Are Noah and I Together? | JUICY Q and A

You all had so many questions to ask about Noah, his sobriety and our situation and in this video I answer a lot of those!

[@erica5513]

This editing was ROUGH. RIP to my ears from using headphones. The audio was a mess

[@finleysgaming4076]

Thanks for answering and you are awesome. What about your parents? Do you have a good relationship with them and are they near you and do they help any?

[@wendym4973]

Best wishes to Noah and recovery! That’s great you all are working together to give Ari the best life ❤️

[@lessthanxthreebeauty]

Addiction is a symptom of mental health issue. I’m a recovering heroin addict. They wanna send everyone to rehab and treat the addiction but not the underlying mental health issues. Which a lot of time is trauma related. Rehabs need to help with the addiction AND mental health side. They’re two different things.

[@Whatisthiseh]

Yes!! Spot on! I'm also a recovering heroin addict hope ur doing well 😊

[@G0ldenVibez]

I’m in recovery from IV heroin and IV cocaine addiction as well but the residential rehabs and IOP rehabs I have gone to have all mostly concentrated on the mental health side and then working on “playing the tape through” and DBT etc

[@Ashbabylynn123]

Agreed!

[@Patty-rf3nr]

Ari is absolutely beautiful! Her eyes are mesmerizing!! She looks like both, you and Noah!! You’re doing an amazing job, being her Momma! I love the smiles and the excitement on her face when you are talking to her!! She knows she is loved!! 🥰

[@dammitmom]

you need to cover the addresses of those houses !!! you claim someone sent you a letter with the middle finger and yet you post your residential info ??? wtf

[@BeenDead]

She's not the brightest 😂

[@loz_or_some_shit]

@@BeenDead you hit the nail on the head with this 🤣🙌🏼

[@yourdreamscanhappen]

Omg! Someone who truly does not understand mental health and addiction. She’s just babbling.

[@courtneywilliams7988]

I don’t like Noah honestly. I get a mad weird vibe from him for some reason. Creepy guy.

[@DW-hr9jp]

Hearing he has mental health issues explains a lot because only a creep will look at a human vegetable who can barely move and want to have sex with it. 🤮

[@nkucyk]

All of your other bullshit aside, how can you not include subtitles on your videos?

[@victoriakaleski2243]

She's a ablest. It's only about her being disabled screw everyone else

[@Voileen]

There are subtitles. Click on "CC" and you'll see them.

[@kayliefig2003]

You can understand her perfectly fine go back to school and you can learn English and maybe get yourself a life

[@user-oo9ym2mi9h]

come on alex answer the question about the van, instead of deleting comments

[@gardengirl96]

she never will. all that money was 100% spent.

[@user-oo9ym2mi9h]

@@gardengirl96 yah and not on the van

[@lauralouise3761]

What van ? What happened

[@racheljay9963]

She fundraised thousands and never spent it on the van

[@user-oo9ym2mi9h]

@@racheljay9963 yes i know that for a fact

[@shaiantaylor7309]

How come you dont live with your family ?

[@chrisk7091]

I don’t think she has one

[@SquishyCat-fy8id]

They live in Chicago she ran away from them

[@danielleashley9163]

She does have a family. She lived in Florida before, when she met Noah. Chicago is not as accessible, especially in the winter. I remember her saying when they first decided to move to Chicago it was for better medical care while pregnant but likely not permanent.

[@ohminty]

Chicago is one of the top most disability-friendly/wheelchair accessible cities in America. It’s also a huge hub for Disability Rights. And Northwestern has one of the best neuromuscular programs with doctors who specialize in SMA (Alex’s disability). That’s why she wanted to be in Chicago throughout her pregnancy. It’s actually pretty normal for women with SMA and other physical disabilities to give birth there. I think she moved to Florida cuz of the weather. I lived in Chicago for thirteen years and then moved to Miami seven years ago cuz of the weather. Circulation sucks for people like us so we are always super cold. So a lot of us are sun chasers. But Florida sucks for disability-related services. Like there are NO services. Unlike Chicago, there are no home services programs that pays personal assistants to take care of PWDs in their own homes. They rather throw PWDs into group or nursing homes so they can steal their Social Security checks.

