【Apple】Future MIL refuses to let me marry her son until I show her my bank statements.

[@donnaosgood9959]

I had a mother in law like this. She demanded my/our bankbook while husband was working. I told her no. I ended up divorced 6 months later. Best thing to ever happen to me!

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

I love this voice actress, she's absolutely brilliant!!

[@conjumonblue6450]

She is one of my favorites.

[@D-Dollie]

Come to the hair salon and shopping with me doesn’t mean you are paying. Future MIL invited her and then expected her to pay!!!

[@Sammy-Ambriz]

It’s always funny when a momma’s boy blames mommy for being the reason why his relationship ended

[@flamelily2086]

I would have broken up with my fiancee as soon as his mother demanded that I show her my financial information. That mil is a vile woman who would make her dil's life hell. The fact that the fiancee is supporting his mother is a red flag.

[@MCBRUCE76]

Melissa still hoping to get married after the incident of Mrs. Miller asking to see her finances is a very big mistake in itself. And her fiancé justifying his mother's actions is in itself a massive red flag, which nobody could overlook.

[@mariterrones3716]

Instead of just listening her fiancee he ran to to his mother to complain and act negatively about his fiancee. And his mother is literally the gold digger in this relationship while her son is either a coconspirator, mommy's boy or someone who don't have good listening skills or just don't care.

[@samanthashaver]

Again just because you marry into a rich family it doesn't mean that money belongs to you.

[@darlap2724]

1st 🚩hair salon 2nd 🚩 lunch 3rd 🚩 dress and rest of shopping trip Final 🚩 was asking for financials I would have called everything off with the shopping spree. The future MIL is setting her up for what the son is going to be like. Momma's boy and gold diggers for sure!

[@savannahtarvin]

She must be an awful lawyer if she couldn’t even defend herself smh

[@rhio-ohki6107]

Probably in shock I know I would be if that happened to me 😂 she did treat her to the salon, but then expected her to pay 3k for a DRESS and accessories as well 😮. I'd be like a zombie trying to figure out just what happened 😂

[@nightdweller6446]

Asks to see my financials, nice to meet you and bye , I'm not the ATM you're looking for

[@glenystranter6423]

If my future MIL said for me to show her my bank statements, I would run like hell away from that relationship with her son. MIL asked future DIL to show her the bank statements so that she can leech off of her in the future.

[@marierobinson3935]

These really are my favourite story tellers👏👏

[@doylewillis9587]

Prenup

[@mariechristinecalfa122]

All they cared about was money what despicable people 😡😡

[@dionedavids531]

I wonder who the real gold digger is here😡🙄

[@glenystranter6423]

It's the mother by the sounds of it.

[@nenyaproctor1247]

If he really wants to get married, make him sign a pre nuptial contract that says he only keeps what he brings in to the family!!

[@patriciacardona1781]

He and the mom are goddiggers run!!!

[@conjumonblue6450]

If you are that concerned about marrying a gold digger, then just bring up the idea of a prenuptial agreement. Most gold diggers will run for the hills or immediately start gaslighting you.

[@crazycatladym3027]

I've never asked anybody how much they make nor do I care

[@LisaBryant-ys8wi]

Mommas boy

[@Mehp2]

Did he seriously call his mom bro?

[@Shizaya4ever]

Melissa did actually decide to pay for the hair on her own. That's the only thing I'll say

[@angelabeyer2497]

And the restaurant too

[@orgkampong]

I luv strong women who stand their ground. TQ for the story.

[@ediamondsounds]

The mil made massive mistakes and the fiance is being a jerk! Both of them are idiots!

[@amberleeannalee1999]

I’d say MIL should cough up her own financial statements before she demands OP share.

[@sharonburton4846]

Did he really call his mum “bro” .. and he was the gold digger all along !! Well you keep calling your mum bro sweetheart, you two deserve each other!!

[@susanhansen1290]

She should have said then lets do a prenup and i will put all the assets into a trust fund. In my parents names.

[@ediamondsounds]

His mom is just blurting out so inappropriate. She's out of her mind. How the heck is he not kicking her out Do a prenup u weirdos

[@lorishelton7060]

Where in the world is a perm 250?

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

Somewhere it's not dollars?

[@pamelaechevarria8080]

Tight curls and layers, depending on the country, it's definitely not in the US. That's for sure!

[@thecajunphoenix]

Nowhere any of us knows of.

[@shawnycoffman]

It's been years since I've gotten a permanent and I, too, wondered the same thing. Are they really that expensive nowadays? I got them every 6 weeks, religiously, in the '80s. And I remember spending about $30 to $35 on them. Maybe I'm just old. 😆

[@KheldarLars]

My last official one was $150

[@amberleeannalee1999]

Mil thinks DIL melissas inheritance is gonna be hers lol they are insane both son and mom

[@lorettataylor521]

I loved this story!

[@Anonymous98766-e]

News flash: Sometimes saying sorry isn’t good enough.

[@Zatnicatel]

$70 for a nail job? Jees, it's pricey in the US.

[@akehapkap6143]

Don’t think I would have commented on my boyfriend is tall to his mom. She already knows that. But, what do you say.

