a butthurt snowflake who doesn’t know how to be grateful for what you get. Go watch a different channel and get lost.

[@irisandu2]

Too long

[@marylynne9104]

Boring repetitious tripe. 20 minutes in, and it was all said in the first two minutes. I’m out!

[@Ronin.Samurai]

Good, get lost. This channel doesn’t need butthurt snowflakes like you.