[@user-oo9ym2mi9h]

probably because of the lies she told about the van needing repairs when it didn't

[@janemitchell1550]

Was that Noah's dad in the background saying it was safe for Ari when Alex is holding her like that when she is on the wheelchair. If so he needs to to see that both her and Ari are strapped in to be safe or shut up

[@stephaniezimmerman5737]

“I can’t speak for Noah so I’m not going to” ….. continues to speak for Noah

[@kayyynicole13]

If you listened just a second more you would have known that she said anything she does say she has prior permission from Noah. You all love nitpicking.

[@Bubbleslovesfood]

I mean... You could just listen to her whole statement first

[@courtneywilliams7988]

Y’all leave this poor girl alone. Let her live.

[@WalkingOnRainbows12]

I really struggled to watch this. The music was too loud and no subtitles. Gutted

[@ckblackwoodmusic]

You fell off the wheelchair onto a curb and thought your arm was broken... and you got no medical attention. Can you say TYPICAL ABUSE EXCUSE?!

[@ohminty]

As an adult, I’ve fallen out of my chair many times due to not wearing a seatbelt and I only had to get medical attention once because I broke my leg. The other times my friends picked me up. As a child I also fell out of my chairs/scooter even more times and only had to go to the hospital once because I broke my arm. The other times my friends, brother or parents picked me up.

[@ckblackwoodmusic]

@@ohminty Not only is this blatantly anecdotal but did you also happen to be out drinking with your junkie boyfriend whilst your parents watched your child? Hmm?

[@nataliedemorest1389]

I too thought it was odd she said she feels she broke her arm but does nothing?

[@gardengirl96]

Well to be fair she’s lying about falling out of the wheelchair altogether. Noah hit her. There’s 911 dispatcher recordings of a dispute between noah and alex. He was arrested. He probably punched her

[@ckblackwoodmusic]

@@gardengirl96 That's what I meant; it was an abuse excuse

[@lindsay8575]

Yea she took her bf who was supposedly clean out for drinks! Yup u heard that right!

[@victoriamairs1592]

She didn’t take him anywhere he took himself. You don’t know who wanted to go and you don’t know if he had alcohol. Your very presumptuous.

[@truthhurts7152]

His a grown ass man..

[@badash361]

Do you really feel good about yourself bashing a disabled woman? Speaks volumes as to your character 🤮

[@donnahj76]

@@truthhurts7152and she was supposed to be a supportive partner helping him to fight his addiction… not encouraging relapse… use your brain

[@truthhurts7152]

@@donnahj76 you use your brain.. grown ass man should know how to say no.. dont come with that bulls#$t please.. he is a grown up.. he should know better not to go have a drink when he clearly knows he has a problem.. stop looking for excuses to blame another.. we all have choices and a brain.. go insult someone else..

[@LupitaSifuentes-yn6dn]

seeing a disabled mom means a lot. Wishing you the best. Disabled moms are moms as well.

[@kateyellow3]

Music is so loud , for next video can you please lower it so I can hear you x love your channel !

[@nataliedemorest1389]

I cannot stand when anyone does that in a video🙄

[@redoksunflower]

Looks like she's sitting in a bar

[@janemitchell1550]

How is Noah going to get better while he still has to take care of your needs. It is time for you to find a job and a good caregiver and move on. You both can still be her parents just from different locations.

[@user-oo9ym2mi9h]

she wont do that, she's a freeloader and a liar

[@ohminty]

Hi, Jane! I do see where you are coming from. However, my brother lived with me for four years when we were younger, as he needed a change of pace and location due to his addiction. So he moved in with me. But during that time, he also had to take care of me as a backup when my other assistants needed time off. While he took care of my ADLs when I was in a pinch, I supported him by going to four NA meetings on a weekly basis as his number one supporter. This was a very difficult time in our lives, but my brother will tell you today that if it weren’t for me, his “little big sister”, he would not be alive today. (Notice how he doesn’t say his “‘disabled’ little big sister.”) Everyone crumbles, overcomes, and heals differently.

[@SquishyCat-fy8id]

She won't leave. Not while she can sponge off others

[@jonsson7295]

​@@SquishyCat-fy8idTrue, they'll have to use force... She's getting comfy putting up pictures on the wall etc. Noah can't keep on caring for Alex, he has to go away to rehab, Alex too. Time to do the right thing... Then maybe one day they can actually be good parents. But they will absolutely have to take parenting classes first as well. Using around a baby for that long is neglect however you choose to look at it. They still use and drink when they can obviously so can the grandparents please stop enabling this? Put some pressure on them, nothing is more important than Aris well-being.

