Are nightclubs a total waste of time for the modern man?

[@RealTroyFrancis]

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[@23293]

nightclubs are also risky these days, rape accusations, high crime rates, expensive drinks etc

[@mikedonato2977]

Times have changed. Clubbing was fun in the late 90's and early 2000's Lots of pretty girls and everyone was dancing/enjoying themselves. Now they are on the phones and nobody dances. Clubbing is dying in 2023

[@onemoretime734]

31 now and haven't been to a night club since I was 23, zero regrets and I can't see myself ever going to one again. A total waste of time and the environment is too unpredictable for someone with high value. I have too much to lose for some drunk buffoon to start trouble with me or dealing with entitled little girls.

[@Anthony-dj4nd]

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[@kaptinbarfbeerd1317]

I would rather explore a sewer than go to a nightclub. I always hated nightclubs even when I was in my 20s. At the time I did feel kinda stuck because that was allegedly the place you were supposed to go to meet new people. I'm really glad to have found this channel knowing that this is not the case.

[@wilder-walker]

Sewer game - sounds marginally worse than gutter game. I'm with you: until I stumbled across Torero, then Francis, Tusk, Krauser, Jabber, St Robert and (grrr) Mr Hustle, I assumed it was nightclubs, Tinder and Match! Now it's daytime all the way for me. Although I do quite like a venue with music.

[@kaptinbarfbeerd1317]

@@-whackd I'm mostly a metal head, why?

[@kaptinbarfbeerd1317]

@@wilder-walker I always found it counter intuitive to talk to someone with loud music in the background. A noisy place isn't really the best place to talk to someone. When you said venue with music, what kinda music?

[@ADAM00717]

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[@elcapitan6126]

I've enjoyed nightclubs up until 36 or so... after that the idea of a quiet night with a cuppa tea took the lead. Nightclubs can be good for boosting social energy. Protect the ears and don't drink much if at all is my advice for enjoying it.

[@Krelian4400]

Definitely a waste of time in the West if you're not Chad

[@miamitrancemissions6425]

As a native of South Beach, Miami, I can say that night clubs here are a complete waste of time. Especially Mansion. Your time is far better spent in a nice Cuban bar or restaurant in Little Havana.

[@CamelCasee]

I never had any success in nightclubs just like all avenues I've tried. Even when I did have some laughs talking to people it was transient.

[@fraser1237]

same here. seems real life is better than the virtual life...

[@elcapitan6126]

the money status thing that goes on in western social scenes is a real shame (whether vip bottle service or just people sticking to their "social class"). it's stifling and wooden and leads to rather harsh social environments where everyone has their guard up which is antithetical to socialising and cohesion.

[@RealTroyFrancis]

Agreed

[@JM-tm4dj]

Yes. Spent too much time there in my 20s. Aside from a handful of good times, waste of time and money.

[@charlessmith9400]

Covid, meToo era , cellphones, music and entitlement ruined the night scene

[@JoseSanchez-sp2ex]

im 57 and was a diehard nightclub addict. Back then in the 80s and 90s it was great now with technology and dating apps its a waste of time.Glad im older and had my fun

[@cccycling5835]

I’ve never had any success with women in nightclubs here in the West. Connections with other people, yes. But I didn’t see success until I went to clubs in Asia, with women in tow already.

[@fromatic2]

clubs are great to practice game , girl are expecting guys to approach them in there , you can dance with girls and get imitate with them. And if you fail with one girl , there always more to go try your luck with. I prefer to solo because it forces me to talk to or approach people who i wouldn't talk to irl. Yeah there competition but remember competition is only an issue if you have the scarcity mindset. Getting my social skills to level up so i get better at reading girls and picking the girls that are keen to go home with me and get physically imitate with me.

[@youwhatpodcast]

Troy from a fellow brit, I respect your approach keep it coming.

[@jerryjordan2482]

The Feminist Movement Messed up Everything !