[@MarleneMohammed-bf6pb]

Why do she have to listen to that crap get out of the relationship run as fast as you can

[@rhio-ohki6107]

I would've gone OK I'll show you mine now you show me yours 😂😂 I bet it'll be a completely different story then

[@sherlydarby571]

Lady leave the woman and her son and look for someone who is independent because the son is just like his mother your money is yours no future husband call off the engagement

[@lindahill7315]

Good morning from Alabama. Good story

[@Ckbtony1983]

Same😂 I came to the replies to say the same thing lol

[@gdangeldth]

Oh no, just reading the comments, I’m sad he’s a mamas boy! Also, in the beginning, why didn’t Melissa stand up for herself?

[@pamelawallace9671]

Good morning from Shawnee Oklahoma

[@pamelaechevarria8080]

Why does the bride need to show her financials to his mother? Isn't it the man's job to take care of his wife, not the other way around. Favors? She's paid for your hair and your food, i think she's done done enough.

[@Ronin.Samurai]

It’s not the man’s job to take care of the wife, both of them are required to take care of each other. I make more than my husband, and yes, I’m the wife. I take care of him. He may make less than me, but he still takes care of me. Everything we do together, dates, shopping, gas for car, fun, etc., we pay 50/50. We both do chores equally, clean up after our cats, feed and water them, and change the litter box equally, and so on. It’s a two way street, not a one way street.

[@SandraMiller-zv3rf]

Anyone else find it weird that they are in the same car/room and they text each other instead of talking?

[@moniquestuckey-kirkham7762]

These stories are not text messages. They are actually having a conversation

[@ediamondsounds]

Listening and nervous. I'd be done at 43:56 it is enough. Jmo it is none of her business at all. Since she is digging so much, I wouldn't trust her to not go after her for more funds. I would never show in-laws that info or even discuss it. With how the fiance is acting, I am not liking how sneaky he seems to be. If I was him, I wouldn't listen to her bad-mouthing my gf. Momma’s boy. 50:49, he is so rude to her. The engagement party shouldn’t go on. Omgosh the families meeting Oh gosh she is putting Melissa down to her parents oh my God 😮😮😮😮😮

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

29:42 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

[@isabellaoconnor16]

4:46 please tell me he isn’t a mamas boy? (30:16 he is. ) 34:39 MIL tried this (different reasons) I refused and it dropped. She hasn’t tried since. That was 4 years ago. 42:42 drop him!!!!! Her family is rich! She’s earning her own way! She’s not an ATM! (I choose who I respect in my family) 1:03:52 surprise. Love Karma. 48:14 tell me your a gold digger without telling me your a gold digger

[@MindCaged]

Last story. I mean part of me understands wanting to know the financial situation you're marrying into, at least concerning debts, but the MiL asking to see all somebodies bank statements is just a bit too far, however it kind of feels the MiL inadvertently did her a favor by being so insistent because it revealed how money-obsessed that family was, he /did/ seem like a gold digger in the end. I think it's the height of foolishness to be making good money and yet /not/ saving anything because you think you're marrying into a wealthy family, that's just stupid and self-centered. Goes to show even people with a good income can still be gold diggers. Like she said if anybody had the right to ask it would've been her future husband, and she'd have the rights to see his, nobody else has any business demanding to see it.

[@shawnycoffman]

I'm sorry but I just can't get past today's married couples not using their money with/on each other. I'm all for having your own money. My husband and I, and most people in my generation, have a main bank account where paychecks are deposited. Then we have a savings account and each have our own checking accounts for our "mad money" as Grandma used to call it. But to be completely independently financial just leaves an unpleasant taste in my mouth. So many of these characters are so worried that one spouse may have to take care of another if that spouse gets sick. Is nothing joint anymore? In some cases it makes sense to keep finances completely separate, of course. But at some point there has to be a joining of...something doesn't there? In this case, why get married? Does two people marrying and becoming one not mean anything anymore?

[@KheldarLars]

I have a separate account because I'm bad with money XD

[@ShelLuser]

For an alleged laywer the protagonist sure has a poor way with words, and it makes the video kinda cringe. I mean... 37:30 where the antagonist says it's all about the money. Yet she's the one whining about bank statements, surely that would be a no brainer for a lawyer to shut that down immediately and expose her? But no, it goes on, and on, and on.... it's what I kinda dislike about the format of these videos: the protagonist gets harassed for most of the video and the fallout is minimal at best. Which makes this a very unsatisfying experience for me.

[@octoviamead9305]

❤

[@Tsmoke1414]

Please stop with the extremely long videos. This could have been 10-15 minutes.

[@sharyebethancourt3660]

Hey, long videos work for some! There are plenty of short videos all over this app.

[@mog-gyveroneill2500]

I like the longer ones!

[@robmus7146]

for some people longer videos can be funnier and better

[@riley6740]

I really like them.

[@glenystranter6423]

Some videos actually need a longer timeframe, especially when it's a complicated issue.

[@unicornjennie]

Girl Nick's mom is not as warm and inviting as Nick's painted her to be. She runs a restaurant but is greedy. How much you have in the bank is none of anyone's business but yours, otherwise you fall prey to any number of scams. Then expecting you to pay for everything is just wrong. What horse crap, he'll never share his bank balances with you.. those two are the golddiggers.