[@Tilllerlindemann]

She has a job wtf is wrong with you

[@jlh801]

If you are not together its time for you to move out and get a caregiver other than Noah and his family. I know you love Ari but it was so irresponsible of you too to have a baby. Disability has nothing to do with that fact. It is a poor discussion for anyone to get pregnant 3 months into a relationship. There is no way you truely know someone at that point and now look what has happened. She has two parents that cant even take care of themselves and have to rely on other people. Sad situation for her.

[@natashataylor1819]

I fell pregnant with my eldest 6 weeks into a new relationship. 16 years later we are still together and have 4 kids together. Falling pregnant so soon isn't always bad. I'm also not disabled either.

[@taylorm1997]

Fr

[@issacadams3798]

😂 what a dum azz response….”it’s time for you to move out.” 😅 How about its time for you to take a bath with your toaster? That’s all.

[@lorenaelizabeth7015]

You need to look for another options like here to try make income

[@SquishyCat-fy8id]

Do you mean other than here?

[@TheZamfot]

She has only fans

[@ruthkirk7134]

As a fellow wheelchair user , I struggled with your explanation of your black eye . Firstly you should wear a seatbelt when you are out to prevent falling , also you said you hurt your arm too , any fall on face / arm would lead to bruises on face and arm even grazes, you have none just the black eye . This is not possible so I doubt this is how you got a black eye.

[@gardengirl96]

because she’s lying. noah was arrested the same night, there’s dispatcher recordings after the 911 calls were placed. He went to the hospital for a psych eval cause he was belligerently drunk. she got this black eye then. probably because he punched her, but she is obviously a liar at heart and wants to tell people she was drunk and fell out of her wheelchair

[@hippygirlfriend4937]

How do u know she was arrested he I mean

[@cupcakesimbamoyo]

@@gardengirl96damn who are you a private investigator you sound obsessed . You literally listened to 911 calls from her area that night that sounds borderline stalker status wtf

[@Kolieeex3]

@@cupcakesimbamoyoit’s not stalker when it’s literally ALL over Reddit.

[@cupcakesimbamoyo]

@@Kolieeex3 right …

[@noellestillwell1302]

Damn. All yall soooo pressed on her life. The amount of time, effort & energy y’all spend on Alex u could be spending on urselves & bettering ur lives to be better humans. Spread kindness & love 🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

[@toughasamother4507]

Yesss! People are so annoying, they need to mind their business ✌️

[@AmysAttitude]

​@@toughasamother4507They are.. this is a public forum. She puts her life up and people comment. It's how she makes money. It's like you all have NO idea how the Internet works..? Just because not everyone is cheerleading her disgusting life on like you two, doesn't mean they can't have opinions too. You two get to ass kiss a total stranger and we get to respond to her gross and abusive behaviors.

[@jonsson7295]

Can the stans finally get that they have been drinking and using drugs around Ari for her first 6 months in life..!!!

[@taylorm1997]

And CPS has been called and nothing has been done like bruv

[@jessicafeeney3996]

@@taylorm1997because it’s not happening. And it’s not illegal for parents to drink 😂 moron. Don’t you get that DCFS has investigated in two states and decided the reports are unfounded. At this point if she finds out who is doing it she can sue for harassment.

[@AmysAttitude]

No, they don't care and probably treat their children just like this trashy woman does.

[@aliciawistrand2014]

What id love to say to the nasty ppl in the comments is if all your claims are true (they aren’t which is why cps cleared them multiple times) why are you laughing at her and mocking her? You’re insisting she’s financially struggling, doesn’t have help so she has to live with her boyfriends parents and would lose her child if she had to leave? In what way is any of that funny or something you should be gossiping about???

[@simplegrace2235]

It’s a very very sad situation , definitely not funny. Alex seems to be a very broken person.

[@lessthanxthreebeauty]

Is he on the birth certificate? Did y’all go to court and you got custody? Otherwise both of y’all have custody.

[@AdrianaDahl]

That’s not necessarily true. Idk about Illinois where Ari was born but in the state I live in.. if you’re not married- the mom automatically has sole physical & legal custody unless a recognition of parentage is signed by both the mother and father.. even if the father signs the birth certificate. If recognition of parentage isn’t signed, the father has no legal rights or custody until paternity is established legally. If ROP is signed it gives the father the right to ask the court for parenting time but does not establish custody/parenting time. Depends on the state

[@janemitchell1550]

Why did you film this in some pizza place wearing a bra. And for someone who said you wasn't really going to talk about Noah and his issues you sre did babble on about it. Noah needs more than therapy he needs to get in in patient rehab far away from you and his parents so he can take it seriously.