[@johndasilva2686]

Yes I agree the feminist, me too and modern women ( don’t need a men ) movements messed up the clubs. Best to party at home with friends and family. It’s safer more economical and friendlier. Booze and food delivered to your home. Music by KZbin. Good luck .

[@marypatriciadomhan3853]

Night clubs are a waste of time for everyone!

[@ennz2798]

Hanging outside the radius of clubs works best especially getting food after leaving the club... better cooperation and no loud music.

[@johndasilva2686]

Yes nightclubs are a 100% waste of time and money for men . Why should men spend bucket loads of money to enter a club, buy expensive drinks just to look at a bunch of prima donna take selfies of themselves ? That’s a load of crap. It’s safer more economical and friendlier to party at home a friend or families house. Food and booze can be delivered to your home. Music provided by KZbin . Good luck guys .

[@vlajster]

20 years ago pre-smartphones and pre-social media clubbing was awesome,and I also went there because of the music and my friends,but even alone just to enjoy the music. These days all I see is just people clowning around there. I haven't been in a club in 5 years,and I don't think I'm missing on anything there.

[@Larry_Sycamore]

And you're too old to be in the club. Remember the good memories fondly, but don't get it twisted. Troy is an outlier still going to clubs at 46, and even he admits he doesn't like it like he used to.

[@vividleo]

I guess if you’re celebrating 🥳 something you achieved some sort of accomplishment you know I’m 41 I get thoughts about going out better to stay home and be safe

[@mariovelasquez7070]

Yes it’s a waste of time.

[@m_jay5]

Nightclubs are no place to find a quality person!

[@wilder-walker]

Why is 'festival game' not really a thing? Or is it? Down here in Cornwall we have Boardmasters; Glastonbury not so far. On my own island we have Isle of Wight festival and had Bestival. I know a tend in a swamp isn't the greatest place to pull a girl to but most festivals allow Torero campervans. Maybe there's a new sub-genre there as a digitally-nomadic festival-gamer!

[@contracthit9839]

Depends what countries..Western nightclubs are the worst !

[@dojocho1894]

If your a handsome guy anywhere you go can be a score.....just to take it seriously....have a good time and use that goal for your evening...I had a friend who was a pro model he would score all night...but I always was talking the that girls friend and made out pretty good.

[@wilder-walker]

I detest the situation in my little town, Falmouth, where there are two clubs, next to each other, that are the sole preserve of rowdy students. You feel well out of place in such venues. Exeter is marginally better; Bristol better still. If there are a few clubs catering for more varied tastes and ages, it can be fun. Exeter has a club that old-timers like me can still go to, and it's also full of younger folk.

[@sonsauvage]

What is the modern man? What are the aims and purposes of the modern man? Videos like these in my opinion would be better served as titled: “why I think clubbing is a waste of time”. Because then you can be sincere instead of feeling like you need to speak as the voice of a generation.

[@farymaldonado3749]

What’s the place in Colombia?

[@NurullAhmine]

I think its totol waste of time, i was bottled in a fight for stopping to groups fighting,they were drunk, security was late to response!

[@grbtraining552]

I always thought the difference between nightgame and day game is this: nightclubs and other night venues are almost always packed with girls meaning you maximise your opportunities to talk to girls with little time or effort in between. Daygame is far more sparse, there will be way more time between 'sets' and you will spend a long time just walking around doing nothing. I actually hate nightclubs lmao but I'd still say nightgame is better than daygame. Daygame is flake after flake after flake and more time wasted. Maybe i just sucked lmao 😂

[@RealTroyFrancis]

They both have pros and cons IMHO. Best to do both.

[@fernandocalvo385]

What’s the name of the place in Bogota?

[@RealTroyFrancis]

Theatron

[@Jimminityjabooboo]

Nice

[@fraser1237]

if you are single then i can see the appeal.

[@mak529]

Everyone must visit Ibiza once

[@RealTroyFrancis]

True

[@Jay-ef2ii]

@@RealTroyFrancis I'd rather be listening to RATT Invasion of your privacy cd, man. 2023.

[@MegaMechanicTV]

What about music concerts?