[@Abaddon66666]

She have a daughter?

[@abigailpew8383]

As someone that is both physically disabled and has BPD, I freaking love seeing you guys support each other and advocate for each other's needs whether you are romantically involved or not. Wholesome af and Ari is lucky to have that example.

[@JCxxxxxxxx]

Girl the background noise / music is way too loud we can’t hear what your saying at all

[@angiepahl5489]

So you got so drunk you drove your wheelchair off of a curb and fell on your face, and you want us to think you’re fit to raise a child?? *wild*

[@loz_or_some_shit]

thankyou! 🙌🏽🙏🏽🙌🏽 this needed to be said and i hope she finally addresses this, and all the other ridiculously unsafe shit she’s doing 😌

[@taylorm1997]

😂 literally

[@FLOOPIEOS]

Rude. Are you saying women can't drink? Sexist. Stop being sexist. I know most mothers i know get super drunk on weekends. So do fathers.

[@PoodleDoo212]

You need to be careful about what you post on social media. Drunk operation of a wheelchair isn’t going to help you.

[@taylorm1997]

Let her keep making bad decisions. She’ll get her karma

[@michaelabroderick7720]

Loving the new vids, just wondering if you’ve got supports etc I have sma2 also so I’ll 100% say you’ve opened my thoughts of maybe having a baby one day

[@Chanelm445]

I love this new style blog you are doing! Ari is growing so fast! Happy you have all the support for your family. ❤

[@tyreesetjjoyner1995]

❤❤❤❤good video, Alex. It’s good to see you on KZbin

[@G0ldenVibez]

Did you ask Noah if you could tell the entire world that he has BPD? I hope you did… but I would recommend as someone who Is also in recovery from addiction and has mental health issues (anxiety, depression, severe adhd- hyperactivity) that there is a massive stigma with borderline personality disorder and you probably should not talk about him struggling with it publicly… He could have a hard time finding jobs with that out there…. I am not the biggest fan of yours Alex but I do relate to Noah…. So please protect his personal struggles- this is your channel and your way of making money… not his… and what also affects his mental health and can lead to using is taking full time care of three people… you, Ari, and himself….

[@jessicadekrey4511]

If you would have watched the video before popping off, you could have saved yourself the trouble of typing out that long rant. She clearly states that she was only sharing information about Noah that he gave her permission to share.

[@AmysAttitude]

She doesn't care about exposing her child to the dangers of the Internet so why would she care about sharing personal information about someone else? She's allowed to do whatever she wants because she is disabled. That's her mindset and also the mindset of her "followers."

[@AmysAttitude]

​@@jessicadekrey4511If this is your first video of hers, she's a bit of a liar so it's awkward that you take her word as gospel.

[@chrisk7091]

The fact that you two live Together to raise your child means the work to your baby I co parented my son for 15 years till he turned 18 not a regret

[@donnahj76]

She lives there because she’s broke and needs 24/7 care. She’ll lose the baby if she leaves. Coparent. 😂

[@gardengirl96]

yeah she has no where else to go and no one else to care for her so…. don’t really think they want her there 😂😂

[@aliciawistrand2014]

If that’s true why would u ever be laughing at her? In what way is it funny that a disabled person doesn’t have support or help? Or his financially struggling?

[@donnahj76]

@@aliciawistrand2014 because of her past, toots. All the posts and TT’s of them living the high life in Chicago. The expensive dinners, the expensive shoes, the expensive high rise apartment. She blew all her money, even the funds she grifted from the fake Go Fund Me’s. Karma came and bit her hard on the a s s. 🥴 Bu the way that was an incredibly ableist to bring her disability into it. Should she not be treated like every other person without a disability?

[@simplegrace2235]

@@donnahj76exactly

[@actors504]

She looks like Noah

[@mj1925]

Are you gonna teach her how to walk?

[@KirstyJayneDavies]

Ari is soooo cute! Loving the new vids ☺️💕 your a great mom x

[@bugsmistake]

A baby that age needs to be strapped into her pram when in it. Why is your chair any different?

[@MissyLondon.]

OMG you guys look so happy with baby Ari ❤❤❤ she’s so beautiful x

[@mj1925]

How in the world do you have custody of the child? You can’t take care of the child you are physically unable to

[@kimbasaurusrex2]

Covering the toilet seat with toilet paper actually increases the surface area for germs and bacteria! You’d be better off not covering the seat at all or completely disinfecting the seat first

[@F3UvoxvoyagerC3KHSers]

She trapped him with a baby. That was no accident. Poor man.

[@ckblackwoodmusic]

Fully on the defensive and fully exploiting. Good job.

[@Tilllerlindemann]

She can’t use social media like everyone else does?

[@ckblackwoodmusic]

@@Tilllerlindemann Maybe try learning about someone before defending them.

[@beep3121]

Thank you for sharing ❤

[@ashleyconnor9628]

ERP is effective for OCD

[@user-oo9ym2mi9h]

Why will you not answer the question, where is the go fund me money you set up for the repairs to the van? and what was in spent on Alex it's time to tell the truth!

[@debbies0511]

The money went on repairs on the van.

[@user-oo9ym2mi9h]

@@debbies0511 she has told people that?

[@debbies0511]

@@user-oo9ym2mi9h yes

[@jesuislinds]

@@debbies0511where are the receipts?

[@debbies0511]

@@jesuislinds I haven’t got them lol, I presume she has. She is not going to do a GoFundMe page for something that doesn’t need repairing is she?

[@Tattooedgreenthumb]

I actually microdosed mushrooms and it seriously cured my BPD I microdosed 3 times 2 years ago and I am completely better.❤❤ There is hope with ocd bpd nuerodivergent minds. You're absolutely amazing

[@andrewhershberger4287]

What activities did you do while microdosing?

[@andreamcgrath8471]

Keep strong and god will sort the haters long term. People are sooooo nasty on here anyone would think they jealous of your disability the way they go on and judge

[@simplegrace2235]

No one ever mentions the fact that Alex’s life expectancy is 40 yrs, and that’s if she’s lucky and has zero complications like pneumonia etc .Her SMA onset in childhood which means she’s very lucky to have even survived this long. It’s ALL so incredibly unfair to Ari 😞

[@VelvetyMoon]

Many parents die early and didn't know they were going to. Does this mean that if they had known, they never should have given their children life? I wonder what their children would think/feel about that? 🤔

[@actors504]

And what do you mean helps you? THEY DO IT ALL you need care like an INFANT..

[@kris5972]

DO NOT TELL THEM NOAHS BUSINESS THEY WILL USE IT AGAINST YOU!!!

[@aldanasoledad1243]

Such a sh*t to spend your life giving explanations.. Your baby is fine, healthy, beatiful and HAPPY. That's all! I hope you and Noah find your own happiness, get to co-parenting well and that you could always manage to be the best family for Ari. Greatings from argentina!

[@konneyblink4122]

Clueless

[@FlowerChild65]

I don't understand the whole fake outrage about Ari falling. She's fine with you holding her like that and your chair seat is angled back rather than forward.

[@ohminty]

Yes! So thankful you noticed this. Our wheelchairs have a “tilt” feature so that we can recline to take weight off our booties every couple of hours to prevent pressure ulcers. So every time Alex is holding the bb, you can plainly see she’s tilted back. Once she does this, they’re secure because Ari isn’t able to pull herself up. Oh, how I love gravity. ❤ However, this won’t always work as the bb grows but she’ll figure something out. We always do.

[@ruthkirk7134]

@@ohmintyyes it tilts but the baby is leaning forward , She can’t stop it falling if the baby continued to move forwards .

[@thecreatedaddict9793]

Omg same!!! It's getting so old, ppl like to just talk it's so frustrating to see

[@victoriamairs1592]

You have an unbelievable amount of trolls. You should get a manager to filter block and delete. No one deserves that

[@gardengirl96]

nah she 100% does 😂😂

[@nataliedemorest1389]

ppl are sooo blind. Only see what they wanna see.@@gardengirl96

[@loz_or_some_shit]

she deserves it all, the so called "trolls" are the people speaking the truth and calling Alex out on her bullshit and holding her accountable for her mistakes and the danger she is imposing on her daughter! the actual trolls are people like you, trying to defend her and everything shes done to put her kid in danger. it’s honestly wild to me that you’re defending her lies, her mistreatment of her baby, and her abuse of drugs & alcohol AROUND HER BABY 😒😤

[@actors504]

Your not a mom sorry! You only birthed her out everyone else is her mom

[@AG-zq7hw]

You are incredibly incorrect!

[@chronically_bqueenb]

You have no teeth lol 😂